Inside 1 Couple’s New Life After Partner Came Out As Transgender | Megyn Kelly TODAY

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  • Jennifer and Lawren, a couple from the TLC series “Lost in Transition,” joins Megyn Kelly TODAY to open up about their journey since Lawren revealed she is transgender. The two talk about sharing Lawren’s transition with their children, and making the decision to share their experience on TV.
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    Inside 1 Couple’s New Life After Partner Came Out As Transgender | Megyn Kelly TODAY

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  • @vidananovazelandia
    @vidananovazelandia Před 4 lety +127

    For me it would be a deal breaker. Divorce papers would be on the way.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam Před 3 lety +5

      that's ok but don't make it hard for the trans person

    • @sadebailey420
      @sadebailey420 Před 3 lety +1

      EXACTLY

    • @agricolaregs
      @agricolaregs Před 3 lety +15

      @@oliviawutam they’re not special. A spouse has a right to be angry.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam Před 3 lety

      That's ok.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam Před 3 lety

      @@agricolaregs agreed, no woman can tell me she didn't different sense anything

  • @jaynekarinova256
    @jaynekarinova256 Před 6 lety +1054

    I understand that she loves her husband unconditionally but that doesn’t mean she should have to stay with him romantically after he turns into a “her”. As a straight woman, this could be very damaging to her. It’s denying who you really are just to let someone else be who they are, and while it’s incredibly selfless, I hope she realizes that her happiness is important too.

    • @IWantToMature85
      @IWantToMature85 Před 6 lety +85

      Jayne Karinova that’s what I’m saying they want the husband to be his or herself, but not the woman to be herself.

    • @christopherwelch5995
      @christopherwelch5995 Před 6 lety +19

      I totally agree!!

    • @MG-ui8jk
      @MG-ui8jk Před 6 lety +10

      I had same experience b4 in last 5 years whre I was got engage with my bf who were transgender, I loved him very much and I felt like I can't live without him but I had to let him go and do her own thing which was I think so weird, I mourned during 5 years 😢😢

    • @annaboulderco
      @annaboulderco Před 6 lety +11

      @@signumcrucis71 so loving someone of the same gender is as bad as alcoholism? Nope. Love is Love

    • @yesucansell2
      @yesucansell2 Před 6 lety +7

      She, the wife knows. Why don't you trust her judgement?

  • @julievanderleest
    @julievanderleest Před 2 lety +36

    I can’t imagine staying with someone who you have known to be your husband and is now your wife. Jennifer is straight. That’s gotta be unimaginably hard and painful. I couldn’t do it.

    • @NickyM_0
      @NickyM_0 Před rokem +1

      Nor should you.

    • @johnblack4686
      @johnblack4686 Před 9 měsíci

      Have thought about becoming a shemale myself

  • @evelynfrench804
    @evelynfrench804 Před 6 lety +326

    It's too painful for her. I would not stay with him, but I would leave and have my children and be happy. She may find love in the future. There is no need for her to suffer daily.

    • @ceegabe1555
      @ceegabe1555 Před 6 lety +5

      Evelyn French She will NOT be able to feel TRUST again...

    • @unlisted4253
      @unlisted4253 Před 6 lety +1

      She knew it all along

    • @_joeyyy_5121
      @_joeyyy_5121 Před 5 lety +11

      Not him . U mean her

    • @meghantheeggdispenser4931
      @meghantheeggdispenser4931 Před 5 lety +7

      @@unlisted4253 How could she have? Women don't expect their husbands to be trans.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam Před 3 lety

      She forgets that he is the same person the same soul whom she never knew only his genitalia? yuk

  • @cathyt144
    @cathyt144 Před 6 lety +504

    Its selfish of this "man" to have married and had children when he "knew" all his life that he was transgender . Its sad to put this lady(his wife) and those beautiful children through this . Life is difficult enough with a parent adding to it .

    • @beckyanderson4644
      @beckyanderson4644 Před 6 lety +19

      Cathy T While I agree and it is heartbreaking for the family, I do think that a lot of trans people who are of a similar age to Lauren could not have possibly come out when they were teenagers or in their 20’s. It was unheard of to try to explain something like that at that time. So they went on and attempted to live a normal life and have children because simply put, they were afraid of the family or societal reaction. Now that it is recognized and people feel safe to have the discussion, they are coming out.

    • @terianapride3881
      @terianapride3881 Před 6 lety +43

      Chik Lit you ain’t gotta come out until you ready, but that don’t mean you should trick people

    • @fquint6468
      @fquint6468 Před 6 lety +16

      PocketfulofPosie I feel like maybe they thought they could change, which is why they go ahead and try to have a traditional life but at a point it just gets to be too much.

    • @Arlene_436
      @Arlene_436 Před 6 lety

      I agree!

    • @evandoherty9679
      @evandoherty9679 Před 6 lety +8

      Cathy T you don’t know the circumstances in situations like these so shut your mouth and stop spreading hate. And btw for your information SHE is a WOMAN now stfu

  • @TheJaiJai81
    @TheJaiJai81 Před 5 lety +53

    This is literally the story of my life and marriage. My partner came out as transgender last year. Mourning the death of a husband that's standing right next to me.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam Před 3 lety +7

      you never knew your husband. next to you is the same person. you don't have to be sexual with him/her but he is still the same same memories and so on

    • @Hannah-hg
      @Hannah-hg Před 2 lety +5

      @@oliviawutam it’s extremely confusing

    • @english3082
      @english3082 Před rokem

      he's most certainly an autogynephile

    • @mimachan2557
      @mimachan2557 Před rokem

      when your government legalize freak thoughts ^^

    • @julesdj913
      @julesdj913 Před rokem +2

      Sad

  • @fallondavis747
    @fallondavis747 Před 6 lety +198

    I wouldve gotten a divorce immediately

    • @Rapunzel1122
      @Rapunzel1122 Před 5 lety +7

      Be careful of what u r saying because u might be put to a test . I don’t mean anything bad, it’s just every time when I have said something in a firm way I was tested ... only my 2 cents of course...

    • @ariellalima7229
      @ariellalima7229 Před 5 lety +4

      She would be lucky to have a divorce from you.

    • @bethp3320
      @bethp3320 Před 4 lety +7

      Respect her opinion people

    • @PepsiMagt
      @PepsiMagt Před 2 lety +6

      Good for you. Its not bigotry to have boundaries and self-respect. The husband here is very selfish.

    • @jessa9877
      @jessa9877 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Rapunzel1122 yup, definitely a divorce for me too

  • @Sistagirltay
    @Sistagirltay Před 3 lety +19

    Okay so she’s with him pretty much for the “imagine” still tryna be the “perfect family” so everyone can admire them. Girl choose ur happiness stop tryna prove a point to others.

  • @jloboomboom
    @jloboomboom Před 6 lety +69

    This is a joke. My heart goes out to those kids and his wife.... He said there was never a time he didn't feel this way. He's been this way ALL his life yet he still chose to get married and have kids and live a lie. This is hiding a secret but in the worst way possible

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam Před 3 lety +2

      you are not qualified to comment

    • @coolcat6341
      @coolcat6341 Před 3 lety +4

      @@oliviawutam neither you,,,,

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam Před 3 lety

      @@coolcat6341 , actually I am, I'm a trans woman ! and not screwed up,

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam Před 3 lety

      poor baby, the wife knew all along,women just know

    • @iseeyou2810
      @iseeyou2810 Před 2 lety +3

      @@oliviawutam you are an abuser who think you can use woman and come out with lies and wearing her clothes because you are a weak man, you will never be a woman.

  • @Riko-Lopez
    @Riko-Lopez Před 6 lety +186

    I think what's messed up is that He knew ever since he was young that he was transgendered but decided to ignore it and involve innocent people in his mess of a life. Poor kids and I feel horrible for his wife... He's being selfish. FU Larry!

    • @freshlove7926
      @freshlove7926 Před 6 lety +10

      Riko Lopez - he wanted to have kids .. so he was a fcking liar.

    • @missbubblez12luvseh
      @missbubblez12luvseh Před 6 lety +9

      You also have to take in consideration that people who are transgender they deny it to to themselves because they don't want it to be true they are scared of it being true. So they try to ignore it and continue to try and live life. They don't purpose purposely lead someone on or lie to anyone. It's a battle inside their mind. They try to ignore it and they are in denial. That's where the depression comes in. My best friend is transgender. Before he transitioned to male. She was suicidal, self harming, just in a very very dark place. She went inpatient for mental health issues for 4 months and they worked through it. They came home and that's when they transitioned because they knew they were transgender deep down since he was little. But he tried to push those thoughts away because they are terrifying thoughts. Nobody wants to be transgender. That's why people like Lucy keep it a secret for so long. They aren't even knowingly keeping a secret for very long. And they usually don't connect the dots until the depression and anxiety was so bad they can't take it anymore. Than they admit it to themselves.

    • @signumcrucis71
      @signumcrucis71 Před 6 lety +1

      Sarah Hurt
      NAIVE
      Homosexuals have to recruit new homosexuals to keep up their lifestyle.

    • @Riko-Lopez
      @Riko-Lopez Před 6 lety +1

      @@signumcrucis71 LMAO! Troooooooooll 😂😂😂

    • @missbubblez12luvseh
      @missbubblez12luvseh Před 6 lety +4

      Donald J. Trump we aren't even talking about homesexuality 😂 we are talking about being transgender. They are two very very different things. Nice name 😂

  • @inthezonenews
    @inthezonenews Před 6 lety +17

    WTF... WHAT KIND OF NONSENSE IS THIS....Lauren says he wants to be a woman, so is Lauren a lesbian as well, and Lauren is frustrated with learning about makeup and hair. Lauren sounds confused. And their both sitting there with blue dresses on. This is some bull, how is a man going to be a woman without suffering every month from a period. I would have backed my bags and left.

  • @whereiswaldo5872
    @whereiswaldo5872 Před 6 lety +17

    They need to separate in the name of love you can tell the wife isnt happy.

  • @mariatapanes8763
    @mariatapanes8763 Před 6 lety +118

    I feel bad for her...a life based on lies

  • @aliciatorres2794
    @aliciatorres2794 Před 6 lety +97

    Im sorry but i would leave him!! It's not fair, he lied to her this whole time and then 25 years later. Guess what honey , I want to be a women,that is not fair!! You can see the poor women that she is heart broken!!

    • @ToastyCoClothing
      @ToastyCoClothing Před 4 lety +10

      the fact that he waited until she had his children is especially sinister

    • @MsHeartIsArt
      @MsHeartIsArt Před 3 lety +2

      Sad you can only see in black and white.

    • @vanillabee2790
      @vanillabee2790 Před 2 lety

      It feels like a betrayal. I wld be disappointed too

    • @trevorditch
      @trevorditch Před 2 lety

      He’s a very confused soul

  • @jasminepina9058
    @jasminepina9058 Před 6 lety +109

    why are they matching?

  • @RM-nz9ny
    @RM-nz9ny Před 5 lety +11

    Her being trans is okay.
    Her wife not really being comfortable with it is okay.
    But whoever dressed these poor women in the exact same dress needs to be SUED

  • @cal3403
    @cal3403 Před 6 lety +65

    Does anyone else think this is twisted?!

  • @sonshine8283
    @sonshine8283 Před 6 lety +119

    So funny how she compares her marriage with the WORST of her friend's marriages, ie, the alcoholics, drug addicted, distant husbands. We only tend to do that (look for the worst) when we need to feel good about our own situation. She knows this is a terrible situation. Her heart is so broken. No situation or person is too broken for God to repair. But one must ask, believe and use common sense.

    • @kellypierce7447
      @kellypierce7447 Před 6 lety +15

      Yeh, she's grasping at straws to be a "normal" family again! And insane when she says it'll only look different. It'll be different as F***!

    • @PepsiMagt
      @PepsiMagt Před 2 lety

      @@oliviawutam and you're a man

  • @veronicasanchez8806
    @veronicasanchez8806 Před 6 lety +63

    I used to know this couple... our daughters danced ballet together about 10 years ago. I always saw the dad with the daughter, dropping her off at class, picking her up, putting her coat or ballet slippers on... he seemed to take more of the role as "mom". I figured he was just a very involved dad. Now I'm watching this and I'm blown away. I wish the wife the best of luck in her relationship and raising their children together. I personally wouldn't be able to handle that. I give her credit.

    • @nattyrey7976
      @nattyrey7976 Před 6 lety +24

      I feel sad that Jennifer is trying to rationalize, saying at least she's not in an abusive relationship, so she'll stay. Lauren may be a kind, lovely person, but Jennifer doesn't seem to acknowledge her own self-worth or right to happiness. She seems to be battling her own deep depression now. I do wish them the best, but their whole situation seems so tragic.

  • @karenh1808
    @karenh1808 Před 6 lety +10

    Selfish man married to a selfless woman. He knew all along that he was a woman so why build a life with someone and then destroy it? Because its all about him that's why. He mentioned that their kids thought there was a problem in the marriage but he says there wasn't. WTF there is and was a BIG problem! He has lied to this woman for 25 years and then drops a bomb that she had no clue would ever come. This poor woman is struggling I feel so bad for her and the kids.

  • @elainesmith7512
    @elainesmith7512 Před 6 lety +196

    This is so sad. The devil is REAL and he is BUSY destroying the lives of poor naïve/blind people like these. I feel so sorry for them, especially their CHILDREN!

    • @kellypierce7447
      @kellypierce7447 Před 6 lety +8

      Agreed. You see and learned this as well. Too bad these people aren't willing to realize that they're wrong!

    • @Blaisefiyah
      @Blaisefiyah Před 6 lety +1

      elaine smith it’s mental illness not Satan you weirdo

    • @vera7508
      @vera7508 Před 6 lety +4

      awe looks like the devil got a hold of you boo. They’re doing no harm to themselves or to anyone else so God loves them. Your soul goes to heaven honey not any of this stuff they’re doing now. When you go to heaven all the problems in the world are gone including gender so it won’t matter in heaven. Therefore be you.

    • @JimmiAlli
      @JimmiAlli Před 6 lety +1

      elaine smith lf the devil is real where is Jesus?

    • @elainesmith7512
      @elainesmith7512 Před 6 lety

      @Jimmi Alli: As far as I know, He is still in Heaven.

  • @zoesmybaby
    @zoesmybaby Před 6 lety +64

    Poor Jennifer. It’s like her spirit is broken.

    • @siobhanmcleod9146
      @siobhanmcleod9146 Před 5 lety +3

      It is, at the hands of her husband.

    • @helenal.7881
      @helenal.7881 Před 3 lety

      @K Maxx lol lol lol

    • @iseeyou2810
      @iseeyou2810 Před 2 lety +2

      @@oliviawutam you are the man who did this. God how can you live with lie? You are manipulative Narcissist. I hope she leaves you for better future.

  • @Ishmiester
    @Ishmiester Před 6 lety +147

    Can someone tell me why "feeling" like something actually makes you that something

    • @abcw114
      @abcw114 Před 6 lety +8

      Maybe you should ask yourself why it matters if Larry wears a dress and adopts a new name. Is this the crisis of your life, that a biological man wants to be called a girl's name and wear some girl clothes?

    • @Ishmiester
      @Ishmiester Před 6 lety +14

      @@abcw114 it doesnt matter. My comment doesnt matter either. And yours either.

    • @airlinelush6483
      @airlinelush6483 Před 6 lety +18

      It doesnt. I feel like a airplane. Well... that didnt work.

    • @abcw114
      @abcw114 Před 5 lety +4

      @@Ishmiester That seems like a sad little cop-out. It does matter to you, which is why you bothered to make that point. You know it and I know it.

    • @SnakeButtz
      @SnakeButtz Před 5 lety +7

      i can tell you, it is because 'feelings' come from your brain and just like any other 'feelings' you have they are valid and they are telling you what you are, who you are and WHAT YOU ARE PERSONALLY FEELING. if your 'feelings' are telling you you're hungry, are you ACTUALLY hungry? if your 'feelings' are telling you you're tired, are you ACTUALLY tired? according to you, no huh because feelings dont actually tell you anything about how and who you are.

  • @1Kaileegirl
    @1Kaileegirl Před 6 lety +161

    It can't be easy,
    I cannot imagine growing up feeling you're in the wrong body.
    They seem like beautiful people
    I wish them all the very best

    • @ceegabe1555
      @ceegabe1555 Před 6 lety +11

      cathyannkailee. What if you FEEL you are a dog? 🐕

    • @unlisted4253
      @unlisted4253 Před 6 lety +10

      mcstacia it's called mental illness.

    • @kellypierce7447
      @kellypierce7447 Před 6 lety +10

      You can't imagine it, because it's all made up! They're f***ed in the head and know it too! You wouldn't tell a serial killer that you wish them the very best, so why mess with people's heads here!

    • @rempotter3375
      @rempotter3375 Před 6 lety +16

      as someone who is not cisgender, seeing such a sweet comment amongst an ocean of hate brightens my day. thank you 🙏

    • @smiller4606
      @smiller4606 Před 6 lety +1

      I'd imagine it's as uncomfortable and stressful as having suicidal thoughts that feel _right._ But we try to help people not go there.

  • @ComeliaO7
    @ComeliaO7 Před 4 lety +4

    For any other woman who is with a man who comes out is transgender. You’re not wrong if you leave that marriage. You’re not wrong from walking away from that relationship. You are not transphobic.
    I mean goodness these women are married to these men for years. With kids. Everybody’s hurt and confused. But you’re the bad guy for wanting to leave. No it’s simply just not what you signed up for.

  • @GummyBearRecords
    @GummyBearRecords Před 4 lety +4

    He looks ridiculous he's not even fooling him self he's a woman🤦

  • @Brath0011
    @Brath0011 Před 6 lety +6

    People need the Lord.

    • @lynnszen
      @lynnszen Před 6 lety

      Are you saying that transitioning is a religious issue?

  • @truthteller3181
    @truthteller3181 Před 6 lety +264

    This is so Sick! And ppl will say that I'M sick for recognizing that this is Sick! And that's just Sick! SMH

    • @Noah4evaa
      @Noah4evaa Před 6 lety +8

      Dess D he isn't a girl, say what he will!

    • @ellagiselle
      @ellagiselle Před 6 lety +8

      Dess D there’s literally nothing wrong with this. The human mind is very fascinating and there are existing inherent miswirings at birth that happen across all races and cultures , for hundreds and hundreds of centuries before our own minute little existence. This is science and history and a fact. It’s fascinating and I feel bad that you fail to see that

    • @ellagiselle
      @ellagiselle Před 6 lety +5

      *not really hundreds and hundreds obviously. But hyperbolically. It’s been around since the beginning of recorded human existence

    • @mariast.hilaire2599
      @mariast.hilaire2599 Před 6 lety +3

      Well at least he’s getting healing! What about you? Are you working on healing yourself?

    • @Dangerops69
      @Dangerops69 Před 6 lety +3

      Dess D WWJD?

  • @tfh-rw9vb
    @tfh-rw9vb Před 6 lety +183

    This is a mental health issue

    • @tfh-rw9vb
      @tfh-rw9vb Před 6 lety +18

      mcstacia yes it very much is. This man needs help.

    • @unlisted4253
      @unlisted4253 Před 6 lety +1

      mcstacia it's.

    • @ck9265
      @ck9265 Před 6 lety +10

      mcstacia it is a mental illness

    • @mamafi70
      @mamafi70 Před 6 lety +4

      Yes, Must be a curse for white people.

    • @freshlove7926
      @freshlove7926 Před 6 lety

      Timothy Hahn - hello baby boy :) you are a cutie

  • @herewegokids7
    @herewegokids7 Před 6 lety +166

    Your gender had been misassigned????

  • @calico4381
    @calico4381 Před 6 lety +56

    All the women in this documentary end up putting their husbands before themselves and even readily refer to them by female pronouns. I think they love their husbands but are also afraid to be alone. The men all seem selfish to me, and no one believes they're really women anyway so why even bother?

    • @kevin49ification
      @kevin49ification Před 6 lety +5

      well transitioning is something that they have to do for themselves and no one else, and she communicated with her wife before she started transitioning. Its not about passing as a woman and its just respectful that her wife uses her prefered pronouns. Im sure its not easy on either of them.

    • @daniellerodriguez429
      @daniellerodriguez429 Před 5 lety +1

      Georgia Russo what a sad world it would be if we all put ourselves before our family.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam Před 3 lety

      @@kevin49ification thank you

  • @Opalbird1
    @Opalbird1 Před 5 lety +18

    He wasn’t “assigned” at birth. Genetically he was a male and still is.

  • @queen_of_domination
    @queen_of_domination Před rokem +3

    I’m sick of this world! People have gone crazy and they get angry with you for not going crazy with them. Other than that statement, I’m just here for the comments.

  • @thedrugstoreplayground3769
    @thedrugstoreplayground3769 Před 6 lety +26

    This is stupid! She shouldn't have to stay in this situation after all those years! And I'm confused. Does he still like women or now men? 🤔

    • @rockbacourt9761
      @rockbacourt9761 Před 5 lety +1

      Taquis Edwards well I think the wife is discouraged in she had no choice also she.start to getting old second she will leave him anyhow

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 Před 4 lety +3

      What's it to you? You might at least show a little humanity and kindness instead of foregrounding ignorance.

    • @coolcat6341
      @coolcat6341 Před 3 lety

      I 5h8nk she lives the Illusion 9f perfect family mixed with she is not self confident or aware of her needs as women...

  • @janicemalone8619
    @janicemalone8619 Před 6 lety +71

    So what happens if Lauren wants to be with a man in order to feel like a real woman!

    • @maribelquirosart
      @maribelquirosart Před 6 lety +1

      janice malone I thought the same thing

    • @lindsayarmstrong4160
      @lindsayarmstrong4160 Před 5 lety +10

      So you have to be straight to be a woman?

    • @cindylee9019
      @cindylee9019 Před 3 lety

      I’m transgender and stayed in the marriage as a male deep down I have resented doing so, desire to be a woman full-time until enjoy the feeling everything are you in the world in my early 30s part time as a woman

  • @janebute2541
    @janebute2541 Před 6 lety +88

    Is there a level of selfish in all this? I need to fix myself, please stay the same while I do it? I feel the wife needs to protect her health also and not only be supportive to him. Only God can judge, however this wife needs to not lose her identity to the transgendering person.

    • @coolcat6341
      @coolcat6341 Před 3 lety

      Yap

    • @tonimidnite1611
      @tonimidnite1611 Před 3 lety

      No darling there no selfish on your part you did not sighn up for this .i see so many lady's stuck in there life's of submisive and co dependency prison because they signed up to be a wife not anything else you made a sacrifice. A mother a house wife a companion a lover and a tolerant understanding and calming voice I'm sure that was asked if you .so if you are one of those wife's that are manipulated. By your husband and have to put up with a narcastic husband that more than like looks like a ugly large and poor dressed librarian. Give him a little reminder you didn't sighn up for this

    • @robertriordan1823
      @robertriordan1823 Před rokem

      @@tonimidnite1611Given your poor spelling and punctuation you really need one of those 'ugly, large and poorly dressed' librarians to help you to become minimally literate.

  • @sjlang7812
    @sjlang7812 Před 5 lety +21

    Thus is like my aunt Alana and her wife laura... theyre a beautiful couple now and happy as ever. To anyone going through this it gets better❤

  • @evandoherty9679
    @evandoherty9679 Před 6 lety +41

    Her wife is just amazing and so supportive

    • @user-qo9ke7cu6b
      @user-qo9ke7cu6b Před 4 lety +2

      Evan Doherty his*

    • @Danielle2Cats
      @Danielle2Cats Před 3 lety +2

      His wife.

    • @coolcat6341
      @coolcat6341 Před 3 lety +1

      She lacks self esteem,,, she compare her situation to the worst case scenario...

    • @NickyM_0
      @NickyM_0 Před rokem

      HIS wife.... has been emotionally bullied and groomed into this position by gender activist 'family counsellors'.

  • @TheLadylorraine
    @TheLadylorraine Před 6 lety +70

    Ridiculous Ridiculous Ridiculous.

  • @anlu3365
    @anlu3365 Před 6 lety +44

    If I was in her position I would hit the gym, look great and start dating again...

    • @Copics1
      @Copics1 Před 6 lety +9

      It sucks when your man wears the dress better than you.

    • @anlu3365
      @anlu3365 Před 6 lety +3

      +COco Yo yo it sounds like you are talking from experience! Lol but yes agreed! I would change that pretty fast!

    • @eduardom7865
      @eduardom7865 Před 5 lety

      Yas

  • @mariatapanes8763
    @mariatapanes8763 Před 6 lety +32

    I just wanna know why most of these "transgender" male to female look like linebackers!!!??

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 Před 4 lety +10

      The answer is - that these particular 'transgenders' (as 'you' put it), transitioned later in life, after they had acquired well-developed male characteristics. But you know that already. You're simply asking a rhetorical question because your are a combination of cruel, stupid and hateful.

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 Před 4 lety +6

      @Nas Silahen You deserve to be delivered to a sewer, signed, sealed and wrapped in your nappy.

    • @Maranatha7557
      @Maranatha7557 Před 4 lety +2

      Why? Because they are biologically male with all the muscle and height that goes with it. Men can’t become women.

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 Před 4 lety +5

      @@Maranatha7557 It's rather silly to generalise in this way. It demonstrates blind prejudice rather than any medical or scientific understanding of the subject. Not all people born male are to be found pumping iron on muscle beach just as there are plenty of powerful women who could lay a shrimp like you flat with one flick of their little finger.

    • @javajava8856
      @javajava8856 Před 4 lety

      Because they are autogynophiles (AGP). Contrast them with the very feminine appearance of Janet Mock who is classified as homosexual transexual (HSTS). AGPs are heterosexual men who have very masculine backgrounds and careers and continue being sexually attracted women after transition. AGP is a paraphilia which can, but doesn't typically, culminate in SRS.

  • @1justice2012
    @1justice2012 Před 5 lety +6

    I feel that once he is finish transitioning, he will leave, sorry for the wife she seems in great pain.

  • @janicemalone8619
    @janicemalone8619 Před 6 lety +24

    Just so you know I alot of women don't wear make up

    • @ian12346
      @ian12346 Před 6 lety +2

      janice malone I know right? Why is the lady conforming to gender norms? 🤣🤣

    • @TheSnyderWeb
      @TheSnyderWeb Před 6 lety

      Because how can you pretend to be a girl if you don't know how to play with makeup?

    • @sarahlouisestafford2448
      @sarahlouisestafford2448 Před 6 lety

      janice malone what rock have you being hiding under? a lot of women were makeup when going out clubbing at nightime and going too work during the day. some women were makeup during the day evening if they don't work.

    • @iseeyou2810
      @iseeyou2810 Před 2 lety

      @@sarahlouisestafford2448 lots of women don't.

  • @kimmykimko
    @kimmykimko Před 5 lety +27

    This whole trans thing has gone too far. Insanity.

  • @cheryledelman4457
    @cheryledelman4457 Před 6 lety +85

    I don't know who's sicker, Jennifer for "accepting" she has a wife now instead of a husband, or Larry (aka)Lauren who decided he's no longer a man, but a woman!

    • @IWantToMature85
      @IWantToMature85 Před 6 lety +2

      Catherine Johnson not to sound rude, but gender stereotypes are why people say that they’re a different gender. For example, he had breasts at the hair salon. That gives off the belief that “If I’m a woman, then I must have breasts.”

    • @nkwari
      @nkwari Před 6 lety +3

      Maybe she doesn't want to raise 4 kids alone. She has to consider everything.

    • @kellypierce7447
      @kellypierce7447 Před 6 lety +4

      Both need help. Hard lesson for Jennifer, but it was like she avoided God's heeds when her friends warned her, and even when it rhymes - don't marry scary larry! LMAO!

    • @blackmar07
      @blackmar07 Před 6 lety

      @Catherine Johnson lol society. Yeah bud. It's society

  • @crizzyzay7854
    @crizzyzay7854 Před 4 lety +4

    Real wife looks miserable

  • @chipomutibvu3674
    @chipomutibvu3674 Před 4 lety +10

    I'm all for people living their authentic lives or whatever but marrying someone who wants to be with a man and grow old with that man knowing you are NOT it is just deceitful. I see a lot of these stories, everybody happy for the person who finally comes out and sympathising with their previous struggles and what not but dammit what about the woman who now has to use toys for the rest of her life because he took his thing to the butcher? My husband better make sure his true self stays the self he was when we married otherwise I don't want to be on any show forcing myself to be supportive. The way that wife is crying I think she is devastated.

  • @XxxX-ln9js
    @XxxX-ln9js Před 6 lety +7

    out of all the husbands, Lawren is my fav. She was the only to acknowledge the feelings of her wife. I hope they can make it work, I am sure it will be hard.

  • @ChristianWoman2013
    @ChristianWoman2013 Před 6 lety +8

    Larry is completely selfish, I know from experience that the person transiting isn’t thinking about the feelings of their spouse only about themselves, and what they want they don’t care that we are hurting it feels like someone died. My husband told me he wanted to be a woman later on, he told me why he wanted to transition it wasn’t because he was born that way it was because he couldn’t live with the memories of his bad childhood and transitioning would make him a new person who didn’t have to deal with his past I tried to get him therapy all they would tell me to do, is go along with it that he was a woman, he wouldn’t tell the therapist why he wanted to transition instead he would just tell them what he thought they needed to hear to get hormones. Science hasn’t proven that a man can become a woman it’s impossible people should accept the gender they were born because after surgery you are still a man DNA and chromosomes don’t change. This is so wrong her feelings matter he needs to realize that and stop being so selfish.

    • @iseeyou2810
      @iseeyou2810 Před 2 lety +1

      She just need to leave him and take her childern.

    • @PepsiMagt
      @PepsiMagt Před 2 lety

      A man can never be a woman, nor can a woman be a man.

  • @mordechairothschild3042
    @mordechairothschild3042 Před 6 lety +38

    So he's depressed for a long time to the extent of being suicidal, and then he says one day "I'm a girl!" Yet nobody says that we need to help him get better, we say "yeah, let's go with it!"

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 Před 4 lety +6

      You are quite disgusting. No wonder the cats have marked out your bed as their favourite tray.

  • @jnwoodard8764
    @jnwoodard8764 Před 6 lety +13

    In the words of Austin Powers, “... That’s a MAN baby!”

    • @PongYang281
      @PongYang281 Před 5 lety +1

      That's not a woman, it's a manly man...

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 Před 4 lety

      In the words of Saint Althelreda, 'Woodard is a champion numbskull'.

  • @addiomondo4493
    @addiomondo4493 Před 4 lety +9

    I could neve be with a woman... I love my husband but if he became a woman well if would be over. I like men... I can’t change that

  • @RodFleming-World
    @RodFleming-World Před 6 lety +7

    Clinically morbid autogynephilia is an awful thing. I sympathise with the wife, her life is ruined by her husband's inability to keep his sexual fetish under control

  • @jesseturay1421
    @jesseturay1421 Před 5 lety +7

    He didn’t think these things. He just randomly decided it, cause he’s unhappy. So selfish.

    • @dorisf7368
      @dorisf7368 Před 5 lety +1

      And he still looks very unhappy.

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 Před 4 lety

      I'm amazed you can remain so dumb and so ignorant with all the information about gender identity out there. As always, bigotry has no need of facts. It exists to glaze the inside of it's own little warped bubble with a patina of reflexive hatred.

  • @morganhenry5845
    @morganhenry5845 Před 5 lety +9

    Ok why is everyone wanting to be females it’s not great lol

  • @MimosaH15
    @MimosaH15 Před 6 lety +28

    the wife is so lovely with her perspective. i can really respect that. i really hope they can work together and stay united for the children as well.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam Před 3 lety

      Unless the children have been influenced against the dad, the love is still there

  • @jayv7006
    @jayv7006 Před 6 lety +4

    She's clearly still with him because she doesn't believe she can do any better.

  • @jennykurtz5918
    @jennykurtz5918 Před 6 lety +147

    This world desperately needs Jesus, He is the answer to all of this. This is just a result of the sin and emptiness of this world. And it is tragic that it is being encouraged and seen as a solution.

  • @54jeanmarie
    @54jeanmarie Před 6 lety +16

    Sorry....too freaky!! Not only is she losing a husband, the children are losing their father!!

  • @cjpv1972
    @cjpv1972 Před 4 lety +24

    This is overwhelming and hard to imagine. It is a lot of love here ...hope the family continues strong 💗

    • @PepsiMagt
      @PepsiMagt Před 2 lety +5

      I hope the wife finds the strength to leave her ridiculous and deluded husband

    • @munnabhao588
      @munnabhao588 Před rokem

      Hi Im Pakistani , looking for a wife

  • @journeybiggs767
    @journeybiggs767 Před 6 lety +34

    This is the ultimate betrayal! These men say they all knew from young ages and instead of sharing that with their wives they lie for YEARS I’m sorry but that is the biggest lie and you kept it from the person you love and trust the most?!

    • @JA-nc9ym
      @JA-nc9ym Před 6 lety +1

      Journey Biggs hmm, maybe because they are called freaks and "works of the devil"?

    • @ian12346
      @ian12346 Před 6 lety

      Totally Strange Well, what IS a freak then? Did Webster just decide to eradicate the word for feeling purposes?

    • @JA-nc9ym
      @JA-nc9ym Před 6 lety

      Ian as a reasonable person, I am willing to face defeat there! You are 100% correct in every definition... We are freaks. :")
      Thank you for giving me reason to re-educate myself in the English language, LMAO.
      Though, my statement still stands. While I disagree with this trans woman marrying her in the first place, I think it's justified that we are afraid to come out sometimes and often want to "out grow" it and ignore the problem. My coming out went very badly (to the point of inappropriate conduct from my parents), and I know others fear the same for themselves.

    • @ian12346
      @ian12346 Před 6 lety

      Totally Strange Fair enough. 👍

  • @tink268
    @tink268 Před 5 lety +6

    This is beyond madness. I feel so bad for this woman. Just leave him!!!

  • @inthezonenews
    @inthezonenews Před 6 lety +15

    I'm so sick of people saying they don't want to throw away 25 years....girl byeeeeeee life is about moving on.

  • @leslieburgess6985
    @leslieburgess6985 Před 6 lety +35

    As soon as he transitions he is going to find a man

    • @kaylaspencer7526
      @kaylaspencer7526 Před 3 lety +4

      they’re actually still together! i know they family personally and they’re both doing so much better

    • @aviolet3981
      @aviolet3981 Před 3 lety

      Is their life fair now or is it all still her giving and him having an egocentric temper tantrum where she and the kids basically don’t matter?

    • @kaylaspencer7526
      @kaylaspencer7526 Před 3 lety +1

      @@aviolet3981 hi! I’m friends with their daughters and she has never not put the kids first this transition i’m assuming was the first thing she has done for herself. all of her children are very successful in their current paths and all with they help of their parents

  • @LoveAlwaysAlwaysLove
    @LoveAlwaysAlwaysLove Před 2 lety +6

    I've never really felt this level of care and genuine kindness from Megan Kelly before. Love Heals. ✨💖✨

  • @lobelasata838
    @lobelasata838 Před 4 lety +3

    This is selfish; many of them pretend to be someone that they are not. Then when they have kids from biological women they show who they are. I don't think they care less if the woman stay or not in the relationship. The wife has more to lose she invested in the business, plus all the year in that deceitful marriage.

  • @Dagger_323
    @Dagger_323 Před 6 lety +4

    It is so incredibly selfish to transition like this after you’ve already been married and had children with a straight woman...

    • @littlecasino60
      @littlecasino60 Před 6 lety +1

      I know. These men are usually autogynephiles. They will claim they didn't realize they were a woman inside until they were about 40 or 50. Up until then they were fetishistic, heterosexual crossdressers.

  • @daciabridges909
    @daciabridges909 Před 6 lety +21

    This is a hard one but he is also very selfish. Very sad.

  • @lalagordo
    @lalagordo Před 6 lety +9

    The most insidious thing is Megan at the beginning saying "assigned" the wrong gender at birth. What happened to "born a boy"? Too much reality?

  • @karenk3458
    @karenk3458 Před 4 lety +5

    Let him go and be who he wants to be you're not his future.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam Před 3 lety

      poor baby, the wife knew all along,women just know

  • @SAGELOWE
    @SAGELOWE Před 6 lety +60

    So if he feels like a girl....why stay with the wife wouldn't you wanna date guys now?
    Or is he/she a lesbian now??
    I'm confused

    • @wsscsoccerskillz2681
      @wsscsoccerskillz2681 Před 6 lety +9

      SAGELOWE are you stupid this guy is a clown but gender identity has nothing to do with sexuality

    • @rosamariamendoza1466
      @rosamariamendoza1466 Před 6 lety +1

      SAGELOWE I'm confused too!

    • @cartwing4660
      @cartwing4660 Před 6 lety

      Sexuality is the same as it was but it is labeled differently if your gender is labeled differently. They're lesbians now.

    • @ThePattibeth
      @ThePattibeth Před 6 lety +2

      I'm confused too.

    • @mimmiw9510
      @mimmiw9510 Před 6 lety +17

      Gender identity and sexuality are two different things. The simplest way to explain it is that sexuality is who you go to bed with and gender identity is who you go to bed as. Just because you're going through a transition doesn't mean that your sexuality will automatically change. It's up to the individual what they identify as, it's really just their business.

  • @herewegokids7
    @herewegokids7 Před 6 lety +82

    I feel like this is child abuse to the kids

    • @V8V88
      @V8V88 Před 6 lety +4

      it is :( I don't know why the poor kids will have to father and the reason.(the dad is mentally ill.

    • @katiemarie7750
      @katiemarie7750 Před 6 lety +4

      Yes, they need to go separate ways and she needs to find a good healthy man.

    • @bdavis8397
      @bdavis8397 Před 6 lety +6

      herewegokids7 How is loving a child no matter what their gender child abuse. Abuse comes from people who are narrow minded and do not believe that someone is living their authentic self. Children accept honesty and do not base their love on gender.

    • @bdavis8397
      @bdavis8397 Před 6 lety +1

      Waleed Khalid Your psychiatric view is stuck in the stone ages. It would serve you to educate yourself on sexuality.

    • @porscheamartin
      @porscheamartin Před 6 lety

      But how 🤷🏾‍♀️ I bet you think it’s okay to spank your kids and yell at them.🙄

  • @edge4265
    @edge4265 Před 3 lety +5

    What this person has is autogynephilia. So that is when a straight male sexualizes and internalizes feminine stereotypes to the point that he becomes obsessed with the idea of being a woman because it is arousing. There is a constant urge to become what is arousing. Now this has been rebranded as a woman trapped in a man’s body but that is not correct. This person is male. It is not right for him to put his wife through that. I believe it is best to just be friends. While it is perfectly fine for a man to be stereotypically feminine, that does not make him a woman. The same is true for a woman who likes to be masculine, she’s still a woman. I am sorry but nothing can change that and I think we’d get further in this discussion if autogynephiles, who make up the MAJORITY of trans women would be honest. The problem is, if they are honest about their fetish, it diminishes the arousal.

  • @nkwari
    @nkwari Před 6 lety +5

    I didn't think Megan could be this empathetic. She's changed.

  • @carolyntownsend6288
    @carolyntownsend6288 Před 3 lety +3

    Any update on this couple? I hope the wife was strong enough to leave. No person deserves this.

    • @Danielle2Cats
      @Danielle2Cats Před 3 lety +1

      Apparently, the woman is still being victimized by the selfish man.

    • @pandorakinkxxx
      @pandorakinkxxx Před 3 lety

      @@Danielle2Cats :(

  • @KatEyze1015
    @KatEyze1015 Před 6 lety +103

    So what's gonna happen if he wants to be with a man?

    • @kellypierce7447
      @kellypierce7447 Před 6 lety +10

      Guess!

    • @cherrydarling909
      @cherrydarling909 Před 6 lety +1

      Then they will all have a huge fckfest!!! 😂😂

    • @ctaylor9274
      @ctaylor9274 Před 6 lety +11

      Just because he is a female now, doesn't mean his sexuality has changed. I know someone who was straight who transitioned to a woman, but they were still attracted to women...

    • @cobrakai6209
      @cobrakai6209 Před 6 lety +1

      Some trans women do like women. They are attracted to feminine things for themselves and in what they seek out in a lover. There are also trans guys that use to be women, they don’t like feminine things they are attracted to masculine things for themselves and in what they seek out in a lover.

    • @KatEyze1015
      @KatEyze1015 Před 6 lety +1

      Too much for me to comprehend...

  • @katiemarie7750
    @katiemarie7750 Před 6 lety +23

    So sad... it's all I can say. smh 😕

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam Před 3 lety +2

      Blame God who made us this way if you can't understand ,you're not fit to be a couple, sorry.

  • @Selahsmum
    @Selahsmum Před 6 lety +12

    How absolutely tragic on every level.

  • @THEmadem0isELLE
    @THEmadem0isELLE Před 6 lety +10

    What Jennifer said about diversity was beautiful

  • @keplynrobinson4115
    @keplynrobinson4115 Před 6 lety +27

    Strong strong family! Wow. I applaud you!! Peace and love go with you!

    • @cocolyndon4604
      @cocolyndon4604 Před 6 lety

      No, they are not, he made the choice for her. She's pretending that everything is great.

  • @danielkane1108
    @danielkane1108 Před 5 lety +3

    I'm glad I watched this video. My positive side is wishing this couple the best after she chose to keep the family together post-transition. My negative side might be the slightest bit envious as a person who has offered and never been accepted for marriage (to a female).

  • @tricepugh5739
    @tricepugh5739 Před 4 lety +3

    Man I'm an understanding person and no love doesn't just turn off but why sacrifice my happiness so you can be a woman. Im leaving you and we can definitely co parent cause I would never deprive you of seeing your kids but I'm not going to be with you. You weren't honest with me from day one so........ that's where I am with this

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam Před 3 lety +1

      Trice dear, you contradict yourself a transgender has no happiness until change.

    • @ajat3202
      @ajat3202 Před 3 lety

      @@oliviawutam your the problem.The women was even nice enough to co parents.Every time I hear something from lgtbq y’all just contradict yourself so much as well.They are never truly happy because they realize everything is fake.That push real women & men specifically women to wear makeup& get surgery to be a real women.So when people say are pushing agendas think about what your doing

  • @jocelynpoesnecker5526
    @jocelynpoesnecker5526 Před 6 lety +2

    God does not make mistakes. This man has so many blessings from God. He should work to obey God first and be a good husband and father to his children.

    • @JA-nc9ym
      @JA-nc9ym Před 6 lety

      Jocelyn Poesnecker who said God doesn't put this in this woman's life so she can transition and grow into a beautiful woman for Him? God doesn't make mistakes; he made her the way she needed to be to grow closer to Him.

  • @janhomes50
    @janhomes50 Před 5 lety +15

    He will always ALWAYS be a 'Man' in Gods creation ~

  • @Prlvrboi1
    @Prlvrboi1 Před 6 lety +4

    Jennifer is medicating with food to ease her pain.

  • @sointeresting2794
    @sointeresting2794 Před 6 lety +36

    The world has gone mad!

  • @hedgemist691
    @hedgemist691 Před 5 lety +2

    So Lawren sees them together into their old age? I wonder what Jennifer sees? I hope she finds her way and lives the life she wants.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam Před 3 lety +1

      If there is real doubt divorce is best, it's common

  • @missjudacia7230
    @missjudacia7230 Před 6 lety +6

    They could’ve been given a decent wardrobe as those dresses where not suitable

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 Před 4 lety

      Still, you must admit they look a darn sight better than you, dressed in your usual get up. A deflated truck tyre round your waist, shabby second hand walmart blouse and a saggy pair of bottoms held up by a strand of polyester.

  • @jayl4312
    @jayl4312 Před 6 lety +8

    I hope that Lauren wife finds happiness in this new life....she seems like a real nice lady

  • @jloboomboom
    @jloboomboom Před 6 lety +11

    BECAUSE HE ISNT AN ALCOHOLIC OR ABUSIVE DOESNT MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP GOOD LOL. What is wrong with this woman

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 Před 4 lety +2

      Someone as cruel and ignorant as you would never understand.

  • @t7602
    @t7602 Před 3 lety +1

    these comments are disgusting .transphobia is not okay.Get some sympathy.Its hard for the both of them.Dont just put the blame on lauren.She lived with this hard thought in the back of her mind for what 20 years of their relationship.

    • @ajat3202
      @ajat3202 Před 3 lety

      So called Lauren chose to do marry this person & even have kids.Even tho this story is scripted & their getting payed from this.

  • @biancahotca3244
    @biancahotca3244 Před 6 lety +1

    what a crock!! such stupidity going on in this country.

  • @vivoyeur
    @vivoyeur Před 6 lety +59

    The Bible is real. GOD told us all this was coming before Christ's rerurn. This world will only, progressively grow worser I'm sorry to say.

  • @TC-tr4po
    @TC-tr4po Před 2 lety +4

    I love how respectful megyn was throughout the whole thing.

  • @hianni8287
    @hianni8287 Před 6 lety +2

    I watch this show and actually really like this couple, but hearing Jennifer say that they are the family that everyone wants to be is disappointing, it really seems about appearance to her. I have been married for 22 yrs and there is no way my husband could keep this big of a secret/lie from me and I am positive other long term relationships could say the same. We are together because we love and care for each other and we are friends not because we want to be the envy of the hood.

  • @Payton20ADZ
    @Payton20ADZ Před 6 lety +9

    pretty cool wife, so hard for both and I hope they preserve

  • @LatifahEden
    @LatifahEden Před 6 lety +4

    This is so unfair to his wife and kids. He can’t really expect that his wife would be miserable just for his happiness?!

  • @cheryledelman4457
    @cheryledelman4457 Před 6 lety +9

    p.s. the poor kids, who thinks of them, just selfish freakish parents!

    • @VintageRose75
      @VintageRose75 Před 6 lety

      Cheryl Edelman The mom here is not. It had nothing to to with her...she is so devastated and shocked...and trying to do the best she can to save her marriage and keep her family together.

    • @cheryledelman4457
      @cheryledelman4457 Před 6 lety +1

      yes but a waste of time, she's very ugly and unappealing also, and I bet she feels she can't do any better.

  • @susankim9991
    @susankim9991 Před 5 lety +2

    This is seriously messed up. It's sick. Get a divorce.

  • @MissTotos
    @MissTotos Před 6 lety +3

    Besides the point but they should have worn different coloured dresses. I hope they can get through this and come out of the other side stronger and happier.