4 Tips for Active Listening | Jim Kwik

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  • Are you an effective listener? Learning how to be an active listener will change your learning and your life. Improving your listening will help you to engage, to focus, and to be present.
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    0:00 Active listening skills
    2:27 Be silent
    3:23 Seek first to understand
    5:18 Ask more questions
    7:04 Paraphrasing
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Komentáře • 98

  • @JimKwik
    @JimKwik  Před rokem +28

    Subscribe so we can stay in touch and learn together! 🧠
    Drop a like in this video if you found it helpful. 👍

    • @Roylamx
      @Roylamx Před rokem

      PLEASE note that almost every reply in comments is from SCAMMERS!

    • @mahsamajmarian2388
      @mahsamajmarian2388 Před rokem

      Thank you

    • @zelenme
      @zelenme Před rokem

      hi new here just now found your channel 😊

  • @alishaduhon8236
    @alishaduhon8236 Před rokem +2

    Thank you so much Jim such valuable information

  • @blackhairverse6361
    @blackhairverse6361 Před rokem

    Subscribed!!!!! This is good information and easy to embed🙌🏾. Thank you

  • @theinnerworkclub6060
    @theinnerworkclub6060 Před rokem

    Life changing. This is something I’ve been praying on and these practical tips are so so appreciated ❤😊

  • @noah.hamrick
    @noah.hamrick Před rokem +5

    I used to be a 3-4 on listening but would rate myself a 7-8 now and still working on improving. The reason it was so bad is I would overthink the conversation, whether it was thinking about something else related to how I responded or thinking about how I would respond before the other person was done talking. Both of these things distracted me from listening to the other person’s response or the second half of whatever they would say. I’ve been forcing myself to keep my thoughts surface level and not sink into my own mind so much, it has enabled me to have deeper conversations and create deeper connections with those I spend my time with. The easiest way is to literally just listen intentionally and respond when they are done talking. Staying focused is hard, but if you force yourself, it gets easier every time and eventually becomes a habit. I’d say that’s worth the investment.

  • @sridevishyamaprasad1963
    @sridevishyamaprasad1963 Před rokem +1

    Wow never thought in this way. Will help so much to me to improve my listening skills. Thanks for sharing.

  • @rabbykazwala6149
    @rabbykazwala6149 Před rokem +2

    From the time i met Jim's content am not the same .thank you Jim Kwik

  • @sohasaber8494
    @sohasaber8494 Před rokem

    So helpful, thank you

  • @thecuriouscaseofkianathoma8354

    I'm a great listener. I enjoy hearing what others have to say. It is so much more stimulating for me to listen.

  • @muhammadaliahmadov1383
    @muhammadaliahmadov1383 Před rokem +2

    I used to be 4-5, but nowadays it increased a lot to 7-8 and it means I have to work for the peak result, Brilliant Jim 🔥

  • @ruthmwangi7527
    @ruthmwangi7527 Před rokem

    Thank you Jim Kwik

  • @dr.mrsijeomaakinwumi302

    Thanks Jim. I really see how this will be effective.

  • @mileslegend
    @mileslegend Před rokem +1

    i am 7 on the scale of listening ....am glad am changing aleady.. cant wait for the lecture to begin to practice my HEAR strategy

  • @msuchwani3572
    @msuchwani3572 Před rokem

    Very helpfully lesson 🙏

  • @mayankverma9267
    @mayankverma9267 Před rokem

    Thnx

  • @kalyanimulukutula3031

    Jim u r inspiring and love 💕 u

  • @elisachin9330
    @elisachin9330 Před rokem +2

    I need to work on my listening skills by seeking to understand and asking more questions.

  • @karenwilliamson6530
    @karenwilliamson6530 Před rokem

    I’m a 3 listening skills Jim is great from this I will listen more !!!

  • @lucilleshelton9711
    @lucilleshelton9711 Před rokem

    8 --- Love the Acronyms!!!!

  • @souleymanediallo6902
    @souleymanediallo6902 Před rokem +3

    It’s pretty interested to listening these skills

  • @gilbertoppongjunior1
    @gilbertoppongjunior1 Před rokem +1

    Nice one

  • @danielf1051
    @danielf1051 Před rokem

    Thanks Jim, for the tips for active listening. Although I find listening and understanding things hard when people talk to me, I remember to write notes down. Also, I am not going to forget the acronym you were discussing because I find it is important to keep it in mind when listening to anyone: Halt, Empathy, Anticipate, and Review.

  • @oshiablackirish7749
    @oshiablackirish7749 Před rokem

    Recommended your video & I've been binging you today, very helpful information in each "new subscriber and new to juggling 😅"

  • @nataliesoutlet
    @nataliesoutlet Před rokem +2

    As someone with ADHD, this is all so valuable and reminds me of why I’m often told by my husband I’m not a great listener lol thanks Jim!

    • @mehtarahul1419891
      @mehtarahul1419891 Před 8 měsíci

      excuse me, eye contact is creepy. It shows you're staring. Always watch on floor.

  • @yadnyang
    @yadnyang Před rokem +3

    I like the way Jim calls us quick student or Kwik student ! This is amazing and empowering ! Jim is excellent at using the perfect words for perfect emotions ! It's a great delight learning human skills from you Jim ! ☺️💐 Thank you very much !

  • @donnagrundy4342
    @donnagrundy4342 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this! I’m sorry to say I’m not the greatest of a listener. Probably a 4. I’m going to take this info to heart and begin my practice today while having coffee with my dear friend. 😊

  • @TheRyanperez
    @TheRyanperez Před rokem

    I'm 50 percent active listener. I need to improve my anticipation and review. Thanks.

  • @joanbelair4838
    @joanbelair4838 Před rokem +1

    As a new student to the Functional Medicine Coaching Academy, HEAR is a good acronym to have in my arsenal. On the create side of my notes I asked How can I be a better 'questioner'?

  • @bhanupanwar8391
    @bhanupanwar8391 Před rokem +1

    Inspirational from you like always❤️

  • @AlamoCityCello
    @AlamoCityCello Před rokem +5

    Jim, excellent video! I sometimes struggle with conversational listening. I tend to over-talk and vent. Something I need to work on. Your instructions are a God send. Blessings bro!!

    • @sakshid12
      @sakshid12 Před rokem +1

      Me too 🤞🏻 way to go

    • @PunsandPixels
      @PunsandPixels Před rokem

      This is me too. And after the fact I’m thinking “Why did I talk so much?!”

  • @michaelmode
    @michaelmode Před rokem

    I'm a 4. “H” I need to halt more. Thanks so much.

  • @abdallahaaserahman5245

    Ahh you are publishing all of Kwik student lessons slowly ,That's great but wish It was published before I bought it :(

  • @jameswright5627
    @jameswright5627 Před rokem

    Loved this. How would this technique work for someone who has never heard sound before?

    • @_tamiks
      @_tamiks Před rokem +1

      I think Jim's techniques are general enough to apply to non-sound based communication, like sign language or writing

  • @nickbeatrice3676
    @nickbeatrice3676 Před rokem +1

    Great video! I always seem to have the most trouble continuing to listen while also slowing down to take notes ! I find i need to constantly record lectures in order to hear everything said because as im taking notes i tend to have to catch up once i stop writing, and can miss important pieces

  • @orah12185
    @orah12185 Před rokem

    I am not a great listener because I want to impress. I do try to review what was said. I like the quote from maya Angelou. Thanks.

  • @arthuroleary9859
    @arthuroleary9859 Před rokem

    I found this helpful a lot. I haven't done nor ben to your google apps in a while. I have been so busy with my activities. An working on my speed reading an working it each day. Following your Video Jim. My rate for listening , i wanna say an 8. Because, I'm always trying to Multitask and say to build it and working and preparing for My Goals, an especially working on. All of the importance of tasks and listening to people, too. Thank you for this Video. I will come back to review it again.

  • @lauriewilliams5449
    @lauriewilliams5449 Před rokem +2

    I think I'm at a 6 for listening skills. I could definitely improve a lot. My thinking is very slow and I often forget simple words. My processing speed seems to be slowing down as well. Sometimes I think about how I'm going to respond before they are done speaking so that I don't seam slow or stupid. I will try to stop doing this and see what happens. Thank you for the tips and suggestions. I appreciate it!

  • @irisportillo2529
    @irisportillo2529 Před rokem

    Quiero aprender muchísimo 🧠🙏🙏🙏🙏🧠🧠🧠📚📖📖🧠📖🧠🧠🙏

  • @joycemayert
    @joycemayert Před rokem

  • @danielf1051
    @danielf1051 Před rokem

    I would give myself 7/10 because I need to work on asking more questions and listening carefully to people.

  • @cartyleadershipcenter8321

    Thanks Jim. I like the acronym. I am a 7 on a scale of 1 to 10. I do all four items. A 7 means however that I have 30% potential for growth, so I am looking forward to diving into more of your content.

  • @philipw4849
    @philipw4849 Před rokem

    6. I need to work on empathy

  • @melissaszarka7755
    @melissaszarka7755 Před rokem

    anticipate is a little bit unclear....get silent & listen is maybe the hardest part to quiet my own mind

  • @imamagician195
    @imamagician195 Před měsícem

    I only have H in my listening, need to improve E,A and R

  • @TheTheCriticX
    @TheTheCriticX Před rokem

    In the middle of something I am always taken by my Thoughts.
    How can I control that ?

  • @berditacontreras6818
    @berditacontreras6818 Před rokem

    Your topic sir is very informative. I am with you because i really observe that listening is the most difficult skill for our audience to acquire because they are preoccupied with other matters as they try to listen to the speaker. Tnx so much for sharing such thought provoking information. Will you allow me to share your ideas with my fellows?

  • @boutchouangelija-fj3en

    6/10

  • @codescype
    @codescype Před rokem

    I believe as much as I am mostly able to Halt, Empathy, and Anticipate, I need to improve on review.
    It was actually funny that I wanted to move out to the next thing I wanted to do before I remembered even though this isn't a conversation, I out to review what I just heard on this video😁.
    Thank you🙇🏾‍♂ Jim Kwik

  • @ebonewashington9387
    @ebonewashington9387 Před rokem

    I’m a 5. I need to work on Halting and Reviewing

  • @RawingEndeavours
    @RawingEndeavours Před rokem +1

    I practice listening with a group l'm part of ie An Empathy Circle which uses principles and a process from the work of Marshall Rosenberg in Non Violent Communication:. The process involves Observation rather than evaluation, identify Feelings and Needs, and make a Request rather than a demand. It is a method used to resolve conflict and is training in the art of truly listening to a person wholistically.

  • @sindyrobles136
    @sindyrobles136 Před rokem

    I always be an empathy person.....

  • @sosiweledie6926
    @sosiweledie6926 Před 10 měsíci

    How to learn english language ???

  • @harshitagoenka9988
    @harshitagoenka9988 Před rokem

    3-4.. i’m a bad listener..always waiting my turn can hardly wait to tell my side of the story😅

  • @Gameonprobro
    @Gameonprobro Před rokem

    HEAR the key to be the rizzler

  • @andreamichelledelacruzorti2008

    LO NECESITO EN ESPAÑOL 😭 I NEED SPANISH

  • @JayashreSindagi
    @JayashreSindagi Před rokem

    Hi, if im try to listen carefully, my mind thinks something else or i will start sleep easily why is this?

  • @leigh-andraolivier8175
    @leigh-andraolivier8175 Před 2 měsíci

    I'd rate myself a 2-3 and I could do with improving my Hearing aka not interrupting

  • @ruchikakaushik429
    @ruchikakaushik429 Před rokem +1

    My listening skill is 5. I tried but can't resist myself to speak. But every day is a new day so i will be keep improving myself.

  • @sirabrantee6212
    @sirabrantee6212 Před rokem

    Jim you really inspiring
    This information came at the right time
    Am very good active listen but you open my eye to a different new world today.
    Wow

  • @sosiweledie6926
    @sosiweledie6926 Před 10 měsíci

    How to change a bad habit in day to day life ???

  • @shamtsegazgi2130
    @shamtsegazgi2130 Před rokem

    I would give myself a 6/10 because I need to work on EMPATHY and REVIEW. And thank you, Jim ❤

  • @dawdadarboe3548
    @dawdadarboe3548 Před rokem +1

    My rate of listening : 1-6

  • @JayashreSindagi
    @JayashreSindagi Před rokem

    If i watch movies i can easily remember every scenes and dialogues but if i read book hardly i remember words are sentences why is this?

  • @luisv7262
    @luisv7262 Před rokem

    Can you repeat this message again I wasn't listening

  • @blanchardpeggy9189
    @blanchardpeggy9189 Před rokem +55

    Amazing video and thank you for breaking it down!! Despite the economic downturn, I'm so happy have been earning $ 60,000 returns from my $7,000 investment every 10days..

    • @pamatkins-burdette9125
      @pamatkins-burdette9125 Před rokem

      She is also my personal trader, crypto analyst and account manager. With an initial invested capital of $8000,it yielded returns of over $22000 within two weeks of trading. I was really impressed by the profit Actualized

    • @pamatkins-burdette9125
      @pamatkins-burdette9125 Před rokem

      @Anne Philomena Oh yeah She is always active on whats-app APK🇱🇷

    • @pamatkins-burdette9125
      @pamatkins-burdette9125 Před rokem

      @Anne Philomena she will guide you ☝️

    • @zamorajessica7795
      @zamorajessica7795 Před rokem

      How do start trading with her, keep seeing her name pop up all over the place and I and my family are interested👍

    • @grandpastone
      @grandpastone Před rokem

      Her trading strategy is also working for me at the moment. I'm pushing it already up $50,000 in profits so far...

  • @irisportillo2529
    @irisportillo2529 Před rokem

    Jim kwik 😂📖📖📖📖📚🧠🧠🧠🙏🙏🧠🧠🧠🧠🧠🧠🧠👂🏻👂🏻🧠🧠

  • @Munnaali-od7dd
    @Munnaali-od7dd Před rokem +17

    SIR,How to control our EMOTIONS during extreme joy and sorrow . Please guide us 🙏

    • @mustafaansari9693
      @mustafaansari9693 Před rokem

      I also need good direction on this topic ☺️

    • @IamwhoIam333
      @IamwhoIam333 Před rokem +2

      Just start by BREATHING and counting to ten before opening your mouth.
      Then remember you don't owe anyone an explanation , anything you say is on you .
      You don't have to place yourself into their drama in their head, we choose to
      So own up to your shortcomings and character defects and just listen. Maybe they don't want to hear your opinion, they just want someone to JUST LISTEN.

    • @palwinderkaur2237
      @palwinderkaur2237 Před rokem +2

      In my opinion you are very right. Some people just want that someone hear them out so they can empty themselves. They want any comments or advice they just want a listening ear.

  • @projectiscoming
    @projectiscoming Před 7 měsíci

    3/10

  • @Gameonprobro
    @Gameonprobro Před rokem

    I would rate myself an eight cuz i always ask questions

  • @hans_____
    @hans_____ Před rokem

    Wait, sorry, did you say something?
    jk. Thanks!!

  • @pratikmore1900
    @pratikmore1900 Před rokem +1

    Hey Sir, I'm from India 🇮🇳 & my name is Varun. I want to tell you something that I like your videos very much. When I was trying to do Lucid Dream, I always used to get frustrated because I couldn't do Lucid Dream, but when I saw your Lucid Dream video, I had the motivation to dream Lucid...
    Btw, Love From India 🇮🇳 ❤️🇮🇳...

  • @isaacsarpong9762
    @isaacsarpong9762 Před rokem +1

    Sir please how can I learn and not forget

  • @mehtarahul1419891
    @mehtarahul1419891 Před 8 měsíci

    actual video starts from 2.24, before that he wants to increase his watch time.

  • @Diamartin
    @Diamartin Před rokem

    when tf should I review and reflect when teacher just keeps talking for 45mins straight

  • @bapsymcdowall9574
    @bapsymcdowall9574 Před rokem

    More of young people shud listen and ask questions, rather than playing games on line, watching filthy videos, going against parents, gambling, addiction etc etc..

  • @Khushee116
    @Khushee116 Před rokem

    ADHD makes it worse for me🥺😖

  • @kathleenpowers3371
    @kathleenpowers3371 Před rokem

    sad i had to listen three times shame on me

  • @mehtarahul1419891
    @mehtarahul1419891 Před 8 měsíci

    This is old method unaffective,
    People like me who have ADHD use following : -
    1. Eye contact is creepy, specially when you're talkin to women. They thing you're staring.
    Always watch on floor and never move your head.
    2. Don't nod your head, it distracts. Don't say aha aha.
    3. Paraphrase, try to repeat in your mind what they are saying.

  • @jeromebiznesmanbatubo1496

    Nice one .. how can I learn more