That red wall is gorgeous. That relationship was an exercise in convincing women in the 90s that toxic relationships really can work out if there is enough dysfunction.
Love this whole scene for a variety of reasons. Mainly, she has zero temptation to sleep with him and zero self-doubt. Not questioning herself or him at all. This is the place we all need to be in our relationships. The first part - where they fall into the pond and laugh their asses off - reminds me of what was SO lacking in the movies - their sense of humor and silliness together. That's when they are both at their best - when they are able to laugh together at themselves.
Omg finally a comment, where somebody supports their relationship. Many people under other videos of them were so hateful saying stuff like "they are disgusting, they deserve each other; they are so stupid; these things don't happen in real life; she should break things off with him" She chose what she thought was best for her. People have to be more open-minded to every kind of a relationship. Not just following those stereotypes of finding the perfect partner.
Um... She refused to cut him out of her life, despite everything he did to her, even after she cheated on Aidan with Big. She called him "part of her life". Carrie was a doormat to Big's whims and she loved every moment.
Carrie should've rejected Mr.Big. The circumstance in which she took him back made Carrie look stupid. I understand that she was madly in love, but I could only imagine she asking herself at the end "Was it worth it?"
@@_ChristinaLauren_ I'm sure Carrie loves the attention but in this moment she was wise to walk away when it became crystal clear he wanted to suck her back into his world. It's possible to keep someone in your life without getting involved with them.
Oh wow. I can tell you most definitely have never lived anywhere other than the city. Pond water is that color because of sediment and dirt that’s on the bottom....dirt, you know the stuff that’s under grass? Lmao 😂 it’s not smelly water. It’s a natural body of water. Obviously you don’t drink it. But swimming in it is not harmful at all. Possibly might be a little more dingy than most ponds/lakes because boats stir up the sediment and it never has time to settle back down and clear up...but it’s not dangerous or gross. I have lived in the mountains in the middle of nowhere my whole life and I have swam in literally dozens of ponds and lakes and rivers. It’s actually much more enjoyable than a pool. I have never once swam in any pond or lake that stank or left me smelling bad. You just smell like nature. Like that grass smell when someone mows their lawn. It’s a common sense thing that you obviously shower after you swim in a pond or lake...but it’s not going to hurt you of make you nasty. People shower after swimming in pools....it’s the same as a lake. Actually most lakes are cleaner than pools. Nasty ass chlorine and bleach chemicals and little kids piss and shit floating around....fucking city people make me sick.
I LOVE this first part when they get wet!!! 😂 That was the only NORMAL part that they have. The one where they didn't have to act or pretend they're something they're not just to have some fun. That and scene when he falls after running up to stairs to "kick some Russian butt"! XD 🤣🤣🤣
Agreed. She's an emotional train wreck. Not to mention the fact that she's completely self righteous. Like the episode when she expects Charlotte to lend her some money or when she blamed Miranda for ruining her wedding in the movie. Or when she thinks she's above going to a therapist.
Big seems to be an unrealistic type of narcissist who in real life would never settle in marriage with a Carrie type of woman. She'd be discarded like an old pair of shoes. It's also tragic for a Carrie type of woman to have to tip-toe all her life around such an abso-fucking-lute hollow type of world. Such men are simply annihilating. They push you further to your radiance on your own or to your destruction in a distant and guarded togetherness with them
Of course they're still them, you can see & feel how much they want each other.When 2 people look @ each other like that a passionate encounter usually follows. If he was devastated over his divorce, he wouldn't want to see Carrie straight away. She breaks that look twice & sighs so loudly, she wants him so badly & commitment, doesn't think she's gonna get it & instead of losing each other she pretends they can be friends but they're not, they're lovers, try hiding it under the surface,
Even the writers knew that it wasnt meant to be. But if they had ended it like Ally Mcbeal, people wouldn't have agreed. So because of popular demand, they wrote the ending as it is.
I went to the boat house when I was in new york judt because of that scene. But there was a rope surrounding whole terrace. Maybe it was removed specially fo that scene
Big married Natasha to do the "right thing", but the banter he has with Carrie cannot be replaced. The thing is that he did not dare to choose her so she should have looked for banter elsewhere instead of settling for Aiden and other kind but unsuitable partners not up to her.
Natasha must have left her hairdryer behind! After all the fuss about Carrie trying to leave her stuff @ Bigs & him bringing it back, he suddenly has a hairdryer,Carrie's bag was too small & would have got soaked, & also why bring it to lunch??? Defo the Ex's, convienient for Carrie. I wonder is she borrowed anything else of natasha's??
Just like a pair of kids, awkward with nothing profound or meaningful to say to each other just bla, bla bla, empty puns and riddles and witty rejoinders.
I think that is what makes a relationship really deep, when you know the other so well, even talking jibber-jabber, nothingness, silence - your hearts can't help but melt into each other.
"My Christian Dior Purse!!"
"I'LL GET ITTTT"
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
AS HE SHOULD!!!
I love that dress she's wearing! I would love one just like that!
imajeepster I think that was a Richard Tyler dress! 💃🏻
Someone bought it for $6000
You can buy a summer dress almost like that but then alter it more to look like hers.
That red wall is gorgeous. That relationship was an exercise in convincing women in the 90s that toxic relationships really can work out if there is enough dysfunction.
mella mell Just let the difficult ones go ladies!
mella mell yet they ended up married in the end.
KKKKKKKKKKKKK Thais comment is gold!!
I thought it was how perfect Big seems, he's not a prize
If there is enough money.
Love this whole scene for a variety of reasons. Mainly, she has zero temptation to sleep with him and zero self-doubt. Not questioning herself or him at all. This is the place we all need to be in our relationships. The first part - where they fall into the pond and laugh their asses off - reminds me of what was SO lacking in the movies - their sense of humor and silliness together. That's when they are both at their best - when they are able to laugh together at themselves.
Ruby Firefly She’s comfortable with herself and him finally.
Omg finally a comment, where somebody supports their relationship. Many people under other videos of them were so hateful saying stuff like "they are disgusting, they deserve each other; they are so stupid; these things don't happen in real life; she should break things off with him" She chose what she thought was best for her. People have to be more open-minded to every kind of a relationship. Not just following those stereotypes of finding the perfect partner.
Omg, just love your comment ♥️♥️♥️♥️
The OG Kim K diamond lost in the ocean reaction.
Their laught so genuine in this scene 🤣
They had an amazing chemistry
That dress...the one she was wearing when she fell into the water. So beautiful
He's such a jerk for just expecting Carrie to come right back into his life after his marriage ended. Selfish.
That's a narcissist for you.
Um... She refused to cut him out of her life, despite everything he did to her, even after she cheated on Aidan with Big.
She called him "part of her life".
Carrie was a doormat to Big's whims and she loved every moment.
Carrie should've rejected Mr.Big.
The circumstance in which she took him back made Carrie look stupid.
I understand that she was madly in love, but I could only imagine she asking herself at the end "Was it worth it?"
@@JadeTokier BINGO!!! A Narcissist just expects to be able to pull in or push away people as it suits THEIR needs.
@@_ChristinaLauren_ I'm sure Carrie loves the attention but in this moment she was wise to walk away when it became crystal clear he wanted to suck her back into his world. It's possible to keep someone in your life without getting involved with them.
one of my favorite scenes. The chemistry, and LOVE between them, is like that red wall, you just can't miss it
I have to agree very good acting on their part, it sucks you in and is very believable!
3:20 - 3:33 Omg the way he looks at her and that smile
yes he is! always ! I love him even though he's a big committment phobe
he's gross
ukxxsal no wonder she was so crazy about him i'd probably be worse
ukxxsal OH LORDT
I agree, ukxxsal. Big is one beautiful man and wish I could be with a guy as good looking as him, minus the heartache of course.
Such great chemistry!!
If that were Aidan that got her soaked she would have had a conniption
exactly. will never forget the crashed laptop episode. and the poor guy didnt even do anything!
No chemistry
She nit picked him constantly
Conniption is a great word 👌
@@Dancediva240 😂😂😂😂😂
I love when big call Carrie a kid 😘❤️❤️
Totally one of my favorite scenes in the whole series, the pond scene
My favourite Look of the whole season was this dress
I live alone and I love it.
Damn. Big is such a jerk but I'm so attracted to him.
He's not that hot
Well this is how men like him work 😂 I had a crush on him too.
Me too. So we understand how Carrie kept getting sucked in.
Good looking, rich, tall, w a big 🍆
Me too❤️
i always loved the red wall.
Morticia would never pull away from Gomez like that.
That pond water just looks disgusting - I can't imagine how foul they must have smelled after being in that.
walterlv01 omg all the water smelled like that. Dont be an ass and spoil
Oh wow. I can tell you most definitely have never lived anywhere other than the city. Pond water is that color because of sediment and dirt that’s on the bottom....dirt, you know the stuff that’s under grass? Lmao 😂 it’s not smelly water. It’s a natural body of water. Obviously you don’t drink it. But swimming in it is not harmful at all. Possibly might be a little more dingy than most ponds/lakes because boats stir up the sediment and it never has time to settle back down and clear up...but it’s not dangerous or gross. I have lived in the mountains in the middle of nowhere my whole life and I have swam in literally dozens of ponds and lakes and rivers. It’s actually much more enjoyable than a pool. I have never once swam in any pond or lake that stank or left me smelling bad. You just smell like nature. Like that grass smell when someone mows their lawn. It’s a common sense thing that you obviously shower after you swim in a pond or lake...but it’s not going to hurt you of make you nasty. People shower after swimming in pools....it’s the same as a lake. Actually most lakes are cleaner than pools. Nasty ass chlorine and bleach chemicals and little kids piss and shit floating around....fucking city people make me sick.
Smells better than wearing perfumes full of chemicals and petroleum
Actually it was fine because SJP demanded they deep clean the pool otherwise she refused to fall in
Suits there foul souls, lol.
I love the part when they fall in the water together lol that scream said it all... ☺️I jus love carry n big in all reality it was 💕
I LOVE this first part when they get wet!!! 😂 That was the only NORMAL part that they have. The one where they didn't have to act or pretend they're something they're not just to have some fun. That and scene when he falls after running up to stairs to "kick some Russian butt"! XD 🤣🤣🤣
Her dress though 😍
The Dress is so beautiful 💞
Omg the way he stands at the edge😆😆 I'd push him intentionally 😆😆
Wow, Chris Noth is the bees' knees.. if you know what I mean.
Kamase He's the cat's meow🐱
Thin knees
I would not say no to someone who calls me 'kid'...
💖 I believe in love at first sight! 💖🐝💖 they always get back together too!
Damn. He was so handsome.
Agreed. She's an emotional train wreck. Not to mention the fact that she's completely self righteous. Like the episode when she expects Charlotte to lend her some money or when she blamed Miranda for ruining her wedding in the movie. Or when she thinks she's above going to a therapist.
stregadisalem it was Miranda's fault tho. I blame big for walking out but Miranda did but a bad taste in his mouth about marrying carrie
+thicvegan Nope, it was Big's decision to not go through with the wedding.
@@JwGina bullshit. What about all those times before Miranda even opened her mouth when Big was so jittery about everything related to commitment?
She didn't ask Charlotte for money.
@@jacquiew.9165 No she didn’t but she guilt tripped her into it to the point of yelling at her for not offering.
Apparently during this scene, SJP cut her foot on some metal object at the bottom of the lake and had to get a tetanus shot.
Is it true? 😳
Hey at least she didn’t let him kiss her!
I love that he calls her a kid
I like Carrie scream!
I love that red wall it works. * i look at my wall* it's red
They are the best when they are not in a relationship lol
They have such a good conection and chemistry but the relationship is toxic af.
Lol, I'd say yes it was all your fault Mr
I think she's pretty
The way a praying mantis does?
I think he's pretty
Halcyon you are so wrong, she doesn't look like a praying mantis -- she looks like a horse.
Big seems to be an unrealistic type of narcissist who in real life would never settle in marriage with a Carrie type of woman. She'd be discarded like an old pair of shoes. It's also tragic for a Carrie type of woman to have to tip-toe all her life around such an abso-fucking-lute hollow type of world. Such men are simply annihilating. They push you further to your radiance on your own or to your destruction in a distant and guarded togetherness with them
Amen sister! No more left to say!
Of course they're still them, you can see & feel how much they want each other.When 2 people look @ each other like that a passionate encounter usually follows. If he was devastated over his divorce, he wouldn't want to see Carrie straight away. She breaks that look twice & sighs so loudly, she wants him so badly & commitment, doesn't think she's gonna get it & instead of losing each other she pretends they can be friends but they're not, they're lovers, try hiding it under the surface,
0:47 😂😂😂😂
ME FACINA EL BESTIDO DE GASA ROSA K, TIENE PUESTO
My Christian Dior purse!!!!
Qué lindo 😍
I never believed their relationship, never thought he was right her for but her decision...well the writers decision...
Gayham I agree, hated their relationship was so glamorized. It’s awful.
Even the writers knew that it wasnt meant to be. But if they had ended it like Ally Mcbeal, people wouldn't have agreed. So because of popular demand, they wrote the ending as it is.
Classic love story, every girl needs her Mr. Big..,
I don't know why but I think the red wall it kinda pretty😂
♥
I went to the boat house when I was in new york judt because of that scene. But there was a rope surrounding whole terrace. Maybe it was removed specially fo that scene
I forgot they say “fuck” on this show
That fucking squeal
Yes!! It was all his fault. God Damn Carrie
Someone knows where can I get this dress?
sleeping with a man who calls you kid
For me big was better then that Russian guy
Big married Natasha to do the "right thing", but the banter he has with Carrie cannot be replaced.
The thing is that he did not dare to choose her so she should have looked for banter elsewhere instead of settling for Aiden and other kind but unsuitable partners not up to her.
She should’ve stayed away from him like she was trying to do in this episode. She could do so much better
'My Christian Dior Purse' was the original 'My Diamond Earrings'
Am I the only one to catch the Kim Kardashian reference? 😂
Yes, Big it WAS all your fault!
No ,she was annoying and clingy
"Exactly how many terry cloth robes do you have?" I don't know why, but every time I hear this I find it so cringy...
Shes already helped him ruin his marriage, so the desire is gone, she's so basic
What does Carrie say after, “my hair”? Can’t make it out
"My hair is in a duck pond"
Did Big ever explain why he married Natasha, always wondered about that
Because she was good on paper.
Because things with Carrie just got so hard, and she was (simple)...
Natasha must have left her hairdryer behind! After all the fuss about Carrie trying to leave her stuff @ Bigs & him bringing it back, he suddenly has a hairdryer,Carrie's bag was too small & would have got soaked, & also why bring it to lunch??? Defo the Ex's, convienient for Carrie. I wonder is she borrowed anything else of natasha's??
Some men have hairdryers , specially someone as vain as Big might have one
or 2:20 or something
Just like a pair of kids, awkward with nothing profound or meaningful to say to each other just bla, bla bla, empty puns and riddles and witty rejoinders.
I think that is what makes a relationship really deep, when you know the other so well, even talking jibber-jabber, nothingness, silence - your hearts can't help but melt into each other.
Jessie K it's a fucking show jfc
+TheOriginalRevolt - except Carrie and Big didn't have hearts.
They are both a pain in the ass
They always had fun together. Is that not profound to you?
Ajay
Chinne home sleep shower call
I've watched this episode a couple times, and each time I can't help but wonder just how much bird shit is in that pond? 🤢🤮
Is organic nobody gets poisoned
Boy love kiss walk bicycle sleep boyfriends
These two were so corny together, it was sickening.