Weekend in New York City 🏙 NYC Apartment makeover, Brooklyn Thrifting, Making Friends as Adults

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Welcome to another living in NYC Diaries Episode! Let's explore NYC on the weekend! This episode includes me in my princess pilates era, whole foods haul, a heart to heart chit chat about making friends in a new city and as an adult, watching a broadway show for the first time, and a New York City Apartment makeover!! Enjoy!
xoxo,
Tammy
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💌 Time Stamps:
00:00 - weekend in my life in new york city
00:48 - whole foods haul
01:55 - chit-chat: making friends in a new city as an adult
04:21 - what to eat in NYC
05:38 - visiting spotify headquarters
05:02 - thrifting in nyc
06:28 - watching my first broadway show: Chicago
08:27 - new york city apartment makeover
09:55 - self care & coping with loneliness
#nyc #nycvlog #weekendinmylife #apartmentmakeover #nycapartment

[@luwalucy]

you are really adapting really well

[@tammyyin]

thank you!

[@Typical_Anfrony719]

Heyy Tammy, don't feel bad I've lived here for 20 years of my life and never had to worry about friends and then I decided to go away for 5 years for college in NJ and I came home last year and I don't really talk to any of my old friends/awkard to reach out after not talking to them for 5 years, but I know what you mean. Making new friends especially in NY is hard and I too wanna meet people/friends naturally as well also have people / friends that like similar things I like as well cause what else are you supposed to talk about with your new friend or a new person!!!!! #LifeStruggles :)

[@tammyyin]

haha completely understand the "what are you suppose to talk about w new ppl" the small talk and always being smiley can get super draining after a few meet ups... sighhhh

[@purplegold7360]

I feel tired to make friends, it takes up a lot of energy, I wasn't like this before,tbh after the covid thing (also me becoming an adult), something had switched, and am just okay being alone, but there are times I crave friends, maybe because I feel leftout and maybe bcz I feel like I can't experience a lot without them. But again, the point you mentioned, you don't know who is real and who is just being nice, that's where I feel stuck too. I have online friends tho (in the fandom 💜), they understand me. That's enough for the time being. Also big cities can be really overwhelming, but big city people are big busy and they don't care who's around (that's how I gaslight myself), but even if they do, I exist so does others, so what difference it makes anyway, I don't need a grant to exist. I exist and that should be enough. I can live with side eyes than feel trapped in my own head (that's what I tell myself), as being trapped in your own mind is scary.
Sorry for the rant, I love your videos, they help me a lot. I love how regular they are these days. I relate to you a lot. Stay blessed and happy, you are doing good really.
Purple You 💜

[@tammyyin]

it's such an underrated skill to enjoy time alone so give yourself a pat on the back for that! but fomo can get crazy sometimes especially entering your early adult years but in the end quality friends over quantity!!! and thank you so much for watching the videos!!! you can rant anytime. this is a safe space