HOW TO CONVINCE OR PERSUADE ANYONE | PSYCHOLOGICAL TRICKS

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  • čas přidán 29. 06. 2024
  • Find out how to convince or persuade anyone with these psychological tricks, and see how this skill can help you persuade people to get them to do what you want.
    When used properly, persuasion can help you influence people and convince them to do almost anything.
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Komentáře • 268

  • @micha781000
    @micha781000 Před 5 lety +262

    1 Mirroring, people like others who mirror there way of standing, hand gestures, talking, they ll like you
    2 sincere flattery, they ll like you
    3 reciprocety, people will want to do something back if you do them a favour
    4 noding while you talk, they will agree with you
    5 priming, when french music buy french wine..
    Choose enviremont that makes people open for suggestion
    6 social proof, if more people support it
    7 authority, seem that you know where you are talking about it, speak confident and that its a good deal.
    Tell that your product, or in an interview you are the product, is wanted and another company wanted to give you a job on the spot..

    • @arvindd.4799
      @arvindd.4799 Před 5 lety +1

      Micha Vlijmen, van thanks man, the onlu helpful comment here

    • @jules4388
      @jules4388 Před 5 lety +3

      I wish I went to the comments faster :(
      Rip wasted time

    • @jojoarri77
      @jojoarri77 Před 3 lety

      You are the chosen one

  • @juliarichardson8418
    @juliarichardson8418 Před 4 lety +204

    Me: Telling my parents about the parent of my friend
    My parents: do I look like the parent of your friend ?

    • @lil_laiysha8418
      @lil_laiysha8418 Před 4 lety +4

      same lol

    • @pineappleplatypus7781
      @pineappleplatypus7781 Před 4 lety +4

      my parents would be like i am not the parent of your friend.

    • @MrBiky
      @MrBiky Před 4 lety +3

      Yea, and it's funny how many stupid parents in quite a few generations now, always compare their kids with other kids or even their siblings: "X did great on his this exam, why can't you too?" or "X know how to do y, why can't you?" or "Can't you be more like X?"
      Well, same the same thing is the answer: "do I look like X?" People hate being compared and downplayed because other people are doing something better than them. Even if it is true, people will vehemently reject it, because it makes them seem worthless.

    • @agentyoda2870
      @agentyoda2870 Před 4 lety +2

      So true

    • @pieta.s
      @pieta.s Před 3 lety

      ugh relateable

  • @josefnunez9882
    @josefnunez9882 Před 7 lety +258

    Cant believe but the last minute was a persuasion. LOL

    • @FarFromAverage
      @FarFromAverage  Před 7 lety +25

      Hey Josef I'm confused on what you're trying to say! Hope you enjoyed the video though! ;)

    • @emiel89
      @emiel89 Před 7 lety +33

      Did you just use the flattery persuasion on us🤣

    • @leonoraharper4361
      @leonoraharper4361 Před 6 lety +4

      i know right

    • @serialsniper7600
      @serialsniper7600 Před 5 lety +2

      Lol... I sooooo peeped that. Awesome. ♥💯

    • @Nethresh
      @Nethresh Před 5 lety +4

      @@FarFromAverage the last minute made u look more accesable and open, truthful and such! so i totally aggreee with this comment

  • @shoot4thstars
    @shoot4thstars Před 7 lety +40

    ' You guys are AMAZING!' Why do I feel charmed ?

    • @brothersoffall8057
      @brothersoffall8057 Před 7 lety +2

      Haha brah because he knows how you subconsious mind works :D

    • @kenmunson8120
      @kenmunson8120 Před 4 lety +1

      Cuz you have a very nice figure how would you feel to go on a date with me

  • @Cecil780
    @Cecil780 Před 4 lety +101

    Be aware. Not everyone is a sucker. When smart people see through your tactic's, then you just come across as a slime ball salesman.

    • @leomartinez5502
      @leomartinez5502 Před 3 lety +6

      True, unless you know how to lie your way out😉

  • @-.44maeda-4
    @-.44maeda-4 Před 3 lety +3

    By watching videos like this one, I realize how many people tried to manipulate me.

  • @visakh017
    @visakh017 Před 7 lety +155

    Nice video.
    I liked the way u used social proof nd flattery in last part on audience to spread the video.

  • @peeterthegreat6710
    @peeterthegreat6710 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank u man, u give so good advice and i am so happy to learn from u every morning!!!🙂

  • @uncleinflammatory9916
    @uncleinflammatory9916 Před 5 lety +1

    Well thank you...you have persuaded me...we are amazing and so are your videos...keep up the Great Work. cheers!

  • @MrRgarcia2010
    @MrRgarcia2010 Před 7 lety

    Classic persuasion techniques, animated! I love it!

  • @kirubakaran09stanley
    @kirubakaran09stanley Před 4 lety +3

    TAKE AWAYS
    1)MIRRORING AND HEAD NODDING
    2)FLATTERING AND SMALL FAVOURS
    3)SCARCITY AND SOCIAL PROOF
    4)AUTHORITY
    5)PRIMING

  • @Silver_Stitcher
    @Silver_Stitcher Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you for sharing excellent advice. I really appreciate your time and energy spent on each topic.

  • @bjbunjk440
    @bjbunjk440 Před 7 lety

    ur videos contain really much value man, keep up the god work! :D

  • @atye04
    @atye04 Před 5 lety +1

    He thanks us but its him who did the research. He did the work and sacrificed the time. A heroic teacher actually... Thanks master "far from average" and that is NOT flatery. Much love brother. X)

  • @skatslats2498
    @skatslats2498 Před 7 lety

    lol , ur making some dope videos , honestly i was amazed when i saw that u have just 11k subscribers , good quality and very helpful videos

  • @MrandMrsCalm
    @MrandMrsCalm Před 5 lety

    Great video, I've used these techniques and they work really well. 💪😃

  • @MrKemikem
    @MrKemikem Před rokem

    I ve seen that convince is actually more trying to modify an opinion with logical points and is destinated to the conscious mind. Persuade is triggering an action and is destinated to the subconscious mind. Great channel!

  • @exposingproxystalkingorgan4164

    Yeah this one of the videos that show practical knowledge on doing something.

  • @chirichkilipaaripresents

    you teach me really well on last seconds of video......
    you want us to know that you persuading us......
    whole theme is...
    subconsciously we will do that ,what you said as compliment or some of us will realize that you persuading, either way you will get what you want....
    by the way i really like your "checkmate trap" ...
    now subscribed..

  • @thaothai492
    @thaothai492 Před 4 lety

    Thank you to you for such
    a wonderful information you has given to us. I didnt know anything until I find your video. Thank you

  • @adityanaskar9736
    @adityanaskar9736 Před 6 lety +2

    Don't thank us we should thank you for making such awesome videos bro.

  • @hectoraarlott
    @hectoraarlott Před 7 lety +16

    your videos work well. I use your tactics in everyday interaction at this point, and I am doing very well socially. I have gotten very good at convincing people and making them like me. I am going to try and get a job interview soon and I'm very confident in that I'll do a good job on it. thanks to you. I am also starting sales bussiness with my mate. I am very confident that I'll do a good job on that too now that you taught me how to be a good seller. thanks :))

    • @FarFromAverage
      @FarFromAverage  Před 7 lety +3

      Hectorilus, that's awesome that you're having some success from what you've learned! Make sure you spend more time practicing what you've learned in real life because taking action on the information is most important!

  • @charleswomack2166
    @charleswomack2166 Před 2 lety +1

    By saying thank you, I decided to hit the like button!

  • @wagsley7862
    @wagsley7862 Před 3 lety

    Thank YOU - great info!!

  • @baominhng7889
    @baominhng7889 Před 2 lety +1

    I love how the video is convincing me to believe them.

  • @sirsloth1646
    @sirsloth1646 Před 5 lety

    I gave you a like purely because you purposly put the example in your video to plant the seed. 10/10

  • @esotericsaint84
    @esotericsaint84 Před 7 lety +25

    Everyone like the video! He's helping all of us so it's the very least we can do

    • @modernmistyk4341
      @modernmistyk4341 Před 7 lety +4

      I agree! like and share it! but only to the people who deserve to hear this!

    • @mr_reaperrr
      @mr_reaperrr Před 7 lety +1

      lol u persuaded him. Ffa has already created monsters

    • @urmom-mk8hs
      @urmom-mk8hs Před 5 lety

      Don’t persuade me.😂

  • @brothersoffall8057
    @brothersoffall8057 Před 7 lety

    You are awesome bro keep it up now it's your time to help people

  • @user-uk3jb6lx3c
    @user-uk3jb6lx3c Před 7 lety

    second great video bro just subbed

  • @princebangar1999
    @princebangar1999 Před 5 lety +1

    Dude, you are awesome.

  • @tonybhattacharjee3120
    @tonybhattacharjee3120 Před 2 lety

    Great way to prove what you say works by encouraging people to subscribe and like your videos without saying it directly

  • @hillarymutsena1238
    @hillarymutsena1238 Před 7 lety

    this is great stuff and extremely TRUE..

  • @mathstar4176
    @mathstar4176 Před rokem

    Thank you, this was very informative.

  • @sandrakayjenkins7745
    @sandrakayjenkins7745 Před 7 lety

    loving your channel :-) my eldest son has been using these physiological tricks on me years lol. I have seen loads of videos like this but it must be that bit of flattery at the end that has actually encouraged me to subscribe & like ;-)

  • @markgreenawalt8119
    @markgreenawalt8119 Před 4 lety

    Adding major value thank you

  • @omarvivas5886
    @omarvivas5886 Před 7 lety +13

    Hey brother, at the end you are thanking ME?, No way bro I thank YOU, for making these AWESOME videos and sharing all the knowledge, so here I go: THANK YOU VERY MUUUUUUUCH, hey bro, are you on Facebook?

  • @abassimusic
    @abassimusic Před 4 lety

    great persuasion trick at the end of the video!

  • @CreativBrian
    @CreativBrian Před 5 lety

    super valuable video man thanks

  • @Lev_Shor
    @Lev_Shor Před 4 lety

    Thank you for the value 🤩

  • @thebackchannel1641
    @thebackchannel1641 Před 7 lety

    Great video, keep 'em coming!

  • @francisomigie3399
    @francisomigie3399 Před 3 lety

    You 're more amazing, bro. True word.

  • @raymondvalentine1140
    @raymondvalentine1140 Před 7 lety +2

    I'm sure your channel will blow up soon! I subbed :)

  • @MrRasmoon
    @MrRasmoon Před 3 lety

    “U must make it seem like u know what u r talking about even tho u have no idea’ the number one problem in the world today

  • @user-bz1wh6xe4m
    @user-bz1wh6xe4m Před 4 lety

    1 Mirroring, people like others who mirror there way of standing, hand gestures, talking, they ll like you
    2 sincere flattery, they ll like you
    3 reciprocety, people will want to do something back if you do them a favour
    4 noding while you talk, they will agree with you
    5 priming, when french music buy french wine..
    Choose enviremont that makes people open for suggestion
    6 social proof,
    scarcity
    7 authority, seem that you know where you are talking about it, speak confident and that its a good deal.

  • @davidwayne1111
    @davidwayne1111 Před 7 lety

    Love this one wow im going to save to watch over and over. can you talk about NLP

  • @modernmistyk4341
    @modernmistyk4341 Před 7 lety

    Thank you for posting this, this is what I was looking for! Please do more videos about influencing and controlling people.

  • @modernmistyk4341
    @modernmistyk4341 Před 7 lety

    you're so amazing!

  • @dudeitspraful
    @dudeitspraful Před 6 lety +1

    The trick of thanking the viewers in the last part of the video made me 'Like' it on CZcams

  • @LakdhesSelvan
    @LakdhesSelvan Před 7 lety

    tanx u for the great info.

  • @samstover3082
    @samstover3082 Před 4 lety

    Thanks this helped a lot

  • @Asma-cn3ex
    @Asma-cn3ex Před 3 lety

    Thanks dude you are amazing

  • @walidwardak7306
    @walidwardak7306 Před 5 lety

    Thanks for the advice look helpful

  • @debbiepope7871
    @debbiepope7871 Před 7 lety

    keep em coming

  • @MsEncodE
    @MsEncodE Před 7 lety

    Best yt channel!

  • @Vandan9166
    @Vandan9166 Před 4 lety

    great video, thanks...

  • @Intoxikacion
    @Intoxikacion Před 7 lety +44

    He used a psychological trick on us at the end of this video..
    Nnnice.. lol

  • @mathstar4176
    @mathstar4176 Před rokem

    Thanks man 👍,

  • @izzyjacquezvlogs6576
    @izzyjacquezvlogs6576 Před 6 lety +2

    It worked sooo well we tried it on some peoples

  • @davidsmall9682
    @davidsmall9682 Před rokem

    Very interesting. 👍

  • @OrionUlttramarino
    @OrionUlttramarino Před 7 lety

    ur voice reminds me of professor utonium jajaja
    thanks for ur videos, they are awesome, i already put them in practice!

  • @samo6989
    @samo6989 Před 6 lety

    Great job

  • @girl6090
    @girl6090 Před 3 lety +1

    I've been using most of these tricks before I watched the video. Without even knowing that there helping me persude other people.

  • @eileenrubert2988
    @eileenrubert2988 Před 2 lety

    It works ! I like it 😂

  • @Chris-it2nc
    @Chris-it2nc Před 7 lety

    I think youre tricks are very useful please go on with this channel great Videos so far

  • @edoupdates9935
    @edoupdates9935 Před 2 lety

    Thanks man

  • @bigtrubs6173
    @bigtrubs6173 Před rokem

    People will always remember the way you made them feel

  • @BaseballBoyNoah
    @BaseballBoyNoah Před 2 lety

    Thanks 🙏

  • @shalinimathur6382
    @shalinimathur6382 Před 4 lety

    Thanks 🤘

  • @iwantmyfriescrispynotburnt3981

    How do you persuade someone through text...

    • @razlad2523
      @razlad2523 Před 5 lety +19

      slight smile emoji

    • @cygnuscraft9544
      @cygnuscraft9544 Před 5 lety +1

      Same way

    • @underagesmoker8538
      @underagesmoker8538 Před 5 lety +4

      These are psychological tricks 🧐

    • @razlad2523
      @razlad2523 Před 5 lety +2

      *grins

    • @allheart526
      @allheart526 Před 5 lety +11

      Paint a picture with your words that engages the reader. Captivating the conscious mind and illuminating the subconscious imprints of past learning and experience. Plant. Pace. Lead. Cheers!

  • @Hashnastty
    @Hashnastty Před 4 lety

    You sold me to like this video

  • @imbukwa
    @imbukwa Před 6 lety

    Thank you

  • @marouantheme7516
    @marouantheme7516 Před 6 lety

    thank you

  • @Trd2020
    @Trd2020 Před 4 lety

    This will help with my sales

  • @vyasveda2165
    @vyasveda2165 Před 5 lety

    from 7:43,best application of flattery for likes and new subscribers...btw I subscribed

  • @gunnerapple6173
    @gunnerapple6173 Před 4 lety

    This video for me in a psychological disadvantage

  • @user-wi4vn5ur1n
    @user-wi4vn5ur1n Před 5 lety

    nice dude

  • @carljovel
    @carljovel Před 5 lety

    Thankyou

  • @RajSingh-hv2ij
    @RajSingh-hv2ij Před 7 lety

    Very good video...!

  • @zacharyhentze64
    @zacharyhentze64 Před 6 lety

    I use this all the time

  • @kerimtozo8056
    @kerimtozo8056 Před 5 lety

    😄..! YOU ARE A VERY SMART PERSON, INDEED. KT👏👍✌

    • @kenmunson8120
      @kenmunson8120 Před 4 lety

      Hi you look so cute in your picture how would you feel going on a date with me

  • @adrixelle5379
    @adrixelle5379 Před 4 lety +2

    Thanks to this, i’m getting a pc!

  • @GmojaCreative
    @GmojaCreative Před rokem

    Saying Thank you PROPERLY at the end of Video is also a psychology of the mind to convince.

  • @Vision_Voyagers
    @Vision_Voyagers Před 3 lety

    It's like watching a magic reveal video and believing now you can do the magic trick too.
    Good luck.

  • @johnhenry4748
    @johnhenry4748 Před 4 lety +1

    Yesterday i was walking in the mall then I heard a cool beat music. That beat catch my attention it's like saying "Come over to our store and buy something".
    After a minute looking outside of store I decided to walk away because I knew there something about the cool beat music.
    Now I get it.. why that store catch my attention...

  • @hahahaha-nt3xn
    @hahahaha-nt3xn Před 3 lety

    i liked how he used the flattery skill at the end of the video xd

  • @locutusdborg126
    @locutusdborg126 Před 6 lety +2

    Read Influence by Robert Cialdini. Best book on persuasion ever written​.

  • @user-uk3jb6lx3c
    @user-uk3jb6lx3c Před 7 lety +22

    sorry i was second
    but great video

  • @PokiBlake
    @PokiBlake Před 5 lety +1

    This is a great learning. Is anyone in here from St Louis??

  • @nintendoguides9546
    @nintendoguides9546 Před 5 lety +2

    Skills > Speech:100 “Would you like to legendary this skill?” 😂😂🐉

  • @joselewis2733
    @joselewis2733 Před 2 lety

    Wow

  • @dvnnny5124
    @dvnnny5124 Před 4 lety +1

    How about persuade your teamate to take a penalty or free kick

  • @moneygoodmoney5397
    @moneygoodmoney5397 Před 6 lety

    Your welcome

  • @ericlackey2615
    @ericlackey2615 Před 4 lety

    I like the intelligence,

  • @hashninja
    @hashninja Před 3 lety

    Used them frequently in sales each one

  • @Echolusion
    @Echolusion Před rokem

    Trying to convince my parents allow me to have a cockatiel for YEARS! And this year has been the closest. I think I might be able to convince them, but every other time it gets close to a yes but it never actually happens. But I just have a feeling about this time...
    Edit: Nevermind.

  • @reyrey7461
    @reyrey7461 Před 7 lety

    I thank you Mr. FarFromAverage.
    though i have read and heard many times of the psychological tricks.
    still, i thank you for reminding me again.
    it reminded me again that it's better to be in charge of the psychological tricks than to be it's slave. 😂

  • @drewholloway5241
    @drewholloway5241 Před 4 lety +8

    Some of this sounds a bit unethical. Making things up in a job interview to make it more likely you'll get the job. Using flattery to get what you want. Acting like you know what you're talking about when you have no idea. I had a boss who did that, and was able to convince his boss that he needed a promotion. But he actually didn't have an idea about what he was doing. He got the promotion, four out of five of us left when he became our boss. He talked a good game, but after a while I realized he had no idea what he was talking about. Just a love for buzzwords.

  • @georgesmith9178
    @georgesmith9178 Před 3 lety

    Flattery usually makes me quietly angry. It is so obvious that I immediately put the flatter on a blacklist of my own - very low on my trust scale.

  • @Nextgentrick
    @Nextgentrick Před 3 lety

    And here you are convinced to watch this video

  • @kingmikez0559
    @kingmikez0559 Před 5 lety +1

    5 minutes after watching this i persuade my mom to give me money by using like three of the tricks at the same time :)