How to Approach Girls (works EVERY time)

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  • 3 steps for how to talk to girls with confidence. This is how to approach girls with confidence.
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  • @memestogoplease1204
    @memestogoplease1204 Před 5 lety +6649

    Instructions unclear, ended up getting nervous and punched her in the face and ran away.

    • @3053sydney
      @3053sydney Před 5 lety +375

      Couldn't be worse than what I did. I went up to her, hands shaking like I had fucking withdrawal, and in the fastest I've ever spoken said "HEY HI GOOD MORNING HOW ARE YOU?"

    • @datroller5712
      @datroller5712 Před 5 lety +50

      @@3053sydney .......... ..... . Ben there 😶

    • @rafaelmayer4317
      @rafaelmayer4317 Před 5 lety +17

      @@3053sydney Next time you get it

    • @emilyramnauth1358
      @emilyramnauth1358 Před 5 lety +26

      @@3053sydney how romantic..??

    • @felicitymannin4402
      @felicitymannin4402 Před 5 lety +12

      If there is girl in your life right now that you’d love to
      have begging to be your girlfriend, you need to discover
      the 4 odd ways to make a girl chase you… t.co/jHrVM963wo

  • @Astrosive
    @Astrosive Před 4 lety +3642

    "How to get girls"
    *Opens up with a parkour montage*

  • @pleasebiteme9823
    @pleasebiteme9823 Před 2 lety +1970

    Remember this:
    Regret is far more worse than Rejection

  • @joaquin67
    @joaquin67 Před rokem +196

    I like that he not only has the balls to approach girls out in public, but showing it to us on video. You can tell he's nervous in all of the approaches, but because it's so genuine, it's extremely encouraging and motivational. Subscribed.

    • @flamestar557
      @flamestar557 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I know right. The thing that is sad about this is that the girls all hardly seem interested being busy with shit or just don't want to talk

    • @adamfamily2923
      @adamfamily2923 Před 7 měsíci +3

      I could feel his nervousness through the vid

    • @creativ3vision
      @creativ3vision Před 6 měsíci

      It’s legit tho 💯
      Respect.

  • @venomvideos855
    @venomvideos855 Před 5 lety +8671

    I did this to a girl who turned out to be a feminist. I'm going to court next week

  • @activeterrror3034
    @activeterrror3034 Před 4 lety +6481

    Me talking to a girl that goes to my same class:
    So, what school do you go to?

    • @ramon2008
      @ramon2008 Před 3 lety +204

      Lmfaoooo

    • @abdulmalikmohamed3281
      @abdulmalikmohamed3281 Před 3 lety +182

      I cant stop laughing hahahahaha

    • @midoria6954
      @midoria6954 Před 3 lety +95

      underrated comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣lmao

    • @credokasemiire2582
      @credokasemiire2582 Před 3 lety +43

      I can't laugh at and love this enough

    • @bigiso7452
      @bigiso7452 Před 3 lety +71

      on me😭 like we be in the same english class and ima be like “whens your english period”

  • @rageraptor7127
    @rageraptor7127 Před rokem +17

    I thought no one wanted me for a while because I was too scared to ask girls out. Then I started by complimenting random people. And moved on to simply asking girls out. I thought. “Well it’s either I get rejected or nothing happens. So I’d rather get rejected and know for sure no one likes me” little did I know that my personality was actually good enough to naturally pick up girls. I have done a challenge with my friend in the city and was able to get like 20 girls numbers in one day. It’s not as hard as you think. The hardest part is really just the initial approach and figuring out an opener. I usually start with a simple unrelated question that allows the conversation to naturally flow. If I notice she’s not interested with her body language I just back off. But usually saying something like a compliment or witty little joke using simple but very exaggerated logic works. I have social anxiety so I still get very nervous but once I get through the initial opener I’m a goat at smooth talking both men and women. I even noticed how maliciously manipulative I could be at times. (Not trying to boast, but I’m just an average loner dude with like typically no social skills with like 20 matches on tinder, that just sorta decided to start approaching people for fun and it worked out)
    I still have trouble keeping the girls after. But that’s a story for another day lmao 🤣

  • @markholden6947
    @markholden6947 Před 2 lety +57

    Thanks to your tips I talk to my wife without trouble! In addition, my wife bought me Spanish Fly natural drops as a birthday gift and she’s surprisingly satisfied with me by 100% (I'm really happy that she's happy)! I cannot believe it! Amazingly, it worked right away! Really big thanks to your video and this product! Otherwise, she would certainly divorce me…

    • @johnreed506
      @johnreed506 Před rokem +1

      one of the most helpful comments for me. i bought some online and also you can give it to anyone as a birthday gift. it really makes ppl pleased

    • @HriStorm_56
      @HriStorm_56 Před 2 měsíci

      @@johnreed506 test

  • @BradleyWelshTV
    @BradleyWelshTV Před 5 lety +6109

    If I had a dollar for every girl that found me unattractive, they would eventually find me attractive

  • @hainamhaleem917
    @hainamhaleem917 Před 3 lety +8475

    You know that you have truly hit rock bottom when you start watching these videos..

  • @adamdabomb1113
    @adamdabomb1113 Před 2 lety +32

    These videos are super helpful because you’re showing the inevitable awkward moments. I really appreciate seeing how to work through those to make the interaction productive. Thanks!

  • @jamesjacobhenne1672
    @jamesjacobhenne1672 Před 2 lety +103

    THX for that! I have recently tried a product called Spanish Fly drops (it was recommended to me) and can’t explain in words how awesome sex was!

    • @brianlarocque3691
      @brianlarocque3691 Před rokem +2

      yeah i know them too. my wife have me these natural drops as a birthday gift since she thinks i'm so bad in bed. but after 5 drops she completely changed her mind and now she wants me to be like that for all the time

  • @williamgale6952
    @williamgale6952 Před 3 lety +4608

    "how to get girls (works everytime)'
    Gets rejected.

  • @Chris-os3rc
    @Chris-os3rc Před 4 lety +2706

    I listened to your tips. And it worked. My death penalty starts tomorrow thanks man.

  • @kayleballen5077
    @kayleballen5077 Před 2 lety +108

    I’m actually tearing up
    For the first time in so long I feel like I can do something with full confidence god bless this channel ❤️

  • @rebuildtosucceed2315
    @rebuildtosucceed2315 Před 2 lety +2

    To see the growth David had in 4 years . Just motivated me beyond words can explain 💯💯💯

  • @ace8738
    @ace8738 Před 4 lety +1540

    Can't wait to use this on my crush and get rejected hardcore

    • @dontreply8346
      @dontreply8346 Před 4 lety +43

      You do it yet? I'm nervous for you

    • @ArcanePath360
      @ArcanePath360 Před 4 lety +42

      If it doesn't work out, maybe it's just not meant to be. Assume she likes you, when you're trying, but if she doesn't, move on, because there's nothing you can do about that.

    • @dontreply8346
      @dontreply8346 Před 4 lety +48

      Cold Blooded don’t feel bad! She wasn’t the right one.

    • @ArcanePath360
      @ArcanePath360 Před 4 lety +17

      @@ace8738 We can't have the ones we really want. It's a sad fact of life. We have to throw the net wide and try to catch what we can. This is why guys often settle whereas women always try and get the best they can, thinking they are entitled to it just because they are a woman. That's why videos like this help, so we can try playing the game to get better than we would normally settle for. It can hurt when it's a girl you know that rejects you. I tried with a girl I went to school with and ended up working with. She gave me her number, but when I rang it, it was a wrong number. I'll never know if it was me who took the number wrong or her deliberately giving me a false number because she quit her job before I rang it.

    • @ace8738
      @ace8738 Před 4 lety +9

      @@ArcanePath360 Maybe she didn't liked me because i am 5'7...i think the most of girls don't like dating guys that are under 6'

  • @a.a.h4943
    @a.a.h4943 Před 5 lety +1852

    Everyone in this comment section making fun of this man. He’s still got bigger balls than all of y’all and has way more confidence too

    • @mako9324
      @mako9324 Před 5 lety +39

      A.A.H or a way lower I.Q.

    • @justgivemeonesec
      @justgivemeonesec Před 5 lety +5

      A.A.H facts

    • @IamRanJos
      @IamRanJos Před 5 lety +6

      This should be in office cause it’s fax bro

    • @markvigo1747
      @markvigo1747 Před 5 lety +22

      *Man, i wanna go out of my shell and finally talk to women like this guy!*

    • @mannynoneya7143
      @mannynoneya7143 Před 5 lety

      Tidal 9 your fun at parties

  • @7ackass
    @7ackass Před rokem +5

    What I have finally learned from all of this is.... Approaching women and dealing with women is like approaching and dealing with anything in life. You have to study under a real guru, stick to the basics, and it's not human nature. Everything has to be perfected or refined enough to be useful for us. It's like most men might hate this content because it shows them what they could have figured out if they really took the time to focus on it. My focus was in a different space for a reason but now you have brought me back to the basics. Thank you for this video and your deep insight into the psychology of how we think and function as men approaching women or thinking about it. Subscribed because this content is raw and real.

  • @andreso700
    @andreso700 Před rokem +5

    El hecho de que hables con mujeres aún teniendo nervios y que sea evidente que estes nervioso pero con una actitud imparable, hace este video aún más motivador e increíble.
    Eres un guerrero.
    Translate this text to English, I wanted to say it in Spanish because I feel it is more genuine from me.
    Thank you

  • @AndrejNikolov-xw2gi
    @AndrejNikolov-xw2gi Před 6 lety +5914

    I tried it. It's patched.

    • @personperson143
      @personperson143 Před 5 lety +606

      Andrej Nikolov nah you just need to pay an extra 50 bucks for the girls and relationships dlc.

    • @chorse70
      @chorse70 Před 5 lety +163

      LOL comment of the day

    • @blxzing1201
      @blxzing1201 Před 5 lety +94

      GIVE THIS MAN A COOKIE

    • @obtuse2399
      @obtuse2399 Před 5 lety +56

      Underated comment.

    • @Bulldawg9211
      @Bulldawg9211 Před 5 lety +12

      Lmao!

  • @KeravnosPrime
    @KeravnosPrime Před 6 lety +617

    that fist bump with the random dude was wholesome

  • @warnado5007
    @warnado5007 Před rokem +7

    I got rejected once when I was 16 and the effect traumatized me so bad I'm afraid to even talk to most girls now. (22 btw)

  • @piyush2413
    @piyush2413 Před 2 lety +4

    This dude literally showed us how to approach girls IRL which proves his points unlike any other "alpha or jose's videos." Love you dude, keep up 💪

  • @uyento3784
    @uyento3784 Před 3 lety +2714

    Im not scared of rejection im just scared to get clowned by people😅

  • @subscribetopewdiepie3150
    @subscribetopewdiepie3150 Před 4 lety +985

    Got ran over by car doing push-ups in middle of road

  • @horacevu
    @horacevu Před 2 lety +1

    LOL watching this 4 years later. What a journey it has been David, thanking you for being you. Stay beastly!!

  • @sainteo9388
    @sainteo9388 Před 2 lety

    The growth in this channel and David is just amazing.

  • @notjohnxxcena6556
    @notjohnxxcena6556 Před 6 lety +2575

    if she rejects you, you can always say, "it was just a prank bro"

  • @tn199941
    @tn199941 Před 3 lety +755

    I: Hey
    Her: I have a boyfriend

    • @abolisher
      @abolisher Před 3 lety +11

      😂🤣

    • @Jack-ny4vu
      @Jack-ny4vu Před 3 lety +7

      Ooof 🙃

    • @myhand4272
      @myhand4272 Před 3 lety +55

      Just tell her nobody asked

    • @joshuashakir2772
      @joshuashakir2772 Před 3 lety +2

      @@myhand4272 that would be so funny😂

    • @Terminalpogshow
      @Terminalpogshow Před 3 lety +88

      Me: hello
      Her: I have a boyfriend
      Me: ok cool I have a math test this week
      Her: what?
      Me: oh I thought we were naming things we were about to cheat on

  • @hellothere-vk3ph
    @hellothere-vk3ph Před 2 lety +5

    first girl seemed really uncomfortable. you could hear her nervousness. plus she was trying to leave but he just kept on blocking her way. SHE WAS EVEN BACKING UP. she was _EXTREMELY_ hesitant to say even a "maybe" when he asked if she wanted to hang out. she literally sounded like she was going to cry near the end of the interaction. clearly trying to get out of the situation and said she didnt even know him, but he just played it off.
    second girl was a little fidgety. not much to say about the interaction, but this guy needs to CHILL. dont call it a "boyfriend excuse." maybe she did have a boyfriend, maybe she just WANTED TO LEAVE AN UNCOMFORTABLE SITUATION. either way, it's not an excuse to say that you don't want to cheat on a partner. i do agree with *_TWO_* points brought up, and only two. yes, accept she rejected you. doesnt matter if shes dating or just not interested, she is a human, you are a human and you are both equals. treat each other by this.
    please do not immediately assume a girl likes you. yes, this will give you confidence but, tbh, most of the time a random girl isnt gonna want to go up and date you or fuck you immediately after she sees you. however, i do agree with having confidence.
    third girl, her voice wavers a bit. around 6:43, she scrunches her hand into somewhat of a fist. its kind of like securing the bag in case you have to hit this person they may feel uncomfortable near.
    this guy is a *_TINY TINY TINY BIT_* better than other guys ive seen do this. yes, he does make the girls uncomfortable and he blocks their path if they try to leave, which you should NEVER do (be respectful, guys), but he switches his comment up to a compliment which can be really nice, especially since he isnt commenting about their body, just saying they look cute or nice or whatever.

  • @wmrdwijerathna680
    @wmrdwijerathna680 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much for this video.keep it up.

  • @traankraan473
    @traankraan473 Před 4 lety +2615

    Girl : hey how are you doing
    Me : good you?
    Girl : ye im doing good
    Me : RUNS OUT OF STUFF
    Me : “WhAt Is YoUr SkInN cOlOr”

    • @Dntvxz
      @Dntvxz Před 4 lety +135

      Topics to talk about : school - work - routines
      Jk jk i really dont know how to talk to girls

    • @fcggames3990
      @fcggames3990 Před 4 lety +43

      @@Dntvxz those are some good topics you can also ask her about what she likes to do and invite her to eat or something

    • @d7eemo270
      @d7eemo270 Před 4 lety +10

      traankraan lmfao bruh

    • @NoobBLOX
      @NoobBLOX Před 4 lety +6

      LMAO

    • @TheNycto
      @TheNycto Před 4 lety +6

      LMFAOOOO

  • @milesdaniels4135
    @milesdaniels4135 Před 6 lety +679

    you got balls man! you're doing what 90% of guys cant, mad respect! I'm definitely learning alot, keep it up!

    • @howtobeast
      @howtobeast  Před 6 lety +34

      Thanks bro! Always good to see you in the comments

    • @1retos
      @1retos Před 6 lety

      What is it?

    • @AntonioMontana_7.5
      @AntonioMontana_7.5 Před 6 lety +3

      a lot*

    • @alial-rubiay337
      @alial-rubiay337 Před 6 lety +6

      Miles Daniels check out rsd max, u will see what having balls really means

    • @milesdaniels4135
      @milesdaniels4135 Před 6 lety

      aliromy ali haha just watched some of his vids and yes that guy does as well, thanks for the intro

  • @markmartin5765
    @markmartin5765 Před 2 lety +1

    I like your true attempts at a conversation,real life, with real reactions!

  • @life-is-here
    @life-is-here Před rokem +1

    David's video is helpful and entertaining, providing a great way to boost confidence when approaching girls.

  • @tonygonzales2329
    @tonygonzales2329 Před 5 lety +796

    I'm not the one talking and I was really nervous everytime he approached someone 😂😂

    • @Nobodyhas2
      @Nobodyhas2 Před 5 lety +30

      Facts 😂

    • @GHmasterlord342
      @GHmasterlord342 Před 4 lety +8

      Tony Gonzales literally me

    • @alexign2004
      @alexign2004 Před 4 lety +8

      Tony Gonzales it’s called cringiness

    • @skarr4485
      @skarr4485 Před 4 lety +2

      @@alexign2004 I don't think anyone doesn't know that

    • @uncleiroh4650
      @uncleiroh4650 Před 4 lety +4

      Cuz he dont got game. As a fellow person with zero game, it's easy to spot

  • @ihorkarpiuk4102
    @ihorkarpiuk4102 Před 3 lety +145

    u can c how hard and awkward it is for him. He's still doing it, respect

    • @siemniak
      @siemniak Před rokem +2

      Because it is akward. Why would any normal woman date some random guy from.the street if he doesn't look like prime Brad Pitt?

  • @Vasshi13
    @Vasshi13 Před 2 lety +3

    Its good that he is including those awkward and rejection in the video so that people wont think that it actually works everytine and be down when it doesn't work for them.

  • @markvenediktov6930
    @markvenediktov6930 Před 11 měsíci

    needed this. subbed

  • @freddieprado1159
    @freddieprado1159 Před 3 lety +2200

    This guy is very brave but he makes conversations waaaaay to awkward.

    • @soundgods9875
      @soundgods9875 Před 3 lety +207

      yea lol he's pretty awkward ... but he's using the power of numbers lol you try enough it will work

    • @shortyg1018
      @shortyg1018 Před 3 lety +463

      Better than not doing shit

    • @getkrawnwalled5625
      @getkrawnwalled5625 Před 3 lety +69

      At the end he said it was on off day for him. So he recognized that he was being off. Just meand that everybody has off days

    • @trowwzers5057
      @trowwzers5057 Před 3 lety +22

      But he is also very good looking so it is easier for him

    • @counterleo
      @counterleo Před 3 lety +106

      He is but look, the anxiety from approaching girls is multiplied by the fact that he's on camera knowing thousands will watch! I'd probably collapse in this situation lol.

  • @laughwithme2982
    @laughwithme2982 Před 5 lety +1143

    the hack was patched
    do you have a 2019 june update

    • @pffilms2522
      @pffilms2522 Před 4 lety +34

      Underrated

    • @gideonpalmer8809
      @gideonpalmer8809 Před 4 lety +8

      The guy who made the video is a Nietzschean. His tips do not work for the unmodified human

    • @varsticity
      @varsticity Před 4 lety +4

      @ChillYourCoffee i came here because of that!

    • @juliuskingsley4434
      @juliuskingsley4434 Před 4 lety +2

      You got on daily meme dose

    • @TheAnodius
      @TheAnodius Před 4 lety

      Saw this on a meme video...

  • @jean7935
    @jean7935 Před rokem

    Bro that was great ! Big thanks !

  • @jayaseto
    @jayaseto Před 2 lety +6

    2:20 first girl from her body language she wasn’t feeling him

    • @Mika_76
      @Mika_76 Před 2 lety +2

      Yeah fr, she was trying to get away

  • @Kempshaw
    @Kempshaw Před 3 lety +311

    I appriciate the honesty, you can tell that this guy is real because he includes every interraction and his honest reaction afterwards.

  • @sirp.zohani511
    @sirp.zohani511 Před 4 lety +943

    I’m laying in bed watching this and feeling nervous

  • @markmorrison5671
    @markmorrison5671 Před 2 lety

    Watching your old vids is really funny m8. It's amazing how much u have changed and it's only been a few years 👌👌👌. Always enjoyed your vids pure inspiration 👌👌👌

  • @kevinosullivan3308
    @kevinosullivan3308 Před 2 lety

    Thanks man seriously feel better after watching this as I have something confidence issues,, imma try this out tonight get mé back in the game brother

  • @deepankarsharma4318
    @deepankarsharma4318 Před 4 lety +529

    I'm so comfortable with rejection that I often reject myself. Is that confident enough?

    • @papawuise6820
      @papawuise6820 Před 4 lety +21

      I'd say your good

    • @crazfigure8166
      @crazfigure8166 Před 3 lety +11

      Tell a girl that you like their personality and if they reject you be like
      "You only get me once, and if I become successful, you only got me once and your not getting me again" works sometimes

    • @fabriziocfg1020
      @fabriziocfg1020 Před 3 lety +3

      🖓😎

    • @duecestaine8030
      @duecestaine8030 Před 3 lety +2

      No thts just wat to expect cuz ur use to it lol

    • @iamsanjayc
      @iamsanjayc Před 3 lety +2

      😂😂

  • @juliano5662
    @juliano5662 Před 5 lety +541

    Take it as a compliment? F***ing genius!

  • @ladislavkesar3345
    @ladislavkesar3345 Před 2 lety

    I watched this video three years ago,I admirered you and wanted to be like you,fighting with depression at the time
    Now I find this turtorial more like how to get enough balls and confidence to aproach girls
    And there is so much things to fix and get beter at here for becoming an actual expert
    Stil,love ya,and thank you,from shiny suicidal quiet guy i became a guy who doesnt care for outcame,just tries to learn what can he do better next time,and you kind a helped me

  • @leonardopagliaricci7801

    Dude you are legit.
    Thanks for the heads up.

  • @vinznightcatalan5976
    @vinznightcatalan5976 Před 2 lety +754

    David: It's okay to get rejected, it makes you more confident.
    Me: Got Rejected a million times.

    • @nkbunny7447
      @nkbunny7447 Před 2 lety +67

      you should be superrr confident 😂

    • @WolfEE07
      @WolfEE07 Před 2 lety +9

      it’s cool bro

    • @XxPeruvianGamersxX
      @XxPeruvianGamersxX Před 2 lety +31

      You are so confident now that you don't need a girl anymore

    • @lorenzcastillo6484
      @lorenzcastillo6484 Před 2 lety +12

      Ultra confidence to feel numb from the pain 😂

    • @cemmiodaaa
      @cemmiodaaa Před 2 lety +1

      Did you actually get rejected allot? And if so, do you actually feel better/more confident?

  • @hakaraiabaker1332
    @hakaraiabaker1332 Před 5 lety +609

    Tip 1. Do ya warm ups.
    Tip 2. Look at rejection as an important confidence building tool. Instead of being afraid of rejection which I think is super cool. Making that mindset shift.
    Tip 3. Assume she is attracted to you, which in turn is going to help you be feel more confident in yourself.

    • @ChrisJia127
      @ChrisJia127 Před 4 lety +11

      But his tip 3 doesn’t seem effective. How can someone assume something they know it’s not true? it’s probably not going to make them feel better lying to themselves.

    • @centralintelligenceagency9003
      @centralintelligenceagency9003 Před rokem +5

      @@ChrisJia127 This applies to 2 as well.

    • @di4mnd409
      @di4mnd409 Před rokem +3

      @@centralintelligenceagency9003 true, confidence isn't about lying to yourself

    • @geovanieguillermo2409
      @geovanieguillermo2409 Před rokem +1

      Sir do you a video how to approach women in indirect opener?

    • @rascal211
      @rascal211 Před rokem +2

      Being rejected is not cool and doesn't build confidence, success builds confidence. Countless times of rejection hurts confidence and makes it less likely to find future success with low confidence but you have two choices just give up or just keep trying.

  • @adolfo.sirias
    @adolfo.sirias Před 2 lety

    I really enjoyed watching this video, like exactly the things I’d fuck up and actually seeing you bounce back feels great 👍

  • @rileysmindcom9485
    @rileysmindcom9485 Před rokem +2

    High schooler over here. Seems like good advice to talk to girls.

  • @josephknecht4675
    @josephknecht4675 Před 5 lety +2132

    "It is good for a boy to meet a girl in a park, but it is better for a boy to park meat in a girl".
    -Socrates.

    • @archibaldbunkaire1702
      @archibaldbunkaire1702 Před 5 lety +62

      Lol this comment is slept on. Should be top comment

    • @vr_x7364
      @vr_x7364 Před 5 lety +7

      LOL did he really say that?

    • @pavese1379
      @pavese1379 Před 5 lety +44

      @@vr_x7364 ...Do you really think so?

    • @edoardocanova444
      @edoardocanova444 Před 5 lety +8

      I ejaculated

    • @Comelyman2
      @Comelyman2 Před 5 lety +37

      @@vr_x7364 ye Socrates spoke English like 1500 years before the language was invented

  • @kabel3567
    @kabel3567 Před 4 lety +502

    I tried this and the dude didn’t fist bump me back😭😭

    • @quaralblast8055
      @quaralblast8055 Před 4 lety +27

      oooooooooooooof

    • @bRIAN_69420
      @bRIAN_69420 Před 4 lety +9

      Ooooooffff

    • @s.m4125
      @s.m4125 Před 4 lety +17

      Kabel ツ I don’t get those kind of ppl tbh 😂

    • @re_flow
      @re_flow Před 4 lety +4

      Don't sweat it not everyone is the same. Keep trying and you'll get it.

    • @bestjth
      @bestjth Před 4 lety

      F in the chat

  • @KiLLclangames
    @KiLLclangames Před 2 lety

    See I love your advice honestly dude should really listen to you I just stumbled across this on accident because I let my CZcams keep running and I'm like damn he's giving people good advice keep it up man random video for the win

  • @TheRyan115
    @TheRyan115 Před rokem

    My guy thank you so much for this video!! This really gave me a lot of confidence. It made me realise just be chill and be yourself. Hahahahaha!! Thanks man!!

  • @flexzone9012
    @flexzone9012 Před 4 lety +426

    3:56 "Do you know a coffee shop?" She showed him.
    After rejection, he walks to the opposite direction. 😏

  • @FatPaps
    @FatPaps Před 5 lety +629

    Fairplay to this dude, Actually making legit videos. A lot of these "How to approach Girls" videos either use Actors or they Cut out the rejection completely to make it look like "IT WORKS EVERYTIME", This dude showed us getting turned down and getting a number and props to that dude, Keep up the good work

    • @mrbeast8522
      @mrbeast8522 Před 2 lety +1

      what are u doing here?

    • @gitbint
      @gitbint Před 2 lety +2

      Every person who is growing up in our generation (born 1950s to today) is learning that our society has necessitated genuine authenticity. Being disingenuous is great error; it shows its symptoms in insecurities and arrogance.
      Be Real. She'll like y-o-u best.

    • @rakshay-jain
      @rakshay-jain Před 2 lety +7

      @@gitbint what does 'be you' mean though? If I had to be totally real and honest, I'd say 'Let's fuck' which obviously wouldn't work lol

    • @gitbint
      @gitbint Před 2 lety +1

      @@rakshay-jain "let's fuck" though is great for guys, but girls aren't into intimacy, unless they know a little or a lot about the guy.
      Be yourself... And if sex happens (eventually), be patient and be grateful.

    • @pawforlife9336
      @pawforlife9336 Před 2 lety +1

      @@rakshay-jain being real means being you, but slowly fading into the more real you as time goes on. You don't want to show all your cards in the beginning which might make quite a strong impression... in the wrong way. The 100% weird or odd you will have to appear slowly ;D

  • @AceDramaBeats
    @AceDramaBeats Před 2 lety

    Thanks bro, I liked how real the interactions were. I'm gonna just start doing this and see how it goes. I haven't known what to say to start the conversation off. Or how to close. I like that, "wanna hangout sometime" sounds natural

  • @rex4144
    @rex4144 Před 11 měsíci

    Bro this is amazing! Thank you honestly I just have an elderly grandfather for dating advice so I really appreciate your help to make us succeed with women. You do you!

  • @ravsilva5055
    @ravsilva5055 Před 3 lety +367

    I love how you don't try to impress your audience and show that how it is in real life during an approach and what mostly matters is taking action, not the outcome. Keep it up bro!

    • @jpeg.600x2
      @jpeg.600x2 Před 2 lety +1

      😂😂😂👏👏👏Fr! This man is the G.O.A.T!!!🐐💯💯💯💯

    • @peterangwenyi1250
      @peterangwenyi1250 Před rokem

      There is a time I used to test girl by taking them on back in campus and guess what some girls are easy to get and done hard to play on . So the bottom is keep on trying everyday...one day you get one.

  • @hazwaz6385
    @hazwaz6385 Před 5 lety +687

    i got a plan
    how bout us blokes just stop talking to girls so they get really desperate and start talking to us

    • @captainchaos8761
      @captainchaos8761 Před 5 lety +54

      if the guys that watch these sort of pua videos stopped talking to girls completely then girls wouldnt even notice or care. if anything they would prefer it lol girls 6/10 or above only want the top 10% approaching preferably and probably wouldnt mine someone in the top 20% while 90% of the guys who watch these videos arent in the top 20% let alone the top 10%

    • @hazwaz6385
      @hazwaz6385 Před 5 lety +3

      @@captainchaos8761 hahahaha true

    • @evanhernandez9324
      @evanhernandez9324 Před 5 lety +1

      Good thinking but I don't think that will work

    • @yuuurrr573
      @yuuurrr573 Před 5 lety

      hazwaz Man only if😂😂

    • @nicktokar2459
      @nicktokar2459 Před 5 lety +3

      I'm way ahead on that first part... Just waiting for that second part.

  • @kurseify1323
    @kurseify1323 Před 2 lety

    Going to try this out Monday Thank You

  • @skydriver5709
    @skydriver5709 Před rokem +3

    The reason all of these start out (or stay) so awkward, is because the approaches are unnatural. Just stepping in front of someone while they're walking is not an approach. It's a body block and it immediately give people the feeling of uncomfortability.
    Walk beside them, and get their attention. They'll be comfortable. If they stop, you'll know at least 1 of 2 things. You sparked their interest, and/or they find you attractive. Confidence alone isn't enough.
    Tip: The best conversation starter is a complement or another form of physical observation about the girl. Not, "Hey, this might sound weird" or "I know this is completely random, but".
    Something as simple as "I like your hair" will get you 10X more points than "Hey, this is completely random, but what did you wear for halloween yesterday."
    First, yes, it's completely random. 2. You didn't have to tell her it was, she was smart enough to figure that out herself. 3. Don't ever start a conversation with an unknown and put the ball in their court. You don't know if she dressed up for halloween. Maybe she couldn't go out that night. Maybe she was upset about it. And now you're introduction is laced with a bad memory and negative emotion. 4. Your haircut is fucking dumb. I say that with love.

  • @atylerpearce
    @atylerpearce Před 6 lety +173

    These videos help. I'm 6 months sober. Recently divorced (a year and a half now) from my ex of 15 years. BRAND new to dating (we were high school sweethearts)... Trying to absorb any and all information on this matter. I'm in the gym 5-6 days during the week, and my diet is on point. I've lost 50lbs since May 2017. I'm not desperate to get back out there, but watching stuff like this is helping my already low self esteem and confidence. I just subscribed. Thanks for putting these out, you deserve more subs.

    • @howtobeast
      @howtobeast  Před 6 lety +13

      Welcome to the channel bro! And keep the momentum going, you are on the right track

    • @atylerpearce
      @atylerpearce Před 6 lety +10

      What Not To Do At a Stoplight She moved on years ago and forgot to tell me. I'm over it though. Just taking the time to work on me and be the best father I can be.

    • @tehjokur3344
      @tehjokur3344 Před 6 lety +2

      Just play your guitar in front of them. I see you're good at it and Girls love that :)

    • @atylerpearce
      @atylerpearce Před 6 lety +2

      Teh jokur Thanks. Kinda weird. I had a guitar for 10 yrs and never touched it or knew how to play it. Then I got divorced, and I can't put the guitar down :).

    • @dnsbb8033
      @dnsbb8033 Před 6 lety +4

      Tyler Pearce you can do this shit I fucking believe in you! You got this shit man! Hope to hear from you soon tell me your progress! Good luck have a nice day!

  • @morriahmcdonald4040
    @morriahmcdonald4040 Před 5 lety +172

    When she says "I have a bf." I always say one of two things;
    1." So do I." or
    2."Do you want another one?"

    • @pedrocorreia8504
      @pedrocorreia8504 Před 5 lety +22

      or you can ask her number and send her message saying "is ur bf dead already?"

    • @MatWro1010
      @MatWro1010 Před 4 lety +5

      I would say "here is my number, let me know after you broke up with him:)"

    • @blustgt8814
      @blustgt8814 Před 3 lety +2

      @@pedrocorreia8504 What dou you mean "no"? Didn't Dimitri do his job?

    • @uncle4334
      @uncle4334 Před 3 lety

      Her: I have a Bf
      Me: Then I’ll be your Man friend

    • @chrisfrank2295
      @chrisfrank2295 Před 3 lety

      Simple Simon

  • @cethxceth4751
    @cethxceth4751 Před 2 lety

    You the MVP Bruh !!!!!

  • @simphiwelehlohonolo4961

    Great awesome advice man👍

  • @d.rflash5803
    @d.rflash5803 Před 5 lety +538

    *doesn’t say name*
    “David incase you for got already”

    • @SMOOVHIM
      @SMOOVHIM Před 5 lety +18

      D.r Flash cause he smooooove

    • @David-tn9oi
      @David-tn9oi Před 4 lety +3

      D.r Flash 😂

    • @icyog128
      @icyog128 Před 4 lety +1

      Forgot*

    • @johnwaynewireman5262
      @johnwaynewireman5262 Před 4 lety +12

      It's a good way to make some one focus on the conversation because then they think ohhh did he tell me that ?

    • @maem7462
      @maem7462 Před 4 lety +2

      Thank you for also noticing I was looking trough the comments to see if someone else did. It’s very rude to say to someone in case you forgot already even when you tell them your name because it is implying that you think they are rude and don’t care when they could be bad at remembering names and be trying their best and they feel bad about that

  • @LotsaLOUD
    @LotsaLOUD Před 6 lety +2210

    I was going to say Chloroform but this method looks good aswell

  • @callumgibbard3065
    @callumgibbard3065 Před 2 lety

    Hey thanks for the advice man it really helped I might try that 👍

  • @adizavalkovsky2619
    @adizavalkovsky2619 Před rokem

    Thanks! Very helpful! I met Stav and we're very happy!

  • @colonelkaleb7061
    @colonelkaleb7061 Před 5 lety +601

    He said "I'm David in case you forgot already" in the first convo, even though he NEVER TOLD HER 😂

  • @BioTechEntertainment
    @BioTechEntertainment Před 6 lety +646

    This is how you can see if a girl gave you the right number. When you ask for it and she gives it to you, read it back to her BUT switch up one digit or 2. If she corrects you, it was the right number. If she doesn’t, then she dogged you.

    • @stevec.8411
      @stevec.8411 Před 6 lety +53

      good idea, but i have a better option:
      if she give her number, i type it in my phone (or better let her type it), and then call her right away so she have MY number, too.
      if her phone does not ring, its the wrong number....

    • @Battle_Productions
      @Battle_Productions Před 6 lety +137

      that's lame as fuck steve

    • @sanskardua4270
      @sanskardua4270 Před 6 lety +5

      BioTeck This is actually a great idea to check

    • @stevec.8411
      @stevec.8411 Před 6 lety +6

      Why is that lame?
      Because you give the Girl no Chance to give you a wrote number?
      And I always say her that I will call her now, so its no suprise for her.

    • @nestorenriquez3284
      @nestorenriquez3284 Před 6 lety

      Thanks for the tip bro

  • @krafthomage
    @krafthomage Před 2 lety +1

    I love your energy u gets a subscrib and thumbs up. And ima do the course

  • @romanvladimirovichpetrikov4947

    Thanks for the great advice! Any rejection is good for you!!

  • @Leggs013
    @Leggs013 Před 6 lety +1108

    Wish Ladies would start asking guys out! So they can get a taste of what guys go through.

    • @alldirty1370
      @alldirty1370 Před 6 lety +191

      Leggs013 the only taste they’d get is a bunch of guys in their mouth

    • @Police-Officer-Fan-Club
      @Police-Officer-Fan-Club Před 6 lety +82

      Well, it would be a lot easier to do that if there wasn't the social stigma about women being slutty/easy/desperate if she makes the first move. I mean, there's a difference between choosing to stay single to avoid drama and being single because you're the ugliest person in the world. Just saying...

    • @AustinGriffinAGENTERTAINMENT
      @AustinGriffinAGENTERTAINMENT Před 5 lety +35

      Damn straight, shy guy like me needs that, but I do feel like it's better to bite the bullet and speak up to help with self confidence

    • @gazagenaside1507
      @gazagenaside1507 Před 5 lety +2

      me too

    • @caebz2597
      @caebz2597 Před 5 lety +24

      good question, I don't lack confidence at all, but I always wondered like..we all know men initiate, but what if a woman is interested in a man? does she just wait and hope he notices her amongst the 20:1 woman to male ratio lol..like if she dont take action she will miss out.

  • @bahaatamer1245
    @bahaatamer1245 Před 3 lety +232

    1. Warm up (do socially awkward stuff to boost your confidence).
    2. Rejection is good (it's a confidence builder!).
    3. Assume attraction (assume she likes you already!).

    • @aem870
      @aem870 Před rokem +2

      Too much rejection can make you lose your confidence.

  • @musicwithgames9920
    @musicwithgames9920 Před 2 lety

    I like the way this guy is straight forward

  • @zeprincelini
    @zeprincelini Před 2 lety

    Great content my man

  • @electrictroy2010
    @electrictroy2010 Před 5 lety +683

    NOT A BIG DEAL.... once you realize you can be happy by yourself, women are less important. You simply approach them with honesty, and if they reject you, oh well. You are still happy as yourself
    .

    • @JojoBizarreAventure
      @JojoBizarreAventure Před 5 lety +13

      electrictroy2010 I think you just read my mind bro🎀

    • @user-ct7uj6ke2x
      @user-ct7uj6ke2x Před 5 lety +11

      That's the best and motivating comment! Gj bro 🔝

    • @juanrincon8777
      @juanrincon8777 Před 5 lety +11

      Very true! But do not let your game get rusty... trust, you can end up getting too comfortable and forget you might want someone to company you

    • @gd9279
      @gd9279 Před 5 lety +2

      Fucking incel

    • @Thematic2177
      @Thematic2177 Před 5 lety +8

      You can't be happy by yourself

  • @danielslaughter1102
    @danielslaughter1102 Před 4 lety +166

    Title: how to pick up girls works every time
    How to beast: rejection is good
    My brain: ?????

    • @uncleiroh4650
      @uncleiroh4650 Před 4 lety +5

      You really trusted a dude with "How to BEAST" as his channel name, lol. That's on you

    • @jayperson9988
      @jayperson9988 Před 4 lety

      It works everytime if you do it many times

    • @razakids6459
      @razakids6459 Před 3 lety +8

      @@uncleiroh4650 he actually aint wrong, rejection is needed at one point, he has been spot on

  • @vedmarth
    @vedmarth Před rokem +3

    Btw, me and my friends had lots of cases when they had boyfriends but still hooked up, often then appeared that that boyfriend either just a friend, or they have open relationships, or she has problems with him and want to break up or yeah, there were no boyfriend at all, and this is something she learned to say when she just feel not comfortable.

  • @coreyfish1616
    @coreyfish1616 Před 2 lety

    I gotta say though this is pretty real. I respect this guy.

  • @PatrickBateman191
    @PatrickBateman191 Před 4 lety +494

    It’s easy to pick up girls when you are young and good looking. Confidence helps, but good looks is more important.

    • @jesusmarquez9948
      @jesusmarquez9948 Před 3 lety +10

      Max Weber what about low self esteem

    • @jesusmarquez9948
      @jesusmarquez9948 Před 3 lety +19

      Max Weber there's something i have to admit in all my life i never approached a girl i already graduated high school and throughout my life and i regret it that i should have done it when i was in middle high i wanted to approach this one girl from my middle school she was in my first period science class

    • @jesusmarquez9948
      @jesusmarquez9948 Před 3 lety +5

      Max Weber what about character personality

    • @jesusmarquez9948
      @jesusmarquez9948 Před 3 lety +1

      Max Weber type too don't forget

    • @MrSmithie25
      @MrSmithie25 Před 3 lety +43

      @@jesusmarquez9948 No one cares about character. If you look not good enough, a woman will never know your character.

  • @philosonicop3444
    @philosonicop3444 Před 5 lety +204

    For those who aren't used to picking up girls on a regular basis is that getting the number is easy, getting the girl to respond afterwards via text is the real job. One thing he lacks is leaving a lasting impression which I didn't see. But yo love your vid! Keep it up!

    • @Mobilegamer761
      @Mobilegamer761 Před 5 lety +8

      Philosonic OP agreed getting the date afterwards too is quite difficult via text

    • @krazyfreddy
      @krazyfreddy Před 5 lety +1

      Its because he didn't include a narrative so the girl probably won't remember the interaction

    • @zamhiua
      @zamhiua Před 5 lety +1

      I met a girl for the first time, talked with her, she found me on Facebook and before the week ended she fell in love with me and is nuts for me.

    • @Geo-wc7jc
      @Geo-wc7jc Před 5 lety +6

      Trapper The Money Lucky bastard

    • @devin2489
      @devin2489 Před 5 lety

      Fredy Lee what do you mean?

  • @paullaringlabya4829
    @paullaringlabya4829 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for the tips very helpful

  • @arieldietz8574
    @arieldietz8574 Před 2 lety

    nice work !

  • @MufazaPT
    @MufazaPT Před 6 lety +88

    I can tell this guy is legit , its nice to see videos like this

  • @BrianGG
    @BrianGG Před 6 lety +321

    Definitely works! An additional warm up tip that works is to start conversations with random people to get into a social mood. Talking to girls is easier when you're able to relax and feel comfortable talking to everyone regardless of looks, status, age, etc.

    • @howtobeast
      @howtobeast  Před 6 lety +17

      Good tip

    • @rsingh2595
      @rsingh2595 Před 6 lety +1

      fact

    • @tylere.8436
      @tylere.8436 Před 2 lety

      Also talk to her as if you just want to be friends and not pressure her into being your wife, wrong thought process, you need the long term strategy.

    • @user-sv8qg6qq8l
      @user-sv8qg6qq8l Před rokem

      Excellent​❗🥰🥰 I​ wish you​ successful in​ your​ Love.

  • @loganthomas2446
    @loganthomas2446 Před 2 lety +1

    epic post brodie my confidence is Beastin fr (see what i did there? like how to beast? lol) anyway sick post definitely gonna keep using these methods

  • @non-logical1933
    @non-logical1933 Před rokem +1

    This is the point i reached that pushed me to search videos like this.

  • @davidquick5894
    @davidquick5894 Před 5 lety +263

    Those tips were actually quite helpful. I'm disabled but it's helped my confidence. Hopefully being in a wheelchair won't hamper my "beast"

    • @supravak8481
      @supravak8481 Před 5 lety +19

      David Quick of course ur beast. Go get it!

    • @chess74u
      @chess74u Před 5 lety +8

      @@supravak8481 hell yeah you get even more motivation thats why u will succssed

    • @al7oral3amily48
      @al7oral3amily48 Před 4 lety

      Watch Sean Stephenson

    • @SupergamerPRO3
      @SupergamerPRO3 Před 4 lety +2

      YOOO u go get em man!!!

    • @DirtRider999
      @DirtRider999 Před 4 lety +1

      Have a long time friend. Got into a car accident became para.Years ago. Gets more hot girls than ever have. Hes just an awesome dude. Best of luck sir.

  • @SomeOne-xx5po
    @SomeOne-xx5po Před 3 lety +258

    Chics will most times give out their number out of sympathy. Getting them to respond to texts n calls is another thing.

    • @charlesjohnson4864
      @charlesjohnson4864 Před 3 lety +18

      Facts

    • @maul8384
      @maul8384 Před 2 lety +51

      They just do it to get you away faster and then go home crying “all men ain’t shit”

    • @firedodger1265
      @firedodger1265 Před 2 lety +12

      Damn now that’s the hard cold truth 🥶

    • @sanelerudolph3758
      @sanelerudolph3758 Před 2 lety +2

      Facts lol

    • @TimXMan1000
      @TimXMan1000 Před 2 lety +19

      A lot of dudes are actually crazy and they just don't want to anger them or get those kind of guys upset. So they just give out the number and walk away to avoid a scene or someone potentially aggressive

  • @Zenfix1
    @Zenfix1 Před rokem +1

    You are beautiful because of the light you carry inside you. You are beautiful because you say you are, and you hold yourself that way.

  • @billiamnasta7195
    @billiamnasta7195 Před rokem

    thank you man, u give us the example