RELATIONSHIP Q&A | meet my boyfriend (answering all your questions)
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 26. 08. 2024
- RELATIONSHIP Q&A đ meet my boyfriend (answering all your juicy questions) we go over how we met, our long distance relationship, first date story, our views on infidelity, friendships with the opposite sex, plans for marriage & more!
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I'm selena, I'm sharing my journey in my 20's-balancing a 9-5, living alone, self love, health & wellness! I'm a first-generation college-grad, I moved cross-country to washington dc after college to work for the federal government. My channel is all about finding balance and prioritizing the things we love to live a meaningful life! I hope you'll decide to stay, leave a â emoji if you're a real one and you read this!
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this video has been highly requested⊠we finally sat down and answered (most) of your qâs đđ„č comment below your favorite question/topic & If thereâs anything we missed, ask below!
My depression also shows up as irritability. Itâs so nice to hear someone experiencing the same, although of course I donât wish it on you. Itâs lovely how youâre so transparent with your struggles. New subscriber here-love your channel. We need more Latina content creators!
Thank you marina đ€ itâs so hard to explain to folx when they donât experience it. But weâre not alone, and people who love us will try to understand!I agree, we need more Latino/a creators!
Your emotional intelligence shows. Most people expect relationships to be perfect from the get go but you both made effort to learn about each other. Beautiful
Thank you! I def still have so much to learn though đ„°
Like Selena said a relationship takes time, trust and effort to build and come to a stage they are nowâŠjust wanna say lots of blessings to you both..you two are a lovely coupleâšđđŸ
Thank you so much â€ïž
I loooooved this omg đâ€ïž love your and Davidâs relationship, being on the same page is so important and I love your dynamic đ the persistence David had for you is đźâđš I love it. Love you two so much, together and as individuals. You two complement each other so much đđđđ okay Iâm done. Love you
Love you bb â€ïžâ€ïž
This video screams âif he wants to, he willâ
hey, youâre not wrong đ€Ș but plsss keep in mind this is the fruit of our labor!! We invested time( blood, sweat and tears into this 4+ year-long committed relationship! All this to say that, there has been a lot of growth, we are definitely not who we were when we first started dating - and thatâs a good thing đ„°
What does that mean?
This was sooo adorable đ„° I really enjoyed watching you two talking about your relationship journey đ
Ahh thank you girl â€ïžđ„č
I love how you say he was pursuing you, this video was so sweet. God bless you guys đ
You guys are such a cute couple. You can tell the way you look at each other how much you love each other. So happy for you guys that you have found each other.
Thanks so much Jamie â€ïž
I LOVE THIS AND LOVE YALL!! SO SO SO HAPPY I GOT TO SEE THIS ALL UNFOLD. Thank you both for being amazing friends!
Love you so much!!â€ïžđ„č
Y'all are goals!! Can definitely see the love, respect, and admiration for each other! đ
Omg thank you Alma â€ïžđ„č
It was so good to hear from David. I love your dynamic together!
Thanks Danielle đ„°
I just stared watching your channel. I love yalls Chemistry! He has such a calm, supportive personality and you are so transparent and fun and smart. I was also raised in a family with church no alcohol ,no dancing or non church music and my husband of 6 years is the complete opposite which includes dancing, music, parties.. anyways I really enjoy your channel and you are amazing.
Thank you so much Arely đ„čđđ
yo, tell me why I am crying and texting my bf how much I love and appreciate him bc of this video looool- loved learning more about yâall!
Hahaha I LOVE THAT for you đ„čđ„č
I love this!!! You both are so well spoken & your intelligence really shows. So glad I found your channel
Thank you Brielle đ„č Iâm glad you did too, hope you chat more with you soon â€ïž
How has it only been 5 years!? đ± I feel like yâall have been together for much longer! Iâve loved watching yâall grow as a couple! đ
It feels that way too! Aww Suly, i miss you â€ïžđ„č
Love how real you guys are in expressing your relationshipđ€đ€đ€ I admire your hard work and personality! You guys are so funny I canât wait for future videos!!! đ€đ€đ€đ€ love you guys â€ïž
Thank you emerly, grateful for you, love you!! â€ïž
This video reminds me of my now husband and I. We dated for 4 years before we were married. We also met on an app, beginning part was long distance. My husband is also 4 years older than me and I was 21 when we started dating. Take your time. There is no rush. If you know he's the right man, it's okay to take it slow. A steady fast foundation is so important.
Yes I agree!! Thereâs no rushđ„°
Y'all are SO CUTE OMG :D the 2 days of ghosting hahaha i did that to my now BF when we met 6 years ago! And he still persisted and here we are. LOVE IT!!
Relatable! đđ aww yay I love that for you!
@@SelenaTrevino we are very similar haha đ I am very blunt and my bf is pretty reserved so I change my style of communication. I totally was like yepppp she's a lot like me haha love it
@@alyf.6698 hahaha hey, atleast we learn and adapt đ€Șđ€Ș
This is super cute! You guys are adorable. I really enjoyed watching this.
thank you jasmine đ„č appreciate you!!
Congrats on your relationship đ„ș I need my own David lol
Thanks Micah â€ïž hahaha your person will come in the most unexpected way, I promise!!
I really enjoyed this video! This was sooo cute!!!!đâ„ïž I definitely need to see more videos of you two together!!
Hi Lucy, thank you, Iâm so glad you liked it â€ïžđ„č means the world! Of course, David will always be featured when heâs around lolol
No way is David turning 30!! Genuinely wouldâve thought he was early 20s
He is!! He just looks really young #BLESSED đ„čđ©
thanks for doing this Q & A. It was fun getting to know your bf more. I feel like in the videos we don't get to see him that much
Glad you liked it! Yeah, I donât show him as much because 1. I live alone so Iâm not always with him. 2. Itâs my channel & I want to respect my friendsâ privacy â€ïž
You guys are so cute together!! Praying you guys continue to seek God together!!! đđŒđđŒđđŒ
would love to hear how you guys navigated your relationship being believers! and I love the story of how he pursued you so well :)
Hahaha a good question for another day â€ïž
Wait they're christians!!! That's makes so much sense! I was drawn to this channel and I didn't know why but now I do. God works in mysterious ways
Iâm way behind on your videos so Iâm excited to be catching up and finally watching this one! Yâall are so cute!! I love seeing you two happy together â€ïž
Hi Amy! No worries, glad you were able to watch đ„čâ€ïž
Hello! I just found your channel! You are so sweet! I love couple q&a just to know different perspectives and experiences. Thank you both for being so open and cuuuttteee! What part of Oregon are you from? I grew up in eugene and I'm in portland for grad school now.
Iâm from the Portland metro area! But I went to school in Eugene!! đ
Yâall are so cute! I can tell that you care so much for each other. Loved the video! â€ïž
Yay Iâm so glad! & thank you â€ïž
You are absolutely fabulous. What stores do you do your grocery shopping at? Do you ever stock up on anything like soda or water? Can you possibly do some in store grocery shopping videos? It would be awesome if you could show how you do your full shopping
Thank you â€ïž Amazon fresh, Whole Foods, Aldiâs, Trader Joeâs & Costco! I definitely share grocery hails whenever I can!
What a lovely video, Selena â„ïž. Y'all are so cute đ„°... I love your words of affirmations towards David ( I say those same things to my little boy â„ïž), I hope when my son is ready to date, he finds himself a lovely lady, that'll be sweet to him as you are to David. Blessings đ€đ
Thank you, Iâm so glad you liked it â€ïž aww that is so sweet! Youâre a great mama!!
Congratulations on hitting 20K đđŸđđŸđ
Thank you so much â€ïž
GIRLLL he is so in love with you đđ„°đ
he is đ„čđ„č
Y'all are the custest đ„°đ„°đ„° You can see how you both complement each other. I wish you both the very best.
Loved this video! What app did you guys meet on?
Thank you, Iâm glad you liked it â€ïž
loved this! y'all are so cute!
thank you, Amanda đ„čâ€ïžâ€ïž
omg how he looks at herrr đđđđđ
Hahah â€ïž
I bumped onto your channel and guess what I'm stayingâ€ïžy'all are soo cute together
Just made my day â€ïž welcome!!
Congratulations on the 20k!
Thank you so much đ€
David is his name, very handsome and quite loving, good job Selena! He looks like a very young Michael Greyeyes whoâs an indigenous actor but if you look up younger photos of Michael, thatâs how David looks so I was wondering if he was indigenous or not? You guys are beautiful together and I hope everything works out for the both of youâ€ïžâ€ïž
Thank you so much!đ
Aww you guys are the cutest!đ
ahh thank you Mia â€ïžđ„čđ„č
just stumbled on your channel, and so glad i did! †you and your boyfriend are the cutest! and PDX native (born and raised) over here as well! đđ» many blessings to you beautiful, God bless!
Wow small world!! Thank you so much first of all, and blessing to you always â€ïž
So cute!!! Thanks for sharing!
Of course :)
Okay David is cute I need me a David fr đ„ș
Hahahah your person will come :)
Yall are so precious! đ
Thank youâ€ïž
Beautiful couple đ„° I love how u both have respect and love for each otherâŠ..
Thanks Nancy â€ïž
Que bellos ! Que Dios los bendiga đđŒđbeautiful couple âšđ
Muchas gracias đ
Love this
love this video!!
Yay!â€ïžđ„č
You two are sweeties đ
Thank you Miccaa đ„č
I totally understand the not knowing how to dance despite being Latino due to religious upbringing. đ© Iâm learning now too đ
This was adorable . đ„č
Iâm so glad you liked it â€ïž
Please you guys are so cute!! â€ïžđ«
Omg Thank you emme đ„č
I love this!! Iâm 92 like David!! đ đœ and my bf just turned 27 last week hahha weâre the opposite but my bf is the same as David! I loved watching this â€ïž
I def donât sugar coat and my bf does đ too funny
Omg i love that â€ïžđ„č Hahahah
Not you forgetting your own age. Also, đ«ą dating an older man?!!??! WOW. LMFAO I'm totally kidding. so cute how you guys made it work with being long distance and everything. I enjoyed watching this so much. you guys are so cute!
I know right?! Who am I!? đđ it was too early for me!! Thank you bb â€ïž
You two are really cute! And so perfect to each other! Kisses from Brazil
Thank youđ€
Part 2
beautiful couple â„ïž
Thank you Mercedesâ đ„čâ€ïž
Thank you so much for sharing this
of course :)
You guys are the cutest
Thanks girl! âșïž
Good morning Selena happy Saturday morning and happy weekend and happy summer day and I loved your channel and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you
Thank you âșïž
@@SelenaTrevino of course sending you hugs â€ïž đ€
New subscriber - đ you seem very nice and authentic.
Thank you! And welcome to the fam đ«¶đœ
David has to be an enneagram 4 â€ïž
I honestly have no idea haha
I love love this video!!! For sure need more videos of you two.I could relate so much to this video since Im 26 and my husband is now 30 and weve been together for almost 7 years.I cant wait to watch more videos of you in the future!!! đâ€ïž
Thanks Taylor â€ïž wow congrats on your marriage, how exciting đ„č
This is awesome and so true do NOT lose your identity in a relationship and definitely include God đ
Glad you liked it!! Though, no judgement if anyone does lose themselves a little, I think thatâs normal too! We can always do the work to reflect and find ourselves again too â€ïž
Girl does he have a brother between the ages of 22-27? Asking for myself
HAHAHAHA heâs taken sorry
Beautiful couple đ
You guys are so cute đđđ
Omg Thank you đ„čâ€ïž
Hey Selena is it ok to do on online dating like you did â€ïž
i assume your boyfriend was the one who hit on you and asked you out, speaking of my lifelong hatred of how its normally always the guys that has to make the first move, be the one that makes a move and asks the girl out, initiates the relationship, but why do i get the feeling that part of nature will never change
I honestly donât know. Thatâs a good question to talk through with a therapist â€ïž personally, I was not looking for any relationship therefore I didnât need to initiate or pursue. But I always recommend therapy to everyone honestly, great safe space to hash things out!
@@SelenaTrevino so i believe i'm right, he was the one who asked you out, hit on you
So behind on videos, but you guys are so cute.
Omg thank you Kattrina â€ïž
I'm so jealous, y'all are so cuteđ
Omg donât be jealous! No couple is perfect, trust me đ«¶đœ
Come over to Harpers Ferry/Charles Town, WV! We have beautiful nature and much cheaper cost of living đ My boyfriend works for the IRS and lives in Berkeley Springs.
Honestly, weâve talked about making a weekend trip ti WV!! Iâve heard itâs beautiful but didnât know where to visit! So we may have to plan it soon đ„°
So cute đ„°
Thank you Ingrid â€ïžâ€ïž
Stay safe and blessed always
Thank you, you too!âșïž
I knew there was something different about him! Knew he had to be an Apostolic Pentecostal!
HAHAHHA yes
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Thanks for being a real one â€ïžâ€ïž
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I love this video. I want Loveee. Anybody want to my love? Btw I'm 35 single and a Nigerian