Being introvert in an extrovert world / Oslo, Norway silent vlog
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- čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
- My thoughts and experience being introvert. Everyone has their own experience. But perhaps there are many similarities? I share my own experiences and thoughts while walking through the snow covered streets of Oslo.
Anybody else watching older videos while waiting for the new ones, or is it just me? 😅
That’s so sweet- I love that! ❤️
@@introvert-and-dog 😄🤭💖
Me too 😅
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@@irisziegler1902 😄🫂💖
This video is just a mirror of myself. Thanks a lot for all ❤
Thanks for creating this kind reminder that it's ok to be an introvert and you are never alone.
Introverts are everywhere, and it’s OK to prefer peace and quiet ❤️❤️❤️
Greetings from elder Black lady in Atlanta, Ga. Your introvert story sounds like mine. Love you and partners' quiet, simple life.
I am so moved by the fact that my story resonates with a kind stranger on the other side of the world. I wish I knew as a kid that there is such a thing as introversion, and that it’s OK to seek quiet and not talk all the time. Now as an adult with this channel, I am connecting with like minded people. That’s amazing.
Thank you for your generousity. Am appreciate it so much. I hope you have a peaceful week.❤️
Also work in busy grocery store.. lots of customers and interaction with them.. after work just want alone time and peace and quiet
Alone time to recharge is so precious!
I'm an introvert too. Since childhood. I love being alone ❤
Beautifully filmed! Observing life from a distance. I found it so calming. Your style is quite unique.
And Mochi ❤❤❤
So glad you enjoy the videos. I have fun making them 😀
I talk to people all day at work. Exhausting. Agree everything you said. Thank you for lovely calming video.
Thank you! It’s nice to connect with other introverts!
J'ai beaucoup aimé le quartier avec les maisons colorées et le parc ou les enfants jouent.
Moi aussi je suis une introvertie mais beaucoup moins avec l'âge.
Lorsque j'étais enfant j'étais d'une timidité maladive.
Quand j'ai commencé ma vie professionnelle, les entretiens d'embauches étaient très dur pour moi tellement j'étais timide.
Avec l'âge, j'ai 51 ans, je le suis un peu moins.
En tant que solitaire et casanière, j'aime être seule, je lis beaucoup, je dessine, je jardine et j'aime faire des randonnées en forêt et en montagne.
Actuellement je n'ai plus d'animaux de compagnie mais pendant longtemps nous avons eu des cochons d'Inde. Nous en avons tellement pris soin, qu'elles sont mortes à l'âge vénérable de 8 ans.
Le vétérinaire n'en revenait pas d'un tel âge pour ces petites bêtes adorables.
The area with the colorful houses is very nice and charming. It's nice in the winter, but even prettier in the spring and summer. I will try to film there again some time. Your lifestyle seems very nice and quiet. Mochi is my first pet actually. I never had one growing up. But I am loving it so much. She is my little friend.
Love from Oslo!
Je comprends, un animal de compagnie c'est comme notre famille.
Il y a toujours eu des animaux aussi loin que je me souvienne chez mes parents pendant mon enfance. Nous avons eu des chats, des chiens, des oiseaux et des tortues, le tout ensemble. Une belle ménagerie. À chaque fois la perte d'un de ses petits êtres est une déchirure.
Lorsque nous avons perdu notre petite Amande, notre petite Milka et notre petit Augustin, les noms de nos cochons d'Inde, j'ai été très affecté, j'en ai pleuré.
Oh non ma vie est loin d'être calme. Mon compagnon n'est pas du tout comme moi, il veut toujours sortir.😄
@@fleur-jq6sdYour childhood with all the animals sounds wonderful. I only had goldfish growing up. Not so many cuddles from them!
I hope you can get some alone time at home doing things you love even if your partner likes going out. ❤
I'm a mix of the two. Since I was a child I was always very independent and had fun on my own and now too. Society values non-stop talking, even if nothing is said but nonsense. Observing and listening is just as important, if not more so, than talking. It's instructive and enriching. I loved your video and your reflections. I do talk to my cat, she's like a daughter. Owning an animal changes life for the better ❤️
Thank you for your thoughts on this topic. Well said! I really wish observing and listening was more appreciated. I totally get your relationship with your cat. I feel the same way about my dog. She changed my life for the better 💖
I think it is only the Western societies that value extroversion vs. introversion. It is quite opposite in many Eastern societies (Japan, e.g.).
@EA-ck4so Good point, I think you are right
OMG... I am so glad that I found you and your channel. I am an introvert too. I always think that it is not OK to live like I do. But I enjoy it so much. Like I already did when I was a child. Greetings from Germany ❤6
Hi, it’s nice to connect with other introverts! A quiet life as a homebody brings me a lot of joy, I’m glad there are more people out there like me! Keep living your nice introvert life that makes you happy. Warm greetings from Oslo💖
I like watching your videos, daily routins and mochi ☺️. I'm a gay, introvert and shy person living in Turkey. I can understand you because I experince the same feelings. I was too shy when I was a kid and actually still a bit shy. I think if you are an introvert, it doesn't matter where you live, you still feel that some people don't understand you and they want you to be as they are. Now you are my new friends that I feel close to my self. 🤗👋
Warm greetings from Oslo to Turkey😀
I’m happy to hear you enjoy my videos. I think it’s nice to connect with other introverts around the world. It sounds like we have a lot in common since you are also gay.
I hope you have a good and peaceful week, hugs from your new friend in Norway 😃💖
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@@introvert-and-dogHi! Nice to meet you! Why are you a gay? R u fulfilling the purpose of God?
I feel the same. I learned to speak up and contribute in meetings at work but after work I just wanted to be in complete silence and by myself to recuperate 🙂
Thanks for sharing! I’m always nervous before I talk in a meeting, but I do it because I know it’s expected of me. Introverts learn early on to be good actors…
I am an introvert too! Sometimes I suffered from this because my friends were extroverts and I thought that they were thinking that there was something wrong with me. Even now I feel like I’m not fitting well in this world which appreciates talkative people and extroverts.
Being introvert is OK too. We shouldn't apologize for not being outgoing all the time. Not every one can be an extrovert. I learned this as an adult 🥰
I've wondered about more than a few outgoing, chatty types who always need to be in the company of others. It's almost as if they're afraid of their own company, have too many bad memories or can't do without the ego stroking others provide. There are books available on being an introvert in an extrovert world that could be of benefit. After all, reading is one of our favorite pastimes !
Simplicity at its finest thank you from England
Hugs from Norway! ✨🐶
Love your videos. Love the curvy corners! Oslo looks so clean and calm compared to where I live, I find it very restful just looking at it.
Thank you, I’m glad you enjoy my videos. Love from Oslo❤️
I am an introvert and learned that when i was an adult. Everything make sence now and that i am not strange 😊
Same here! I wish I knew I wasn’t strange when I was a kid! Thank you for sharing. ❤️
Beautiful atmosphere and knowledgable words. Glad to have discovered your vlogs, they're a breath of fresh air for this fellow introvert.
Hello and thanks for your nice words. You know comments from fellow introverts are extra special to me. It’a just nice to know there are more people like me out there! 😂
Your thoughts and experiences as an introvert are exactly that of my own. I was told growing up I was "eccentric, odd, an old soul" but I took those as compliments. I cherish my own company.
You are a kindred spirit for sure❤️
I littraly binge watch ur vids everyday im not in good mood its natural anti depressent thank you u and ur puppy are the only therepist i need
I dont know if its from childhood for due to my mental sensitivity i live very insular lifestyle to the outside world i dont feel lonly in a quiet insular lifestyle and its from a very early age...gives me peace and serenity🤗❣️
Your kind comment encourages me to keep making videos, thanks for taking the time to write it.
Wish you days filled with peace and serenity. Love from Oslo❤️
@@introvert-and-dog love from trondheim🤗thanks for heartwearming reply❣️
You are a great filmer..your pictures are so descriptive of cold Oslo.
Thank you so much ❤️🐶✨
Beautifully filmed! Love the last scenes of falling snow and the family enjoying the snow and kids’ happy voices. It’s like a mini movie! ❤🙏🏻👏👏
Thank you so much for your very kind words! ❤️
Finding your channel and watching your videos always make me feel at peace and content with myself and my life. While my husband is a hardcore social butterfly extrovert and I am an in between extro-intro (is there is such a word) we mesh well because we give each other space while also been together all the time, if that makes sense. I enjoy been alone and relish the stillness of just existing.
I’m so happy my videos have that effect on you. Thanks for taking the time to tell me. ❤️
Your relationship with your partner sounds great. I think it’s important to give each other space. I love your words «relish the stillness of just existing». That’s poetry! 💖
Я тоже " интроверт". И мне хорошо. Люблю быть дома. Люблю молчать. Не люблю громкие и пустые разговоры, но людей люблю. Люблю свою семью.❤❤❤❤
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Hi! The title of this episode did really strike a chord within me. I have been struggling with my introversion my whole life, I guess. I just discussed this with my psychotherapist last Sunday. Still trying to sort it out. It's a work in progress. This week, I started rereading Susan Cain's "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking", hoping to find answers to my questions. Your videos do have a therapeutic effect on me. They help me to reconnect with my introverted nature and learn to cherish and truly enjoy it! Thank you! 🫶
I really appreciate your comment, thanks for sharing your thoughts! I haven't read Susan Cain's book, but I saw her TEDtalk, and that really hit home. Sorry to hear you've been struggling with your introversion your whole life. I wish there was more awareness in society. Until that happens, I guess we just have to learn to appreciate our quiet nature and create spaces where we are comfortable and don't feel pressured to be someone we're not.
I have a memory from school when I was 7 years old. It was recess, and all the kids were playing noisily in the playground. I went for a walk all by myself, and when I was in a forest behind the school, I felt such peace and joy! And I remember singing this song I'd heard on the radio. Just all by myself. I'm sure if a teacher or classmates saw me, they would think I was crazy and needed help. LOL. But I was really having a good time!
All our lives we're taught that spending time alone /being quiet and not loud and talkative is bad. That's just crazy! We're all different, right?
Anyway, just rambling on. I'm glad my videos have a good effect on you.
Take care!❤️
I enjoy simple things in life. As a Introvert I like being a homebody, but occasionally I enjoy time soent with family and friends. Sometimes travel go places not a lot. Lol. I'm from U.S. southern state of NC. When I send my first comment on one your videos.. I didn't want to mention my ethnic background, etc. Indeed I am Black woman in her mid 44's. I love watch slow living, minimalist, nature channels from differenr content creators and its fun, interesting to watch not boring at all. I'm very glad I stumbled across your videos and knowing there are a world full of Introverts liked-minded people laid-back personality with calm, peaceful, beautiful spirit. ❤😊
Thank you for sharing bits of your life, dear fellow introvert, I appreciate it. I read all the comments, and often imagine how my viewers live. We may live in different countries, but many of us have a lot in common, right? Love from Oslo ❤️
@@introvert-and-dog Your welcome. Of course definitely right us Introverts any where in the world we have similar interests, etc. That's what makes us unique, special and wonderful people. Love from U.S. 😊✨💜💜
I could resonate my nature to you...workplace politics so difficult to handle and those loud mouth and drains out ...loved your video !!
Happy to connect with you, it sounds like we have many things in common ❤️
yes, this is pretty much exactly what its like to be an introvert. I´m just like this and have played this game for 40 years, I'm so good at it people call me extrovert. they dont know I need whole evenings, even weekends to recover...
Like you, I am an introvert. The older I become the more introverted I become. This video could have been made by me, that’s how close it is to my feelings as an introvert. Love this! ❤️👍🏻
It’s great to connect with other introverts. I wish I knew about introversion when I was a kid. ❤️
A snowy landscape holds such a deep quiet. It is enfolding and comforting, and I wonder if it holds a special feeling for you too. Thank you for sharing your environment with us
Snow / winter is a big part of me, having grown up in Norway. In the deep of winter, after a heavy snowfall, the city is completely transformed. Not just in terms of looks, but even the accoustics change. Sounds are muffled. I love this transformation.
The snow and darkness also makes it extra nice to stay indoors, great for an introvert!
We’ll celebrate 50 000 subscribers by Christmas this year!!!! 🍾🎉🥳👏🎊🙌🏻
Just found your channel. It’s wonderful! I’m an Introvert with dog from New Zealand 🤗🐶
Welcome to my channel, fellow introvert (with dog!) ❤️
Love your videos. I keep rewatching them over and over.
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What a great compliment, so glad you enjoy my videos. ❤️❤️❤️
Watching your vlogs and reading your ideas, like a journey in my life. Thank you so much... ❤
That’s wonderful❤️
I'm married but spend a lot of time alone. I love it! Great videos! I visited Oslo in 1919 with my daughter. It was a dream that came true.
You sound like a kindred spirit. 😄 Hope Oslo treated you well! ❤️
Time travel would be a dream come true for me as well.
I love the video. Thank you for making it. I've lived all my life in Spain. I've never seen the snow.. Mochi is adorable. I am in love with her. What breed is she?
Thank you, I’m happy you like it! Mochi is wonderful, I love her very much. She is a Parson Russell terrier. It is almost the same as Jack Russel, but with longer legs. She will be 2 years old in May 🐶✨
Thank you for your channel, very calming and quiet. I have a dog too, best friend. 😊
Thank you for your kind words.
Dogs are really amazing! 🐶💖
I am so glad that I found your channel...Mochi seems like such a wonderful and good friend...the choice of music for your videos is perfect as well...thank you so much...
Very kind words, thank you. Have a nice day! 💖
So wonderful winter. Much more fun and experience when you four seasons.
I agree. Spring and summer is much more special after a long and cold winter :)
I know what you mean… I guess balance is what we need. We used to do too many activities but now we’re slowing down a little. We love to travel👍
Sto guardando tutti i vostri video..li adoro 👍. Buona giornata ❤
Your comment made me smile. Happy to hear you enjoy my videos! Love from Oslo ❤️
Society likes people who talk a lot. Especially at work. Indeed!! 👏👏👏👏
Sometimes my head hurts from all the non stop talking 😅
@@introvert-and-dog sometimes it feels like they compete who talks louder and more lol!
Gracias!🥹
Also an introvert.. too many people takes away my energy.. also don’t like a lot of chatter.. 💕
Silence is seriously underrated ✨
Lovely video greetings Mochi.
Mochi says hello ❤️
Another introvert from Denver.
Hello fellow introvert! ❤️
How beautiful ❤
Your friend Mochi makes me smile too
Mochi spreads a lot of joy! ❤️
I bet she and my Zoubi Grace would like each other
Cute name!❤️
I'm very extroverted, but my 15-year-old granddaughter is extremely shy..she's bright intelligent but nobody notice cause she never talks..just family and teachers are aware of her personality. If you can please give me some advice to help her. In 15 years she made just 2 friends.
I'm no expert, but perhaps your granddaughter is happy just the way she is. Maybe she doesn't want or need more than two good friends? Personally, I'm happy with a handfull of close friends. And even though my life may seem boring or unfulfilled from the outside, I'm very happy on the inside. That could be the case with your granddaughter as well. The safest bet is to ask her in a friendly way ❤️
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What breed is your dog? So cute 😀
Parson Russell terrier. The same as Jack Russell, but with longer legs🐶✨
I believe you are just a bit introverted..after all you were able to meet Mr. J..tell us how it happened.. you gad to get over your shyness? Love worth everything. Haha
We are actually both introverts haha. We don't mind meeting other people, it's mostly just bigger groups of people that are intimidating to us. 😄
Sorry from my last comment forgot to mention I'm a woman in her mid 40's not 44's. Please don't mind that part. Lol. A reminder to check my spelling next time whenever I send you another comment soon.
I'm an introvert but Jeff is not, that makes things a little challenging sometimes...😀
I can see that. But maybe it’s nice to be challenged once in a while by your partner?
Since we both are introverts, we love staying in, but sometimes I kind of wish Mr J would say Hey, let’s go out today! 😀
Thanks!
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Hi, Just a thought, but you may also be an HSP. Lots of introverts are HSPs. Highly Sensitive Person. Because of how you describe yourself in this video.
Could very well be! Never thought about it.
yeah, now you are sharing your inner word to the entire world, how do you feel now?
I feel really wonderful! Thank you so much for asking. You are very kind and caring ❤️
Is Mr J and introvert as well?
Yes, he is also an introvert 😋
Try being an introvert in Spain. 😓
I can imagine that's more difficult than in Norway....
Hi😊mochi❤
Hello! 🐶💖✨