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  • Victor M. Sweeney, a licensed funeral director and mortician, once again answers the internet's burning questions about dead bodies and the funeral director profession. When someone dies, what happens to their poo? If a person dies with contacts in...does a mortician take them out? Will your cat actually eat you when you die? Victor answers all these questions and much more.
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  • @nazguul5808
    @nazguul5808 Před 2 lety +8821

    "Do all morticians look this hot?"
    Lol I cant believe they included this one, really playing to the audience's wishes

    • @sabosage
      @sabosage Před 2 lety +728

      And he answered the question with such grace!

    • @alexandriajasminaquino5374
      @alexandriajasminaquino5374 Před 2 lety +48

      Wait, was it in this video? I feel like I missed it

    • @mpshields
      @mpshields Před 2 lety +190

      ... but, but, he is soooo Damned HOT! 🔥

    • @grayw00f
      @grayw00f Před 2 lety +144

      i was just glad i wasnt the only one thinking that lmao

    • @KikiM.
      @KikiM. Před 2 lety +35

      @@mpshields umm that's kinda creepy u do know he's married and even has children right??

  • @Edwin_Gan
    @Edwin_Gan Před 2 lety +11080

    "Hello I'm Victor M. Sweeney"
    I'm just gonna assume his middle name is "Mortician"

  • @Whoami691
    @Whoami691 Před rokem +6897

    There is so much about this guy that is amazing
    His name
    His backstory
    His professionalism
    His conduct
    The way he dresses (love the waistcoat)
    The way he never laughs at questions
    Th detail in his answers
    The way he is educating us to a profession we, frankly, hear very little about.
    The way his literally looks the way I woud picture a mortician looking.
    his humility.

  • @Smiley_Fruitcake
    @Smiley_Fruitcake Před 11 měsíci +1419

    I like how gentle he is about answering these questions. He's not sugar-coating gentle, he's just gentle.

    • @mr_capgras_hands_me_my_shovel
      @mr_capgras_hands_me_my_shovel Před 11 měsíci +7

      your pfp got me sobbing-

    • @Smiley_Fruitcake
      @Smiley_Fruitcake Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@mr_capgras_hands_me_my_shovel I hope it's making you sob in a good way 😩

    • @aazhie
      @aazhie Před 7 měsíci +11

      Real, without being unkind. I dig it. Good energy for someone who has to deal with grieving people and caring for their deceased loved ones. Calm, informative but not distant.

  • @brianna3275
    @brianna3275 Před 2 lety +10031

    His ability to cope with an incredibly traumatic childhood in such a productive and healthy way is so admirable. He’s honestly an amazing role model

    • @connorcraft9594
      @connorcraft9594 Před 2 lety +88

      He plays with dead bodies not sure it’s the healthiest way to deal with the trauma lol but I do love this man lol

    • @brianna3275
      @brianna3275 Před 2 lety +640

      @@connorcraft9594 not sure if “play” is the word I’d use to describe his profession 😅

    • @bleep4288
      @bleep4288 Před 2 lety +189

      @@brianna3275 Imagine trying to play hot wheels with a corpse.

    • @sj-wn3vk
      @sj-wn3vk Před 2 lety +12

      @@connorcraft9594 play

    • @blunderbuss1395
      @blunderbuss1395 Před 2 lety +174

      @@connorcraft9594 that is an awful and condescending way to put it but i guess

  • @marcy8698
    @marcy8698 Před 2 lety +4450

    “Are all morticians this hot?”
    “No.”
    Handsome and funny, what a guy

    • @agentmilton6585
      @agentmilton6585 Před 2 lety +49

      Don't drop the soap, don't drop the soap

    • @GoticoArrombado
      @GoticoArrombado Před 2 lety +105

      @@agentmilton6585 Drop the soap, drop the soap.

    • @jkeezy93
      @jkeezy93 Před 2 lety +43

      The only mortician I knew was a raging alcoholic. He worked in a small town, and had to bury a lot of locals he grew up with. More than he thought he would have to, around his age even. The guy was a complete wreck. This was about 10 years ago and I DOUBT he's still alive now. He was almost in his 40s, late 30s. I'm like 100% sure he ended his life.
      This guy makes it seem like it's no pressure or emotional toll, but if that's the case he's a sociopath which explains his detached "charisma"

    • @erikurizita6702
      @erikurizita6702 Před 2 lety +36

      @@jkeezy93 yeah, most morticians are depressed druggies or alcoholics, because they know a ton of the people they grew up, dated, loved, were family with. They see all these people they care for dying young and their tasked with preserving the death. I can only imagine the toll it takes. This man is no doubt a train wreck, but he’s learned how to hide it well.

    • @beefandmustardgaming666
      @beefandmustardgaming666 Před 2 lety +26

      @@jkeezy93 He's definitely not that okay but I don't think he's a sociopath or anything.

  • @wripley1
    @wripley1 Před rokem +1895

    I'm not going to straight up dox the guy, but I worked the ambulance service in a nearby city, and he is seriously, this cool off camera.

    • @khaki_shortsdanny
      @khaki_shortsdanny Před 11 měsíci +70

      That's sounds accurate.

    • @AlexM-mj3sq
      @AlexM-mj3sq Před měsícem +5

      you don't need to worry about doxxing him, I'm pretty sure they showed exactly where he works

    • @TheLordOfNothing
      @TheLordOfNothing Před měsícem +7

      He's in Warren, MN. Google his name and it's the first or second result.

  • @SupermanHopkins
    @SupermanHopkins Před rokem +3828

    Victor, if you see this, please know that you helped me get through a close friend's passing. He was young like me, and you never expect something like this to happen.
    During the viewing before the funeral, I noticed that his cheeks were pink and rosy, he didn't look caked in make-up and he simply looked asleep. I immediately thought about the things you mentioned about the red liquid and how it's used to bring color to faces. I also remembered how you talked about why morticians place the left hand over the right.
    All of those things were going through my head as I saw my good friend laying in the casket. And you know what? Knowing that he had received such good care because you detailed how bodies are to be handled and cared for brought some peace to my heart. Thank you, Victor. 🙏🏿

    • @victorm.sweeney8828
      @victorm.sweeney8828 Před rokem +644

      Hey @SupermanHopkins,
      I'm sorry about the loss of your friend. I've gone through it, too, and it's one of life's really hard things.
      I'm glad my videos have helped and I hope you continue to heal while never forgetting your friend.
      Seeing our loved ones is a difficult but beautiful thing.
      Take care of yourself, my friend.

    • @jasperherr8694
      @jasperherr8694 Před rokem +32

      @@victorm.sweeney8828 What, do you review all the comments here on a daily basis? Lol.

    • @victorm.sweeney8828
      @victorm.sweeney8828 Před rokem +288

      @@jasperherr8694 I'd say every few weeks, maybe once a month, I see what's new and interesting, yeah.

    • @scarlett8895
      @scarlett8895 Před rokem +58

      Came looking for these videos to say the same!
      My grandpa passed away after an excruciatingly long time in the hospital, he was only the ghost of himself by the time he was gone, and all of us while being somewhat relieved that he was finally out of his suffering (if you've ever witnessed a loved one in a constant state of pain, you know what I mean), we did not want to remember him like that, and at first we wanted a closed casket so that other people wouldn't see him, because it was simply not fair to him...the mortician however reassured us, and did such an amazing job at preparing him that when we saw him in the casket we almost couldn't breathe, he looked more alive there than in his last months, so peaceful and serene that I fe it was almost therapeutic to us.
      I remembered Victor's videos, and same as you I felt better thinking of the care that the mortician must have put into doing such a great job and felt more grateful for it.

    • @numbereightyseven
      @numbereightyseven Před rokem +46

      @@jasperherr8694 Really? You thought it worth writing that comment? You sure seem to lead an irrelevant life.

  • @GodofMediocrity
    @GodofMediocrity Před 2 lety +5145

    Is no one gonna talk about how traumatizing it probably was for him to find his best friend dead at 4 years old? I feel so bad for him :(

    • @mirleiv6045
      @mirleiv6045 Před 2 lety +607

      That’s what I came to the comments to look for, I just thought something like that could easily screw someone up. Nice to see that he took all of the death around him and really Channeled into a way that he could help others.

    • @Cristian_D63
      @Cristian_D63 Před 2 lety +253

      @@mirleiv6045 at that age it's really up to the parents to help the kid through that. We don't have the capacity to understand that quite yet

    • @redmanwill8159
      @redmanwill8159 Před 2 lety +99

      For the kicker: if I recall correctly his folks acquired the bunk bed he found his friend in, which Victor then slept in for years to come

    • @franksinstein
      @franksinstein Před 2 lety +54

      @@redmanwill8159 woahh wtf when did he say that?

    • @Riot228
      @Riot228 Před 2 lety +33

      He turned out just fiiiinne

  • @chronomage4939
    @chronomage4939 Před 2 lety +5863

    This man has both the most mortician name and backstory, he embraces death as a natural thing and he decided to make a job out of that. Truly inspiring, 10/10 person

    • @Smolrussian
      @Smolrussian Před 2 lety +159

      Especially when he states that he feels it’s the least he can do for someone going through a hard time and he thinks about helping people through this one thing it’s very very inspiring and he has a great mindset about working a this job

    • @BEAN.MACHINE
      @BEAN.MACHINE Před 2 lety +22

      Yeah his name is perfect 😂

    • @mojibien7570
      @mojibien7570 Před 2 lety +9

      Agreed! 10/10 person!!!

    • @purplerain6260
      @purplerain6260 Před 2 lety +11

      Also this man has style

    • @Brancaalice
      @Brancaalice Před 2 lety +6

      What is more natural than death, it happens every moment all time, death leaves falling, ants eating, animals devouring other, man killing animals for food, they are dying like in trillions, life is build by death. Embraces death, it not need embrace, it already embraced by life.

  • @jnoshields
    @jnoshields Před rokem +715

    Victor is amazing. Someone, please give this man his own show.

    • @karenbaker9255
      @karenbaker9255 Před rokem +24

      I think he'd be a great host of any kind of science show. He's great at explaining things in an honest, straight forward sometimes humorous manner that anyone can understand.

    • @oliverlock7160
      @oliverlock7160 Před rokem

      I second this

    • @user-sn6jv5dv9s
      @user-sn6jv5dv9s Před 11 měsíci +2

      There’s a youtube channel called Ask A Mortician that is really funny and interesting, their older videos are a lot like this

    • @unicornasaurusrex55
      @unicornasaurusrex55 Před 6 měsíci

      I know you meant a talk show but I just got a dark image in my head of him embalming on TV and acting like Rachel Ray or some other TV cheif host

  • @philipwalton4877
    @philipwalton4877 Před rokem +383

    This guy is very smart. I did see his eyes drop when he mentioned child deaths when answering the PTSD question.. He cares so much about his clients.

  • @guitarheroaero3451
    @guitarheroaero3451 Před 2 lety +7635

    This guy is the definition of charisma. He takes a topic that can be incredibly morbid and depressing, and finds a way to make it fascinating and even artistic. He could narrate paint drying and I'd be engaged.

  • @gerooowd232
    @gerooowd232 Před 2 lety +13011

    This guy literally has the batman backstory but instead of being a superhero he became a mortician 😂

    • @nickchavez720
      @nickchavez720 Před 2 lety +717

      There is comic in there some where. Funeral director by day...super hero by night. He is...The Mortician. Tracking down the criminals who were responsible for the deaths of the people he buries!

    • @gerooowd232
      @gerooowd232 Před 2 lety +220

      @@nickchavez720 Marvel: *card smash on the table*

    • @nickchavez720
      @nickchavez720 Před 2 lety +124

      @@gerooowd232 i was thikning more dc...but marvel works.

    • @Calistarius79
      @Calistarius79 Před 2 lety +75

      @@nickchavez720 He would be incredibly easy to find though... maybe "The Mortician" might not be that good of superhero persona to hide your real identity behind, especially when your real identity is that of a funeral director. XD
      It would sort of be like if Bruce Wayne's superhero persona was "Billionaire-Man". XD

    • @nickchavez720
      @nickchavez720 Před 2 lety +82

      @@Calistarius79 that is part of the appeal. Dramatic irony! When the criminal is on the ground looking up at him and asks "Who are you?" He will say "Im the Mortician." Telling him the truth indirectly. Its funny.

  • @savmartin
    @savmartin Před rokem +469

    Fun fact: rigor mortis is the result of your body no longer being able to control the amount of sodium in your muscles, which allows muscle contraction, and no longer producing ATP, which breaks the connection making the fibers contract. So you end up stuck in a contracted position until the proteins that make up your muscles start to denature (break down) themselves.

    • @ethanj9625
      @ethanj9625 Před rokem +42

      Rick and Mortis

    • @crumblemuffin1257
      @crumblemuffin1257 Před rokem +16

      💫the more you know⭐

    • @bomcstoots1
      @bomcstoots1 Před rokem +1

      I have low muscle tone. So yeah, take that

    • @pastelladium1952
      @pastelladium1952 Před rokem +25

      Small mistake, it's calcium not sodium that allows muscle contraction, otherwise a good explanation.

    • @INTJenny
      @INTJenny Před 11 měsíci

      This is related to acetylcholine, right?

  • @_emily_11_14
    @_emily_11_14 Před rokem +162

    i agree when he said "you can help a family a way nobody else can" the funeral director/mortician for my grandmother was amazing. she looked beautiful and so peaceful. she didnt look scary or dead at all. truly like she was just sleeping. he was also so extremally kind. explained everything that was happening, what would be happening next. truly amazing people. i think it is such an under appreciated job.

  • @247zzzzzZZ
    @247zzzzzZZ Před 2 lety +5621

    i like how he speaks and explains himself. if he wasn't a mortician he's probably a private tutor or a college professor somewhere.

    • @samtrigger1017
      @samtrigger1017 Před 2 lety +66

      i agree but dont forget that they cut out pauses etc. so the impression you get isnt as "real" as you might think

    • @silencedknight
      @silencedknight Před 2 lety +20

      He certainly looks the type

    • @dust7027
      @dust7027 Před 2 lety +11

      I read this as he said “short answer, no.” Without explaining himself.

    • @spacechimp3199
      @spacechimp3199 Před 2 lety +1

      He has dignity and class

    • @cheryl-lynnmehring8606
      @cheryl-lynnmehring8606 Před 2 lety

      Yeah he could be a professor of a mortician school.

  • @destinygo3084
    @destinygo3084 Před 2 lety +5146

    He looks exactly like how I assumed a mortician would look like. His name is Victor M. Sweeney like pleaseeeee he's basically a tim Burton character. Love that

    • @queridadodavinci5656
      @queridadodavinci5656 Před 2 lety +13

      Omg yessssss hahahaha

    • @Victor-wv3og
      @Victor-wv3og Před 2 lety +17

      yo dafuq that's my name💀💀💀 kinda

    • @junky3795
      @junky3795 Před 2 lety +21

      I always imagined morticians to be old and creepy, the exact opposite of this dude

    • @KatsWorldd
      @KatsWorldd Před 2 lety +20

      Yea he looks like a character in a movie

    • @nickname-kr1yx
      @nickname-kr1yx Před 2 lety +5

      Really reminds me of Alex Baldwin’s character in Beetlejuice

  • @JoshPillault
    @JoshPillault Před rokem +866

    Man, this dude is one strong minded man. Incredible answers and the dude has a truly and deeply realistic grasp of life and it’s fragility. Amazing video here

  • @lizisnotinteresting
    @lizisnotinteresting Před rokem +151

    i would listen to him talk for HOURS

  • @brennanpurcell9182
    @brennanpurcell9182 Před 2 lety +4679

    “Do people ever come back to life on the table”
    Victor: “that is such a great question”

    • @InfernoPS
      @InfernoPS Před 2 lety +257

      And the short answer is : No .. moving on to the next question !

    • @3Runeknight
      @3Runeknight Před 2 lety +68

      @@InfernoPS I want the long answer XD

    • @RagondinGirondin
      @RagondinGirondin Před 2 lety +199

      @@3Runeknight "That is such a great question, the long answer is : Yes, but when they do we take this big chunk of wood and stab them in the heart with it"

    • @ShonaMcCarthy
      @ShonaMcCarthy Před 2 lety +43

      He'd probably talk about the days when people didn't know medicine so well and people were sometimes buried alive.

    • @NehiJG
      @NehiJG Před 2 lety +2

      Yikes

  • @psychotropicstate
    @psychotropicstate Před 2 lety +23414

    Victor Sweeney is the most mortician name ever. Same with his backstory. love this guy

  • @fairondaleschild
    @fairondaleschild Před rokem +28

    "That, is such a fine question"
    A question that's about to be answered by an equally fine mortician

  • @slee8600
    @slee8600 Před rokem +64

    Netflix needs to make a show with this guy. He is so easy to watch and really good at explaining everything

  • @llamabing5215
    @llamabing5215 Před 2 lety +3382

    This guy is surprisingly cute for a dude who deals with the dead all the time. And surprisingly charismatic for a guy with spooky backstory

    • @Dukefazon
      @Dukefazon Před 2 lety +255

      He looks just like a guy they'd write/cast for a movie about a mortician in the 90's. A little goofy but you can imagine he can be scary if he wants to be.

    • @heyitskaiden4178
      @heyitskaiden4178 Před 2 lety +4

      Yeah

    • @fertilebeef802
      @fertilebeef802 Před 2 lety +42

      Hey, us funeral directors are humans too lol

    • @maikenelissen3767
      @maikenelissen3767 Před 2 lety +15

      That's exactly what makes me a bit uneasy about him😂

    • @Thiccmoss
      @Thiccmoss Před 2 lety +8

      I feel like thats his coping mechanism

  • @alligeek
    @alligeek Před 2 lety +10637

    Things I never imagined I'd ever say: "YAY! The mortician is back!"

  • @TheCountOfTuscany8
    @TheCountOfTuscany8 Před 10 měsíci +26

    As a funeral director, huge applause for Victor. We all have our little quirks, tips, and tricks of the trade, but I believe every answer he gave was spot on! You can tell he is a true professional.

  • @Logicalfear2001
    @Logicalfear2001 Před rokem +206

    I'd love to see him react to the mortuary assistant game and give his thoughts on accuracy and what not. Better yet I want to see him play it.

    • @FridaJo_
      @FridaJo_ Před rokem +5

      I was thinking the same thing!!

    • @Silver_M00n
      @Silver_M00n Před rokem +1

      yes!! Same

    • @kytrensol9777
      @kytrensol9777 Před 11 měsíci +4

      I mean, the game IS pretty accurate for the most part, but I'm just taking an educated guess. Let's see what he has to say about it.

  • @HystericalMafia
    @HystericalMafia Před 2 lety +7433

    imagine him being dead, his funeral is getting prepared and he suddenly wakes up and says no no no you're doing it wrong

    • @heni63
      @heni63 Před 2 lety +61

      Good one

    • @smugslider3690
      @smugslider3690 Před 2 lety +92

      @@prabhaghildiyal794 youre on the internet yo, almost everything you see is and will be "stolen"

    • @smugslider3690
      @smugslider3690 Před 2 lety +63

      @@prabhaghildiyal794 it's not doing anything, but ok...

    • @watchdog8058
      @watchdog8058 Před 2 lety

      😂😂😂😂

    • @generfeld
      @generfeld Před 2 lety

      hahaha top comment right here!!

  • @KHMakerD
    @KHMakerD Před 2 lety +15300

    Man lost so many people so quickly. Glad he’s doing alright.

    • @jayescobedo8365
      @jayescobedo8365 Před 2 lety +1032

      Right its so great that he turned it into a positive understanding of death and made a career of it

    • @buggiemara4902
      @buggiemara4902 Před 2 lety +14

      Timestamp??

    • @jacquelyntee
      @jacquelyntee Před 2 lety +51

      @@buggiemara4902 0:58

    • @KHMakerD
      @KHMakerD Před 2 lety +230

      @@buggiemara4902 It’s the first question. 😅

    • @razgvozd
      @razgvozd Před 2 lety +6

      That is weird to me.

  • @jasonthomas7909
    @jasonthomas7909 Před rokem +97

    He seems like such a nice guy. I'm glad there are people like him attending to the deceased with care and respect.

  • @LittleSisterShotgun
    @LittleSisterShotgun Před rokem +43

    I almost became a mortician, but towards graduation I developed an allergy to the embalming chemicals. I really hope these videos inspire more people to pursue educations in mortuary science.

  • @leenmutwakil6350
    @leenmutwakil6350 Před 2 lety +3085

    This man needs his own youtube channel. THE CHARACTER.

    • @Joemama02
      @Joemama02 Před 2 lety +2

      Yes

    • @gentlesandladymen
      @gentlesandladymen Před 2 lety +74

      He may not have a CZcams channel, but if you interested in charming morticians, I’d check out ask a mortician :) she makes wonderful videos

    • @MiaMya396
      @MiaMya396 Před 2 lety +20

      @@gentlesandladymen yes that woman is awesome to listen to with props!

    • @gentlesandladymen
      @gentlesandladymen Před 2 lety +11

      @@MiaMya396 she’s the best :)

    • @adventurer3288
      @adventurer3288 Před 2 lety +5

      Hey what is up guys, it's charming mortician here with another dead body,

  • @jenniferl.8111
    @jenniferl.8111 Před 2 lety +4593

    Is no one going to talk about the fact that he found his best friend dead when he was only four? That must be SO traumatic :(

    • @eternallybluehour1139
      @eternallybluehour1139 Před 2 lety +240

      especially as a 4 year old :(

    • @yutahkotomi5156
      @yutahkotomi5156 Před 2 lety +303

      If it's any consolation, he might not have really understood at the time?

    • @booty_hunter4207
      @booty_hunter4207 Před 2 lety +69

      Hes obviously not shaken up about it

    • @floatingsara
      @floatingsara Před 2 lety +369

      I am more impressed by his reaction like he can DO something about it, like he cannot avoid death, but he can help people around him to deal with it. And he does it with a lot of humour apparently. He must be an extremely balanced and "evolved" person - if you see what I mean.

    • @Ara-gp4yj
      @Ara-gp4yj Před 2 lety +69

      @@booty_hunter4207 probably cuz it happened like 33 years ago

  • @chokersandcardigans
    @chokersandcardigans Před rokem +29

    I have a sweatshirt that says “Future Corpse” and am headed to mortuary school in the fall. Morticia Addams would be proud of us both. Jokes aside….losing both parents within two months at age 15 really has a lot to do with going into the profession.

  • @dorkhydrogen
    @dorkhydrogen Před rokem +41

    this guy looks like both the least scary and most scary person i know

  • @afluffydoggo1698
    @afluffydoggo1698 Před 2 lety +19472

    This guy is incredible: the name, the appearance, the charm... he looks like a character out of a book or something like that.

    • @dylan8363
      @dylan8363 Před 2 lety +387

      I agree, he is a very pleasant individual.

    • @HarryMaddison
      @HarryMaddison Před 2 lety +390

      Victor 'Mortician' Sweeney

    • @ikyouknoweknow
      @ikyouknoweknow Před 2 lety +37

      Definitely

    • @theflano23
      @theflano23 Před 2 lety +252

      Seems like a guy who helps solve murder mysteries in mansions

    • @ultramet
      @ultramet Před 2 lety +25

      Love the Warren Commission look!

  • @TheRobertLeach
    @TheRobertLeach Před 2 lety +8014

    The fact that he even answers the obvious joke/ironic questions as seriously as possible is extremely admirable.

    • @nayrahession8069
      @nayrahession8069 Před 2 lety +56

      those are very serious questions. i mean no questions a joke question i’m glad he answered them cuz the were good questions and i was curious about some of them too.

    • @ArchibaldClumpy
      @ArchibaldClumpy Před 2 lety +14

      I'm sure he's aware that if he is light with these kinds of questions, even the sillier ones, it might make it seem as if he doesn't take the process seriously.

    • @teabook4
      @teabook4 Před 2 lety +1

      yeah

    • @MS-ns4ki
      @MS-ns4ki Před 2 lety +3

      I appreciate him !

  • @CalifornianCuttlefish
    @CalifornianCuttlefish Před rokem +19

    what I love about this man:
    His name is perfect for a mortician
    His outfit is beautiful (I need his fashion secrets)
    His personality is awesome
    His profession is amazing
    He has some super interesting information that's cool to know
    and finally, the way he treats every question like a fun teacher makes me feel engaged rather than scared.

  • @smaree1703
    @smaree1703 Před rokem +17

    It’s almost stranger being a surgeon than a mortician, knowing the person is alive and could feel the pain if something goes wrong. Yikes

  • @jazzyj7834
    @jazzyj7834 Před 2 lety +10233

    Q: "What inspired you to become a mortician?"
    This guy: 'Death was stalking me, now I am the one who stalks."

  • @jengomez6115
    @jengomez6115 Před 2 lety +5638

    This guy is so eloquent. He sounds like a college professor.

    • @smithy1578
      @smithy1578 Před 2 lety +43

      Eloquence is learned

    • @Ke0h298
      @Ke0h298 Před 2 lety +15

      he sounds so nice

    • @Blockistium
      @Blockistium Před 2 lety +81

      I think it helps that he treats literally every question as the most interesting thing in the world. Big "favorite professor" energy.

    • @danoelmucho2503
      @danoelmucho2503 Před 2 lety +15

      more like how they should be

    • @thegovtdoesntcareaboutyou
      @thegovtdoesntcareaboutyou Před 2 lety

      It happened to him to make a big change in society and the devil is a man he was killed by the illuminati owns the media issues that I am not kidding about it because I am crystal child of God who is a very strong and intelligent talented and gifted young jeezy who is a part of the country who has been on the streets of the United states for decades

  • @sauceisawesome2
    @sauceisawesome2 Před rokem +13

    5:23 the amount of calmness he says that with is genuinely terrifying

  • @aderpyaxolotl
    @aderpyaxolotl Před rokem +46

    My grandfather passed away early this year. It made me feel very happy to hear about how they set his facial features. Seeing him not in pain and with his signature smirk helped me and my family a bunch.

  • @tabithasanders5407
    @tabithasanders5407 Před 2 lety +11160

    I can’t imagine his name being anything but Victor M. Sweeney. He needs his own show.

    • @retroguy9494
      @retroguy9494 Před 2 lety +63

      How about Herman Munster? 😂🤣

    • @aristopheliese
      @aristopheliese Před 2 lety +76

      he does look like the name christopher, or sherman maybe
      edit: SPECIFICALLY a "Sherman P. Michaels" or something like that. there has to be the P.

    • @feleciaclemons5074
      @feleciaclemons5074 Před 2 lety +3

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @johnmarcinko2484
      @johnmarcinko2484 Před 2 lety +17

      He does have his own CZcams and podcast...

    • @kelvincook4246
      @kelvincook4246 Před 2 lety +31

      I keep thinking Sweeney Todd. But he seems like a nice person who knows his job.

  • @JustinNathanielAdams
    @JustinNathanielAdams Před 2 lety +44954

    If this guy isn't my mortician, I'm not dying.

    • @dduelion
      @dduelion Před 2 lety +883

      Same 💀

    • @sebastianbernabe3800
      @sebastianbernabe3800 Před 2 lety +274

      @@dduelion ironic

    • @Lodemite
      @Lodemite Před 2 lety +166

      @@sebastianbernabe3800 dont tell me...

    • @theumbrellacorporation1523
      @theumbrellacorporation1523 Před 2 lety +87

      He’d probably be very old or dead by the time you die given that you look pretty young in your profile picture.

    • @flidethechemist
      @flidethechemist Před 2 lety +379

      Me: **On my way to split my soul and make a horcrux 🏃🏃**

  • @RampAgentLife
    @RampAgentLife Před 10 měsíci +8

    I recently lost my 2-year-old niece to RSV and we had an open-casket funeral for her. Everything that was talked about in these videos was in the back of my mind while I saw how peaceful she looked laying there. I'll never forget having to bury her so young😔

  • @theclown3967
    @theclown3967 Před rokem +7

    "Provided the rest of their head is there."
    This man has seen things.

  • @gemferg
    @gemferg Před 2 lety +2155

    this guy mental strength is so strong is scary. imagine fixing a be headed corpse with wide eyes open.

    • @jorgeo1492
      @jorgeo1492 Před 2 lety +68

      Yeah him and butchers, cant understand how they get used to all that

    • @Solace6428
      @Solace6428 Před 2 lety +20

      To some people mangled bodies just have no effect

    • @caralho5237
      @caralho5237 Před 2 lety +3

      Easier than it sounds

    • @litlitlight_yagami4445
      @litlitlight_yagami4445 Před 2 lety +6

      @FBI ayo what

    • @hell043
      @hell043 Před 2 lety +1

      you get used to just turning off your brain when you are treating bodies that are heavily mutilated. or, by the way, those that pass too young.... those are way harder to deal with than someone who's body has been (partially) damaged. its better to just turn off your brain, and fix it, then once you are done, look with pride at being able to give the relatives a proper last goodbye.
      Oh, and a lot of morbid humor between colleagues helps aswel.

  • @LiliaTheSuccubus
    @LiliaTheSuccubus Před 2 lety +7461

    “Absolutely not.”
    Then he moves onto the next question without elaborating why you can’t be a mannequin in death. He knows something.

    • @lexuses3942
      @lexuses3942 Před 2 lety +163

      😂 that was hilarious.

    •  Před 2 lety +329

      I know! You want to donate your beautifully embalmed body to a fashion house so you can wear new and fashionable clothes and get your hair nicely done for the rest of eternity. :D Not a bad idea.

    • @rochellelee7461
      @rochellelee7461 Před 2 lety +122

      @ lady gaga immediately came to mind lolol

    • @Wendigirl11
      @Wendigirl11 Před 2 lety +156

      He’s probably heard about the bridal mannequin that’s supposedly a corpse

    • @NeonVoltageGirl
      @NeonVoltageGirl Před 2 lety +36

      @@Wendigirl11 Carl Tanzler has entered the chat

  • @marcobloch4753
    @marcobloch4753 Před rokem +45

    I love this guy. He is so professional with it without explaining it in a boring way. He explains it in a way everyone can understand and takes all questions serious. I could watch him hours long

  • @ButcherofRagol
    @ButcherofRagol Před rokem +17

    It makes me chuckle that so many of these questions have the "Asking for a friend." joke in them, but Victor reads them completely straight. He almost seems to be straight out of a movie.

  • @CrimeLife1897
    @CrimeLife1897 Před 2 lety +8771

    I love that the entire internet is collectively thirsting over this man

  • @hazzah5450
    @hazzah5450 Před 2 lety +2706

    “Victor M. Sweeney” is the most hilariously mortician-esque name. Could only be better if he was called “Deathy McDeath”

  • @zxcvmnb1276
    @zxcvmnb1276 Před rokem +14

    now i'm fully convinced that this guy is created and destined for this job

  • @dv9506
    @dv9506 Před rokem +13

    Him laughing sometimes while explaining is cute and makes this so easy to watch

  • @fuwafuwa2299
    @fuwafuwa2299 Před 2 lety +3609

    If there's ever a movie that requires a small scene with a mortician, this guy should be a cameo as it. He's got great character, and he looks more like a mortician naturally than anything hollywood could ever make artificially.

    • @erikurizita6702
      @erikurizita6702 Před 2 lety +50

      Normal people: *Undertaker is scary*
      Me, a cultured individual: *And here comes the true legend of the dead, Victor Sweeny!!!*

    • @matthewhughes1950
      @matthewhughes1950 Před 2 lety +21

      @seeni gzty yeah like literally had 30 ppl close to his family die. Was nuts

    • @danavonzee2806
      @danavonzee2806 Před 2 lety +1

      I cant agree more! He really fits the job 🙊😅

    • @faceless483
      @faceless483 Před 2 lety +3

      @@matthewhughes1950 he deadass became a literal anime character with that backstory

  • @Big4HeadEnergy
    @Big4HeadEnergy Před 2 lety +4372

    The good thing is he’s clearly thousands of years old, so he can make these videos for centuries more!

  • @alimousatabets5751
    @alimousatabets5751 Před rokem +6

    If this guy ain't my mortician, I ain't dying. I will run away and find this guy.

  • @wyatt-tries-it
    @wyatt-tries-it Před rokem +3

    The post: eeeeww do they really sew your lips together?
    Victor: Of course not! It's much worse than that!

  • @clammaster4
    @clammaster4 Před 2 lety +3380

    "Actually, being the mortician for someone you know is kind of nice"
    Telling your friends and family "You're great! I'm really gonna enjoy burying you."

    • @guillermocuadra8272
      @guillermocuadra8272 Před 2 lety +57

      Indeed, I caught that too and couldn’t help but notice his tolerance to sorrow has turned into indifference

    • @hither-to
      @hither-to Před 2 lety +98

      Well, what he meant is that it's easier for him to make a natural look on the deceased and help the family during the dueling process.

    • @evelyngam
      @evelyngam Před 2 lety +36

      What a creepy distortion of what he said

    • @hittkid6312
      @hittkid6312 Před 2 lety +78

      @@guillermocuadra8272 i don't think it's indifference, it seems to him what he does is helpful for the friends and family of the deceased. So in a way him working on someone he knows is him helping the friends and family of that person and in a way helping the person who passed away too. And it does feel nice if you know you are helping a friend or family.

    • @tigertbalm
      @tigertbalm Před 2 lety +25

      When someone dies,everyone wants to help the deceased person's family. But usually you can't do much. By taking care of the body he is helping them.

  • @shayla592
    @shayla592 Před 2 lety +2665

    There’s a rather local mortician who specialized in children’s funerals. When I talked to her she said she’ll ask the family the child’s fav show and then while prepping the body, she plays the show. Her belief is the soul sometimes watches their body, and she believe the fav show and comfort item being in the area helps the child’s soul. It’s actually really nice.

    • @Reina-mu1bd
      @Reina-mu1bd Před 2 lety +187

      thats so beautiful

    • @Thatoperator23
      @Thatoperator23 Před 2 lety +167

      That’s dark and nice. That seems peaceful

    • @michsilvwat
      @michsilvwat Před 2 lety +108

      This brought tears to my eyes
      That’s very sweet of her

    • @aphemeron
      @aphemeron Před 2 lety +54

      this made me well up! what a sweet, beautiful gesture

    • @jazztanszak
      @jazztanszak Před 2 lety +38

      That is so touching,what a caring person,kudos for her!

  • @howardyoo4070
    @howardyoo4070 Před rokem +11

    I can't even start to comprehend how this person answers these questions this objectively

  • @Da5kone001
    @Da5kone001 Před 9 měsíci +3

    The “your there to help” line is big. That’s the answer I give when people ask the same about working with hospice patients. This stuff happens either way but I’m at least helping making it more palatable. Really resonated with me!

  • @em5091
    @em5091 Před 2 lety +4620

    This man says some terrifying things with the most pleasant voice and expression.

    • @em5091
      @em5091 Před 2 lety +124

      @Yogi Breeze Having this reply pop up as a notification out-of-context at 1 AM was honestly terrifying to me lol. It’s not so much death that I’m scared of, I just don’t like the idea of people doing stuff to my body after I die.

    • @Alifahusna_97
      @Alifahusna_97 Před 2 lety +18

      Sameee
      Not terrified about the idea of “death”, but instead I hate reading/listening to things relating to flesh & blood like what morticians/doctors do to a body.

    • @Maiconix
      @Maiconix Před 2 lety +3

      @Yogi Breeze felt like replying cause I think this is a good answer, in ways I am not afraid of death if it were a quick death like a gun to the head/heart, quick car crash or anything of the sort if it isn’t painful I’d say no I’m not scared cause I won’t feel it, if it were painful like bleeding out slowly and feeling the pain yes I would be afraid.

    • @ipeed
      @ipeed Před 2 lety +2

      @Yogi Breeze existential crisis moment

    • @desk1185
      @desk1185 Před 2 lety +7

      He's used to it as he does it for a living. I'm sure anyone would be able to enthusiastically talk about drilling mouths shut with a piston if they do it at least once every week

  • @pozzezz
    @pozzezz Před 2 lety +12306

    'I found my best friend dead in his bed when I was 4.'
    Honestly heartbreaking to hear, so glad he turned out well educated, well spoken, well dressed, and to have genuine care for what he does. That kind of trauma at such a young age is enough to destroy anyone.

    • @pb7378
      @pb7378 Před 2 lety +412

      Sounds like he had great parents it seems

    • @rottnlove
      @rottnlove Před rokem +716

      Trauma when handled correctly, isn't always traumatic.

    • @slamp3844
      @slamp3844 Před rokem +7

      Try mine

    • @TheShattenjager
      @TheShattenjager Před rokem +3

      Seems like the kind of thing that’s gonna either turn you into a psychopath, or a well-adjusted mortician, and perhaps not a single other option lol. This guy is either one of the most at-peace individuals in the world, or a serial killer waiting to happen lol. But he seems to be wonderful, and that’s a nice outcome.

    • @heavenlydusk
      @heavenlydusk Před rokem +59

      That would destroy me tbh.

  • @northstarrs6468
    @northstarrs6468 Před rokem +6

    Honestly. This changes my views a lot. People always told me morticians were this or that, but seeing this. He's just a guy. He's doing his best to help others.

  • @trystenbelanger5275
    @trystenbelanger5275 Před rokem +39

    Here's a weird question I'd like answered.
    What would be the longest time between a body having been found and a coroner actually working on it to be displayed open casket?
    Like can you have a body that had been sitting out for 3 or more days and still clean it up for the family!??

    • @bravobby8773
      @bravobby8773 Před rokem +7

      Depends on the environmental factors, cause of death and be a factor as well. But the sooner any preparation is done, the better the results.

    • @tconlon251
      @tconlon251 Před rokem

      I remember an episode of Crossing Jordan in which a body was perfectly preserved in a sealed box in the (cold) ocean for something like 10 years. That one always seemed a bit far fetched

  • @signsofabadger7212
    @signsofabadger7212 Před 2 lety +4699

    Responding to basically every question with a "that's a great question!" really makes me think that he'd be a great school teacher.

    • @h_is_so_gay
      @h_is_so_gay Před 2 lety +122

      Or at least he should go and do talks at schools. He answers questions so well!

    • @gaelstrarai
      @gaelstrarai Před 2 lety +33

      Hey probably makes a good deal more than a school teacher. At least in the US

    • @johnmarcinko2484
      @johnmarcinko2484 Před 2 lety +25

      Imagine him at school career day...

    • @danielnagel2743
      @danielnagel2743 Před 2 lety +3

      That's a great thought! lol

    • @creep1523
      @creep1523 Před 2 lety +7

      "That's a great question" he says calmly..

  • @allicat994
    @allicat994 Před 2 lety +4800

    This guy is genuinely so fascinating and well spoken. I'd listen to him read a phonebook at this point.

  • @NaeOnYT
    @NaeOnYT Před 7 měsíci +4

    The first question where he talks about his life and what made him want to be a funeral director--it's just fascinating. He should write a biography. I'd read it!

  • @fortbastion4436
    @fortbastion4436 Před 12 dny +1

    7:50 that's the best answer I've ever seen

  • @katlynwood4357
    @katlynwood4357 Před 2 lety +4988

    I attended an open casket funeral for a friend that had been hit by a train in her vehicle. These morticians truly are artist of their craft; she had looked as beautiful as ever.

  • @setthespark
    @setthespark Před 2 lety +2847

    Can someone just give him his own show? I could listen to him for hours.

    • @marnie9063
      @marnie9063 Před 2 lety +25

      You should check out Caitlin Doughty /Ask A Mortician on yt, I think you'd really like her videos if you've enjoyed these. :) Lots of cool info about famous dead people, funeral practices around the world, different types of funerals, the industry etc. 😊 Lots of fascinating info!

    • @setthespark
      @setthespark Před 2 lety

      @@marnie9063 I love her channel!

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      @iwant2haveu Před 2 lety

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      @iwant2haveu Před 2 lety

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    • @JordanWilliams-ix2td
      @JordanWilliams-ix2td Před 2 lety +1

      *RIGHT!*

  • @Coatsy1985
    @Coatsy1985 Před rokem +21

    Dude, you're awesome. The style, the professionalism, the knowledge. A class act.

  • @alyphim
    @alyphim Před rokem +3

    His answer for working on people he knew… gives me hope in the world.

  • @OTFireRed
    @OTFireRed Před 2 lety +3390

    “I found my best friend dead on the bed when I was four” hearing that I couldn’t bear the thought, it’s truly inspiring to see how strong of a person he is

    • @Kinobambino
      @Kinobambino Před 2 lety +40

      1.1k people liked but couldn't stop to say hi how rude 😤. Hi Carlos how are you

    • @jeremyblackwater439
      @jeremyblackwater439 Před 2 lety +66

      Yeah that’s heavy stuff at any age

    • @ItHamBoi
      @ItHamBoi Před 2 lety +14

      @@Kinobambino it's useless???

    • @jraev5519
      @jraev5519 Před 2 lety +4

      @@ItHamBoi hi😊

    • @ItHamBoi
      @ItHamBoi Před 2 lety +2

      @@jraev5519 lol

  • @LilAnonomus
    @LilAnonomus Před 2 lety +2866

    He looks like John Cena's more academic younger brother.

  • @marthawall3318
    @marthawall3318 Před 28 dny +1

    Ok, this guy is just fantastic…anyone who can speak this pleasantly on this subject, can pretty much speak on anything!

  • @stealyourheartz
    @stealyourheartz Před rokem +3

    this is what i needed right now. my grandma passed a day or two ago and i haven't really experienced grief like this before, this was very educational as to how this process works!

  • @feliix88
    @feliix88 Před 2 lety +5479

    this guy needs more screentime. the way he speaks and his charisma is intoxicating. I genuinely want to watch more of him

  • @elliot-sowdon
    @elliot-sowdon Před 2 lety +4563

    This revelation about bolting jaws shut really undermines zombies

    • @snoopy15000
      @snoopy15000 Před 2 lety +176

      Don't be fooled. Those pins can pull right out. Especially if the person had osteoperosis affecting their mouth

    • @thegovtdoesntcareaboutyou
      @thegovtdoesntcareaboutyou Před 2 lety +8

      You can san Francisco and I will never have to go to college or the best of luck to the point

    • @athensmorningstar7809
      @athensmorningstar7809 Před 2 lety +14

      Lol us over here with nearly only cremation
      Let's get some dusty biters XD

    • @elliot-sowdon
      @elliot-sowdon Před 2 lety +47

      @Cthulhu
      Americans might also have antique zombies/skeletons roaming the land. It’s the norm here for a grave to be a final resting place that shouldn’t be dug up for any reason. So we probably have our fair share of undisturbed graves dating back literally 400 years. So if modern American zombies are all buried in sealed caskets with sealed jaws, our zombie apocalypse could just be the skeleton war.

    • @not_zippy
      @not_zippy Před 2 lety +21

      “Brrnnnnnnnns”

  • @Pindolene
    @Pindolene Před rokem +2

    He's so comforting in his tone, I loved this video!

  • @IamCurrentlyAscending
    @IamCurrentlyAscending Před rokem +8

    I'm just going to be glad there are people out there that do this for the rest of us.

  • @Shneeples
    @Shneeples Před 2 lety +1581

    Him explaining how he was “surrounded by death” suddenly made me feel a bit sad for him

    • @lilibillie2002
      @lilibillie2002 Před 2 lety +62

      Idk ive also grown up losing a lot of people and going through about a funeral or two a year and I honestly think its given me a much better grasp on death and accepting it than my peers. Obviously its sad and every death is different but idk that’s just life? Its okay

    • @morganrakes4184
      @morganrakes4184 Před 2 lety +6

      @@lilibillie2002 I venture especially when young it’s just something you’re aware you’re gonna hafta pull through with in order to live a happy life. Nothing is certain in life except for death.

    • @alicspellman6938
      @alicspellman6938 Před 2 lety +4

      He killed them all, to eat their livers

    • @chrispbacon5313
      @chrispbacon5313 Před 2 lety +8

      It's normal if you're part of a big family..... Uncles, cousins, grandparents. It'd be near impossible to reach adulthood without attending a couple of funerals.

    • @TheTekknician
      @TheTekknician Před 2 lety +9

      I do think he doesn't see it as a sad thing (anymore), and rather, as he said, found a thing he feels he should help with. Turning that sadness into a calling is a strong motivator by all means, I'd say.

  • @Dellyb12
    @Dellyb12 Před 2 lety +1482

    The way he just said "Absolutely not" and moved on lmao

    • @Butterflier00
      @Butterflier00 Před 2 lety +14

      Caitlin Doughty did a video on cremation and they sometimes don't even take them out for cremation...they just really scrape the machine out after....

  • @wofmeo6804
    @wofmeo6804 Před rokem

    I watched these videos back in June of 2022, as after my granny died i was distraught and didnt know what to do. But after watching this i felt so much better knowing my granny was treated with so much respect. It was also especially hard as she was only 56.

  • @mamavandeveer3836
    @mamavandeveer3836 Před rokem +2

    I am so glad that I ran across your blog and I must say that I appreciate these wonderful questions and your answers. I think it is so important that we can possibly start excepting death as part of life it’s going to happen to all of us and I think this might help to neutralize the fear for many people. Thank you for this channel I subscribed and I’m sure I will be back.

  • @khadrelt
    @khadrelt Před 2 lety +3934

    I appreciate how matter-of-factly he addresses these questions. He doesn't make it weird or squeamish, just gives the facts.

  • @ShortHax
    @ShortHax Před 2 lety +38726

    I would like to ask him if he stopped saying “hope to see you again soon” when he became a mortician

    • @victorm.sweeney8828
      @victorm.sweeney8828 Před 2 lety +3547

      The big one for me was watching when I say “How’s it going?”
      It’s hardly ever someone’s best day when I meet them.

    • @XSemperIdem5
      @XSemperIdem5 Před 2 lety +1384

      @@victorm.sweeney8828 definitely don't use the Apu "thank you, come again" as a goodbye in a cheery customer service voice.

    • @SK22520
      @SK22520 Před 2 lety +79

      HAHAHA

    • @TumblingD1C3
      @TumblingD1C3 Před 2 lety +750

      Have a good day is another one that disappears when you're in the funeral industry too lol. Most of us say "take care" instead.

    • @aarinichokhangba73
      @aarinichokhangba73 Před 2 lety +92

      @@victorm.sweeney8828 hi victor

  • @Phissk
    @Phissk Před 11 měsíci +4

    We need more Victor! He's so awesome

  • @PiercedPixie
    @PiercedPixie Před rokem +5

    His answer about how he has prepared people he knows and how it's nice because then you know how they like to look made me choke up for a second 😭 Also, I wanna give him a hug for his childhood trauma 🥺

    • @stst77
      @stst77 Před rokem

      It doesn’t sound like he interpreted it as trauma.

    • @PiercedPixie
      @PiercedPixie Před rokem +4

      @@stst77 - He gets a hug anyway 🥺

  • @taylormiller9106
    @taylormiller9106 Před 2 lety +2863

    He’s the prefect main character for his life story.

    • @michaelchallis4129
      @michaelchallis4129 Před 2 lety +42

      It would be weird if he was a side character for it.

    • @memefaison6007
      @memefaison6007 Před 2 lety +3

      Please answer this question. I thought that morticians took an oath of secrecy.

    • @jetmundo
      @jetmundo Před 2 lety

      @@michaelchallis4129haha right? 😅
      morticians aren't typically looked into so I wonder what they meant

    • @jetmundo
      @jetmundo Před 2 lety +3

      @@memefaison6007 probably just for personal details

    • @brookehemsath2072
      @brookehemsath2072 Před 2 lety +5

      THAT IS THE BEST WAY TO DESCRIBE HIM.

  • @iknownothing495
    @iknownothing495 Před 2 lety +8101

    Love this guy. Looks like he came right out of a 1950's film noir movie.

  • @MemeticsX
    @MemeticsX Před 4 dny

    These two videos have been some of the best Q&A videos of their kind; really appreciate these insights.

  • @spacewaffle7956
    @spacewaffle7956 Před 15 dny +1

    4:31 bro started speaking to us telepathically

  • @jesusgotdrip9885
    @jesusgotdrip9885 Před 2 lety +1929

    This guy seems like he needs a hug, finding a friend dead in his bed when you are just 4 probably stays with you for life

    • @SumitYadav-ik2df
      @SumitYadav-ik2df Před 2 lety +126

      Depends on how you see it.
      My best friend died in front of me when we were 5 years old and I couldn't do a thing.
      If you wish to believe he's in a better place because he was a great person...then you'll have not have a bad time with it because you watch it in a positive light .
      If you think that you're useless because your friend died in front of you and you didn't do anything....then obviously it's gonna haunt you for your life.

    • @jakepalma4891
      @jakepalma4891 Před 2 lety +25

      @@SumitYadav-ik2df Oh, I’m sorry… how did he pass?

    • @feliz5919
      @feliz5919 Před 2 lety +31

      @@SumitYadav-ik2df I’m sorry for your loss.

    • @patrickchambers7580
      @patrickchambers7580 Před 2 lety +6

      @@SumitYadav-ik2df how'd he die?

    • @michaelzz6993
      @michaelzz6993 Před 2 lety +6

      nah it stays with you till you die 😈

  • @leadpaintchips9461
    @leadpaintchips9461 Před 2 lety +1949

    Man, his outlook on death is a goal. "I'll put my personal issues aside because helping people deal with this is much more beneficial."

    • @75yomu
      @75yomu Před 2 lety +2

      a̵͍͖͔̯̟̻͐̉̀̇̽͛̀͝ḿ̴̢͉̹̘̻̙̜͇͠o̶̹͂̉́͗̓̚g̵͔̠̱̼̥̉̈́̋̐̊̉̈́ͅǘ̸̢̬̗s̶̢̡͇̞̤͊̎ͅͅ

    • @engineergaming5989
      @engineergaming5989 Před 2 lety +1

      Sus

    • @davidbanan.
      @davidbanan. Před 2 lety

      @@75yomu amagas

  • @meganbeckwith262
    @meganbeckwith262 Před rokem +6

    We need a part three! He’s great, now I’m walking around telling people facts about morticians when they didn’t even ask in the first place.

  • @RedDeadReverie
    @RedDeadReverie Před rokem +3

    I always have so much respect for morticians and coroners. Not many people could handle this job emotionally, but those who do give as much closure to the family as possible.