Difference Between OVER Pursuing and Pursuing!

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  • čas přidán 3. 07. 2024
  • When you pursue women it's about understanding the intent behind the pursuing. I believe a woman who does have an interest will let you pursue her as well as she initiates. What a lot of men do when they over pursue is in the video which minimizes attraction.
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Komentáře • 274

  • @Mauitaoist
    @Mauitaoist Před 4 lety +107

    Pursuing a woman properly shows your bravery, letting them pursue you too shows them your confidence. Balancing these two energies together makes a real man. Remember, not all women want a real man, just walk away in those situations. Men need to weed out women that are wrong for them, even if you think you love them, that is strength

  • @kgotsomashigo4043
    @kgotsomashigo4043 Před 4 lety +66

    The mistake we make as men we think if we have a very attractive female on our side we've found happiness and we forget to ask ourselves what value will she add in our lives

  • @joemancini2988
    @joemancini2988 Před 4 lety +75

    Sometimes just listening to you reminds me of what my mother used to tell me: Have some self-esteem!

    • @JAF2991
      @JAF2991 Před 4 lety +6

      That's the truth, self esteem and confidence.

  • @umermahmood
    @umermahmood Před 4 lety +193

    The most important relationship you can have is with yourself.

    • @SSGTA440
      @SSGTA440 Před 4 lety +6

      YOU, sir have got that RIGHT!!

    • @patrickbrennan1317
      @patrickbrennan1317 Před 4 lety +12

      Basically if you are not happy with yourself, no one else will be.

    • @edvas625
      @edvas625 Před 4 lety

      @Ron Lambert hahaha

    • @DjR3aper
      @DjR3aper Před 4 lety +7

      *With God
      Yourself/myself is 2nd

    • @_M_D_M_
      @_M_D_M_ Před 4 lety

      @Ron Lambert lol

  • @phantomreacts
    @phantomreacts Před 4 lety +102

    I listen to both women n men coaches to balance out n take my own stance ....

    • @youngslime9692
      @youngslime9692 Před 4 lety +4

      100 same thing i do

    • @youngrevival9715
      @youngrevival9715 Před 4 lety +3

      What she says is completely true.

    • @ernestgty1442
      @ernestgty1442 Před 4 lety

      saaaaaaamee it's really interesting

    • @BestKayneUwU
      @BestKayneUwU Před 4 lety +5

      The thing I don’t like about male coaches is many of them will tell you to ignore it and pretend like it doesn’t bother you but doesn’t that just keep enabling shitty behavior? Better to say it like it is and if the person doesn’t like you so be it.

    • @prezidentjeff
      @prezidentjeff Před 3 lety

      100%

  • @oluwaseyia8548
    @oluwaseyia8548 Před 3 lety +22

    Relationship shouldn’t be this difficult. The reason why it’s so complicated is because human beings have several bs going on in their lives-it’s unbelievable!!!

  • @thomasmbiba5558
    @thomasmbiba5558 Před 3 lety +9

    This makes so much sense. If you feel like you need her, you will over do it. But if she's a preferential addition, then you'll be sober and pursue well.

  • @eye-am-xavier9745
    @eye-am-xavier9745 Před 4 lety +21

    Def needed this because we all forget whats the right thing when your caught in the moment.

  • @rebelreloading5265
    @rebelreloading5265 Před 4 lety +18

    The female version of these videos is advice such as; have a queen mindset, shit-test him, play hard to get, be indecisive, do this with 20 other guys.

  • @andro396
    @andro396 Před 4 lety +23

    one of the best videos you have ever made .. Great point about happiness within ourselfs !

  • @williamcampbell39
    @williamcampbell39 Před 4 lety +1

    Right on Girl! Thanks for being passionate about what u do! It really matters to know your self worth...

  • @julianrodriguez3401
    @julianrodriguez3401 Před 4 lety +1

    Wow this makes a huge amount of sense!! Thank you for your input!

  • @markferguson6215
    @markferguson6215 Před 4 lety +3

    I must admit that I think your videos are very well put together and you articulate everything so well, thanks for providing a lot of advice that many of us don't even think about.

  • @stevenlawrence5733
    @stevenlawrence5733 Před 4 lety

    LOVE EVERY WORD FROM BEGINNING TO END! You nailed it in this video Apallonia

  • @budd1876
    @budd1876 Před 4 lety +3

    This video is worth watching multiple times, so you can go out in the real world and apply the good stuff you teach 🙌

  • @samuelhara4874
    @samuelhara4874 Před 4 lety +2

    Oh my! This girl knows what she is talking about! Bravo! My hat is off to you Madam🙏

  • @daniellucier2290
    @daniellucier2290 Před 4 lety +2

    Your words are true and it makes me feel like I need a break to find myself love. Thanks a lot.

  • @wm2828
    @wm2828 Před 4 lety +4

    Apollonia, great video. Very informative ... in the end as men we need to be confident and secure with who we are, focused on our mission.

  • @theprecursor8736
    @theprecursor8736 Před 4 lety +1

    this is one of your best videos! so much insight, thank you

  • @amineelamraoui3046
    @amineelamraoui3046 Před 4 lety +1

    So much value in here 🔥🔥

  • @mamorukun16
    @mamorukun16 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you for helping me see the difference cause I wasn’t aware until now.

  • @hayleypardinan
    @hayleypardinan Před 4 lety +3

    this is a really great video, Apollonia. this is like the summarization of all your videos. thank you for this! :)

  • @techbazaar8462
    @techbazaar8462 Před 4 lety +29

    She likes me but i know I had to play the game for getting her

  • @blackbond-007
    @blackbond-007 Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks again for an awesome video. 🙏🏾

  • @georgegorse4744
    @georgegorse4744 Před 3 lety

    Great content I made so many of the mistakes you mentioned in this video I lost who I was but i'm starting to learn about my own value which is great.

  • @yehudasam
    @yehudasam Před 4 lety +1

    Love your content!
    A really powerful message here.
    I especially liked the 7 aspects of life which I need to improve, instead of trying to fix everything threw a romantic relationship.

  • @vortigern2448
    @vortigern2448 Před 4 lety +3

    Very useful and insightful....these are great tips to ponder on... thanks. Keep up the good work..

  • @Geforcepat
    @Geforcepat Před 4 lety +2

    It's been too long since i watched the lovely Apollonia. Pretty good stuff Apollonia

  • @johngonzalez4298
    @johngonzalez4298 Před 4 lety +1

    Great video Apollonia. Happy Thursday beautiful 🌹

  • @Musicizmyremedy
    @Musicizmyremedy Před 4 lety

    You are the best, honestly everything you said spoke to me. Thank you

  • @rarefinds5735
    @rarefinds5735 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you so much for your advice. Definitely a lot easier to put in perspectives. Never to be a player but to kill the nice guy that people pleases.

  • @mxdi2727
    @mxdi2727 Před 4 lety +3

    I’ve been watching your videos for a little while, you are an amazing person, from now on I’ll watch videos of how to meet someone like you !! Forget my ex ! 💐

  • @darrickbrisco5016
    @darrickbrisco5016 Před 4 lety

    Great points especially the idolizing and equals part

  • @josemamani1246
    @josemamani1246 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you, Apollonia...!

  • @herefordopeness
    @herefordopeness Před 4 lety +1

    Apollonia your videos are great, I've learned lots, thank you. You're gorgeous and dress suave too!

  • @prathamesh1242
    @prathamesh1242 Před 4 lety

    You are the best Apollonia!!

  • @briggelton
    @briggelton Před 3 lety

    All facts. I needed this 4sho

  • @samuelturner1668
    @samuelturner1668 Před 3 lety

    Amazing video. Thank you Apollonia, your videos have helped me so much this last month since my gf asked for a break.

  • @luisw3406
    @luisw3406 Před 4 lety +1

    So perfect timing video with someone I am dating it answer questions I was thinking about ty A.P😊

  • @wcole1385
    @wcole1385 Před 4 lety

    Great points to be use at all age ranges!

  • @danieldaniel-vb8rh
    @danieldaniel-vb8rh Před 4 lety

    May God bless your life Apollonia and the job that you do

  • @2790tanmay
    @2790tanmay Před 4 lety

    The way u break down things and make it easy to understand..., And helping real man who are vulnerable and in misery..,
    It is like, you extend your hand to those who have fallen bad and they are not able to come out... And u help them.., u pull them out of that place...
    U are a nice person Apollonia...
    This energy u wear, and the kind of person you are.. I like you 🙂.. I like ur energy...
    From India.

  • @kartongfolonko4646
    @kartongfolonko4646 Před 4 lety +2

    The you much Apollonia I learnt lots from you since I started watching you videos... I in UK I love you lots bcos if am watching is like you talking directly to me thanks and God bless you with your amazing teaching x

  • @mustaphadoaa1024
    @mustaphadoaa1024 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you Apollonia. The woman should be your fan and if she is not a good one, there are a lot of fans for great men.
    Allah bless you Apollonia.

  • @ferbogadoaSalirAJugar
    @ferbogadoaSalirAJugar Před 4 lety

    watch entirely, thank you, amazing counseling.

  • @edb.9196
    @edb.9196 Před 4 lety

    I’m learning a lot from your videos thanks!

  • @564d
    @564d Před 4 lety

    Very valid. Buen video amor

  • @danielupsdell2697
    @danielupsdell2697 Před 4 lety +2

    You are so good and so right
    I have found myself over Pursuing my last relationship which did not turn out
    Will never do that again .

  • @BrooksKirkbride
    @BrooksKirkbride Před 2 lety

    Apolonia’s a smart, insightful and a deep thinker who understands the dynamics effecting men in relationship to ladies.

  • @TheSportsandFilmFellowship

    You and Rom Wills the best on CZcams 💯💯💯

  • @ObeyaCorpsArmory
    @ObeyaCorpsArmory Před 4 lety

    lol Apollonia, i just started pursuing this chick and this video came out just at the right time to CLARIFY that im doing everything right (which i am). Girl... you da best!

  • @GubyIQ
    @GubyIQ Před 4 lety

    great video Apollonia

  • @goudagrishhdoe8925
    @goudagrishhdoe8925 Před 4 lety

    I like the new lil look u got going on today. Good video.

  • @extraxt
    @extraxt Před 4 lety

    Apollonia, you rocks!

  • @tradingstar9176
    @tradingstar9176 Před 3 lety

    hEY, just wanted to say. -- You're great. good content and quite relevant and practically applicable. -- Cheers to your work

  • @michaelhorn4540
    @michaelhorn4540 Před 3 lety

    Very informative, some of the best advice I've heard yet

  • @vin605
    @vin605 Před 4 lety

    Thanks for sharing and you are always love

  • @Temarius_Walker
    @Temarius_Walker Před 3 lety

    Great advice!

  • @TheAgiovannym
    @TheAgiovannym Před 3 lety

    Thanks for having simple intros. Haha
    Good material. Thanks for adding value.

  • @mybp5
    @mybp5 Před 4 lety +2

    3:50 We love you too, sister. Great fashion!

  • @davidthomspson9771
    @davidthomspson9771 Před 4 lety

    Great advice here.so true

  • @Sebastiaopedro1957
    @Sebastiaopedro1957 Před 4 lety +2

    For me this was the most important video from you Apollonia, Thank you!

  • @jonathanduke8295
    @jonathanduke8295 Před 4 lety

    Thank you for this .

  • @tclarke971
    @tclarke971 Před 3 lety

    Awesome advice.

  • @82powpow
    @82powpow Před 4 lety +4

    Apo omg I’ve been talking to this girl and I said the same thing to myself. She’s good looking and she has a lot going for herself but I’m also the shiznit and I’m a prize that needs to be won!

  • @michaeljohannes3305
    @michaeljohannes3305 Před 4 lety

    Thanks so much for all your information (1)

  • @risnandarmultimedia5296

    7 different areas for happiness. interesting topics, thank you

  • @DannyBoy443
    @DannyBoy443 Před 4 lety

    Best dating coach ever. Done. I'm not even using her products just videos. No on deep dives like this chick.

  • @andredelaine9171
    @andredelaine9171 Před 4 lety

    Thank you for this video

  • @moustaphadiop6357
    @moustaphadiop6357 Před 4 lety

    God!! this video is gold

  • @johnd3301
    @johnd3301 Před 4 lety

    Preach it sister!

  • @lutaayam
    @lutaayam Před 3 lety

    Learnt a new word, authenticness

  • @paulpapadopoulos7587
    @paulpapadopoulos7587 Před 4 lety

    First time viewer .Great video!!!

  • @jeffhall3044
    @jeffhall3044 Před 4 lety +26

    1) I setup a date.
    2) Get off the phone.
    We will talk about it at the restaurant.

  • @MegaCangrii
    @MegaCangrii Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks so much 🙏🏽

  • @rabindraprasad7463
    @rabindraprasad7463 Před 4 lety

    U r best out there i found ( teacher)

  • @Makonen442
    @Makonen442 Před 4 lety +3

    The answer is simple. Pay attention to personality. If she has low self esteem.. and you have high self esteem. Then obviously that relationship will not work. Simple!

  • @mikebruzi8714
    @mikebruzi8714 Před 4 lety +1

    You’re very intelligent Apollonia.. thank you for being here

  • @anisberoual1572
    @anisberoual1572 Před 4 lety

    Thank you do much this was helpfull

  • @seekingwisdom8
    @seekingwisdom8 Před 4 lety +3

    What you explain is similar to wanting a relationship and needing a relationship. I have become extremely close emotionally with a woman who is a 10 in any mans eyes. Beauty beyond compare, super sexy and sensual. I fell in love with her personality, she is the sweetest woman I’ve ever met. We will finally meet in February. I’ve made it clear I want her, and if we don’t have chemistry when we meet in person, there is no reason to continue our online relationship. She doesn’t understand why and said “you need me in your life”. I told her I don’t need her, I want her and she was hurt. She then explained what she meant and included herself, saying “we need each other...” Then it wasn’t so offensive. But once a woman believes you need her, she loses all respect for you. When you believe you need someone, you lose your own self worth and identity. If the person ends the relationship, you feel like life is over, but it isn’t. I had a wonderful marriage to the love of my life for 24 years when she died suddenly from opioid poisoning. Not an overdose, her body was too small for the minimum dose of meds prescribed, so she never “woke up”. I knew at that moment the heartbreaking feeling of losing someone you need. But that need grew over spending half our lives together, not from seeing her and wanting her.

  • @danielsantana540
    @danielsantana540 Před 4 lety

    Nice video apollonia

  • @shanehixson6706
    @shanehixson6706 Před 3 lety

    Great videos AP. I was a crazy over persurer. But I was happy in all areas of my life except romance. I was scared to death that I was never find love. I idolized all girls I thought were attractive and I didn't think I could be fulfilled without falling in love and getting married.
    I ended up with a bpd. I was codependent.

  • @cobycrisp4605
    @cobycrisp4605 Před 4 lety

    HEY APPOLINIA PONTI, I LOVE YOU

  • @denzilthomasiii2375
    @denzilthomasiii2375 Před 4 lety +1

    I love you apollonia

  • @danielsantana540
    @danielsantana540 Před 4 lety

    Apollonia i may have already said this but once again your so pretty

  • @Brandonkemar352
    @Brandonkemar352 Před 4 lety +1

    That video hit home sheesh

  • @TyeDye622
    @TyeDye622 Před 2 lety

    I've never thought about it like that

  • @SheshagiriPai
    @SheshagiriPai Před 3 lety

    The dress looks awesome on you.

  • @regerbryan
    @regerbryan Před 4 lety +4

    There’s a girl that gave me butterflies and now I’m killing myself trying to pursue correctly. As we speak I’ve conveyed my feelings and she didn’t say no, she’s open to getting to know me and I’m definitely not in the friend zone, next step is to hang out with her in person more

  • @mutungiedmund2355
    @mutungiedmund2355 Před 4 lety +6

    I thank God for 2019, for bringing me love and giving me a God fearing Woman 👩, my child hood friend I have known for 10 years and so so good next year we are doing our introduction and we always bring the best out of each other, love and respect each other and pray for each other every day. And we love each other as individuals and we love each other as a Couple 👫 ❤️ and we thank God for the love 😍 he has given us.

  • @elphusselememoeng3766
    @elphusselememoeng3766 Před 4 lety

    Let me takes this opportunity by Thanking you Sister Apollonia Ponti by taking you job very professional by Dress to kill on each and every video that your doing 😍👌👌

  • @jamesarnold2467
    @jamesarnold2467 Před 4 lety +1

    Im startin to fall in love with this womens knowledge an wisdom for real.... Lol thought id never be attracted to a woman like that but damm! Lol she proved me wrong... 😁🔥💓

  • @freevideos051
    @freevideos051 Před 4 lety +2

    Balance is key.

  • @temitopematthewolusesitemi9609

    Apollonia..... fantastic u

  • @ramahosseini8523
    @ramahosseini8523 Před 4 lety

    i like your everyday video

  • @figarolinkz5535
    @figarolinkz5535 Před 4 lety

    That thumb Nail of you looks so good

  • @albertcorpuz9957
    @albertcorpuz9957 Před 2 lety

    thank you!!!!!!

  • @pablovizcay
    @pablovizcay Před 4 lety

    Knowing the temparement of the person makes all the difference in the world in all things relational.

  • @Justin-or5xe
    @Justin-or5xe Před 4 lety

    You have to have a full and complete life to share your completeness with.

  • @zoozoo6528
    @zoozoo6528 Před 4 lety +5

    should try to make advice with AMS