MOVING OUT OF HAWAII...
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In this video we give you some updates to our life, discuss our pregnancy journey, answer if we are going to stay in Hawaii once baby is born, address if we are going to continue creating content on youtube after our son's birth, and much more including our community, family, faith, and how we could use prayer.
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0:50 Moving Out Of Hawaii For Family
7:00 Raising A Baby In Hawaii
10:37 How Many Kids Do You Want?
12:24 How Many Times Did You Do The Deed During Your Ovulation Window?
13:46 What Is Your Denomination?
13:50 Will You Film A Baby Names You Like But Won’t Be Using Video?
14:10 Are You Going To Continue CZcams After Having Your Son?
16:40 How Can We Pray For You?
17:10 Will Your Mom Be Able To Come Stay For A While After Baby Is Born?
18:51 How Has Engaging With Your Community Looked Like Since The Pregnancy? Has It Changed At All?
22:04 Last Thoughts And Final Prayer Request
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When I had my son my mom stayed with us for the first week. She went home for a week and a half and then i called her to come back out and help because i was struggling. Having your mom to help with your first baby was a huge blessing
Aw that makes sense! We’ll prob have them come back out after the first few week when Kyle needs to go back to work, but just going to play that by ear 😊
Having had 3 little ones myself, having my mom around was suuuuch a help during and right after birth. I don’t think it’s actually considering having them over as visitors or hosting family. Mostly being able to have someone there to help, big emphasis on the HELP part 😅
100% recommend!
Definitely! Great perspective! Thanks for sharing!
Kyle looks so happy and glowing in this vid ✨️ he is so stoked for this baby and so beautiful to see. He seems like such a sweet supportive husband, I want a man like that! Kyle, we love you. And Kian you're cool too 😎
Haha it’s that pregnancy glow 🤪 thank you though! We appreciate you!!
Six weeks postpartum with our first baby, introvert here as well - definitely took it slow in going out into the world again, unplanned c-section so still healing but my advice would be, listen to your body and self, and what you two are comfortable with. Prayer above all is so powerful. Praying for you both, your son, pregnancy, and all else. 🤍
Cruz for a baby boy where mom and dad met. Two is plenty you’ll see once you have his baby and everything does change, but structure and love help make the child feel secure.
Oooo actually love this 🙌
You guys radiate so much positivity. You shine a light. Watching you just makes me so happy. ❤
Aw so sweet thank you so much! God bless you 💛
My favorite CZcams couple! Your journey has been very enjoyable to watch and be a part of. You two are such a blessing. I pray that the Lord will continue to bless you and enlarge your territory.
Aw thank you! We appreciate you and your prayers 🙌 God bless you!
Awe! 🥰 So Exciting!
Thank youuu 💛😊
Waiting at least a month postpartum is a very good idea! Especially since your family will be staying with you. That is what we did and that was the best decision. You also don't know how you will deal with everything going on postpartum (tiredness, learning to breastfeed, healing...) so you will most probably want to preserve your bubble !
This is kind of what we've been thinking! Thanks for sharing!
The first month was when I needed the most help. Just set boundaries and expectations of what you are wanting. Dishes, laundry, meals, naps etc Having yours moms will be such a blessing in that first month and first baby. I’m so excited for you guys!! Also my favorite boy name is Austin and I never got to use it.
Thank you!! Austin is a great name!
congratulations on the baby!
Thank you so much 😀
I recently had my first back in February. My husband had 3 weeks of paternity leave and we had no visitors until after that. It was so nice to share that time with my husband solely and get used to the transition on our own. Like you mentioned it was nice not having visitors as I recovered so I didn’t have to worry about hosting or being modest. Honestly it was the best decision for us. My husband loved and wanted to be involved and we were worried that having family come early on would take time away he had with baby. It was so nice having that time with my husband and little one. After my husband went back to work my mom came to help with the transition which worked out great because he started having more trouble sleeping so she could assist with that. It was a little difficult setting that expectation with our family at first however they understood and we are so thankful we told them months in advance of our plan for visitation after baby. Definitely do what is best for your family.
Aw so sweet - just you three for a while. This is more what we've been thinking as we will have a similar situation. And then have family come in after the first few weeks or month if need. Seems to be an emphasis on setting expectations though so thanks for sharing! Very insightful and encouraging!
Also Kian you look sooo pretty🥹 your hair color is so stunning and warm
Aw thank you so much 😊
We wouldn’t have survived the first month without our parents (unexpected c-section.) We called them after our first night home alone. We set clear boundaries regarding baby & our bedroom. We literally pushed all our responsibilities to our parents & were fully present as a new family of 3. Originally our plan was not to have visitors, however I’m so so thankful we did. The only thing I would have done different would be planing to have them in advance. I never felt like I was hosting… I felt like I was getting a once in a lifetime opportunity to be fully present without outside obligations.
Love how you explained this - the opportunity to be fully present without outside obligations! Sounds like such a sweet season!
So glad to see you're loving the products!
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I had my mom come down the first week PP. She stayed in a hotel room though and only came during the days/evenings. She mainly just made food for my husband and I and helped around the house while we figured out how to do life with a baby.
It was really nice to have her with us the first week but staying in a hotel to also give us some space as well.
We also didn’t see too many people until a month afterwards!
Your hair is looking so nice Kian
Thank you 💛
Baby names:
Elhias
Luca
Levi
Kaiden
Kaleb
Oh and by the way, I have 2 little girls and having my mom at my house on the first weeks post-partum was such a blessing!! As she was more of a helper rather than a visitor. So many things about a newborn that are so new as a first time mom. Bathing baby, colics, umbilical cord.... etc. Also, she helped a lot with cooking and cleaning as I was mostly too tired and emmotional to do that!
Of ourse you could make a lot of planning and prep ahead like freezer meals and document yourself about everything. My own opinion is that having help around does come really handy after a newborn. But you do you! However you think it is the best and suits you guys!
Praying and sending lots of blessings to you! ❤❤❤
Amazing! So sweet and encouraging! Thank you for sharing! We appreciate you! God bless you and your family 🙏💛
I love the name Boaz!! I think its fun and unique but also so meaningful. Kinsman redeemer!
I had my mom stay after delivery. She made meals, cleaned, laundry and really was just behind the scenes for the first week. It really was a blessing. Clear boundaries are great. It being my mom I felt comfortable. I am very modest only had my husband during labor and delivery and we did fine. It was nice she could go run to the store for things I found I needed like nipple cream 😅
Haha yeah I can definitely see how that would be helpful!
I think limiting visitors is a good idea but make sure you have people around that you know you can call on when you need them! My husband had baby blues quite badly after the birth (no one talks about this!) so we were so grateful to have family nearby to help out and bring food to us etc ☺️
Oh wow never heard of husbands getting baby blues! Good to know and be aware of. Thanks for sharing 💛
I had sciatica pain with my first son (he is 6 now). Proud of you for going to the chiropractor, I didn't and should have. After he was born the pain would come back every so often for about 6 months after especially when I cleaned the whole house. With my 2nd son (6 months old) I have not had sciatica during pregnancy or after. Praying for you and believing that the chiropractor will help prevent the pain from lasting long. So excited for you both!
Yes thank you! Amen 💛
Colorado is amazing. I moved from the Midwest to Colorado 15 years ago.
Such a beautiful place!
When I had my kids having my mom and sister around was so helpful in the beginning. Postpartum is beautiful but so hard. You're life is turned upside-down but in the best way possible, it's just hard to find a new normal. If you are close to your mom, Kian, having her sooner rather than later might be good.
We can only imagine! Thanks for sharing!
fellow hawaii youtuber here!!! ❤️ love your guys videos!!!
Woohoo!!! Thank you 💛🤙
My husband and I grew up in the Midwest, we have family all over that area and we even have family in Illinois. We moved to Tennessee because I agree, the Midwest is sooo gloomy. Neither of us like it. Lol.
Tennessee 🙌
I would say it would depend on your relationship! If your mom/mil are really helpful then I would have them stay sooner. But if not then wait! I found newborn days lonely and equally boring and overwhelming. But I only like having a handful of people around who I knew I could be natural around and would help out
Makes total sense! Thanks for sharing!
Definitely a K name to match you guys!
Need to be careful with 3 K names haha
Yesss! Come to San Diego!!
Haha you never know what the next few years will unfold 👀
Living in Hawaii has to be such a dream! I want that so baddddddd!!
It truly is a blessing! Not the easiest to maintain, but worth it!
Can you show us how you do your hair please? 😍
Haha maybe she’ll do a demonstration on her IG or her channel for y’all one day 😜
Kian's hair looks very moisturised and healthy or is it the colour? the waves are everything. reallly beautiul
It’s the pregnancy!
Love the waves on her! 😍
@@lilmiszmeh135 is it? oh the prenatal vitamins. i hope i get this lucky too
Have your mom asap! Trust me it’ll be a huge help. I thought I didn’t want anyone but I did!
Makes sense! Thanks for sharing!
It’s good to have help at 6 weeks bc you’ve gotten used to nursing sleep times feeding times and it’s at six week mark do you feel more secure to leave baby with grandma while you take a shower or a walk or go shopping six weeks is a sweet spot and then have the other grandma come after the other one leaves. The best course for parents is big little feelings and feeding models. The two best course is ever feeding. Little book is available in target.
We were thinking this would be a good time to have family come stay with us again! 3-6 week range depending on feel. Thanks for the advice.
Baby names 💙
- Atlas
- Noa
- Everest
- Nathaniel
- Raiden
- Silas
- Rion (similar to ryan)
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How did you track your ovulation? With strips?
Amaris is evidently a Hebrew boy name meaning God's Promise. Made me think of your rainbow baby 🌈 and how rainbows remind us of God's promises❤️
Aw I love this!! Thanks for sharing 💛
We actually enjoyed raising our kids on our own. Being near family was not an option and looking back now that they are teenagers and with us less, we are so grateful we had all that time with them and didn’t have family to take over. We never had a sitter. Just worked opposite schedules till we could afford one income. You can’t ever get those moments back. Same with travel, we only travel with the kids. When they move out, we will get our time😃
Love this! This speaks directly to us so thank you for sharing!! Very encouraging to hear 💛
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Babies are addicting that's a fact!
Oh no 😂 we believe it!
cute bible names ✨️
-Kenaniah
-Levi
-Ezra
-Isaac
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I thought my birth would be a lot different than it turned out, and initially I felt the same way about now having people over. But after the birth, postpartum was insanely difficult, and my mom and mother in law came to help and it wasn’t anything less of a blessing from God to have a village around me. I don’t think I would’ve been okay without that support, and even with that help I was emotionally going through SO much. I would advise that you would allow family to come and help in those early days, having a newborn and learning to take care of another human is insanely difficult when you are not getting much sleep at all. Some nights my mom would stay up with him and bring him in for feedings when I would have breakdowns and be at a low point. Baby boy is 8.5 months old now and time flies !! Just create the boundary in your mind to humbly receive help and love from family and don’t set the expectation on yourself to take care of them as a host. They are coming to support YOU, sometimes the battle about these things come from an uncomfortability in ourselves to reject help or support that requires us to open up to vulnerability, and it can be tough, but it was so much harder when they weren’t there.
Aw so sorry to hear it was so difficult and we appreciate your insight and advice! Makes total sense and so glad your moms was there to help you! God bless you and your sweet baby boy!
For baby names I always thought Blake would be a cute one 😊
That’s a very nice name 🙌
Ouch! I looked into cozy earth. It is 3x the price I would have expected. I’m sleeping anyway. My target sheets and pjs will continue to be just fine.
Yeah definitely not for everyone nor a necessity... but such a treat to feel in bed and wear on your body!
Kyle,Kian,and Kai Wolfgang
Oh no I just realized that is toooo many k's..... Oops
Hahaha yeahhhh can’t do a 3rd K name, though I do like Kai!
Some unique biblical baby names for a boy/neutral
Shiloh
Asher
Aiden
Titus
Zion
Cyrus
Micah
Micaiah
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Your a young mom I had my son at 32 and second at 35.
Postpartum is just a beautiful mess so my suggestion would be to keep visits really short like maybe as short as 30 minutes. Im sure in your beautiful community people will bring meals over which is so helpful during those first few weeks.
Thanks for the tips! This is how we see it happening too!
I would consider having someone there for during and after birth. I know this isn’t true for everyone, but I felt most comfortable with my mom as I felt absolutely zero need to host or be “decent” (ie, definitely walked around in diapers with boobs out around her!) But that first month can be so hard emotionally and physically and having a third person (who understands what it’s like to push a baby out) would be incredibly helpful to you and Kyle. If you’re comfortable with your mom and feel like you can be honest with her about your needs, I would 100% recommend having her with you during labor and that first month!
Yeah this makes sense! So happy to hear she was such a huge help for you! Very encouraging 😊 thanks for sharing!
whether its family or you hire someone to come cook and clean for yall!! That way BOTH of you can rest and enjoy the baby theres no risk of kyle being overwhelmed or you getting frustrated! He’ll be able to truly focus on you and baby boy while yall are transitioning (:
River, Micah, Luke, Isaiah, Wren 😊 I feel like I could see your children have earthy/nature names or biblical names :) haha either way whatever names you choose will be beautiful!
So true! Thank you!!
If you have a natural birth and not a c section I’d say definitely take that first month off of seeing people! If you can financially handle Kyle being off of work that first month all the better. I definitely needed my mom after my c section since my husband was back to work within 2 days. I couldn’t walk very well so I physically couldn’t fully take care of my son for the first week. I know some moms that are walking just hours after their surgery so totally a case by case basis. And I don’t say that to worry you, but just be prepared because I was not expecting to have a c section and wish I had prepared for it :) I pray your birth plan goes to plan for you two! One more thing I wish I had during that time were friends! That was my husbands and I’s community-less season (Covid) so I never had help from other people besides my mom. Next time I am totally going to have a meal train going for when friends ask what they can do!! Having healthy meals during that post partum season would have been so nice
You know what if you had a close girlfriend, cleaning!! My house was a wreck with my husband working and me not fully functioning yet! I can’t wait for my friends to have kids so I can do all these things for them. I KNOW how much they would have blessed me during that season!
So I now realize that means I’d have people in right away lol! I think the difference is I would like help but not necessarily to host people!
Thank you so much for sharing your experience and giving your recommendations! That’s all good advice! I’m able to take a couple weeks off to be here for her so that will be good and then our friends will definitely do a meal train for us so we’re right in line with what you are saying! We appreciate you and pray blessings over you and your family in Jesus name 🙏🤙
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Your title got me scared...I thought you were both leaving. Lol. I had my sons at age 43 and 45. I didn't even know I was having my second son to I was giving birth. You're still young. As for names, see if you have a Hawaiian friend, maybe they can give you a Hawaiian name. I'm just so excited for the both of you!
Haha sorry! And thanks for sharing!
Name ideas for your SON... James Kyle Wolfgang... Joshua Douglas Wolfgang... Alex Clharles Wolfgang... Andrew Hosea Wolfgang
Just go with what feels right in your heart as you search for ideas! God already knows his name, He'll guide your heart for picking the perfect names!
Amen thank you!
Some K name suggestions if you guys want to match with your son😊:
Keoni( it's of Hawaian origin, meaning God is gracious😊)
Kenji
Killian
Kingsley
Knight
Kristoph
Khalil
These are cool!
@@KianandKyle 😊
love these but the first thought that came to my mind when i imagined them naming their kid with a K is triple K names which if someone said it in the wrong way, it could be very controversial LOL. something to think abt for sure!
Honestly everyone is different yes depending on how God writes your story, but I think you guys are having babies at the perfect age! You should have a bit of time with just you & hubby. Also just time to get life experience & mature! You guys aren’t old! Y’all are wise in the Lord! ❤✨
Amen so true and we’ll said! Thank you so much!! We appreciate you!
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Kian please be careful going to the chiropractor. Getting your neck adjusted can very well lead to a stroke. Please do your research on it!!😳😳
Appreciate your caution and concern Nicole 💛
Killian! Baby name rec
Oooo I like!
Baby name idea: Azariah. It means: Helped by God; To help, support
Love this!
Cute pj sets are key for post partum!!!!
Haha I think so too!! 😆
Both of you have THE BEST hair so I wonder if your baby will have hair 😂were you bald or hairy at birth? All 3 of mine had a full head of hair at birth. Just a random thought as I enjoyed this video!
Haha thank you and interesting to think about! We shall see!
concerning whether or not you should share about your baby i suggest watching the dad challenge podcast. the internet is not safe for kids and it exploits their privacy. love you guys.
-Baby names list
-luke
-jake
-leo
-cohen
-theo
-killian said kill e en
-mike/y
-bosten
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A k name
Gotta be careful with 3 K names 😅
😳 please be careful with the chiropractor a girl got 3 strokes back to back because of a chiropractors bad move!!!
Dang that’s so sad. We have a friend who is highly trained and very experienced with her own clinic. She works with a lot of us pregnant women and we trust her plenty. But we definitely appreciate your heart and concern for us!
Boy: Lev Hudson
Girl: Mia Kate
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I am giggling at you two thinking bringing your baby everywhere will be so easy and relaxing because it will turn your life upside down and the baby will be in charge….when babies are newborns they travel well and sleep through anything but that changes as they grow and schedules become more important …you will rely on naps to get things done etc. etc. eventually your baby will go to bed at 7:30 and sleep until 7:30 and it will be hard to take them out to social events at night….just sayin
Hahaha we can be hopeful, can't we? 😉😂
Why do you guys always move?
We've been asking God the same thing lol
Is your. Husband American
Yes he is but I can see how you're unsure lol
seeing Kyle in the beginning of ya'll relationship really messed with my mind. i keep waiting for him to go back to the shorter hair, clean look vibe. im struggling to get used to the new normal look. But i know its just me and 'm glad everybody loves it and the channel hasnt been affected. Because i do want you to win.
Haha thank you!
same shirt for a week, unwashed?
they can wash it and then put it back on use your brain🧠 next time before you say something because it might be mean and rude
Yea. That's probably exactly it. Good catch! 😅
@@rubyjohnston3526 you are being mean and rude to me. why dont you correct me properly without the attitude
All love here fam! I pray against all spirits of offense and defensiveness in Jesus name 🙏 God is good and you are appreciated! Love you guys!