How We Survived Our Long Distance Relationship (10 Tips!)
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- čas přidán 7. 06. 2024
- The idea of a long distance relationship can be stressful and nerve-wracking for a lot of people. Some even consider it a death sentence to their relationships! In this video, my husband Usama and I talk about our experiences during the 2 years we were in a long-distance relationship, and share our top tips on how to make an 'LDR' work!
Also, check out Usama's CZcams channel / realskindoctor and subscribe there too!
TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 - Intro
1:47 - Tip #1 Communication is Key
3:35 - Tip #2 Set Realistic Expectations
4:34 - Tip #3 Trust is Absolutely Essential
6:32 - TIp #4 Always Plan Your Next Visit
7:25 - Bonus Tip
7:49 - Tip #5 Having The End Goal in Sight
8:35 - Tip #6 Find Creative Ways to Show Your Love
9:18 - Know That You Are Not Alone
10:19 - Build On Your Current Relationships
11:16 - Get Closer To God
11:38 - Know That It Will All Be Worth It In The End
Let's connect on INSTAGRAM:
@halalgirlnewyork - halalgirlnewyork
@realskindoctor - realskindoctor
WHO AM I?
Hey friends - I'm a Doctor who graduated from King's College London (in London, of course!) and moved to America to pursue my dream of Residency training in the USA! I'm a first year resident (intern) in Manhattan and I live here with my husband who is also a Doctor (@realskindoctor) from the UK! I share all things Medicine, Fashion and Lifestyle on this CZcams Channel and on my Instagram @halalgirlnewyork !
love this
Thanks for watching good Sir
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This couple is so calm,Humble and have poineer ethical standards.
LOL thank you for your kind words
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not in a relationship but always eager for tips from wise people. also you're so cute together MashaAllah😖
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But why are you getting jealous 🌚
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I love howw usama has to add thingsss 😂😂😂 I literally love you both together. May Allah keep you two together and happy and healthy always inshaAllah Ameen. Masha Allah Masha Allah
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The articulation of the topic and the way it has been presented by both of you are adorable and insightful. Having intuition and listening to a couple who have been through the same on the contrary is much much more thoughtful.
Thank you for putting it out! 👏🏻🙌🏻✨
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New to your IG and YT Channel! Enjoyed this video, thanks for making it!
My husband and I are in a similar situation: long distance for 3.5 years and after a long delay I’ll finally be joining him in the US after being 2678 miles apart with a 3 hour time difference while I finished residency in Canada! It has been a tough 3.5 years apart but it’s finally coming to an end in the new year inshallah! Your tips are so spot-on and I believe it’s a big part of what helped us survive all these years apart! Thanks for sharing!
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Aaaaah watching this and knowing you’ll are here in South Africa rn makes me so so happy 🥺♥️♥️
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Thank you for that. I’m in a LDR fo 1 year so far and it looks like we have almost 2 more years ahead of us. Your Testimony was very helpful
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Hi Renata, are you still in a long distance relationship? Please check out the video's on our profile - we are making a documentary for UK broadcaster, Channel 4 - and we may be able to help you both meet for the first time!
Please email us - nevermets@walltowall.co.uk and we can share some more info!
Thank you Dr. Shirin
& Osama for this insightful video, tonight in the month of Ramadan I came across your video and it really helped me as I’m currently in a long distance relationship. I can’t thank you enough for your video tonight how it inspired me and motivated.
That last point is so on point!
I love that you’ve made this video, will help sooo many people!! 🥰🥰
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Incredible tips, the real points that can even make any long distance relationship stronger. JazakaAllah khair.
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For a long time I have been waiting for your video
Thanks for sharing these great tips Shirin! ❤️
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I totally agree with the tips you mentioned! I recently got married after almost 2 years long distance relationship between Japan and the US and 3 more years of long distance in Japan.
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Oh gosh. Must be hard. But I can do RELATE How’s it going for you?
Just when I was confused about my long distance relationship your video popped up in my notifications. Stay blessed, you guys are the cutest MashAllah💕
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I am least inspired by people generally, but shirin i am impressed by the purity of your eyes.
Usama is so good at giving advice!
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You guys are so adorable. Wish I had a relationship with someone so supportive. Seems impossible for me at this point.
Same, but have some faith and be patient. We’re so young and it’s bound to happen at some point.
I am having faith but I’m 28 already…
@@Sona77. that sucks, but you will find the guy for you 😊
I hope so :)
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Love two of you! 💕
You two are goals MaShaAllah ❤️
U guys make me believe in love😭😍
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This video is so wholesome and beautiful, helpful also♥️
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Great effort!
They are both so entertaining ! Shirin is so sweet and bubbly 🤗 I love these couple videos !
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THE BONUS TIP 😂😂💗💗
I could relate to everything you have mentioned in this video. Thank you so much for this amazing content. Inspired and hopeful for my future In sha Allah. 💙
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You guys give me so much hope for the future 😆 My favourite CZcams couple!! I'm also a medic and always hear medics complain about time so it's so nice to see you guys showing what's possible if you put the effort in 😄
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This video was hilarious, love you guys! The part about developing a relationship with LoL especially made me gag
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I kept a private investigator to follow most of the week... Incredible.😂
love you guys!
we both face this trust issues cus Lack of communication and it actually ruins our relationship . 💯 I'm about to go to clerkship in shaa allah soon . Keep me in ur prayers guys and you both become my fav tubers from today onwards ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Ma Sha Allah! May Allah bless uh. Ameen
New video so happy😍😍
Beautiful thing to watch
Great tips
Although i am not in any relationship but i loved the bonus tip 😆😆😆
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Shirin you radiate such positive energy.I come here to your channel and watch your videos when I feel down.♥️And such a positive video! MASHAALLAH,you both are couple goals!!I am Hajrah Shaikh!An aspiring neuropsychologist and your videos really motivate me!
Aww thank you so much Hajrah!
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I rlly like Dr. Shirin ma'am replying to all the comments .
:)
Ahh it’s worth watching,you guys are sooOo sweet😍
All thanks to #Dridowu on CZcams for curing me and my boyfriend from HSV 2, I’m so excited.
Such a fun video! 😂💕
Thanks for watching Emaan :)
Thank you so much for amazing video ❤️❤️❤️
All thanks to #Dridowu on CZcams for curing me and my boyfriend from HSV 2, I’m so excited.
All thanks to #Dridowu on CZcams for curing me and my boyfriend from HSV 2, I’m so excited.
11:05 Usama is hilarious😭😭
It literally gave me hope and had brought me out of the mindset that was shifting me to minimize our conversation coz it was making me miss him more. But after listening to these set of adivces I am feeling light Alhmdulillah.
JazakAllah❤
May Allah bless u both in this world and in the hereafter Ameen
Ameen! Best wishes for you and your partner ❤️
U r best 💞
Lots of love from India❤️
You guys have a good sense of humour😂😂
Usama's face is always like he is controlling some witty and humorous remarks😁
Mashaallah dee ,
Have a nice future ☺️☺️
Someone with the failed LDRs. The ending phrase strikes me hard
Alhamdulillah that's what I was waiting for ✋🥺❤
Love you 2😩♥️
🤣🤣🤣
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MA SHAA ALLAH 😍😍❤❤ Love to see you together 😊
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So fun to watch, plz do share the story of how you guys met
Your product for eradicating herpes is actually the best #DRWELA1 on CZcams. I am herpes negative now keep the good work sir.........
Mr and Mrs Usama Lots of Love from Kashmir ❤️
All thanks to #Dridowu on CZcams for curing me and my boyfriend from HSV 2, I’m so excited.
Your relationship is went longer because of you and he both are beautiful. And you have fitness.
Mashallah, love one each other and keep going.
As salaamu alaykum. Wow, Masha Allah. Your tips are very helpful for me and for my wife. Thank you very much. Jazakallahu Khairan
Also what we see on social media is a very curated information hence relationship seems nothing less than perfect. Is this the case in marriage or if it isn’t, what are the compromises every couple has to make ? A videoooo on marriage and how to sail through it pleaseeeeeee
Great idea! I’ll add that to my list for video ideas. Thank you1
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I am in the military & my wife lives in Canada. I have been deployed to a place where I can't keep her with me. We ve been married for 2 years now & this is the longest we ve been apart. My wife is alhamdolilah the best thing that could ever happen to me. I love her so much that even a second away from her seems like hell. Lately I ve been going through a phase where I act like an overgrown child. I am clingy & want her to be aval all the time. I feel so guiltyfor acting like a baby. But alhamdolilah that is only a small part of our relationship and we always manage to deal with it by keeping our lines of communication open. Thankyou for making this video, I stumbled upon it by accident & it made me feel so much better! I always thought that I am the only one struggling with it. May Allah swt bless you guys with a lifetime of togetherness & happiness!
Long distance relationship is very difficult 😥
I was wondering whether you could do a video about the types of visas that you used to get into the us and residency.
Aww! U guys are so cute together....lotsa love to you guys...... ❤ love your humour Dr. Syed. 😄...... More power to you guys
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MashAllah you both are so amazing , may Allah bless you
ameen! thank you!
So excited to watch this ❤️😁
Tip 9 ❤️✨
Sweet couples 💜
I am studying at USA. I am in distance with a girl from UK. I am sad about my situation. We are already three years. We talk everyday for three years and I don’t imagine myself without her. I just afraid of her family decision especially that I am F1 and there is no clear plans for me after school. I am truly sad about this farness
All thanks to #Dridowu on CZcams for curing me and my boyfriend from HSV 2, I’m so excited.
Hi Maged, are you still in a long distance relationship? Please check out the video's on our profile - we are making a documentary for UK broadcaster, Channel 4 - and we may be able to help you both meet for the first time!
Please email us - nevermets@walltowall.co.uk and we can share some more info!
How’s it going now?
May Supreme make it easy for u In Shaa Allah
😂 😂 😂 Usama is sooo hilarious!
He really is haha :)
Congrats! Which visas are you guys on?
Masha allah nice to see you syed people iam proud of as am also syed masha allah
What editing software do you use!
In which year did you get married?
Hi! I am samira new vlogger💕 love your video 💕
Love from partur ❤️❤️
@Merry Smith what
Hey Dr.Shirin !
Can I please know at what age of my life can I be a cardiac surgeon and perform surgeries and earn as well ?
HAHAHA I LOVE YOU GUYS MAN CUTE MA SHA ALLAH
Ma Sha Allah Allahuma barik alayi ♥️♥️♥️ you two are the cutest. May Allah put more barakah in your relationship Ameen. I wanted to ask what’s the recipe of a peaceful, seamless and happy married life PLEASEEEEEEEE TELLLLL
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You both are too cute... mashallah 🤩...pls make a long how we met video 😅
What camera do you use to record these videos?
Pls make an video on how u guys met
How did u tell ur parents how did they react
And alllll that goood stuffsss
Love from india💙
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I don't think so it would be difficult to convince their parents because both are Pakistani i mean from the same root😊
Shirin and her blussh
You both awesome together
Allahumma bãrik
Congrats❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😇Doctors Masha Allah. Iam medical student. I hope to be like them insha Allah. May Allah bless them❤❤❤😇😇😇👌
Lovely couple
Thanks for making this vedio.....MashALLAH you guys are so cuteeee....😍❤ Evil eyes off😍😍 love from❤🇵🇰
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All thanks to #Dridowu on CZcams for curing me and my boyfriend from HSV 2, I’m so excited.
Need help of guide for residency in us .
Love from india
How many years did you study Mbbs in UK?
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Me and my bf together we are in a long distance relationship for 5 yrs 3 months
@Merry Smith I can't understand what are you telling
@Sakinah Idris yeah we are😌🧿
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Dear dr shreen syed, Assalamu alaikum. i have one question in my mind, what is your professional in doctor and your job what exactly is, really I am still confuse🤔
Internal Medicine
I’m a doctor (Resident Physician in training!) in new york in Internal Medicine (General Medicine)
Mashallah
Hello Im from Indonesia i like video, subtitle Indonesia please.....
Love from Pakistan
Hey shereen ma'am
I'm a student
😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
We need a video of Usama and Shirins friends😂
Fy
6:28 i cant tell if he's being sarcastic or....👀
Please my reply ❤️❤️
Your parents are originally from India or Pakistan??? Plz reply
They both are Pakistani actually❤