Finding A Job That Doesn't Give Me Anxiety

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  • čas přidán 9. 09. 2024
  • Finding the Right job with anxiety can be difficult. Trust me I would know. I suffer from overwhelming amounts of anxiety everyday. I tend to look at things in a fearful light. My mind always seems to go to the negative first. It's an ongoing battle but i'm learning more about my mental health condition everyday, and taking steps to improve myself. This may take some time but I'm willing to put in the effort to get myself back on track of a happy, healthy mind.
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Komentáře • 93

  • @taylorjane2607
    @taylorjane2607 Před rokem +34

    Taylor you should apply for a security company! I’ve been working security for about 7 months now. It’s super easy. And I have extreme anxiety and social anxiety. My company works with several different contracts so you have the flexibility to move to different sites if you don’t like the first place that they place you. My husband sits in a guard shack and lets trucks in and I work security at an Amazon facility and I only watch metal detectors and check bags. Super easy low maintenance job that I think would help you bring money in without the anxiety of a customer service job. ❤ I used to come home crying everyday that I worked in retail or restaurants & I don’t experience that anymore.

  • @sophiajessicaa
    @sophiajessicaa Před rokem +14

    Taylor! I’m a teachers assistant, and I absolutely love the kids. I also have anxiety and hate going out and doing things, I’m in the same boat as you. Praying for you and comfort. ❤️

  • @melissamuz
    @melissamuz Před rokem +4

    It is kind of comforting to see that a strong, successful woman like Taylor struggles with the same things I have. Up until about a year ago i was going through very similar emotions, struggling to find a job whilst coping with anxiety - and then starting a job and still having that anxiety every day. I'm very lucky that my partner's boss offered me a position where I can feel comfortable and he understands. I don't feel anxiety about coming to work anymore. I hope you find your place where you don't have to argue with your brain every night/morning before work too ❤

  • @paulahillman1100
    @paulahillman1100 Před rokem +8

    This is literally me everyday at my job, a lot of people just don’t understand mental health.
    It’s been bad lately and I work 6 days a week and going through other stuff, nothing but anxiety all day… I literally cry in the bathroom and have mini panic attacks every week… it’s so tough sometimes… I feel like I’m a slave to money to pay for a place that I’m barely ever at… it’s so sad and makes me feel depressed a lot. ❤
    Sending love

    • @GlitteranGold
      @GlitteranGold Před rokem

      That’s horrible I understand how that feels. I have bad mental health also an I’ve had way to many bad experiences at jobs. The bosses an managers of some places never even gave me a chance one time a boss let me go in a day another got rid of me after a whole week of working there. So I’ve given up working for others. I’m not getting treated with respect there bullying and bossing me around way to much favouritism. I’ve gone through this with 5 jobs already. So I’ve decided to get my own business going an be my own entrepreneur. I’m done putting up with bosses and managers that don’t see the potential in me.

    • @brendad940
      @brendad940 Před rokem

      I'm so sorry. My anxiety stops me from even leaving the house a lot more as the years go by. Thinking of starting therapy, actually have an appointment Monday, whether or not I actually make it is another story. You guts definitely aren't alone.

  • @EverythingKait
    @EverythingKait Před rokem +8

    When I quit my last job, I was sobbing because I said I had to quit for my mental health and all my new manager said after was “can you still take your next meeting” I totally understand and empathize with this video. It is tough but there’s always a rainbow

    • @TaylorSkeens
      @TaylorSkeens  Před rokem

      That’s a terrible manager😣

    • @EverythingKait
      @EverythingKait Před rokem

      @@TaylorSkeens he was the worst!

    • @Badfishtooo
      @Badfishtooo Před 11 měsíci +1

      You bailed on him, but HE is terrible for asking if you’ll do something you said you’d do? 🤔

    • @EverythingKait
      @EverythingKait Před 10 měsíci

      @@Badfishtooo I didn't realize I'd have negativity but I was very vague about my meetings. It was a sales job so anyone else could've easily taken the meeting. But don't worry I didn't bail I gave them two weeks and they let me go that day. Nice talking to you😊

  • @thegirlyouhaventmetx7717

    I haven’t gotten through the entire video. I’m 22 years old about to be 23. I’ve only had one job and been working there for 4 years!! 😭retail. I’ve grown so comfortable that I can’t let go and get anxious at the mere thought of looking for another job or getting into a 2 year program to study.

  • @justcallmecraycray7671
    @justcallmecraycray7671 Před rokem +27

    This is so relatable to lots of people 🤍🤍

  • @elizabethgiliberto8932
    @elizabethgiliberto8932 Před rokem +13

    It's too easy to end up at a job you don't like. But once you find the one for you, whoa.. So much anxiety alleviated and so much relief swept over you.

  • @Cassandrareads
    @Cassandrareads Před rokem +3

    I’m a teacher. Working with kids is amazing. You’ll do great :)

  • @tanyag295
    @tanyag295 Před rokem +1

    I became a mum at 17 so never really had the chance to think about career or have a real job until my 2nd was old enough. I went straight into retail and it was hard! I went from not being able to speak on the phone to having to talk to strangers and co workers for hours each day. I was riddled with anxiety and it made me sick to my stomach every time I knew I had to go. I was blessed with a really awesome manager who understood my struggles and really helped me adapt to working and being social in the 'outside' world. Once you find the right job, over time it won't feel so hard! Interviews will still be scary and facing new challenges will always terrify me but I was able to move onto 2 different jobs and although sometimes I still feel sick for no reason but knowing I'm going to work, it's feeling more natural now. I still have no idea what I want to 'be' but just gotta go with the flow. I hope you're able to find the right fit for you and will enjoy working cause sometimes you get to make really awesome friends and that's hard to do as someone with anxiety in general. Best of luck with this new role! I think it sounds like it suits you great 😊

  • @WyntrBry
    @WyntrBry Před rokem +1

    I’ve never seen another CZcamsr do videos like this before, and I love them. Proud of you, girl. I’m hoping your platform keeps GROWING AND STOPS NOT SHOWING YOU TO EVERYONE. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @entesma
    @entesma Před rokem +2

    I have horrible anxiety and depression. I went through SO many jobs the past two years because every place I was at I just didnt feel accepted or welcomed. I have worked since I was 17, and it took me such a long time to finally find a job I really enjoy with people I really enjoy. But the panic attacks before work at my old jobs really really did a number on me. A tip I found, don't hesitate to find a place that you feel welcomed. I know money is tight and that really makes it all the more stressful. It can take years! Job to job to job makes you feel worthless like you cant do anything right like every job just doesn't click. If you do find a food service job, I know a kitchen SEEMS scary, it was scary when I started mine. But its way less stressful than working with the customers. You will find your place and find what works best for you and I know you will, it could just take a long time and seem overwhelming. But You've got this! I may not be able to relate to the whole not working a job at all till I was older but I do relate to job anxiety and knowing that its a struggle and its hard as hell. Been watching you a long time, and I really hope you find what works for you. Love you Taylor!

  • @AmberlynTucker
    @AmberlynTucker Před rokem +1

    I've spent years of my life impulsively trying to get jobs to pay bills and ended up in some of the worst work environments I could've ever imagined for myself. Definitely never do that. Honestly, I would suggest you look for remote positions. Because of your time on social media you probably would qualify for most social media manager positions, video editor positions, etc. Also there's plenty of online Customer Service if you're okay with that. Conduent, Sykes, Working Solutions and more offer decent pay for work from home. Working Solutions you are a W2 worker and set your own schedule. I did it and worked for Sylvan Learning thru them for ages and it was really nice. Minimum of 20 hours a week, set my own schedule. I would schedule myself in 30 min-1hr brackets and then take some time off between so I could have a reprieve. Work in bursts.

  • @rosex4207
    @rosex4207 Před rokem

    hii taylor i’ve been watching your videos for years now. you’ve always been a comfort youtuber of mine, and to see you doing videos like this is so comforting. i’ve been unemployed for ab a year 1/2 & i’ve been applying to so much jobs but i have been getting rejected or ghosted by them & it’s very hurtful especially w my anxiety but seeing you do this means a lot and also makes me feel like i shouldn’t give up . sending all the good vibes btw i hope the job goes well ilyyy 🤍

  • @rachhhnicole
    @rachhhnicole Před rokem +2

    i love these videos. so good to keep it real & so many of us can relate to your feelings

  • @imogeninnit
    @imogeninnit Před rokem +1

    Goodluck Taylor! You’ll make a great teaching assistant, I hope you enjoy it ❤️

  • @jillianb825
    @jillianb825 Před rokem

    I had those “sunday scaries” for two jobs I have had (though it’s not just reserved for Sundays!). One was being a server (I’m a terrible server), the other was a terrible toxic startup. I had to prioritize finding something else, I was getting physically ill from the stress. I eventually found something pretty great and though there are hard days always, I’m not reduced to tears or feeling sick from the stress. Keep trying things until you find something you love (or at least like enough haha). It took me some time and some trial and error to figure it out, so don’t worry you will. You are just at the beginning of your journey.

  • @emilyb5651
    @emilyb5651 Před rokem

    I totally get how you feel girly!!! Based on my experience and how I’ve been with jobs a work from home customer service position might work best for you! But at the same time it could be isolating if you’re not really meeting people… I hope this job goes well for you!! I love seeing your journey!! I have anxiety too and food service just makes it so much worse!! I once worked at a cookie store and I was literally having nightmares about it… BUT retail in my experience has been less stressful depending on the size of the store and what the responsibilities are the only issue would be making the wage you want since it varies… I’m glad you got another job and I hope this one makes you happy if not I know you’ll find something that will!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @JanetDragamore
    @JanetDragamore Před rokem +1

    I'm glad you got the job, I work at a school too and trust me you're gonna have your good and your bad days but having kids run around especially kinder and 1st grade they make the job worth it

    • @TaylorSkeens
      @TaylorSkeens  Před rokem

      So true! I love watching them interact and grow 🥹❤️

  • @Ivy4president
    @Ivy4president Před rokem

    This is SO AMAZING THAT I'm not alone! Oh My Gosh, I thought I was the only person. This has helped me soo much not even sure how I got to see your video it's a hire power thing. I haven't worked in years, your doing so good I can't control my anxiety enough to even apply for jobs. My advice give yourself more credit, love yourself and know your better than what makes your anxiety tigger. I'm going to take my own advice. I can't do anything either. Wow thanks for sharing I will be following. Good luck

  • @navywifehealthy4ttc
    @navywifehealthy4ttc Před rokem +1

    I feel like this with EVERYTHING! it sucks and I wish I didn’t feel this way all the time. 😢

  • @ieattires9928
    @ieattires9928 Před rokem

    Been watching you a long time, and you're a strong person, I send positive vibes you way! And that go for anyone and everyone else suffering through battles of mental health . :)

  • @GlitteranGold
    @GlitteranGold Před rokem

    This is how I feel to Taylor. You described this video perfectly.

  • @dianas.86
    @dianas.86 Před rokem

    Thanks for posting updates! In the same boat as you. Praying for you, good luck!!! You got this!

  • @bec6089
    @bec6089 Před rokem

    I just finished my first shift today, and half way through it I said to myself I can't do it. Then my body started to ache and my head then I felt faint. My anxiety in the morning is out of control where I'm visiting to toilet too many times to vomit. I use to be happy at my old job, then something changed and now at this new job, I'm not sure if I'm happy. Got another shift tomorrow, I just wanted to vent and put this out there. Thanks

  • @Godsseed2
    @Godsseed2 Před rokem

    You’re gorgeous! You got this! Happy for you hope you enjoy the new job!❤️

  • @R.I.-sv8zb
    @R.I.-sv8zb Před 11 měsíci

    نفس المشكل لمدة ثلاثة عشرة سنة ولكن منذ شهر أوت لم ألتحق بالعمل ،الدوام متعب نفسيا وجسديا ....ولكن اقتناء سلع وبيعها بنفسك يعني التجارة أهم شيء سواء ربحت أو خسرت الحمد لله على كل حال 👍

  • @sofiaiannantuono634
    @sofiaiannantuono634 Před rokem

    Related a lot to this….. When I had a part time job at Panera I used to get so much anxiety before going to work…Even my dream job I finally have I still get anxious.

  • @raphaeltiriel858
    @raphaeltiriel858 Před rokem

    I hope you find a job that supports your needs. I don't know if anything has changed, but I remember you wanted to be an actress, and if that is still your goal then try and find job that might provide that opportunity. For example, hypothetically, if I am very successful as an author then I might need a secretary, and that might provide that opportunity for you goal of being an actress. Nonetheless, I hope all works out for you and positive thoughts for you.

  • @alissataylor9596
    @alissataylor9596 Před rokem +1

    One of the first here❤️🤍

  • @caitrose6133
    @caitrose6133 Před rokem

    The best videos are the relatable ones

  • @amykins812
    @amykins812 Před rokem

    Girlllll I struggle with daily anxiety with my new job. It requires me to travel city expressway interchangers. It takes all I have in me not to cry hahaha.

  • @Xxxxxxoxx
    @Xxxxxxoxx Před 10 měsíci +1

    Taylor you still around and if so how are you doing ?

  • @boutwithinsanity
    @boutwithinsanity Před rokem +1

    Why did you delete all the comments you didn't agree with?

  • @gracepower180
    @gracepower180 Před rokem

    This is so relatable ❤😢

  • @md.rihanrihan5195
    @md.rihanrihan5195 Před rokem

    You described this video perfectly.

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa Před rokem +1

    Hi Taylor good morning happy Thursday morning and I hope you having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

  • @RaidingRainbow
    @RaidingRainbow Před rokem

    This is what I commented on your last video!! I think you would work so well with children!

  • @bellaangus1213
    @bellaangus1213 Před rokem

    Congratulations!!

  • @chlomonayy
    @chlomonayy Před rokem

    We love you, keep on going!

  • @ITSTHEANGELGUY
    @ITSTHEANGELGUY Před rokem +2

    No audio

    • @TaylorSkeens
      @TaylorSkeens  Před rokem +2

      I think because CZcams was checking for copyright. How about now? 🤔

    • @ITSTHEANGELGUY
      @ITSTHEANGELGUY Před rokem +2

      ​@@TaylorSkeensYep, its all solved now! ;)

  • @rebelbelle1039
    @rebelbelle1039 Před rokem

    I’m currently job hunting again I work at a weird shitty job and I can’t do it anymore

  • @tiffany8815
    @tiffany8815 Před rokem

    Hey girlie! I'm currently working as a Paraprofessional which is a step above a teacher's assistant. Would love to connect & give you pointers! I'm going through my Bachelor program currently to become a teacher. Best of luck to you! I think you'll be great. ❤

  • @RandomLifeOfAstrid
    @RandomLifeOfAstrid Před 11 měsíci

    Update???

  • @ZZCool123
    @ZZCool123 Před rokem

    Job suggestion: Why dont you teach social media course for new content creators?

  • @Lanully.
    @Lanully. Před 10 měsíci

  • @fraishe7284
    @fraishe7284 Před rokem

    Me all my life, anxiety sucks...

  • @taylynn7421
    @taylynn7421 Před rokem

    What job did you pick?

  • @vikingjedi573
    @vikingjedi573 Před rokem

    Security officer working night shift is about as easy as it gets.

  • @user-lk2lb6yc7b
    @user-lk2lb6yc7b Před 6 měsíci

    ❤❤❤

  • @kelseagail_xo
    @kelseagail_xo Před 8 měsíci

    This is me to a tee.

  • @THCmommy94
    @THCmommy94 Před rokem

    Why did you delete the other video?🥺

  • @GraceWithGarcia
    @GraceWithGarcia Před rokem

    Hey Taylor, Jesus can free you from anxiety and depression. He is always with you even during the roughest of times no matter how bad the anxiety is or how bad the depression is Jesus is with you and he loves you so much and wants to free you. He will, feel free to reatch out or look into deliverance Ministers and to understand spiritual warfare. Good ones to look into to understand it are Pastor Isaiah Saldivar and Pastor David Diga Hernandez. Sent with much love ✝️❤

  • @mikerosing8202
    @mikerosing8202 Před rokem

    Are u ok Taylor

  • @JerryScroggin
    @JerryScroggin Před rokem

    I would like to see a video of you interviewing at the worst rated employment agency in your city. I think it could be fun for you and funny for us (me!)

  • @thefadedone8192
    @thefadedone8192 Před 11 měsíci

    In 6 months you'll be with a new dude, in a new living space, still looking for a new job. I know it's a POS comment but it's my prediction based on watching you for a few years.

  • @Mofo0101
    @Mofo0101 Před rokem

    Love you !

  • @AILOOKBOOKLOVE
    @AILOOKBOOKLOVE Před rokem

    Good Taylor. I love you

  • @ClayDabbler
    @ClayDabbler Před rokem

    OF I'll sub

  • @joshuaharris2022
    @joshuaharris2022 Před rokem

    viral video alertttt

  • @ashlyn1106
    @ashlyn1106 Před rokem

    Why is there no sound?

  • @samanthamoore5961
    @samanthamoore5961 Před 10 měsíci

    You should really stream playing video games like rust console or pc and fortnite

  • @rockymtmal
    @rockymtmal Před rokem

    Young, healthy, beautiful and a comedian. How bad could things get?

  • @rachelr.n.3563
    @rachelr.n.3563 Před rokem

    I don't know why you just didn't continue with CZcams
    You had to be making good money! You had a million subscribers at one time. Teacher assistants don't make a lot of money.

  • @rabeckahheiliger7409
    @rabeckahheiliger7409 Před rokem

    you should try at home jobs and see if that helps in any way

  • @andimarie1718
    @andimarie1718 Před 10 měsíci

    I wish we knew if you're OK❤

  • @capric0rpse
    @capric0rpse Před rokem

    Call center work is good, work from home!

  • @mikerosing8202
    @mikerosing8202 Před rokem

    Please. I hope. U r ok. I hope u get help that u need.

  • @biggj21
    @biggj21 Před rokem

    1:55 ❤😂🎉 wth

  • @purpleclaws202
    @purpleclaws202 Před rokem

    I'll be honest i wasnt a fan of you pusbing your Christianity in your new videos. But i put that aside and decided to support you especially since it also makes you happy.

  • @ghhuuhh
    @ghhuuhh Před 11 měsíci

    Can I make your thumbnails

  • @lizpelletier2322
    @lizpelletier2322 Před rokem

    Im super annoyed that you dont play young Ginny in the show Ginny and Georgia 😅

  • @urmystar28
    @urmystar28 Před rokem

    Adulting sucks! Can u do an Omegle video 😅

  • @hashy0x43
    @hashy0x43 Před rokem +1

    Saying they can't afford $256 a week is absolutely absurd.

    • @GlitteranGold
      @GlitteranGold Před rokem +1

      How is that absurd. Not all of us are born rich. Sometimes it’s hard to come by. Inflation is a real thing not all of us are born into royalty?

    • @hashy0x43
      @hashy0x43 Před rokem

      @@GlitteranGold I'm referring to the company.

  • @user-oy8mc2vf9x
    @user-oy8mc2vf9x Před 10 měsíci

    Супер 👍💛💛💛😂

  • @SmokingOnKeisha
    @SmokingOnKeisha Před 9 měsíci

    i commented this on your last video too! doordash! i make an easy $1200-$1400 a week. the most anxiety free “job” i’ve ever had.