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  • @deebee153
    @deebee153 Před 3 měsíci

    Hey Melissa, your Mom's apartment is so nice. I loved watching Kody in front of the purple fan. 😀 North Carolina is a beautiful state. My parents lived there for 25 years. I used to visit them every year. They were in Winston-Salem. We would take trips to Asheville which is my favorite place in NC. I sure hope you can get your tiny home back. It really suites you and Kody. 🤗🥰❤

    • @italian_grl
      @italian_grl  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Yes, NC is beautiful! And, i really hope i get the other house back, it really did work better for me and Kody, and... it was home! I miss it ..

  • @codysmom6071
    @codysmom6071 Před 3 měsíci +4

    I see a lot of the residents of ITH move out in a short period of time either because it doesn't work for them or they get sick or die. So ITH / Randy keeps their 30 Grand and charges the new buyer 30 grand. That’s quite the operation he’s got going.

    • @italian_grl
      @italian_grl  Před 3 měsíci +2

      Yeah, for sure. I do believe one day it WILL all catch up to him. I pray SO hard for karma, i really do!!! He's done so many wrong. Not just me and my mom.

  • @rosiekavras8494
    @rosiekavras8494 Před 3 měsíci

    Hi Melissa, take care, things will work out. Enjoy some of your nice coffee. I love Kody's bed, it's too cute. Kisses to Kody, enjoy your day. 😊

  • @mygypsyadventure3610
    @mygypsyadventure3610 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Have any thoughts about the massive layoff of 70 employees at ITH? I hope you call the Newport newpaper and tell them about your personal experience with them as many other unhappy customers are contacting the newspaper too.

    • @italian_grl
      @italian_grl  Před 3 měsíci

      I haven't heard a thing. But, i don't listen or watch ith ever. Haven't in years so i don't know what's going on!! I did see someone else here said something about that too though. 🤔

    • @italian_grl
      @italian_grl  Před 3 měsíci +1

      How many employees did they even have?? Was that the majority of their workers they laid off?? Strange.

    • @mygypsyadventure3610
      @mygypsyadventure3610 Před 3 měsíci +2

      @@italian_grl they laid off 70 employees on Monday including Amber well she quit in protest. I think they are going under financially.

  • @pcthayer
    @pcthayer Před 3 měsíci +6

    I certainly can relate to the commuting headaches of 1 1/2- 2 hours each way. Several of my jobs were like that and every day after that commute I wanted to quit (but needed to pay bills so tortured myself doing it.) (One of the guys I worked with commuted 4 hours each way so I felt lucky.) I hope you can find work closer to home. Good luck with the property in N. Carolina, I hope it all works out. (BTW...just be aware of the several areas in N.C. that have the hazardous waste/coal ash pits, etc.)

  • @chriscesafsky7498
    @chriscesafsky7498 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Have you heard the news at ITH? supposedly 80 percent of the employees were let go. Saw some posts about that. Wow.

    • @alexadian
      @alexadian Před 3 měsíci +2

      Where do we see all that?

    • @chriscesafsky7498
      @chriscesafsky7498 Před 3 měsíci

      @@alexadian You have to be a part of the tiny home movement by Jim Cook

    • @chriscesafsky7498
      @chriscesafsky7498 Před 3 měsíci +3

      @@alexadian I would not be surprised to see any more videos... I hope for the best but be prepared for the worst. I just hope that others can get their money back or see a lawyer.

    • @marybrown-kencayd277
      @marybrown-kencayd277 Před 3 měsíci

      What is the exact name of the channel? Is it on CZcams? I would like to subscribe. Thanks.

    • @user-pt2gl6zz6g
      @user-pt2gl6zz6g Před 3 měsíci

      Wow!

  • @alicejette5635
    @alicejette5635 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Interesting about ITH I am so glad I didn’t t buy there so if they are laying off their employee what is going to happen to all the resistance who love their??? I wish you the best Melissa ,Alice in Fl.

    • @debbietice2937
      @debbietice2937 Před 3 měsíci

      They have always said the land was paid for. The layoff is for manufacturing, it shouldn't have anything to do with the "properties".

  • @debbietice2937
    @debbietice2937 Před 3 měsíci

    I believe you made the right decision not to drive 70 minutes one way to work.
    I used to commute an hour and was making good money, but I took a leap of faith and quit without having another job. I had income from my divorce and while quitting meant 50% less of what I was making, I found I could survive by cutting out huge expenses for gas, vehicle maintenance. I was home to cook so long gone were lunch or dinner at restaurants.

    • @italian_grl
      @italian_grl  Před 3 měsíci

      Yeah, i found out LONG ago how to live on VERY little. I don't have any income from my ex, i wasn't entitled to spousal support or alimony, even though we were married over 13 years. I got a big screw you. Lol it's OK. I'm still pissed over it all, but after almost 4 years, I've learned to make it on VERY little. I could do a yt on just how little i actually live on. I'll never have a second income to help me, and i work as much as i can with all my health issues. I'll just always struggle.

  • @rebameyer4328
    @rebameyer4328 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Whew! The storms were intense. Glad you had the option of mom’s apartment for safety. ❤

  • @michelleellis8201
    @michelleellis8201 Před 3 měsíci

    I am happy you are safe from all the storms and tornadoes! I hope the property in NC turns out to be good for the tiny homes. I know that some areas in NC have zoning laws that require stick homes of a minimum square feet to be built on land. Hope the land is already graded and ready for tiny homes. Good luck. 😊❤️🙏

  • @kitty_s23456
    @kitty_s23456 Před 3 měsíci

    Good luck in all your plans. I hope the land in NC works out for you. Stay blessed. 💐

  • @pattyolson3842
    @pattyolson3842 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hi Melissa, I think leaving North Face was a good idea, in terms of drive time and gas cost. I hope you find another part-time job soon.
    Also, that tiny house community that you Looked at, Lakeland Ridge has sites starting at $400. I can't remember if you said why you didn't want to move there. You looked around, even in the community kitchen and seemed to like it.

  • @codysmom6071
    @codysmom6071 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Randy charges key money for the lots at ITH in addition to the monthly lot rent. I’ve heard it’s $10 to $15 thousand dollars which is supposed to be kept in an escrow account in case someone doesn’t pay their rent and when you move out you are suppose to get that money back. Did you and Mom pay key money and did you get it back. It’s not something he advertises he makes it seem like all you do is pay your monthly lot fee.

    • @kitty_s23456
      @kitty_s23456 Před 3 měsíci +2

      The key money is now $30k (2024 price) for the right to stay at one of the ITH communities. The $10 to 15k was offered 1 or 2 yrs ago. I believe Melissa's mom paid $6k per lot in 2020. She (the mom) leased 2 lots initially (for 2 tiny houses), so she paid $12k (I think). That key money included 2 yrs of "free" / prepaid rent. At present, ITH no longer offers 2 yrs of prepaid rent when you pay the key money. Plus, you'll still have to pay $200 or $300 per month for the lot rent.
      Yes, when they advertise the communities, they emphasize the low monthly rent & don't usually mention the key money involved. Key money is non refundable & non transferable (as stated in their contract).

    • @codysmom6071
      @codysmom6071 Před 3 měsíci

      @@kitty_s23456 Wow non refundable and not transferable that’s quite the racket. No wonder he doesn’t advertise that. Randy is also involved in a development called Pine Lake in Alabama when I emailed asking about the key money the response was very evasive.

    • @codysmom6071
      @codysmom6071 Před 3 měsíci

      @@kitty_s23456

    • @kitty_s23456
      @kitty_s23456 Před 3 měsíci

      ​​​@@codysmom6071yes, they (ITH) are evasive abt the 30k key money. The 6k or 10k key money w/ 2 yrs prepaid rent (offered in 2020) was acceptable, I think. The one in Alabama is owned by Hans & he charges 10 or 15k for key money, depending on location of lot.
      IMO, a key money of 10k will only be profitable/ break even if one stays there for 5 or more years. If one leaves in fewer years for whatever reason (health, family, job, death), then the lot rent isn't significantly lower (if you add the key money to the monthly lot rent). I'd rather pay $450 or $550 at Lakeland Ridge (TN), Bird's Nest (in TX) or River Edge (in NM) than pay the key money (hypothetically, since I can't move now.)
      Ultimately, it's the client's choice whether they want to pay the key money or not. Re: being non refundable & non transferable - that was written in the contract of ITH, posted by another client in one of Melissa's vids a few months ago (when she was evicted/ lease contract not renewed at ITH).

    • @italian_grl
      @italian_grl  Před 3 měsíci +3

      I guess i just never understood this "key" money. When my mom did this, years ago, it was 6k a lot, i think. But, that included the 2 years free lot rent. If they don't do that anymore, than what the heck are you paying the "key" money for?? Smh. You don't own the land!!! You are paying thousands JUST to be able to put your house there and RENT the lot!? Yeah, sounds like a great deal. Smh. Also, i heard someone say that ith said they're struggling. Ok...lol... how long are they going to claim that lie!?!? Randy i see just got a new ford bronco and paid CASH, like 70k. How do u get that if you're so broke? Lol

  • @sandrap3047
    @sandrap3047 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Kody gave you the funniest look when you went out to the porch. He's like :Oh, it's you again". Hope the land works out for all three of you! That would be awesome!

  • @kimberlypeterson4883
    @kimberlypeterson4883 Před 3 měsíci

    Yeah Melissa!!! Blessings to you friend, things are looking up for you in a positive manner. It will all work out if it is meant to be. Keep up your positive attitude. God will help you just keep the faith🙏🙏🥰🥰👍👍😊😊💕💕

    • @italian_grl
      @italian_grl  Před 3 měsíci

      Thank you!! I'm trying to keep the faith! I know God's got my back. 🥰

  • @rebameyer4328
    @rebameyer4328 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Working closer to home/ less gas. May break even or a slight income increase due to less miles to drive. Prayers 🙏

  • @sallyapplegate4591
    @sallyapplegate4591 Před 3 měsíci

    Hi, have you looked into the tiny home property at Lake at the Pines, in Huntsville, Alabama? They just opened and you bring your own TH, $300 mo rent, etc .
    Good luck on N Carolina😊

    • @pcthayer
      @pcthayer Před 3 měsíci +1

      I believe he is associated with Randy and the last I heard, he required key money too.

    • @debbietice2937
      @debbietice2937 Před 3 měsíci

      Hans followed the same business plan as Randy, especially requiring"key money" Randy is not involved in the business. That community lets ITH have exclusive rights as far as what homes can be put in there.

  • @GailFeltman
    @GailFeltman Před 3 měsíci +2

    Yes … One Day at a Time Sweet Jesus! I want you to have your other house two … bigger and better arrangement! 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @annaazzopardi4625
    @annaazzopardi4625 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Change is good. North Carolina would be a good move.

  • @LoneState
    @LoneState Před 3 měsíci +2

    Have A Reflective Memorial Day Melissa
    🇺🇸🙋☕😻❤️🤍🩵

  • @jennellmutch9985
    @jennellmutch9985 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I lived in North Carolina for 4 months ! My son was out of school and I wanted to spend a summer going places and seeing things ! This was 20 years ago !
    But I loved it there ! Almost every town was gorgeous and fun.
    We got to rent a hotel room for the time we were there. It was 220 a week ! We were 10 mins from the beach and we would go to South Carolina and visit there and it was a blast !
    Hope you get something there !

  • @laceknot1584
    @laceknot1584 Před 3 měsíci

    Praying from Michigan that everything works out for yall

  • @nightbird4747
    @nightbird4747 Před 3 měsíci

    Glad you're all safe❣️

  • @DD-zw5sy
    @DD-zw5sy Před 3 měsíci

    I started watching your channel a while back but I guess I never really commented I just wanted to say happy Memorial Day to you too

    • @italian_grl
      @italian_grl  Před 3 měsíci

      Thank you. And thank you for supporting my channel, all of you mean a lot to me!! Enjoy your day!😊🥰

  • @maryalbert6138
    @maryalbert6138 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Good idea leaving Northface I agree the ride and gas is too much!

  • @reginafalzone8537
    @reginafalzone8537 Před 3 měsíci +2

    When you have no answers to things that are out of your control, pray and ask Jesus for guidance. He is always there just waiting for you to ask Him for help. Have faith in the only living God. He loves you.

  • @calicat7794
    @calicat7794 Před 3 měsíci +16

    Hi Melissa - nothing "Happy" about Memorial Day. It is a day to remember the fallen heroes and servicemen and women who died for this country and for us.

    • @chriscesafsky7498
      @chriscesafsky7498 Před 3 měsíci +11

      We can be happy knowing that our service men and women are at peace. So, I do not agree with that, but yes, I had someone die, my father who was in the service. He is at peace and I am happy about that.

    • @nightbird4747
      @nightbird4747 Před 3 měsíci +8

      We don't have to be sad to honor our fallen 🇺🇸🙏🏻🇺🇸🙏🏻

  • @chriscesafsky7498
    @chriscesafsky7498 Před 3 měsíci

    Happy Memorial Day to you. Enjoy your time with your sister. :) Hugs.

  • @chellebelle1970
    @chellebelle1970 Před 3 měsíci

    ❤ONE DAY AT A TIME❤ slow down and breathe. it will come together.

    • @italian_grl
      @italian_grl  Před 3 měsíci +2

      Yes, i agree. I'm trying to do just that. 🙏❤️God hasn't let me down yet! It feels like it at times, but I'm keeping the faith as hard as i can. I pray one day , life will get just a bit easier. I know it'll never be easy, but not so hard all the time!! Almost 4 years now I've struggled! Ever since getting divorced and losing it all... somehow, i just keep going though. 🩷

  • @scuttlebuttz7202
    @scuttlebuttz7202 Před 3 měsíci

    Hello to you & Kody! I'm glad you quit your job. You went to work with all the pain from your ribs & your back... 😣 Hopefully you will find something less stressful on your body! You need to take care of your body. It's the only one you'll have the rest of your days on God's green earth!!! 🤗 🌄

    • @italian_grl
      @italian_grl  Před 3 měsíci

      Hi there!! Yes, i felt it was right. I did work through so much pain, and standing at work all those hours made my back and ribs so much worst, but i did it. Smh..i will figure something out. I always do, right? Lol when i feel like giving up, i never do... guess it's cause i have Kody and i can't give up in life.

  • @dorisharrison9885
    @dorisharrison9885 Před 3 měsíci +1

    HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY 🎉🌻🌷🇺🇸

  • @cindydavisnowell6502
    @cindydavisnowell6502 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Happy Memorial day

  • @janeicegilmore98
    @janeicegilmore98 Před 3 měsíci

    Tornados hit here people died, it was terrible! Stay safe

    • @italian_grl
      @italian_grl  Před 3 měsíci

      Oh my, glad you are safe!!! I hate bad storms!

  • @Wintersnow147
    @Wintersnow147 Před 3 měsíci

    Happy Memorial's Day

  • @donnaahlgren9219
    @donnaahlgren9219 Před 3 měsíci

    Melissa, how are you going to qualify for a loan or an apartment if youre unemployed? Not meaning to be critical, just concerned.

    • @italian_grl
      @italian_grl  Před 3 měsíci +3

      I'm not unemployed lol. I was doing 2 jobs, now i just do my delivery job. Some people say they can make 3k a month doing it. I don't do it 12hrs a day, 7 days a week though. And, it's my sister getting the loan, with my mom. I would simply rent, like i do now, pay lot rent. This job will do while I'm trying to get another job closer.

    • @italian_grl
      @italian_grl  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Plus, yt is my job. Seriously. I love yt. I'm getting monetized and while i don't make much money, it DOES help in addition to my job now.

  • @rosekraemer8205
    @rosekraemer8205 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Good luck job hunting

  • @marciafurlowlogangreen2824
    @marciafurlowlogangreen2824 Před 3 měsíci

    Who do you deliver for?

  • @moann56
    @moann56 Před 3 měsíci

    🌸👍🏻🌸

  • @Rwealone
    @Rwealone Před 3 měsíci

    What do you mean by doing orders for Walmart?

    • @italian_grl
      @italian_grl  Před 3 měsíci +2

      I work for DDI delivery, i have for 2 years. It's for spark, Walmart. I can do shop orders only, or deliveries. I can get paid right after I'm done which is really great!!

    • @italian_grl
      @italian_grl  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Nice thing is, i can do it at any Walmart. So, when i travel to visit my sister, i can do it while there if i want.

    • @italian_grl
      @italian_grl  Před 3 měsíci +1

      There's usually a very long wait list to get on it though. I had to wait months for an opening.

    • @Rwealone
      @Rwealone Před 3 měsíci

      I am retired and thought I might be able to do it part time. I’d be scared to deliver here in Colorado. I’m nervous to shop for myself here at Walmart. Lots of violence here!

    • @Rwealone
      @Rwealone Před 3 měsíci

      I’d also like to ask how tiny homes hold up to wind and storms. A tiny home is an option for me.

  • @Roobah
    @Roobah Před 3 měsíci

    I cannot hear you

    • @pcthayer
      @pcthayer Před 3 měsíci

      Make sure "mute" doesn't show up (speaker with line thru it) since I had no problems with the sound.

    • @debbietice2937
      @debbietice2937 Před 3 měsíci

      I heard her just fine, too.