Ep 74 Singing with Confidence It’s NOT About How Good Your Voice Is!

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    Ep.74: Singing with Confidence - It’s NOT About How Good Your Voice Is!
    Why would I, as a teacher of vocal technique, tell you singing with confidence is not about how good your voice is?
    Watch and find out!
    Hi. I’m Chuck Gilmore with Power To Sing.
    The late Michael Shurtleff was a famous casting director for both Broadway and Hollywood productions. He wrote the book, “Audition” which is a great book about acting and performing. Listen to what he says about singing in auditions. It applies to singing at any time.
    Gain Confidence Singing from these Singing Stars
    These singers help me understand that my success as a singer and performer is not about how great my voice is. My success as a singer is about the emotional connection I make with others.
    Great performers use their voices, and many other things like their passion, love and commitment to share their song. They commit fully to give themselves to their purpose and meaning and to lay it bare before us. We identify and connect with them. We connect with their love and their vulnerabilities. We identify with them. Their honesty draws us in to them. The quality of their voices is just part of it. In some cases just a small part of it.
    Singing with Confidence
    If it’s about the emotional connection why voice lessons?
    Master the vocal technique so you can forget about it and lose yourself in the song. If you are so worried about the high notes coming up that you can’t get into the song, you won’t create any emotional life or connection with the audience.
    As you remove the limitations in your voice, you gain great freedom and confidence to sing your songs. You have an underlying confidence in your voice so you can forget about your voice.
    What if people don’t like your voice?
    As I’ve mentioned in previous videos you can be one of the greatest singers and performers in the world, and there will be many, if not most of the population of the world who would prefer not to listen to you.
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    These singers help me understand that my success as a singer and performer is not about how great my voice is. My success as a singer is about the emotional connection I make with others.
    Great performers use their voices, and many other things like their passion, love and commitment to share their song. They commit fully to give themselves to their purpose and meaning and to lay it bare before us. We identify and connect with them. We connect with their love and their vulnerabilities. We identify with them. Their honesty draws us in to them. The quality of their voices is just part of it. In some cases just a small part of it.
    The honesty and vulnerability in sounding like you immediately opens the hearts of your listeners to you and your unique voice...even if it’s less than perfect. In fact, often we like the imperfect voice...because most of us don’t relate to perfection. We relate to the real you. We relate to the feelings and emotions you are sharing with us.
    Mastering your vocal technique will also let you have fun with your voice. Literally you can look forward to the high notes in the song. There is tremendous freedom that comes with this. You’re free to let yourself go and give yourself to your song and your audience. We will love you for it.
    Understanding your voice is a great way to grow in confidence. It helps to know your vocal type, or what you tend to do when you sing. This helps you work efficiently on your voice by focusing on eliminating limitations and maximizing your own talent.
    Go to PowerToSing.com and take the vocal test which I call the PowerTest. Take the quiz and discover your vocal type. Then visit the Knowledge Center and watch the videos about your vocal type. Download the free exercises and start improving your voice immediately.
    I’m Chuck Gilmore with Power To Sing. You can sing higher, with beauty, confidence and power.
    I’ll see you inside the next video.
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Komentáře • 128

  • @annabelpearl2630
    @annabelpearl2630 Před 3 lety +134

    This actually explains a lot. I have the most confidence singing when I’m also listening to the music I’m singing. I was so confused as to why I could only sing decently when I was listening to it and I realized I ‘couldn’t’ sing without the music playing because I never believed in myself and wound just start overthinking everything

    • @RobCrowley85
      @RobCrowley85 Před rokem +4

      You at the time of your comment, sound just like me now. And I used to sing!

  • @SmuckMog
    @SmuckMog Před 5 lety +97

    Thank you. I’m a very shy singer. I never thought about literally singing with confidence. To forget about how I sound and just sing. And definitely will work on singing freely. Thank you. You helped me so much. Now I’m gonna watch all your videos. 🙌🏽💪🏽😆

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 5 lety +3

      Thanks ZinniaQueen and good luck. You can do it!

    • @LiddyLu
      @LiddyLu Před 3 lety +1

      I'm struggling with this as well I hope you've grown more confident! I'm sure you sound amazing.

  • @ButcherCakesTheCakeButcher
    @ButcherCakesTheCakeButcher Před 5 lety +39

    I don't know why I started crying..

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 5 lety +10

      I hope for a good and hopeful reason!

    • @missruckertheheiress
      @missruckertheheiress Před 3 měsíci +1

      MEE TOOO. ‼️ I am literally holding back my tears 😢
      Wow, I’m so glad you commented and said that

    • @joe_fish143
      @joe_fish143 Před měsícem

      @@missruckertheheiress he is tapping into much more than just singing technique. This is a real matter of the heart and our true selves.

  • @jorgegl5864
    @jorgegl5864 Před 4 lety +29

    I've been training my voice for a very long time but I was trapped to my own beliefs. I always believed that I can't belt high notes because of my low voice, but when I tried singing with confidence, I was shocked by the results. I never thought that I can belt much higher notes than expected. Thank you so much for encouraging me to sing to my full potential! ❤️

  • @bob.ross330
    @bob.ross330 Před 3 lety +8

    2:53 i needed that

  • @13perspectives
    @13perspectives Před 6 lety +31

    Thank you for this video sir, I really needed to hear this message and knew it to be true. Appreciate the great content

  • @lets_summini
    @lets_summini Před 3 lety +13

    Now this. So much this. I needed this feeling verbalized to me. I knew it!
    It's probably gonna be harder for those who suppress their emotions and do so while singing, as well.

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 3 lety +1

      It is harder...especially for someone who identifies themselves as very shy or soft spoken. When singing we have to put ourselves "out there" and let others into our souls.

  • @lalajean452
    @lalajean452 Před 3 lety +12

    I only sing confidently when i know theres no people around .
    My dad said that my voice doesnt sound good in falsetto but that was my comfortable way of singing every since when i was a child . My classmates also said that my falsetto sound kinda my normal voice and its sound so real ? Idk what sge means tho .
    I dont like my voice i also think my voice doesnt sound good .

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 3 lety

      Lala, if you like singing, I would take some lessons. This might be the best way to make progress faster.

  • @iheartwinnie4
    @iheartwinnie4 Před rokem +5

    I sing really well in silly accents (strong voice, perfect pitch) because im playing around and i dont expect others to critique me because, well, its a joke, but when i actually try my voice gets higher, goes scratchy, goes flat, and sounds nervous. thanks so much!!!!

  • @alexeybedretdinov6399
    @alexeybedretdinov6399 Před 8 lety +10

    Thank you! I think it's one of the best voice lessons I've ever saw! Very important words about singing. Many voice teachers talk about technique, support and other stuff but forget about emotions and soul delivering!...I'll try to share it as much as I can

  • @wutheringheights01
    @wutheringheights01 Před 4 lety +9

    When I sing I sound so plain and boring cause I have no confidence to put emotion into it....I can keep in tune and hit the notes I just really lack that character cause I’m too embarrassed to express myself

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 4 lety +2

      The more you understand, and the better your technique, the greater is your confidence and the more fun it is to sing!

  • @fruityn8887
    @fruityn8887 Před 5 lety +8

    I really needed to watch this. Thank you very much!! ♥

  • @foxdenham
    @foxdenham Před rokem +11

    That was single handedly the best bit of vocal advice I've ever had - a huge thank you from a 60 odd year old just finding his voice!

  • @o.t.f.onetouchfitness4859

    thank you sir for taking my suggestion into consideration, i will watch the previous episodes as you've said. i deeply appreciate, real power is in singing. #peace

  • @InfernoTM100
    @InfernoTM100 Před 6 lety +7

    This was the video I wanted ❤️

  • @sweetlife3623
    @sweetlife3623 Před rokem +5

    As soon as you embrace your voice the door will open up to your emotions to share with those who really love your voice and connect with your vulnerability.

  • @simonhughes3764
    @simonhughes3764 Před 3 lety +4

    Can I just say thank you so much, as I am very shy with my voice and really inexperienced. So self-conscious. This has really helped give me a boost 😀

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 3 lety

      You're so welcome! You can do it Simon!

  • @bookmycro
    @bookmycro Před 3 lety +2

    Simple, Thank You.

  • @darkhorse1985
    @darkhorse1985 Před 7 lety +4

    so refreshing

  • @alika207
    @alika207 Před rokem +2

    Exactly how I feel about singing! I will share this with my students and any other singers I come across who say they are feeling insecure.

  • @j.a.3385
    @j.a.3385 Před 2 lety +4

    thank you so much for your advice. I will keep all that information in mind.🙏🙏🙌👏👏

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 2 lety

      J.A. It takes a while...but I was not happy with my voice at first either.

    • @j.a.3385
      @j.a.3385 Před 2 lety +1

      @@PowerToSing thanks Chuck for your reply. My voice is "sort of ok". What I need to do is what you have mentioned: interprete and transmit the songs to the public. I'll practise in front of the mirror. Thanks again!

  • @goodmantv260
    @goodmantv260 Před 2 lety +4

    This is true. One of my favorite band vocalist ely buendia doesnt have a good voice. But he sings confidently because their song lyrics are awesome. They write very good songs and i think thats were he gets his confidence from.

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 2 lety

      Yes! Sometimes...there's just something we like about their voices and their music...no matter what.

  • @efrolina
    @efrolina Před 2 lety +3

    That was full of wisdom and gave me amazing points to thing about, thank you so much

  • @victoryho-sangtv
    @victoryho-sangtv Před 2 lety +2

    Great advice

  • @orginy
    @orginy Před 5 lety +3

    Super helpfull!! Thank youu

  • @JACk79457
    @JACk79457 Před 4 lety +7

    This is crazy. There is literally only 1 Dislike. Probably someone like me feeling extremely angry and hopeless about my voice, but I automatically like all videos when I first start them.

  • @Lalalexylou
    @Lalalexylou Před 7 měsíci +1

    7 years later this is a very solid video. Great advice and perspective. Thank you 🎉

  • @candiilorae1149
    @candiilorae1149 Před 4 lety +5

    Wow this video was so helpful Thanks

  • @mauromantovani5937
    @mauromantovani5937 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you Eisenberg!

  • @Akanio_Vatheros
    @Akanio_Vatheros Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you for saying more than just "Practice makes Perfect".

  • @estellahayles1543
    @estellahayles1543 Před 19 dny

    Thank you so very much for the video it helped me a lot.

  • @BlackCat_2
    @BlackCat_2 Před měsícem +1

    Many years ago when I was younger I didn't sing in front of others and if I did it was barely a whisper. One time in my teens I was in the car with my soul mate and a favorite song came on the radio. I don't even remember what the song was anymore 30 plus years later. I started singing softly in the passenger seat. Shortly he told me to stop singing. I couldn't sing and I was flat. That crushed me and I never sang in front of anyone again until I had a child. I sang for him. He's grown now and I am back to only singing alone. Heidi

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před měsícem

      Hi Heidi: Most of the time people who give you feedback on your singing don't know what they are talking about. But from what you have said, it sounds like you have a challenge staying on pitch. There are apps available for mobile phones that really can help. I've had students use one by Erol Singer's Studio and it shows you where you deviate from the pitch and you can correct it. I think there are many others that you can look at that do the same thing. It seems to help.

  • @thrillzgaming8599
    @thrillzgaming8599 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Be yourself and those who enjoy you will come together.

  • @wpy7848
    @wpy7848 Před 4 lety +8

    Never knew Walter white could sing 😅 nah for real tho appreciate the video made such a difference

  • @Pranjli
    @Pranjli Před 7 lety +1

    awesome video!

  • @RobCrowley85
    @RobCrowley85 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this 🙏

  • @Domplive
    @Domplive Před 10 měsíci +1

    Wow you just connected so many dots for me

  • @putuls2653
    @putuls2653 Před rokem +1

    Thanks for this wonderful video

  • @paulmichailidis2635
    @paulmichailidis2635 Před 2 lety +2

    Thanks for this

  • @Sunny-yk8eq
    @Sunny-yk8eq Před rokem +3

    I actually sing very well naturally. My Gift is straight from heaven. And I write naturally. But the ONLYYYYTY thing holding me back from starting is fear and being critical of myself. I have many many ideas for songs and concepts I’m passionate about I’d like to make music about. But I think what if my voice cracks when I sing it live. What if people think my style of music is too sad. What if I don’t look attractive in my music video lol. The dumb stuff. How do I get over myself so I don’t waste my talents. I’m 21 and this is the best time for me to try.

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před rokem +4

      Go out and fail as often as possible. Make plenty of mistakes, embarrass your self, and celebrate your effort. Have fun in the process. You will soon realize, life goes on. It really makes little difference. And then keep doing the same until you success more than you fail. After a while you will wonder what you were so afraid of.

    • @alika207
      @alika207 Před rokem +3

      Who cares if your voice cracks? Every singer has at least once. Those who think your style of music is too sad are just people who don’t want to invest in your music emotionally. I bet they will not know what they are missing out on. and regarding how you look, I’ve literally been blind since birth, so to me, everybody looks beautiful!

  • @bennycork93
    @bennycork93 Před rokem +1

    This was great thank you

  • @jackyreacts5707
    @jackyreacts5707 Před 5 lety +3

    Thank you!! I really needed to hear that

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 5 lety +1

      Hi Jackie: and remember too, there's nothing like solid practice and skill development to continue building your confidence. 🙂

    • @anotherbahamianguitarplayer
      @anotherbahamianguitarplayer Před 5 lety

      @@PowerToSing im depressed i pratice singing but feel hopeless can you help me

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 5 lety

      @@anotherbahamianguitarplayer Sure! Watch this video and follow the directions. czcams.com/video/d0Ob8WGmvPc/video.html Or I can teach you over skype: SCHEDULE YOUR LESSON HERE: www.powertosing.com/schedulelesson

  • @Marsupilamibombami
    @Marsupilamibombami Před rokem

    Thanks!

  • @evelorena3961
    @evelorena3961 Před rokem +2

    Thnk u i needed this❤❤

  • @Emsiae
    @Emsiae Před rokem +1

    Im about to audition for Into the Woods this was a great help!

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před rokem +1

      Fantastic! I love that show! Good luck.

  • @mache3984
    @mache3984 Před rokem +1

    Singing is so much more than just singing.

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před rokem +1

      What a great comment! You are so very right!

  • @steffwyatt1862
    @steffwyatt1862 Před 2 lety +1

    NICE

  • @greablood1072
    @greablood1072 Před 2 měsíci +1

    When I know that I can potentially be heard by others, in recordings or live, I get this panic like I’m struggling to breathe.
    Anyone else experiencing this? How are you dealing with it?

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 2 měsíci

      I've never had that level of stage fright. Do similar things happen in other situations, like public speaking?

  • @EhpoeThang
    @EhpoeThang Před 3 měsíci +1

    I don’t know why I get so nervous on stage and mess up my singing. Also I get dry mouth 😢

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 3 měsíci

      That which we persist in doing gets easier. Not that the nature of the thing has changed, but our ability to do it has increased. Stay with it! You'll get it!

  • @JuniorJuniorJR-
    @JuniorJuniorJR- Před 3 měsíci +1

    1:40 Muito importe pra muito tempo

  • @kellyv6075
    @kellyv6075 Před 4 lety +1

    I have such an emotional force within me which I want to express but I can't f$&*ing sing nicely! So frustrating!

  • @plutonium6280
    @plutonium6280 Před 8 lety +2

    Hello im an Elvis fan,how does Elvis sing with so much power in the chorus in songs like "without love""just pretend" etc..is it belting ?can you teach this form of power?Than you for great tuition.

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 8 lety +3

      In "Without Love" I think he is not belting, but is in a mix of head and chest voice. He was either trained to do it, or more likely he had a natural gift that allowed him to sing an F# above Middle C without belting or pulling up chest voice. Unless you have a natural gift, you can train your voice to mix. If there is balance and coordination in the voice, you can develop a powerful voice to the limits of your particular capacity.

    • @plutonium6280
      @plutonium6280 Před 8 lety

      Thank you for always getting back to people,will you do a video on belting?please.

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 8 lety +1

      Thanks. I will add belting to my list of future subjects.

  • @bigbadbaby7640
    @bigbadbaby7640 Před rokem +1

    😮

  • @juliezimmi9850
    @juliezimmi9850 Před rokem +1

    Any tips on how to stop thinking when singing? Whenever I sing on camera I get thoughts I have a hyperactive mind who knows, if my third eye is opening cause I feel like my mind is hyperactive and recently I did feel pressure between my eyebrows off camera I have no trouble very rarely I feel thoughts interfeiring, but on camera the whole time almost thoughts keep interrupting me

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před rokem +1

      No tips really. But in time it will get easier and easier....unless you give up.

    • @juliezimmi9850
      @juliezimmi9850 Před rokem +1

      @@PowerToSing I would never give up I have been doing this almost my whole life 😇

    • @juliezimmi9850
      @juliezimmi9850 Před rokem +1

      ​@@PowerToSing with more practice and spiritual awakening my thoughts went away, but I still suffer from perfectionism doing over 5000 takes and never being satisfied

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před rokem +1

      @@juliezimmi9850 Fortunately you will always have a choice.

  • @laxmimishra8906
    @laxmimishra8906 Před rokem +1

    👏❤

  • @readytaptaptapOKAYY
    @readytaptaptapOKAYY Před 28 dny

    In my mind i know i can do all the stuff the singers i like can if I put effort to try learning all that, but when I actually try to sing, suddenly I'm extremely self aware and also aware of the neighbors, and lose all my confidence someone help

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 27 dny

      This will help: czcams.com/video/uFhH7mqs2jc/video.htmlsi=kcGwQRRBbQbw8HB5 Take lessons from a great vocal coach. Get your confidence in your technique...just enough to sing in an open mic or karake with friends or family. And do it a lot!. That which we persist in doing becomes easier. Not that the nature of the thing as changed, but our ability to do it has increased.

  • @wonyxi.mp4
    @wonyxi.mp4 Před 3 lety +2

    I only sing with confidence when alone. I can’t sing with confidence I would only be confident when I was younger :(

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 3 lety +1

      Then sing alone and sing a lot. :)

    • @wonyxi.mp4
      @wonyxi.mp4 Před 3 lety +1

      @@PowerToSing yup that’s what I’m doing right now!

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před 3 lety +1

      @@wonyxi.mp4 Sometime soon, invite a family member or a close friend to listen, or to sing with you.

  • @janryengalan7823
    @janryengalan7823 Před rokem +2

    if you say so Heisenberg

  • @Chaos-jb1nu
    @Chaos-jb1nu Před rokem +1

    Mr white??

  • @Bs6887
    @Bs6887 Před 3 lety +2

    Heisenberg

  • @christopherbomford1391

    Bro why does he sound like the fitness team pacer test guy

  • @Terra_Divina
    @Terra_Divina Před rokem +1

    Gosh, I would just LOVE to listen to your videos, but the dominant background music makes it unbearable for me like for most HDPs. And it is totally obsolete, the presence if your beautiful voice is all it needs. Please, would you consider reuploading your videos without? With all respect...🙏

    • @PowerToSing
      @PowerToSing  Před rokem

      That would be a great project. Unfortunately, reuploading the video also resets the views to zero. So this video, instead of showing 14,000 people viewing it over a 6 year period, it would say, 1 view and the post date would be reset to the day the new video went live. Collectively, instead of my channel showing 24 million views, it would show a few views and then youtube doesn't show my videos to anyone. So...I have to live with my mistakes.

    • @Terra_Divina
      @Terra_Divina Před rokem +1

      @@PowerToSing Thank you for your kind answer. Maybe you would kindly consider this issue in the videos to come. All the best, Greetings