WHY I LEFT THE PHILIPPINES 🇵🇭😢
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- yes, I Left the Philippines. In today's video I share with you the 4 reasons why I decided to leave the philippines early and I came back to Thailand.
Thank you so much for watching ;)
Best,
Gabi
0:00 intro
0:26 my original plan in the philippines
01:04 Issue n.1
01:44 Issue n.2
02:12 the REAL reason
02:20 Mental health
03:13 Loneliness in Boracay
05:32 Cebu
08:05 Leaving the Philiipines
08:47 Paradise Overdose
11:07 Future Plans
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I love traveling alone. Being anonymous is so liberating. I do chat with the locals, but I like that I can move on and do what I want, when I want. Unfortunately, if you are depressed, you can be anywhere, with anyone and the feeling will not go away. I hope you find inner peace. I get mine by being grateful for the things that I learned or received everyday. 🙏
Being able to travel solo seems like a super power sometimes. Definitely takes some inner tenacity to weather the storms of being alone. The saving grace is that the "storms" pass more quickly as you become a more seasoned "sailor".
All nations has it's SHARE of good people and bad people, good places and bad places. It is just a matter of being at the right place and at the right time with the RIGHT COMPANY! Yes, especially with the RIGHT COMPANY!
same me i like alone travel
Amen! 🙏
*he sounds weak as h311*
It is not about the place and the people you have visited…ultimately, it’s the traveler’s state of mind that matters
We are tiwns why are the same R to me koddo?
It's also about the place, though.
@@timothyspool1399 Not entirely. I was in Singapore recently and the place was so beautiful but my state of mind was just not vibing. It was not the place. It was me, at that moment of my life, I was just feeling off.
@@chinacancioyes, I agree. You can be in the most beautiful place but if you're not in the right state of mind, you won't appreciate the beauty of the place & you can still be miserable. I hope you're feeling better now.
Only those with a strong mentality can truly appreciate the experience of traveling alone . The Philippines is an incredible place, albeit not without its imperfections. What makes it truly special is the company you keep. Unlike many other destinations, English is widely spoken here, allowing for meaningful connections with the locals. My time here has been life-changing, not just because of the country's natural beauty, but because of the warmth and kindness of the Filipino people.
Visiting the Philippines has partly cured my depression and cured my drug addiction! Beautiful place and people, I think about this beautiful place every night!! 🥰🥰
Yeah many expats changed their lives in the Philippines and even cured Depression and saved lives. I don't know what's wrong with this person. He was saying the other way around. 🥴
Same for me ,was healing experience, was great ❤👍
Congrats to you guys for getting clean and free of depression. You can enjoy the sunrise and sunset now.
I am from Canada and my favorite place for relaxation and healing is Mazatlan, Mexico. I understand what you are saying.
Leyte is nicer and very peaceful
It’s a reason why socializing is such an important practice.
It’s like when people feel lonely at the movie theatre, but when you look around there’s tons of people.
Sure you don’t have to talk to them all. But what would we do if we were children? Probably just walk up to someone and say hi, or maybe just stare… lol
Somewhere along the lines we get rusty at making friends or just conversation with strangers. Massively underrated skill.
Scum. All them. Even if you try being friendly to them a lot, you get stabbed verbally in gossip m, work and among other friends. I mean no harm but it is too much. I lost faith with my countrymen.
Social skills died at the onset of social media. Not having friends in real life is a soul destroyer no doubt.
@@sfrealestatedealmaker6001 it is - I don't blame social media though.
friends as we age has been a problem for some time now.
hell, imagine in the early 1900s what adults said about A/C. "damn kids staying inside all day cause of that A/C. member we used to sit outside and just sweat it out on the stoop?" @@sfrealestatedealmaker6001
Not to mention the romanticism of being an introvert and being a homebody and all these other things
The reason also my American brother inlaw left Thailand is the language barrier he is now in Philippines he said the people are friendly and they can speak English and culture more southern
Yup. Plus too many lady bys and drg addicts walking around in Thailand. No thanks
Also. Don't ever pick up a stray ping pong ball from the ground. It was covered in a liquid. I found out later what it was. 🤮🤮🤮
I totally understand where you are coming from ,I also have similar mental health issues as yourself , I recently spent 3 months in the Philippines and had very similar emotions you described but as time went on it became easier thanks for your openness and honesty it helps me to see I'm not the only one 👍
I agree , his sharing these experiences will go a long way in helping me with mine , when they inevitably arise in the future , someplace far from home . . . alone !!!! And yes , you're definitely not the only one ! The more we are open about this experience we can all go through while travelling the world , the more we can do to help fellow travelers along the way , who might be having a rough day . . ... or more .
Tell us what drugs you were addicted to, relationships you've ruined over the years , family and friends you've fallen out with.
What medication you're doctor has you on.
This will give us some idea about you buddy.
The title of the video should've been "I'm depressed, I need help". Your struggles are from the inside, and it has nothing to do with the Philippines.
He was pretty transparent as to why and he mentioned his mental health you don’t have to be so Vicious, he’s actually sharing his life and personal struggle on a public platform what in the world is wrong with you ?
Get in where you fit in
@@Classwork-uk8mu well say bro
Just like some Filipino who speak english politely but not politely in real sense😂😂😂😂
@classwork-uk8ma as a Filipino I’m dead serious as to why I hate living in the Philippines. It just feels so depressing and lonely to live in the country especially with the way how things are going 😢😒
I dont think that’s depression, I think you just dont like it here in the Philippines. You just dont want to hurt our feelings. Been there, but if you are having a depression or mental health issue, it couldnt be cured by a place and even if you are in the comfort of your family.
Hahahaha... Alibi nalang ni kuya na may depression siya. Sana nagpunta nalang siya sa psychiatrist..
It’s not where you are it’s how you live your life. Being depressed in cebu? I think we Filipinos never experience it. Just eat mangoes 🤍
He want to live in thailand but he want the support of the Philippines thats what the video for. 🤍
Hang in there! I very much relate to the feelings you are experiencing, particularly the social anxiety and depression. Sharing your feelings publicly takes a lot of courage, but talking about them definitely helps others who are dealing with similar struggles.
Social Anxiety is to do with being torn between Alcohol, Cannabis, Sobriety...the enjoyment of solitude, but contemplating the gravity of what solitude means, I think.
Depression is to do with Spiritual Anxiety, right?
I wish you well.
Cheers
Snowflake generation, get depressed when they burn their avocado toast, try getting a job and stop jumping on the bandwagon
@@onekumarajay
Yah good that youre not an psychologist!
AS A FILIPINA AND BEEN IN THAILAND AS A TOURIST FOR SEVERAL TIMES, WHAT I CAN SAY IS THAILAND IS MUCH SAFER THAN PHILIPPINES.❤❤❤
Safer in what way? I plan to visit and I woukd love to hear more from you about this.
True
I’m feeling this for the first time solo traveling. I always travel solo and it helps my depression. I meet random people go on adventures with them etc. This time around it’s different. Loneliness is effecting me while traveling for the first time. Finding it hard to talk to people. First time I’ve travelled since all the lockdowns etc. I’m wandering if the world has also changed a bit. Like people seem to be harder to approach. Or maybe it’s just me. I feel for you brother. I’m actually in Boracay now feeling the exact same way minus anxiety, I don’t get anxiety. Just depression and loneliness. It’s a damn unshakable monster at times. Hang in there and keep searching for your joy. Glad you have somewhere that makes you feel better. Sadly I’m still searching for that place within at 41 years old it grind you down. A form of torture some would say. Wishing everyone a new year full of blessings and abundance in your lives. Peace
There's no magic word potion to make sense of life, however, finding ways to feel fulfilled is possible! Then ones focus is on sharing energy and time doing things you feel inspired by, in a way of sharing, in a way of giving. Then the focus of ones attention is coming from a place of light and blessings. The other option is being mentally consumed with thoughts of what one lacks. I'm 46, lack stuff, like a partner I feel right with etc. yet have been progressively realizing that while being alone is kinda shitty feeling, at times, being with the wrong people is even worse, and that goes for even if they are good people, if it's just not the right match for whatever reason one needs to get out of there if it's at all a possibility that makes sense to do, hopefully with out hurting others, but sometimes you need to care for yourself, and others will find their way. There really is a lot to learn through being on ones own. We're never actually alone in the Spirit.
Stay strong man. Paradise is not the place, it is the people where you feel confortable to be with. Cheer up! Salamat for visiting my country. 🤗
My god, so beautiful phrase! Paradise is not a place.🎉🙏🙏
Really like yourcomment
What a load of crap. Why dont you go live in Somalia or South Sudan or right in the middle of any warzone with your friends and loved ones then. It will be paradise.
@@user-ym5xk8um9cI totally disagree. You just know pointless things that are of no interest to locals and they find you boring.
@@user-ym5xk8um9c well, you're most probably just a whining brat
Thank you for visiting the Philippines. Take care man. Hope you overcome your anxiety and depression. I’m going to the Philippines next month. The country that I love.
Anxiety is just managing substances such as Alcohol/Cannabis/Sobriety, right?
Depression is just Spiritual Anxiety I think.
I wish you well.
Peace
Why do you love the Phillipines. Im considering going. I'm 60
I need to be somewhere where people are kind and humble 😊
I'm leaving the Philippines.
@@eddieBoxerwhy?
@@stevenflores972 Go to Thailand.. 30 years advanced from the Philippines, No value for money in the Philippines. depressing place
Sorry for how you feel. It’s tough to be on your own when travelling. Maybe you shouldn’t travel on your own. Anywhere you go you will feel like this. But it’s also what you bring to it? What energy do you bring to this experience? A lot of vloggers I watch are very positive, energetic, open, adventurous and friendly. They bring this energy everyday or as much as possible. But we’re only human so perhaps when you are more ready and in a better place you can travel again. Good luck!
I can relate with the Paradise Overdose. I also lived in the Philippines and just like what you said I am so used to seeing beautiful islands and beaches so whenever I travel I am not really excited to see other countries beaches. What I wanted to see are beautiful cities or some places that I can't see in the Philippines.
I appreciate you for being so open about mental health issues and depression. Maybe not a popular topic, but a very important one for sure. I know exactly what you mean. I just have been to Asia for about three month, but I feel quite lonely a lot of times. The most beautiful place on earth can not make it Go away. To enjoy the outside world, you have to be at peace with your inner world first. And that can be very challenging. Wish you all the best
I really appreciate you speaking openly about your mental health issues. You demonstrated your strength by acknowledging your limits and making the right decision for your well-being.
I also needed to hear what you had to say. Your video helped me very much. Thank you.
In the Philippines, instead of beaches, maybe it might be better to travel to the mountains. The mountains are a nice contrast to the beaches since the weather is cooler, no beaches, no coconut trees but lots of pine trees and mountain scenery. You can smell the pine trees. The coolest months are Dec and Jan. It gets to around 10 C at night. Nothing sub zero but cold enough to need some form of heating in the home or heavy blankets.
the mountains in the cebu province are full of coconut trees and don't get that cold
Thanks for voicing this Gabi. This is how I've always felt. I mean, I CAN travel by myself and I have a bit of a lone wolf complex, but I know exactly how you feel. Traveling to new and interesting places, witnessing something amazing for the first time, experiencing beauty with no one you know to share the experience feels really empty to me.
Once again, thank you. Sei bravo!👏🏽
All nations has it's SHARE of good people and bad people, good places and bad places. It is just a matter of being at the right place and at the right time with the RIGHT COMPANY! Yes, especially with the RIGHT COMPANY!
But your loneliness has nothing to do with the country. I travelled alone a lot too and you have to realize that you are alone, wherever and whenever you go. That's the reality.
The guy is too insecure and depressed to be traveling alone
Exactly, he is too low self-esteem. Philippines is great.
Locals will speak with you happily but are shy, so you should reach out first and engage.
But obviously when you are someone in a mental state like this, making the first move is too difficult…
you can made friends every where,,,alone is great free
I stayed in Thailand for more than 5 years and 6 years in Philippines. They are much more the same. Friendly and welcoming but Philippines went above my expectation.
Personally, you don't need Thailand, you need mental health care. Your problem is not your sorrounding, your problem is yourself.
He comes from Italy, which to me as an Asian is a gorgeous place with great food culture. Yeah I think he’s escaping from something and he’s not even seeking some medical care to help him out.
Can't escape mental health issues traveling..
Correct
Get well.🙏💪👌
The Philippines will be glad to welcome you again!!!
Pretty understandable. I can feel your pain. Glad you are feeling better. Thailand is a beautiful country I heard. Thanks for sharing your experiences.
Oh mate Gabi, I feel for you. Thanks for sharing your personal issue which somehow I also can relate to it. Like many commenters have already said, there is no rush. The Philippines will be right there when you feel you are healed and ready to take on a new journey. Right now, enjoy Songkran festival but be cautious with the extreme weather there, I heard it is extremely hot this year 40+ degree. Stay strong, safe and hydrated, very important. I cannot wait for your Chiangmai trip. Cheers mate!
@Gabi....You should have explored the mountains and rural areas of Cebu island and not stayed in the urban center of Cebu City if you really wanted something to soothe your mind and keep your mental health in check. The mountains of Cebu City alone (just a few minutes drive uphill) has lots of natural and man-made attractions such as adventure parks, botanical gardens, rock formations, scenic peaks, scenic roads, scenic villages and farmlands, camp grounds/sites, mountain resorts, viewing decks, chic restaurants/cafes, glamping sites and hiking trails. And if you drive further out to either south or north of Cebu City to rural towns and cities, paved roads crisscross the mountains offering you amazing sceneries as they take you to quaint mountain villages and farmlands, waterfalls, springs, lush jungles and dozens of mountain peaks that you can easily climb in just few minutes of short trek. Cebu is a very big island that has hundreds of calming natural wonders such as the famous turquoise blue waters of its waterfalls, cold springs, streams, lakes and many semi-secluded white sandy beaches all to yourself that may have given you some sort of healing.
Filipino here. Thanks for dropping by. The Philippines isn't perfect. Some people will like it and some won't. No worries. Hope all goes well with you and I wish you all the best with your mental health.
Hungry rats looking for cash cash cash@!@!
3th world country! Old penopaused old crocodiles paying young poor girls
I don't know why but I suspect I would feel far more comfortable around people that I can communicate with. From what I know, most people speak or understand English in the Philippines, whereas. hardly any people speak English in Thailand. I would like to live in Thailand but struggling with the Thai language is really a turnoff!!
I think you have a great personality and I think it's great that you can open up about your mental health! Stay strong Gabi, you're doing great and keep on following your heart xxx❤
It happened to me in Phuket in January 2023. 😢 Phuket is beautiful but I completely lost the motivation and energy. I ended up buying an expensive flight ticket to return earlier to Europe.
Can u elaborate
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Im sorry to hear what you're going through.... no matter where you go if your depressed you cant find happiness. Hope youll be healed soon🙏🙏🙏
Hi Gabi, thanks for the honesty. One thing I've learned as I've gotten older (66) is the more we focus on meeting other's needs the less we care about how we feel and paradoxically become happier.
thats fine man we understand the situation and we know that a lot of people are experiencing anxiety and i personally know how hard it is. keep in mind that you are always welcome here in the Philippines
I like your comment. Very kind of you. Yep! We are all in the same boat and there are many of us. Take care.
Nice comment. Thank you for your kind words.
@@Dan-xx5jq you too sir always take care and be blessed
@@joeysarmiento1925 your welcome
All nations has it's SHARE of good people and bad people, good places and bad places. It is just a matter of being at the right place and at the right time with the RIGHT COMPANY! Yes, especially with the RIGHT COMPANY!
Hope everything is settling a bit now my friend. We're just so thankful that you did your best visiting Philippines. Hope one day you'll visit again with your someone special or special people and you'll share it with them. Take care and hope that you'll have a peaceful mind and being strong emotionally and mentally. God bless 🙏 🇵🇭.
Thanks for sharing. People need to hear this. Take care of yourself. You’re not alone.
3:57 Being alone is tough sometimes bro, we all go through this. Part of being a human being. Thanks for sharing man. You’ll get through it, try to make small talk with strangers, I feel like this helps me with my mood. Specially in the Philippines where everyone is friendly, approachable and warm. That was literally the perfect country to have the mental issues you were experiencing.
Yeah supposedly as many expats do. But his was the other way around. I think he was just being pessimistic first hand in coming to the Philippines that's why he didn't enjoy. 🙄
I think it can hit one anywhere , at any time . Sometimes being in the happiest place can make a person feel worse , as it can make one feel even lonelier , if that makes sense .
He's still traumatized by Dubai and much to handle traveling alone w/ a trusted host.
You are so brave, Gabi. Hang in there. I watched your video and was so moved. I thought over and over of what words I could say. And then, I too had to face my own failings in life and it just opened up a can of worms for me. At the same time I wished I could tap you on the back and say it is okay, my friend. I wished I lived around you so that I could visit you but I know Flo will be there for you. Yes, your video had a huge effect on me like no other video has had. I admire folks like you who are so brave to be open and share something so personal but that it helps so many. We are all in the same boat as you. Take care my brother. We all love you Gabi.
I now travel Phillipines on my bike past few month and loving it, I also bought it second hand without an issue cash on spot and got all registration transferred and with 3 signatures letters sign by attorney under one day man, I think you panicked and definitely didn’t do your homework prior coming here.
All the best😊
Keep it up bro! Just go with the flow and take care with your issues...welcoming you again back to the 🇵🇭🤙
You can always go back to the 🇵🇭 with a friend or family in that way you won’t feel sad or alone. Good luck🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Gabi, I really appreciate this video. I have travelled over 50 countries, more often than not alone, and there have been times that I have experienced similar feelings and have had to move on from particular locations and even countries. Never been to the Philippines, but hope to get there in the next few years. Have been to Thailand many times, and expect I will enjoy more visits in the future. You did the right thing by yourself and I trust you will be able to adjust to Malaysia when you visit there. Thailand makes a great base.
Be in bohol safe and have lots of white beaches
Thanks for sharing. I can relate to your struggles. I’ve had the same in my younger years. Work on your happiness first and you’ll find someone to share it with. The key is to not care what others think about you. You can’t please everyone. Take care.
Im from Cebu and I totally understand the timing of your mental health struggles while you were in this beautiful island that you overlooked how warm people are and the things that are beautiful that you could have discovered. When your head is at a good place maybe consider to comeback and experience our loving island. But for now it hurts to hear the comparison since I believe every place has a gem it’s not always the same experience and hope you find that gem if you comeback. I love your vulnerability though and very honest opinions and we will continue to support you and watch your videos all the best for you. ❤
i keep hearing "
how nice and "warm and frienldy" people are here. i meet a lot of peopele here and warm and friendly is not my experience. I am not an introvert but like to be around authentic people. maybe its the language barrier, I dont know. i find a lot or restaurant and store clerks cold and apathetic. they get a bit more animated depending on if I am spending or not. strange but trure
I believe that . @@mikestrenja2966
I commend your honesty. It’s hard to open up about vulnerability; that itself is showing your humility and strength. More power to you!
It gets to the point where you want to share it with that special someone. We used to call it missing someone, now they call it mental illness. Hearts can break from missing people.
Sure just use one person as your medicine for mental health. Sounds healthy
It's basically saying he is getting crazy or partly crazy already 😢
There will come a day when there won’t be a “special someone”, if you live long enough. Then you need to find your peace from within.
He’s just in a place that doesn’t speak to his soul.
He just needs to move on.
IF YOU FEEL BAD WHEN YOU ARE ALONE. It’s MEANS YOU ARE IN WRONG COMPANY DUDE.
I changed 30 countries and the philippines is the most friendly and open hearted peoples in the whole world. Work on your self.
Thank you for appreciating my country. 🙂
@@loLools3 walang anuman. & walay sapayan 😁👍🇵🇭🔥😍
lol
Because he was homesick! He expected PH to be like Thailand like a lot of these Foreigners do.
Filipino here and I know that this video was posted 1 year ago, but I wanted to say. Thank you so much for dropping by. Very sorry about how you feel and yes I know it is very hard when your family and friends are not with you. I also felt a same way when I left Manila (that’s where I grew up)
and moved back to Cebu (that’s where I was born). But again thank you so much for dropping by and take care of
Thank you for making this video. I recently came to the Philippines alone and, while I've met and spent time with a few expats, I'm also struggling with loneliness and needing to feel connected. Starting to think about going to Pattaya.
Hey Gabi! You are not alone! We totally love you and your videos and were following your steps in Thailand and Cambodia this year ( just back in Greece, where we live). I just watched thos video yesterday and was quite surprised that you are suffering from depression and low moods, because my partner thinks you are the most positive person 😊😊😊.
Well, you are never alone! I bet so many people love you already! The job that you are doing is amazing and motivates so many of us!
I must tell you that I felt quite similar in Philippines, I keep on thinking that I should give it another chance. I have so many Philippino friends here,so maybe next time it's better to travel with locals. There is a darkside of the Philippines, so don't be surprised you felt like that.
Anyway, if you need a rest and to recharge your batteries, please, be our guest in Greece, always!!! Not kidding! Here for you to be your guide! 🤩🤩🤩
Thanks for being so honest. I’ve followed your channel for a while. Particularly your Indian trip. I guess I don’t fully appreciate mental health issues Just let me say you appear to be an incredible human being who would be a pleasure to know and engage with. You have brought so much joy and encouragement to so many. Particularly those of us armchair adventurers. Thank you so much and please know you have the emotional support and love and appreciation from all of us. Prayers for you and your well being. 👍🙏
I don’t want to sound non sympathetic but you’re an adult, you chose to either be a victim or a champion. As a teenager I had major social anxieties, but guess what, I realized no one was gonna save me from them so I actively worked to over come them. Since then I have lived in many counties met many people, had relationships with beautiful women, all things I could never have done if I sat around feeling sorry for myself. Some would say that the Philippines is one of the best places to overcome your social anxieties because people are so friendly and talkative there!
Hi Gabi, I think I understand what you have had...had exactly the same 'anxiety' issues many times....I wonder if breaking the cycle wouldn't help...push yourself to meet people !
Thank you for sharing Gabi. What you are saying resonates with me. I know the feeling of loneliness and depression and have felt it when travelling alone. The way you told your story I find very helpful and I’m sure others will too. I love your channel and look forward to seeing more of your incredible adventures. Take care of yourself and travel safe 🤗
It’s a little heartbreaking to watch this video knowing you missed to explore the real beauty of our country. But I totally agree that mental health must always be a priority. It’ll be a real challenge to unleash your creative juices if your mind, soul and body are not connected. Hope you feel better soon Gabi. 🙏🏻
I used to live and work in the Philippines for a short period of time. I really liked some aspects of the place but then I moved back to Bangkok because it had better health care services, infrastructure and for me I was able to fly to other places easily. Interesting to hear your experiences!
I'm sorry that you are feeling that way. I just hope that everything will work for you better soon. Wherever you go I hope that you will be able to take care of your mental health. Take care always. 😘
Oh wow. Honest and straight to the point. Respect! We all have up and downs, but sharing them (specially the downs) with thousands of people, is a highly respected thing to do. Sei forte!!
If you made friends with the locals you will learn why some foreigners love it there. Philippines is just like any other place in SE Asia but the people are it's most valuable asset.
Exactly! Maybe he just doesnt enjoy being here and hid his disdain in some “most beautiful beaches and I always struggle with mental health”. Made it sound like the Philippines made him sad. Kinda wish he dont return here tbh. We could’ve cheered him up and be compassionate in what he’s going through but here we are. Safe travels! But if you do return here.. I hope you have a horrible time, again.
@@willbyers7233 Did you actually listen to what he was saying? Apparently not because you're biased. Home is where you make it and with the people you enjoy, whether at a beautiful beach somewhere in the world or in a crappy neighborhood somewhere in the world. You apparently don't give a damn about others if they don't think exactly like you.
All nations has it's SHARE of good people and bad people, good places and bad places. It is just a matter of being at the right place and at the right time with the RIGHT COMPANY! Yes, especially with the RIGHT COMPANY!
I’ve become best friends with Filipinos after a single drink. Sounds like he’s got a problem, not PH!
Yes, they will be your friends forever. I mean, FORVER, especially when they need a financial rescue.
In all honesty Gabi, you saw the Philippines for what it really is. It's not a very nice place and there really is no comparison between Thailand. The only advantage in the Philippines is the language barrier, but every thing else tips so dramatically more for Thailand after that and I don't blame you at all for wanting to leave earlier than planned. I've lived in the Philippines for ten years and after visiting Thailand for the first time I've decided to relocate there and I look forward to it very much. GREAT video by the way. well done and thanks for telling it like it is. There's nothing worse then bloggers who just sugar coat their entire world!
Foreigners who want inatant subs come to PH for exactly this.. then go back to wherever they feel is easier to deal with (infrastructure is surely better in Thailand). Like you. You came here for the subs.
I resonate with how you felt and appreciate your honesty, I've felt the same issues when solo travelling before, down to tropical touristic paradises and even PH cities specifically
Love your videos! I think we can all relate to occasional bouts of loneliness or anxiety. It’s all part of being human. And happiness is connecting with people do never feel bad about missing loved ones. I’ve travelled every way possible ( alone, with a friend, with a gf, in a group) and all four ways are extremely different experiences. If I’m alone I grab a beer at a small bar and chat away with the bartender or other customers. It’s all part of human interaction. Man you’re the best! Please keep up the awesome work
Damn sorry to hear that missing the people in your life makes you have anxiety. Might I suggest you don't travel alone next time bring the people you love. I hope you get better soon there in thailand and thank you for visiting our country.
Hi Gabi I really understand where youre coming from. Sounds like you have the not belonging belief. I recognise it in myself too. Travel is always round the corner and depression, if people dont get depressed they dont understand it. Thank you for being so vulnerable and honest. It always passes. Love your videos sending much Love xx
Retiring in the Philippines is my "Plan A"... I was going to go there in Oct... Your video has me questioning that decision. I have the same issues that you do and can completely relate to being in an incredible place, but feeling terrible about it because you're not sharing it with anyone. I have some serious decisions to make. Thank you for your honesty.
There are 76141 islands in the Philippines, if you are going to visit, you must first research what is a good place and not crowded. What I noticed is that foreign tourists tend to go to crowded places because that's what they see on social media and was recommended. Most of the foreigners don't like the crowded. area. They won't discover the gem of the Philippines because they only know to go to Boracay, Palawan, Cebu and Siargao where it's too crowded and you can't appreciate the beauty because you are too stress of what’s going on around you. When you go to the island that is not chaotic yet you will feel the tranquility.
This year was the first time I brought my husband to my island, the island of Romblon he calls it fisherman's village. he really love the place, it's only 30 minutes away from Boracay but there aren't too many tourists. My husband said that when he gets old, he wants me to take him in Romblon and he wants us to live there. because, if in the future if he gets dementia, Ihe wants to wake up in that beautiful paradaise every day.
Thanks Gabi for your honesty and transparency. Good to see you made the right decision to put yourself and your mental health first. The viewers aren't going anywhere. Enjoy your break and the Songkran water festival. I will be doing the same here in Laos and will be sure to raise a glass of beer laos for you mate. Also I will be moving to Chiang Mai with my family in July so If I bump into you I will surely say hello.
Hi Gabi. I'm sorry to hear about your situation, you are so brave talking about your feelings, I think it was a good decision to leave the Philippines and come to Thailand where you feel at home, take it easy for a while and do your planning and if possible spend some time with Ploy. Take care Gabi 💛
As a retired expat from Canada i went to the Philippines in search of my “last love”. Having finally met her…we talked about travelling and decided upon Thailand as i was interested in a more “westernized” feel. We are loving it in Pattaya for many reasons. The food is dynamite, the 5G works, scooter rentals are cheap and the way to get around. The malls are huge with everything you would find back home. Glad i started in Philippines as i found what i initially came for… but will be “retired” in Thailand going forward.
Yes I have lived in the Philippines over 33 years counting and my first love is Thailand but things happened many years ago and now still live in the Philippines, Its nice in many ways but my heart was still in Thailand and I plan to visit early next year.
The formula: Find a Pinay, then take her to TL. Well done.
All nations has it's SHARE of good people and bad people, good places and bad places. It is just a matter of being at the right place and at the right time with the RIGHT COMPANY! Yes, especially with the RIGHT COMPANY!
You should have lived in the big city like BGC if you were looking for that westernize spending..
Just stay in Thailand then if you’re not happy in the Philippines.
I am sorry to hear that Gabi. I hope you be well. As a Filipino, I felt more concern about your overall well being than your experience here. Stay happy!
That's okay, Gabi. I totally understand how you feel being a solo traveller myself. I've been to many beautiful places around the world, yet there are times when loneliness and depression would kick in no matter how beautiful the place is. I'm from the Philippines and a digital nomad that's why I get to travel a lot. I live alone in the Philippines and get lonely myself that's why I always prefer to travel and visit loved ones around the world. Bangkok is my happy place. It's the first place I visited outside my home country that's why it's special to me. It's like my second home, and I always make sure to visit whenever I can and stay for several weeks. I was there last year and will be back again in June. Stay safe!
Carolyn, thank you so much for your kindest words. 🙏 ❤🇹🇭
The foreigners have always known the country has a lot of poor. They hear and see that in the media, plus the western media is big on the poverty and misery of people in the world, including their own people. Negative news sells a whole lot as we know. Not singling out the Philippines, India lifted her more than 400 million poor to an OK, just ok as opposed to a real miserable living conditions before. Nigeria's poor at the moment is running to 100 million. Poor Filipinos we have now is about 20 million. But let's look at the remaining over 80 million Filipinos who are not living the American middle income standard, but not literally poor either. They are FINE. Not many years ago, the over 50 percent of Filipinos are poor. Let's give credit to our government for attracting multinationals to give us jobs. It's the multinationals, most especially American multinationals that made China as we see it today. Business people go where there's lower wage-paid people. We have taken over the giant India to be the world's backoffice. That's hundreds of thousands of jobs and counting. Those ultra modern skycrapers we have are either condos or American and European overseas backoffices and call centres. That's the work of our government. Yes, they are corrupt, but they work. Hopefully they do more. That says that the majority of us are not poor. Poor countries with tiny percent yet millions of poor are poor as generally considered by anyone in the world. The western media shows the negative of these countries everywhere and everytime. The west and the US has their share of misery and poverty. Crime for one in the US is non-stop and shootings of school kids is one that any government in the world hope and pray they won't have. That is to mention one of the many other crimes and developing issues in the west. The Philippines is a laggard they say behind its neighbors. In the big cities, not really. Too many poor, yet it is very modern and developments as we see continues. Cranes kept working during the pandemic. It is a good sign. Poor Filipinos, Indians, Nigerians and all poor people in many other countries including those living in the streets of Philadelphia and California is disappointing. But even the rich and powerful cannot do anything swift to solve the issue. Being merely ordinary citizens including the foreigners, we cannot do anything. The poor Filipinos shouldn't affect our day to day lives to the point of leaving. Otherwise, that narrows the choice for a good world travel for you find poor people even in rich countries. Poor people shouldn't be a hindrance to living our short lives.
I love Bangkok, and in fact, the whole of Thailand. It was my first time to visit Thailand, but I fell in love with the country and with the kindness, humility, and politeness of the Thai people, who are also reserved and relaxed. That's how they represent their beautiful country. And that's why tourists keep coming back. Also planning to stay during their retirement. Which the Philippines doesn't have.
Filipinos are rude and loud.
@@mannyy266 hahaha typical Filipino senseless talk. Tourists & westerners don't buy it 😂😂
@Fewijuce Filipinos are good and friendly, I hear this many times even from Thai people because I went to university with some Thai people. Filipinos beat Thai people in friendliness, and so on and so forth. If foreigners are lying, there's no reason to believe what you said about the goodness of Thai people because you're all in the same boat. Thais are also loud and can be rude, so, what you said about Filipinos doesn't hold water.
Yah, I know that feeling too --- BEING LONLEY IN A CROWD --- and in a paradise as well --- is depressing for sure. I appreciate that you bailed from the Philippine's scene altogether --- to rebalance your mental health --- with loved ones in Thailand.
Your openness to talk about your sensitive inner-spirit is refreshing --- and yes, makes me feel less vulnerable as well.
Your future plan --- to drive your beloved African Twin --- to Malaysia sounds exciting --- like the middle path, as we say in Buddhism. Perhaps Ploy could join you in Malaysia from time to time --- and/or team up more often --- with your CZcams fans from Malaysia --- to have more fun and companionship on day or multiple road-trips with them.
I often replay your Indian vlog --- "I went home with a street beggar." Full support --- from your Earthpeople fans in Hawaii.
I hear ya! I can relate how you feel! You know why? That’s how I felt when I came here in US 2014. No matter how clean and beautiful the place is, my excitement and happiness to see new places or environment was not there! All I want to do when I first got here in US, was to go back home to Philippines, because for me there’s no place like home! I felt so lonely and homesick and even got to the point where I was having anxiety depression and it got worse when weather is so gloomy i mean wintertime is the worst for me. No matter how I surrounded with beautiful of everything I could not appreciate it because deep inside I was not happy I just want to go home! I know not many people like to live in Philippines but for me it is where I can say my little paradise within me! 🌴💕
So you go to a foreign country where you don't know a soul and you wonder why you feel lonely? I am an American who retired here last year, and I do understand the loneliness you felt because I felt the same for the first month or two. I think this is normal for anyone in this situation. Eventually I found a nice little apartment a few km from where you were staying in IT park. I have to say that the Filipinos at the apartment complex where I am now are all very nice and friendly. It takes time to make connections with people. You can't expect to breeze through a different town each day on your motorbike and not feel lonely. Vehicle registrations are a real problem here and can take forever. I just think that the problem is you, not the Philippines. I don't understand why you think loneliness is a mental health thing, I just think it is a normal consequence of traveling to a big city in a foreign country. I have been to Thailand also, and I feel the opposite of how you feel. I felt like the language barrier was insurmountable in Thailand and I prefer the Philippines because the majority of Filipinos know some English. At least I can read the street signs and labels here. I couldn't even tell what I was buying in the 7-11 in Thailand. In Thailand I thought people were unfriendly at first, until I realized that many just didn't speak English well enough to have a conversation. I will say that the Thais had some very top quality cannabis in their weed stores. That is probably the only thing I miss from Thailand here in the Philippines. Good luck on your channel and in your travels sir, and by all means go where you feel most comfortable.
This guy is obviously a wus. Philippines doesn’t need weak minded individuals like him. Glad he left.
You obviously did not listen to his video he has struggled with depression most of his life. Being lonely in terms of depression is much different then being alone or missing friends. You sound very rude and ignorant. This man has been all over the world. It hasn't been a breeze. You sound really ignorant and bitter.
Your revelation comes as a bit of a shock to me but I can empathise with your feelings Gabi. I find the social life overseas to be better than what I experience at home so I'm currently in a strange place today having pulled the plug on my trip to Vietnam via Bali. I have a bad back so I thought it was sensible to defer travel until I was better. Menatally though I really needed a change in scenery although I like where I live. Mixed emotions as they say. Guess The Phillipines was way outside your comfort zone right now. Glad you're feeling better back in Thailand. I envy you being OS. Really appreciate your honesty and hope things work out with future travel plans.
Gabi, I just want to cheer you up! ❤ Everyone is different so no need to push yourself to be like others. You are in control of your own health and happiness. Do what make you feel good because you are the one who feel and experience it, not other people. No need to feel guilty! Happiness comes from inside.
Thank you for being truthful about your feelings. The issue is not the place but how you feel. Who knows when everything clears up you might reconsider visiting again. I suggest you go to the north up there in the mountains province in the Cordillera region.
This is so interesting to watch. I had the exact same feelings when I landed in the Philippines. Both in terms of paradise overload and something feeling off.
Say no to drugs, you will be happier.
You're a really honest, interesting, resourceful & smart guy, Gabi.
Thanks very much for your informative vlogs.
Kind regards & ciao JC
Sorry to hear about your depression. Thankfully traveling alone for myself has given me a great deal joy in my life.
Great video guy! Love your honest take on everything. hang in there brother. Hope you find peace and happiness! have a wonderful life.👍👍🙏🙏
Thank you for sharing and your honesty. A lot of people will not understand your situation unless they’ve gone through what you’ve experienced in life. We’ve traveled the world for a bit and do understand what you mean. I get it. I was in Korea last time and it just hit me that I’m home sick and I was having a mental breakdown. I, myself, didn’t understand why I was feeling that way when I actually like being in Korea.
Your mental health is more important than what people would say. Take care of yourself and continue what makes you happy … peace ✌️ ☮️
Oh man Gabi, I love this episode! Really resonates with me, especially your 'Paradise Overdose' and the anxiety in the face of loneliness. Mine came having to spend much of my young years sort of alone and young adult years working in remote and isolated parts of the world. When I would return from isolated barren and isolated work places to paradise places for weeks or months, and sometimes I would experience pretty pronounced social anxiety and sadness in paradise and depression, and depression and hopelessness when returning to work in desolate isolation. People said I had the best life, making very good money months and then going to anywhere in the world. But honestly Gabi, as you likely understand I was very miserable, and became more anxious and sad, to the point where I found little joy an anything.
However, A good number of years ago, when I whet through the loss of both, parents, having my business and everything I worked for stolen by some corrupt family members while I was caring for my dying parents, Loosing a lovely fiancé and a few best friends along the way, with some simple insights from someone who provided some simple insights to un-hook from some simple hooks everyone has to some degree, I was able to find peace there I was alone, isolated or with others. King back, it's hard to imagine how simple and now seemingly simple things could become so overwhelming. Spent almost the last two decades doing what I can to try to help others find some direction out of their anxiety, I suspect Gabi, being such an aware and searching person, what you occasionally struggle is not as located or difficult to overcome as it may seem, usually it's a result too much force and will applied in the wrong way and time (sort of like riding a motorcycle or flying an aircraft) that keeps us hooked into a that loop of negative thoughts and emotions, that only have the power over us that we give it through our struggle that prevents us from seeing.
If you you ever want to chat about such things. privately or possibly online I'd appreciate doing so. Thanks again, what you share is a blessing for many.
Great support and words Jack which I'm sure will be appreciated and useful, from your story family can't be trusted. Take care
I asked all my Filipina friends why they don't date men from other countries, all of them have looks , stable and educated. They said, there is no assurance if the guy wants to live in pH. They don't wamt to leave their country. Now I get it. I'm Thai, BTW.
Thank you for your kind words Jack O'Neil. I wish you the best and a warm handshake from my humble country the Philippines 🇵🇭.
All nations has it's SHARE of good people and bad people, good places and bad places. It is just a matter of being at the right place and at the right time with the RIGHT COMPANY! Yes, especially with the RIGHT COMPANY!
Bro, you’ve had some heavy losses. Love your words of compassion and encouragement.
I visited Thailand first time 7 months after breaking up with a gal I thought I would marry.
Being alone in Thailand was both amazing and awkward. Bittersweet as I miss her still after 10 months. I just want to feel better again but I see that others struggle too for many reasons.
I also work remotely from home and the isolation can feel like death. I’ve lost my motivation for life but traveling is a new adventure… which I see has its ups and downs.
Your mental health is a priority, hope you come back to The Philippines when you're ready. We are with you all the way and will welcome you back anytime. Hugs for you friend
Thank you for sharing your struggles. Sometimes I feel that I’m the only one struggling with depression and social anxiety. Listening to you share helped me very much.
Thank you bro. 👍
Thank you for sharing. It's not about the place that matter it's about company. But I really salute you for giving a shot to visit here. Good luck and God bless you😇😇
It depends upon the people,many foriegners have beem staying for years in Philippines.Many expats are living in Siargao and Palawan because it is peaceful there and not crowded.Some are in Dumaguete and other cool places like Tagaytay and Baguio..
Trust me, if I was in PH, it would be the only place I am ever going to go, so this guy is better than me, atleast he left Thailand, I would never leave PH.
This guy is obvious is uncomfortable in the Philippines. Because he's from Europe, it's obvious this kind of tourist will always choose Thailand anytime. It's useless to invite him back, he's already frank at his own preference, let him go away anyway😒😒😒
It’s not the destination that matters, it’s not even the journey that matters. It’s the company that matters. ❤❤
Be the best company you can be
I enjoy reading this pleasant comments. Thank you for your kindness.
My traveling companions are; Me, Myself, and I 😅.
I have my best company right beside me, my passport
As a foreigner i had the worst experience with phillipines immigration . And i won't go back to there because of the bad immigration there
Thank you for sharing your most inner feelings and struggles .I went with friends to Phillipines ..we went to Boracay, which I can relate to that paradise feeling
but I spend my days alone on that beautiful beach wishing I had someone to enjoy it with .
Hi Gabi, I'm a filipino who moved to New Zealand over 16 or so years ago with my parents and currently living in Australia. I can definitely relate to your feelings of social anxiety and loneliness. Your video has been really encouraging to me to know that I am not alone. I was born in Cebu but don't feel at home whenever I go back to visit because we left so long ago. I hardly know the area. It has changed so much since we left in 2006. I definitely feel New Zealand as home but at the same time wanting to explore. Australia is the safer bet so here I am. I have been struggling with feelings of loneliness for the past few months and your words have really comforted me. You are so right. We need to do what is right for our mental health and make that a priority. Thank you for your openness in sharing. I really appreciate it. Looking forward to more videos! Take care!
I am a Filipino who moved to NZ 20 years ago. My 2 sisters also lived here in NZ. Yes it can be quite lonely especially in winter but Philippines will always be home. Maybe because I go home every year (even during covid) so my connection to the mother land was never cut off.
@@IlonggaGuid77 It definitely helps the fact that we have family with us overseas and modern technology to stay connected with extended family back in the Philippines. We now have a family group chat and that has helped a lot! Thanks for your thoughts! :)
Well said!
Thank you for visiting the Philippines!😊 hope you will come back!
Best of luck fellah filipino are the warmest and happy people in the world, if u get back try to blend in and get friends with the locals they will make sure ure leaving with happy smile in ur face....
It's your choice I understand if that's what u feel.. Now I know you really like to stay in Bali which you experience the terrible traffic, Air pollution in ChiangMai..
As Filipino I'm sad watching this Vlog.
😕😔🙁☹️
Ayaw lang talaga nya sa Pilipinas. Considering maraming foreigners nagkukwento about recovering from depression dahil sa pag stay nila dito sa Pilipinas. Charing to si Kuya
Yeah he doesnt stop roastinf philippine during the video. To much talk for nothing
mass report?
Sounds like the issue is not the place but companionship. Which is relatable. Find a good group of people or close friends to travel with.
That's ok man. We are not disappointed, we understand you. I hope ypu find your peaceful happy place just go back to Philippines whenever you feel like it. We always welcome you there.
You are not alone brother! I have the same mental situations sometimes within myself. I trust we will find our true place in life. I will move to the Philippines next year with my girlfriend from calaca, bangtagas. Thank you for your videos
I totally understand how you feel since I grew up in the Philippines and was born here but somehow I felt anxiety even though I was surrounded by family and friends. When transferred to Orange County California I still felt anxiety ( but a lot less this time ) but when I transferred to Los Angeles my anxiety disappeared probably because I was near the Big Film Studios. I met a lot of people who work in the entertainment industry and I noticed that we all have the same aspirations and goals in life since I all love movies I finally felt and my anxiety is finally gone. PS...I also love the cold weather and I hate sweating so I guess LA is perfect for me ( even though everything is expensive including the rent. I guess it's hard to find the most perfect place in the world but as long as your anxiety is gone in that particular place then that place is perfect for you ).
I can relate, I also live in the heart of the Los Angeles and it can be very lonely, which is ironic given the density and population of this town. But I've found that mindfulness and the breathing exercise really help me to center myself and to think more clearly. I, too, have been enjoying the May gray and June gloom - it makes me so happy to see everything so green and lush! I just hiked the Hollywood sign on Thursday and man was it nice without all that sun and heat beating down on me. I'm glad to see the planet was healing itself when we were on lockdown. 😃🩹🌲
Pinoy looking to move from south Florida, which area do you live in in LA and how affordable is it? Love films, too.
I hope your happy I was born and grew up In L.A. and Orange Co. I just couldn't stand it there anymore. It has become such a Me society there people don't even know there neighbors any more. Crime is rampant illegal immigrants everywhere drugs and homeliness at all time high and expensive as hell and the entertainment industry there trys to tell u how to live your lives with there liberal ideas it truly sucks there now
We love you Gabi 🙂 Great that you know yourself so well and are authentic enough to share it.
Thank you for sharing. I hope your mind is once again at peace 😊
Thank you
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Take care always