Thank you Zulu. I needed this. This is what am facing now, am the first child and daughter 37yrs not yet married with family on my shoulder. Working for 3years in Dubai yet no savings. Am so overwhelm
My God😅😅the way I struggle needing My family to be well off,am the first born, so I think if I can wait until I make 40 then atleast I would get married and sit down by not hustling alot God have mercy, responsibilities are many now how can we smile for men 😂 when that time the family is requesting u abc and ur planning u do this and that put work hehehe but thxs alot for the show🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥
@ Sylivia Muyama Cover your family first the best you can before you get married..it is only you who understands where you come from and how connected you are and the bond you share,marriage is all good and be marriage there was your family. when you ‘carry’ your family into your own family,trust you me it won’t go so well with your partner..you will accomplish the desires of your heart through God’s grace.
Try God’s way, seek God’s wisdom and pray not only for Godly marriage but for a spouse that truelly loves God … Put God first in everything you do, don’t let the world theories fool you ….
Wooooiiii I'm the second born but the first born Yani we changed roles with my big siz...😂🤣 Aki si kupenda ni Hali ya maisha...🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️😂🤣 Dhambi nimebeba Kwa hii talk...my goodness cheiiii fada lawddd 😂🤣
Iam 43 a widow, and I find out very difficult to change my life style of dressing as married women.iam no longer feel comfortable to wear those short things because iam long lady but iam always wearing mature and looking good and someone told me man are afraid of me, because iam still looking like someone who still married.
Ain't a lady bt l understand marriage isn't for everyone...at times it requires u to listen attentively to yr calling...some are brought up only to be deputy parents not being married ...pliz don't disagree with me🤣😂😂😂😂😂
Conversations centered around men are very unfair to women. Why can't the men man up to catch up to the lady. I hate such conversations. Ladies just be you. If he comes he comes. If he doesn't then love your self extra
Please understand what he is saying. Even somalis wear nice things under the hijab. Their husbands see them looking good. Also his advise is based on different dating culture. Arranged marriages make it easier for the Somali people that subscribe to it.
Don't get so used to loneliness that you forget that love is still an option
Thank you Zulu. I needed this. This is what am facing now, am the first child and daughter 37yrs not yet married with family on my shoulder. Working for 3years in Dubai yet no savings. Am so overwhelm
You can’t play when you have an injury. Thank you Benjamin
Kwani u guyz r talking about me 😒😏🤔Uuuuuwwiii 🙆🏽♀️ 🔥 🔥
My God😅😅the way I struggle needing My family to be well off,am the first born, so I think if I can wait until I make 40 then atleast I would get married and sit down by not hustling alot God have mercy, responsibilities are many now how can we smile for men 😂 when that time the family is requesting u abc and ur planning u do this and that put work hehehe but thxs alot for the show🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥
Let them struggle too, give yourself the first priority.
Let them struggle too, give yourself the first priority.
Try to find a balance. It's hard but try to put yourself first.
I hear you gal🥰🤗
@ Sylivia Muyama
Cover your family first the best you can before you get married..it is only you who understands where you come from and how connected you are and the bond you share,marriage is all good and be marriage there was your family. when you ‘carry’ your family into your own family,trust you me it won’t go so well with your partner..you will accomplish the desires of your heart through God’s grace.
Benjamin you are so real,,,,, this is so relatable.,. much love Mwikali and Zulu, the show is litest 😂😂
Try God’s way, seek God’s wisdom and pray not only for Godly marriage but for a spouse that truelly loves God … Put God first in everything you do, don’t let the world theories fool you ….
I like that Benjamin....somea kabisa
Napenda hii
You so right bruh! I concur with you 💯#keep it up & advice them👏
Benjamin needs to talk about self sabotage as well...
I see my big bro in this conversation, I almost joined him 'responsible'😃this life owada
The pain that came with heart break you cannot even peep in that window in the love house.
I think getting guidance is the key first.
Benjamin you're the best,The show is 🔥😅😅
Wow aki this is me as the firstborn and everything you are saying here it's true, now I see where I went wrong, thank for this topic👏
I now see why iam single at 30 and never dated even at once.
Waa I now see
The truths he is spitting though 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
For real! Lol
Talk di tings dem! Good video!
I love this show.
Sasa anzeni kudress ladies and post them for us, sisi masingles tutaomoke na rie’ng 😁
Wooooiiii I'm the second born but the first born Yani we changed roles with my big siz...😂🤣 Aki si kupenda ni Hali ya maisha...🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️😂🤣 Dhambi nimebeba Kwa hii talk...my goodness cheiiii fada lawddd 😂🤣
True Benjamin.good girls we are struggling no marriage haki
Hahahaha eeei Mwiks "...maybe it's your smile.."
😂😂😂 Rearry?
The first sin i was "sliced" vilivyo😂😂😂😂 I'm just 26
Napenda hii👍😍
Good content Benjamin
Nguo ni ya first floor second floor...🤣
Brilliant advice..
Point at home about parents,I was also affected by the same but today iam feel from they back control
Iam 43 a widow, and I find out very difficult to change my life style of dressing as married women.iam no longer feel comfortable to wear those short things because iam long lady but iam always wearing mature and looking good and someone told me man are afraid of me, because iam still looking like someone who still married.
Engaging the boy part. True but funny 😂
Cheiii!!are you people addressing me? I'm only 26 but responsibility are overwhelming.
Eish, lady boss😅
All in all.....let me remain a single divorced mum..
Kitu Benjamin amebakisha sasa ni kujua kucheka kiplan yaani na mpango😂😂😂 sio hio design anaachilia mdomo😂😂😂
Brilliant!!
Awesome 👌
Ain't a lady bt l understand marriage isn't for everyone...at times it requires u to listen attentively to yr calling...some are brought up only to be deputy parents not being married ...pliz don't disagree with me🤣😂😂😂😂😂
Benja Benja Benja
Am called deputy parent by siblings
Mmmmmmh🤔🤔🤔🤔now I know where am going wrong.....
🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰Eish thank you Benja and mary
Mine is not even a triangle, I only go to job n back to my house
By choice good
Gosh I am 23 😂😂😂 my boyfriend proposed and I agreed😍 if I die I die.
Bitter truth
Yes she is 40 and yes there is hope.
Your character is not visible
🤣🤣🤣character not visible
Conversations centered around men are very unfair to women. Why can't the men man up to catch up to the lady. I hate such conversations. Ladies just be you. If he comes he comes. If he doesn't then love your self extra
💯
Huyo Joyce Mwikali yeye mwenyewe kwisha olewa?? Ama anabakia hapo kuuliza maswali na kuchekacheka
No Mr. Benja don't mock people's dress code. The most married young people are somaliz but dress descently
Please understand what he is saying. Even somalis wear nice things under the hijab. Their husbands see them looking good. Also his advise is based on different dating culture. Arranged marriages make it easier for the Somali people that subscribe to it.
Briliant mind there