Why You Should NOT Use Dating Apps in Korea: Interracial Couple's Tragedy
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Today’s episode of Horror Storytime: Have you ever used dating apps to meet Korean people? Do you have a fantasy about Korean Kpop idols? This is why you should not use any online dating apps or online services to meet your ideal Korean guy. Not just Koreans, overall people. This story is from one of my subscribers. If you'd like to share your story, please email me: itsjinakim@gmail.com
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Oh my gosh I saw this with another girl on tiktok and how she got pregnant by her ex bf from Korea and he blocked her on all social media and he isn’t a part of his daughter’s life :(((
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Remember people: Using condoms is not only for preventing unwanted pregnancies but also avoiding of getting HIV or other serious illnessess. So NEVER EVER have sex with people without condoms, if you do not know well about their past and about their past relationships/partners!!
Yes and how can you even be like: mh ok imma sleep with this guy a few times and just hope ill not get pregnant🤷♀️
And testing! That's also important to make sure. Real test and test results. My ex wore a condom and lied he was clean. Condom broke and gave me chlamydia. This happened when i was 19. I was so stupid. Learn from my lesson, sti testing is very important and condom breaks really easy which is why the effectiveness over time has decreased.
I have heard stories about Korean men giving STDs to foreigner girls.It's like they hate using a condom.I have serious OCD and just the thought of doing it raw with a f@ck boy makes me cringe hard.If he really loves you,he will respect your choice and wear a condom.
SuJu ELF since 2009 so sorry that happened to you, but thanks for sharing. You were not stupid btw
PREACH
I don't understand how some people think that every korean guy is romantic and kind and perfect, nationality doesn't change personality! Please don't trust everyone just because they say they're korean, be safe! ❤️❤️❤️ As Jina (LOVE YOU BTWWWW ❤️❤️❤️❤️) said, every country has its good and bad people
It's because these girls look at the kpop stars and believe that all Koreans are sweet btw not all those kpop idols are as sweet as they make it seem
Yeah nationality doesn't give you "the romantic guy" card xD but most of these "stereotypes" if I can call it that are coming from Korean dramas and korean shows that focused in kpop idols. I can assure you just one thing men in my country doesn't have any kind of romance in their blood! so for my people any guy from any country is ROMANTIC 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
u wont believe how many sleazy guys, fuck boys, etc there are in korea
and 1 out of 10 korea guys may have gone to prostitutes before
I like bad boy
When people heard about the Corona Virus, everyone was panic buying for masks, alcohol, sanitizers, and etc. But when it comes to having sex, people won't at least bother to buy a condom to prevent HIV/Aids. 💀😩😷
I Always hear from men that they dont want wear condom. Because they think it will make the Sex Bad. 🤦🏾♀️
Tbh Sex with and without condom feels the Same.
And If you Love and respect your girlfriend than you would wear a condom
@@cutie511 dude, I've heard men say they don't use it bc It "constricts" them. Beyond silly.
@@cutie511 as a guy it does feel better without a condom, however contrary to other guys, im quite paranoid about stds and unwanted pregnancies, so i always try to use a condom during sex
I live here in Korea... and I date men here... it isn't a matter of not buying condoms... I buy condoms... You literally have to argue with these men to force them to wear it... and they will even take it off in the middle of sex...
@@fancymanda7061 That is so creepy and cringey😣
I'm married to a Korean and I notice from online comments from young non-Korean girls that they have some weird ideas about Korean men. I think this is because of dramas, they think dramas are reality. They don't realise dramas are a romanticised version of Korean culture. And even a lot of the audience for these dramas is actually 위국인 so there may be no focus at all on creating a realistic view of Korean culture. Dramas aren't reality and like any culture there are dark sides. Korean men are not innocent, they are just men.
Agreed! Some Kpop/Kdrama fans need to wake up. These things aren't reality and fantasize Korea. 🤦🏽♀️
Like not only dramas, all films are just made up to entertain ppl but is not real at all
*외국인 foreigner
qυιηтεssεηтιαl qυεεη it just means foreigner. Spoken as weigookin
They haven`t paid attention in dramas and didn`t see movies by Kim Ki Duk.There are many many different stories in dramas and movies. The story is very sad and could happen in any country in the world.
*don't date in general* thats what the year 2020 taught me.. Men stress me the hell out.
EXACTLY
Lol. I just stick with 2D and watch handsome faces of idols XD and am living a nice and pretty much peaceful(?) Life rn
Truee💜💜
I'll friend zone them...problem solved
same lmaooo
After that pregnancy, she should never had let him back in her life.
Sometimes, we have to learn the bad way.
🦶
But she didn’t
As a person with korean boyfriend, i can relate - they arent like in dramas or like idols hahah. They're just like your local Adam or James.
obviously i didnt mean it in a bad way. I mean it as they're normal people.
There just like western guys Hispanic guys ghost too so it was a experience not all are bad just have to find the right one
No shit lmao. I can't believe some of these stupid girls that think K-drama's are real and generalise all Korean men lmao. Get outta your fantasy fam
@@maya_jones3411 yea get outta here
@@maya_jones3411 yea get outta here
Honestly, love is blind. The biggest problem is the way girls are brought up, believing in Prince charming. There were tons of red flags but the girl was too caught up in her fantasies to be careful. I'm not judging her, we've all been through that. The most important thing is to keep the lesson and be vigilant next time.
I really think so too, it's not her fault.
@@SweetDragoncandy Might not be her fault, but she needs to learn to make better decisions, or something similar is going to happen again. In particular, women need to understand that their attraction to bad boys is not evidence that there is really a good person somehow hiding beneath the bad boy persona.
@@virtual-viking you literally said it's not her fault, yet she has to learn? Women have to understand? How about people learn not to con others? How about guys learn not the be assoholes lmao? also what is "the attraction to bad boys" that you just pronounce into the world as if it were a common thing that every women experiences
@@SweetDragoncandy Guys like that are out there, and they have no incentive to change - so they are not going to. If you don't want to be a victim, you need to take some precautions. If everyone were honest, we wouldn't need to lock our doors... But they aren't, so we do. It's just being realistic.
Regarding the bad boy attraction, I didn't say every single woman has it - but don't pretend it's not a thing. With the freedom of being an adult comes the responsibility of making good decisions, and dating a bad boy, isn't.
Say I follow a stripper to a motel room and wake up alone with my money and clothes stolen, I would be the victim of a crime, but I would also need to learn making better decisions.
It is her fault. Take responsibility for your lives people! You can say that she was naive but only by choice, hence not everyone is that naive.
It's very sad story, but the amount of the naivety in this girl. This is not love she really need to work on her self esteem to understand that she is worthy of much more. Hope she will recover from this horrible stroy. Really heartbreaking
I agree. It makes me wonder about her past and family life. Did she feel she wasn't loved enough? She did seem to have low self esteem to keep going back to him. At some point you gotta believe you deserve better. I'm really sad for her.. :(
This can happen even to people with a strong sense of self esteem. This is Not the girl’s fault. She even asked him to use a condom and he never would. The man used a common tactic called “baiting” its the same tactic a pedophile would use on a child, and it works by getting into their minds, their emotions, connecting with them and establishing a sense of trust. The trust they have is built on emotional and mental connections, and it works like a charm. How do I know? Abusive relationships are pretty much like this. Mind games, but the difference is the lean towards physical violence as well. This woman is a victim, and I don’t care if you don’t understand why she made the choices she made, she is simply that, a victim, and nothing more.
It’s not your job to try to figure out why she made the choices she made, just learn from her mistakes and move on.
@@e.k_liadon So you mean that this grown ass woman is as naive as a young girl?
@@e.k_liadon She is a victim but it is also her fault for allowing the man who ghosted her over and over again back in her life. Poor girl, but if she loved herself she would have realised she deserved better. He might be a scumbag but the tale of fuck boy happens everyday, it is also our responsibility as girls to learn how to protect ourselves and when to walk away.
@@TheMorSkull01 Why would you attack a victim? What constructive feedback are you giving? This makes no sense. Different people have different pain tolerances and some people are raised to try to save other people but it doesn't mean they think they are nothing. They just have not learned that how to balance out their energy and protection. A lot of people call being guarded and avoidant having self-esteem, which it is not. They don't know sometimes you make the wrong choice when loving someone else means abandoning yourself.
She basically got obsessed and she still cant let him go poor girl her self esteem is on the ground because of him!
Looks to me like she let the emotion of desire do stand in as a judge of character, and she's still confused why it didn't work.
She never had self esteem. She is just stupid.
@@celi132 Everyone's feelings are stupid. That's why you can't afford to turn reason completely off.
I doubt she had much self esteem at all to let any of this happen in the first place
Self esteem or not this is her story dont bash
Play toxic games, win toxic prizes.
Innocence and naivety is not a virtue ppl.
If I go to South Korea... I am honestly just looking forward to all the delicious food 😂 Dating is great, but I'm a foodie first and foremost.
Lol same for me. I too want to meet people but u know food is the utmost priority(foodies can relate😁).
I agree
Amen🤣
Uff sameee
Me too, when I told my sis that I want to go to Korea, they think I am going because of kpop, I don’t even really like kpop. But I love Korean food. That’s why am going there. Plus I already engaged.
If a guy keeps repeatedly disappearing then coming back, that's suspicious. Then to go meet him and not use protection, and he disappears again, deletes accounts. Why would you even believe anything he says after.
It's sad that she had to go through the whole situation and abortion when she's sick.
These stories are why I've trust issues😡
Because this woman has no emotional intelligence what so ever
@@jennbrandon8182 Naaah, it's because he was really really hot.
@@jennbrandon8182 It's because she has no self esteem
@@jennbrandon8182 I don't think it is about intelligence, this is more like an emotional fragility (a big one here).
Ahm you pretty
"where do u think i got this scar"
me: fighting? to look cool?
jina: "acne"
gou one Emma!!!
😂😂😂😂
I laughed so hard at that moment.
I would sue him, simple.
Just because y'all into K-pop does not mean all Korea is nice, kind, or romantic. They're human too, they do dumb things. Use your brain 🧠
Denise Ayling periodt.
Yas sist you said it right. People should know more abot korean people in reality not just in kdramas lmfao.
She just said the girl didn’t become interested in Korea because of kpop. This doesn’t always happen bc ppl like kpop, some people do have bad experiences within their own culture or race and they start to think that with another race or culture it’ll be different.
Obviously, I don't put people into groups. I keep it in mind when talking to any guy.
Sue him for?
I have a theory about condoms.
People that refuse to use them are actually the ones that should really use them.
Because they're clearly not wise and mature enough to have children.
Anyway, as they say, the first time you trick me is your fault, the second time is my fault.
I hope she can recover and grow more wise, but without losing hope for love
Condoms are not even 100% full proof. It only works around 80% of the time. It keeps decreasing over the years.
It’s full me once, shame on you. Full me twice, shame on me.
@@sushiluvrluvzme wrong
@@sushiluvrluvzme Better than not using them at all
SuJu ELF since 2009 it’s 99% fool proof when you use it correctly and follow all the steps. Many people aren’t using them correctly hence 80%. Anyway you enjoy your STDs wearing conforms should be the basic standard.
I met a korean guy in the uk for language exchange. I made it clear from the beginning that I was not looking for a date. We got along but on the 2nd meeting he tried to take me to a hotel. Noped out real quick.
This happened to me a lot in Korea, and with Korean men in the UK too. Some of them really know how to con women too, it's so messed up. I had to get really hardcore to avoid those guys
I find asian men to be very sexually active as in they sex romance and dissapear alot
sadcatgirl 900 not really
I never understood why u girls don’t talk to WOMEN. Why risk by talking to a man? Come on. U looking for it.
@@nandinhalds lmao women are just as likely to be from a cult and con you regardless
Two words:
Background checks!
friendly reminder: when a person doesn't wants to wear condom, DO NOT DO ANYTHING, bye:)
Dating Apps in general is asking for trouble. Edit: Okay after hearing the full story, the guy is a player and more likely has a family else where with a wife. And doing it to multiple girls. It's guys like that, that makes good guys look horrible.
@@gongagong not really
Well those bad guys fault that make good guys look bad
Found the incel.
@@gongagong that's probably your girlfriend or mom. Not every girl is stupid.
@@camdelg1 What Tom gong said is kinda true.
No offence, For most dude who gone through sht in relationship they know how to spot a difference between an easy fak meat or a marriage material.
Human does improve after gone through several times of failure.
Nothing new to see here, move along.
I met my Korean wife on a dating app we dated for 2 years, then 2 years dating long distance, then got married finally. Meeting people on apps is not the issue, the girl was just very naive and gullible. She even met him in real life, many red flags came up that she straight up ignored.
i agree with you, that's why i will marry the girl which my parents choose. those are much safer and win win situation for everyone
@@pavanashking Nobody asked tho.
K M Stfu dude stop being the person that always says “Nobody asked” bla bla bla etc. If you don’t have anything nice to say then zip it.
@@lala-nx5pv I 100% agree with you.
@@pavanashking Really, mama's and papa's boy with no personality or preferences?
"Human nature is evil, and goodness is caused by intentional activity." - Xunzi
I have never dated anyone because I have listen these type of tragic ending . I do not understand why girl belief boys very easily I just wanna say to those girls that love ur self . Being with the same boy after breakup is just watching the movie but excepting different ending.
You cant let other people experiences determine what u do
the girls never love themselve enough and are shy or not knowing they are beautiful.
I'm one of these girls that get weak by getting male attention and am scared that something like this could happen to me ( but luckly I avoid talking to every extraordinary good looking people online, so my mind stays clear) ...It's like some magical spell which only breaks once the person says something weird..Guess some girls are like that and these girls should be even more careful than others..
That's because we were conditioned for generations to believe that a price Charming will come and love us forever.
Me too. Histories are useful this way, you see the mistakes of the past and you don't want that to happen to you. I suppose we shouldn't go looking for love, perhaps one day we'll fall naturally with a friend who we trust like we knew the other very well xD
There was a post of FB that said "When somebody shows you who they are believe them." And I think that's good advice here. He showed what kind of person he was from the beginning. Deep down she probably knew the truth but just didn't want to believe it. I hope his parents are disappointed in the son they raised.
I have to admit, falling in love over the internet is really dangerous. I once dated a Chinese guy and I thought he was the one. We chatted everyday and over time you start wearing pink glasses and project your ideals onto the other person. After half a year of chatting, we finally met and in the beginning I was constantly convincing myself that he's still the man I fell in love with. Yet in reality, I wasn't honest to myself. He was really different to what I had portrayed him in my head. We spent a nice time together but after he left, I realised how unloyal I was to myself and broke up with him. You never really know who's the person behind the other screen. So always be careful when you start grasping feelings for an online friend since they only might be about your image of that friend in your head!
Truth is being spoken here.
I agree, especially if you never met (not yet of course), they can come off nice but when you meet them, they could be a different person irl. But if they’re like somehow the person you met online, I give you props ngl👍🏽 but still be on the look out, when you first meet them and they seem like the person you met online, still try to get to know more about them and even then always be on the look out, you gotta remember you met that person online. So always be on the look out, but when you get to know them more, you can relax and be a bit more comfortable but still be a bit on the look out always.
I have seen many instances where Korean men dated foreign girls (white girls ) and left them to marry their own Korean women at the end ...
Not all but yes most of the Korean men have weird fantasy about white girls/blondes/Russians etc ..plus some foreign girls imagine their Korean oppas to be like their drama actors and idols etc and fall in love real quickly ..I m saying this coz I too got cheated by a Korean guy and trust me he seemed too decent, gentlemanly and perfect but later I found out through my friends that he was smooching an unknown girl in the club wtf
they use western girls for their fantasies and just use them as dolls
It seems like they just want to experience dating outside their own culture but when they are really ready to settle, they will within their own culture is what I have heard from a few. I have yet to travel to South Korea but men are not at the top of my list when I go! Lol.
Sadly, a korean woman also did this to me 😔😂 pursued me online and assured me with all sweet gestures that seemed so real, yet she was married then.
@@billyisreals8249 like anything in life online dating is a breeding ground for all kinds of dishonest ppl no matter their backgrounds or outward appearances. You Have to trust you gut when things don’t feel right. I spent 7 yrs in a relationship that was anything normal and took the last 3 of those yrs to escape it for good. I choose to look at that as a real hard lesson that not all ppl will be honest with you that get that kind of close to you. But I still hope that I will find the right person to be happy with in life .
Same thing with a Chinese guy I dated. I eventually found out he had a lot of weird fetishes and was obsessed with some Russian girl he kept comparing me to and I think me being mad at him for him saying that stuff to me and being a perv in general is why he eventually randomly ghosted me for a month then blocked me cuz he grew tired of his fetish of the month or whatever and I have to emphasize that it wasn't like we were having heated arguements or anything either just small rude remarks from him then him switching personalities as usual.
Remember ladies, MEN ARE MEN EVERYWHERE!
Ladies are ladies everywhere...
@@goodboygaming1473 In what context?
@Lost Traveller thank you
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@Lost Traveller Okay Ms.Woke! I don't know if you're purposely being obtuse but with scenarios like this the perpetrator is usually a man! Of course I know scammers are genderless.
Disappearing seems to be super normal to Korean guys living in Europe, especially those who want to have an European girlfriend (but they actually only want hook-ups). Well, girls, don't talk to guys who don't have a minute to answer your messages and they are suddenly back in 3 months lol
Just like somebody else already stated: "Fool me once and it's your fault, fool me twice and it's my fault!"
Absolutely true and perfectly fitting for this story.
Why are some people (not only girls btw, guys as well) THAT naive? And it's not even that she was a child or anything, where I would excuse it, but a grownup woman...
Not saying that the guy is not the worst piece of sh*t (prosecute him, cut off his balls, whatever, he deserves all of it), but without her falling for his stories (again and again!!!), she wouldn't have been in trouble.
1:59 "Where does this guy live, I just wanna talk, nothing violent or anything". Jina about to throw hands.
I met a Thai lady on an app who said that her Korean husband had abandoned her without a word and run off back to Korea while she was pregnant with his baby. They had been together for months apparently and had even got married in Thailand. She had met him on that app and was either looking for him or trying to warn other women about him because apparently he still had accounts on there.
This experience must be a nightmare for this girl. Something like that can change your whole personality.
That make you loose trust in humanity.
(and good luck for your online shop!)
the guy looked fishy from the beginning, I wonder why the poor girl was so naive the entire time and kept chasing him and what made her fall so in love with such a weirdo
It's likely a combination of low-self esteem and being kind of desperate for a relationship cuz my first relationship almost parallels hers and now I'm so embarassed I dated such a pile of garbage. Also he was manipulative and would always be convincing at apologizing.
Very sad...I feel bad for her. 😔 I'm 51 and divorced 2 years and I guess I'm old fashioned but I will not do online dating, I'm too paranoid. But, I love watching your channel! My daughter and I hope to visit Korea one day.
That guy is so rude i would punch him badly
People need to separate what they see on tv from real life. You hear these girls saying i want a Korean oppa but that’s only on drama and tv and real life is different. It’s sad that people who rather live in lala land than reality. Those people are just manufactured and selling the perfect dream
I agree, but that's not what this story is about at all lol
Young girls would say "ok boomer" to this clarity of thought that we have. It's very important to let girls know even their fave isn't the typical "oppa" material they crave for. I am not accusing everyone ,but stating the possibility.
@@peace_wise2809 I'm belonging to the "Ok. Boomer." generation and I agree..The problem is just that many of them don't want to listen..And I myself was once like that too but learning about such cases and about the Korean society made it clear to me that the "Kpop Idols" and "KDrama actors" are just normal people and sometimes even worse than people in my own country, that a European girl should be very careful when talking to a Korean guy, just because of the culture difference. What seems sincere and good in our culture, can be the opposite in their culture.
Just wanted to say...I know many married couples who met on dating apps...I've also seen scary situations with people who met irl like through friends or work. It doesn't matter where you meet, what matters is using your best judgement...if something seems shady, it probably is...get out! Stay safe out there. 💜
honestly. 100%
I wish people would just be respectful and honest with others. So much heartbreak and anger could be avoided. You get ‘em Jina! Like your passion.
Poor girl is truly naïve. A guy ghosts you not just once, but for *multiple times* and you don't get the clue? I'm sorry for what happened to her, but she also is responsible for being delusional.
Look at her... even with that thing on her chin a cutie💞
Yeah, I thought it's a makeup graphics, until she mentioned that it's band-aid to cover acne😂😂😂
They say love is blinding but many people confuse love with toxic/ irresponsible behavior. Please don't give up your virtues and beliefs for someone who claims that they love you and never show it.
It's not the end of the world to lose someone you like or think you love. You're living for yourself, and if you end up in a situation that makes you uncomfortable or unhappy, don't go ahead with it. End it as fast as possible. It's not worth losing your true self over people that have no true remorse for hurting you.
Well sometimes instead of being in a relationship it’s better to just stay at home and play with your bean
I'd advise her not to go tbh.. I've been through this.. Korean parents won't give a shit and won't stand by your side against their sons. The best revenge is no revenge at all. And karma will eventually get him
Laya Qassas agree, she’s wasted enough tears and pain on him. Dump his memory and pretend she never met him would be the greatest healing route.
I once had a korean girlfriend. We met online on an app for language exchange. We started texting everyday. Eventually we did facetime as well and we send us pictures everyday. It was really sweet and it felt like love. We even started to plan our first meeting where she would come to germany or I would fly to korea. Yeah... in the end she ghosted me. I was super sad for like a month but I recoverd from that eventually.
About this girls story: As a guy I don't understand both of them about the sex story. I mean if a girl isn't using birth control pills I have to wear a condom because I don't want to have a baby right now. Also if a guy won't use a condom why would a woman sleep with that guy???
@crispy fade Seriously..... why the hell man !!!! I seriously don't get these ppl. Thank god you got out of that shi*
I‘m also from Germany lol you have to be careful always especially online.
Because some boys like to manipulate the girls. They destroy her self esteem and manipulate her into doing things like that. Of course, this goes both ways. However, it's usually the boys who do that.
I swear this is an East Asian cultural thing. There have been soooooooo many people from these countries I meet online or knew irl and we talked online who just end contact with you randomly one day and never come back, more than anyone else.
I was just about to download a dating app , lol , I actually dont like this idea of dating apps but its boaedem , i canceled the idea anyway 😂😂
@@itsjinakim thank you ,UWU😭💛
I was thinking about using dating apps if I happen to be single by 30 ...😶
@@jackie.s2569 me too😭😭
Jackie .S same oopsie
Don't get dating apps. Those are full of people who has commitment issues. They don't settle, they just sleep around with strangers over the course of years. Which leads to STDs being very common. Just don't.
I also experienced something similar but thanks God I suspicied and left him before the guy does something bad to me. I will never forget it
@سومي في كوريا it seems to be a pattern with East Asian men and I can't figure out why.
She must be lonely and unloved and that is why she was caught in this web.
I went through almost the same exact experience as her and yes it comes from feeling like that combined with low self-esteem feeling like you might not find anyone else for me at least.
A woman in my country was deceived from a guy, who only wanted her money. After their break up, she posted in the social media the whole story along with his pictures, so it would be hard for him to deceive other women. Yes, the love is blind, but there can be a justice as well.
These bad guys don't have to feel that safe. 🤨
The fact that you bring these stories and realities to light is really helpful. They are cautionary tales and wake up calls for other women. So thank you..
You should be cautious of ALL people. Get to know them because they will show you who they are eventually.
He’s a sociopath wtf
I am mad, sad, and embarrassed. I hate that there are guys like that.
I live in Texas, and there are guys like that here too. I will have to give thumbs down. 👎😡
Regardless of someone's thoughts on abortion, this was a textbook example of an abortion done for the right reason. Period.
@Tyler Well. Some people are too stupid to use condoms because the same people who rail against abortion refuse to give kids a full and proper sexual education. It seems to me that if someone was seriously against abortion, they'd be more vfc than willing to make sure that kids, including their own, did have such an education. If you or someone else chooses to not allow kids to have said education, you're/they're part of the abortion problem.
@Tyler .
@Tyler I don't know why you bring up rape. Yes. Women who are raped and become pregnant should ALWAYS have the right to abort. I love how people have the time and energy to comment or reply to a comment but can't follow through. My last response about sexual education was absolutely spot on. With no room for argument. That's why.
@Tyler He lied to her about it using the condom. Did you even watch the video? Anyways respect her decision
People have different reasons some people can't handle a child.
@Tyler YES KING KEEP IGNORE THOSE KIDS IN FOSTER CARE!❤️
You are the coolest and most sincere korean girl i ve ever seen my friend. İ hope u always meet nice people
There’s a song that describes this romanticized culture of Prince Charming. It’s called “Mad at Disney” and here are some of the lyrics :
I’m mad at disney, disney
They tricked me, tricked me
Had me wishing on a shooting star
But now I’m 20-something, I still know nothing
About who I am or what I’m not
And then here’s another part of it :
My fairy grandma warned me, Cinderella’s story only ended in a bad divorce
The prince ain’t sleeping when he takes his sleeping beauty to the motel on his snow-white horse
Edit : here’s another one. I think it’s about how many people say “I love you” and how they don’t really mean it and to them it actually means nothing
So call me a pessimist but I don’t believe in it
Finding a true love’s kiss is bullsh*t
Cause I felt sad love
I felt bad love
Sometimes happy love turns into giving up
I felt hurt love
About the word love
What the hell is love supposed to feel like?
What the hell is love?
What the hell is love?
What the hell is love supposed to feel like?
What the hell is love?
What the hell is love?
What the hell is love supposed to feel like?
I am so shocked by hearing this story. 😱😱😱😱😱😱😱
Thank you for this video 🥰🥰
I enjoy this video very much😍😍
how can she be so naive?!it's not like she's a teenager
There are some people in life that can con even judges, psychiatrists, the law enforcement people etc. The man she met could have either been a narcissist or a psychopath. We are not in her shoes so we can't tell and blame her for this. If we meet the same character, it could happen to us too. Hence we should always protect the victims and find ways to expose such perpetrators.
@@TheSoundOfYourHeartbeat sorry but i can sympathize with her up to a certain point.
I just found your channel.. this is the first video I’ve experienced. Thank you for being an amazing woman/ sister to women who need to hear this message.
Love your honest personality and your great storytelling skills!
You have to definitely be careful with dating apps. This is a topic I have to cover on my CZcams channel, very important!
Keep up the good work!!
Nah, that isn't love. I met a korean guy online long ago and he kept ghosting once a week. We lasted 1 month before i had it and left. Turns out he knocked his korean girlfriend up and was cheating lol. They have a daughter together.
The next guy i dated that i met online that i met in person threaten me to sleep with him or he kill my family (he legit had a gun). What happened was he said we were going to go to the mall, but he drove me to his house and dragged me up the stairs as i tried to get away (i forgot to scream for help). He dragged me and threw me into his bed and pinned me down. I fought back and tried to run away and he pointed a loaded gun at me to threaten me. Then it happened. He kept threatening me and i was 19 when that happened. It kept happening for 3 years. Eventually i got rid of him from my life. It's a very long story and i prefer to not think about it all. His parents didnt care. They werent good people either. I thought if i got his family involved they would help me but it got worse. He abused and raped me. Crying and fighting turned him on even more. I wish i never met him and wish i wasn't so dumb. I developed Stockholm syndrome from this first day he forced me and it was my virginity.
My current bf had helped me cope throughout the years as my close friend before we dated.
That story sounds made up. If it isnt, im sorry for you but why tf didnt u contact the police
@@Kuerikami trust me, i don't think they would've helped much...... they never do, especially if it's a foreigner.
@@Kuerikami F*ck that..! It's real and it happened to me too in Korea! Victim-blaming, accusing of lies..? What's wrong with you! You don't call the police because BIG NEWS the police don't help you! They don't care because there are too many rapists out there! Zero resources. Start actually thinking before you comment
Sophia N i agree with you! I heard some really disturbing and fucked up stories about rape in korea! E.g. a 51 year old man raped an 8 year old girl extremely brutally and the police didn’t do anything! He was sentenced to 12 years and will be released this year! That’s the most fucked up crime i heard and it traumatized me a lot. Korea is dangerous and don’t believe the people that say it‘s safe cause it‘s not.
Angie I know this situation, they even made a movie out of it. I was in a flood of tears watching it, I was angry sad and traumatised at the same time. Korea is disgusting and it’s not as rosy as everyone think it is. They’re almost just as bad as any other trash country idc 😭🤷🏾♀️
Thanks for the heads up sister. Stay safe.
Keep going w this series 💖
i enjoyed the story ㅋㅋ😭
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 13:08
Jina turnin' THUG! 💪👊
"You see this? You see this scar?"🩹
...Acne... 🤣
I love this horror story time!!! Keep it up Jina 💯💯
Love your edditing on this vid! 😍
Hi unnie, I want to say thank you for giving a lot information in your country. As a Kpop lover one of the country that I want to travel is korea. So that, I really hope that someday I can go there. Thank you for being an inspiration for me. I hope you will continue what you've done. And keep helping to someone who need your help. God blessed.
I hope you make more videos about Korean Idol. So that, I can aware not only me, but also for those people who are really crazy in K Idol. Your so entertaining.
-Philippines
I m from Europe also. I had a distance relationship with a Korean that after 4 months disappeared without saying anything. No bye, nothing . A few hours ago he told me he loves me. nice 😂
Same here 🤣
I've heard this so many times...
They know why they do it? 😕
• • Aʅҽxαɳԃɾα • • Yes, this is about Koreans, but this is happening all over the world, and men are the same everywhere. It doesn't matter who they are from this country😂🤷🏼♀️ i don t know 🤔
@@alexandragray61 i still cant find agf yettt :(((((((((((
SAME BUT WITH A CHINESE GUY AND I'M AMERICAN
I'm really liking this series
LOL all your cursing near the end 😆 👍 thank you for the story!! i love your clothes and so glad you got a shop.
I have met some Korean guys from an app as friends, and they all disappear after that . The story is so sad . I think it is better not yo meet someone from the internet.
@qυιηтεssεηтιαl qυεεη It's better not to. I am hopeless to meet someone from the internet .
Strongly agreed
When Jina says “ come let’s fight. I can beat you “ I died laughing ... you go girl !!! 😂
OMG!! That part from "Secret Garden" 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
My favorite CZcamsr Jina❤️❤️❤️
I don't understand why she want to meet his father if they are both adults and not teens. Even if his dad was aware that his son is this terrible guy what can he do? I personally hold both of these people responsible. This girl, where are her friends and family? People with more common sense that can support her with good advice, they could have told her he was a snake. This guy is bad but why did she keep letting him back in her life? I feel bad for her but petting snakes is not a good hobby and it sounds like this guy only talked a good game but never took her out and showed himself to be a good guy. Actions speak louder than words.
Thanks for the story!!! ;)
She still thinks he's hot, so she tells herself that if she loves him enough, she can turn him into a good guy. So sad.
The power of love or should I say lust. Lol appreciate your comment 😋👍
@qυιηтεssεηтιαl qυεεη I have 3 daughters, the 2nd of whom is turning teenager this summer, and they'll all be watching a documentary on our state TV, about a 14 year old girl who fell in love with a serial killer.
She knew he'd killed his own mother, his girlfriend and her two kids and probably even more people - yet she and 3 other girls just in her class were so fascinated that they each wrote a letter to him, and she was pulled in to the point of eventually marrying him in prison.
The worst murders on Death Row have scores of women lining up, so it would appear that (some) women have a fatal attraction to bad boys, that I make a personal mission to shame at every opportunity. This is something they have to be able to suppress if they are to be regarded as adults.
Yep. And it's pretty upsetting how people are trying to infantilise her. This happens every time when a girl/woman does something like this. People upright infantilise females. I mean, The girl wasn't even a young teen, she is even older than Jina so there is no excuse for her. People need to stop trying to completely disreponsabilise her.
The girl is also responsible of what happened to her because of her repeated foolish actions.
praying for that girl's health that she can recover and if it's time for her to date again that right guy will be available only for her, may she recover in Jesus name!
so good content~ thanks JinaKim
This is so sad & I hope she can move on to a better place & that her health recovers. Her heart will heal with time & it won't be easy, but i pray for her happiness & her wellbeing. ❤ Thank you for sharing your story, stay safe & healthy everyone. 🙏
1 view 30 secs I'm early. Love u Jina. P.S. I love this series.
@@itsjinakim welcome hope u make more of these.
Just imagine someone willing enough to take this guy out for you. All they need is a real photo , name and location of the individual. Waking up just to see it on the news with a nicely wrapped gift on your doorstep .
Signed - refrigerate right away
Woohoo! story time with Jina... ❤️😊
Loved it‼️
I can't stop saying HI to you Jinaaaa😅
@@itsjinakim yey! Finally you replied on my comment thankyou 😍iloveyou😘
The part with the nice place is true 😂..I was feeling a bit insecure while watching because I'm in a long distance relationship since 11 months myself ( haven't been able to meet because I had a severe injury before which made me unable to travel and he is in army since winter 2018..Plus Corona virus is making it difficult for us to meet too rn..) ..We met through Kakaotalk and the last time we spoke about our dates I told him that I want to eat at a Convenience Store ( the country I live in has no Convenience Stores) and eat snacks at the Gwangju Market ( am a huge foodie) and he got a little bit frustrated/disappointed because he wanted to bring me to a good/fancy restaurant while I just wanted to eat very cheap and unhealthy food, plus he talked about introducing me to his friends ( he sent me later pictures of them and screenshots of a conversation with his friends talking about me, plus asked me if I want to meet his mom (his mom knows about my existence)...) ..So yeah, wanting to go to nice places is definitely true and he never disappears suddenly, if he isn't messaging me for some longer time (max. 2 weeks) it's usually because of training or his night shifts ( sitting in a booth and looking at cameras + doing paper work from late evening until morning)..Plus he can only contact me when he has phone/ resting time ( and I told him to not call me when he is tired from his night shift or training and just sleep.) ...I'm so spoiled by him contacting me every day that I kind of feel upset when he doesn't contact me 2 days after we talked through messages or video call..
So yeah, I kind of know my boyfriend's schedule and I know him since 2017 (We were just online penpals before ( good friends) but really got to know him since we started dating )
All in all : I agree with Jina !
Everyone please be careful when being active on SNS or messaging apps~ And don't date anyone online you don't know since a longer time~ they are the same like in your own country ~
Good work, be diligent :) Good Luck sounds promising
same here but he is not Korean but in a long-distance relationship since 2013.i just wanted to know more about your side.sending you hugs and greet from India.
Learning alot from you jinah
Love your outfit jina BTW I love this story time ❤
I rarely watch youtuber video more than twice.. But once i subscribe i'm gonna watch every video. 😂 Love your content today! 👍👍
I was just about to install a dating app (actually I'm not really interested on this kind of app or what, I was just about to try it) but THANK GOD! I WATCHED THIS VIDEO (It's a sign that I shouldn't get involved on this matter 😂👍) there's already a lot of situation like this in the whole world and we should learn from that. Even if you love the person so much don't ever forget to love yourself first. Don't trust people easily.
But you will have so many funny/weird stories. But always stay safe.
There's nothing wrong with dating apps, you just need to be smart and rational. You can tell very quickly when someone is not genuine
@@XX-qj9sj not always
you are awesome jina,the way u give explanations in all ur videos are too good aye....you are amazing
Hi Jina
Keep up the good job, like these kind of videos.
And I love your outfit for today.
@@itsjinakim I think it is necessary to talk about topics like this. A lot of times victims are afraid and ashamed to speak about their trauma and I want to thank you that you are speaking up for this person. Also this is informative for other people how to be careful and not trust easily to avoid situations like this.
Thats why I dont trust internet or dating app until i meet a lady face to face.
Btw did you hurt your face?
@@itsjinakim hahaha...that makes sense.
Face Time first
I have 3years relationship with korean man, at the first year it was like a romantic love story then he changed like the man in the story
Love this new topic👍👍👍👍
@@itsjinakim thanks love you
I always love your videos! You always say things as I'm thinking them. Amazing views
Never chase men.
True
Oof learned that a bit late sadly
As a man, this goes for women as well. Dont chase people, pursue
them. And know your worth and dont go for someone "Pretty" that you feel is a lot better than you. You'll overlook all the bad traits. There are good and bad people out there. ALWAYS look at a persons ACTIONS not the words.
I'm a young male foreigner in Korea and I'm not surprised at all by this. I hate to say it but 100% of the guys I know here have a similar vibe to the guy in the story. I'm not sure why this is because they are really nice guys to me but they cheat on their gf's and are always looking for other girls for sexual reasons. Many have multiple phones to hide they are cheating. It is normal here! Sad story but not very uncommon here.
Probably because the media has made them very popular + their plastic faces that help them to get away with anything.
Apparently it's the same with Chinese and Japanese guys too and I still haven't been able to figure out a single solid reason why, I think it might just be a lot of different factors creating this kind of culture.
Thankyou jinakim, I really like ur channel
This is really really heartbreaking.