Opening Up About Our Mental Health.
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40 secs ago!
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Hi!!! Love ur vids!! ( I was the 5th like)
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Yep
Harper crying made me cry!!!!! Her reaching for Kate is the sweetest!!! 😭😭😭😭
25:31
Sameeee
SAME
I was crying when she reached for her also 😭😭
i was just about to comment that ❤️ it was so sweet and really showed how much they really love eachother ❤
i love how mav and kate opens up about christianity and gives advice and talk about it. love this podcast so much
same!!!
Same!
As someone who doesn't really believe. I like that they do that.
This episode made me cry. I'm so happy they opened up to ppl. I love your guys' channel so much and am so glad of how relatable it is. I used to constantly live in fear of like a shooting or bombing while out in public like Kate was explaining. It's way better now, but I still get scared sometimes. Thank you guys so much for being relatable and spreading your love! 💗
Props to Mav for taking how Harper was feeling seriously, Giving her advice and respecting her enough to say it could be cut if she wanted it. Seeing the soft side of him makes me look at him differently. Love you guys ❤️
I know! His relationship with Harper is everything❤
Fr though! ❤️
Fr it was so wholesome ❤
Fr❤ and btw 900th like
Fr though support for Harper
👇🏼people who think Kate would be an amazing mom
Yesss
She doesn’t wanna be a mom stop asking
Yesssssssssssss
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@@betsyferg458 OK you could be nice about it she’s just asking a simple question like this is not even going to happen
I just wanted you guys to know this podcast meant soooo much to me!! I can relate sooooo much to what Kate said!! I’m 15 and 3 years ago my dad passed away to a brain tumor… I was completely devastated and so mad at God… I juts felt like it was so unfair how God chose to take him away from me instead of letting him stay… about a year after he passed it really sunk in that I only had one more parent left and that if something ever happened to my mom I wouldn’t have anyone left… this thought cause me soooo much anxiety that I wasn’t even ok to go to school cuz I would sit in my desk and freak out that something was going to happen to my mom and I would nvr see her again… these feeling went on for so long and I went into a sort of depression… my mom found a counselor for me and I went to her for a while… after this I went on anti depressant which really helped… I started to seek God out more and slowly got off the medication… it’s about two years later and with Gods help I am no longer trapped in those thought patterns!! I juys wanted to thank you especially kate for what you shared!! It meant a lot to me and I just want you to know keep trusting in God even when everything feels unclear he love you and cares!! Thanks again❤
Aww I'm glad that u are good now god bless you❤❤❤
Kate really help me because I have been dealing with the same thing for at least 3 years and she helped me get through it and think of anxiety a different way
The way kate hugged and comforted Harper had me in tears
Kate will be a amazing mum to any of her furture children
It had Me in tears to ngl
For real ❤
I cried when she cried 😭
Who asked + my content is better and beyond Marvelous. The opinion that you have does not matter, Cry me a river!! LOLL
@@ville__ buddy no one cares your annoying and your 'content probably sucks
“This is so embarrassing” no this is real. This is what every teen girl needed to see. Someone that is so fun and energetic. Tell her actual story.
Yes Fr every teen girl will relate to Harper it’s totally normal to cry
@@randoms.vidsxxand teen boy
True
True like frrr I relate to her so much
I completely agree with Harper. Everyone has their own, sometimes completely different mental health journeys and experiences. I don’t suffer with ocd, but so many other people do and appreciate this episode for spreading awareness and making a safe place for anybody. Everyone has struggles. For example I suffer with adhd, anxiety, and depression. But there’s so much more out there and so many experiences and different people and challenges. Love you guys!!
My favorite epesode… I struggle with multiple mental illnesses and this makes me feel so good that people are talking about their mental heath in such a public place and feeling safe sharing it
Yeah same ❤
I hope you’re doing alright
the way the second harper put her arms out kate instantly pushed her mic aside and ran to harper to comfort her warms my heart.
I love Kate for that
@@Jan-vp8jzJesus loves you ❤️ and the only way to heaven
@@Jan-vp8jzikr but I js love Kate in general (and harper)
I love Kate for that fr she is so kind and ngl I got emotional and cried when she was hugging Harper
Yea
I'm not kidding but Kate, your so kind. If you ever thought to have children, you'd honestly be the sweetest mum :)
i acctually cried while harper was crying, i was 13 when i got severe OCD to the point i didnt want to live anymore, im now 15 and still struggle with it
I love how Harper shared her story. I know that things like this hard. I have a similar situation. I have dyslexia and am in 10th grade and still struggle when it comes to reading. It takes all of my classmates 30 minuted to read a chapter that has about 20-25 pages, but takes me almost an hour. We often read in class and snake around the classroom and every time it's my turn to read I get really anxious and scared. I'm to scared to tell the teacher that I don't have to read in front of the class because of my accommodations, but its to embarrassing to do. I've been struggling with this all year and only have 3 weeks of school left and still haven't told my teacher anything. I feel like I'm constantly being made fun of. I have one close friend that also has Dyslexia and we are always trying to help each other. I wish I had a friend that is older than me that is like Kate. That was so sweet of Kate and I just know how much Harper needed that right their in that moment. Kate is going to be the best mom one day.
You can just tell by the way Kate comforted Harper when she was crying that she is going to be an amazing mom
Edit: tysm for 1.5k likes! Never mind it’s 1.8k now
yea you can
That's what I'm saying
FR
Yes we love Kate and haroer
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Harper:crying
Kate:comforting her
Mav:comforting her
Cash: "Is ThIs ThE WrOng TimE tO bE wEaRiNg aToIlEt SeAt?"
tbh cash was doing too much 🥱
But he was tearing up so
Cash is soo ummm something 😂😂😂
Of course you had to make it about him
You are so so funny 😂🎉😅😊
I love how Mav references to so many Bible verses showing his knowledge of how Jesus loves each and every one of us. ❤
Thank you Harper, honestly... I personally don't struggle with OCD although I have a boyfriend of 4 years who does. When we first got together I didn't really understand, we would get into arguments about it because he needed to do certain things... sometimes those things involved me (having me touch something again, or spin around in the other direction) there was a lot of small things that genuinely effected our relationship, I just didn't understand. I blame myself for it, I didn't educate myself enough. I had no idea the extent of OCD and how it can effect individuals differently. Most people think "oh its about keeping things in the same spot or cleaning excessively".. No it's really not, I have mad respect for you speaking out, especially being so young. Society doesn't know how much impact it really has on individuals along with their loved ones.. Until you're going through it, have it you don't understand what it's like, I can try but I don't know what it's like to live with it.
Dear kate and harper,it is fine to cry on the podcast!it shows that we all cry and I always think as their influencers they don’t cry but now I realise that everyone cry’s and it is fine to do so!love you guys❤❤❤❤
I love this comment ❤
Thank you for telling them❤
I love when influencers open up about this stuff. It makes me feel so much more comfortable with my problems ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Love you guys so much❤❤❤❤❤
respect 🫡
This comment should have more likes❤❤❤
bro wrote all this for them not to see it😂😂😂
I love how Kate just comforted Harper when she was crying. It’s just so wholesome!❤️❤️❤️
@@Lulu_the_gamer_girldon’t give personal info please!!
What part of that was given personal info?
@@LeanahNau she deleted the comment
this video was so relatable about the mental health i always have thoughts about how i can fix things and how i should do better and i always find a way to put myself down and I never feel safe talking to people about it because i think that someone will judge me or make fun of me honestly when harper and kate shared their experiences it was very relatable and i also have had experience with therapists and bad mental health insidents where i have done bad things to my self and broke down because i didn't know what to do i didn't know how i could fix it how long it would last how long i would be like this and all the thoughts honestly just kept flowing tru my head and i felt like no one would be able to relate to me and I was the only one ging thru it and when my therapist's would tell me things about how to handle it , it would make me frustrated because I didn't think that any of it would help but watching this video made me cry because you guys could actually relate and i felt like i was surrounded by people like me who can relate and like share their experience with the public so that you
45:18 omg, the way mav could just recognize their struggles, and just easily remember the perfect verses makes me so happy as a christian. Mav truly is very mature and though we usually see his funny side it was so endearing to see him treat both of them like younger sister
Sorry using your comment as a checkpoint😂😂❤ 40:19
@@herculeslandscaping5651i am to 23:56
Fr
Same❤
Is it just me I loved the way maverick was talking lik I was DIEDING
I love how Mav cares for Harper like a sister
Fr
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Fr
I am a Christian too and today I had a panic attack about dying. Your words made me remember why I shouldn’t be scared thank you so much
Thank you so so much kate for sharing out what you've been feeling because i have been feeling the same way so deeply. It's so hard to get through but you sharing your story helped me to remember that God has my back and that it's all part of Gods plan. Thank you for reminding me i'm not alone❤ 36:17
honestly, after the first bit where he wouldn't shut up, this was one of the best episodes. really appreciated the opening up. people do relate.
Bro he literally wouldn’t shut up it was annoying af
I don't think it's actually annoying because like he may be like just needs to know the answer to the question someone was talking about a story and I have a question come up in my mind. I have to say it or else I'll keep thinking about it for the rest of the day I wouldn't be able to sleep. I wouldn't be able to do anything until I get the answer to it and he always gets in his mind maybe he has something where he can't just function without having a joke in his mind and it's not his fault
@@alhanoufalqaydi6581agreed
@@alhanoufalqaydi6581no it's annoying. extremely. he needs to pay attention to social cues and needs to learn when not to make jokes. he did it over and over and over throughout the podcast. the questions were unnecessary and like they said Harper was going to cover that when she told her story.
@@rockstar.marceline no he literally mentioned that talk because every time he spoke, they would come jokes in his mind like he can't control it like I have ADHD. I am dyslexic and I don't mind anybody making jokes cause it's OK. Like I appreciate them opening up about their mental health and whatever but it's not like you should go so like oh cash wouldn't shut up this is my opinion about this and I feel like it's wrong to say he was annoying
As a person who was diagnosed with ocd at 5 and I’m almost 15 it’s been a hard journey it’s nice to not feel alone. I completely relate to everything Harper said. OCD has made my life difficult in so many ways and it’s so nice to hear someone not just talk about how they panic when their room isn’t clean but actually talk about real ocd and everything I have experienced because it is truly deeper then just stressing over having a messy room.
me tooo ive had it since 4th grade and i relate so bad
Dang sorry you live like that
I’m so sorry but what is ocd
@@chelseavivero4328 obsessive compulsive disorder is a mental disorder driven by anxiety usually and it makes u get intrusive thoughts and urges to do “compulsions” which aren’t rational so u feel like ur fears won’t come true (someone fill me in if u have more info idk how to explain ahahahh) :)
@@slayddi86 thanks 😊
This made me cry and feel so many emotions at the same time it reminded me of my past and the stuff that I was going through
Harper you are so brave and mature. I’m very proud of you for opening up even though it’s “embarrassing” (btw it’s not) you still did it to help people. I love how brave and amazing you are for this. Thank you for opening up this helped so much.
I relate to this kate it’s really bad for me to and i love how honest you are and i get how bad this is. thank you this episode has helped me so much.
I have such horrible OCD, and Harper talking abt her OCD made me feel so much better. Knowing im not alone is making me feel stronger. OCD really affects my everyday life in school 😭
I’m so sorry that happens to you! I hope it’ll get better the older you get (idk if it works like, that) nut I hope that❤️
@@jennakrimson thanks 💕
Would you like prayer?
Your not alone I have it really bad
@@candicechikanma9285I think we should pray for her anyways❤
25:33 when harper reaches out to kate - cutest big sister moment
this is why i love kate she knows how to comfort
They’re not sisters?..
I totally understand Kate and Harper it happens to me all the time I also have severe ocd and I just wanted to say that Mav is the most heartwarming human and I just can’t explain it and I love how he calmed Harper and Kate down it was very beautiful and I love the way he felt so bad and u could tell he wanted to hug Harper and I also felt like Kate deserved a hug while she was sad but I wanted to just say u guys are amazing and thank u for opening up this episode really helped I’m so grateful that u shared your feeling and felt comfortable.❤ I just wanted to add that Kate would be an amazing mother and I’m so grateful for u guys❤
harper i really feel you. i haven’t told anyone at all bc i don’t know how to and i’m not diagnosed with anything but i’ve been feeling and thinking things that i shouldn’t since 5th grade and i was only 10-11. rn im 12 and i still feel this way. i’ve been trying my best not to do anything to myself bc i used to b^rn myself. i’m clean of about 4 months. i’ve been praying to God and he’s really been helping. i still think bad thoughts every now and then and been tempted by the devil a lot, but i don’t listen to him. you’ve got this, harper. there’s so many people that love you so much.
when i tell you i bawled. the way Harper wanted that hug from Kate. Don’t ever think it’s embarrassing for crying, you are so strong and i’m so so incredibly proud of you Harper you have come so far and i’m so glad ur doing better now. Glad u have a good support system🩷
This is so sweet I agree
That’s crazy gun shots
The way Harper reach for Kate😭 such a sis/bestie moment,
Truly a special episode, bless all of you! ❤
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i appreciate harper talking about her ocd so much because i relate and i always felt so alone but this made me feel so seen ❤❤
I understand Harper I have OCD and it ruins a lot of things. even if your mind starts thinking one thing it just never stops and it's hard but I promise you once you get in a good habit of what you can do when you feel kinda attacked and overwhelmed it gets better I promise. It is a lot of hard work but it's so worth it once you get to your goal I will be praying for you Harper cause I do understand I have anxiety and OCD and they don't mix well so I understand. love you guys! it was nice to kinda hear part of Harper's Testimony and it was an amazing feeling to know I'm not alone and that there are other people who struggle with the same problems so thank you for telling all of us what you go through, that takes strength!
Hi Harper. I’m Lindsey‘s daughter. I found this episode and I was like OMG I relate to every single word she’s saying right now. It means everything to me that you are opening up about it and it really encourages me to follow my dreams and to keep going because we know that it’s going to get better and it’s not real. I was diagnosed with OCD this year and have dealt with the exact same thoughts and compulsions. It’s so hard but we can get through this. I’m literally crying right now. Thank you so much Harper. I love you! Follow your dreams girly. Keep going!
Who’s Lindsay?
@@amber_simsthe username
A five year old on her mom’s phone 😂😂😂😂😂
@@selene7966 thats good writing for a five year old
@@amber_sims she is trying to open up about something. you don't have to comment that.
25:27 the way Harper Signaled to Kate to come was so cute and hope you get better Harper love you guys ❤
I had to go back and watch it when I saw this comment because I didn't see it the first time. So cute❤
How did it even lead up to that point 😂😂
It was so sweet
@@OfficialEclipseGtagbc she was talking ab something that hurt her…
25:33
This was just magical considering am dealing with anxiety, severe depression and schizophrenia and the moment i saw Harper break down it really broke me down and the way Maverick is quoting the Bible scriptures is just heart warming. I have opened up about this but i cant really see the results but i believe that God will do miracles sings and wonders to all who are struggling for we are all his creation and his Children.
i have never been able to relate with anybody the way i just related with kate. im not diagnosed with anxiety or anything but i have been paranoid about just death and scary things since the age of seven or eight and i and spent many nights just sleeping next to my parents just hoping i would make it to the next morning alive. i have learned that it is all is gods plan everything happens for a reason and that i need to trust in god. thank you guys so much for everything i love that you guys can have fun with eachother but also get real and talk about serious topics. thank you❤
i love how harper wanted to share even though it was a sensitive subject so people wouldn't feel alone. im her age and even though i don't have ocd i struggle with things it was incredibly encouraging. i absolutely sobbed when mav started talking about God and started reciting the scripture. i also sobbed when kate hugged harper. we all need someone in our lives like those too. harpers so lucky to have you all. thank you harper for sharing this and thank you mav cash and kate for being so supportive to her. i love y'all so much i hope you all have a blessed day and ill be keeping harper in my prayers. 💗
Mavericks the type of guy to comfort his sister in law and friend when there going through a very tough time ❤😊
When harper started crying i started like balling my eyes out i feel so bad for her and i rlly do hope u get better harper and we all love u for who u are ❤
You can just tell how big of a heart Kate has comforting harper she is an amazing person and has a amazing relationship with the lord i cried this episode and prayed right after
the way kate was comforting harper is like they've known each other their whole lives
Just the intro made me cry I love how Cash Mav Kate and Harper are just a little family and support each other.
haper ur so brave to open up to people like that. You definitely shouldn’t be ashamed about it, everyone has something going on in there life like, OCD or ADHD, I have a very hard time focusing because of my ADHD it’s hard. And the fact that you can keep it so cool and make lots of people laugh and smile during ur shorts tik toks and etc, is so amazing! Me and many other people are here for you and it’s going to be okay! And ur definitely not alone it’s totally fine! ❤️❤️
harper! i’m 17 and was diagnosed with ocd this year. looking back i’ve realized how much it has been evident in my life. you’re so brave to have opened up about it and have touched so many people! i’ve been doing erp therapy also. it’s hard when your ocd is telling you things you know in the very back of your head aren’t true but you feel like you HAVE to do them because of the ocd. i know it’s hard and scary but you can do it! also God loves you so much! like mav said you’re his daughter and there’s nothing you have to do to earn his love!!
Harper we would never judge you for crying about something like that. You are allowed to feel, especially when it’s something that affects your everyday life. Your story will help people.
I’m glad that Kate and Harper opened up about this because I thought I was the only one. I’m always nervous and scared like Kate. It just makes me feel more comfortable to talk about my feelings inside me.
Same
I can relate to them but not to the same extent
Same bcuz I have OCD and ADHD I don't take medicine for either of them
@@user-xc7of2yw6i ya small is think I have adhd and ocd but I've never been tested and of I do I don't to the s,as extent as harper I feel so bad for her. 💗💕💖
Thank you Harper for having the confidence to post this to reach everyone including me it does in fact help and relate to me so thank you and just know ur loved and put ur faith in god
I love this it’s about opening up and not being scared of you Harper i love you im here for you and you all are like a family ily all so much ❤❤❤❤
I don’t know if you guys will see this or anyone will, but i just wanted to say that this episode was so sad yet so refreshing at the same time. We get told all the time that we are not alone and other people struggle as well, but it is very hard to understand without seeing it. Just knowing and seeing that these people that seem very perfect and always happy have struggles too is relieving. I also wanted to say they made me feel very very heard and less alone. I relate to Harper because i have a health issue and every time i try to talk about it, it brings me to tears. I don’t know what it is but the way it affects my life just makes it very hard to speak about. I also have not really shared it with any of my friends so seeing how brave she is sharing it with the world makes me less afraid to talk about it considering that may help me cope. Next i completely relate to kate. My biggest fear is death. There was this huge period of time where every night before bed I would start thinking of bad situations and ecspecially relating to school. I would pray every night that something bad wouldn’t happen. If I heard the slightest noise outside of my room my heart would beat so fast and I would try to become as quiet as possible. I still get this feeling sometimes and im still really scared of death ecspecially the unknown of what’s after it. I know God is there yet my brain like Mav said can’t comprehend that there is more than just Earth. Finally I wanted to say the way they showed their faith in this episode really spoke to me. I have always struggled a bit with my faith and a few months ago I was in a dark area and I really believe it brought me out. Just like Kate though, when it got better I noticed I wasn’t praying or focusing on it as much anymore which i definitely am trying to work on. People say that God is always with you and there for you but it almost felt like he wasn’t. I believe in him but this made me feel doubtful. I appreciate them and their stories a lot and I hope they know how much of an impact they just made and how special they are in my heart. I really believe I needed to see and hear this today. Thank you guys💗
The same things happen to me too. I understand it
i also a treible fear of death i can never sleep at night and get scared im gonna die in my sleep. it could be in the middle of winter and i just start sweating and shaking.
@@alikagindez mhm
I can relate like ik I shouldn’t be scared of death but sometimes I’ll have these random thoughts about it and like sometimes I have it at night and I get so anxious abt it and I start praying to god to get these thoughts out of my head.
Me too for sometime ❤❤❤❤😢
Maverick is literally the best person. I freakin' Love him. He's just such a good comforter and he Truly cares for everyone. God Bless y'all. Also Kate. I understand what your saying.
Bro
So freakin real 🤓
@@ArielMarcanowhat?
As a person who understands what Harper is going through I am really proud she powered through her story. It is very hard to talk about this topic even if you are comfortable with saying it to a group of people but in her case thousands of people. If I started talking about what I go through with my ADHD and OCD I would’ve cried instantly because I am very emotional and expressive and it is very difficult not to become emotional talking about it even if you aren’t emotionally expressive like me. I also felt very touched about Harper’s quote saying what OCD is actually like instead of people think it’s like. Also if the Lol Podcast sees this I want to tell Harper and Kate its always okay to be upset about anything, its apart of life you just need to look to the light and think about all the positive things that cloud happen. And Remember Life is a game we all play together, cherish all the good memories you made.
Harper actually opening up is very good i struggle with bad mental health i can definitely relate to her but her actually opening up is not on my level i never open up to people that i keep in it an it’s never good but Harper has made feel like i can do it thank you so much Harper 💕💕
harper this is not not embarassing, everybody cries!! i actually relate to this with social anxiety & ocd. i can’t even go to a friends house without having anxiety about it or missing home ( getting home sick ) you are loved by so much people, just because u cry doesn’t mean ur depressed, if somebody makes fun of you for crying, they are stupid. everybody cries! we love you harper 💓💓
Ikr crying is literally a bodily function. I cry when I see a cute dog or if I even see a stranger upset, it's literally an everyday occurrence for me and I'm sure many others❤❤❤
I can relate
I can relate your not alone ❤
The intro is so sad 😭 idk if I can watch this without crying
edit: I love how Kate is making sure harper feels comfortable
Sameeeee. I’m tearing up😭😭
FR 😭😭
Same I’m going to cry I no it 😂 xx
same :/
same
When she started talking I started thinking about what I’ve experienced and how it relates to her. When she started crying I was crying and the way Kate went to hug her made me cry more. Harper is so loved by all of y’all and all of her friends,family and all of us
I have some feelings like this and to know someone that some other people have it and the fact that you shared it is really inspiring
When Harper said, "People think OCD Is abt oh u have to clean up ur room and stuff like that, but it's not that at all." I could relate soo much! I have really bad OCD and I want people to understand that its not about cleaning and having to have things neat all the time because my OCD I'd say its quite serious and it affects what I do, like the tapping or somethings gonna happen, or closing the door again or triple checking everything, and there's things I shouldn't be thinking about but I do think about them because I can't help it. and being constantly worried about things is the main problem with my OCD, but I'm so glad I watched this video since I could relate to what Harper said.
I agree. I also have very severe ocd, when I tell people I have ocd they’ll be like ‘oh, why isn’t your desk organised then?’ (That’s just an example) and it leaves me so pissed because ocd isn’t just obsessively cleaning on needing thing to be neat! It can mean that in some circumstances, but that’s not all :(
Mav is such a good listener, I’m always trying to be the most supportive I can and listen with open ears. It’s very thoughtful of you guys to be sharing your stories and it’s greatly appreciated ❤ I have type 1 diabetes and it’s not easy. I’ve had it since I was 6 and it’s been a struggle keeping up with it, sometime I just feel like I can’t do it, or I’m just not good enough at taking care of myself. You girls are amazing people and wish you all the best❤
Kate and Harper opening up about their mental challenges really helped me. I think the same things as Kate and it help me realize im not alone and other people are going through the same thing. God has helped me so much throughout this and to know he is helping others to is amazing to me. Thank you all for opening up about this.
right now i’m at the part where harper is talking about her mental breakdown in class in FIRST PERIOD class and literally im so happy that she said this because yesterday i had such a bad mental breakdown too that i had to bring home my test because i was so stressed with the test
i love how they keep talking about god and how you need to pray to god at this moment 28:59
Hello, this is mainly toward Kate. I am a little younger than Harper, but I can relate to Kate so, so much. When this started, I was moving 226 mile away from the people that I felt the safest with. My parents used to fight regularly and my best friend’s place was the only place I could escape from home. I’m not best friends with my mom/dad because of this, so I still haven’t told my parents I need help. When I was finally moved in to my new house i started school. In about the middle of the school year I would get panic attacks regularly due to my parents and the “pressure” my teachers would put on me. The reason why I say “pressure” is because they wouldn’t actually put pressure on me, but they would assign assignments and I would feel that everyone expected everything of me and if I didn’t do well something bad would happen. At the time there were shooting threats sent to my school. It happened about 7 times which didn’t help.Also at the time my friends at the old place I lived, was going through a hard time too and would constantly FaceTime me in tears. I would push all my hard feelings down for them, so they’d think I was okay and that I was strong. After all the build up of emotions I would constantly think that they were going to also build up all their emotions and ☠️ themselves. I ended up talking to them about it and they told me that they had thought of it and that just broke me. We are now much older and are able to see each other more. ❤
I’m so sorry
I'm around harpers age and I have really bad anxiety, when I was a kid I cried and got sick before my birthday parties. I have a problem with storing my emotions in the back of my mind and eventually I just explode. You guys are not alone, as well as people having similar experiences the lord will maintain as our savior and will always take care of us no matter the situation
I get what you are going through
Iv never related more to Harper storie than anything in my whole life I’m so sorry y’all had to go through that and I wish you all the best❤
Mav what you were saying to Harper was really sweet and I am a Christian and I hope that Harper’s mental health gets better. I love y’all’s channel so much.
I'm praying for u all. I had had anxiety issues and mental health issues. It is so amazing how God can so quickly change and that's how u know he is always listening and cares. My health never got that bad but it was bad. I am so happy God is bringing u at peace. Keep praying💗
Honestly, Harper, I’ve never felt the same. I don’t have OCD or anything as I know of but I feel the same way as you like sometimes I feel like there’s like I don’t know some sort of person telling me I have to do something and if I don’t do it then like I’m gonna be like harmed or something or like sometimes even when I’m just laying down or something like something in my head will tell me like get up or like you’ll be like harmed or something like that then I’ll have to get up and then yeah but honestly I just take deep breath and I just like kind of take it through and even if that doesn’t work definitely get some fresh air. I love you so much and we’re all here to support you, it’s nothing to be ashamed of many people have it and that’s totally OK. I love you Harper.❤
I relate to Kate's story.
I Think I have undiagnosed misophonia, there are certain sounds that make me feel
so... wretched that I hated my life. I live in Louisiana, and there is a huge part of the
bayou in my backyard. I sat on the bank that leads to it and thought of jumping in and drowning myself.
I wanted to end my life for almost 1 week straight.
I finally asked my mom for help and during that week before I asked my mom for help
I wrote in my prayer book like Kate. And I just kept writing poems to God and I wrote more
than I ever have to talked to God before. I so desperately wanted to be with Jesus where
my suffering would end. I still have lines I wrote memorized.
"Sometimes I see a rope and wish it was around my throat, so that I may not groan because
I have not seen Your throne."
"When I feel the wind blowing or the sun showing, I hope it's a sign that You're taking me with
you where Your going."
"Or I could wait for the sun as I wait for Your Son."
I hope Kate Baker sees this comment and I hope you guys know that I am fine now
I still hate the sounds but I don't have as much suicidal thoughts any more. Kate, Mav, Harper, Cash
and the chicken sandwich in the video with Gina (poorly timed laughter.) I hope you know that I
deeply hope to see you in heaven.
I also live in LA. Sorry for your story
Im so sorry and I’m so happy that your still alive and fighting
Same I always feel this way especially cause i go to a school that’s so close to covenant( the school that got shot) and I always fear that and I can’t sleep most of the time
I’m so sorry honey, you are never alone. I know a lot of people say things like this but there are always helplines too. I’m so proud of you for asking for help from God and your mom. If you ever need a reason to live, just know that I am praying for you and want you to live a long and happy life. Love you ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
Me too😔 sorry and hope you’re doing better
I relate to Harper and Kate because I do have OCD and I thought for the longest time it was only me that was having these problems because I am like Harper and I like have to do some thing out of know where or I think im going to get hurt and im contently thinking that im going to die but I have had something like this happen to me yesterday, me and my family where going to dinner and I was walking out of the house but I had to run back in and tern the light on 3 times and then had to take 5 deep breathes or we would get in an a car antecedent and die. Im 13 years old and this started in 5th grade, I thought that if I told people about this they would think that I was crazy but its nice to know there are some other people out there that have this same problem and I would like to say thank you to Harper for sharing your story because I used to be a very happy kid and I still am but things have just changed for me so I would like to thank Harper and Kate for sharing your story.
i have literally never realated to more to what kate said. people talking abt things never really made me feel any better but since i’ve been watching for a while, it just really made me feel more safe and understood. like somone i knew also struggles with those thoughts of death. i am gonna go pray about it tho!
Kate would be such a good mom!!!
I love the way she comforted Harper when she was crying! She’s so kind
For real ❤
Not many things make me cry but when Mav started talking abt god and stuff I started tearing up but I really started crying when Kate starting comforting Harper. I don’t have ocd or anything like that and I knew that ocd isn’t just cleanliness and stuff but I never knew it could be that bad. Kate will be an AMAZING mom. I ❤️ you guys so much🫶
That is so true I cried during all of those I’m so glad they r talking about God because not many people who r content creators believe in him and I’m so glad they r open with their Christian faith. ❤️✨❤️
if you wanna see him talking about christianity, mav has another podcast with other people and it’s a christian podcast so you can go watch it it’s called truth and love
@@SchuylerSis51 same there really aren’t that many
@@MARIE.M.A73 thank you so much🫶🫶🫶 I will definitely check that out!!!
Same 😭😭
Harper I just want to say thank you so much like honestly I have severe OCD and ADHD and I have been through the same things thank you for opening up.
As someone who struggled with mental health issues being on medication for anxiety and also being on anti depressants also losing a best friend to suicide as a male I found it so hard to speak out at first and then when I finally managed to speak to a counsellor that was a massive weight off my shoulders I’m glad I was able to reach out for support and now I’m on a road to becoming a advocate for mental health and then become a counsellor
I love how you are getting comfortable talking about things such as mental health on CZcams. Makes me feel so much better about being able to talk about my mental health aswell ❤❤. Love you guys. Aswell as like mav is liek her second dad and kate her mum how they were both reassuring her and telling her its ok and not embarrassing and the way kate hugged her and wiped her tears😢. I feel you harper
Also not to be that girl but yes I liked my own comment 😊
I was diagnosed with high-functioning autism on my eleventh birthday (great birthday present) and it has completely changed my perspective on life and my mental health. I've started to embrace the fact that I need more help and assistance than others and it's helped me seek attention for other problems such as anxiety, panic disorder, sensory processing disorder, and ADHD. The only thing that reassures me is that I'm not alone, I never was and I never will be. Thank you guys for opening up about this and not being afraid to talk about issues like this, especially to a younger audience because these aren't some adult issues you just tuck away until you're an adult that can handle these on their own or just things you only hesr about online these are real life experiences that people gp through on the daily and the only way we can give struggling people the resources they need to better themselves and the atmosphere around them is to bring attention about this. Nothing about this is embarrassing and it happens to literally everyone. Love you guys :)
Hi Harper, I have ocd and I got diagnosed at the age of 4 and I’m 13 now but I struggle in school cause I have similar issues but I am blessed to have my aunt as my principal! I do understand and I thought I was like alone before this mad me feel so better. I’m just glad I’m not alone and neither are you
I have ocd to and it has been very hard for me to open up and watching this has helped me so much❤❤❤❤a
Harper and kate, just remember that crying on podcast or any video in general does not define who you are, and it doesn't make you weak. It good to tell people about how your feeling because the longer you hold on the more its gonna hurt. Crying does not mean your weak it just means you been really strong and held it in for to long. We love you!❤
Nice words ❤❤
This is the first full episode of the podcast I've seen. I see a lot of funny clips on shorts but seeing this made me love these guys. Mav reminding Harper that God loves her and praying for her was so sweet and heartwarming. ❤🙌🏻
Same ❤
I’m actually really happy to someone I watch on my free time has the same issues as me and it’s a big thing to notice that people go through as much or even more then you so your not alone in the situation so I’m grateful that Harper and Kate opened up to they’re situations 😭
Harper im 21 and have OCD bad. Ive been on meds, in therapy, etc. Although things have helped me learn to cope with the anxiety the ocd brings on, its still like nobody will understand. Nobody and NOTHING can fix the thoughts i have. I cant unthink them. I cant unfeal or unsee. I breakdown so often over things that feel like they will literally k!ll me, but they seem so stupid to other people. Ocd is so hard and extremely misunderstood. Thank you for sharing❤
I love how Kate went straight to Harper when she started crying and started wiping her tears and told her that if she doesn’t want that clip in they don’t have to add it it was so sweet❤ and also how mav was telling her to know that there is also someone who loves her and that person is god and there won’t be a time where no one will love you❤
Awwww the way harper signaled to kate she wanted a hug was so cute. She's so brave at that age opening up about something that actually affects her like that mentally 💔 stay strong harper! 😘❤️🩹
The thing kate said about how her brain constantly but unconcioisly finds ways to think "oh this is how jm gonna die" is no joke. I go through it too and it eats your insides up like anything. It's like even in positive situations when you try to shift your worries somehow something even small can shift them back and it's so hard to just experience true happiness. Literally every situation triggers those thoughts like when my mom or dad go out of the car to pick up food or something I literally look back to see if they r OK. And with me literally anything like a headache and I just instantly think there's something majorly wrong w me and jt actually makes me ill. I've been to the doctors for it a number of times too but they blame it on my age (14) and hormones. It's honestly so hard and it's something that should be noticed more.
The way kate helped harper and comforted her when she was sad just shows what such a good mom she will be, we are all here for you harper!!❤❤❤
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When Kate started telling her story, I got so emotional because I thought I was crazy for thinking those things. I am so thankful ful I was able to relate to her.
When I go out in public I am always thinking of the worst scenarios.
I always tell everyone “I love you” before they leave because I’m scared I will never see them again.
In public, I make sure I have my right fist squeezed the whole time. If I am needing to crappy something, I put it in my left hand so my right and is free so I am ready to defend myself.
My family loves going on roadtrips. Even I do. But im always so so so terrified that they will get in a car crash and die on the way there. My sister, her boyfriend, and a few other friends are on their way from Texas to Montana right now. She is also getting proposed to this week. I just can’t imagine if they got in a car crash on the way there and my sister who has always dreamed of getting married doesn’t get to.
Thank you so much Kate for opening up about this and you aren’t the only one. I relate to you so much and I started bawling as soon as you started telling your story. Thank you.
As someone who has struggled with ocd and adhd my whole life it’s nice of harper to share it makes me feel less alone ❤
i started crying when harper was crying because i felt like she is such a sweet girl and doesn’t deserve to be going through that
Hey Harper! You probably will never see this but as a girl who also struggles with OCD I completely understand you please never be ashamed of it because your not alone. I love you so much and Im so proud of you for opening up! Well done. Also thank you because this gab me motivation to tell more people I'm struggling 🩷🩷 loads of love
Like me I struggle OCD
Me too. It's hard because most people think it's about like oh you clean your room like no it's more than that
@@Orangie_YT absolutely x
I have OCD to and once I had a mental breakdown at school basically a panic attack but I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone I will tell you guys the story😢
I have been dealing with the same thing as Kate so I am so happy to hear that I am not alone
I love how kind Mav was. I mean props to the girls for sharing, as someone who struggles with mental health it is so great to see others opening up and know that none of us are alone. But also Mav's reassurances and bible verses are so sweet and helped me remember to pray to the Lord today.❤❤
I have struggled with ADHD, Anxiety, and OCD for all my life. I am so unbelievably grateful and happy that you guys talked about mental health. Thank you. ❤
Seeing them cry made me tear up
Bro it is seeing 😂😂😂😂😂
@@LennoxKennamore not the place
@@emilycooper3390innit 😂
@@LennoxKennamorethey’re talking about feeling like they’re going to die and having ocd and this person is having sympathy and caring and you say that they spelled that wrong? that’s not the right timing
@@LennoxKennamore Not the time dude
i loved how kate was so there for harper the whole time! ❤ she was always right there comforting her, it made me cry 😢. And mav omg his seriousness was making it so much better. Like the whole time he was like agreeing with her and like comforting her in words which you could tell helped her!! This was such a sweet and wholesome episode!!
I think it’s amazing that they opened up about there mental health and I hope you all are good love you❤❤❤
I love how Kate was like “I love you” and was hugging her.
Yea
Please tell Harper this:
You are so strong, pretty, smart and talented in so many ways. So many people love you. The people that don't love you just dont know you. And it is ok to cry. But you dont have to put it on the Internet if you dont want to. You dont need it for views or so that people can relate. But if you do it for the people that can relate it is so nice and brave to put this on the internet. The important thing is that you choose what you want. And it is so strong and brave to talk about everything about you so open. You just need to remember that you are a beautiful human.
You make me feel better about myself. Thanks ❤ ilysm
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everything they were saying made me think about my life so much. This podcast makes me happy, thank you so much for this episode. You all deserve everything you wish for and I hope you all receive your wishes.
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I literally love how they talked about Jesus and praying to help with Harper, dude I love how they even through our Bible verses, I love this podcast so much! ✝️👏
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