@christietimmreck-byrd7503 STFUUUU, stop invalidating OUR experiences. She said BLACK MEN not all men. If you feel that it’s all men, make YOUR OWN post tf. Gtf on whitey
Reedy you a TRUE Virgo. Able to communicate and hold yourself accountable and really get to the bottom of some shit. Able to really think and use your mind to dissect how you feel.
I truly think this conversation was needed for both of y’all , I love how y’all both gave each other time to just express how y’all was feeling, not only that but y’all apologized for y’all wrong doings during the time, Truly pray thos conversation make y’all stronger
Reedy you really are a good person with a good heart. Aside from being a good woman and a good mother you are just a good person. I can relate to you so much because I feel like life ain’t been fair to me either and I just don’t get why. Thank you for these videos.
THANK YOU REEDY FOR BEING YOU!!!!!!! You are expressing yourself so honestly. You just remind me of myself so much with your personality. You look like a beautiful baby doll! Keep'em coming
That man love you Reedy. At least he's there trying to work it out with you and be a father to y'all kids. The fact that he's sitting there talking about his feelings speaks volumes. 💯
Real raw video, this is so rare these days. Appreciate you both for the authenticity and sending much strength, peace and blessings to you both as you continue your journey.
I’m not gonna talk down on him. He has potential and he seem like a decent dude. I would love to see y’all talk through this again in more depth. It might take time to go deep and really unpack all the emotions but it’s so important to do. If not on camera, then just the two of y’all.
💚 It's apparent that you love one another. Love is seeking to understand FIRST, then seeking to be understood. And it seems like that's what you both set out to do with this video. Y'all went through an awful life event. Remember to grant grace to each other and yourselves as you continue to heal. 💚
I appreciate you guys having this conversation. I don’t have any children but to lose one I couldn’t imagine. My condolences to your family and many many more blessings 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I feel for you both and I feel for him because as a man, he feels like he has to suffocate his true emotions behind what’s going on with him so that is definitely being spilled into his every day life
I love how this channel is so real raw and uncut I'm so sorry for both of your loss as a parent who's lost a child I can relate even though my situation was different as my daughter was barely 20 and it was sudden and totally unexpected but still I can relate and I think it's different for mothers that have carried a child in their womb for 1o months then it is for the father, the pain is no less but it runs deeper and longer for the mother in my opinion
Just found your channel I sincerely still give my condolences to you. I loved how the both of you came together for the baby abs the video. The lifetime part took me out you said should u take notes lol, he was basically like now you tripping 😂 🤣, I hope you have a beautiful holiday
This seems like it was a well needed conversation. Reedy I can see that you still have some resentment towards him . Maybe one day you 2 can go to counseling together and work on your grief together.
Reedy some females don’t care they just want they time also I agree with dad about his childhood,We can’t make them be what we need I think dad didn’t know how to handle his only daughter being sick ,dads are different when it come to there daughter,you both was grieving y’all just handle it differently wishing you both Blessings 🙏🏾❤️
Yall may have helped each other on this one. First I was thinking he has some maturing to do. Then he made the statement that he had to grow up fast and now that he is older he is reverting to his childish ways. Most men don't even realize this. At least he is acknowledging his behavior. I commend him on trying to communicate and express his feelings on the touchy subjects. Keep the videos coming!
Shes pretty and hes getting on my nerves not answering the questions that were asked..i understand him not wanting to see his baby in that state but by him seeing how baby girl reacted everytime he stepped in the room couldve been the motivation for baby girl to fight harder..always be there for your babies they need you and are farrr more important than any other person
This was a powerful message. This goes to show you how stuff can look like it’s all good on social media but behind closed doors it’s a lot ppl go through… Love y’all two❤️🔥
It seems like he struggles with a lot of internal issues. I see depression, a little anger, and rejection..hopefully he gets counseling. It’s ready important especially for our black men..they never feel good enough
I love this conversation between y’all but just tell him you expected him to be 10 toes down with you while you we’re going through it and show you how important you and you family is to him. 💕
Cheating and the loss of a child is a lot you all are young men tend to blame the woman for their cheating accountability on the man's part of cheating is the key to healing in that area wether he continues or not if a woman love's you she stickin it out till she fed up, loosing a child for a mother's point of view there's no words anyone can say just when she down hold her tight it's been 26 years sense I lost my baby boy tears fall to this day stay positive and keep smiling you have an angel looking out for you for life.... Sending prayers for strength and healing to your family....
I can definitely understand.. especially when you said his dad was there more often than he was. Since he was really there did he ever ask to communicate with how she was doing or if he checked up on y’all .
ion like how he act so nonchalant about the situation and how he deflected when you was asking certain things. He seem so unbothered or careless about it. We also can barely hear him..
Yall was both in pain. Experiencing something so traumatic. No one can tell you how to feel when they have never been through this. I'll stilll keep you all in my prayers 🙏
He isn’t a bad man, He was going thru it as well, that was very hard on the both of you! I watched this along with my man and we said the same thing at the sametime; it was very obvious that Tut was grieving as well and when you needed him he needed you, he just didn’t know how to be there for you in the way that you needed him to! Y’all both need to go to grief counseling because it’s obvious y’all love each other and will be together! But y’all don’t need to resent one another for that tragic love experience! I LOVE THE RAW TRUTH
You expressing your hurt and tryna tell him the things that caused the disconnect between y’all. He interrupt to say well tell me some good stuff. It’s not about the good rn. We can get to that too but rn we talking about this. I can see all the pain on your face when you talking to him about these things. And it’s like he just don’t get it. And not because he’s not an intelligent man, but because he just don’t want to.
Ok this my last comment on it cause I’m doing a lot. But can we get a video of him talking about his life and upbringing?? It don’t have to be as in depth as yours but just how he came to be who he is. Only if he comfortable
I like y’all together i see the love ill just say this from experience, if you gone forgive forgive; don’t keep harboring bad feelings I promise when you let it go y’all will be okay
he constantly deflecting idk he not taking the conversation serious or don't really seem to care. & he could've been grieving and most of us don't know how to but it seems like he just don't even remember those moments like he was there but mentally he wasn't on his end and on your end. He act like he didn't feel or don't feel anything even now. You asked how hr felt bout her bday & he starting talking about life understanding not even saying what he felt then in that moment. He is constantly deflecting and joking & you really expressing your true feelings. But virgo we really sit down an breakdown our thoughts and feelings.
I think this, especially the joking, is a coping mechanism and a way to not get too into his feelings. It seems he's not too keen on opening up the way Reedy is at this moment, and that is okay. Not to mention he's being put on the spot on camera. However, I noticed when he looked sad in his eyes and took a few moments to get his point across he did get cut off so he never finished what he was going to say. Grieving looks different for everyone.
This needs to be a series. Maybe read our comments and move up to another level. I’m not trying to compare you to Jess and her bd but it took forever but it started like this. As a black man it took him a long time to warm up and express himself. It was some instances it was cringy when he was uncomfortable. But it’s very organic… he needed a break 😊 😍
Men feel like if you are not showing appreciation they turn completely off from us!they don’t see the bigger picture!they are very selfish without even understanding why!they don’t sit down and ask themselves why or anything they just move and don’t really think!
It’s hard for a black man to express their emotions. Death is hard for anyone especially a child.
Thank you both for being transparent.
Any man period they are all like that with that with their emotions, I guess I should say manly man instead of every man lol
@christietimmreck-byrd7503 STFUUUU, stop invalidating OUR experiences. She said BLACK MEN not all men. If you feel that it’s all men, make YOUR OWN post tf. Gtf on whitey
Reedy you a TRUE Virgo. Able to communicate and hold yourself accountable and really get to the bottom of some shit. Able to really think and use your mind to dissect how you feel.
I truly think this conversation was needed for both of y’all , I love how y’all both gave each other time to just express how y’all was feeling, not only that but y’all apologized for y’all wrong doings during the time, Truly pray thos conversation make y’all stronger
Reedy you really are a good person with a good heart. Aside from being a good woman and a good mother you are just a good person. I can relate to you so much because I feel like life ain’t been fair to me either and I just don’t get why. Thank you for these videos.
I agree i love this lady
THANK YOU REEDY FOR BEING YOU!!!!!!! You are expressing yourself so honestly. You just remind me of myself so much with your personality. You look like a beautiful baby doll! Keep'em coming
That man love you Reedy. At least he's there trying to work it out with you and be a father to y'all kids. The fact that he's sitting there talking about his feelings speaks volumes. 💯
Stay strong tuk r reedy ya heard me 💪🏽💯
Real raw video, this is so rare these days. Appreciate you both for the authenticity and sending much strength, peace and blessings to you both as you continue your journey.
I’m not gonna talk down on him. He has potential and he seem like a decent dude. I would love to see y’all talk through this again in more depth. It might take time to go deep and really unpack all the emotions but it’s so important to do. If not on camera, then just the two of y’all.
The chemistry is sooo strong there. You can tell the way you look at them. I love it.
💚 It's apparent that you love one another. Love is seeking to understand FIRST, then seeking to be understood. And it seems like that's what you both set out to do with this video. Y'all went through an awful life event. Remember to grant grace to each other and yourselves as you continue to heal. 💚
I love these consistent vids 💕💕💕💕
I appreciate you guys having this conversation. I don’t have any children but to lose one I couldn’t imagine. My condolences to your family and many many more blessings 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thanks to both of y’all for being so transparent. Death is hard especially the lost of a child
I feel for you both and I feel for him because as a man, he feels like he has to suffocate his true emotions behind what’s going on with him so that is definitely being spilled into his every day life
I’m sorry for your loss praying for y’all
I love how this channel is so real raw and uncut I'm so sorry for both of your loss as a parent who's lost a child I can relate even though my situation was different as my daughter was barely 20 and it was sudden and totally unexpected but still I can relate and I think it's different for mothers that have carried a child in their womb for 1o months then it is for the father, the pain is no less but it runs deeper and longer for the mother in my opinion
You and your man speaking so openly not only helping you and I know your story will help someone.
Just found your channel I sincerely still give my condolences to you. I loved how the both of you came together for the baby abs the video. The lifetime part took me out you said should u take notes lol, he was basically like now you tripping 😂 🤣, I hope you have a beautiful holiday
This seems like it was a well needed conversation. Reedy I can see that you still have some resentment towards him . Maybe one day you 2 can go to counseling together and work on your grief together.
Reedy some females don’t care they just want they time also I agree with dad about his childhood,We can’t make them be what we need I think dad didn’t know how to handle his only daughter being sick ,dads are different when it come to there daughter,you both was grieving y’all just handle it differently wishing you both Blessings 🙏🏾❤️
Yall may have helped each other on this one. First I was thinking he has some maturing to do. Then he made the statement that he had to grow up fast and now that he is older he is reverting to his childish ways. Most men don't even realize this. At least he is acknowledging his behavior. I commend him on trying to communicate and express his feelings on the touchy subjects. Keep the videos coming!
Sorry for ya'll loss. I appreciate the realness and the rawness. Did either one of ya'll ever go to counseling after the death of your baby?🙏🏽🙏🏽😇😘
I’m sorry but him cheating was something he wanted to do not bc of the baby that’s bs. Like she said he should’ve been there w/her
My azz bee up since 2am going through all these videos, girl yall got me up up, got to be to work at six and it’s after 5
This is great convo
I'm so sorry this isn't something that anyone should ever go through ..hope this helps yall to talk about it...
Shes pretty and hes getting on my nerves not answering the questions that were asked..i understand him not wanting to see his baby in that state but by him seeing how baby girl reacted everytime he stepped in the room couldve been the motivation for baby girl to fight harder..always be there for your babies they need you and are farrr more important than any other person
I love this for yall
The emotions in this video was crazy I really enjoyed it tho 🤍🧡
Eli looks just like her dad❤
I love this video.
when he said “you alright” 😂😂 y’all are hilarious
he sweet😂 “thanks for having me”
it’s you asking what you got yo condolences in person 😩😂
The look on his face make me wanna say GIRL YOU TOOOOOOO PRETTY!!! But I understand how love is.
Reedy wat u threw on him lmao u left that part outttt 🤣🤣🤣 some peee damnnn
He probably was trying to escape reality. Using women to not think about what y’all was going through…
This was a powerful message. This goes to show you how stuff can look like it’s all good on social media but behind closed doors it’s a lot ppl go through… Love y’all two❤️🔥
So sorry for both of you and the kids for losing Emmy
Im stuck where he said whats wrong with harriet, harriet beautiful 😭😂😂😂😂
Reedy let him talk gurl 😂😂
It seems like he struggles with a lot of internal issues. I see depression, a little anger, and rejection..hopefully he gets counseling. It’s ready important especially for our black men..they never feel good enough
I love this conversation between y’all but just tell him you expected him to be 10 toes down with you while you we’re going through it and show you how important you and you family is to him. 💕
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Cheating and the loss of a child is a lot you all are young men tend to blame the woman for their cheating accountability on the man's part of cheating is the key to healing in that area wether he continues or not if a woman love's you she stickin it out till she fed up, loosing a child for a mother's point of view there's no words anyone can say just when she down hold her tight it's been 26 years sense I lost my baby boy tears fall to this day stay positive and keep smiling you have an angel looking out for you for life.... Sending prayers for strength and healing to your family....
I can definitely understand.. especially when you said his dad was there more often than he was. Since he was really there did he ever ask to communicate with how she was doing or if he checked up on y’all .
ion like how he act so nonchalant about the situation and how he deflected when you was asking certain things. He seem so unbothered or careless about it. We also can barely hear him..
This was good, I’m happy you caught him but reedy why you threw pee in that man face 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yall was both in pain. Experiencing something so traumatic. No one can tell you how to feel when they have never been through this. I'll stilll keep you all in my prayers 🙏
When she said “ why you don’t watch it “ 😂😂 that’s some shit I’ll say 💀
When I need to talk to my man and explain something I’m calling reedy she broke that down so smoothly 😭
He isn’t a bad man,
He was going thru it as well, that was very hard on the both of you!
I watched this along with my man and we said the same thing at the sametime; it was very obvious that Tut was grieving as well and when you needed him he needed you, he just didn’t know how to be there for you in the way that you needed him to! Y’all both need to go to grief counseling because it’s obvious y’all love each other and will be together!
But y’all don’t need to resent one another for that tragic love experience!
I LOVE THE RAW TRUTH
omg I can feel the pain on him at 1:33.
What is y’all relationship now?
You expressing your hurt and tryna tell him the things that caused the disconnect between y’all. He interrupt to say well tell me some good stuff. It’s not about the good rn. We can get to that too but rn we talking about this.
I can see all the pain on your face when you talking to him about these things. And it’s like he just don’t get it. And not because he’s not an intelligent man, but because he just don’t want to.
That part. He was deflecting
This is it!!!!!!
I thought I was the only one noticing that.
Blessings Barbie…❤ This is hard to watch.
I wish I could hug you and tuk❤Im glad y’all get along like this😊
You can tell he had never thought about why he was doing what he was doing
Ok this my last comment on it cause I’m doing a lot. But can we get a video of him talking about his life and upbringing?? It don’t have to be as in depth as yours but just how he came to be who he is. Only if he comfortable
I love u ❤
I like y’all together i see the love ill just say this from experience, if you gone forgive forgive; don’t keep harboring bad feelings
I promise when you let it go y’all will be okay
Baby these questions you asked him needed to be asked. I almost laughed bc he didn’t have an answer.
Men have a problem with sickly children. Thank GOD he made us with the strong back bone🙏🏾
I'm glad someone said it
Awwwwwww he askede what made you happy during that time? Amazing question!
Lol nah he was deflecting
@@yourriderdie8472 Oof!! Manipulation?
he did alot of deflecting or making things a funny moment
he constantly deflecting idk he not taking the conversation serious or don't really seem to care. & he could've been grieving and most of us don't know how to but it seems like he just don't even remember those moments like he was there but mentally he wasn't on his end and on your end. He act like he didn't feel or don't feel anything even now. You asked how hr felt bout her bday & he starting talking about life understanding not even saying what he felt then in that moment. He is constantly deflecting and joking & you really expressing your true feelings. But virgo we really sit down an breakdown our thoughts and feelings.
I think this, especially the joking, is a coping mechanism and a way to not get too into his feelings. It seems he's not too keen on opening up the way Reedy is at this moment, and that is okay. Not to mention he's being put on the spot on camera. However, I noticed when he looked sad in his eyes and took a few moments to get his point across he did get cut off so he never finished what he was going to say. Grieving looks different for everyone.
And Reedy, when his birthday?
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Were y’all together when Eli was made?
Yeah
Sis, I just came across ur channel 🤣🤣🤣 I luv u both. You told BD why don’t he watch Lifetime Lie cheat and defeat 🤣🤣🤣 I’m surprised you don’t like it
This needs to be a series. Maybe read our comments and move up to another level. I’m not trying to compare you to Jess and her bd but it took forever but it started like this.
As a black man it took him a long time to warm up and express himself. It was some instances it was cringy when he was uncomfortable. But it’s very organic… he needed a break 😊 😍
He won’t ever be on here again .. he’s going through something and I would hate to put him on here like that … thanks for the suggestion though
Both of the girls look just like him
Y’all are very strong but I suggest maybe some counseling will help y’all to understand and be closer as family wishing y’all both the best
Girl you threw what in his face ? 😂😂😂😂 at least you take accountability and apologize ❤
Men feel like if you are not showing appreciation they turn completely off from us!they don’t see the bigger picture!they are very selfish without even understanding why!they don’t sit down and ask themselves why or anything they just move and don’t really think!
Wait reedy said I’m surprise you don’t like it 😂😂😂 lies and cheating 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Is he Eli dad, as well? I think I missed that part.
Yes he is . Euro Emmy and Eli dad
Her last three dad
No this man told you the only person who could be there for you is god 😅😅