Stumped by Matt's Past | You Can Sit With Us Ep. 176
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- čas přidán 8. 06. 2024
- Matt quizzes Becky and Maggie to see who knows him BEST. Plus, we talk about mantras for when you're anxious.
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PODCAST DEPT
Executive Producer | Keith Habersberger
Executive Producer | Eugene Lee Yang
Executive Producer | Zach Kornfeld
Podcast Producer | Rainie Toll
Audio Engineer | Jonathan Kirk
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becky’s “but what if you lose your job, and then you have to job search, and you don’t find a new job, and you lose your house” thought spiral is also very much my style of anxiety
Try Guys need to do a ballroom dance episode with their respective partners and any other crew/friends. PLEASE! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Not Matt coming with all the bangers in this episode... the bit towards the end about losing a job and being happy that you found another where you belong really hit me. Literally the experience I had this year 😭👏👏👏 I need a friend like Matt
Obsessed with Matt hearing “2 truths and a lie” and going LEMONS
Matt's literally never been happier during YCSWU than this episode when he got to quiz everyone 😂 This was so cute. I love this friendship so much.
"I never said with your eyes"
MATTHEW!!
Love the sass between becky and matt this episode i kept laughing out loud and its 2am right now 🤭🤭
This crew's energy can't be beat. So refreshing to see on CZcams!
Maggie saying "I can't believe it's already October" when it's literally December 😅 they really weren't kidding when they said they film in advance lol, but 2 months?!?!
Gotta remember they need to have stuff filmed ahead of time so they have time to actually spend with their families during the holidays 😊 plus they know we have been deprived of Becky, so please pump out as many Becks eps as you have! We missed you Becky!
I must have missed that
me: who works in film & tv, thinking they record 2-3 weeks in advance and not TWO WHOLE MONTHS
i think it depends , cause last week Becky spoke about a book released in november
Absolutely loving how silly-goofy Bex is being this episode!! We need an update if th couple ever reached out to you & Keith!! I think sending them a "Happy Holidays" text would be appropriate & a good way to test the waters😊
YES. I was coming to the comments to sat the same thing re: the twins couple. I second, third, four-hundredth this. Send the Happy Holidays text, and if you want to be bolder, write something like, "So glad to have met you this year. Would love to schedule a [play-date / game night / coffee / whatever] in the New Year!"
Splitting thread tip: make sure you're only ever pulling 1 thread at a time. Even if you want 3 strands in the end, pull them out one at a time and hold the others firmly so they don't slide. In my experience, the knots come when multiple strands are sliding at once.
The way i thought Matt said "yeah, I'm not doing that" when Becky said expreas your emotions more lolol
26:39 breyer horses omg throwback moment! ty to matt and rainie for unlocking a childhood memory 😂 rainie's sudden rant abt breyer model sizes is everything!!
Embroidery tips!!: for splitting thread I let gravity and natural spin help me split thread! Like when you pull it apart lift it up so it will naturally untangle itself as you pull. Also just do it slowly so you can catch any knots before they get bad 💜 hopefully that makes sense 😅
cross stitcher here! hopped over to the comments just to say that if you hold the whole thread from the middle and then slowly pull one thread from the top, you shouldn't get any knots! only pull one at a time too. every time i try to do more than one, it becomes a mess. love that you're getting into embroidery/stitching Becky!
Becky is giving silly holiday party drunk this episode and it has me rolling, I really needed this energy today 🥲
“I didn’t prepare for this”
“Well it was in the email so you should have.”
If that is not a summary of my life 😅
When Becky brought up the couple with twins I totally thought it was gonna be that they thought Becky and Keith were asking for a sort of foursome open relationship
Hahhahahaa 😂😂😂😂
It reminded me of Monica and Chandler making a couple friend during their honeymoon and they were ghosted too hahahahaha
Becky's story about the new couple friend reminds me of the HIMYM episode where Lily & Marshall wants a new couple friend. And now that I think about it, Keith is a lil bit like Marshall😂😭😭
As someone whose nickname is Minnie, I'm so happy that they said Minnie is cute name☺️
Im so curious what your name is, but I understand if you’re not comfortable sharing lol. Minnie is such a cool name and nickname. ❤
@@jdavisjohnson3380 No problem at all~ I'm from Thailand though, our nickname have nothing to do with our first name, just something short and simple, so we can be called easier, cause our first names are usually long or conplex to pronounce, my first name is Waethakar, but my mom kinda likes Minnie mouse, so my nickname is Minnie and my younger brothers are Mickey and Winnie(the pooh)🤣
I'M A WEIRD QUAIL LADY!! I have 11!! Ive had a few fatalities and injuries along the way. But i truly love my little babies. I sprout them micro greens and give them lots of treats. They all have their own personalities and watching them is pretty therapuetic. ❤
Virgos are detail-oriented, systematic, love all things words (Matt being a polyglot is sooo Virgo), perfectionist
According to this I must be a Virgo 😆
Matt, need more about the Quails please and your quail set up!!
Hahaha I’m a vet at a spay and neuter clinic and found it very funny and interesting that they knew for males the testicles get fully removed but then were shocked it’s the same for the females.
But yes removing the ovaries is the most important part to remove as that controls the hormones that cause them to go into heat and stimulates the uterus and mammary glands (which over time can lead to pyometra -infection in the uterus- or cancers) and without ovaries there are no eggs to get fertilized for a pregnancy either but it is way way more common to just remove the ovaries and uterus together.
we need ycswu to plog 🙏🏼
Becky, about that couple who hasn't responded/contacted you. Maybe they are busy like you said, but maybe they just got scared. There is a big chance that when they met you, they didn't know you and Keith were online celebrities and then later at home they googled you or something and realized that you were not just a regular couple, but online couple with quite a lot of followers/fans. To be honest, I would also chicken out and you can't really blame them. It's nothing personal, it's just not for everyone. At least that was my first thought, there could be other reasons as well 🙃
Now I need to hear Matt sing! 30:10
Matt was a TRANSPONSTER!!!!
Becky - to stop knots in thread you can get a wax to pull your thread through once in the needle. Usually in a plastic case with slots to pull it through. I got a paraffin wax one and it helps but I think bees wax/more natural wax would be better as the paraffin one leaves it a little stiff. Hope that helps, I also hate splitting threads!
Becky’s story meeting a fun couple sounds like that FRIENDS episode where Monica and Chandler met that couple on their honeymoon and the couple gave them their wrong number to M&C 😂
Everyone should answer these 20 questions. These were fun.
A spay for female animals is removing all the parts! I know because my family adopted our childhood dog from the shelter, and the shelter said she was spayed, but turned out she was not, and she had her uterus infected at one point :(
omg poor baby!!!
@@kathleenuclearI know 😭 I was so shocked when the doctor said she wasn't actually spayed. She lived for a while after that incident thankfully! She's gotten her wings since then 🥺
Omg im sooo late but i LOVE embroidery
You can’t go to Legoland without a child apparently 😂
Okay splitting embroidery floss to threads, what I do is:
1: Start the split in my fingers
2: I keep the threads I need in my dominant hand.
3: I keep the bulk of the floss that I’m splitting from in my mouth (sorry if that’s gross 😅)
4: I use my non dominant hand to hold the opposite end of the entire bundle, and I pull it tight, no slack in the thread.
5: I pull the threads I need in my dominant hand away from the main strand that I’m holding tight with my moth and other hand!
Keeping tension on all ends helps stop the thread from knotting!
And for threading your needle, if licking the thread aint your style, grab a candle and run the end of your thread against the wax. Don’t light the candle just rub the thread agains the body of the wax. It’ll help stiffen just that end of thread and keep it from fraying
I love when they say Rainie on the ones and twos haha but how come they say that for intro? Just curious
"Ones and twos" is a way to refer to a DJ's turntables! So they're using it as slang since she is running sound and producing.
Ohh so that’s why! Thanks for the info!
two truths and a lie
MATTHEW
they’re usually about youuuu
Yeah they're meant to be about yourself as an ice-breaking exercise HAHA
actors on actors margot robbie and cillian murphy also released an hour ago… watched this first
YASSS 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Omg 174 ep😮
I also picked up hand embroidery shortly after my first was born … I do a lot of other sewing too, but I found hand embroidery great when I was nap trapped. The best way to split your threads is to put out 1 at a time … it looks like the remaining threads are going to knot, but they rarely do. Here’s a good short (I don’t know the channel, so I can’t recommend everything):
czcams.com/users/shorts8pAchFm5xs4?si=ZYJTfqSFe09yd9b2
Okay but Matt is CLEARLY a gazelle
7:22 that sounds like my mum. If she had been to America this year I would be convinced you met her because dragons are her signature animal to create with
Duuuuuude literally embroidering rn
Love Becky cumin in hot 😂
Not even going to finish the episode
Just happy that Becky is pumped 🎉
My big 3 are all Virgo and I’m also a Virgo Stellium👻💅
I honestly can't imagine how hard life must be for people with anxiety. My chill factor borders on nihilism these days. Whatever happens, happens and I will just deal with the consequences - that's just life. I can't say I understand the whole "it's a man thing" though? Seems like a lot of it is either brain chemistry or the way you were raised.
I was getting frustrated that Matt didn't actually disclose anything and turned it into a "how well do you know me" instead, then I heard he was a Virgo, and it all made sense LOL
When spaying (which is for females) the vet removes uterus and ovaries because dogs can get a very very bad infection in their uterus it fills with puss and can rupture and the infections can just happen usually during or at the end of the dogs heat cycle
Legoland is much more geared towards children. I wouldn't go without a kid. But it IS fun for kids of all ages. Lots of stuff for Littles to do.
51:20
Oh my gosh I want a man like Matt!😢 Even though I'm happily married, hee hee.
Ok so for Becky to separate threads----- hold the top of the thread you want in one hand and all the rest in the other and keep the bottom in your mouth as you pull them apart. Works every time, no tangles
Literally just got back from Walmart after buying a new sewing machine.
Wdym this was filmed in October lol
Reach out and then if they don’t respond then done……
Consistent usage of Better Help is always so disappointing.... I love this podcast but its over and over again. They have to have heard its bad right?
Seriously... time for a better sponsor
IMO BetterHelp hate is virtue signaling. It’s not great by any means but it’s a public option that, for me, provided support for me and my mental health when my bs health insurance did not
At the end of the day they're a business. I know Better Help has done some shit things, but it's personally helped me in a pinch, and is accessible to folks. If this is the price for amazing content, then I'm fine with it.
Honestly I had more of an issue when they had Native as a sponser...and then on an episode talked about how natural deodorants don't work for them (I think that was the Try Pod though to be fair).
At this point, I'm pretty sure it's Ramble that sets the sponsor segments and they just have to read them
Are the people who keep hating better help scorned patients or just picking up a buzzword issue. I used them for a while in the pandemic and had a good experience and all the stuff people complain about (data sharing, bad therapists) exist in other therapy models too.
The yuckiest ickiest thing better help has done is partner with a literal genocidal state to offer free therapy to the aggresing population. But that happened two weeks ago yet ive been reading these oppositions to better help for like a year. And i mean partnering w genocidal states as a reason not to support a company would mean we couldn’t even use youtube…
Fight your important fights but come on energy is finite put it somewhere useful.
Betterhelp hate is textbook virtue signaling. I really valued the sessions I had with my Better Help therapist, also during Covid. Obviously it’s quite the profit-driven machine but like.. is there any other public option available (honest question)?
can you get jonny cakes on thi show?
he was on ep. 157!!!
@@juliebuckley5833 awesomeeeee
So when were we talking about Ariel or better with her again
Better help is bunch of lies
The podcast feels so out of date!
Why?
Man Matt Iove you but get off your phone
bet you feel dumb now after watching more of the episode and realising he was writing questions etc, this is why u don’t comment on things before u finish them
IKR it was putting me off too
@@vidaaess r u dumb