Confessions of a Binge-Eating, Wellness Influencer | Jamie Hess | TEDxWilmingtonSalon

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  • čas přidán 19. 10. 2022
  • NOTE FROM TED: This talk contains a discussion of disordered eating. TEDx events are independently organized by volunteers. The guidelines we give TEDx organizers are described in more detail here: storage.ted.com/tedx/manuals/t...
    Ever struggle with emotional eating? The battle is more universal than we like to admit… and the shame we feel around it can be immense.
    In her TEDxWilmingtonSalon talk, Jamie Hess describes she found herself stuck in a cycle of compulsive overeating after the birth of her first child. Her instinct was to hide and try to “fix it herself.” What followed was a downward spiral that felt eerily familiar… similar to the battle with drug addiction she had fought in her twenties. Jamie is a wellness lifestyle expert and the co-creator of @NYCfitfam. She and her husband were named “one of the seven fittest couples on Instagram” by Women’s Health magazine and they have been featured on Dr. Oz, The Daily Burn, Refinery29, The New York Post, The Observer, MindBodyGreen, and more. Their focus is on fitness, nutrition, wellness hacks, and conscious parenting. She brings two decades of experience as a PR professional and brand strategist, with clients including W Hotels Worldwide, LinkedIn, McDonald’s, Barry’s Boot Camp and more. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 37

  • @emgee2267
    @emgee2267 Před 11 měsíci +41

    Having been that helper who has walked with a compulsive overeater for the past six years, I would add a third point to the reason why someone doesn't ask for help - They don't want to give up their addiction. There's always some reason why they can't do it now, it's not the right time, they aren't strong enough, they need to take a break, work is so stressful, I don't understand, etc., etc., etc.

    • @NYCFITFAM
      @NYCFITFAM Před 8 měsíci +1

      Powerful and important point.

    • @user-xg3uy6hq9g
      @user-xg3uy6hq9g Před 7 měsíci +7

      fear. we need new behaviors to replace the addictive behavior. As Dr. Dean Ornish states, a smoker won't give us their 24 reliable friends in each box. What's that song about "I drink alone? ""me and my Buddy-weiser". ..
      Also as 'Muricans we believe in the myth of self reliance so we are hesitant to ask for herp.

  • @thePositiveMOM
    @thePositiveMOM Před rokem +13

    "The gift of desperation." Wow! So powerful. Thank you for your vulnerability and message.

  • @marylandon3652
    @marylandon3652 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Jamie, I'm just seeing this now, on New Year's Eve, the transition into 2024. Your talk is so inspiring and meaningful. You are so vulnerable and willing to speak about the hard things. That's not easy, so thank you for that. I teared up during your talk. I hope your talk gets seen by many more who struggle with food, as I have for years. This can help so many. I watch/read everything I can about addiction and disordered eating, hoping to find every nugget of wisdom, every strategy, every helpful comforting thought that just might get me on the right track. I have been "on track" at times, but went through some stressful times in the last few months which set me back into old ways. Thank you for saying what you've lived, so honestly.

  • @amyrobbins661
    @amyrobbins661 Před rokem +4

    Your vulnerability and honesty is so refreshing and the way you lay out how to make change is straightforward. Thanks for sharing this amazing message

  • @kevinhaselhorst
    @kevinhaselhorst Před rokem +13

    Great talk, Jamie! Suppressing compulsive thoughts with accountable actions makes total sense.

  • @Recoveryisthenewblack
    @Recoveryisthenewblack Před rokem +5

    What a POWERFUL message, my friend. These 3 simple steps are absolute GOLD! The Big Ask Method is an absolute game changer.

  • @JoanLundenOfficial
    @JoanLundenOfficial Před rokem +6

    You opened my eyes with this talk about the “secrets each of us hold”. Or as you so aptly put it “the secrets that hold on to us”. It is up to us to open up about these secrets and find a way to address them. Thank you for this.

  • @Yarona1
    @Yarona1 Před rokem +6

    Way to go Jamie!! TL Speaker Coach here. You nailed it! I felt your message loud and clear.

  • @bradleymoore7622
    @bradleymoore7622 Před rokem +3

    Hey Jamie! What a fantastic talk! I appreciate you being vulnerable and letting us share in the wisdoms you have together!

  • @amythompson4813
    @amythompson4813 Před 9 měsíci +2

    So overwhelmed with all the feelings! Thank you!

  • @christopherbruce6247
    @christopherbruce6247 Před rokem +3

    Thanks for sharing your story, perspective and insight! The world needs this!

  • @amyporterfield5525
    @amyporterfield5525 Před rokem +2

    The honesty here was so appreciated - truly inspiring to watch!

  • @DiamondChanel1
    @DiamondChanel1 Před rokem +3

    Loved this!! So inspiring and I was hooked in through the whole video. Good job Jamie!!

  • @jessicadesouza4648
    @jessicadesouza4648 Před rokem +4

    I love that your message,your mission and vision for health includes abundance freedom and happiness
    Not just control in your life

  • @theaddictempath
    @theaddictempath Před rokem +4

    Thanks Jamie for your message. So much of my story lies in yours as well. Conquering Bulimia and various Addictions. Daily Accountability is so important, and I find that I am still very Susceptible at times to my compulsive thought processing. Thank you for bringing relatability to the struggle so many of us face.

  • @christinaching9764
    @christinaching9764 Před rokem +1

    Beautiful! Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing.

  • @eddieluisi3536
    @eddieluisi3536 Před rokem +2

    One Team…One Dream!
    Love This & Love YOU!
    This must have been hard to do, but so very helpful to many.
    Blessings & Thank You!!!

  • @kingnaz4278
    @kingnaz4278 Před rokem +5

    Powerful Presentation! Thank you! Raw Honesty + Accountability Partners = Success!

  • @MeganQuail
    @MeganQuail Před rokem +1

    Such an incredible message and thank you for normalizing feeling shame and needing help!

  • @rscotevans4295
    @rscotevans4295 Před rokem +3

    So powerful ~ Amazing !

  • @robinbraysfitnessbarre9202

    Thank you Jamie. Amazing talk-chills!

  • @krisyoung6880
    @krisyoung6880 Před rokem +1

    Wow! Great talk. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for inspiring so many.

  • @PerlowProductions
    @PerlowProductions Před rokem +1

    POWERFUL and inspiring words Jamie! LOVE the action item. Scheduling that chat now.

  • @jrowlove7328
    @jrowlove7328 Před rokem +1

    I can relate completely. Thank you.

  • @jenniferdrummond7994
    @jenniferdrummond7994 Před rokem +1

    You are amazing! You did great with this!

  • @MeghanLinsey
    @MeghanLinsey Před rokem +2

    Felt this 👏 thanks for sharing

  • @EastCoastKilo
    @EastCoastKilo Před 3 měsíci

    That was actually incredibly relatable and helpful.

  • @PATH2Thrive
    @PATH2Thrive Před rokem +2

    Thanks for sharing your heart:)

  • @anabelortiz1556
    @anabelortiz1556 Před 11 měsíci +1

    FANTASTIC🎉🎉

  • @sinorysky
    @sinorysky Před rokem

    Great 😊 ❤

  • @FernandoRodriguez-yv2mg

    God bless u

  • @JanicePreston-
    @JanicePreston- Před měsícem

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @joyce7892
    @joyce7892 Před 9 měsíci +1

    That was really helpful. I am ashamed about food and I get wrestled in the chocolate cookie aisle.
    13:00 I like the idea of becoming the CEO of me. I'll have to figure out the biggest secret I am keeping....

  • @amyhall3617
    @amyhall3617 Před 2 měsíci

    What if you dont have that person to ask for help from?