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- 7 Things That Tell Men You Have Class - Dating Advice for Women
Ever wondered why men pay attention to whether a woman has class?
It's more than just appearances or social status-it's about the deeper qualities that radiate from within. As a Relationship coach, I've seen firsthand in relationships how men are drawn to women who possess certain intangible qualities that signify class. Join me as we explore why class matters and how you can embody these traits to attract the right kind of attention from men.
CHAPTERS
00:00 Topic Summary
00:57 Things That Tell Men You Have Class 01
01:59 Things That Tell Men You Have Class 02
02:40 Things That Tell Men You Have Class 03
03:18 Quick Dating Advice for Women
03:52 Things That Tell Men You Have Class04
04:34 Things That Tell Men You Have Class 05
05:32 Quick Dating Advice for Women
06:10 Things That Tell Men You Have Class 06
07:03 Things That Tell Men You Have Class 07
07:42 Closing
01. Emotional Maturity
Men seek healthy relationships, and emotional maturity fosters stability and effective communication. Handling emotions with grace impresses a man, making him feel you're ahead in emotional intelligence.
02. Pride
How you care for possessions reflects class. Tending to your belongings signals diligence and effort, qualities vital in sustaining relationships.
03. Resilience
Life throws curveballs, and handling them gracefully impresses a man. Showing resilience amidst challenges demonstrates strength and capability.
04. Respect
Demonstrating respect for others showcases your character. Good manners and consideration make a man envision a respectful and caring partner.
05. Modesty
A classy woman exudes confidence without flaunting assets. Leaving something to the imagination ignites attraction and mystery, fostering intrigue.
06. Kindness
Kindness extends beyond romantic relationships. Treating others reflects your character, drawing a man to your compassionate and empathetic nature.
07. Independence
An independent woman values self-sufficiency, enhancing her life with goals and ambitions. Maintaining independence while sharing life with a partner enriches relationships.
These 7 traits signify personal growth. Cultivating class isn't about superiority but creating magnetic energy that attracts men. Focus on self-improvement first.
Ismael Gomez III
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It means a lot to me to see you want to learn about these topics.
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Define hight value? Some of us don’t want money we want class!
I agree mystery is important.
Class was never about being better.
What music is this at the start of your video it is so pretty please let me know
ismael give examples for more clarity plz
It takes a man of class to appreciate a woman of class.
Mic down 🎤
Young women: invest in your growth in all areas, invest in your career, your education, your physical, emotional, spiritual, and financial health, and focus on yourself and your self-love. What you think about yourself is what is important. YOU are the one assessing men; do not settle or wait for men to assess you and choose you. Value yourself and be authentic; do not play the game of trying to make men or any person happy.
For real! Never be accountable for someone else's emotions! That is their job.
Well unless it's a child (like under 8yrs), than as a parent that is your job.
Well said!
Well said!
Well said
Yasss, fuck his opinion!!!
Classy women
1. Emotional maturity
2. Pride (take care of oneself)
3. Resilience
4.Respect -self respect
5. Modesty- mystery
6. Kindness
7. Independence
True,
I do and I dont care if a man like's me fore who I am ,and I dont drink and I try too look afere my self and I am kind too people,yes can be too kind I know,only too well, and I am indepentet,independent, so do a lot off men,
I have all these qualities...then y he is not talking to me
This is a great list for how to get rid of the low class man… do the opposite of this list.😅
@@HeavenlyLightswoman who have these qualities attract men with the same qualities.
Young woman: my best advice: dont lost yourself for a guy... The correct one will love you as you are❤
Facts
Thank you . I needed to see this.
Exactly!!👍
Exactly and keep improving within yourself, raise your own vibration for yourself and you’ll naturally attract high vibration people around you
It is absolutely true .
Excellent tips! As a woman I've learned that religion plays a big part too. When she's close to God and puts Him first she is worth keeping and fighting for. We all have a purpose in life beyond just finding someone, getting married, and raising a family. When you put God first He will give you that wholeness you've been searching for. A man can't complete a woman and a woman can't complete a man. Only God can.
If she is religious she's more likely to be modest and that's what attracts men, it actually has nothing to do with God.
A modest woman reflects her love for the creator . I do modesty because God wants me to be . I cover what needs covering because God wants it that way. It also shows respect for self and it honours your partner . You do not have to look like a bag lady. Look at some of those Muslim women . They are modest but they are Super Sassy .
Showing the booty and the boobs also shows disrespect for the man in your life . Because other men can see the goods too.
I beg to differ 😂😂😂 The most religious people are the worst
Very well said!! God Bless
✨💖✨
Agreed 100%
I don’t really like ‘class’ as a superficial presentation. I prefer deeper values such as ‘integrity’, ‘self control’, ‘responsibility’, ‘wisdom’ etc
Things a woman appreciates about a man-shows he has class. 1. Opens car door. 2. Does not expel gas while he walks around the car to driver side. 3. Picks me up at my door with classy clothes on. 3. He doesn’t leave junk in the floorboard. 4. Picks up the check and leaves a good tip. 5. Doesn’t flirt with waitress or any other woman or especially a man 6. Doesn’t ditch me to go off to do something that I don’t do -like rock climbing. 7. Good hygiene and good sense of humor -total turn off is laziness and rudeness to me or others.
Class is not swearing and behaving like a bogan. Class is being diplomatic and staying above the insults of others.
👍Great statement!
Hahaha must be duped by religious doctrinal upbringing judgment upon Bogan person's 🤣
I agree ☝️
Great summary
1) Emotional maturity. Can you control your emotions and express them.
2) Pride. How.you take care of your body, home, car.
3) Resilience. Can you keep a clear head in the face of adversity?.
4) Respectful of others
5) Modesty. Leaving things to the imagination physically and emotionally.
6) Kindness.
7) Independence
YES, this!
I respect all the advice here but still it's in the eyes of the beholder, its in their personality preferences.. we can't say that men like these or that, different people, different preferences. Some like shy some find it boring. All I can say as a woman is just BE YOURSELF and whoever accepts you of who u are is your right guy.
I agree.
i am all of these yet he never hesitated in breaking my heart by going with a lower class woman. still healing...
Yes, there are no guarantees in life. Maybe he knew he couldn't live at your level all his life and decided to go back to his familiar dog life.
Remember it's not only about who you are, it's about what he values. If you chose a man that values superficial traits over depth of character, then you'll always feel inadequate.
Ya. I've been there too. It almost feels like men don't want classy women.
It's not about how they value you but rather how you value yourself.
Rolls Royce doesn't decrease the price of their cars, everyone cannot afford it, but there are those who can .....
Maintain your value, baby girl. Someone will value you one day. Don't discount yourself for someone who doesn't value you.
Be true to you, He showed you what he was about. You were too much woman for him so he went for low hanging fruit instead of the fruit at the top.
i'm not even sure if most of us need to "change" so much-except when change means to really start caring more for our souls, loving life and living according to our values. The rest will follow
Change that leads to self-growth.
@@SaveTheMessenger okay then i agree.
Guys should have to change too then.
@@dewdrop8626 many of them yes, but we can only do our share and have values and boundaries ; ) That may make some men want to change for the better .
@@CeciledeLuireRead the book "Datonomics" by Jon Birger. There aren't enough men that are willing to do self improvement (most of them are stuck playing videogames, gambling, and being deadbeats).
This guys is selling you a load of lies.
Men don't care about none of those, they just want a cheap prostitute/escort (they'll use a corpse, drugged street walker, a woman unconscious or even their own children, if they can).
Don't believe this guy's lies. You're lower than a prostitute in men's eyes.
The only women men value is their favourite pornstars.
I've observed when women are smart, friendly, beautiful, tasteful, hard-working w/aspirations, well-grounded, connected to God, family & friends, (makes friends easily w/long-term friends,) ... sometimes the wrong guys are attracted to this as a "challenge." Not sure how that 'fits,' nor WHY that happens if all you mention above is accurate?
A classy women is attractive and admired by many men, but not all are eligible. It is our job to identify the men that also have class!
This happened to me. I was often told I needed to be humbled. Until I learned about men like that and narcissism, I know what to look out for now. They would brag about how it's easy for them to pull women like this bc of their "power of seduction." They became so enamored with winning their challenges that they gave themselves away to their very own target. It's concerning, may God guide them.
@@lynettejwhite meaning a guy who is kind and looks after her
When he said, “beautiful” like yes, father, I’m listening 😂🥺 God bless gentlemen.
Yes, FATHER???? wth?
I loved the analogy of eating at a restaurant vs buffet. Very good video. Not sure why it popped up on my feed but I enjoyed it 🤷♀️
You left out one vital point , spiritual strength.
Why don't we make some videos on how women assess men's class also.
Would be a breath of fresh air.😊
My new man says I have class! I didn't even realise. But I AM these things. 😍
Omg. This is so true. I have class!!!!! 🐸
Thank you for all of your informative videos. At 60 I finally met the man of my dreams and appreciate any information to help our budding relationship. ❤❤❤
Congratulations enjoy
🎉❤❤
Let that be me soon…please. Been alone so long
@@SuperDflower if I might make a suggestion--let go of the want /need for a man and concentrate on being a better and happier you. God Bless ✨💖✨
@@deec411 Been doing that for years.
Thank you for your explicit guidance Ismael once again ❤️
This is the best advice coming from a man I’ve heard 2024. Social media has distorted the message we communicate with our outer appearance and superficiality of status. That’s not attraction that leads to the essence of a loving relationship❤
A lot of wisdom coming from a young gentleman. Thank you. Love from Belgium
Im learning about softer feminine energy. This rings true. But these qualities come from deep inner work and connection to God
Also need a man to be equally evolved. In many cases women dont receive the safe space that would aid, bring out these qualities in a woman.
Both work hand in hand
Hello Ismael. I discovered your channel not much time ago and I'm glad I did. Your content is so interesting, useful, synthetic, gets straight to the point, not too long videous so one can't lose the concentration and you convey authenticity, sincerity. Thank you.
Brilliant subject and well executed! 👍 Thanks!
Great advice! Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for the video. I just told myself “I’m just 23 and it’s okay that I didn’t learn these values before, my life and life lessons are just getting started, now is the time I get to learn, it’s not “very later “ it’s actually the “right stage/right time””.
It's the perfect time. You're only 23. Life has just begun.
I watched all your videos and you have really pointed out some things i had not realized, things that happened in my last relationship. Thank you so much for doing these videos. I appreciate you, you do a wonderful job explaining and i am so thankful.
Thank you for this video. Honest, straight forward and informative information. One of the best videos I've watched to describe the traits men look for in a (potential) long-term partner!.
Every thing that you said adds so much to a great and sort after personality. A woman with all these qualities is so respectful and in demand 24 × 7.
Your example of a buffet and fancy restaurant is so apt. First time on your channel and already a subscriber. Great job, great insight.🎉
Thank you Ismael
Thank you!
THIS IS REALLY GOOD...THESE ARE CHARACTERISTICS I WANT IN FRIENDS OR A RELATIONSHIP...
You’re absolutely right at everything you described👏
I tell my man, how that he has made me realize that I have never had a really Manly Man!
He makes me feel so feminine and secure. ❤
Thank you so much for this!!
Thank you very much for putting Vietnamese subtitles
Agree 💯 thank God I'm well rounded
Thank you, i have watched all you
Very enlightening, thank you. .💜
Excellent points. Ismael is very knowledgeable. Please listen and pay attention
Wow you know so much despite your age, Ismael. Thank you for this! It's gonna help me heal faster from my break up.
But he know me nothing in reality.
Appreciate these thoughts
I subscribed to your channel today. I listen to your videos often and they are well said. 👍😊 I agree with a lot of the info.
Welcome to our community. Glad to have you here.
I can relate to all of these facts! 😊
a classy woman shows by their actions, behaviors, characters and their lifestyles. A classy woman also reveals a right upbringings, good moral values and good peers that reflects who they are.
Great content for us ladies!!!❤❤❤
Thanks for your insight
That was great. Thank you
Well ❤ said
This is nice. Thanks for sharing
I would like to suggest that you convey this good advice as if you were telling it in an intimate way, as if to your young sister or a woman whose heart is broken. You obviously have that aspect in you and I think you would have more meaningful responses from your audience.😊. Bless you.
absolutely gd knowledge u r giving 👏 thanks ❤
Wow. Thank you. Please make more videos. They're so helpful.
Thank you, I will.
@@SaveTheMessenger Thank you🫡❤️
Good advice coming from a very young man. Thank you. ❤❤😊😊
I love this section ❤❤❤
Oh yes I am glad Gomez is here ! ☺️😂🌹🎁 Fantastic!! 😻😻
Thanks
You look hundsom with glasses. Class! Thank you very much for another fantastic wisdom👌🌱☀️😊
2:28
Then I'm good to go, thank you for your video. I don't struggle to live all 7, that is my identity👌🔥
Love thisssss
Thanks ❤🎉😊
Excellent advice - but hoping for more detail, such as when you gave advice on the air.
My soul mate says I have all this and is smitten with me.I say he is everything I wanted in my ex but couldn't find and I ❤❤ him so much.don't lose hope but keep on believing there are good ones out there.Love is so beautiful and so good.keep on loving those who deserve it.Even those who don't just give them some ❤️ ❤
to your part 3, you SHOULD tell your partner the things that bother you and just communicate that authenticly. People some don't realize the things we do until someone else tells them. Communication is what women want from men.
Ha! Hit the nail on the head, basically every complaint my partner has with me, fits into one of these categories! Possibly the only thing i have going for me is resilience... #postpardumdepression
You all have these and they still cheat :( but thanks for sharing!
Look for character in a man.
One can never control another person's behavior. However, there are signs when one is dating & if a woman is not lost in the dream of a relationship, character flaws will be evident.
Nothing to do with you though. ❤
Me waiting till he winks 🤭 anyway thank you for the valuable words keep it up ❤😊
I was blessed to have a man I reached out to while going through a wake up call in life meaning my X of 30 yrs found out had been cheating on me should have seen all red flags basically things Ismael mentions on his videos..but tye man from the past has been my healing angel and now he makes me laugh will see if our friendship grows❤Hard part for me I have autoimmune and that is embarrassing for me sadly loosing my pigmatation, make up doesn't help ..
I have more than a few of the positive traits. I have a few of the negative traits.
I'm a mixed class 😀.
If anyone walked into my place they noticed I had class that right away.
Class is not only all the materials things someone owns.
Is the way you carry yourself too .
That is my opinion.
Thank you💫
100% truth
The more relevant problem is finding a man with a class!
Proverbs 31 woman 🥰❤️
Thank you my Heavenly Father Jesus Christ for your gift. I have it all those 7 qualities. That's is why my man attracted to me so much.
Can I add 1 more traits which is playful nature ( being serious when needed)
Thank you for the great advice ❤❤❤
Thanks Ismael for sharing this list. Very helpful. What if a man is not appreciating an independent woman? Is he a red flag?
How would you describe an independent woman? And what things is he not appreciating about that?
At the end Man will seek for the one whose communication skills are constructive in nature.Due to high divorce rate , man don't want to remarry again ...
Feminine energy. Grace. 🕊️ Gratitude. Humility. Warmth. 🌷🍃
Love your videos Ismael! 😊🦋
Lluvia de Bendiciones desde Suecia! Endless Blessings from Sweden! Shine on. 🌷🕊️🇸🇪
The man who will loves u truely u dont need to do any efforts with him to be this way or that way just be yourself ❤
Yes true thanks
Im watching this because a woman of class, who is interested in men, would only care about men of class.
Lets see what you have to say.
I have class my friend is crazy and wild but yet the guys chasing her
She is being chased by the wrong men don't worry
They not real manly men !
They'll chase her but probably won't marry her. Who wants a wife everyone knows😉
Don’t listen to these other ppl. A man will absolutely marry your friend if they value her personality and light heartedness. Men love women they can have fun with. It’s up to her though whether she wants to accept a marriage or not.
There are also men out there who prefer a more quiet and reserved woman.
You just need to go where the men are they you’re actually attracted to who are actually attracted to YOU. Also learn how to enjoy your own company. Stop worrying about what everyone else is doing. You’re different and that’s okay but don’t play the comparison game.
Just scratching the surface of storytelling and video creativity here. VideoGPT made its way into my workflow, discreetly refining my content and adding that extra sparkle.
Make videos on what women like
These are the traits I look for in a classy man too 🤔
Getting to know you stage I'm very shy😊
Dito for males
One time having lunch w-mom...a older couple said to her...your daughter is refined lady ? (Is that same as class)
Indeed. Being refined is classy.
⭐️👍Oh wow⭐️👍
I am meeting a man i like should i give him a hand shake or not i like to give a hand shake but i am afraid if he refuse to shake a hand ? Whats ur thoughts
Be in your feminine energy and let him guide the interaction. Simply smile and say "Hi". Let him decide if he wants to shake your hand or give you a hug.
I have class ❤
6:38, so if I had abusive parents and toxic parents and did not have a good relationship with them, I would be doomed, and according to this, I would have no class either. I see
There is no comparison of family members with others, we truely love our family members, how we behave with family members is totally different from outside world. U can't say that if someone is behaving in a particular way with outsiders will behave the same way with family members. Family members r the most important for me, for them I can die in less than a second.
Gotta look pretty, think pretty and then act pretty.
Yeah. Not a good house keeper at the moment. But im very kimd. Many misinterprete it.
All my class went out the door when I was in survival mode..don't tell me I don't have class. Ass .and whose worried about some man at this point
Same here 😮.
I feel you.
Good advice but what if a man the u been in a relationship with for 2 years going on to 3 years tell u that u playing hard to get
That I gave class
Good for you. At least you know how to act
I wore a t-shirt with fcuk on the beach ,😂😂😂😂oh im so classy🤣🤣🤣
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but I couldn't just let her go I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach her?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive
You are wasting my time, I’m done .