First of all it was a joke and still if he was serious well then the reason is that they literally have 4 kids together which something there's nthg left to hide so he's confused why his wife doesn't want him to see her when he already saw her multiple times yk so he thought that she's mad at him or something like that
@@lisao7600 It's okay to question it because their normal day to day life is probably that they don't care and change in front of each other. His reaction is pretty normal, I'd worry as well if my partner switched up like that.
@@strawberryfox8819 maybe she has a bloody pad that day that she doesn't want him to see or something. There could be plenty of reasons to ask for privacy for something you typically don't. I realize it was a joke though.
Yup, he course-corrected quite well. The manner in which he did so makes me believe that this couple overall has good communication, and over time have learned things they can so to support each other. He may very well have been putting into action some things that they had discussed in the past, which in the moment he remembered, and thus the course-correct.
In the future, it will be rare for the husband to be the first to have seen her with nothing held back. With the rise of onlyfans, double-digit body counts, online “dating,” and casual hookups, marriage is less of a meaningful concept and largely just a business contract for women to enter in the hopes that they can score 1/2 the assets.
I think it’s ok to want privacy occasionally, even with your spouse. It’s only a problem if they feel the need to hide from their spouse to feel secure with themselves.
@@hobomike6935bro marriage has only taken on a more meaningful concept in the last few centuries, it was business before that. Women rarely had much choice in the matter.
My husband and I say ‘I like you’ which means more to use than ‘I love you.’ We know we will always love each other but there are times we may not like each other.
@deenad3562 normally I also find the prank your partner trends to be off putting and somtimes even cruel, but asking your partner to step out while you change seems to be about as innocent as a prank can get. It be fucked up if she used the postpartum thing as part of the prank, but she didn't trying to manipulate him or anything, that was just him throwing out a guess and then realizing that he doesn't need to understand her reasoning to respect her decision.
@@deenad3562 you must have a fantastic life with no issues or tragedies if you think jokingly asking someone to step out while you change clothes is saddening.
@lucydonohue4919 i see your point and its not the worst prank, but she Did know there could be a postpartum sensitivity issue, and it's it's hard enough for some women to get their partners to sympathize with that appropriately and this sort or yoyo'd his emotions, so as I said that's the saddest part.
Love how you can see him ask a million questions and try to think of answers to them himself instead of demanding you explain. He is as considerate as he is expressive.
Not going to lie I was really looking for like someone commenting on dream Josh because like I legit have had dreams where my husband upset me and woke up upset at my husband and he's just like damn dreamy just can't get his shit together... 😂
Not going to lie I was really looking for like someone commenting on dream Josh because like I legit have had dreams where my husband upset me and woke up upset at my husband and he's just like damn dreamy just can't get his shit together... 😂
@@Briar_Rose_92 LMAO!! It's not the same situation for me as for me it's my brother, but he has woken up upset at me for something that happened in a dream, too!! It's so funny. He did also once have a strong nightmare, but when I apparently in the dream also acted badly, he realized instantly that no it wasn't realistic and this is a nightmare 🥹🫶 And he's called me an idiot in his sleep (LOTS of sleeptalking & sleepwalking).
Such a sweet response start to finish honestly. Immediately obliged, went out of his way to assure security and stability, questioned whether he had potentially done something wrong, and STILL respected her request without arguing. I love love
For real. My self esteem has taken a beating from the comments my husband has made about my appearance during pregnancy and since (I am 3 weeks pp and lucky to get 5 hours of sleep a night, so... 🤷). He's upset about makeup and hair not being done (because, again, see above) and "isn't attracted to me" as a result. Cool, thanks. All the things you don't say to the woman who just had your child. I'm so jealous of women who have these kinds of relationships...
@@Ad_Infernogod, I'm so sorry he's like that. Have you tried telling him about his comments and how they make you feel? He shouldn't be talking to like that PP or not. How you look is not important, you just brought a child into this world.
@@joyc.e.7511 Oh yeah. I straight up told him that what he said to me is, to me, almost unforgivable. I'm... not convinced he cares. He did not respond, never mind apologize. 🤷
@@Ad_InfernoI'm so sorry. That sounds verbally abusive or at least very tone deaf to postpartum needs. My husband and I have been fighting since I gave birth too. I'm struggling with taking care of 2 under 2 while recovering from C-section. My MIL and him have been upset I haven't been cleaning the house enough. I literally just had major surgery, baby nurses constantly, toddler always on the move, and I pump every 6 hours as well. My MIL especially has said very things. I had a talk with my husband and he has been nicer lately. I was honest with him and said it was making me have postpartum depression. Postpartum emotions can be pretty intense.
Am I the only one who thinks he is looking at all the kids in an attempt to validate that clearly he loves her body as it is?? This is too sweet and all the right kinds of support. ❤
I didn’t think he was going for quite that angle, but it’s such a sweet idea. Even if he didn’t consciously think of it that way, he clearly does 💜 You’re so wholesome. Thank you 😊
I thought the same. His brain is going "I've seen you naked at least this many times already, and clearly it's something that I like." Then I thought, yea she knows this and doesn't want to tempt him into making another one. Of course there's also the possible angle that, given the utter chaotic energy of the older boys, she wants him to go distract them while she changes so they don't run in on her undressed.
Loved that he asked the boys to come with a "please" tacked on. MODEL THE BEHAVIOR YOU WANT AND EXPECT. Perfect Daddy! You can tell the kidletts are happy, healthy, loved and contented. If they ain't, they're the best acting family since the Barrymores.
Yes the fact that he thought about the postpartum factor, he really respects what his wife has gone thru. Even tho she is saying it as a joke, his reaction really shows a supportive husband
The fact that he acknowledged she may be experiencing a postpartum moment is something that is so severely overlooked by men and women when it comes to post pregnancy recovery. This is beyond amazing. He’s a keeper. I can’t wait to see the boys as they grow. You’re gonna have some very in tuned young men with a caring and active father like that. You shouldn’t have to worry about their treatment of women when they are older. They have a great example that they were created from.
Him talking himself into doing the right thing is so sweet. Sometimes our impulse tells us to do what we want rather than what others want and i think it says a lot more about a person what they can talk themselves into doing than what they impulsively want to do.
The whole interaction was funny but what made it sweet was when he realized it didn’t matter why she didn’t want him there but that he should just go. ✨ HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP GOALS ✨
Now that’s a caring husband. Most husbands wouldn’t even put forth the effort to think of all the possible reasons why you asked that, and then respect you enough to do as you wished. Congrats girl 👏🏾
He had the right response 😂😂😂because how many kids in and he didn't see nothing that would make him think less of you. But he respects your comfort. ❤❤❤
@@jibarabicha4853 can someone not be excited for something? Maybe your bar. This is just one sample of their experience, you don’t know what it has taken to get there where they are.
❤😂🎉 love how cute this is. Great man for checking in, still listening, and acknowledging her request and following through. Not all men would do this ❤🎉
The switch from “Did I do something-“ *”DID* I DO SOMETHING?” “I did something, huh..” So funny 😂 He answered himself then questioned it right after! Also the “Come on Tribe” was hilarious
Perfect response. I've seen this when guys are fighting it and like no I'm staying. Even if it sounds ridiculous, please respect the boundary 🙏 I hope they respect your boundary too.
The fact he even registered it may be because of postpartum or insecurities whilst the body adjusts after childbirth is so freshing and sweet !! I was laughing away and then it changed to a big awww, genuinely so lovely to see 💖
This guy had the whole argument by himself. 🤣
😂😂😂
A whole Court case with evidence
Eye- witnesses and surprise witnesses
exhibit A,B,C and D
And still lost....
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@D_devil_tail😂😂😂😂😂😂❤️❤️🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️
😂😂😂😂
He respects and loves his queen. This video speaks volumes about their relationship.
No he doesn’t a real man wouldn’t even question it just because she had kids with that boy doesn’t make him entitled to see her body. 🤢
I don't know about that. Why did he even question her wanting him to step out while changing? No one should have to have an excuse for that.
First of all it was a joke and still if he was serious well then the reason is that they literally have 4 kids together which something there's nthg left to hide so he's confused why his wife doesn't want him to see her when he already saw her multiple times yk so he thought that she's mad at him or something like that
@@lisao7600 It's okay to question it because their normal day to day life is probably that they don't care and change in front of each other. His reaction is pretty normal, I'd worry as well if my partner switched up like that.
@@strawberryfox8819 maybe she has a bloody pad that day that she doesn't want him to see or something. There could be plenty of reasons to ask for privacy for something you typically don't. I realize it was a joke though.
He called the whole gang as proof that nothings left to hide 😶🌫️
Also proof that he should definitely leave the room or there will be another one :P (not meaning anything mean btw just trying to be silly)
@@michaelwaffle7393LOLOLLL
@@michaelwaffle7393 Agree tho 😅😅😅.. the twinkle in his eyes looking on her wife is very obvious despite his confusion.. 😂😂
But still he leave cause she said❤
@@MukeshSharma-wu3hn that’s his respect towards her
He went from confused to offended to understanding sometimes women feel a little uneasy about there body changing. It was straight adorable
Yup, he course-corrected quite well. The manner in which he did so makes me believe that this couple overall has good communication, and over time have learned things they can so to support each other. He may very well have been putting into action some things that they had discussed in the past, which in the moment he remembered, and thus the course-correct.
Sometimes people just want privacy, has nothing to do with insecurity.
In the future, it will be rare for the husband to be the first to have seen her with nothing held back.
With the rise of onlyfans, double-digit body counts, online “dating,” and casual hookups, marriage is less of a meaningful concept and largely just a business contract for women to enter in the hopes that they can score 1/2 the assets.
I think it’s ok to want privacy occasionally, even with your spouse. It’s only a problem if they feel the need to hide from their spouse to feel secure with themselves.
@@hobomike6935bro marriage has only taken on a more meaningful concept in the last few centuries, it was business before that. Women rarely had much choice in the matter.
"I'm listening to you" is the sweetest... even sweeter than "I love you"
😅 mmmmm I want the person I’m spending my life with to feel comfortable enough to disagree with me lmao
My husband and I say ‘I like you’ which means more to use than ‘I love you.’ We know we will always love each other but there are times we may not like each other.
@@tessarae9127and then complain when he doesn't listen , women ☕
@@tessarae9127Where did you got from this video that he never does?
@@Schrodingers_Kat I’m disagreeing with the commenter not the video
This was chaotic & adorable. I haven't seen anybody comment yet on why the two boys were wearing their shades 😂
Kids and their imaginative games, who knows 😂
There was serious side plot things happening here 😂
Just a bunch of cool guys 😎😎😎
They’re little kids. Why do they do what they do? Who knows? The sun was inside?….. kids….
They’re little kids. Why do they do what they do? Who knows? The sun was inside?….. kids….
I love that part way through the joke he did acknolwedge her postpartum and was supportive xx
That's the saddest part, that she would even play like this.
@deenad3562 normally I also find the prank your partner trends to be off putting and somtimes even cruel, but asking your partner to step out while you change seems to be about as innocent as a prank can get. It be fucked up if she used the postpartum thing as part of the prank, but she didn't trying to manipulate him or anything, that was just him throwing out a guess and then realizing that he doesn't need to understand her reasoning to respect her decision.
@@deenad3562 you must have a fantastic life with no issues or tragedies if you think jokingly asking someone to step out while you change clothes is saddening.
@lucydonohue4919 i see your point and its not the worst prank, but she Did know there could be a postpartum sensitivity issue, and it's it's hard enough for some women to get their partners to sympathize with that appropriately and this sort or yoyo'd his emotions, so as I said that's the saddest part.
@WaryJester I said "saddest part" which means relative to the video, not my life. Brush up on your reasoning skills.
Love how you can see him ask a million questions and try to think of answers to them himself instead of demanding you explain. He is as considerate as he is expressive.
'Dream Josh strikes again' had me DEAD
Not going to lie I was really looking for like someone commenting on dream Josh because like I legit have had dreams where my husband upset me and woke up upset at my husband and he's just like damn dreamy just can't get his shit together... 😂
Not going to lie I was really looking for like someone commenting on dream Josh because like I legit have had dreams where my husband upset me and woke up upset at my husband and he's just like damn dreamy just can't get his shit together... 😂
@@Briar_Rose_92 LMAO!!
It's not the same situation for me as for me it's my brother, but he has woken up upset at me for something that happened in a dream, too!! It's so funny.
He did also once have a strong nightmare, but when I apparently in the dream also acted badly, he realized instantly that no it wasn't realistic and this is a nightmare 🥹🫶
And he's called me an idiot in his sleep (LOTS of sleeptalking & sleepwalking).
That was the most relatable 😂. My significant other is always like damn dream me sucks
Such a sweet response start to finish honestly. Immediately obliged, went out of his way to assure security and stability, questioned whether he had potentially done something wrong, and STILL respected her request without arguing. I love love
It's so sweet that he even thought about you being postpartum and insecure. He is so sweet.
For real. My self esteem has taken a beating from the comments my husband has made about my appearance during pregnancy and since (I am 3 weeks pp and lucky to get 5 hours of sleep a night, so... 🤷). He's upset about makeup and hair not being done (because, again, see above) and "isn't attracted to me" as a result. Cool, thanks. All the things you don't say to the woman who just had your child. I'm so jealous of women who have these kinds of relationships...
@@Ad_InfernoI'm sorry
@@Ad_Infernogod, I'm so sorry he's like that. Have you tried telling him about his comments and how they make you feel? He shouldn't be talking to like that PP or not. How you look is not important, you just brought a child into this world.
@@joyc.e.7511 Oh yeah. I straight up told him that what he said to me is, to me, almost unforgivable. I'm... not convinced he cares. He did not respond, never mind apologize. 🤷
@@Ad_InfernoI'm so sorry. That sounds verbally abusive or at least very tone deaf to postpartum needs. My husband and I have been fighting since I gave birth too. I'm struggling with taking care of 2 under 2 while recovering from C-section. My MIL and him have been upset I haven't been cleaning the house enough. I literally just had major surgery, baby nurses constantly, toddler always on the move, and I pump every 6 hours as well. My MIL especially has said very things. I had a talk with my husband and he has been nicer lately. I was honest with him and said it was making me have postpartum depression. Postpartum emotions can be pretty intense.
I love this, perfect response from hubby 😂👍
The immediate acceptance, then the confusion, the gentle confrontation, and then the compassion and understanding, UHG so sweet 💕
Am I the only one who thinks he is looking at all the kids in an attempt to validate that clearly he loves her body as it is?? This is too sweet and all the right kinds of support. ❤
I didn’t think he was going for quite that angle, but it’s such a sweet idea. Even if he didn’t consciously think of it that way, he clearly does 💜
You’re so wholesome. Thank you 😊
I thought the same. His brain is going "I've seen you naked at least this many times already, and clearly it's something that I like."
Then I thought, yea she knows this and doesn't want to tempt him into making another one.
Of course there's also the possible angle that, given the utter chaotic energy of the older boys, she wants him to go distract them while she changes so they don't run in on her undressed.
Nope. I agree.
I loved that he talked himself around with no help!
This is what is meant by a protector. He made sure she was okay, put his own preference aside to make sure she's comfortable, listened to her.
The Malfunction 😂 😂 😂
With the eye twitch
Ha! Yes! I was thinking it too! 😂
Loved that he asked the boys to come with a "please" tacked on. MODEL THE BEHAVIOR YOU WANT AND EXPECT. Perfect Daddy! You can tell the kidletts are happy, healthy, loved and contented. If they ain't, they're the best acting family since the Barrymores.
The quick run through in his brain of “oh shoot, DID I do something?????” 😂
Come on tribe 😂😂😂
AND THEN THEY ALL FOLLOW RIGHT BEHIND OMG
It was so cute and funny !! 😂❤
I was looking for this comment 😂
Right? Love it!
The way he called all the kids and then just standed there like "at this point, what's gonna shock me?" lmaooo
Maybe she knows what disrobing in front of him does and she's trying to put off the next one a bit longer... 😂
The fact he really asks if he upset her made me very happy for her.
"Come on, tribe" this is how I'm calling my sister and cousins from now on😂
We called them the herd
Yes the fact that he thought about the postpartum factor, he really respects what his wife has gone thru. Even tho she is saying it as a joke, his reaction really shows a supportive husband
Awww, that’s the perfect response! Confused and concerned but still respecting boundaries, love it
The fact that he acknowledged she may be experiencing a postpartum moment is something that is so severely overlooked by men and women when it comes to post pregnancy recovery. This is beyond amazing. He’s a keeper. I can’t wait to see the boys as they grow. You’re gonna have some very in tuned young men with a caring and active father like that. You shouldn’t have to worry about their treatment of women when they are older. They have a great example that they were created from.
That was actually so respectful of him
This wasn’t even a conversation it was his brain processing out loud
Emotional rollercoaster! Auto pilot, confusion, offense, reason, empathy, respect. He got there eventually ❤
Don't break the hubby he seems like a good one😂😂😂❤❤❤
Him talking himself into doing the right thing is so sweet. Sometimes our impulse tells us to do what we want rather than what others want and i think it says a lot more about a person what they can talk themselves into doing than what they impulsively want to do.
Well said. A mans second thought says much more than his first thought
I agree, well said bravo
Toooooo freakin cuuuuute. The wave of emotions has me rolling 🤣
Wave? That wasa whole carnival of emotions, starting with the roller coaster, going to the haunted house then ending with the ferris wheel lol
“I’m staying” took about 2.5 seconds before he took into consideration she may be worried about her postpartum body. Love the empathy. ❤
What a beautiful, real moment of partnership. And I love the way the son heard dad call himself “dream josh” so he calls his mom “dream sue”
😂
“Come on tribe!” 😂 bro’s a keeperrrrr
“Cmon tribe” 😂
I Love his “I’m staying! Unless you actually going through post- you know, I’m gonna listen to you. Yea we’re leaving” 💜💜💜
He's amazing girl. He listened, questioned , and listened again! PERFECTION
His response was so sweet, im glad he still recognized it as a boundary at the end even if this was all a joke
The confusion is so epic! 🤣🤣🤣
He short circuited for a minute 😂❤
The whole interaction was funny but what made it sweet was when he realized it didn’t matter why she didn’t want him there but that he should just go. ✨ HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP GOALS ✨
Him trying to answer his own questions in his head😂😂😂
This was actually so wholesome. He is obviously a sweet husband. I'm happy for you all. 🥰
I love everything about this. His humor & his respect. Very sweet
Now that’s a caring husband. Most husbands wouldn’t even put forth the effort to think of all the possible reasons why you asked that, and then respect you enough to do as you wished. Congrats girl 👏🏾
Hahah love him malfunctioning thinking he did something wrong 😂❤
The eye twitch is everything😂
This whole video is the reason why yall have so many kids! How amazingly sweet!!!
The man got a whole tribe of one beautiful wife n 4 beautiful toddlers.🥰
May GOD bless them owaz🙏🙏🙏💛💛💛
The “C’mon tribe” was my favorite part. I find it so funny
He had the right response 😂😂😂because how many kids in and he didn't see nothing that would make him think less of you. But he respects your comfort. ❤❤❤
While baby sleeping peacefully through the chaos😂😂😂😂
Not Charlie saying dream sue 😂😂😂 my son sometimes calls me by my name I find it funny xxx
Respectfully considerate ❤ y’all have a beautiful relationship & are wonderful role models for your babies
Considerate for basic human privacy??? Husbands get celebrated for the most common acts of human decency. Shows how low the bar is right now.
@@jibarabicha4853 can someone not be excited for something? Maybe your bar. This is just one sample of their experience, you don’t know what it has taken to get there where they are.
I like how confident he was bringing in the tribe 😂 then he realizes 👁👄👁
That is the chaos energy I want in my household.
They are so chaotic and cute 😂😂❤❤
These four kids definitely come from me stepping out the room whilst you change is what i got from all them kids coming into the room
“Come on tribe!!” Love that 😂
The sheer panic in.. "did I do something?"
He calls them TRIBE😭😭😭
“Cmon tribe!” I love that sm 😭
There are times when I do need some time alone even if it's just for changing and I love that he respects your spaces
❤😂🎉 love how cute this is. Great man for checking in, still listening, and acknowledging her request and following through. Not all men would do this ❤🎉
"Did i do something wrong?" Lol my hubby would have responded that way too
The switch from
“Did I do something-“
*”DID* I DO SOMETHING?”
“I did something, huh..”
So funny 😂 He answered himself then questioned it right after! Also the “Come on Tribe” was hilarious
"Come on, tribe!" I love that so much. 😂❤
Beautiful. Funny, cute, humorous, thoughtful, respectful... beautiful
Perfect response. I've seen this when guys are fighting it and like no I'm staying. Even if it sounds ridiculous, please respect the boundary 🙏 I hope they respect your boundary too.
😂 he's reaction is perfect
"Dream Josh strikes again" 😂😂😂😂😂😂 this killed me
"C'mon tribe!" 😂
He went on such a journey 😂 I love that he ultimately respects what you asked for no matter what he thought of it 😊
That was one of the funniest ones yet! Hes like oh postpartum im gonna listen to you.. LMAO
Not the eye twitching 😂
Mans was fighting for his life at the end there😂😂
He went thru so many emotions 😂😂
Wrong way Jayden 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 you broke his 🧠
I love how the boys were holding hands 😭💙 they remind me of my sweet nephews
Dream Josh Strikes Again😅🤣!!
Love it!
The level of respect the entire time, even when he felt spiteful for a spilt second 😂❤
Aw, props for the postpartum question, retraction, and acceptance to just listen 😅
The amount of communication and thought!!! ❤❤❤
Went through the 5 stages of grief and added a few lol
Gahahahaha the way he flipped back and fourth in the best way possible lol
The little one yelling "I love you!" is icing on the cake!
So respectful and confused 😂
Love the boys holding hands, and the little toddler's kicky leg 😂 beautiful family 😍❤️
“C’mon tribe!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 their boys are adorable lmaoo
He just went through every emotion in one reel😂
The fact he even registered it may be because of postpartum or insecurities whilst the body adjusts after childbirth is so freshing and sweet !!
I was laughing away and then it changed to a big awww, genuinely so lovely to see 💖
It's the DREAM SUE for me haha 😂
Poor Josh, he came so close to enlightenment. Now he'll never know. 😂😂😂
😂😂😂 he was so confused 😅 he had his “Am I missing sth here moment”😂😂😂 God bless you and your family so cute 🥰
crazy to think i started to watch them like a year before they had their first… so sweet to see their beautiful family 💜💜🥺
I love how he realized you might be insecure and was like crap I should’ve thought about it that ❤
two legends walked out 🤣
That momentary panic when he asks, “Did I do something wrong?!” 😂