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hand sanitizer with the gloves on has me rolling 🤣
Same!
I’m a nurse and I do this.
😂🤣🤣
I swear I literally said this exact sentence in my head 😂😂😂
I worked in a lab and we do this on purpose to sanitise the gloves again lol
I was pregnant with my last daughter. We had not had sex for a while because it was a rough pregnancy. He came home saying his d?ck was burning and couldn’t pee. We went to the hospital together and the doctor said hey you need meds for an STD. He refused and the doctor insisted. I had to get tested as well but I was clean. We’re now divorced, I left after my daughter turned 5 months.
Horrible that hed put your babys health at risk for a little fix
Glad you had the will and strength to leave. I hope you're doing better now.
Umm cool story, why the hell would you share that?
No handjobs? Damn he had it rough.
@@yoteonthetoobs Because she CAN.
I had a Doctor who saved my life! She told my EX-husband that he better tell me he had 3 STDs or she was going to call me that same day and tell me. I was also her patient as well and she took an oath to do no hard- which includes me!! After months of trying to figure out the truth. It turns out my ex-husband was sleeping with male escorts he found online. This Dr. SAVED me from sickness and an entire life of lies. I pray for her, her family and her grandchildren. I pray that God does nothing but BLESS her because of what she did for me.
Omg 😳. Glad you’re okay.
Your ex a pitcher or a catcher ?
@@yourdad-rq1zm ayooo
Wooooow that is crazy
Whoooaaaa - so disgusting and selfish. He should’ve been honest with you & himself!
I tested positive for HPV when I was pregnant with our first child and baby daddy said I must have got it from my ex. Turns out he was cheating since the beginning of our relationship. I actually tested positive for Gonorrhea as well 3 months after I moved in with him. He also blamed my ex, and said I must have had it before I met him. But this is 3 months after, and I don't cheat. In a country where women have little to no rights, the whole society thinks I'm a shitty person for leaving the father of my kids simply because he cheated on me continuously with multiple women.
Eff them and their opinions. They don't suffer your burdens, only you do. You have to do what's best for you and your child. You made the right choice. People will always judge you for something. Just ignore them.
He cheated on you and risked your health and wellbeing don't leave out the part where his cheating cause physical harm to your body
❤❤You are NOT weak, stupid, or "shitty" and unfortunately we live in a sexist society. It's worldwide (except for that one island where women run it and they never have any problems..but I digress) I hope 🙏 someday we see a world with True equality between the sexes.. and I support you as a fellow woman who has gone thru a lot with my ex and people looking down at me because I wasn't going to stay and be treated worse than 💩 by an abusive man
its SAD when some women from western country said they have little right. they accused women wear get hijab get oppressed. meanwhile moslem's women dont have sex until marriage. guard their chastity for their husband. no BF/GF things.
Wherever you are. Take care of your health. Don't accept him in the future. If possible, move to a different place and focus on your child. ❤🙏
Yep either partner who cheats deserves that slap ad more. You are putting your loved one at risk. Its disgusting.
@@azzajackwhy on gods green earth are you bringing up Chris and Rihanna?
@@Picassostrash probably because Azzaro is a cheater.
@@azzajackwho tf cares this is a fact regardless of who, when, and where someone cheats
cheating is most definitely wrong but why would you assault someone over it? Not only is your relationship over but now you’re going to jail, congrats 😂😂
Again why are adults hitting each other. Just break up Christ.
Been through it. I got test because I had wierd symptoms and my Dr calls me to say I got an sti. I don't cheat. And my bf said it must have been sitting on a toilet seat or something. Why not just be honest. You've been caught. I hate cheaters 😔 To cheat is bad enough. But without protection?!?!? That's a crime. You risk your partners health!!! Sick.
I thought it was an STD? Is an STI an infection?
Check out how it's transmitted from different sources. I had UTI and was told I had STD , I hadn't had sex in many years my husband passed away and I had a surgery and am in my50s ..... Single no reason to lie
@@kerirobicheaux6629 It is used interchangeably. Infections make it sound more PC apparently and treatable than saying Diseases. 😂
@@lilithd5220STIs can be cured while STDs can't that's why there are two names
My ex tried to convince me I did the cheating I was soo confused I had to sit for a while and think where have I been 😂❤
My EX husband gave me herpes while I was 8 months pregnant. Our baby could have been born blind had I not had THE WORST OUTBREAK the doctor had ever seen.
Was he cheating, had it before or caught it by blood contact with open wounds
Anyone who cheats, man or woman, is just showing everyone how weak of a individual they truly are. And simply knowing that makes it so much easier to walk away.
They'll keep worrying and be afraid for the rest of their life because of their actions of betrayal.
Basically scared of their own ghost. Any partners they get won't last long once the partner knows the history.
@@xin4424 Absolutely. Karma is very real!
@@xin4424why would they worry cuz their a cheater? And why or how would the partner know their history?
@@YK-rs8pm They're a grown ass adult of course they know their own bs.
The partner should know the others history, if not they'll find it soon enough. U can't just enter someone's life without knowing everything from him/her unless if you're not a date to marry person then just fck off.
I mean if they know he/she is a cheater and still be in a relationship with them if they get cheated again then they deserve it, u deserve what u tolerate.
People are tired of giving advice to dumbfcks who wouldn't even listen anyways. Literally tons of people marry a partner who cheated on them multiple times, Then ask God to give them a sign for hope💀
@YK-rs8pm They didn't say the other person would already know they cheat. If they don't know, it won't be long until they find out. All it does is verify that not another second needs to be wasted on this person. The bad ones will always weed themselves out. Let them find other weak people to be with. Let the other person have them. Why even be in a relationship if you want to cheat. I think common sense tells you you're not ready for a relationship if cheating is even just a thought in your mind.
These comments got me crying. Cheating, lying, & putting others lives at risk is wildly irresponsible and selfish. That behavior need to go back to pits of hell from whence it came 😤
crazy how evil people can be
like I ain’t perfect myself but I don’t think I can stoop that low atleast
I genuinely get made fun of for being loyal. My friends say Im gay and strait edge/ vanilla for staying with the same girl for 8 years. It makes no sense 😂
@@jimmynesbit1803 those are not ur friends 😬
STI's are at all time highs and shows no signs of slowing down. We live in a modern day Sodom and Gomorrah.
I had to have a 30 minute conversation with a nurse while she calmly reassured me multiple times you absolutely cannot get an STI from anything other than sexual contact. It was so embarrassing.
I knew someone who insisted he got syphillis from a blood transfusion- in 2023. I was like I’m pretty sure they screen for that. But then his excuse was do they screen for people with syphilis antibodies? Because maybe he got infected through the antibodies. All I could say was, I’ve never heard of that.
@@eyekandy3000 as someone who does microbiology/immunology/virology. You havent heard of it cause there ia no way youre getting an infection from antibodies. Theyre your body’s little tags saying, “oh crap, we seen this bad boy before” and will fight the infection quicker. The only way to get an infection is from the bacteria, virus, or parasite through their mode of transfer.
She should be fired then because that's absolutely incorrect. That is a STD. "Sexually transmitted" in sti just means it can only be SPREAD through sex so no you won't catch it just from touching the person or sharing a cup but also it doesn't actually have to come from having sex just like yeast infection that shit just kinda happens to unfortunate folks.
@@eyekandy3000actually, syphilis works like any other Bacterium. It can stay on the surface for a while with the right conditions, same with HIV (unique type of virus) and Gonh (Bacterium), usually its active within 10mins up to 6hrs depending on what it is.
Another factor would be the environment (warm mild temps, moisture, humidity…etc.) how long they’ve had it, what variant, etc.
Most common form of contraction is sex but you can still get any of these by kissing (if it’s in the saliva, or if they have any open sore), touching live blood (hasn’t dried), sharing spit (varies), and of course needles.
So the most common form of getting an STI is sex but that doesn’t eliminate other possible ways of contracting it (sub common cases)
Sincerely, someone who has went through this shit because people have lied…
@eyekandy3000 you are correct, it's sexual contact and infection into blood, so you can get it from dirty needles and such.
It should be jail time if your spouse or significant other gives you an std.
Agreed.
Especially so if it’s from cheating that shits disgusting
Women don’t do time for false accusations so nah
Should also be jail time if your partner slaps you in the face.
@@thegreatboppilini9006crazy you’re comparing giving someone a life threatening illness because you cheated on them to falsely accusing someone. did you know that you’re more like to be assaulted by a man than have a woman falsely accuse you? like much much more likely. but hey that doesn’t rly fit ur narrative right?
“Ah yes, the medicine cabinet has medicine”
"the wood is indeed Made out of wood"
You say this but most women still squat over toilets and piss all over them because they're scared of getting a disease from their ass touching the seat. Sex Ed has completely been a failure and parents did not teach us shit.
No but fr😅
During my pregnancy, I was told that I have an STD and they told me that I was cheated on and I have to take a certain vaccine for the baby's safety that has side effects.
I told them that I have faith in my husband and if it isn't possible to get the disease from public toilets, then that means they made a mistake in the lab test.
No one of the medical staffs believed me and were giving me that pitying look for my blind trust as if I was this stupid woman who is easily fooled.
Despite everything, I insisted on redoing the test.
Later on they found that they did really make a mistake and I didn't have to take any vaccine .
I was lucky I had enough trust in my husband and I didn't destroy our good relationship because of misdiagnosis.
That is so amazing
Finally a happy story
Glad you got to be the exception. Most of what brings people in are the symptoms tho.
Now sue
That is SO incredibly unlikely that if it’s true, you should realize that 99% of the time , a cheating partner is the one responsible for wrong information, Not a medical professional relying on science who’s main concern is your health. Unless you can provide guidelines for how others can prove faithfulness, or recognize bad medical care, your comment isn’t helpful.
My grandmother told me, when my grandfather got std from cheating. The doctor kinda angry with my grandfather and told him. That he shouldn’t fuck sex worker or whoever. Because he is risking my grandma health. She got infected too.
Adultery is so bad
I worked at HIV clinic and yes granpas give Hiv. To grandmas.
Mark 9:23
“What do you mean, ‘If I can’?” Jesus asked. “Anything is possible if a person believes.” Amen
John 14:26 But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.
John 14:27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid Amen
Exodus 14:14 The LORD will fight for you only need to be still
God we praise you. You are the God who fights for us, who provides for us, as we plead before you. We trust in you when we have nothing in and of ourselves.
Jesus Christ loves you all so much God bless you all thank you our Lord and Savior God Jesus Christ The Holy Spirit i love you more than anything Amen
@@laceyjoe5933amen
@@laceyjoe5933 and then the lord said "do not make long comments unrelated to the topic at hand. If thou cannot stay in topic, thou shall not comment. Amen 🙏🏼
my mother got an std from my stepfather, which ultimately led to their separation and a very messy divorce. it was the final straw for her. it made me realize so much about men and their ways, the more hurt a man carries within himself the more he's going to look for outside pleasure & escapism from his current reality. Ladys protect yourselves from childlike men, codependent men and narcissistic men... y'all deserve so much more!
Men protect yourself alike. If she has a body count of more then you she is trash.
Yeah
“Men and their ways”? Women will cheat just as much as men. Ironically enough women are the gatekeepers. Every woman should make sure the man they fking doesn’t have another girl first. Y’all out here fking married me just to one up a strange woman. That’s the sick thing.
Yeah woman too smh close your legs 🐟
it is a Really stupid thing to say ... U could take the same sentence and just swap Man with Woman why u hate the Males ?
Giving someone an STI/STD from an affair should be classified as assault
My own mother said to me 'cheating isn't illegal' after this happened to me. It sure felt like that man broke the law putting someone else's bodily fluids and disease inside of me. I've been s*xually a**aulted as well...nothing felt like assault to the extent that this situation did.
@@darkwebgirl your mother is so horrible for that. I am so sorry. I can imagine that felt like a violation on so many levels. I’m sending love and support
@@darkwebgirl I think you might be able to sue, I heard a story a long time ago about a guy who had aids and would make a little hole in his condom so he could make his partners sick too. He went to prision.
Found out my ex cheated on me when I got a phone call saying "baby. I have chlamydia. Get checked. I know you're Immunodeficient" i tested clear. The nurse gave me a hug.
He understood.
However, when i tested for hpv i was asked if i was a sex worker.
I'm not.
My ex cheated on me constantly.
They always walk away guilt and worry free and leave us with permanently ruined bodies.
I hate being a woman.
I love being a woman because I'm not a doormat. The amount of women who have shamed me for saying leave all cheaters immediately and who take back cheaters makes my sympathy very minimal. Learn to worry and care for yourself first because that's all men do.
Your body isn't ruined. Like 80% of the entire world (sexually mature/active adults) has some form of HPV. Other places say 31%, but I'm pretty sure that's incorrect. You can get HPV from shaking someone's hand with a wart. Please don't think you're ruined because you're not.
Why were you asked if you were a sex worker? Because you went to test or because you were positive ?
I went through the same thing hun!! I feel you. I send hugs your way! Us woman need to stick together and stop this from happening to others 🥺🩷
What if I told you there are men who are victims the same way that you are, but it was their girlfriends who gave them an STD or S.T.I?
I’ve been through this. My ex husband gave me an sti and tried to convince me it was because of a public restroom at the lake. I knew better. I went with it and collected the proof he was cheating on me with his co worker so I could my divorce with no issues.
You don't Tho because it's possible to get an std without sex.
👏🏾 Queen shit! I hope that you’re living your best life, or at least living as best as you can without him ❤
What proof did you collect? Sounds nasty
Hope you DRAGGED his azz through hell, even the mistress should be sued. Ew men.
Gross..I’m so sorry to hear that.
It happened to me. He just left me. No words. No explanations. Anything. He dumbed me like I was nothing.
Latter on he told me he was very sick, confused and taking care of his health, but no any words more than that.
When I discover I already being sick for a while, but never thought about it. I cried so much and asked God why that is happening to me. He acted like it was nothing. He didn't care. He doesn't feel guilty at all.
Now I'm OK. Healthy, but heartbroken and healing it.
You’re a dude?
@@Handle0108It happens to guys too…
@@LanaRedmond13 no I am just confused as to how this guy is compIaining to God while at the same time disobeying him by sIeeping with another dude.
I'm so so confused 🤔
@@Handle0108 There's a lot of Gods and a lot of way to express your own beliefs. Kinda confused, but so is humanity. We may never understand fully, but we should respect. That's what I believe.
Exactly why I’m staying a virgin
PLEASE DO! If I could go back, I wish I was taught better. I would’ve never had sex. It’s another form of a drug that kills you slowly. People can romanticize it all they want to but I promise it’s not what it’s hyped up to be.
It can still happen to when you get married. You can't trust anyone.
@@saltycat662 everybody doesn’t want to get married.
@@AWholeVibe96 I _wish_ I could be someone who wanted it and enjoyed it, but my brain is really wired to avoid it. Sometimes life is cruel, sigh.
It's at least very easy to answer the doctors' inevitable question of "Are you pregnant?/Have you been sexually active?", though, lol
Same.
After reading these comments of so many bad experiences women and men face when they contract an STI, I am sorry this has happened to you. This world is too fucked and people think they know what being faithful AND having integrity means but they don’t and lie to themselves and lied to their partner. They never really consider the consequences it has on their partner’s life and emotional wellbeing. It seems like nobody is faithful anymore and it just hurts my heart.
I don’t think it’s the world. It’s self any people who think they should do whatever they want because they’re selfish and have no conscience or self control. They seem to find those who are the opposite.
Mark 9:23
“What do you mean, ‘If I can’?” Jesus asked. “Anything is possible if a person believes.” Amen
John 14:26 But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.
John 14:27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid Amen
Exodus 14:14 The LORD will fight for you only need to be still
God we praise you. You are the God who fights for us, who provides for us, as we plead before you. We trust in you when we have nothing in and of ourselves.
Jesus Christ loves you all so much God bless you all thank you our Lord and Savior God Jesus Christ The Holy Spirit i love you more than anything Amen
I had to reply and say most of the women who went thru this were the stay at home wives/ partners. That’s why you gotta teach the younger girls to be independent and have a man compliment you and not control and manipulate you!
@@honestg5362 definitely
it does hurt. and well for me. i never truly couldn trust another person. thankfully i never contracted an STI when i was cheated on. but st my age now im 62 i pray to GOD every day to make sure i can support myself and if HE decides i need someone in my life please make sure that person is a faithful GOD feating man notherwise i think inwould prefer to be single.
When I was young my doctor knew I didn’t understand how I got an sti and she never explained that my boyfriend could have only got it from sex either. She treated us both and never said a word. I married him and wasted my 20s in a lie of relationship. I hold my doctor a little responsible for not educating me.
😢😢😢😢😢
Was it trichomoniasis?
Highly depends on which one it was but sad that happened to you.
Please
The better answer is why you didn't educate yourself.
Had someone who I supervised come to talk with me upset because she had a STD and wanted my help in talking to her BF whom I also supervised. He came to me upset because he had a STD and wanted my help with talking to her.
They blamed each other for infection.
I sent her to her mom's for the weekend and sent him out on a weekend campout to give myself time to figure out a good way of approaching this subject peacefully.
The not so great answer came from her mom. It turned out that her mom had gotten the STD in her younger years and she gave the same thing to all of her children when she gave bith to them.
She was pissed off at her mom as she was a nurse and knew the risk.
We all sat down and discussed the problem and solutions.
I would like to mention that there are some STIs that are somewhat common false positives so do just a bit of research before freaking out depending on the STI it might be good to get a second test and opinion.
You are right, there are also cases of mixing of samples (like if two people have same names it can sometimes happen )
Also cases where someone can have something without symptoms since long before meeting their partners and have no clue
@@Redkrovvythat’s why people should get tested after every partner…. Lol
Why are you wanting to mention that under an unrelated video? False positives isn’t part of this hypothetical scenario 😂
@@brackenrobertson799 it's not unrelated, while no you can't get an sti from a toilet one test isn't conclusive evidence of cheating. It could have been an sti that was dormant from a previous partner which was not noticed or it could just be a false positive. Either way more questions and possibly blood work should be done depending on the sti to double check that it's definitely a positive before any discussions of infidelity, and violence is not the right way to handle it.
Hadnt seen my wife in months, she had an sti , tried to blame me, we hadnt had sex though because i was gone and we were having marital problems, my test obviously came back clean and she refused to show me hers and her medication chart, we are no longer together and she still tries to maintain her story, thats between her and her higher power. We both know what she did even though she wont admit it.
That's so vile, I'm so sorry.
Very telling that she tried to blame you, and never gave you any closure. I'm glad you were strong enough to leave. It takes a truly disturbing, uncaring person to do what she did. You deserve better.
Thats what you get when you marry a narcissist and didnt realize it until you had a real marital issue
@@HenryyyFrOmFNAFmy brother in Christ he is the OP lmao- it’s a statement on how he didn’t know she was a narcissist😅.
@@HenryyyFrOmFNAF Wtf are you talking about "now if it was the opposite" lmao literally in the comments here women get victim blamed, you raging "double standard!! " incel.
@@HenryyyFrOmFNAF Wtf are you yapping about, he's "victim blaming" himself?
Also what are you on ab "if it was the opposite" opposite of what? Dude blaming dude? You're not the brightest bulb for sure.
Back in highschool I got hella cheated on by my ex boufriend (worst state of mind I was ever in) and he and his nasty girl ended up giving me chlamydia… to this day I’m so grateful it was something easily managed and I was able to get rid of it; but my brain and body still to this day struggle to trust; even the man I know I can trust. Once somebody betrays you to a point where your health is now in danger; it’s so hard to ever trust another person again… especially yourself. Fuck you people who are quiet about your std’s ; be open about it. It’s not shameful; it’s stigmatized. Be honest and be safe and no body will get hurt. ❤
My consolation prize after being raped was gonorrhea. I didn't have any symptoms for like a week later.
@@desireedavenport1966 my heart is with you as your life was forever changed… no words can ever take the feelings you must go through away… but I hope you know you never deserved such; and that you can and will be loved; respected, and appreciated by the right people when you are ready.
We only ever deserve love.
I love you, and I’m proud of you for still being here today and having the vulnerability to share with people like me.
I hear you. ❤️
@@desireedavenport1966I’m so sorry that happened to you I hope your doing okay now ❤️ and that bastard got charged
Most people don't know they have STDs. Hook up culture, one night stands and promiscuity just need to stop.
@@desireedavenport1966 no words can ever excuse what has happened to you. My heart is with you, and I hope you believe no one ever deserves anything so life changing to happen to them. And that you are only deserving of love, and respect.
Raw butting toilet seats is crazy in and of itself
Yo, "raw butting" is a crazy good descriptor 😭
Raw butting?!🤣🤣🤣😭
Vest comment ever here ngl lmaoo made my day better
@@GoddriumTs had me deceased 😂😂
🤣🤣
My boyfriend cheated while I was pregnant and gave me an sti. All he could say when I told him we could have lost the baby was “well I didn’t know”
He Better not be your boyfriend now
@@thugisbacknaah he better be married to her, screw you
Wait how'd he get to be your boyfriend yet still have kids in the first place??
What do you mean boyfriend? He better be your ex. Istg, if he isn't your ex.
Lool my comment got deleted, i wonder how eh?
I have been yelled at by 2 different women telling ne you can get an STD or STI from a toilet. Sometimes you can't fix stupid
I’m still a bit confused tho bc from what I find, there’s still a low chance that viral or parasitic std’s. It’s just that bacterial ones are the ones you cannot contract
And then you woke up back into reality then went straight back to middle school🤷🏿♂️😂✋🏿
@@radiorebel8223yep. My mom's friend still talks about how traumatized she was when her doctor shamed her for having genital warts bc it meant she had sex (she was a teenager). But she hadn't had sex. There are strains of HPV you can get from like, public showers and stuff.
I don't understand why this doctor here would say something so misleading.
Also like, people in the comments are suggesting this to mean that you can't get any STI through any means besides sex. Simply not true. I work at a school and we have to learn about preventing the transmission of hepatitis in order to work there. They're not talking about sex. They're talking about like, blood to blood, or blood to saliva (biters).
Some STIs can actually be caused by things other than sexual contact. They're classified as STIs because that's the most common cause, but not the only one.
They were not stupid... They were gaslighting.
Bro casually chatting with the spider on the wall while cleaning his hands with gloves on. 😂
As a nurse for the military, I had a woman who had 4 kids and was on birth control, got pregnant by another man while her husband was deployed… she panicked and became hysterical; that was an awkward encounter 😬
I was a few months pregnant and had horrible abdominal pain so my husband and I went to the emergency room. Was diagnosed with PID and the nurse told me it’s caused by an std. I was devastated and started crying. The nurse then went out of the room and told my husband I had cheated on him and given him an std. My husband came in the room and we angrily confronted each other about who each other was cheating with. Doctor came back totally confused and got angry at the nurse. Not all cases of PID are due to stds and I didn’t have one. Neither did my husband 🙄🙄
😮 when you want to be invisible 😂😂
A time machine would be of great use with moments like these 😂😂😂
A super power that allows you to walk through anything would be fantastic
That's why I don't want to have any sex with anyone who is not emotionally connected with me and more. Don't get used people
Yes 👏
Funny thing is this happens to ppl in monogamous relationships often very often the issue here is vetting your partner and not ignoring red flags
@@user-pv2xz6oh7d No, the issue here isn't the victims at all. This happens to the best of people and the worst of people.
@@user-pv2xz6oh7dyes. actually they will be emotionally invested and then become not invested later and instead of saying they want a divorce they cheat. All men will have a period in a relationship when they are less into you than before but its up to thier underlying character whether they choose to cheat during rough times. If they cheated on thier exes or even have brothers and good friends that cheat there is a high likelyhood they also feel cheating is ok
@@user-pv2xz6oh7dagreeeeddddd
I've been in this situation before... not a good feeling while I was pregnant. Lucky for me my ob was my friend as well.thank God for him and his nurse..shit just hits differently
Narcissists have no regrets…they don’t care about you…and do love to find out you actually got something from them…beware…..it could cost you your life….
This is my predicament but it’s even worst because I found out at 38 weeks pregnant so clearly it wasn’t me( baby is fine). I’m more shock than hurt. He’s swearing up and down he’s been faithful but I couldn’t have contracted it myself. I don’t know what to do, a newborn baby, with three old and a stay-at-home mom with no family to run,
Edit: I'm a firm believer in Jesus Christ I prayed that God revealed to me things that were fake in my life and allowed his will to me done and not mine. Then boom I got this diagnosis amongst other things. Seems like things within my relationship and my family are going astray but it's all for a reason and I won't freight or become aad or depressed about it, mentally I'm fine because I know it's a purpose.
Woman’s shelter. Sending love ❤ & prayers 🙏
If it’s trichomoniasis take a second test
But otherwise I’m with you and I hope you get the answers and peace you want to receive ✨🌸
were you one of those trad wives that liked to poo poo on working women and feminism? There are a lot of ya'll finding out the hard way about choices and lost opportunities.
Hide money it was him been there no kids though he will denied to the end at least to leave n 38 pregnant girl that awful u n ur baby at risk
My friend lost her nursing job because her HUSBAND had sex with a young girl who told him beforehand she has hepatitis. He gave it to his wife and now she feels stuck with him because she believes nobody else will every want her. She losted her home and vehicles. Couldn't afford private school for there 3 kids and now they all live with her family.
She needs to leave him so he can get his karma, the fact that they lost everything because of him tell her to dump the burden and live her life with her children. All the best to her and her children ❤
@@p.8889 She knows. Thanks so much.
Ummmm there is a cure for both hepB and C so I don’t understand why she is staying?
She's probably staying because even with a possible cure- she still feels cheated and used and disgusted. She needs to leave and get some therapy maybe. We're made to feel like it's our fault if he cheats and brings something home. Especially if you were raised in the 80s and early 90s. What a complete bs mind fck
I don’t understand how your auto correct let you type “losted” 🥴
Disgusting. No one talks about the miscarriages and ongoing fertility issues caused by unknowingly being infected by your partner! I could not forgive this.
This video is exactly why my first marriage only lasted 18 months. And thanks to that ex, I was also diagnosed with cervical cancer ten years later. Talk about destroying any innocence i had.
Just so u know , i was told i had an std , and i hadn't had sex in over 5 years since a surgery, and i didn't have it then , i took the medication. And about a week later bk in ER this time hurting, turned out it was UTI I didn't have a std .....coulda ended a marriage if i had 1
😂😂😂😂tf
@@nishthagupta1357how is that funny
What std did they tell you that you had?
UTIs can be sexually translated for those that don't know.
@@yolandawilson6619 but its not because the other person cheated. Women's urtheras are short and prone to utis.
You always have to ask a doctor or nurses station to have another person check it or do another test because I had results mixed up with another person who has the same name has me. However their last name had an S on it. Whereas mine’s does not. And the doctor kept saying the test was correct. I took the medicine. Ended my relationship with my then boyfriend. Who insisted he wasn’t cheating. All to get a phone call a month later asking me to come in to the Virginia Women’s Center! With the head nurse and my OBGYN and corporate representative having to explain that in fact it was NOT MY results it was someone else’s!!!!!!
And that this was NOT the first time this nurse has done this!!!
Not only was this negligence! but there was another woman out there who needed proper treatment and didn’t receive it!!
it’s now 11 years later and I’m 28!!… and who knows if that girl got the care she needed. My ex and I talked everything out but the relationship couldn’t be repaired!!!!
Just be careful ladies !
This sucks!
Poor you, but I get it. I think if my girlfriend had that little trust in me I couldn’t get back either…
Wow that's infuriating! I'm so sorry! I have to believe everything happens for a reason, maybe he wasn't meant to be the one?
@@musiccer7446That little trust?? She literally got physical proof of the cheating. Trust is irrelevant in the face of undeniable facts. If she truly had an STD, he cheated, period. That’s how it works. Shame on you for putting that on her.
@@musiccer7446 I think when a professional lies to you about something, and so all that you know is "it can't have come from anywhere else, no matter how much I want to deny it", it's not so much about having little faith, as not expecting a major medical negligence error to happen to you...
Cheat on me once, shame on you.
Cheat on me twice, shame on me.
Cheating is like physical abuse: it will continue and it will get worse.
That's as low as it gets, giving your life partner a disease from cheating. You are basically telling them you don't care about their health or their life as much as you care about getting sex. That slap is the least they deserve!
Couldn’t get lower than cheating. That is rock bottom
So there is some justification for domestic violence? Good to know.
@@peacemaker8325 ok then go cry about it to the police" She slapped me cuz I cheated on her woo woo😢 Send her to jail!!" 😂
@@Dgbattta effing hypocrite, if the man had slapped her for cheating, I would not get the same response from you. I would hear things like "there is no reason to lay hands on your spouse, you should rather walk away".
@peacemaker8325 lmao and where did you get that from?? Where's the proof of that? I'll be waiting 😂
One of my former managers was telling me about her appointment at her obgyn being delayed because the doctor had to take time to comfort a patient who broke down crying because she was diagnosed with an STD.
Nah if it was me, poor doc would have to be a witness to felony 😂
Straight up 😂😂😂😂
Hurry she's got him in a headlock he's fading fast! 😡🤬💀
'Mhm, these cupboards are cupboarding'
The looking in the cabinet for something is toooo accurate 😂🤣 I always go for the “let me go and grab you a copy of your visit from the printer” I’m out
The next short was House explaining to a patient that she couldn’t get pregnant from sitting on a toilet seat. 😂
I saw it😂😂
okay no man will believe that enough to take her to the doctors to see if she had gotten sperm implanted inside her from sitting on a toilet seat
BRO HAHAHAHAHA THIS MADE ME CACKLE SCREAM
bro looked in the cabinet like he was playing peek-a-boo i can't 😭😭😭
Like how do you even go forward with that situation as the doctor 😂..cuz that slap would’ve had me shook
This has happened to soooo many of us. Me to. Had an ex who lied about cheating and I've had to be monitored for cancer for over 15 years. It's painful but I have get procedures done to make sure I'm cancer free. Cervical cancer if you're wondering.
Can't unsee that slap Doc 😂😂😂
I about died when he started sanitizing his hands with the gloves on
I'm crying🤣🤣🤣 but know this scenario all too well!
This is a completely different setting, but I work in a jewelry shop and each year we have a promo, where you get a free gift with your purchase if it's over a certain amount. Lately it's more like small mirrors, jewelry boxes etc., but we did do it with earrings, pendants and other stuff too. Well, one day, a lady came to the shop with her friend (or maybe sister?) and wanted to know, how much the free gift she got from her husband was (if I recall correctly, it was a pair of earrings). We had to tell her, in front of the friend, that it was a gift with purchase, hence it was free. All of us froze, when she said that she didn't receive anything else. We tried to say that maybe it's a bigger gift and he'll give it to her for the next occasion, but you could see the horror in her eyes. Definitely wanted to vanish right then and there
Sitting on a toilet can absolutely give you an STI. Especially if the other person doesnt get off.
Cheater spotted ! You can't get STI from sitting on toilet.
@@Dimple3 if you look above you , you will see the comment going over your head.
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My ex bestfriend still believed her bf 😂
Wtf
:(
She knows she doesn't want to accept it she is in denial lol😂
He still too good for her
🎉As a Doctor I can relate 😅Have to deal with the Medical and Social issues. Brings back memories
That’s crazy bc they taught us in my health class in high school, like 2015-2016 that you could get a STD from a public restroom 😂😂 man I wonder what my school was on
Actually, I am a nurse. More than 50 % of chlamydia cases can be asymptomatic in females and 25% males. It is possible that their infection can be due to a previous exposure from a former partner. It can hold true for both partners but more often in females for bacterial STDs
Yes! Thank you! I am also a healthcare provider and I hope people learn this. Might save some heartache
this is why men shouldn't just sleep with any woman 🙄😅
Yes thank you. These yt drs just say whatever for views.
What i hate is doctors trying to tell ppl about their own bodies and when they contracted something.Some ppl know when they have contracted something and who they got it from. Your body tells you in most cases. Most ppl that are "asymptomatic" had symptoms they didn't pay attention to. Being asymptomatic is neither here nor there. Some ppl ignore or dont pay attention enough to their bodies. If you dont know someones sex history for sure as a doctors dont make assumptions either. Listen to your patients.
You’re a nurse that can’t read? Considering the post isn’t about asymptomatic chlamydia. The hypothetical situation was that the couple went in and asked if you could get chlamydia from a toilet seat, insinuating this was the excuse the husband made. The doctor says no, the wife slapped him. Being asymptomatic doesn’t even come into the equation here.
As a nurse, you should also be recommending people get tested between partners so being “asymptomatic” whilst diving into a new relationship doesn’t happen.
Like my pos brother in law saying he got one from driving a car rental. Wtf dude when my sis was pregnant
I'm so sorry ❤️🫂
Pos for sure !
Was he driving naked?
@@asmrmaroxa exactly what I said
He 'got' an STI from driving a car rental? I swear they gotta make the most ridiculous excuse, if you wanna lie at least make it believable☠️.
I love this doctor. He’s funny and cute too lol thanks for sharing.
A spreads misinformation, apparently.
WHY AM I CRYING THIS HAS NO REASON TO BE HILARIOUS😭
"I'mma look and see what's in this cabinet for a few uncomfortable minutes....oh, look! Popsicle sticks. Cool "
I really hope you are not with that person anymore!
If you COULDN'T TRUST THEM to NOT CHEAT on you; while NOT USING PROTECTION; and then give you an STI while you're PREGNANT WITH HIS CHILD; then obviously that man DOES NOT love you the way a man should love the mother of his child!
You deserve so much more than that in a relationship!
I don’t typically condone violence. But exposing your spouse to an STI as a result of cheating is an act of violence…so this is self defense.
It can also be from not cheating but from comeing into the relationship with it be it they dont know themselves or they know and dont tell you
My teacher told our class that we can get it from sharing other people’s water bottles or drinks
Yes herpes you can
😲🙆
Herpis on the mouth, right?@@blueseptember2174
that IS true, but it’s specifically the case for herpes, due to the infectious sores it causes in the mouth, which can contaminate things that the mouth has touched and spread it to someone else. so someone can absolutely contract oral herpes without having sex, but the same isn’t true for the other STI’s that are focused in the genitals, since you’d have to make contact with an infected person’s genitalia to contract them. so these stories that cheaters have about randomly sitting on something and getting an STI are just lies told to cover up the fact that they had sex with someone else. it’s always good to be careful in public toilets though, because you still have to worry about bacteria and all that!
I'll never forget sitting outside with some homies when one of their gfs showed up yelling at him about why does she have warts. He's all "you probably got it from a toilet seat" then she was all "you can't get it from a toilet seat Greg!" 😂😂😂 nasty
... is the maybe*-cheater still one of your homies?? 😅
One time in the clinic I worked for the doctor had did a rectal test cause when you are over 50 they check for colon cancer, I guess the doctor saw something that didn't look right so she did a hiv/std test on him, turns out he had hiv. Since he was an older man he didn't understand what we were telling him one because he was old and the other cause he was spanish speaking person. We asked him if he was married, he said yes but his wife lived in Mexico. We had told him he needed to give us the names of all his partners cause it's important to let those other people know cause they can go around spreading and for his wife to get tested too. After that day I don't know what happened to him. High chance his wife probably got it too from him.
Man to hedes with cheaters and ALL their gaslighting !!
"The ceiling looking mighty fine today!"
There are 35 spots on this tile and 36 on that one, the average size of each colored spot is about 1 cm, great design
@@hemantjain2387 you counted?!😭
@@Ghost_Journal it was awkward to be there you know 😭
@hemantjain2387 I would've done the same thing dw💀
Kind insightful reminder to keep it in your pants and be faithful to your partner. Most of these extramarital/infidelity experiences have risks AND consequences. Just whack off to porn and control yourselves or get a toy. There are so many other options than other people.
This amount of self-control. 🙌
bruh porn will not help control shit, if anything it contributes to infidelity so nahhh
That's terrible advice. Porn has ruined many men and has caused just as much damage in relationships as cheating. Porn is the stepping stone to cheating. It causes unreal expectations of the partner.
@@MYSTERYBLACKROSE it’s better than a physical partner.
@@mannequinchaos It's an addiction. Just like alcohol and drugs. It's an addiction. It will cause unreal expectations and will ruin your mind. It is nothing to be proud of.
Yeah had to get tested after my ex cheated on me. Now I got something for life from someone I thought mattered
Lmfao, the jump and silent omg got me. 😂
Hand sanitizer on gloves is ALWAYS the best save! 😂
We don’t even run those sorts of tests for sti’s where I work but the patient asked about this result as she didn’t know what it was and the nurse was trying to not talk about the test.
“Do you have an open relationship?” “Have you stepped outside the relationship” and it became clear hubby cheated and the nurse spoke with the surgeon-the surgeon broke the news as it was her gynecologist
My ex husband gave me something that inflamed my liver and I ended up being septic. Drs confronted him but he still lied about his obvious cheating. So glad I'm rid of him.
You are better than me I would have been laughing so hard
This is false. U can absolutely get at least one thing from sitting on an infected toilet seat. I wouldn't say it even has to be public but a lot of ppl are passed hpv and things from sharing food/drinks with their parents when they're young which isnt talked about enough
Hpv and herpes
Awkward, he was trying to find anything to do besides that 😂😂😂😂😂
This happened once... Dr. Told me in a manner that assumed I had cheated... I looked at my partner sitting near me and said "wtf!? 😡🤨" Dr suddenly changed to "oooh shiiit 👀"
🤣🤣🤣 I watched several times back to back. This had me crying 😂. I haven't laughed so hard in awhile.
Last year I had an appointment for my iud but I guess I had an infection and my doctor started to heavily suggest getting an std test , but I had already gotten a lot of test done but she insisted because of how “bad” it looked down their I started crying instantly thinking my husband cheated , life is scary
Please tell me you are okay now? 🫶 That sounds stressful, yeah :(
...your husband DID cheat. Be well.
The nurse straight up told me that you CAN get stis from public toliets when I went to get checked after disclosing I was p confident my partner had cheated on me
That's cuz he was trying to get some head from you hahaha
Yep herpes you can and the lice one
@@blueseptember2174really? Thank Gods, I was going to have a huge fight with my boyfriend about how I got herpes
@@blueseptember2174 you cannot get herpes from a toilet seat 😂 it is to be skin to sore if the person is in an active outbreak.
Because you can. This “doctor” needs either re-training or he needs to get wayyyy more specific in his captions. Probably not his intent, but he is spreading huge misinformation. Don’t listen to him. You can get sti from toilets, counters, etc. Now, the bad bacteria does fade after 3days of being on said surfaces so the actually chances of getting one from a toilet is very low but now defenitely impossible.
So thank you for telling me my fear is ridiculous, it actually helped.
Tell me why my ex thought I gave him the clap (he had a kidney infection) because “we have a lot of sex.” I literally had to draw a chart how getting an STI works. I would like to highlight that was an ex.
Your ex-husband is not the smartest light in the bulb as it seems.
😂You go, doc!
Virtually impossible doesn't mean impossible
Some people cheat because it’s in their nature and others because their partner’s nature.
It’s the hand sanitizer with the gloves for me 💀💀
Not the hand sanitizer on the gloves 😂
This is great 👍
This reminded me of a story that happened to me a few years ago: I went to a gyno checkup and the doc told me I have an yeast infection. Later I called my husband and told him about it, and he suspiciously asked: "what is that, an std? Why do you have it"?, I explained that it likely happened due to my medication or bad panties/pads. He seemed fine but I didn't, since it kinda felt like he accused me of cheating. After some time, I found out that he was the one that actually cheated.
Lol just casually look down and pretend you didn’t see that 🤣
The looking around 😂😂😂
Thats a reflex slap lol
*It'd be crazy if he cheated and blamed her.* I knew a couple men like that. Never would take accountability, even for the smallest of things. ❤❤❤
It seems possible to get an sti from a toilet seat. Even hiv can survive outside the body for 4 hours so that could also be transfered from a toilet seat if their was a cut / bleeding.
True, virus can survive on surfaces.