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  • čas přidán 25. 10. 2023
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    Short men are going to great lengths to increase their romantic chances, and overall confidence. Leg lengthening surgery is extremely costly, dangerous, and soaring in popularity. The Internet has boosted the ease with which people can undergo major life-changing operations, leading to the commodification of cosmetic surgery. But what should the medical profession's role be in all of this?
    With huge thanks to ‪@CharlesCornellStudios‬ for making the Skee-Lo backing track, allowing me to truly butcher 'I Wish', and to ‪@JordanHarrod‬ for providing her voice for an article excerpt.
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    References:
    Original article: www.gq-magazine.co.uk/lifesty...
    China's cosmetic surgery craze. Leg-lengthening operations to fight height predjudice can leave patients crippled pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15046...
    Shortchanged: Height Discrimination and Strategies for Social Change on JSTOR www.jstor.org/stable/j.ctv1xx...
    China's cosmetic surgery craze. Leg-lengthening operations to fight height predjudice can leave patients crippled pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15046...
    Cosmetic bilateral leg lengthening using intramedullary nail experience of 9 cases pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32055...

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  • @MedlifeCrisis
    @MedlifeCrisis  Před 9 měsíci +583

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  • @Artyomi
    @Artyomi Před 9 měsíci +1389

    “Of course you [Americans] have integrated the metric system into children’s education, because you’re quiet keen on using 9mm’s in schools”. Honestly, thats the greatest burn I have ever heard in my life against Americans, and I’m American.

    • @makecba
      @makecba Před 9 měsíci +82

      an extremely clever joke impeccably delivered. I swear I a shed a tear from laughing so hard

    • @Powerphail
      @Powerphail Před 9 měsíci +78

      I had to pause the video to recuperate from that one

    • @StefanLopuszanski
      @StefanLopuszanski Před 9 měsíci +37

      I cracked up and had to pause the video too after shedding a tear. Both from the laughing and from the fact it is true... such a dark joke but so accurate.

    • @dalfifran7572
      @dalfifran7572 Před 9 měsíci +9

      Can someone tell a non Americans what is the 9mm joke?

    • @kaitlyn__L
      @kaitlyn__L Před 9 měsíci +43

      @@dalfifran7572bullet calibre (or caliber as they say)

  • @PsRohrbaugh
    @PsRohrbaugh Před 9 měsíci +2747

    As a American I never thought I'd voluntarily give a doctor money, but the intro and the song were AMAZING.

    • @MedlifeCrisis
      @MedlifeCrisis  Před 9 měsíci +353

      Thank you that’s very generous of you! 🙏

    • @mementomori29231
      @mementomori29231 Před 9 měsíci +53

      Extremely talented and funny, thank you for the infotainment.

    • @MrKelsomatic
      @MrKelsomatic Před 9 měsíci +17

      😂 too relatable

    • @Sarah-re7cg
      @Sarah-re7cg Před 9 měsíci +9

      That was pretty great 😂😂

    • @paulmuaddib3761
      @paulmuaddib3761 Před 9 měsíci +6

      ​@@MedlifeCrisiswhere did you get that shirt

  • @CMDPromptify
    @CMDPromptify Před 9 měsíci +817

    How can a channel be this unhinged and also so wholesome at the same time?

    • @serratedbeanstalk6089
      @serratedbeanstalk6089 Před 9 měsíci +52

      Bro that 9mm joke was completely out of left field, funny as fuck

    • @chunkycornbread4773
      @chunkycornbread4773 Před 9 měsíci +9

      Because it addresses things honestly. It’s refreshing sometime to not have to beat around the bush and talk about topics.

    • @assaqwwq
      @assaqwwq Před 9 měsíci +7

      @@serratedbeanstalk6089 nobody could have seen it coming - politicians.

  • @dain6250
    @dain6250 Před 7 měsíci +281

    The obsession with height in American culture is absolutely insane. I was exactly the national average in the US and was considered short by tons of women. I've never had an issue with it in the Nordics despite being shorter than the average. I remember a date with a Danish woman who was a full head taller than me. I asked if that was an issue about halfway into the date and she looked absolutely perplexed and said, "Why would it be?".

    • @MetalheadAndNerd
      @MetalheadAndNerd Před 6 měsíci

      I thought this hight thing was because Tinder doesn't have a field for penis size.

    • @IIdankII
      @IIdankII Před 6 měsíci

      As an American, I can tell you that almost any bit of modern American culture is complete consumerist, narcissist, vapid dog shit.

    • @natk4017
      @natk4017 Před 5 měsíci +1

      It’s because most Americans have at least some Native American genetics, who were much much taller than the original Western European colonizers. As they bred together, taller Western Europeans with native features started being born and seen as more attractive than the pure Western Europeans in America over time.

    • @avd-wd9581
      @avd-wd9581 Před 5 měsíci +30

      @@natk4017
      That sounds... made up. Could you provide a source or two?

    • @rapbattlefan2008
      @rapbattlefan2008 Před 5 měsíci +3

      It’s not just the US. In MANY cultures around the world, taller stature is considered more attractive. Historically, our caveman ancestors would elect the tallest man in the village to be the chief, because they were seen as stronger and thus better suited to protecting the tribe. Women always wanted taller men because taller men were seen as better able to protect them. It’s just human biology. It’s not an American thing. But studies HAVE shown specifically in the United States that the taller of two presidential candidates usually are more likely to get elected. The average US president height is 6’0. But having said that, it is NOT just an American cultural thing.

  • @lmva
    @lmva Před 9 měsíci +1602

    half medical deep dive, half witty standup comedy... incredible

  • @theantibulliranger1580
    @theantibulliranger1580 Před 9 měsíci +873

    Hearing the word “waifu” come out of Rohin’s mouth in that falsetto tone was simultaneously the funniest and most atrocious thing I’ve experienced in a while.

    • @K.Arashi
      @K.Arashi Před 9 měsíci +25

      i was gonna say it was the last thing i ever expected to happen, but it never even made the list

    • @frankcastle1862
      @frankcastle1862 Před 9 měsíci +5

      visceral rage

    • @thebeingdestroyerofworlds8690
      @thebeingdestroyerofworlds8690 Před 9 měsíci +8

      Despite his serious façade, hes an absolute troll

  • @Ryan-wx1bi
    @Ryan-wx1bi Před 9 měsíci +227

    I remember a few years back i was on a date with a girl. She was telling me that she was surprised how much she liked me because she used to never date short guy. She said she always said, what do you call a guy under 5'10"? A friend.
    I was like wow, thanks and ended up ghosting her ass

    • @val_wildling767
      @val_wildling767 Před 9 měsíci +39

      Yes!! That should be the answer! Ghost those people, don't break your bones for them! ❤

    • @DarknessUnresolved
      @DarknessUnresolved Před 8 měsíci +29

      DAAAMN, that is fucked up to say to someone! Even if I was sleeping with her, if a woman said that shit to me, it probably would never leave my brain! Good job ditching that lunatic.

    • @acheybones588
      @acheybones588 Před 8 měsíci +22

      Omg- laughed imagining her saying the quote, not because that shitty excuse for a joke is funny, but because she thought that would go over well with you. Holy shit lol

    • @MrFoxGuy
      @MrFoxGuy Před 8 měsíci +2

      Good job on ghosting those thots king.

    • @thebookwormhotel5336
      @thebookwormhotel5336 Před 6 měsíci +1

      iconic of you

  • @captainmystery4123
    @captainmystery4123 Před 9 měsíci +445

    I was born without a fibula in my left leg. Due to this it was impossible to for my left leg to grow. I needed to get limb lengthening surgery. It was horriblely painful, almost every minute I had some degree of pain. You are always badly sore, and depending on where the surgeon decided to install the fixator I would have to lock my knee overnight. Considering there was a major medical device drilled into my bone this wasn’t easy. On top of my doctor prescribing as many opiates as the law would allow him to. He would also prescribe valium as because of the pain it was incredibly difficult to sleep. I also had to go to extreme painful physical therapy for at least as long as I was lengthening my leg, which could be months depending on the distance that needed to be corrected. When I found out that some people get this VERY invasive surgery just to be taller it send a shiver up my spine. I’m about 5’6” and my height is the least of my issues.

    • @whychoooseausername4763
      @whychoooseausername4763 Před 9 měsíci +41

      I'm so sorry, how awful. I hope you're better now. Don't hesiatate to seek therapy (EMDR is pretty good for trauma).

    • @captainmystery4123
      @captainmystery4123 Před 9 měsíci

      @@whychoooseausername4763 I’m doing well (or at least better) now. My last surgery was (I think) in 2018. Unless I start to develop spinal alignment issues that should me my last surgery.

    • @harsh3948
      @harsh3948 Před 9 měsíci +15

      Because physical pain is just temporary. The emotional pain of being ridiculed by others, and rejected by potential dates is lifelong, and sometimes hurts worse than any physical pain.

    • @idc1121
      @idc1121 Před 9 měsíci +93

      @@harsh3948 How do u have gigachad pfp and worry about this stuff? grow up

    • @TransVoiceCoach
      @TransVoiceCoach Před 9 měsíci +49

      @@idc1121 havent you realised yet? Generaly speaking people that identify with terms like alpha or seek a chad aesthetic are usually the ones obsessed with their bodies, only its in a way perceived as societally acceptable.
      But anyway, being cognisant of other peoples perspectives doesn't mean you need to grow up. You saying grow up just marks you as a growing number of people who lack empathy and critical reasoning skills...

  • @SeverityOne
    @SeverityOne Před 9 měsíci +434

    "Don't message me if you discriminate against people based on race, sexual orientation or gender identity, or if you're under 6 feet tall." Yeah, figures.

    • @MedlifeCrisis
      @MedlifeCrisis  Před 9 měsíci +242

      The irony is insane isn’t it

    • @menjolno
      @menjolno Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@MedlifeCrisisalmost accidental ratio. Keep going 😊

    • @kaitlyn__L
      @kaitlyn__L Před 9 měsíci +20

      Every new thing I learn about dating apps makes me so glad to be a lesbian, we still just get our dates by meeting (girl)friends of (girl)friends. (Not always in person anymore of course.) Much easier, and you have someone to complain to if something goes wrong..!

    • @krombopulos_michael
      @krombopulos_michael Před 9 měsíci +59

      It's like in Austin Powers. "If there's two things I can't stand, it's people who discriminated against others for immutable characteristics, and short people".

    • @ArtisChronicles
      @ArtisChronicles Před 9 měsíci +7

      ​@@krombopulos_michael life imitates art after all. Funny that.

  • @guyanomaly
    @guyanomaly Před 9 měsíci +2730

    I read a bunch of leg lengthening surgery forums a while back and it was one of the most doomer corners of the internet I’ve ever seen. I’m a 5’6” man and there were guys on there who were TALLER than me saying with total conviction that their height made their lives unlivable, but somehow being a couple inches taller would fix everything. It was baffling.

    • @jp7176
      @jp7176 Před 9 měsíci +329

      Everything tall enough to ride the rollercoasters with the biggest height requirement is perfect. Every inch above is just extra filler.

    • @MedlifeCrisis
      @MedlifeCrisis  Před 9 měsíci +841

      Yeah it's really sad, I feel for these guys who fixate on physical attributes (a hallmark of incels) as some weird form of essentialism, ie this is how the world works, so in their eyes all their problems are due to that particular thing. Some are even more absurd than height, like their chin or...narrow shoulders like me!

    • @guyanomaly
      @guyanomaly Před 9 měsíci +205

      @@MedlifeCrisis Exactly. And any argument made on those forums that someone’s height was normal and they didn’t need the surgery was dogpiled on so quickly-on one of them it was literally against the rules to say anything like that. My best guess is that they’ve developed an attitude of “I’ve tried everything and these stupid normies just keep telling me to magically become confident,” sort of like how a lot of us feel about the “you’re depressed? Have you tried yoga?” sentiment.

    • @FTZPLTC
      @FTZPLTC Před 9 měsíci +94

      Yeah, I think it's safe to say that the actual physical truth doesn't matter that much. A hell of a lot of people getting cosmetic surgery were better looking than me to begin with, but if I was given the exact same money to spend on anything, I know I wouldn't be spending it on my appearance.
      This is why I do think proper psychological assessment is desirable - because I'm sure that a hell of a lot of people are convincing themselves that something they feel is being caused by their appearance. When you have guys agonising about their clavicles, I feel like that's definitely what's happening there.

    • @Langenbacher
      @Langenbacher Před 9 měsíci +48

      Good thing you have a rap career as plan B when the whole heart doctor thing won't work out!

  • @mikell.6064
    @mikell.6064 Před 9 měsíci +116

    The thing is that even if I went through limb lengthening (I am 5’6) to let’s say 5’10, I would still be called short. Or maybe ugly, or perhaps poor. There’s always something people won’t like about me. I can’t change that. I always like to take the stoic approach and try to understand that in the end it doesn’t matter. Life is so short that it makes no sense to chase the unattainable standards of society. F**k what people think .

    • @majorpaindiaz
      @majorpaindiaz Před 8 měsíci

      5'10 is not short, cut the shit.

    • @UniquelyUbiquitous-yg3xl
      @UniquelyUbiquitous-yg3xl Před 7 měsíci +2

      Awwww, yes. The great teachings of Marcus Aurelius and Ryan Holliday has made my life so much better.
      I respect what these short kings go through, but I also know that if they became true stoics that their problems would seemingly cease to exist. It’s inherent within the doctrine of stoicism.

    • @slitheen3
      @slitheen3 Před 6 měsíci +9

      A good thing to remember too is that the prominent standards of society makes you forget that there's such a range in people's preferences. Im a (barely) 5'3 woman and have always really liked short guys. Even my same height (or hell, even shorter than me).
      There seems to be just one or two ways to be "properly masculine" and therefor successful projected in the social discourse, but I think there's many different kinds of masculinity and ways of being masculine, and I am attracted to many of them. Its definitely difficult to find them, but there will always be some people out there who would genuinely appreciate you for the way you are

    • @littlestbroccoli
      @littlestbroccoli Před 6 měsíci +3

      Chiming in to say I'm one of the women who likes average height men. I don't want to date a giant.

    • @gj9157
      @gj9157 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Almost nobody thinks 5'10 is short irl.

  • @spazzypengin
    @spazzypengin Před 9 měsíci +280

    As a 5'6/167cm American manlet, I have never once thought "Hey, I need to go into massive debt to become taller!" This is absolutely mental!

    • @mintcrisp94
      @mintcrisp94 Před 9 měsíci

      Same but in Europe. I did look into it at one stage when I heard about it, but I thought it was just growth injections of some kind that worked, when I heard it was an expensive invasive surgery? Fuck that man, it's no where near enough of a problem. There's 100% a bias to shorter guys in society that many won't notice unless they're short themselves but you can literally just ignore all of it and the parts you can't ignore are usually vain shit that doesn't even matter.

    • @symptomofsouls
      @symptomofsouls Před 9 měsíci

      The surgery gives you maybe 3 inches and wrecks your proportions. It's not worth it, it's not gonna help you

    • @RazorRamonMachismo
      @RazorRamonMachismo Před 9 měsíci +4

      there is always turkey and India 15-20K in good hospitals

    • @WildBandit300
      @WildBandit300 Před 9 měsíci +16

      That's because you weren't young enough by the time your area modernized enough to the point where being short is now an actual detriment for quality of life.

    • @mintcrisp94
      @mintcrisp94 Před 9 měsíci +49

      @@WildBandit300 I'm 21, 5'6", it's not a determinant for your quality of life. My friend, 5'7" is with another girl every month. I hang out with my 6'2 aussie friend and still get noticed, I still meet women and although I don't sleep around so can't back that side of things I am in a relationship with a girl that's my height without issue. There's nothing stopping you from succeeding other than vain people on the internet trying to make you feel like shit, I can guarantee you it's your personality that's causing you problems not your height.

  • @TRODD12321
    @TRODD12321 Před 9 měsíci +881

    That 9mm joke was soooooo savage! Not as savage as refusing to pass meaningful legislation, but still savage af.

    • @carlosgaspar8447
      @carlosgaspar8447 Před 9 měsíci +25

      small caliber joke?

    • @MatthieuBrucher
      @MatthieuBrucher Před 9 měsíci +32

      Nope, about metric system. Seriously brutal and I love that humour !

    • @danielo7985
      @danielo7985 Před 9 měsíci +46

      @@carlosgaspar8447 Yeah, morbid joke about school shootings

    • @trentgraham465
      @trentgraham465 Před 9 měsíci +29

      I think he was talking about the push in some states to get teachers and other school staff to carry guns. I don't think he was referring directly to the school shootings.

    • @MatthieuBrucher
      @MatthieuBrucher Před 9 měsíci +4

      @@trentgraham465 I agree indeed!

  • @myce-liam
    @myce-liam Před 9 měsíci +313

    That rap was absolutely fucking sick Dr Rohin! I want more! We need more doctors in this very vacuous medical rap genre

  • @ratking927
    @ratking927 Před 8 měsíci +50

    I’m a woman and was at one point so set on this procedure I thought it was life or death. It occupied my mind 24/7 and my leg length still does. I think if I could have afforded it, I would have done it without blinking. It’s crazy how something so inconsequential like leg length can destroy you.
    [I actually have a related procedure scheduled now and I feel so weightless. Sometimes changing your body is much easier than changing your mind]

  • @appa609
    @appa609 Před 9 měsíci +31

    I just discovered I have socioeconomic dysphoria. I'm a $200k / year engineer soul trapped in an unemployed body.

    • @D1s43k25Ps
      @D1s43k25Ps Před 9 měsíci +2

      Great go work for it just like those guys went through the surgery no one is stopping you full support to you.

  • @abydosianchulac2
    @abydosianchulac2 Před 9 měsíci +733

    Had a housemate in uni who was a 6'3" woman who always complained about how difficult it was to find guys who were taller than her to date. Ended up marrying a guy 5'5" tall and they're incredibly happy together.

    • @lollorosso4675
      @lollorosso4675 Před 9 měsíci +122

      Quite certain that man has a very robust self-esteem.

    • @DeadBarbarian
      @DeadBarbarian Před 9 měsíci +10

      😊 life is the good stuff

    • @JoelReid
      @JoelReid Před 9 měsíci +140

      it is interesting that her culture pushed her to date a taller man. Glad she got past that cultural barrier.

    • @therabbithat
      @therabbithat Před 9 měsíci +95

      My partner and I are the same height, he said he wouldn't have dated me if I were taller. It's astounding to me that someone let something so shallow determine who they spend their life with. I'd still marry him if he was a brain in a vat

    • @the_expidition427
      @the_expidition427 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Saving this

  • @CraniumOnEmpty
    @CraniumOnEmpty Před 9 měsíci +930

    Come for the medical knowledge. Stay for the beard fetish.

    • @Abrikosmanden
      @Abrikosmanden Před 9 měsíci +30

      It is majestic 🤩

    • @nitehawk86
      @nitehawk86 Před 9 měsíci +20

      I might be tall, but I am entirely unable to grow a useful beard. :(

    • @Rudy97
      @Rudy97 Před 9 měsíci +16

      I would gladly be shorter if I had a beard like that.

    • @nuclearduck13
      @nuclearduck13 Před 9 měsíci +12

      Or come for both if that's your thing

    • @CraniumOnEmpty
      @CraniumOnEmpty Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@nuclearduck13,😉

  • @mocha_bear00
    @mocha_bear00 Před 9 měsíci +14

    I am 5"4 and my height has never bothered me. What was bothering is being mocked and insulted by my classmates in primary and middle school. Problem was not my height; it was the children around me. It is sad that children can be very ruthless towards each other. Eventually they grow up and learn to behave civil but bullied children carry the scars throughout their adult life. Teach your children not to bully other children based on their appearances. Now I am 30 and seeing some women posting insulting comments about short guys on social media. I don't understand the point, the motive behind using vulgar language towards short men. Everybody can have preferences in dating, but these preferences are meant to be communicated in civil manner, and privately.

    • @jendrizzyy
      @jendrizzyy Před 8 měsíci

      They all sound like horrible people, who cares what they think

  • @liopleurodon155
    @liopleurodon155 Před 9 měsíci +8

    "Short men who are going to great lengths to be tall"
    This is why I'm subscribed

  • @SiBOneTheRocks
    @SiBOneTheRocks Před 9 měsíci +242

    Tbh, my gf had to convince her girl friends that dating a short guy was ok after she shared she was starting to date me. They needed some convincing.
    For me, I follow the advice of "not giving a f*** about what people think". It has served me well.

    • @yourbrain8700
      @yourbrain8700 Před 9 měsíci +49

      I'd probably insist she unfriend them under such circumstances, or not date her if she's friends with such disgusting people.

    • @DeadBarbarian
      @DeadBarbarian Před 9 měsíci +6

      Sparkle on Short King its Wednesday

    • @emperortgp2424
      @emperortgp2424 Před 9 měsíci +38

      The GF's friends tend to judge the harshest, and also have the highest chance to destroy the relationship by peer pressuring the GF into breaking up

    • @engelberthovel8566
      @engelberthovel8566 Před 9 měsíci +67

      This is further evidence of my theory that women don’t actually care that much about height but attempt to date tall guys anyway simply to impress other women. It’s kind of like men competing over who can get the girlfriend with the biggest bazongas

    • @apinakapina
      @apinakapina Před 9 měsíci +3

      Do you know why? Honest question, I have hard time to understand this thinking.
      Especially if there's a huge height discrepancy certain things tend to get... shall I say, mechanically interesting.

  • @MrGksarathy
    @MrGksarathy Před 8 měsíci +26

    As a kid, I used to have some issues regarding my height and not growing taller than my dad, but I've largely accepted my genetic lot and have chosen to focus on other charm points when I do actively care about my appearance.
    Also, the full moustache I had by age 12 was a point of pride for me, especially since all the white boys couldn't even get close.

  • @magnushope9221
    @magnushope9221 Před 9 měsíci +10

    I've been following you on CZcams since you only had a couple of thousand subscribers. Now you have 540 000 and you are STILL in my opinion, one of the most underrated CZcamsrs. You deserve many more! Truly talented at mixing entertainment with medicine.

  • @tinymoogle
    @tinymoogle Před 9 měsíci +355

    I love the Skee-Lo inspired rap, its brilliant! I was feeling a bit depressed but now I'm grinning. Thanks Medlife Crisis

    • @rubensalsa8128
      @rubensalsa8128 Před 9 měsíci +11

      so amazing loool, didn't know people still rated skee-lo like that

    • @SuperAidan2000
      @SuperAidan2000 Před 9 měsíci +5

      So fun, funny and well done

    • @P--B
      @P--B Před 9 měsíci +6

      You should release it as a song, for reall...

    • @kaitlyn__L
      @kaitlyn__L Před 9 měsíci +2

      Been saying “wish I was a baller, wish I was a ceiling insulation installer” for far too long now. Excellent stuff

  • @dianne9365
    @dianne9365 Před 9 měsíci +299

    My son has undergone this twice due to a massive disparity in his leg lengths, which obviously caused a lot of issues for him. I can't imagine going through what he did simply because you want to be a few inches taller!. I used to cry (when he wasn't around) as I felt so sorry for him having to go through all the discomfort and pain. This world gets sicker by the minute and it is unlikely to recover whilst people are obsessed by social media and all the trash that brings with it.

    • @garak55
      @garak55 Před 9 měsíci +21

      Easy to judge when you're not on the recieving end of heightism.
      I'm a short guy and I don't plan to have this surgery but I 100% understand others who feel they need it because I live the hell that is being short in a sick culture like ours.

    • @dianne9365
      @dianne9365 Před 9 měsíci +27

      @@garak55 I judged from the perspective of being someone who saw just how hard and brutal this operation is. My son didn't gain the 'benefit' of being taller however as it was just to get his short leg closer to his other, he is 5'8. On your other point, I totally agree that we do live in a sick culture. It makes me so mad when I hear these girls with their lists of must haves for men, being tall being one of those criteria. There hopefully are still some decent females out there who look beyond the superficial, I wish you well.

    • @dianne9365
      @dianne9365 Před 9 měsíci +10

      @@somad6997 I can assure you that I am not an incel, I don't think as a 60 year old wife and mother that I really fall into that catagory!.

    • @kaitlyn__L
      @kaitlyn__L Před 9 měsíci

      @@somad6997it can also be a generational thing, some of the current right wing implications/associations ppl have among younger ppl is actually part of that “return to tradition” stuff

    • @miaranee
      @miaranee Před 9 měsíci

      It's different when it's for cosmetic reasons. The complications rate is little and none and the recovery for a lot of people is a lot less painful

  • @smugandsmarmy
    @smugandsmarmy Před 7 měsíci +8

    That intro song was absolutely amazing and life changing for me!! Skee-Lo would be proud!!

  • @tynebaker
    @tynebaker Před 9 měsíci +135

    Good stuff. Women have been able to speak up more recently about how we’re feeling on body pressure. I think it’s important for men to as well. I like how you carefully navigated ‘this doesn’t feel right for me’ but also ‘this may be very helpful for others’. Self body perception and body modification are a tough topic because there’s so many ‘right’ answers bespoke to the person seeking them. Thoughtfully navigated, and amusingly communicated.

    • @Balloonbot
      @Balloonbot Před 9 měsíci +38

      Even as a guy I see that many men can't speak up about insecurities without blaming women for them which is a shame. Especially when it comes to the height thing.

    • @Chicodon008
      @Chicodon008 Před 9 měsíci +45

      ​@@BalloonbotBro how do you expect guys to speak about things without blaming women when it's women who set the standard to begin with?

    • @_Lumiere_
      @_Lumiere_ Před 9 měsíci +24

      ​@Balloonbot the real issue is that it's completely taboo to mention that women's standards may be creating these pressures. And they are. There are plenty of examples of this, even in this video. It's worth discussing, but instead we just blame men's issues on men themselves, telling them to "fix themselves." It's clearly not any more constructive than if someone were to exclusively blame women. The origin of the problem needs to be addressed, even if it is ugly and may critique women. Men have been critiqued for things like these for decades, right? Surely women can handle the same process.

    • @Tzizenorec
      @Tzizenorec Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@Chicodon008 While women did set the standard in that the standard for what is attractive for a man _always_ has to be confirmed by women to be real... I rather doubt it was really the idea of women as a group. Probably some smaller, specific group. (I haven't done the research to figure out who, though.)

    • @Tzizenorec
      @Tzizenorec Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@_Lumiere_ You make a good point with "men have been critiqued for things like this", so I want to confirm that what I just said applies also to men's standards for women. There seem to be a few small groups of powerful men setting various standards for what men expect in a woman. (However, in the case of men's standards for women, there seem to be multiple competing standards. And actually, there are multiple competing standards for what women expect from men as well, when you think about it.)

  • @randomtinypotatocried
    @randomtinypotatocried Před 9 měsíci +135

    As much as I hate being short, the idea of repeatedly getting my legs broken is a deal breaker for me

    • @sunofabeach9424
      @sunofabeach9424 Před 9 měsíci +42

      a leg breaker

    • @Cheepchipsable
      @Cheepchipsable Před 9 měsíci +10

      Just get into debt with some crims and have the procedure done for free!

    • @Angel_Underscore
      @Angel_Underscore Před 5 měsíci +1

      At least you fit properly in compact cars and buses. Tall people also have to dodge branches.
      There are so many pros to being short. You're just used to them.

    • @aethylwulfeiii6502
      @aethylwulfeiii6502 Před 5 měsíci

      The people that win the climbers jerseys at the grand tours in cycling, they are short. Same with Olympic medals in gymnastics.

  • @picturethis8611
    @picturethis8611 Před 9 měsíci +1224

    I'm a guy, and I had a friend who was a 5'4" man and to say his hight dominated his life would be an understatement. He became one of the most miserable people I've ever met. He drove all of his friends away becuase of it. To this day, if I ever catch someone making fun of short men I stop them and explain this story. I hate comments about "society today" but todays culture is genuinely so hostile twords short guys. Makes me sad ...

    • @lyrimetacurl0
      @lyrimetacurl0 Před 9 měsíci +175

      Key being _he_ drove all his friends away, I know the shortest boy in my class was very vindictive and picked on me more than anyone else picked on me (I was pretty tall).

    • @halfdanfalck
      @halfdanfalck Před 9 měsíci +75

      I'm 6'8" btw

    • @sortof3337
      @sortof3337 Před 9 měsíci +106

      Totally. Especially if you live in the west 5 10' is average and lots of things are made with that in mind. I was 5 7 before surgery and got about 4 inches afterwards. Its not that I cared about my height, its the people around me who would notice. I did it become invisble and not be noticed everywhere I go. Now I do. People be saying height doesn't matter and making height a requirement in almost everything, not directly but it literally dominates your life if you're short. :D

    • @sortof3337
      @sortof3337 Před 9 měsíci +7

      Totally. Especially if you live in the west 5 10' is average and lots of things are made with that in mind. I was 5 7 before surgery and got about 4 inches afterwards. Its not that I cared about my height, its the people around me who would notice. I did it become invisble and not be noticed everywhere I go. Now I do. People be saying height doesn't matter and making height a requirement in almost everything, not directly but it literally dominates your life if you're short. :D

    • @waterenjoyer5388
      @waterenjoyer5388 Před 9 měsíci +190

      @@lyrimetacurl0 no, key being he became, that doesn’t happen in a vacuum, nice attempt to imply that short men are inherently evil though lol

  • @edvinjohnson4136
    @edvinjohnson4136 Před 8 měsíci +113

    As a 23-year-old 5' 7" "short king" who is very much failing spectacularly in the dating game, I've never considered having this surgery. I'd rather wait a few years and get into a relationship with an AI than get into hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt, months of excruciating pain, and permanently damaged legs, just for a chance of getting into a vain relationship with someone that only gave a shit about me because of my height. Don't get me wrong, I find both of these relationships equally meaningless, but at least I can larp as Ryan Gosling in the first one lol.

    • @freespiritable
      @freespiritable Před 7 měsíci +6

      Why are you failing the dating game? It's not a matter of height, it never is.

    • @TheSteveprojects
      @TheSteveprojects Před 7 měsíci +4

      Just based purely on physical characteristics, it depends on what you're looking for. I doubt many dudes below 6 feet are hooking up much but a lot of dudes 5'3 and upwards are definitely getting into happy, healthy relationships. Probably would help if you don't have social anxiety.

    • @meretriciousinsolent
      @meretriciousinsolent Před 7 měsíci +2

      My other half is a couple of inches taller than you and I'm average wimmin height. It's never bothered me, or him, I'm as tall as him at least in heels. There's more to life than this. I'm not saying it's something else wrong with you. I'm saying it's maybe not you. Not directly. I think it's probably hard to meet people and the older you get the harder it is... If you want to find someone I hope you do. But don't assume it won't. I will say I've met loads of amazing ppl lately by joining a group I started off online only with and then ended up travelling to go to meets for it a few times, and it's blown my mind how many people are still around that could be potential options if I was looking. I'm nearly 40. Think about what you enjoy and go from there.

    • @richardhands904
      @richardhands904 Před 6 měsíci

      It's a about confidence, nothing to do with height. ​@@freespiritable

    • @thebookwormhotel5336
      @thebookwormhotel5336 Před 6 měsíci

      5"7 is average height in my country

  • @robertsnorrason2494
    @robertsnorrason2494 Před 9 měsíci +12

    I shouldn't be surprised or shocked that this phenomenon exists.......shouldn't... I knew about Osteotomy procedures as I almost had one done a few years ago due to lack of cartilage in my knee - so, out of necessity. But this leg-lengthening thing is a "cosmetic mental disorder" and the whole mental part of this phenomenon is something that needs to be taken much more seriously!
    Love your videos!

  • @tag180rotax
    @tag180rotax Před 9 měsíci +54

    That 9mm joke hit home, great aim!

  • @wickedsamurai3323
    @wickedsamurai3323 Před 9 měsíci +561

    It's deeply sad how isolated these people are, and how commodified relationships are in our society

    • @cirelesten
      @cirelesten Před 9 měsíci +4

      What else is there?

    • @TimSlee1
      @TimSlee1 Před 9 měsíci +28

      Yeah, this timeline sucks, but name a good timeline.

    • @alexkiddo5855
      @alexkiddo5855 Před 9 měsíci +35

      capitalism is supposed to endlessly grow so this is what happens when there's no more room in nature and such to endlessly expand into. what if we capitalize on peoples relationships instead.

    • @mrD66M
      @mrD66M Před 9 měsíci +2

      What business is it of yours how other people decide to pursue their relationships? You do you

    • @filmwright7188
      @filmwright7188 Před 9 měsíci +16

      Its sad that in our culture(perhaps more accurately species) everyone is expected to be in a realationship. I think many people would be better of if they could be ok with being single. Treating relationships as a possibility not a requirement.

  • @nclt1978
    @nclt1978 Před 9 měsíci +11

    Beard fetish - if it were a choice, I am taking it. Laughed so hard hearing that. I hope you never tire doing what you do and that you continue to get opportunities doing it.

  • @Gormador
    @Gormador Před 9 měsíci +2

    Thoroughly enjoyed that Rohin, great video. You could post once a year with bangers like this and be worth the wait.
    Also, on the topic of the video and to provide anecdotal evidence regarding the relation between height & dating life success: I'm 190cm tall, atheltic (runner, not muscular), probably average looking overall, 32 years old with a good job, living in Paris and have been single for more than a decade. As always, the key is the awful personality and self confidence! Or is it the lack of beard?
    See, you're not the only one who can subject others to an impromptue therapy session.
    Looking forward to the next!

  • @donlars1
    @donlars1 Před 9 měsíci +155

    looked into this about 15 years ago while writing a paper about cosmetics in Asia, China mainly. Leg lengthening surgery came up as something people would do in order to be able to get a good job where being taller would allow you to use imposing height to impress and intimidate others (lawyer) or there would be height requirements (flight attendant). Really interesting...
    Love how it is used in Gattaca.

  • @therealad1238
    @therealad1238 Před 9 měsíci +80

    The rap is something else, I think if the medical field isn't doing it for you anymore I think you might have a possible career in music lined up

  • @NestlaysChaulkolateChips
    @NestlaysChaulkolateChips Před 9 měsíci +4

    Love the music video. But I really liked that this wasn't just a one-sided commentary.judgement, but opening up the discussion with additional questions.

  • @LiquidAudio
    @LiquidAudio Před 9 měsíci +1

    The amount of humour in this video is exceptional, excellent work!

  • @stingray1irwin0
    @stingray1irwin0 Před 9 měsíci +186

    I'm exactly 6'0. I also spent five years working in a basement kitchen with pipes at 5'6". I then dated one girl on tinder who accused me of lying about my height because I wasn't hitting my head on the vents in her basement apartment. Sometimes you just can't win.

    • @rymikai
      @rymikai Před 9 měsíci +43

      huh, didn't she hear of ducking??

    • @bluester7177
      @bluester7177 Před 9 měsíci +17

      As a tattoo artist, people tend to suck at actually understanding sizes, specially length, still seems bad to me that she felt that way, but I don't know anything.

    • @nd264u7
      @nd264u7 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Where's the connection with basement pipes?

    • @stingray1irwin0
      @stingray1irwin0 Před 9 měsíci +38

      @@nd264u7 I had a lot of ingrained muscle memory for ducking around obstacles in basements

    • @sb_dunk
      @sb_dunk Před 9 měsíci +30

      I think you won by finding out early that she was a silly billy

  • @MattDiver
    @MattDiver Před 9 měsíci +144

    You seem like the kind of guy who could pull off a tattoo of a heart with a name in it; your own name. Bond points for the heart-cardiology connection.

    • @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721
      @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721 Před 9 měsíci +6

      An anatomically accurate heart, I'm sure. None of that ideographic nonsense.

    • @EggBastion
      @EggBastion Před 9 měsíci +3

      _bonus points?_

    • @MattDiver
      @MattDiver Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@EggBastion Ah yeah. Autocorrect got me there. I'm just happy it wasn't accidentally dirty.

    • @prapanthebachelorette6803
      @prapanthebachelorette6803 Před 9 měsíci

      @@vigilantcosmicpenguin8721 oh yes, with the ECG on it too. Instead of the usual PQRST label he should label the ECG with ROHIN, that would be hella dope man! 🎉

  • @SakuraAsranArt
    @SakuraAsranArt Před 6 měsíci +4

    I underwent three leg lengthening surgeries between the ages of 9 and 12 due to a shortened right leg. The idea that anyone would subject themselves to this kind of procedure voluntarily and for purely cosmetic reasons is completely insane to me. This isn't a simple surgery, it's painful and traumatising, or at least it was for me.

  • @absolutemattlad2701
    @absolutemattlad2701 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Just found your channel for the first time. Informational and an awesome sense of humor? Love it!

  • @knufyeinundzwanzig2004
    @knufyeinundzwanzig2004 Před 9 měsíci +196

    Others want to be taller, I just want to possess Rohin's comedic skills. Great video

    • @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721
      @vigilantcosmicpenguin8721 Před 9 měsíci +16

      Coming in 2123, brain surgery to make you neurologically funnier!

    • @trinodot8112
      @trinodot8112 Před 9 měsíci +8

      That 9mm joke threw me off guard so much lmao

    • @alexstone9099
      @alexstone9099 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@vigilantcosmicpenguin8721yep very true.

  • @icedrosetea
    @icedrosetea Před 9 měsíci +607

    As someone who is barely above the threshold to qualify as having dwarfism, it honestly does kind of suck in many ways (this summer I got the 10 and under menu when out with my family). But tbh, so much of my life has been shaped by being short that the idea of me gaining a few inches feels... uncomfortable? It's weird, but imagining myself as being a normal height seems as foreign to me as imaging myself as being a different race. I don't know if this perspective adds anything, but I thought I'd share!

    • @jasoneganis
      @jasoneganis Před 9 měsíci +15

      Dude, you do you!
      I’m glad to hear someone feeling normal being what they are!
      Life is what you make it!

    • @homeyworkey
      @homeyworkey Před 9 měsíci +35

      well yea im 5'1 and ive literally never cared
      if anything ive always been the "king"/funny guy growing up through school, just for being short (?)
      but after leaving school its different, u start seeing how other ppl judge u on ur height
      even tho i did never care, ive definitely focused on its effect since.
      and i dont think its possible for ppl to "not care what other people think". im largely in the same camp of, i do things without thinking about ppl being judgemental, but when u are clearly getting ostrasized and u got no one to back you, you start questioning things. we are social creatures at the end of the day, of course having a healthy social life is paramount to a healthy life.

    • @cheeeeezewizzz
      @cheeeeezewizzz Před 9 měsíci

      crouch a bit when they measure you dude....get that disability

    • @supernova743
      @supernova743 Před 9 měsíci +5

      As a guy thats 5'9" standing around people taller than me makes me look short and standing around people shorter makes me look taller. Im not short but peoples perceptions are easily swayed especially when at family gatherings where the men taller than average. I wouldnt pay for those extra inches but i can see how they would be appealing to those in my position or slightly shorter where the height difference wouldnt mess with proportions.

    • @themysterycook7320
      @themysterycook7320 Před 9 měsíci

      No what you had to say added nothing..

  • @Tamaxlia
    @Tamaxlia Před 9 měsíci +26

    It's got to be an anatomically correct heart with crossed scalpels behind it and a scroll saying "Mum". A reference to doctor patient confidentiality. :) Loved the video by the way. Very thoughtful. Also love Contrapoints.

  • @Siderite
    @Siderite Před 9 měsíci +1

    you NEVER fail to entertain, while providing relevant information. Kudos, sir!

  • @pedromarques4840
    @pedromarques4840 Před 9 měsíci +88

    Absolute banger of a track. Made my heart fibrilate with poetic bliss. It'd be a waste not to pursue a rap career, along the whole youtube/doctor business. I'm sure you'll handle it great.

  • @phoenixh87
    @phoenixh87 Před 9 měsíci +982

    I was 5'6 but after hip surgery I am now 5'5. Looking forward to being even shorter after my knee surgeries! I'll be able to start buying childrens trousers again for that sweet 0% VAT. #benjaminbutton #novatlife

    • @cirelesten
      @cirelesten Před 9 měsíci +2

      Vat is bull

    • @gj9157
      @gj9157 Před 9 měsíci +24

      Brutal

    • @gayfrickinfrog7168
      @gayfrickinfrog7168 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@cirelestenVAT is just there to get more money from the poor for increasing wealth disparity. Its actually just disgusting.

    • @SSJfraz
      @SSJfraz Před 9 měsíci +18

      Hope you gain a milometer for each thumbs up

    • @johnladuke6475
      @johnladuke6475 Před 9 měsíci +8

      Do you think you'll ever manage to get in to places for the kids' ticket price? That would be my goal.

  • @K8tti
    @K8tti Před 9 měsíci

    by the way the feng shui of the room you're in is wonderful 👏 the entire presentation is so nicely done, better than most youtubers I see

  • @varp.
    @varp. Před 8 měsíci

    It took me a while to watch this video, but boy was it worth it! You are, like always, my favorite youtuber.

  • @erenoz2910
    @erenoz2910 Před 9 měsíci +446

    Here's an interesting bit about the Turkish hair transplant market. In Turkey, doctors take a centralized exam to go on to specialize. Since there are only so many spots for each specialty, the minimum score needed to enter each specialty depends on supply and demand. Traditionally, the highest points were for prestigious and life-critical fields like cardiology and neurosurgery. Recently though, the situation flipped on its head - dermatology is now the most competitive specialty for newly minted Turkish doctors. Our best and brightest doctors go into dermatology while the doctors who barely scraped by are becoming neurosurgeons.
    I think this is due to two trends that have been going on for years. The first being the absurd amount of money dermatologists can rake in from international customers. The second one isn't as well-known, and it's the fact that Turkish people treat doctors like absolute garbage. Especially if you're in an overcrowded and underfunded public hospital, getting beaten or killed by angry visitors is not out of the question. Even the most idealistic and starry-eyed doctor would become jaded and amoral after spending a few years in their mandatory public hospital residency. The healthcare system is falling apart because of this, and ultimately Turkish society has only itself to blame.

    • @Ozymandi_as
      @Ozymandi_as Před 9 měsíci +58

      How interesting. Doctors are often treated with a reverence they do not always deserve by some groups or societies, and it's not hard to see how that might be the case. But the behaviour you refer to in Turkish hospitals seems to indicate a high level of mistrust and lack of respect among the general population, and I wonder if you have any information or ideas about why that might be the case?

    • @bignono2439
      @bignono2439 Před 9 měsíci +11

      Can confirm, one of the reasons I outright denied studying medicine
      Will update if I ever end up going crazy and switch my major

    • @bloodshredder1982
      @bloodshredder1982 Před 9 měsíci +18

      Bro the situation is exactly the same in india...

    • @miaya3898
      @miaya3898 Před 9 měsíci +15

      about lesser known fields, i'm from ph 🇵🇭 and we have a lot of civil engineers. there's so many of them and so few construction projects their starting salaries are at $300 a month. in contrast our semiconductor industry earns about $80 billion a year. we sell more of it than any european nation. more than any western country in fact ex the usa. yet I do not know a single electronics engineer in person.

    • @erenoz2910
      @erenoz2910 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@Ozymandi_as I genuinely have no idea what happened.

  • @rorbee
    @rorbee Před 9 měsíci +41

    I love my bald, short and ethical doctor ❤

    • @misakiXmei
      @misakiXmei Před 9 měsíci +2

      read this comment exactly when he said it 😂

    • @MedlifeCrisis
      @MedlifeCrisis  Před 9 měsíci +30

      Hide_the_pain_harold.jpg

  • @villanelle-dyke
    @villanelle-dyke Před 9 měsíci +190

    rohin out here defying the narrow, bigoted stereotype that doctors can't rap......really holding it down at the frontiers for us💪🏽. in case the cardiology side hustle fails for u, the world of rap is open to lil medlife

    • @Propulus
      @Propulus Před 9 měsíci +7

      If he put out songs like this, I'd listen to ever lil Meds' song. A true masterpiece.

    • @canadiannomad2330
      @canadiannomad2330 Před 9 měsíci +2

      The song did earn an instant Like ...

  • @esteemedmortal5917
    @esteemedmortal5917 Před 9 měsíci +1

    As usual, a very thoughtful and insightful piece!

  • @JuanPablodelaTorre
    @JuanPablodelaTorre Před 9 měsíci +1

    The entire essay is perfect but it was the sponsorship at the end that made me like and subscribe. If you can't tell from my profile picture, I don't need any kind of high-end shaving products. I can go by with the cheapest razor. So I have to be really impressed.

  • @PXAbstraction
    @PXAbstraction Před 9 měsíci +35

    A Skee-Lo parody is not what I thought I needed this morning, but I was wrong.

  • @docoffcall
    @docoffcall Před 9 měsíci +11

    Hahaha, the facial hair advert was amazing, the transitions ............... seemless.

  • @IndyRider
    @IndyRider Před 9 měsíci +1

    This has to be the funniest video yet, and I'm only halfway to the end yet!

  • @thedanyesful
    @thedanyesful Před 9 měsíci +1

    Great performance. I definitely did not expect you to write and perform a song, and it was really entertaining too!

  • @NothingXemnas
    @NothingXemnas Před 9 měsíci +283

    3:00 To those interested, this film is called Gattaca. It is a film about eugenics and the film focuses on a pair of brothers, one genetically engineered and one naturally conceived.
    The sibling who gets the leg lengthening is Vincent, the naturally conceived one. Jerome, the one on the wheelchair, is the brother who was genetically engineered to be an athlete but suffered an accident (none of this is a spoiler; it is all explained upfront).
    Mind you, these brothers love each other a lot, but they also fight a lot due to miscommunications and societal issues, and both have internal struggles. I deeply recommend watching it at least once.

    • @condor2279
      @condor2279 Před 9 měsíci +74

      Not quite. Jerome isn't his brother - but like you said, he's a genetically engineered athlete who suffered a career-ending injury. The naturally conceived hero, Vincent, pays him to lend him his identity via fake fingerprints etc. so he can be an astronaut, since in that society only the most eugenic people qualify for space travel. Vincent does have a genetically engineered "superior" brother, but it's a different character.

    • @robotizedcyborg7788
      @robotizedcyborg7788 Před 9 měsíci +9

      YOOO I WATCHED THAT MOVIE IN MY BIOLOGY CLASS
      I'VE BEEN SEARCHING EVERYWHERE FOR ITS NAME THANK YOU

    • @tamarinmangold1414
      @tamarinmangold1414 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@robotizedcyborg7788I watched it in Science class in school. I loved it. Totally agree with OP that everyone should watch it at least once.

    • @Crowley9
      @Crowley9 Před 9 měsíci +22

      I think in that movie it wasn't actually genetic engineering but a very high level of genetic _screening_ . Technology was at a level where the average person could have dozens of in vitro fertilizations, test the DNA in each of those and then implant and carry to term the one which happened to get the most beneficial combination of chromosomes.

    • @DanilegoPlays
      @DanilegoPlays Před 9 měsíci +3

      That's one of my favorite movies! But the 2 characters aren't brothers

  • @NancyLebovitz
    @NancyLebovitz Před 9 měsíci +83

    To my mind, the tragedy isn't that people are affected by bullying and prejudice, it's that there's so much bullying and prejudice.

    • @zyzzsdisciples6707
      @zyzzsdisciples6707 Před 9 měsíci +2

      This is nothing new, and no different from all the other ways society deems certain characteristics beautiful. It’s not bullying that society has certain beauty standards, that’s been the case for as long as there’s been humans. The only real difference is the invasive nature of the operation

    • @Chicodon008
      @Chicodon008 Před 9 měsíci +21

      ​@@zyzzsdisciples6707Beauty standards have always been there but never was it this bad that so many men just can't date due to their height.

    • @clavicleofcernunnos
      @clavicleofcernunnos Před 9 měsíci +12

      @@zyzzsdisciples6707 Beauty standards can vary time and place. Culture is not immutable.

    • @random-dm5md
      @random-dm5md Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@Chicodon008Beauty standards have never been this bad? Is that a joke. Look at Asia, where if you're darker than a paper bag, you're considered ugly. This has been the case for centuries. Skin bleaching is a billion dollar industry. But now it's bad? Sure.

    • @Cheepchipsable
      @Cheepchipsable Před 9 měsíci +5

      @@Chicodon008 I'm willing to bet they could date, but don't want fatties or chicks with children.
      Everyone has their prejudices, even those who are more often on the relieving end.

  • @Geo_Seph
    @Geo_Seph Před 8 měsíci

    Jaysus. What an absolute hip lad this channel/bloke is. Talented stuff, funny, well performed, spoken and well thought.

  • @rigilchrist
    @rigilchrist Před 8 měsíci +4

    Hilarious, tragic and informative! I particularly liked "..schools use 9mm..". Your self-deprecating humour is endearing and a really effective way to convey important topics for us to think about. Thanks!

  • @tessiheppner2475
    @tessiheppner2475 Před 9 měsíci +237

    This video kinda struck a cord with me. I am saving up for abdominoplastic surgery at the moment. I've lost 25kg a few years ago and have lots of excessive skin around my tummy. It's partly medically necessary: My belly-button is now very deep so I get frequent skin irritations and sometimes infections. The skin is also annoying when I jump or run. But to be completely honest, a big part of the reason is that I finally want to look like my peers who have never been overweight. Nothing superhuman, not an insanely flat tummy - Just a normal 23-year-old woman who doesn't look like she has had two pregnancies. In some way, I think this is what I deserve after years of growing up overweight and being mistreated by others because of my appearance. I feel like I might be able to move on, once I have the surgery - Though I'll probably need to work on other aspects as well to finally feel better. Anyway, thank you for speaking so empathetically about this issue.

    • @Jwellsuhhuh
      @Jwellsuhhuh Před 9 měsíci +9

      Same, I also don’t take things for granite either

    • @eragonawesome
      @eragonawesome Před 9 měsíci +4

      ​@@Jwellsuhhuhtake things for granted*

    • @Jwellsuhhuh
      @Jwellsuhhuh Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@eragonawesome whooooooooosh

    • @eevee2411
      @eevee2411 Před 9 měsíci +15

      Do what is best for you! Congrats on the weight loss, and you absolutely deserve it. Personally I also think your situation is very different from people who look nothing out of the ordinary but think a cosmetic change will significantly improve their quality of life on all aspects. While they're entitled to make their own medical decisions, and I have nothing against that, they will have a shit time once they realise their life is actually the same.

    • @bp9696
      @bp9696 Před 9 měsíci +7

      the last sentence reminds me of something a lot of men and women in the fitness industry suffer from - body dysmorphia. People look at their bodies, see millions of flaws, work on them, fix one or couple things, but find new flaws - in an endlessly repeating cycle.

  • @GlutenEruption
    @GlutenEruption Před 9 měsíci +25

    Omg, the Skee-Lo skit had me rolling 😂😂

  • @santunesdev6823
    @santunesdev6823 Před 9 měsíci

    I love your content so much, makes me smile every time I watch your videos

  • @myce-liam
    @myce-liam Před 9 měsíci +3

    Had to come back to relisten to the rap. Dr Rohin the cardiologist here bringing a new meaning to "beats per minute"!
    Who knew a cardiologist could master both heartbeats and rap beats! 🤣🤣

  • @frankiesayspanic
    @frankiesayspanic Před 9 měsíci +19

    this is so weird, i was *just* having this conversation with my husband yesterday! i think the way short men are treated is preposterous. i’ve seen dating shows where the woman says her deal breaker is a man under 6ft (so, much taller than average) but gets angry when the dude says he prefers women who are thin and/or fit. don’t get me wrong, i think the latter is still uncool, but the lack of self-awareness to make your number one requirement in a romantic partner a physical trait but find it reprehensible for the other person to do the same is WILD. also, i at least understand the latter a bit more, because perhaps being very active and living healthy is a big part of your life and you want someone with that in common. while the former is just straight up shallow.
    i say this as an overweight person myself, and i’m really not trying to be a pick me; far more often i find guys on dating apps and such much more vile. but this particular issue really bothers me.

  • @katat4649
    @katat4649 Před 9 měsíci +9

    Insecurity is the most expensive thing you can have. Its why advertising forces it on us

  • @TheOlenyash
    @TheOlenyash Před 8 měsíci

    Had more giggles watching this than a standup show. You're the man!

  • @jakobbruhspenning
    @jakobbruhspenning Před 9 měsíci +1

    At 9 different times during this video I paused the video to like it, forgetting I had already done so, because this video is so good.

  • @gurplepanda3656
    @gurplepanda3656 Před 9 měsíci +35

    I really appreciate your approach to this video as it has been really introspective. I got a mammoplasty reduction 11 years ago because of the damage my breasts were causing to my ribs and back but I still suffered from sensitivity issues to this very day. I will admit I honestly see that surgery as an improvement to my mental well-being though more than my physical well-being despite it being a medical necessity.

  • @engelberthovel8566
    @engelberthovel8566 Před 9 měsíci +44

    Although obviously, getting your self worth from whether women find you attractive is incredibly unhealthy and absolutely no way to live, I want to provide a bit of affirmation for the short kings out there. There absolutely are women who actively prefer shorter men, and find them more attractive than tall men. I know because I’m one of those women! I’ve always preferred men who were short and skinny, I don’t really know why, but I just love a guy who’s compact, lmao. The recent dungeons and dragons movie made me feel very seen. Also, I suspect that at least one of the writers for parks and recreation feels the same way because female characters would mention it as a positive thing every now and then. I used to crush so hard on Tom Haverford.
    Unfortunately I remember these examples so well because it’s not something that’s talked about in our culture very often, it’s probably similar to how many men actually prefer women with smaller breasts, but most don’t really admit to it because it’s not the “norm”. I remember one time I mentioned to my grandma that I have a huge crush on the werewolf guy from Buffy and she just stared at me like I was insane. He’s 5’4” which means he’s a little shorter than me, and I find that super attractive but if I mention that people act like that’s sooo weird, as if there aren’t way stranger things that it’s acceptable for women to be into.
    I think some women tend to choose men based on how they’ll affect their social status more than whether they’re actually attracted to them. A lot of girls want to have the most “impressive” looking boyfriend possible so they can flex on their female friends. Height is an easy way to measure how much a person literally stands out from others, and it has the bonus trait of being extremely difficult to change (as this video demonstrates), which makes it all the more exclusive. Basically, the girls who are obsessed with super tall men are often the same girls who prefer flashiness over quality. They’d rather have a super impressive guy than a guy they actually like or get along well with. It’s often not even about attraction at all, it’s just about shallow social appearances.
    Of course, if it’s society itself that’s viewing you as “less impressive”, I guess that’s still something that could make a guy want to change his height, so maybe what I’m saying isn’t really helpful to everyone. But I just wanted to say that if you’re worried specifically about not being attractive enough to women, most women don’t care about height nearly as much as they might pretend to. And some women, like me, find shortness in men extremely attractive, it’s just not a common thing for women to tell others about.

    • @andreipopa2128
      @andreipopa2128 Před 9 měsíci +6

      The issue is one of ratio, there are not nearly enough girls willing to overlook height for every short dude out there. And even if a girl doesn't mind dating a short guy, her friends will most likely pressure her into finding someone taller.

    • @person1420
      @person1420 Před 9 měsíci +7

      @@andreipopa2128 I think there are enough girls for short guys. Just that they are not at the same place at the right time.
      Maybe make a dating app for shorter people and for people who don't have height requirements for their partners. There are a lot of short women too.

    • @am-yn6ne
      @am-yn6ne Před 9 měsíci +8

      Absolutely agree. I‘m a 5'2/158cm short woman, being with a 6' guy admittedly makes me feel quite uncomfortable, thus I‘m can‘t find myself being attracted to them. Anyone more than around 20cm taller than me doesn’t feel right & is just not for me. Someone just slightly taller than me however would be really attractive in my eyes. And there are many short women, even shorter than me. I dont understand the need for huge height differences in couples at all

    • @gj9157
      @gj9157 Před 9 měsíci +1

      ​@@am-yn6neWish more women thought like you.

    • @lizcademy4809
      @lizcademy4809 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@am-yn6ne Agreed. I’m also 5’2”, and think my ideal boyfriend height would be 5’6”. Not that I’d rule out other heights, that’s just the ideal.

  • @Owsse
    @Owsse Před 9 měsíci +1

    thanks for all the knowledge and laughs

  • @ericwanner7966
    @ericwanner7966 Před 9 měsíci +5

    I tend to forget that I’m ~ 5’ 7” and have a balding spot on my head. I’m reminded of it sometimes if people point it out or if I happen to be around tall people with great hair. I weigh ~ 200 lbs and I’m not that fat. I played football against large players. I think my lower center of gravity and deceptive power helped. I have wished I was a little taller but I’m just glad to be in relatively good shape and able to enjoy life. I wouldn’t risk the lengthening procedure or take the time to do it. Good luck to all who do.

  • @DuxihrXV
    @DuxihrXV Před 9 měsíci +12

    Of all the jokes sprinkled throughout the video the one that really got me was the "CZcams Shorts" one

  • @ZeteticPhilosopher
    @ZeteticPhilosopher Před 9 měsíci +249

    Hey Rohin, I’m 5’1”, which is… rough.
    I believe that puts me in the 1st percentile among men. It is usually the first thing people comment on when they see me, but I didn’t realize the degree of disrespect in engendered until the pandemic, when the sudden switch to Zoom meant people who had never met me took my points far more seriously.
    I appreciate the care that went into this video, and the delicacy required to walk the line between paternalistically telling people how to live their own lives and warning them about what is, ultimately, still a very dangerous procedure.
    One comment I’d like to add, particularly since you said you moght address “commodification” again with respect to plastic surgery, is that commentators often neglect one of the benefits of turning luxuries, privileges, or impossibilities into commodities: egalitarianism.
    Where once sugar, spices, and a full wardrobe were available only to the wealthy, they are now widely available even to citizens of poor countries (though their poverty, it should be noted, is often a result of the slavery and imperialism that allowed for commodification of these goods in the first place). Meat, over-the-counter medicine, and personal vehicles are also goods which were previously luxuries but are now widely available, albeit in the first world.
    Commodification doesn’t exactly erase inequality-you still have to pay for things (hence why countries like the UK opt to socialize medicine), but it does lower the barriers.
    I get frustrated when I see people, often quite privileged, complain about commodification. It often comes across as a worry that somebody might be able to buy into what they got, unearned, for free.
    I won’t get leg-lengthening surgery. I love running and skiing too much to risk losing the ability to do either. But I also don’t begrudge anyone who spends their money trying to look a little closer to what so many Hollywood stars were born looking like-any more than I’d begrudge them for not eating the gruel of their peasant ancestors.

    • @scrumptious9673
      @scrumptious9673 Před 9 měsíci +16

      Wrote a thousand words but missed the point

    • @ZeteticPhilosopher
      @ZeteticPhilosopher Před 9 měsíci +105

      @@scrumptious9673Do you have a critique of substance, or just empty snark?

    • @bluester7177
      @bluester7177 Před 9 měsíci +13

      I don't think it works that way, the people having these surgeries are rich people, this one specifically is popular among dudes in silicon valley, thinga getting cheaper to produce often makes them more widely available but that is not an effect of commodification, specially because commodification can come with exclusivity and elitism, also the first world comprises more or less 1.2 billion people, so the huge majority of people, about 85% still can get most of those things.

    • @dannyarcher9002
      @dannyarcher9002 Před 9 měsíci +2

      ​@@ZeteticPhilosophermogged.
      It really never began

    • @snappythesnapster1856
      @snappythesnapster1856 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Hello down there!

  • @clavicleofcernunnos
    @clavicleofcernunnos Před 9 měsíci +1

    Fire in the booth! We need to get you on some grime and drill beats next.

  • @esteemedmortal5917
    @esteemedmortal5917 Před 9 měsíci +7

    If you want to be macabre, when I was working at Walter Reed, the double, above knee amputees would sometimes discuss what height they wanted to be with their prosthetics.
    Really hope this leg lengthening doesn’t turn into willingly amputating legs in exchange for adjustable ones.

  • @TheSaxophony
    @TheSaxophony Před 9 měsíci +23

    I watch too much youtube and so much great content out there, but nobody is as good as Doc Rohin. Thank you for your sharing your brilliant talent.

  • @bln8285
    @bln8285 Před 9 měsíci +12

    "i heard you're quite fond of using 9mms in schools" holy shit. savage lmao

  • @thefluffyrobot
    @thefluffyrobot Před 9 měsíci +19

    I just want to say how absolutely impecable the joke at 12:39 is. That is phenomenal timing and execution. Made me genuinely laugh out loud.

  • @343RuinedHalo
    @343RuinedHalo Před 6 měsíci

    That rap + the quality of information in your videos =
    Subbed! 🎉😄

  • @vihmaussivenitaja
    @vihmaussivenitaja Před 9 měsíci +343

    As a psychology student, looking at your wife's list, I would recommend getting tested for ADHD :D

    • @MedlifeCrisis
      @MedlifeCrisis  Před 9 měsíci +341

      Oh it was formally diagnosed some years ago :) I've talked about it a little in a Q&A video where I found my old school report which was...pretty much textbook ADHD. It was a rough time, I drove my mum crazy and got in a lot of trouble at school.

    • @RavingKats
      @RavingKats Před 9 měsíci +97

      @@MedlifeCrisis Report Cards: "just apply themselves and focus"
      Us: "Weeeeeeee! Ahahahaha!" _swinging from monkey bars_

    • @eerielamp
      @eerielamp Před 9 měsíci +33

      ​@@RavingKats "A Pleasure to Have In Class" :)
      I played a game of how many I could get on a single report card

    • @MisterCynic18
      @MisterCynic18 Před 9 měsíci +54

      ​​@@RavingKats"your son's a bright boy, but he'll never get anywhere if he doesn't do his homework!"
      Her words haunt me to this day...

    • @keepXonXrockin
      @keepXonXrockin Před 9 měsíci +5

      Hilariously it's almost the exact same list I could write about my boyfriend (except we don't have a house or kids, but it would probably end the same)

  • @abifsnad
    @abifsnad Před 9 měsíci +13

    DUDE , there are not enough like buttons for this masterpiece. Medicinal info plus your sassy jokes made mi night watching this. Greetings for Chile my dude, thanks for staying true

  • @AvengedKittyLP
    @AvengedKittyLP Před 8 měsíci +3

    I am doing PTS (wanting to be a paramedic) and watching your videos over the years moved me back on the path I wanted to be as a kid. Sometimes it's funny to go off script

    • @acheybones588
      @acheybones588 Před 8 měsíci

      Honestly, there’s no harm in waiting for the right time. We have to handle an enormous amount of trauma in this career, make sure you’re ready! I’m 25 now and just completing my training as a Primary Care Paramedic in Canada (equivalent to EMT-Advanced with IV endorsement). Not only does it feel right to have prior life experience, but most other paramedics talk about mid 20s being a great time to start.
      Also saw a comment of yours earlier about height in the Ambulance- I’m just shy of 6.2 and bro I feel your pain haha. One upside tho is we can hold onto the ceiling handholds while still reaching the floor if we drop something

  • @Gymnure
    @Gymnure Před 9 měsíci

    I've said it before, and I'll say it again. This channel is amazing!

  • @jameslooker4791
    @jameslooker4791 Před 9 měsíci +16

    In the 1990s I watched an investigative news story about non-plastic surgeon MDs performing liposuction after learning at medical conferences. I was kind of shocked that it's not malpractice to perform medicine outside of your specialty if you have been professionally trained. They were talking about dentists and dermatologists and all sorts of MDs were offering liposuction because it was considered a simple procedure to perform and easy to learn. The big point of the story was ASK if your plastic surgeon actually did their residency in cosmetic surgery, especially if you found them through advertisements.

  • @johannajf7914
    @johannajf7914 Před 9 měsíci +85

    I was an early bloomer and tallest girl for about 2 years. The kids I didnt get along with were more vicious and I felt very relieved when I stopped growing at 165 cm. It was great, I longer stood out which only got me negative attention. I can imagine many boys felt the same about being the shortest or lastest bloomer.

    • @plantcraftie4141
      @plantcraftie4141 Před 9 měsíci +4

      saaame! I was already 175cm at 11 years old. My relieve was immeasurable when I stopped growing at 13 years old (180cm).

    • @S3verance
      @S3verance Před 9 měsíci +6

      I was the shortest kid in class, even shorter than the girls for all of primary school. Year 10 of school did me a solid and boosted me up to a height I'm happy with.

    • @R0Tl
      @R0Tl Před 9 měsíci +2

      I can give you my perspective as a guy that was the exact opposite. Mine wasn't two years, but rather, most of my childhood. I am an identical twin and my brother and I got the short end of the stick genetically...very literally. We were so tiny, skinny, and short and also had overly youthful appearances. People always thought we were many years younger than we actually were and we were always the shortest in our grade, shorter than all the boys and girls, save one or two people.
      When we started highschool at 14, we were under 5 feet tall, or around 149cm. I can tell you that we got made fun of for our height a lot.
      But that first year of high school is when we hit our growth spurt and both grew like 6-7 inches, and I'm now around 5'9". It's been really weird spending half my life as the shortest kid in every class and now the other half being close to the height of an average American man lol. I'm still slightly below the average height, but I couldn't care less. It's no longer something that affects my life, and I enjoy making jokes about my own height.

    • @rashakor
      @rashakor Před 9 měsíci +4

      @@R0Tladding to that. I was the shortest, smallest, skinniest boy all throughout elementary and middle school. I caught up with most girls beginning high school but never caught up with the other boys. I finally finished at 5’6” (169cm) in senior year of college (age 22!!!). At 175lbs of lean muscle i am taller and bigger than most women, so the height doesn’t bother me much but any mention of it still stings. I married the tall girl in middle school, she barely even remembers being 18” taller and weighting twice as myself in 6th grade. But I do…

    • @dk1480
      @dk1480 Před 9 měsíci +3

      I was the shortest by far. I was 147 cm at 14 years old, tied in height with one girl. I hit puberty at 15, growing rapidly to 166 cm when I was 16, tied in height with two other short guys. I've been growing 1.5 cm a year ever since. (I'm 20 years old, 172 cm)
      I was treated poorly and so I showed a lot of aggression in the school years, this helped to a certain extend.

  • @user-yy5fo3vc4h
    @user-yy5fo3vc4h Před 9 měsíci +26

    As a 5'2'' (157 cm) guy I must say that effecttively height is something that I was really concerned about for most of my youth. It is hard (not impossible) to achieve some kind of success when all your dates are taller than you. Even an extreme procedure like the surgery (which I obviously can not afford because, well, third world) could not make me grow tall enough to have any chances. So eventually I left the idea behind and accepted my fate as the forever alone uncle. It's not nice but it's a living, I guess.

    • @Yourpolice69
      @Yourpolice69 Před 9 měsíci +4

      just retire in southeast Asia

    • @MadMaXXXim
      @MadMaXXXim Před 9 měsíci

      I think you can safely (not without some trades off obviously) extend your legs up to 15cm though, so it is possible to become average height

    • @hulahula6182
      @hulahula6182 Před 8 měsíci +1

      its over

    • @fkrkf
      @fkrkf Před 4 měsíci

      I know a ton of guys in my parent's congregation that are 5'2 and married.....mostly to girls that are 5'0 or 4'11. They are older but not ancient. If anything it seems that women aren't willing to deal with all the bs men bring to a relationship unless he has something to make up for it, like is a really good cook or is super into volunteerism. I got one of my besties married off by having him volunteer at a animal shelter

    • @johnnkurunziza5012
      @johnnkurunziza5012 Před 3 měsíci

      @@hulahula6182my Dads 5’2-5’4 and his very well respected, 9 kids wealthy etc.

  • @NeroKoso
    @NeroKoso Před 8 měsíci

    First sponsored product I see on youtube that actually looks like something I will buy and give it a try. Sick and tired of the shaving products I use now. If this one is even little bit better, it's gonna be worth it.

  • @Xob_Driesestig
    @Xob_Driesestig Před 9 měsíci +25

    19:37 Tattoo idea: The stereotypical tattoo of a heart with your partners name, but with a frighteningly medically accurate depiction of the heart instead.

  • @singerofsongs468
    @singerofsongs468 Před 9 měsíci +27

    Tattoo suggestion: that staff with two snakes winding around it so that when people point it out and go “oh haha because you’re a doctor!” you get to launch into an explanation that it isn’t actually a symbol of medicine but gets used all the time by accident

    • @j.davila4523
      @j.davila4523 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Hermes?

    • @EvMund
      @EvMund Před 9 měsíci

      2-snake caduceus isn't medical, 1-snake rod of asclepius is

    • @singerofsongs468
      @singerofsongs468 Před 9 měsíci

      @@EvMund yep, that’s the joke!

  • @ZacTBH
    @ZacTBH Před 9 měsíci +1

    I appreciate the discussion here, I've never understood why people feel the need to bully others for their immutable traits. There is a serious lack of body positivity in the male sphere, making a lot of men feel like they have to get this surgery to fit in this society.

  • @alex-qn5xp
    @alex-qn5xp Před 3 měsíci

    One of the more reputable doctors on CZcams, your content always gives me a good laugh. Great stuff fella.

  • @kinuorthel8096
    @kinuorthel8096 Před 9 měsíci +7

    You are most certainly my favourite youtube doctor, this one was a banger, from a short king to another.
    edit post note: sometimes I applaud after videos, this was one of them

  • @shazniazhar
    @shazniazhar Před 9 měsíci +88

    It brings a lot of awful childhood (and recent) memories hearing all your personal stories about people making fun of your height. It’s painful.
    Slowly over the years growing up, I managed to just tune out all the hurtful remarks about my height.
    But thank you for the words of encouragement by the end of your video.
    Thank you so much.
    Sincerely,
    160cm guy

    • @plantcraftie4141
      @plantcraftie4141 Před 9 měsíci +11

      If it helps, I got made fun of because I'm tall. You can really never make everyone happy.

    • @gj9157
      @gj9157 Před 9 měsíci +12

      ​@@plantcraftie4141Would you rather be tiny?

    • @on_my_own_two_feet
      @on_my_own_two_feet Před 9 měsíci +5

      @@plantcraftie4141As a 173cm tall girl who shot up in the 8th grade, I so relate to this. Kids can be so mean.

    • @plantcraftie4141
      @plantcraftie4141 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@on_my_own_two_feet i was that length in 6th grade 😅

    • @snappythesnapster1856
      @snappythesnapster1856 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@gj9157Smaller people are far easier to transport in bags

  • @abrams5819
    @abrams5819 Před 4 měsíci

    It's so rare for sponsored content to be this entertaining, I couldn't help but watch it till the end.