Alpha focus on things he can control: their actions, how they think. The beta focus on things he can’t control: other people’s actions, how other people think.
I've been a teacher for a few months now and I can see that students see me as a pushover. They've interpreted my kindness for weakness. I think what I will take away from this video is to embrace conflict and not to avoid it.
Exactly I’m a teacher and I’m so fed up with my students I just got arrested for fist fighting one of my students (kindergarteners btw) I guess the school system doesn’t respect alpha males :/
After all the bad things I have been through, the nice guy mentality is what my brain defaulted to. I used to be an alpha as you described. thanks for showing me where I went wrong.
Yeah I’ve been I nice guy for too long (my kindergartners) have been taking advantage of my kindness I’ve been putting them on yellow but they still won’t listen!!!! It’s time for my alpha to pull through these puny kindergartners will feel my wrath!!
@Resinds .P I'm not a fan of all the alpha/beta terminology but as someone who has a lot of anxiety, I spend a lot of time thinking about what others will think, everytime I do an action. Things as basic as saying hello to someone. But this video highlighted that issue and I try to act on things I want to do, rather than having a buffer where i overthink and either do things awkwardly, or avoid social interaction which is equally awkward.
True manliness is to have the courage to switch from one mode of a persona to another depending on the situation and the person your dealing with without this affecting who you truly are 👍
Bob HAD a nice car. Because he was fired and probably won't get a new job any time soon with that incident in his resume his new vehicle will be the bus or underground.
It’s interesting because about in the weeks before I stumbled across this video I’ve been undergoing a mental and physical change. I’m 17 and weightlifting has really helped me bulk up and done a lot for my confidence, and with this, I realized that I was being too passive and nice. Before I had exhibited all the traits of a ‘nice guy’ and I was ready to change that. I started by being way more direct and basically giving very little fucks what people thought about me without being a dick. I was noticing some seriously amazing changes in my life with girls and the way other people treated me, but I wasn’t even sure what exactly I was doing. Stumbling on this video really helped me in a lot of ways. I’m tired of being too nice and getting treated like shit because of it, so wish me luck, I’m going to change a lot of things.
Spongebob is an alpha: He doesn't care about others opinions He love to help people because it makes him happy He'll confront enemies (in a silly, but still confronts them) He's very comfortable with himself.
The protagonist of almost anything is going to have these traits. Of course, its very character specific, like in Spongebob's case, but they will have them all the same. The show is going to be very hard to watch otherwise. I've noticed this even in shows where the protagonist is supposed to be "unlikable" (AP Bio or House comes to mind) they still confront those who need confronting and they know know themselves well. So basically what I'm saying is, I agree, Spongebob is very fucking alpha.
When there's a cake for 4 people, the alpha says "I'm gonna take half of it and whoever has a problem with it can suck it". If everyone was alpha the world would be a zoo.
@@Gaze73 In this video , they say alphas are overconfident people , so I stick with that definition because it is a great parody of itself representing the hypocrisis of people using the therm " alpha " and " beta " to talk about humans ... While even wild animals are better . By the way in a wolf pack the beta is the strongest and the two alphas are just the parents . Bonus , if any situation like this appear to me in real life ... " Alpha " : I'm gonna take half of it . Me : EVERYONE TAKE YOUR PART ! *Everyone take his part , and the " alpha " wild animal is left with one* Because unity is stronger than tirany , it can apply to lots of situation . Not avoiding the conflict doesn't mean you'll win the fight , just that you're an annoying barking dog
Time to end being a nice guy once and for all, even if people dont like me to change so their uses of me can still remain, but they are all worthless to me, I owe you one bro, you got me out of the nice guy shit.
Be the balance that the world needs. Do the right thing, even if people judge you. Stand for your self, and for the others only when its right and necessary.
@Daily Upgrade Not that introductions are a bad thing and all, but considering an average video length happens to be 10 minutes, 5 manages to be a pretty long time in youtube.
Its psychology 101. Personality is consistently inconsistent. I've been in brawls against 5 at once, 3 at once a couple times...and have ignored plenty of other confrontations and have been manipulated and been an asshole and been very kind....because I'm human and not a category?
@@jdt8983 I never said that 🤨🤨🤨 I have many cons too very many actually but letting some self centered ,whining pussy control me just coz she got a big butt and vagina never was ,is not and never will be one of them .😐😐😑
@@licensed_beheader it doesnt have to be a woman. Mike Tyson the baddest man on the planet got toyed with by Don King. You mean to tell me you've never had a lawyer fuck with you, a cop play you, a crazy woman get away with shit you weren't aware of...thats all manipulation. One time I drove out 300 miles with a bat in my car to fuck up some rapists. And my ex was lying and repaid me by getting married when we were together. There are psychos out there and you cant always see them coming. If you think you can then you're bullshitting yourself *additionally kind people who get taken advantage of...aka the women Ted Bundy killed...were they weak for not knowing? This alpha beta shit is very surface level thinking
I agree, forget everyone else the only person thats should get the nice peson you are is yourself. If you do something for someone make sure they did 3 thing in advance for you first
This is powerful. I'm an Alpha, but damn.. I never thought I would ever hear myself say that. Life teaches you a lot of very valuable lessons. Keep pushing nice guys ✊
"It's stupid to talk about things you're not. Be yourself and you'll be fine." - Shikamaru (Naruto). Meaning: Embrace yourself and thrive to be a better person than you were yesterday.
Liberty Prime i sometimes imagine how back in the day how life was imagine having the life of a spartan / viking they were the real alpha males and now look how pussies people are today
Liberty Prime, that’s is true. The leftists want our kids to be this beta male, because then they grown up they will become a politically correct male. And nowadays masculinity seems like something offensive, but it is nature. Mans are man! Don’t never be afraid to show your will. Finally this isn’t a excuse to be aggressive with girls, be masculine and respect woman!
@@triplez300 uh I forgot about this comment.. Nah man I’m not a jerk to people that I care about. We dated for almost 5 years, thinking about that more than a year later I simply believe we weren’t compatible anymore. Weirdo
@@spidermanthreethousand Yeah sure, real relationships based on reciprocal love and respect don’t really work that way. Also, if you’ve never been dumped by anyone, aim a little higher, “alpha man”
@Cal Beats u mean like how u projecting your insecurities? 😂😂😂 I'm fragile yet u the one that's triggered right now 😩😩😂😂 hahahaha another pussy 😂😂😂 Lollll
@Cal Beats Cal u sound like a woman 😂😂😂 and u got that cliche ass lame ass basic ass level of psychology and tryna analyze ppl I can tell you're young as FUCK 😂😂😂😂 hahahahaha you're a nerd!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣😆😆😆😆😆😭😭😭😭 lmfaooooo LOL
Hi there. First of all thank you for your words and time you took to share. There is so much thruth in those words. I am in a point in my life where i want to change a few things and i realized that i was going to alpha male type when i could relate to some examples in my own life. Basically i checked every single “quality” in a nice guy and i was doing awfull. When i simply could not take it anymore and started thinking of myself and my needs AND i started talking and expressing my feelings , basically ckecking the alpha male trait tree , life simply got better. Just one condition. ACCEPT THE THRUTH THAT OF WHAT YOU ARE AND START SLOWLY FROM THERE. It works. You will fail a lot , but in a few weeks you will start seeing results . Don t be afraid of changes , life is change. Cheers!
The main take away from this video is that an alpha male has confidence. I used to be the nice guy as described and related to women more than men. I can't tell you how many women said that I was such a good friend but when I inquired about starting a relationship was met with, "You are too nice of a guy for me to date" or "You are a nice guy but..." I did a lot of personal development since then and have matured quite a bit. I do not seek validation from other people but I still have regard for them. I have the mindset that we need to take care of our fellow man (people), just like we did back in the day. If you find somebody in a jam, you help them. For me, it really comes down to where you get your identity from and being confident in who you are.
@@Anuscringe8814 I'm not the "Nice Guy" how the video depicts. I'm more of a "Alpha nice guy", It's how I define myself & not how a video says I should be.
a truly nice guy never seeks or expect anything in return when being nice. He doesn't expect salvation in the afterlife or good karma, nor does he do it to get validation from peers. He is "nice" because to do so otherwise would go against his conscience. He knows nice guys finish last but still put others before himself. He knows that there is more to existence when you look beyond the ego of an individual (something the alphas can't do). A quote from John Donne: "Any man’s death diminishes me,because I am involved in mankind"
Tom Ly Well, that's half-true. Every person in this world want to be apreciated, respected and so on. It's in the human nature to seek for attention. but it depends on the kind and the amount of attention you try to find out.
Tom Ly well put I'm not a nice guy but it makes me happy seeing others happy love and respect each other is the best way to live. This video isn't about nice guy and alpha its about confidence vs low self esteem
You have a very strong point, I acknowledge that. However the video is somehow correct, the "being balanced" is the key. Have to be honest or say what you feel without pushing it and be firm if it's right and or proper at the moment and if it's something you see as wrong.
I think I've unleashed the beast mode, a girl rejected me, and I suddenly started to see all my flaws on the next day, I'm so motivated to improve that now I think that even I wouldn't date a guy like I was being
@Farfromave.rage, Thank you. Been wathcing your videos since 2017 and then, i was a nice guy or beta male.But thanks to this channel and experiences i had since childhood, I was able to overcome and shift to the other side of the see saw. As i read the alpha triats in this video i realised with practice, i gained them all within the past 2 years. I actully took notes and i have them still. I swore to myself i will teach my son all these for him not too have the childhood I had. Once again thank you and you are amazing.
@It's herbal morons just say a guy, or a human or a living creature or better a gods creature of some other shit it was a black guy, what is your fucking problem with this?
This channel is a life lesson to everyone especially males. I feel like I can learn from this big. I was once a nice when I was a kid. When I was 20 it made me realise that I should man up and stop being a baby and being needy. So I just wanna say thank you for your lesson and for your wisdom
People say I am a "nice guy"...but they also see me and KNOW i set boundaries.. So I am neither alpha nor beta....I can be EITHER....when it matters. I avoid conflict...but I am NOT afraid of it (i don't want to kill you)....I'm not a super fit jock..but I've been approached by women....I hold the door for people...I speak softly...I stay to myself...I help others when I can...I call it....being a Gentleman. I don't need a crowd...I don't need hundreds of friends...i don't need approval....I just stay in my lane...and make the best out of any situation. A man is a man....no need to categorize. I don't reveal my emotions...i dont wear my heart on my sleeve...I have inner guards...and internal strength. What you see is not what you get....and if you believe it is...do you really see?
You need to learn these tips alone. And often it's through hardships. I was bullied and introverted as a teen. Started abusing drugs to feel better and eventually got a panic attack. Decided enough was enough and got clean and worked out. For over a year now. Not just my body has gotten better but my mental health is as high as it's ever been.
Antoineee abdacc i can agree brother it is something you learn i was often betrayed i trusted too many people and i often did stuff for people all the time but one day i told myself to grow a pair and stop being anyones bitch
@@fcggames3990 introvert here. I was/am introvert my entire life so never really had friends or much of a social life. When i moved out and started to live life more i came across people i havent really dealt with and being too nice was a sign that people can shit test me all the time. Ive come to the point where i gotta start not giving a damn what people think because it messes with my mental bottling true feelings up to not cause conflict.
I like that. I've always viewed it as a 2 type world. Doers and wannabe doers. It can be applied to anything, I just figured this out on my own fixing cars. A lot of people want to have the image or have the passion to do things, but it's just that, a pipe dream. Lead, follow, or get the fuck out of the way.
Me too! Am 6 foot is decent looking and girls seem to think I look cute. Problem is I cannot go for a girl. Am completely immobilized by my fear. Fear of everything.
HisAjabness I’m a 5’9 nice guy and I feel like one of the tallest things at my school, I wish I was 5’7/8 so I won’t look like a lanky, fumbling fool 🤣🤣🤣 but I’m thankful for my body tho
Also if you suddenly quit being a nice *human* you are probably going to shoot who gave you gun in the first place, meaning you will start from your closest circle...
The problem is being ignorant and to submit to a woman just because she's hot! You gotta take in account her personality as well! WAAAAAAY MORE IMPORTANT!
Zig Ziglar said and lived by, "You can have anything in life you want as long as you are willing to help other people get what they want". I believe this too!
the alpha pays himself first thats probably the best thing said in this video. Its the first step to success is putting yourself first then doing others next.
As a man who's had his own experiences and has tried to make others happy I say... f this. Wanting to please others is just a way to survive. People are generally self-centered A-holes. I suggest staying away from people as much as possible unless you have lessons to learn. Get in shape, teach yourself skills, and comply with whatever rules are necessary to follow. Do everything to get away from people because what they add to the formula is corrosive.
This only works for a while, unfortunately!! At some point, you will realise that a life lived only by yourself is not really worth it! This is what I'm going through now, at least. I used to think I'm strong enough to deal with whatever life throws at me, and I am. I can deal with that shit. But I don't have to. I guess I'm just tired.
then i guess you just need balance. i agree with u Malcolm. people say i should learn to cope with whatever person gets in my way but sometimes i feel i've had enough of their crap. so i want to earn enough money to stop working with other people and close within my circle. not sure if this is correct path though. take the rest out but don't treat them bad. those poor souls don't have the ability to help themselves
Yes it was the most helpful tip in my life it made me see an open my eyes to so much more and realize so much more and become so much more just by knowing my flaws and what I can fix by just knowing this and I just want to say thank you and everything that you do and all of your videos are just amazing and for all the men out there listen to this guy because you’re not getting anywhere if you don’t
He just connected so many dots for me. I’m shook. I always knew I was a nice guy, but I didn’t realize how it effected so many different parts of my life.
Flip'n roll out of control over fucks with no ears and that's All for now you'll get ur way. u freak out so wtf u really care about you and I simply didn't mean anything for me Hmu when your ready to submit lol I'm serious and also just being an AssHole but I'm frfr Too much more than that I'm just not putting up with petty Ass snakes go crawl up some1 else Ass fucker and together will only take a little bit of wrk headed to my life which is not existing and believing I have no idea how to reach out to others anymore no1 listens or has ever understood that shit sux foreal tho I'm not sure if YOU are a lot different in a way I feel and say that shit.. this is all ventilation to my own shit but always keep a positive outlook and be humble open to new ideas and ways of thinking appreciate the littlest things that'll take you really far
being nice for validation how ever does make you weak. If you are nice do it cause you can and cause you want to. Not to make Stacy fall in love with you not a hard message really
Basically being alfa starts with giving up and not giving a fuck how it goes anymore but still playing the game. The less you invest your emotions in it the less you will come off as needy. After a long journey of success and failure (mostly failure at first) you will learn everything you need to know by doing it
One who makes a beast of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man is one of my favorite quotes I live by I train for my MMA fights I work out and am constantly talking to new people the year before I was the nobody I had 3 to 5 friends girls were hard to understand and had very little experience i still haven’t had a girlfriend till yesterday and she is the one expressed herself to me the way to get better is to find what motivates you and push hard to get there have the warriors freedom and spirit the mindset of a warrior is one who fears being average and living in the realm of normalcy it all starts with you what’s stopping you who is in the way name it and end it I fear that so many people fail for not studying a warrior is someone who study’s to become calculated soldiers you study to learn see your your already a warrior and you don’t even know it
LoL, You should only be Alpha with girls.. on the Job you remain a Beta (or you start a bussines). You should be smart if you are an Alpha.. no wait (thats the Omega). Alpha just 'does hes thing'. So you have to be both i guess.
Kyle Foss naw bro he was in on that little scandal. Bob and jimmy (the costumer) have been robbing the store blind for several months now and they just now caught on haha. How are you gonna be doing that though and think it’s okay and normal to return $1000 dollars worth of groceries back . Who in the hell would think that’s not sketchy at all to be returning 1000$ worth of groceries.
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“Ever loved someone so much, you would do anything for them? Yeah, well make that someone yourself and do whatever the hell you want”
- Harvey Spectre
which episode was this on
@@zeamanueltsegaye8390 don't know exactly but i remembered this one
Damn. Wish i heard that before i got married
@@gti5700 lol
Abhisek Bhai Sahi bola
"dont be to sweet or the world will eat u" - Punjabi Proverb.
Dont be too bitter or the world will spit you
@@Subscriberswithoutanyvid-rd6qz so you have to be a little bit of both
@@comedytv2832 Yeah be both so they cant eat you cuz u are bitter but they wont spit you cuz u a little sweet
amen
@@overpoweredjelly3513 *sweet
Alpha focus on things he can control: their actions, how they think.
The beta focus on things he can’t control: other people’s actions, how other people think.
nice guys tries to do both. I think I wanna become an ice statue.
True story!!!
Rightly said
You are right 😲😯
Lions leave the old pack members to die but wolves put them in front of the pack to set the speed. Freak lions bro dam traitors
I've been a teacher for a few months now and I can see that students see me as a pushover. They've interpreted my kindness for weakness. I think what I will take away from this video is to embrace conflict and not to avoid it.
Be cool teacher, sir. Start playing guitar, be a rockstar and roast bullies of your class that will inspire nice guys of ur class
@@spidermanthreethousand or become a bassist.
Don't take any lip from them wild children
Exactly I’m a teacher and I’m so fed up with my students I just got arrested for fist fighting one of my students (kindergarteners btw) I guess the school system doesn’t respect alpha males :/
Fight the kids
One of problem of being nice is that everyone uses you
Ikr
The reason why you feel used is because you were prolly being nice while hoping for something in return.
Peter Murungi facts 🤦🏾♂️
Daniel Kim not true at all.
@@Norrr3 j
First step: Learn to say NO !
with out explain yourself
Ikr
Exactly Noo
Nick Hersheys THIS MAN KNOWS
Learn to say Fuck Off
After all the bad things I have been through, the nice guy mentality is what my brain defaulted to. I used to be an alpha as you described. thanks for showing me where I went wrong.
Yeah I’ve been I nice guy for too long (my kindergartners) have been taking advantage of my kindness I’ve been putting them on yellow but they still won’t listen!!!! It’s time for my alpha to pull through these puny kindergartners will feel my wrath!!
@@ok-td7ko blue pilled :/
I watched this a few months ago and I've just come back to say this video has literally changed my life.
In what way
@@resinds.p4898 he was an alpha and now he became a nice guy
@@leodenardus6595 😂
@@leodenardus6595 😆 lol
@Resinds .P I'm not a fan of all the alpha/beta terminology but as someone who has a lot of anxiety, I spend a lot of time thinking about what others will think, everytime I do an action. Things as basic as saying hello to someone. But this video highlighted that issue and I try to act on things I want to do, rather than having a buffer where i overthink and either do things awkwardly, or avoid social interaction which is equally awkward.
Life is the hardest game I've ever played damn
uuddlrlrba. You're welcome.
Yet it turns me on becouse you can't save :)
@@jackiejill2039 Life is a bitch
but i make the bitch wet.
@@SideEffects297 LMAO
😂
Lol the real winners are the guys who don't care.
Perhaps; yes
That is very true
What are they winning?
@@MoveInSilence23 they are winning respect
Tha_SilverBlack_16 dont know, dont care
True manliness is to have the courage to switch from one mode of a persona to another depending on the situation and the person your dealing with without this affecting who you truly are 👍
most valid comment on here
Perfectly said
Saint. Timothy boulevard
Nice comment
Being a chameleon is the height of cowardess
'Heyyy, could you take my bag to my locker please?'
'Nah bitch.'
*ALPHAAAA*
Unless it is a very heavy bag :p
Or "Yes I could, but I don’t want" or "I do this only for pretty girls" and walk away.
Not really alpha just a douche
😂😂😂😂😂
Love ur Pic u should make that a meme nd put it on the fatneeks reddit 😂👌
"you probably see the nice guy at the grocery store"
Me: laughs
"you might also see it in the mirror"
Me: Oh shit...
botekate your extrovertion will take you far.
botekate your funny asf lol
HAHAHAAAA!!!...ME 2
him: "you might also see it in the mirror"
Me: "Ay brother u wanna take this outside"
😂💀💀
me: Try to be an Alpha infront of my boss
Few days later : Fired
Same
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
BETA!
Michael Lamaparas Jejejeje
Congrats! now you are free.
The thumbnail : Reject being nice guy, Return to monke
I be Monk
“no more mr.nice guy”
Hahahahaha I see your a man of culture as well
🤣🤣🤣DrCringe
So No more Me?
@@mrniceguy8298 lol
Eat well, exercise, work hard, take a shower, and along will come the diamond in the rough.
yes i do this all 1 day shower, BAM next day mail order thxu waifu time for yum yum
You know that's Wright
Thank you.. this comment has made a difference in my life. U left out get a good nights sleep ;)
@@abadazadytgaming7200 and he left out make money and get status
Earning a good seven figure paycheck wouldn't be bad either ha ha
Shit Bob has a nice car tho
Chrisuke Doomsuke lmao same
+Jesus Using Wifi in heaven username is killing the atheist out of me
Chrisuke Doomsuke he must be compensating😉
Bob HAD a nice car.
Because he was fired and probably won't get a new job any time soon with that incident in his resume his new vehicle will be the bus or underground.
even though its an e60 bmw 5 series it is nice and fast so I agree
It’s interesting because about in the weeks before I stumbled across this video I’ve been undergoing a mental and physical change. I’m 17 and weightlifting has really helped me bulk up and done a lot for my confidence, and with this, I realized that I was being too passive and nice. Before I had exhibited all the traits of a ‘nice guy’ and I was ready to change that. I started by being way more direct and basically giving very little fucks what people thought about me without being a dick. I was noticing some seriously amazing changes in my life with girls and the way other people treated me, but I wasn’t even sure what exactly I was doing. Stumbling on this video really helped me in a lot of ways. I’m tired of being too nice and getting treated like shit because of it, so wish me luck, I’m going to change a lot of things.
I hope you did it
Alright brother! Good for u!!! 🤟
Doing the same here brother. Weightlifting, exercising and I’m going to change my ways. ‘Nice guy’ has ruined me nearly
Hi Kai! Now that 2 years have passed, what did you change and how did you do it?
When you try to be alpha by losing all emotion but look in the mirror to find you have become the Terminator
@Daily Upgrade When you think about it seeking validation is kinda feminine. Cause women be doing that to no end lmao
lmao
wow Bob drives a BMW on a supermarket salary
😆
Thinking same thing
😂
I sell drugs near a drugstore and I drive 1996 Honda Civic LX
@Zachary Gerhardt why do you have to ruin my comment
Spongebob is an alpha:
He doesn't care about others opinions
He love to help people because it makes him happy
He'll confront enemies (in a silly, but still confronts them)
He's very comfortable with himself.
deamonmachine Spongebob is the underwater ubermensch. The undermensch. Wait...
"I WAS A REGULAR ALPHA MALE!"
deamonmachine lmao
Interesting I guess he is. I wonder if that’s. Why everyone loves him because he’s himself always
The protagonist of almost anything is going to have these traits. Of course, its very character specific, like in Spongebob's case, but they will have them all the same. The show is going to be very hard to watch otherwise. I've noticed this even in shows where the protagonist is supposed to be "unlikable" (AP Bio or House comes to mind) they still confront those who need confronting and they know know themselves well. So basically what I'm saying is, I agree, Spongebob is very fucking alpha.
When there's a cake for 4 people, the alpha says "I'm gonna take half of it and whoever has a problem with it can suck it". If everyone was alpha the world would be a zoo.
And then the alpha get slapped . MY CAKE !
@@shieldshield7385 Alpha is the strongest in the group so he'll take it back.
@@Gaze73 In this video , they say alphas are overconfident people , so I stick with that definition because it is a great parody of itself representing the hypocrisis of people using the therm " alpha " and " beta " to talk about humans ... While even wild animals are better . By the way in a wolf pack the beta is the strongest and the two alphas are just the parents .
Bonus , if any situation like this appear to me in real life ...
" Alpha " : I'm gonna take half of it .
Me : EVERYONE TAKE YOUR PART !
*Everyone take his part , and the " alpha " wild animal is left with one*
Because unity is stronger than tirany , it can apply to lots of situation . Not avoiding the conflict doesn't mean you'll win the fight , just that you're an annoying barking dog
Time to end being a nice guy once and for all, even if people dont like me to change so their uses of me can still remain, but they are all worthless to me, I owe you one bro, you got me out of the nice guy shit.
DONT BE NICE DONT BE RUDE. BE NEUTRAL
BE HONEST STAND FOR YOURSELF DONT FEAR YOUR APPEARANCE
BE POSITIVE BUT FROM INSIDE
Cyclone just like Peterson said
Cyclone 1000%
Neutral? Is that the ph of the semen that drips when your in that proverbial corner? Or is that your tears cause of how dumb you are?
Stoicsme
Be the balance that the world needs. Do the right thing, even if people judge you. Stand for your self, and for the others only when its right and necessary.
The more he talked about Bob, the more I felt I wanted to hide myself......shame is a powerfull thing
Which Bob
5:24 is when he starts talking about the alpha
@Daily Upgrade Not that introductions are a bad thing and all, but considering an average video length happens to be 10 minutes, 5 manages to be a pretty long time in youtube.
There aren't really any Aplha Beta or nice guys every were
Most men are a mix of these types and switch from day to day.
Its psychology 101. Personality is consistently inconsistent. I've been in brawls against 5 at once, 3 at once a couple times...and have ignored plenty of other confrontations and have been manipulated and been an asshole and been very kind....because I'm human and not a category?
@@jdt8983 I haven't let anyone manipulate me
@@licensed_beheader well I guess you're perfect then huh sugar sac
@@jdt8983 I never said that 🤨🤨🤨 I have many cons too very many actually but letting some self centered ,whining pussy control me just coz she got a big butt and vagina never was ,is not and never will be one of them .😐😐😑
@@licensed_beheader it doesnt have to be a woman. Mike Tyson the baddest man on the planet got toyed with by Don King. You mean to tell me you've never had a lawyer fuck with you, a cop play you, a crazy woman get away with shit you weren't aware of...thats all manipulation. One time I drove out 300 miles with a bat in my car to fuck up some rapists. And my ex was lying and repaid me by getting married when we were together. There are psychos out there and you cant always see them coming. If you think you can then you're bullshitting yourself
*additionally kind people who get taken advantage of...aka the women Ted Bundy killed...were they weak for not knowing? This alpha beta shit is very surface level thinking
Be nice for your self not for others
Ur scuffed Tyler?
I agree, forget everyone else the only person thats should get the nice peson you are is yourself. If you do something for someone make sure they did 3 thing in advance for you first
campdry if everyone thought like you there wouldn't be any nice people.
If it's authentic... being fake makes situations worse.
Coo ahhahahaha hand he counts money in his profile picture, it mathes so good for what he said 😂
it worked I became an alpha I went to work and whipped my boss with my belt thank you
First Last I know its still Hurts like hell u r fired🤕🤕
😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
I'M WHEEZING.
First Last i will try that😂
Lol
I’ve been told this all my life about being the nice guy. Time for change. Great vid!!
This is powerful. I'm an Alpha, but damn.. I never thought I would ever hear myself say that. Life teaches you a lot of very valuable lessons. Keep pushing nice guys ✊
Fuck pushing I'ma dropkick
for real king 👑
Why is Bob working at a grocery store driving a 7 series BMW?
Mom and Dad pay the bills.
Bob sells coke to customers in the store.
because its a nice car
nathan hensn 🤣 I noticed that too
Yeah they're really nice after 2008. Anything before that is a maintenance nightmare. Especially trans electrical.
"There is always someone richer than you" -Bill Gates Has Enterd The Chat
-Jeff Bezos Has Enterd The Chat
Gavin -Jeff Bezos’s wife has entered and has made jeff leave
@Bigman Gamer So true...
Billy is the lowest among betas respected by the highest among alphas lol
Mansa musa has entered the chat he says, “amateurs”
10:13 got us in the first half not gonna lie😂
This was very eye opening, thank you I needed this!
"It's stupid to talk about things you're not. Be yourself and you'll be fine."
- Shikamaru (Naruto).
Meaning: Embrace yourself and thrive to be a better person than you were yesterday.
No truer words were ever spoken
BELIEVE IT!
Anime educates us ✌
Shikamaru is my favorite character lol
I make amvs lol
Schools encourage beta and nice guy behavior
Facts.
Yeah and it’s making a generation of pussies.
Waylon Jones no no no no no. Safe spaces aren’t exactly pushing alpha
Liberty Prime i sometimes imagine how back in the day how life was imagine having the life of a spartan / viking they were the real alpha males and now look how pussies people are today
Liberty Prime, that’s is true. The leftists want our kids to be this beta male, because then they grown up they will become a politically correct male.
And nowadays masculinity seems like something offensive, but it is nature. Mans are man! Don’t never be afraid to show your will.
Finally this isn’t a excuse to be aggressive with girls, be masculine and respect woman!
Thanks for the video man. It’s so nice that we can watch these kind of videos for free and help ourselves .
I feel like my ex dumped me because I wasn’t a “nice guy”
Fun fact : Alpha men don't get dumped by girls, they dump girls!
You just need to learn to balance them
May be you weren't a nice guy. You ain't even an alpha. You probably were a jerk. That's why.
@@triplez300 uh I forgot about this comment.. Nah man I’m not a jerk to people that I care about. We dated for almost 5 years, thinking about that more than a year later I simply believe we weren’t compatible anymore. Weirdo
@@spidermanthreethousand Yeah sure, real relationships based on reciprocal love and respect don’t really work that way. Also, if you’ve never been dumped by anyone, aim a little higher, “alpha man”
...wow, I am way too nice...
This.
Ends.
TODAY.
🔥🌋(Hulks Out)💪💥
Naw you're still a pussy sorry kid 🤷🤦 😂😂😂😂 lol
@Cal Beats u mean like how u projecting your insecurities? 😂😂😂 I'm fragile yet u the one that's triggered right now 😩😩😂😂 hahahaha another pussy 😂😂😂 Lollll
@@MrAlexthegreat24 you haven't triggered anyone,its just hard to ignore your stupidity
@Cal Beats Cal u sound like a woman 😂😂😂 and u got that cliche ass lame ass basic ass level of psychology and tryna analyze ppl I can tell you're young as FUCK 😂😂😂😂 hahahahaha you're a nerd!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣😆😆😆😆😆😭😭😭😭 lmfaooooo LOL
@@MrAlexthegreat24 whats wrong with spreading some love man :[
Ok youtube, I watched it, are you happy now?
fanderesidentevil only Betas do what youtube tells them to do
LMFAO🤣
You are CZcams's Beta Bitch
No, you need to actually take the info in and apply it cause' it's true.
fanderesidentevil you're a fucking dumbass, theres a think called *Not interested* you dumb fuck
Hi there. First of all thank you for your words and time you took to share. There is so much thruth in those words. I am in a point in my life where i want to change a few things and i realized that i was going to alpha male type when i could relate to some examples in my own life. Basically i checked every single “quality” in a nice guy and i was doing awfull. When i simply could not take it anymore and started thinking of myself and my needs AND i started talking and expressing my feelings , basically ckecking the alpha male trait tree , life simply got better. Just one condition. ACCEPT THE THRUTH THAT OF WHAT YOU ARE AND START SLOWLY FROM THERE. It works. You will fail a lot , but in a few weeks you will start seeing results . Don t be afraid of changes , life is change. Cheers!
This video motivated me so much and was such a help thank you man
today i stop to b a nice guy it doesn't pay but gives u more enemies
The main take away from this video is that an alpha male has confidence. I used to be the nice guy as described and related to women more than men. I can't tell you how many women said that I was such a good friend but when I inquired about starting a relationship was met with, "You are too nice of a guy for me to date" or "You are a nice guy but..." I did a lot of personal development since then and have matured quite a bit. I do not seek validation from other people but I still have regard for them. I have the mindset that we need to take care of our fellow man (people), just like we did back in the day. If you find somebody in a jam, you help them. For me, it really comes down to where you get your identity from and being confident in who you are.
Very eye opening and well detailed, thanks.
As always you guys you’re amazing, may all your souls stay blessed
I'm kinda a "Nice Guy/ "Alpha" Hybrid. It's nearly impossible to be all of one without being totally weird.
Yeah I feel I’m the same way. I guess that’s the balance part, but I could improve for sure
Agreed
Aquarius why would you ever want to identify as a nice guy. Lol have you seen r/niceguys
@@Anuscringe8814 I'm not the "Nice Guy" how the video depicts. I'm more of a "Alpha nice guy", It's how I define myself & not how a video says I should be.
@@Anuscringe8814 I'm a nice guy in my own definition, I'm i have lot of traits that this video considers as alpha but i identify as a nice
a truly nice guy never seeks or expect anything in return when being nice. He doesn't expect salvation in the afterlife or good karma, nor does he do it to get validation from peers. He is "nice" because to do so otherwise would go against his conscience. He knows nice guys finish last but still put others before himself. He knows that there is more to existence when you look beyond the ego of an individual (something the alphas can't do). A quote from John Donne: "Any man’s death diminishes me,because I am involved in mankind"
Tom Ly Well, that's half-true. Every person in this world want to be apreciated, respected and so on. It's in the human nature to seek for attention. but it depends on the kind and the amount of attention you try to find out.
Tom Ly he talking about a “nice guy” not a “nice” guy
Tom.
The only thing a truly nice person expects for their kindness is respect. Not worshipful respect, just a smile and a courteous tone
Tom Ly well put I'm not a nice guy but it makes me happy seeing others happy love and respect each other is the best way to live. This video isn't about nice guy and alpha its about confidence vs low self esteem
You have a very strong point, I acknowledge that. However the video is somehow correct, the "being balanced" is the key. Have to be honest or say what you feel without pushing it and be firm if it's right and or proper at the moment and if it's something you see as wrong.
Now this is one powerful video I have watched in a long time!.
This channel is gold.
I think I've unleashed the beast mode, a girl rejected me, and I suddenly started to see all my flaws on the next day, I'm so motivated to improve that now I think that even I wouldn't date a guy like I was being
That's awesome. I applaud your new journey of self growth. 👍
Never change for women 👍😉
@@-Gous- But what if that change is also beneficial for us.
TheZeallions my ex cheated on me, been 3 weeks since she broke up with me but I finally realizing my worth and changing for myself.
Make it happen!!!
Love the super dramatic music in the background to this😂😂
Lol I was thinking exactly the same thing
hobo_billy sicadelic im already an alpha
This is serious video ! This will determine life or death .. lol haha 😂
Que the dramatic song. Que the THE ALPHA MALE ....... THIS IS SPPARRTTAAANNNN!!!!
IKR! He does it all the time😂😂
Embrace your flaws, embrace your weaknesses. That will make you fearless.
@Farfromave.rage, Thank you. Been wathcing your videos since 2017 and then, i was a nice guy or beta male.But thanks to this channel and experiences i had since childhood, I was able to overcome and shift to the other side of the see saw. As i read the alpha triats in this video i realised with practice, i gained them all within the past 2 years. I actully took notes and i have them still. I swore to myself i will teach my son all these for him not too have the childhood I had. Once again thank you and you are amazing.
I had to punch a hole in the wall to make sure I'ma alpha male 😠
Ahaha
😁
Haaaaaaaaha😂😂😂😅
How that work out for you? XD
Yes With your Head . Sucker
The guy returned toilet paper and the company lost thousands of dollars? Damn
I like pancakes That is some Supreme Toilet Paper
The bamboo toilet paper is expensive!
Keyemku It was made of 10k gold he just left that out 😂
More like a bad prime example
It was a semi-truck load of TP, though
Thank you man I needed this
Me after applying this to my life: *turns into gorilla*
Me: Am an Alpha.
Gorilla: Am I joke to you?
Kong : Am I a myth to you?
@TheKnowerseeker y u say black guy... what relevance is that
@@Tailionis because that was the colour of his skin... but yea he coulda just said “a guy”
@It's herbal morons just say a guy, or a human or a living creature or better a gods creature of some other shit
it was a black guy, what is your fucking problem with this?
Bro monkeys are strong asfff and they are cool too
Harambe, your legacy will be passed down for eternity
ColdTurkey 💯
We still miss him
damn right
ColdTurkey he is dead so your not talking to him. Your seeking likes and validation from other comment readers. Your a nice guy
Quesow Qaz *Inserted Mongolian battle cry*
This channel is a life lesson to everyone especially males. I feel like I can learn from this big. I was once a nice when I was a kid. When I was 20 it made me realise that I should man up and stop being a baby and being needy. So I just wanna say thank you for your lesson and for your wisdom
I think the key isn’t the avoidance of being nice, rather the act of not being a pushover and knowing (and enforcing) your boundaries
What's 6 inches long and 2 inches wide that almost all women love?
Answer: Money
bear831tiger it only takes 4.5 inches to satisfy a women............a credit card 😉
haha Alpha
I said the bible can I get an amen
Jerey Fergerbuger amen
I was about to say a dick
People say I am a "nice guy"...but they also see me and KNOW i set boundaries..
So I am neither alpha nor beta....I can be EITHER....when it matters. I avoid conflict...but I am NOT afraid of it (i don't want to kill you)....I'm not a super fit jock..but I've been approached by women....I hold the door for people...I speak softly...I stay to myself...I help others when I can...I call it....being a Gentleman. I don't need a crowd...I don't need hundreds of friends...i don't need approval....I just stay in my lane...and make the best out of any situation. A man is a man....no need to categorize. I don't reveal my emotions...i dont wear my heart on my sleeve...I have inner guards...and internal strength. What you see is not what you get....and if you believe it is...do you really see?
The Watlingtons we are lone Wolves 🗣
plus a few more qualities and that's me
Thank you for this bro I appreciate this
Man Thank you. Really nice video and nicely explained!
You need to learn these tips alone. And often it's through hardships. I was bullied and introverted as a teen. Started abusing drugs to feel better and eventually got a panic attack. Decided enough was enough and got clean and worked out. For over a year now. Not just my body has gotten better but my mental health is as high as it's ever been.
and then a skinny guy you think you can bully bc hes skinny breaks you apart and then you go home and sit on your corner.... well done.
Antoineee abdacc i can agree brother it is something you learn i was often betrayed i trusted too many people and i often did stuff for people all the time but one day i told myself to grow a pair and stop being anyones bitch
@@fcggames3990 introvert here. I was/am introvert my entire life so never really had friends or much of a social life. When i moved out and started to live life more i came across people i havent really dealt with and being too nice was a sign that people can shit test me all the time. Ive come to the point where i gotta start not giving a damn what people think because it messes with my mental bottling true feelings up to not cause conflict.
There are 3 types of people
1. People that see shit happen
2.People that make shit happen
3 people that don't know the shit going around
I like that.
I've always viewed it as a 2 type world. Doers and wannabe doers.
It can be applied to anything, I just figured this out on my own fixing cars.
A lot of people want to have the image or have the passion to do things, but it's just that, a pipe dream. Lead, follow, or get the fuck out of the way.
Missing 4. People that don't give a shit about shit.
The REAL 3 types of people are articulated in “Team America World Police”
What if theres all of the above?
lol
It seems like how my grandmother raised me , it's obsolete in this new world...
It’s not the new world , this is how it’s always been
You write so well and a real artist with your drawing... and so fast!!... amazing, really amazing...
Omg I’m the nicest guy in the world. I’m so screwed lol
Freddy Buiatti this is a reminder to change to alpha
Me too! Am 6 foot is decent looking and girls seem to think I look cute. Problem is I cannot go for a girl. Am completely immobilized by my fear. Fear of everything.
HisAjabness I’m a 5’9 nice guy and I feel like one of the tallest things at my school, I wish I was 5’7/8 so I won’t look like a lanky, fumbling fool 🤣🤣🤣 but I’m thankful for my body tho
Lol. We are on the same page hey
Fuck yoooou brother ✌❤😂
*being nice guy is not wrong, whats wrong about being a nice guy is only not knowing who to be nice to. Be nice but not to everyone*
Wise Ekrem Selim yes!!! boi you *WOKE* AF
Alphahin 17 thank you 😊
Wise Ekrem Selim Couldn't have said it better myself if I tried 👍
Also if you suddenly quit being a nice *human* you are probably going to shoot who gave you gun in the first place, meaning you will start from your closest circle...
The problem is being ignorant and to submit to a woman just because she's hot! You gotta take in account her personality as well! WAAAAAAY MORE IMPORTANT!
Zig Ziglar said and lived by, "You can have anything in life you want as long as you are willing to help other people get what they want". I believe this too!
The strongest person is one who does not have to act as if he or she is strong. Quiet, respectful confidence is irresistible to both men and women.
the alpha pays himself first thats probably the best thing said in this video. Its the first step to success is putting yourself first then doing others next.
Great world we will have if everyone is selfish, good job...
paying yourself first isnt selfish you dolt. you cant take care of others if you don't take care of yourself.
Your voice tone sounds really lame, like a nice guy voice
LOL
Hahahaha nice one
True
Hahaha
Lets hear you talk.
I am so excited to be alive and have the opportunity to take this journey to become a better man
Me to man
I learn to love without condition,talk without bad intention,give without any reason,and most of all,care for people wothout any expectation🙌
There are many types of guys. Stay yourself and don't become a life-actor.
💯
@Piolatus lmao
Said beta guy. Wake up princess
@@tiotiti9893 ?
Improve
As a man who's had his own experiences and has tried to make others happy I say... f this.
Wanting to please others is just a way to survive. People are generally self-centered A-holes.
I suggest staying away from people as much as possible unless you have lessons to learn.
Get in shape, teach yourself skills, and comply with whatever rules are necessary to follow.
Do everything to get away from people because what they add to the formula is corrosive.
Agreed!!
My sentiment exactly self-reliance is key
Yes i just moved to a new land and dont know anybody.And going to be careful on who is going to be my new friend.
This only works for a while, unfortunately!! At some point, you will realise that a life lived only by yourself is not really worth it! This is what I'm going through now, at least. I used to think I'm strong enough to deal with whatever life throws at me, and I am. I can deal with that shit. But I don't have to. I guess I'm just tired.
then i guess you just need balance. i agree with u Malcolm. people say i should learn to cope with whatever person gets in my way but sometimes i feel i've had enough of their crap. so i want to earn enough money to stop working with other people and close within my circle. not sure if this is correct path though. take the rest out but don't treat them bad. those poor souls don't have the ability to help themselves
Man...this is so good! No more, Mr. NICE GUY!!!
Yes it was the most helpful tip in my life it made me see an open my eyes to so much more and realize so much more and become so much more just by knowing my flaws and what I can fix by just knowing this and I just want to say thank you and everything that you do and all of your videos are just amazing and for all the men out there listen to this guy because you’re not getting anywhere if you don’t
I just peed on neighbors wall "ALPHA MODE UNLOCKED"
If you were Alpha you would have shit on your neighbors wall and used your own shit to write him a badass message...
😂
osama tariq 🤣🤣
more like HOBO MODE UNLOCKED
He just connected so many dots for me. I’m shook.
I always knew I was a nice guy, but I didn’t realize how it effected so many different parts of my life.
Um...
Homie dropping gems and keys y'all need to wake up and show this channel it's due diligence 👍🏾
I now take pride in where I’ve been instead of being ashamed about it. 💪🏾
Girls : "He is so needy" also Girls : " he does not care adequately for me"
Flip'n but the girl goes for the guy that doesn’t care and dumps the needy one
Flip'n roll out of control over fucks with no ears and that's All for now you'll get ur way. u freak out so wtf u really care about you and I simply didn't mean anything for me Hmu when your ready to submit lol I'm serious and also just being an AssHole but I'm frfr Too much more than that I'm just not putting up with petty Ass snakes go crawl up some1 else Ass fucker and together will only take a little bit of wrk headed to my life which is not existing and believing I have no idea how to reach out to others anymore no1 listens or has ever understood that shit sux foreal tho I'm not sure if YOU are a lot different in a way I feel and say that shit.. this is all ventilation to my own shit but always keep a positive outlook and be humble open to new ideas and ways of thinking appreciate the littlest things that'll take you really far
ErrGotti 320 wtf are did i just read u say? 🤦🏻♂️💀
Don’t crease Your Air Force
I creased them 😭😢😭😭😭
@@hiddeninplainsight8768 True but I've also had girls dump me for not paying enough attention to them.
Just because you’re nice doesn’t mean you’re weak
I agree. Sadly, a lot of women don't see it that way.
I say be nice until it's time not to be ya know
@@scotthayden5388 That's because they think they know it all. They think they're highly perceptive, which they aren't
being nice for validation how ever does make you weak. If you are nice do it cause you can and cause you want to. Not to make Stacy fall in love with you not a hard message really
Also being a push over is weak.
I kept reading that "chase your goals, not women" and all that, but did anyone ask what if my only remaining goal is to get the woman i like?
What I got out of this:
Boundaries and confidence.
Basically being alfa starts with giving up and not giving a fuck how it goes anymore but still playing the game. The less you invest your emotions in it the less you will come off as needy. After a long journey of success and failure (mostly failure at first) you will learn everything you need to know by doing it
Women- "I don't like guys who play games". Also women- "I don't like good guys because they don't play games".
woman logic = contradiction
Team Aspect exactly!
That's why its better to play games. They asked for it.
Women are stupid who don’t like nice guys. They would rather get hit and cheated on
@adam sanchez and because of such preference (bad boys) they influence nice guys to become jerks as well.
such a nice guy for doing this video
One who makes a beast of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man is one of my favorite quotes I live by I train for my MMA fights I work out and am constantly talking to new people the year before I was the nobody I had 3 to 5 friends girls were hard to understand and had very little experience i still haven’t had a girlfriend till yesterday and she is the one expressed herself to me the way to get better is to find what motivates you and push hard to get there have the warriors freedom and spirit the mindset of a warrior is one who fears being average and living in the realm of normalcy it all starts with you what’s stopping you who is in the way name it and end it I fear that so many people fail for not studying a warrior is someone who study’s to become calculated soldiers you study to learn see your your already a warrior and you don’t even know it
just got fired by my manager trying to tell him what i really worth, thanks !
Dawei CP 😂
Now that's alpha.
Dawei CP good for you,some people get stuck in a dead end job for life...good luck.
Read 48 laws of power.
LoL, You should only be Alpha with girls.. on the Job you remain a Beta (or you start a bussines). You should be smart if you are an Alpha.. no wait (thats the Omega). Alpha just 'does hes thing'. So you have to be both i guess.
Bob refunded $1000 of stolen groceries then drove home in his bmw?
Kyle Foss bob is a big baller man don't try to play him
You saw that too huh?
Kyle Foss naw bro he was in on that little scandal. Bob and jimmy (the costumer) have been robbing the store blind for several months now and they just now caught on haha. How are you gonna be doing that though and think it’s okay and normal to return $1000 dollars worth of groceries back . Who in the hell would think that’s not sketchy at all to be returning 1000$ worth of groceries.
KiiDKali i think you are onto something . lol
haha makes sense doesn't it?
I think a better way to deal with this is to treat people how they treat you no matter who they are
Respect bro u openes up my eyes.