How To Use An NLP Anchor?

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  • čas přidán 9. 10. 2017
  • Anchoring can allow you to create a beneficial or prime state very quickly.
    Creating anchors are like creating bookmarks in your mind. you can allow you to fast-track back to a certain state, thought or feeling almost instantly if done correctly.
    Golfers, singers, actors and even solicitors use anchors to be in a prime state for certain reason.
    Anchors are nothing new though. in fact, the whole life is riddled with them. Think about that smell of perfume that makes you think of your wife or dare I say ex-wife!
    What's the song that when you hear takes you back years to the exact time and place the had an amazing experience?
    These are just things that you have anchored Unconsciously. So imagine what is possible when you begin to consciously anchor those thoughts and feelings the actually want and are beneficial.
    Remember, you can't learn NLP by watching videos, reading books or listening to audios. The only way, is by experience and practice.
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Komentáře • 93

  • @zethodderskov
    @zethodderskov Před 3 lety +20

    If you use your favorite tune as your alarm ( 3:25 ). I can promise you, that that tune will not stay your favorite tune.

  • @TheScottGillies
    @TheScottGillies Před 3 lety +5

    The BOOKMARK metaphor in the first 30-seconds is INCREDIBLE!!! That IS what it is! BUT DANG if I never heard those excellent words put together before. Thank you! I will spread this message and credit you!!

  • @kirstentiplady
    @kirstentiplady Před 3 lety +3

    I love that anchoring can be used by self or have someone help you anchor in something and really teach them how to anchor

  • @kyleewilliams99x
    @kyleewilliams99x Před rokem

    Fantastic Mike. I'm loving all these NLP mini tutorials .

  • @tonyosheapoon
    @tonyosheapoon Před rokem +5

    I've just discovered your channel, Mike, and I am really enjoying the clarity and practical approach you offer in your instruction. Thank you.

  • @MeenaAdnani
    @MeenaAdnani Před 3 lety +4

    very practical, to the point and relevant. Great video Mike!

  • @shafiqzee538
    @shafiqzee538 Před 2 lety +2

    Hi Mike --- That was good explanation with appropriate examples. Thanks

  • @philly111
    @philly111 Před rokem

    Thank you for this video, much appreciated!

  • @soulyogaelena6786
    @soulyogaelena6786 Před 2 lety

    Really enjoyed your video! Very well done 👏

  • @Inspiration-ITV
    @Inspiration-ITV Před 4 lety +1

    Nice Visual Recall cue at 1:29! Loving this Mike!

  • @skionen1781
    @skionen1781 Před rokem

    Excellent stuff, thanks for sharing

  • @denitatodd7962
    @denitatodd7962 Před rokem

    Great explanation for using the anchor method!

  • @Seek2Nurture
    @Seek2Nurture Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for your session

  • @GuitarCoast
    @GuitarCoast Před 2 měsíci

    Excellent!

  • @gordienutt4033
    @gordienutt4033 Před rokem

    Great insight into anchoring thanks a lot

  • @brandonvalerino763
    @brandonvalerino763 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Great video!

  • @abhilovesyou
    @abhilovesyou Před 5 lety +6

    This is beneficial stuffff,!

  • @neshasubbiah447
    @neshasubbiah447 Před rokem

    Hey Mike...your explanation is clear and easy to understand..the bookmark which you mentioned, now i can easily relate and try to practise it. Thank you.

  • @timgreenwood5390
    @timgreenwood5390 Před 5 lety +4

    Just finished 4 day NLP Training in Vaughan, Canada and it was great and Mike's video great review of what I learned and even clarified a bit for me. I plan to subscribe and watch regularly as I really agree that practise is key. Thanks, Mike

    • @abhilovesyou
      @abhilovesyou Před 5 lety

      Hi Tim, can you elaborate how was your NLP training. What were crux of what you learnt.,? I m planning to start 1.

  • @mrj.wisteriasgardeningteam9275

    Very helpful 🙌

  • @QueEss222
    @QueEss222 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you

  • @bindumanojkumar638
    @bindumanojkumar638 Před 3 lety

    Well explained 👍

  • @nomoretoxicrelationships7186

    awesome!!!

  • @Andriy_322
    @Andriy_322 Před 2 lety

    Thank you! :)

  • @champyandmorris
    @champyandmorris Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks 😊

  • @tfibby14
    @tfibby14 Před 3 lety +3

    Powerful: PRACTICE MAKES PERMANENT

  • @AvidEric
    @AvidEric Před 2 lety +1

    Very interesting - and also very relatable and understandable with the given examples.
    While this surely can work the issue most people will likely trip over is practice. Something like an anchor isn't set in just a few minutes... I know I could highly benefit from anchors to better deal with anxiety attacks that come out of the blue like a lightning but not only am I missing good mental 'higlights' to choose from which would be strong enough to break my state of mind (due to how my life went with all the pain and traumas) and to be completely honest, while I like to learn about things all the time I'm a bit lazy and procrastinating when it come to actually learning (i.e. practicing) things. Of course, this is all on me and this video is a really good lesson to get started. I guess I'll see in a few weeks months or years if watching this video will have changed something for me or at least was part of a change. Either way, thanks for the lesson!

  • @bchiro08
    @bchiro08 Před 2 lety

    Thanks

  • @gekiryudojo
    @gekiryudojo Před 2 lety

    👍 there you go now you feel better

  • @Nadiahope7
    @Nadiahope7 Před 6 lety +3

    Find your emails & these videos so helpful alongside my distance learning! I will get on your MK course!!

    • @mikesweet5261
      @mikesweet5261  Před 6 lety +1

      Nile and Moon brilliant. There's more coming this week too. I'm really pleased you're enjoying them.

    • @abbeypropertycare8081
      @abbeypropertycare8081 Před 3 lety +1

      I've noticed this works for me when I listen to music

  • @mikesweet5261
    @mikesweet5261  Před 6 lety +7

    Hey Mike Sweet here,
    Hope you like this video on NLP anchors?
    Let me know if you have any questions and I'll be more than happy to help you.
    Lets connect

  • @rzehra
    @rzehra Před rokem

    Amazing, I'm rescued 😅

  • @motherfreethinker
    @motherfreethinker Před rokem

    I am dyslexic among other learning difficulty's I suppose I learned to mask a very very young age and I can read others body language even since their thoughts probably from the time I was 3 years old is when I recognized it that's how I survive, and a rolled full of words many that I don't understand excuse to use the ones that make a difference in my life and others so I can fit in. I guess I feel I'm a master in Neuro Linguistic Programming...

  • @peter768
    @peter768 Před rokem

    Every massage therapist should know this.

  • @Coachjaywilliams
    @Coachjaywilliams Před 5 lety +2

    Great Video Mike, I'm curious what is your lighting and camera setup? thanks in advance.

    • @mikesweet5261
      @mikesweet5261  Před 5 lety

      Hi Jay, I use a Panasonic G85 with a 25mm 1.7 lens. Plus there are 3 LED Light panels. About 9 inch square.

    • @Coachjaywilliams
      @Coachjaywilliams Před 5 lety +1

      @@mikesweet5261 Thanks, what are the makes of your LED light panels?

    • @mikesweet5261
      @mikesweet5261  Před 5 lety +1

      @@Coachjaywilliams Neewer 2 Pack Dimmable Bi-color 480 LED Video Light and Stand Lighting Kit Includes: 3200-5600K CRI 96+ LED Panel with U Bracket, 74.8 inches Light Stand for CZcams Studio Photography Video Shooting 👍🏼

    • @Coachjaywilliams
      @Coachjaywilliams Před 5 lety

      @@mikesweet5261 Thanks I appreciate it.

  • @skionen1781
    @skionen1781 Před rokem

    Interested that reminds of Russian physiologist Ivan Pavlov (1849-1936), classical conditioning is a learning process governed by associations between an environmental stimulus and another stimulus which occurs naturally

  • @christopherlopez9316
    @christopherlopez9316 Před 3 lety

    What's the purpose 9f breaking state?

  • @ceeIoc
    @ceeIoc Před 5 lety +1

    I seem to have a conditioned response to laughter/smiling. Whenever i'm in a social situation and the person I'm talking to laughs or smiles, I get a feeling I am being belittled and so I feel threatened. How do I associate laughter and smiling to be a good thing? Do I need to use anchoring?

    • @alexshin2137
      @alexshin2137 Před 4 lety +2

      ceeloc that seems more like a limiting belief. When you realize that that belief comes up in your head, instantly replace that belief with the opposite and adopt the new belief.

  • @christopherlopez9316
    @christopherlopez9316 Před 3 lety

    Is anchor a positive state or a negative state? Or doesnt matter?

  • @christopherlopez9316
    @christopherlopez9316 Před 3 lety

    How do u anchor habits to eat healthy

  • @TheVeritie
    @TheVeritie Před 3 lety +1

    Can I effectively create two separate triggers for the same state I want to anchor? For example, I like the trigger of tapping on my desk/table - it feels like it would work really well; but if I'm in a meeting or some other public context, tapping the table may seem weird, so I want to use a trigger word, quietly spoken, instead, for the same anchor - for instance, calm, clear thinking in the midst of the stress of an "impossible" deadline. Can I set up both triggers and switch them when I want?

    • @mikesweet5261
      @mikesweet5261  Před 3 lety

      Great question.
      And, of course you can.
      Keep in mind when creating the desired state, you must ensure you prime the anchor while the state/feeling is at its peak.

    • @TheVeritie
      @TheVeritie Před 3 lety +1

      @@mikesweet5261 Great! Thanks so much, Mike!
      Great video, by the way - clear, to-the-point and very usable info. Been trawling through NLP stuff on youtube all morning trying to find something I could use on procrastination that was straightforward, without a lot of preamble (or details not relevant to my needs) and vagueness. You got my thumbs up!

  • @browncatwithblurredbackgro2461

    There was a lady who wore an anchor on her shirt and my coworker called her a bad word. This retraumatized me so I have to try a different word I make myself.

  • @jdsabbath2383
    @jdsabbath2383 Před rokem

    Oddly, I found anchors though “Chaos Magick.”

  • @bluemcneil5883
    @bluemcneil5883 Před 3 lety

    Too vague mate. Create the anchor and fire a trigger?
    We need examples. How do we build anchors?

  • @DreamBlissYT
    @DreamBlissYT Před 3 lety +3

    Hey Mr. Sweet!
    So I just started listening to Tony Robbins' Unlimited Power, and as you may know, at the time he authored this he was using NLP and sharing some of the basics. Among other things he talked about anchoring and triggers. I got enough from it to understand how to create an anchor. But what I want to know is how to I remove or disable (or whatever the word might be) an unwanted trigger?
    In one of his examples, Mr. Robbins talks about how he went to stay st some hotel, and had issues with his luggage. Turned out it had been stolen, He was very angry as a result, in an intense state, and as his wife was there, even though he let it go, by imagining the thief trying on his clothes, when he saw his wife's face later it triggered that anger which he had been feeling back at the hotel. Apparently this is a common issue with many relationships.
    I would like to know how I can become aware of unwanted triggers like that, and how I can break those triggers, so they no longer trigger those emotions, which aren't even relevant to whatever I am experiencing in the present moment. They are things I felt in the past, being triggered presently. That is what I would like to become aware of and then neutralize. I have already learned a lot about old stories, becoming aware of these, supplanting them with a new story that is more positive and supportive. It seems to me that becoming aware of old triggers and supplanting those is the next logical step.
    If you could direct me to any books, resources of videos that teach this subject directly and specifically, I would really appreciate it. Thank you! Also, what is the official name for the process of removing anchors or triggers?

    • @dylanclixby6851
      @dylanclixby6851 Před 2 lety

      I can't explain it myself but try searching NLP Collapsing Anchors

  • @vennela2142
    @vennela2142 Před rokem

    I literally made word happy itself a trigger I realise it now 😂

  • @msjangdivisor196
    @msjangdivisor196 Před rokem

    anyone here wants to join a group community chat with NLP? im from PH. just want to connect with the same mindset people and the same interest
    . Hop on!

  • @StephenNellas
    @StephenNellas Před 4 lety +3

    you're normally organized. :)

  • @PC-ds6zk
    @PC-ds6zk Před 4 lety +3

    Can you use this technique to change subconscious beliefs?

  • @bushidoanis1329
    @bushidoanis1329 Před 2 lety +1

    Can u anchor sthing from an event that didn’t happen but pure imagination ?

    • @mikesweet5261
      @mikesweet5261  Před 2 lety

      Of course you can. As long as you can create a powerful state, you can anchor that. Your imagination is so powerful, build the state effectively and you have the perfect opportunity.

  • @yadusolparterre
    @yadusolparterre Před 4 lety +1

    what if it just doesn't work? I can try to rewire my brain but I'll still be tired and wanting to sleep when the alarm goes off

    • @bravefastrabbit770
      @bravefastrabbit770 Před 4 lety

      You fucking pussy!

    • @yadusolparterre
      @yadusolparterre Před 4 lety

      @@bravefastrabbit770 isn't it past your bedtime?

    • @bravefastrabbit770
      @bravefastrabbit770 Před 4 lety

      @@yadusolparterre You cant even stick to a strict wake up time. Thats completely bitchmade dude! Ima call you out on everything ure being, n by the same token myself on everything im fucking being. I wake up at 03:45 EVERY SINGLE FUCKING DAY NO DAYS OFF, n hit the gym because thats habitual. The second the alarm rings, the second that thought pops up in ur head, SPRING THE FUCK UP, lifes happening for you its toughening you up. Youll be surprised how much this will mean to you. Dont expect to go on youtube and hear/read about it in a book. Vision without action is plain fucking delusion

    • @yadusolparterre
      @yadusolparterre Před 4 lety

      @@bravefastrabbit770 then why are you watching this video cowboy?

    • @arthur1596
      @arthur1596 Před 3 lety

      @@yadusolparterre Ignore this ass, He ain't worth your time.

  • @seanpatrickrichards5593
    @seanpatrickrichards5593 Před 3 lety +2

    Does NLP really work? :/ How do you "anchor a positive emotion or peak state" to something? :O

    • @mikesweet5261
      @mikesweet5261  Před 3 lety +3

      It's not about whether NLP works.
      NLP is the structure of what works.
      NLP was formed from modelling "what works" the structure and the patterns come from that.
      There is no denying NLP works because that's what it is.
      Some call NLP the "structure of excellence." But to simplify, NLP is the structure of what works.

    • @seanpatrickrichards5593
      @seanpatrickrichards5593 Před 3 lety +1

      @@mikesweet5261 Cool thanks! I wanna try it if it works. So like, if you tie/associate positive emotions with habits or memories, it will make them stronger or reinforced? I'll give it a try, thanks!

    • @mikesweet5261
      @mikesweet5261  Před 3 lety +2

      @@seanpatrickrichards5593 only anchor a peak state.
      It's not about just tieing or associating. It's about making a neural connection that fires a response.
      But, get the state you want then give a specific anchor.
      Enjoy the process.

    • @richardbruce8111
      @richardbruce8111 Před 3 lety

      I have followed NLP since 1979!!!! & yeah it works Many of its ideas were rubbished by the psych industry (& teaching) Now most have been scientifically proven CBT studies , brain science etc BUT you MUST have a proficient Programmer ! I have anchored a wonderful intimate occurrence & it still warms my life ! 41 years later!!!! wow extraordinary!

  • @yellowdough2001
    @yellowdough2001 Před 2 lety

    Practice makes permanent … anchor associations …

  • @autumno181
    @autumno181 Před rokem

    dude, you have some inauthentic vibes

  • @rajeshsaw5592
    @rajeshsaw5592 Před 5 lety +1

    no it doesn't work the way you say and other trainers say. I and many people have tried but it didn't work. when we tell this to trainers then they start making excuses and they say that it needs practice and so on. Theory behind anchoring is right but it's not so much simple.

  • @ewakostelecka4419
    @ewakostelecka4419 Před 3 lety

    🤑

  • @Funveda
    @Funveda Před 4 lety +4

    on to 4:30 when are you going to tell me ..cut the crap

    • @Funveda
      @Funveda Před 3 lety

      @@browncatwithblurredbackgro2461 fck u..how about that

  • @dougantelope5013
    @dougantelope5013 Před 3 lety

    Great video!