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- čas přidán 25. 01. 2023
- What’s your relationship with your in-laws like? We interviewed people and their partners’ parents to see how they really feel about each other. Watch You People, Friday January 27th, on @Netflix.
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“he’s not in the country illegally” now WHY would u say that😭😭😭
There’s a story there fs
Cause she’s a Republican
thats what I said! I had to rewind like lmao
RIIIIGHT???!!
Well that's good, because then her daughter wouldn't get dragged into any problems regarding that.
“He’s not in the country illegally” went from wholesome to wtf
What about tall, blonde, football playerish 😂😂😂
@@truth6074 just a nice way to say white lmfao
She was fucking ass backwards. Especially when she said she saw her daughter as property.
Still wholesome. Life isn't a fairy.
@@cyberspace7208 boo
i feel bad for the mom who didn’t get invited to the elopement, shortly after her birthday too
Thats genuinely so messed up on their part
Real shady behaviour from the daughter
@@moonlightaddict11 Fr! I would never do that to my mom she would be heartbroken. Couple days after her birthday too!!
In that situation, I'd imagine that the parent(s) are/were abusive and shitty, enough that there's such a rift that you wouldn't want them to be there for such an important day in your life because it'd make the day worse.
@@DianaHsu1 or theyre just shitty people. Based in how the convo went… i may be wrong but it didnt seem like she did anything to warrant them making such a decision
I could listen to Brian's mum in law talk all day.
Literally, she needs to narrate something like the National Geographic channel.
Who's she again?
Ohh, the Brit!
@@MajorAfro 8
Thank you, I will tell Joy when I see her next!
Seeing these supportive parents setting aside their personal interests for their child's happiness really warms my heart, listening without judgment and seeking to understand their concerns and challenges; Based asf.
Wouldn’t say there was no judgement lmao
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@@narutosramaneah but the parent surprised me as I thought she’d be a lil bit judgmental, then she said it was like they are meant to be together
Definitely awhh to that🤧
The pastor is a really honest man. His connection with Rachel is so wholesome🥺
I wish they showed us their partners/children at the end of the video.
you can see a lot of those partner's in other video,
@@MakeupBySara which one?
@@kela8770some truth or drinks like in law vs spouse, couples truth or drink
It’s amazing how much the relationship between a mother in law can dictate the success of a relationship…. 😬😬
My mother in law and I can’t stand each other and we don’t speak. 5 years strong and her son and I still just as in love as we were in the beginning!
For real
@@erinwhipple4666 awwwwww... 🥰🥰🥰 gosshhh
Absolutely! Even if you live several states away a master manipulator can drop by once a year, tell a couple lies, and completely erode your relationship
@@erinwhipple4666 damn why not?
Really really like that he did NOT ask the parents about marrying their daughter. She's not the parents' property. They have no say in who she marries. Good for him!
Yep! But they're Republicans so zero education.
Asking for a hand dosent mean it’s their “property”. The act is a ritual and he should’ve respected it. It’s a culture thing .
@@victorino7113 It's a ritual that the daughter can decide if they want to keep going. It's not mandatory. They are a new family that can make their own traditions.
@@victorino7113 the "culture" stems back to a time when women were literally property of their father and the man would pay the father or ask to marry her and the marriage would be arranged for her. The woman had no say in it at all. Same concept as the father "giving away" his daughter at the alter. She was once his property, now she's another man's property. So no, it's definitely not a culture that needs to be respected and he had every right to refuse to do that. He basically told them, she's not your property and it's her choice, not yours.
@@victorino7113 yes but where it comes from is the father transferring the daughter over to the husband, just because it’s a tradition doesn’t make it right
I admire that him telling her parents that it's not their hand to give.
Yes, it is. They raised her and invest in her so yes he do. And it's also should be a major respect for him to do that. They're not asking much from him.
@@amourpkay she is not their property, and she is not becoming his. Ugh.
@@amourpkay this tradition implies a lot of ownership of the daughter.. raising someone doesn't make them your property, and not everyone who raises someone treats them well and would be "deserving" of that kind of courtesy
What type of fruit loop doesn't at least try to ask the parent's for their blessing?
@@TryingtoTellYou someone who recognizes that it is not up to them to decide who their daughter wants to be with. Your parents do not own you just because they raised you. Why are you so desperately holding on to "tradition" that stems from a time where women were seen as property? Frankly I would find it disrespectful if my partner asked my parents just because of the implications
I was scared for my boy Brian for a second there 😂. I’m glad they got over the bumps and love each other
Brian's mother-in-law was so elegant omg, her accent is so amazing to listen to.
Im from the part of England where she is and to see someone say its elegant is actually shocking , because we normally make fun of our own accent
this video was super positive bc if you hated your in-laws no way you'd agree to do this lmaoo
The asking for hand in marriage thing is so correct. It’s not their hand to give away. 3:38
It absolutely is.
@@johnos2765and why is that? Your parents don’t own u
@@raph1136 I think it’s nice to ask, but even if they said no I’d still marry her.
@@raph1136 It's not about owning, it's about respect and tradition.
@@johnos2765 No one asks the mother if they can marry her son. It's gross and weird. Men think they own their daughters and their wives like property which is how it used to be. And then men deny patriarchy exists. 🙄
It is interesting to see the parents recognize how they feel about their daughter in laws, it is a new introduction to the family and they're trying their best to understand each other
Oh the woman in the green shirt and her daughter in law were in the truth or drink video! They had a really great relationship, glad to see them here
Everytime I see the pastor I just like him more and more
Awww, thanks.
Rachel was great. Sorry you didn’t get to see more of them.
I love the guy but he’s Not a true pastor. False prophet. We need to just pray for him.
@@blackowldefense2413 yes, please pray for me that I can help hateful Christians repent of their homophobia, and follow in the loving way of Jesus.
@@blackowldefense2413 what do you mean by false prophet and not being true pastor?
@@janfabczak2201 I’m going to guess that black owl…doesn’t think I’m a true pastor because I am welcoming, loving and accepting of LGBTQ folks, and that doesn’t fit with their understanding of the seven Bible passages that have been used to demonize LGBTQ people. But I’m just spitballing.
I feel so deeply awful for that very first guy with the Republican mom-in-law who was belittling the way he empowered her daughter with the very basic concept of, she can’t be given away like property 🤦♀️
It's not that deep, bozo.
It's just a nightmare to have in-laws that hate you, it's so beautiful to see supportive in-laws❤️
Black mom freaked me out because her daughter’s name is very similar to mine and I never met anyone who has mine. I literally flinched lol
Omg same!!! I'm glad I wasn't the only one
Idk if I heard it right but- Sadonni? THATS LITERALLY SUCH A PRETTY NAME
@@savageunitato100 the common spelling is Sidonie & I go by “Doni” for short but I was so shocked! The only person who would say my full name was my mom when I got in trouble and I went into full PTSD mode when I heard it through my earphones 😂
@@sweetb2750 ah, yes, I know I spelled it wrong😭 such a beautiful name
What beautiful name you have 🥰🥰
"...he just seemed totally lost" when i tell u i gasped
AND THEN WHEN HE TOOK HER :O
A LETTER?????
their arc is incredible im rooting for them sorry for live tweeting this
We love live reactions 😂
Wait why did he elope but invite his parents and not hers???
@@llllllloopylunch I mean but what she said sounded pretty normal of any parent especially daughters. Wanting to be careful the guy/girl is the right one for your kid. It’s strange to me
@@llllllloopylunch chill out ..
I met my lover's parents, and it was one of my worse days. They hated me so much, in just 20 minutes. It is not that I did anything wrong, it was more I was not their idea of someone who should be dating their daughter. They have very focused ideas, and these ideas don't really matter when it comes to a person's personality. I am glad it worked out for all of you.
Just to clarify, Brian’s mother in law Joy lives in the UK. Her daughter moved to the US, hence the letter.
KC got stuck with a devil of a Karen for a mother in law… prayers for him
Nope. All humans are different and we should embrace each others differences..both left and right. Conservative and liberal.
@@xdouble00 that’s literally the opposite of what she did… you’re so brain dead
@@xdouble00 to dislike someone merely for their “legal” status is normal to you? Lol I stand by what I said
@@LevTri it’s not my preferred way of summarizing people but it def ain’t abnormal for someone to dislike a person that comes into their country illegally. I’m gunna end the convo here though cause you a matrice
@@LevTri yes, their legal standing literally affects people daily lives when they vote. Just bc we live in a modern day “democracy” doesn’t mean we have to tolerate ppl who vote to harm others. Ppl have the right to dislike others for their opinions.
"he's in the country legally.." big oof!
I mean some people dont like criminals. Not really a big oof.
😬😬😬
HUGE OOF I was like da fu..
@@ItsStrayySo when people don’t like the criminal white people who stole America from natives you’ll have this same energy?
@@narutosraman yeah don't get conquered lmao.
"My husband loves her mother"
Now I see why this worked between them
"He's not an illegal so I like that."
Also Her: "He didnt ask to marry my daughter and she's her father's property."
This woman is too much and I'm sure he has some (cough cough) feelings about her.
I hope cut sticks to the every day people. I feel like so many media platforms are already about celebrities; I'd like to have one CZcams channel that include us every day folk. Just a thought
Cut is going downhill so fast. It's fucking depressing.
same and ion even know them celebs they bringing to their show
straight karen talking about he didnt ask for her hand in marrage and he wasn't an illegal immigrant
Bless y’all! I don’t think I could be with someone who’s parents didn’t like me or belittled me.
I've been lucky with my in-laws, because my own parents have been a nightmare. I'm treated like their own kid and we enjoy each other's company even though I occasionally have to explain away a conspiracy theory or two.
This by far my favorite video❤ for all of them to have supportive parent in laws, that’s amazing🥹❤️ love this for them!
"My parents wrote a letter to her saying welcome to the family and she was really offended by that..."
*I have questions*
I didn't understand this either... Did I miss something???
She’s throwing out red flags
I mean sending a letter after attending an eloped wedding in which the recipient of your letter, the mother of the bride, was not invited (and it was days after her birthday)? I can understand the anger
@@emotionalboii ikr
@@emotionalboii but realistically thats not their fault
6:47 If this lady isn't considering lending her voice to a future documentary, she should.
David Attenborough now has competition.
Eloping with only your in-laws present is bogus...how her daughter allowed that is wild if she wasn't being abused by her own family, but who knows right?
Maybe her mother lives in the UK and inviting her would’ve ruined the elopement aspect of it for them?
@@noodleMoodle253 not a very nice thing to do to your mom if you have a good relationship with her
It sounds pretty obvious she was against it. Why would you invite someone who doesn't want you to get married?
@@victoriaabbey3525 I agree, it appears the mum wasn't for the guy in the beginning. The daughter may have her reasons.
"I think tall, blond, football playerish" oh well
Long winded way of saying white
should've said all-American, that means everything she said without actually saying it
So? She was being honest.
@@edithputhy4948 *laughs in native American*
It's kind of weird honestly because I rarely see men with blonde hair. I think it's rare naturally so they would have to bleach and hetero-sis men don't normally like to do things like that.
We need a back story on joy and Co. Why did her daughter leave the country and elope without her? Do they have a bad relationship?
Long distance relationships are difficult, eloping might mean they didn't plan much so if she had a job she might not have been able to up and leave when they planned to marry.
At first I was nervous… and then I laughed and smiled SO MUCH!!!
0:44 aww my fav duooo 😭😭 their truth or drink was so cute
the pastor is so lovely!! as a bisexual christian, it’s really refreshing to see a progressive leader of the church
There really are more of us than you might think. Of course, there are lots of hateful judgmental ones too. So, please be careful when checking them out.
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
i love that my pastor is also very supportive of me and trying his best to let people know they are welcome just as they are, no matter who they liked. I’m proud of you ❤
I don't know y you have to be gay and be religious. Pick a struggle ! It's clearly forbidden
@@Imetwurld_ it is most certainly not. Don't base prohibition of same sex relationships between two mutually consenting adults on 7 obscure passages. The golden thread of whole text about God loving humanity and a call for us to do the same.
@@pastorkel look the church said it does forbid it. It is what it is . Even God created Adam and eve not eve and Helen or something else. That's a enough evidence that Lgtbq is not welcomed in christainity .
More videos like this CUT PLS
loved this episode! keep doing the good work guys
Shoutout to the guy who didn’t ask for her hand in marriage!! Women are not property! ❤
The letter story too me out 😂
2:32 lmao “I’m thinking the worse” don’t we all 🤣
6:16 that mil is hilarious 😂 you can tell she loves her dil 🙂
I love Jimmy's mum, she is cool
Love the accent of the woman in the pink long sleeve shirt💖
that last 'god I hope so' gave me goosebumps
I'm glad that all the in-law relationships in my family are happy. We end up having massive get togethers and it's so much fun to be all in one place just vibing
Joy is definitely Jamaican lmao
Loved this so much!! The power of love is incredible!!
I am from Bangladesh 🇧🇩, and I live in Los Angeles. I went from deshi girl to marring a Latina girl. Best decision for me because my inlaws are good people, and my parents just want me to be happy. They didn’t mind my wife being latina.
The insult to elope and invite his parents to the wedding but not yours, then to have his parents write a letter "welcoming her to the family"... Wtf?!
I like the Black lady who wrote a seething letter to the White guy's family. I feel her
Eeeer I don’t and I’m black
To anyone who hasn't watched the movie yet, it's basically a rated M "Meet the Fockers" XDD
Because English is my fourth Language, I stopped the Video and activated the translation just to be sure about what I have heard and it turns out that "He's not in the country illegally" .
I am still in shock 😲 😔😔
The woman in green shirt reminded me of jonah’s mom in the movie but her daughter in law is more fun and open minded than the daughter in law in the movie😄👏🏻👏🏻
Thank you for putting interracial relationships/their parents on here! It’s so important for people to get insight on this, especially with their cultural differences.
Exhibit A: the audacity of “Karen” to say “he’s not in the county illegally” followed by a fake ass laugh 😒this is shit people need to see to get a reality check.
But it's totally fine for the Asian woman to describe her mother in law pejoratively as a "typical white woman"? You're a hypocritical clown.
@@TryingtoTellYou When did I ever say that? Are you really comparing the insult to immigrants to the comment of "typical white woman"? Really? 😂
You also need to reread what I wrote. You're probably one of those people who think "reverse racism" is a thing lmao It's always those without profile pictures who tend to have the most bold statements/accusations and name-calls 🤣
She said she's a republican so what do you expect. Zero education.
It's not audacity. A person who is illegally in a country is a criminal.
@@DA-js7xz haha, fair point. Tt's mainly her ignorance I had an issue with.
Great video and can’t wait to watch “You people” 😂
I didn't even finish the video but if Eileen is here I know this is going to be great.
0:26 she is literally shaking her head.
These parents (y’all know who I’m talking about) are so…oblivious?
I am the OG son in law.
Yo it’s Craig
Miss seeing you on more!
does cut swap out people or do you just not like showing up in videos anymore? Is there like a dedicated cast which gradually is replaced?
Swing low sweet chariot
Yeah, how come you're not on anymore?
"My husband loves her mother"
🙂🙂🙂🙃
It's nice to see combined families get along.
Me, I **totally** eff'd up the first impression. And dads don't forgive that. We've reached a detante, but sometimes it's strained. I love her mother to death tho. Somebody mess with my girl's momma, and they are asking for very bad things to happen to them.
Just started this movie last nite ..so far so good..I luv it
The pastor, Green shirt lady, auntie and British Black lady. Only.
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@@Argonikron they're the only ones I like.
Oh wow! They got married with his parents present but not hers??? Eloping means no parents. Leaving out one family but including the other is very mean.
The movie's tomorrow?! Thanks 🔥
Gosh I’m so happy I love my parents in law and they love me ❤🥰
Lady at 2:27 description was hilarious 😂
If you don’t get along with your in laws that really sucks /: I couldn’t live without mine !
Bring back fear pong please.
I love the happy ending
Had to turn up my volume make sure I heard her right 🤨
i wish we could see their partners
That movie looks so good
Oh that's so mean. Eloping and STILL having your parents there but not your wife's mother?? That's SICK sorry. I'd feel targeted! (unless ofc the daughter isn't that close with the mother or the mom was violently against their relationship)
The comments are about to go off especially with "at least he's not he's not in the country illegally"
It's kind of wild how it seems to be young people who take jokes so seriously. When I was kid, I'm not even old yet, kids made ridiculous jokes and adults got offended lol
@@Aaron-kj8dv What's the joke? Explain it
Of course that white woman said that. I hope her daughter is embarrassed by her, and the mother realizes that was cringe AF.
I love how cut doesn't clip certain content out and lets people's true colors show.
timestamp?
You mean not wanting her child to have to worry about whether or not her SO can find a good paying job, or doesn't have to worry about getting deported and lose their SO to another country and then their child ending up moving to another country with the SO? There's a very big difference between someone coming in and earning citizenship, and someone coming in illegally and not doing so and an entirely different set of concerns. Ya'll seem to think they are the same. They are not.
Not that the mom said it in the best way, but still
@@spiercephotography definitely but it’s the way she said it and the tall blonde football player meaning just a white dude there’s no denying the mom has a preference and prejudice as for the whole illegal thing I’m a first generation immigrant both of my parents have citizenship but I do have to say they don’t just don’t deport it’s a process and love knows no bounds nothing should stop you if that person makes you happy and maybe if she said a good financial position would’ve been better but it’s the way she said it and then the other comment that made her out to be slightly prejudice
i find it funny how americans (non native) seem to forget where their ancestors originate from 😂
@@spiercephotography That's not what this is about at all. You're grasping at straws and the rest of us are laughing.
He’s not in the country illegally 😅 and proceeds to laugh. As if coming illegally is easy and cheap.
It was easy and cheap for them to steal the land of America from natives though!
RIP your future replies
To be fair i think any mother might be worried if their kid was dating someone here illegally. Doesnt mean people here illegally are bad by any means.
Its still the law...
@@spongeyglue1845 to be fair her other answers revealed that she villanizes immigrants
She obviously said “didn’t come here illegally” because he was Hispanic. If he was tall, blond and whatever else it wouldn’t have even been brought up.
Or her daughter (or her) went through something last time around. You don’t know…
@@12345676571 exactly
It’s also possible the girl has dated other Hispanic men and one was here illegally and there could’ve been issues with that too. Because the question was what she liked about him compared to other exes.
Why is nobody talking about the whole ass Netflix ad? I was so confused..
Im gonna give my children love
not in the country illegally..?😭
2:13 that black woman's british accent is literally beautiful.
Anderson Paak is back
Jimmy is one lucky guy!
Love this video!!!!!!
eeeeeeeeeeeeeeesssshhh. some of these clips were so tense. it was quite hard to watch.
As if CZcams ads were not enough 🥲
The mom in the pink top. I could listen to her speak all day. Is it a Jamaican and English mix?
No it isn't shes just black british
4:28 that was completely uncalled for...
What's the name of the black red-dressed lady accent? It's stunning.
Another difficult watch. Thank you, Cut
This was literally so neutral what
@@raph1136 you're definitely white lol
@@DA-js7xz I’m not, actually
@@raph1136 you could easily see the underlying issues. It was awkward as hell.
Every time.
eileen gives me stevie nicks vibes, she's so pretty and nice
Thoughts and prayers for the Latina sister. 😂😂😂
i love the pastor hes so nice
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