He Never Texts Me First: Do THIS To Get Him To Finally Initiate | Alex Cormont
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Do you always text him first? Does he always reply but never text you first? Let Alex Cormont The French Relationship Expert tell you exactly what you need to do to get him to finally initiate!
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03:40 - Talk about yourself more.
04:18 - Become a challenge.
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Tip 1: be distant
Tip 2: reinforce your personal life
Tip 3: focus on professional goals, projects when conversating with him
* when the guy is not initiating contact its because he is taking you for granted
* when the guy is not initiating contact is because he knows you will be the one to initiate
* reinforce your personal life by posting on social media
* be busy
* give him 10-21 days
When a guy replies, its a good sign but it doesnt mean he sees you as the one because a guy whos really there, wont do this even. Right now he is taking you for granted but we can tweak it❤
Loving too hard lead to heartbreak and unnecessary relationship problems. Stop giving, stop initiating, stop giving him the indication you don't have a life and he's your only option. Instead, live your life fill up that calendar, let him be the one to fight for YOUR time. Don't give freely and stop rewarding bad habits and behavior. If it can work for me it can be done by anyone!
These situations disappoint me. Especially if at the beginning he's involved. Then after 4-5 months, he does less effort. Worse, if he's looking around for someone new. Instead, spend my energy on a man who is sure.
Whoever going through a breakup, if you didn't do anything wrong with your partner but to give all the love to them. Please, please, please if you want your ex go back to you or to reattract them again, don't chase them let them be whatever their decisions. They will come back 💯. Just focus on the no contact and focus on yourself and always pray to God. This videos help me a lot during those time that I'm in so much pain, this make me calm and can't sleep without hearing their advices. It really help me a lot on my healing process and to get my ex back. Thank you so much 😇😇😇 Thank you Lord, Godbless 🙏🏻
I'm always happy to help! I know this can be painful but you can get through this!
May God bless all women's around the world, this situation it's really very bad
But if you stay in a mood with no expectations, you can message or call and that is ok. No expectations is the answer for many problems ;)
This is true. No expectations at all but for a woman this can be difficult to do. Sometimes, when I feel lonely, and I get a message from someone I like, I try not to respond right away as Im afraid that I will say something that will tell the other person that im lonely
If he does not make the effort, he's just not that into you. Save your energy for someone who sees your value and worth and makes the effort .
It's so interesting that you mention a non-profit because I am just writing the business plan for one!
Thank you for that video
Really needed to hear this
You're always welcome!
Thank you for the valuable advice.Very helpful.
You're welcome Jessie!
Love it! You are a legend 😂❤💚💙
Haha thank you Tya!
Great advice....thank u
You're always welcome Peggy!
Thank u for this video
You're always welcome Reema!
This is why you are watching me, giving you the advice! 😂 love these videos
Thank you so much for watching!
Thanks alot Alex
You're always welcome Syra!
Yes Alex, very tired! no text, no reply, no call, taken for granted!
Haha this is sure red flags!!!
Exactly Maggie, big red flags!
I loose interest if a guy I dated doesn't text me when I stop texting him. I AM WORTH THE ATTENTION. Don't make me sad first and then I have to be happy you text me after weeks? Fuck that
I would delete his number and move on.
Same here. 🤣
First to comment 💕 thanks Alex!🤗
You're always welcome!
Today is his birthday and I initiated a happy Xmas wish yesterday and he replied "😍😍😍,,"..... So I did not say anything today directly to him.... But I updated my what's up status wishing him a happy birthday
I heard it from a guy that he thinks, men should wait till women text them first, so they dont seem needy as a guy 🤷 looks like both sides apply same tactics 😂
Well
When it’s the girl texting first all time than it just give off not interested vibe
Im always doing the first move thanks for this advice.
You're always welcome Lea!
If she doesn't act first, then he will never act. I'm sorry to hear these situations.
He always chat like he is interested, but he never text me first and also I feel really distant when we meet and have a high amount of tension between us. Should I make move or stay quiet?!
Thank you sir
Thank you so much for watching!
Alex I am back on your videos after 5 years 😂😂
Welcome back!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert this video is very helpful, it’s actually works for me! He is behind me like crazy after watching this video😂😂😂
Thank you for this 😊
You're welcome Esmie!
We talk ,we lough,he is gentle to me always and I like him a lot ,but he never ask my phone number . I met him at work and I fall in love,he is so good to me...He touch me,he likes me,he always smiles at me and talks with me.He is pure Iove.I tryed everything but he never ask my phone number to go out.4,5months I trayed and nothing.There is only three days and Im going home for holidays,Im sad because I never see him again. This New Year will be very VERY sad for me...It hurts, a lot.
Tried not trayed. If he doesn’t ask your number his choice.
He is married
Guys like the chase “. If you come off as easy they question is she like this with all the guy she meets? We will never get guys🙄
Alex I did that I keep distance with. him after 3weeks.sent mesegs for me today.u still u alive?😆I'm focus my goals..
What happened after that?
To me, 1 week of not messaging is ghosting. That guy should have an explanation for disappearing for 2 weeks.
If he has no explanation, dont initiate again with message. Let the guy contact you on his time
I will NEVER text a man first. Y'all crazy as hell😂😂
😂😂😂
This is a good attitude. But (it's okay to text first) when I want to have him! He'll be open minded. Lol!
How many frking time should i text a man.. I mean it's not about gender for me
Its about feelings the connection and Urge to talk
If i will do that continuously i will be ended up looking like a fool who is desperate to talk to a person whose never initiate a convo or in the mid of convo he says ok.. And all🙄
If you want him bad enough ..
You might !!!!
No you are crazy
You're advice makes perfect sense, I feel so foolish, but have I gone to far? He has not initiated contact with me for four weeks now, so I panicked, yes I feel I came across to needy.. 🤷🏻♀️ can I turn this around?
Simple; dont contact him anymore! Never ever even if he doesn’t reach out.
1 week of not contacting me is ghosting. Let that guy disappear.
He wanted to disappear. Give it to him
Honestly does it really matter who text first? If you wanna talk to him then do it...life is too short to play the game of who text first..
Hi. I think a man needs to do his job, lol! He will sit back if she lets him. But her texting first and only first time is okay
But what if he never texts first? Isn't a sign of something?
Finally, someone who sees reality. This people just exploit peoples vulnerabilities to create a very fictional reality. Have fun, there's no science
But it is nice to observe the guy if he is just bored or he really wants to be with us.
So let the man lead
In the meanwhile and while the no contact period, should I react to his short texts such as weekend greetings???
Charity from zambia.my situation again
💙💙💙
Oh.. It makes it hard..
He says and shows he loves me, makes a major sacrifice as requested after 2 months no contact.. BUT, Im initiating conversation..
Hi Alex! You’re awesome! I have a guy who was all over me at first. Now he’s involved in huge court case and dealing with that. If I text him to hang out, he always says,” Definitely” or “ I’d love to!” And he always shows up to pick me up and drop me off and is always excited to see me. He stares at me and asks tons of questions. If there’s something at my house that needs to be done, he asks if he can help. We’re not hooking up. Just hanging out as friends but we kind of dated before this. Just kissed but nothing else. I kind of pushed him away at first, so I feel he’s afraid to try again. I also think he’s dealing with a lot right now. Any advice? I’d think a guy who just wants friendship wouldn’t always say yes to hanging out and go out of his way to do things for me. I’m so confused.
Hi Julie,
I would love to help you with this! I hope you can book a coaching session with me so I can know more about your relationship with him!
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
Alex pls do a video on LDR the problem,n solution like he take me so granted ghosting me playing with my feeling n want only virtual sex I know the problem but I want badly.I am from Bangladesh and he is from Pakistan its been 5 months we met through FB.we have not met yet in real life.
Hi Alex I have messed up. I've been to a party with a guy I've been sleeping with a few weeks. I texted him drunk last and he asked me to the cone the party so I did and we enjoyed it. I wake up to find I have been blocked on everything. Not thinking straight and still a little bit drunk. I went to his work. He texted me kicking off. I said to him I should of went to work but I was confused why you blocked me when we were together last night. He said he blocked me cos I keep calling him when am drunk. Which I get but. He asked me ti the party when I was drunk. Then blocked me this morning. I thought I done somthing really bad for him to block me. I should never of went to his work at all and now I do look like a proper crank but am was so confused after we had a good night and his mates where even saying he's talking about me all the time. I said I was sorry and won't go to his work again. I just want him to understand why I done it . Will he unblock me I wish I would never of message him drunk or went to his work.
1st❤️
No contact
Some things are too confusing..he never initiate but once it is four days without texting him he them initiate the conversation now why staying all those four days silently??ego????not interested????not his priority???want to keep the door open???
Hi. I think a person can be very busy or caught up with something very important. I suggest make it funny, "I thought you vanished!" And hear what he says about his reason. 4 days is a long time. Bills, job, overtime, family, personal can be reasons.
Yes, yes, and yes
@@effatsharmin8389tnx for this
😔 before in first maybe 3 mos of our LDR he's d one who always text first & get upset if I don't message or read his messages after I adjust for him things change I'm d one who always message then he will reply so I asked him why is it like that/this he never answered clearly we had blocked/unblocked issues on our 10mos. I ask him directly if he still interested to continue our LDR he answered me"why? Ur looking for a new guy? He's working at bank industry So I understand him all of his short comings.. just recently this Dec 18 he blocked me again I reached out after few days when no more response I refocus my mind & my heart that this guy doesn't love me now I'm on d moving on process😔 painful coz I invest much love care & time but I need to face the truth.. Just few good guys remain in our society..
When they show you who they are believe them- the first time “. Don’t keep ignoring the red flags and give them all your heart; then ask question later……
For how many days shd we wait? approx ? @alex sir
This is me:(
Sir Alex how if he keep on saying he is depress and saying sa well if I'm in the mood I will reply u ,can u give advice so that his feelings before will return to normal.thanks a lot and Godbless
Hi Tes,
I know how hard it can be to deal with someone who is depressed. I would love to help you with this and I hope you can book a coaching session with me!
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
How do we pay in naira for private coach
For me, it's the other way around. 😁 I am not attracted to most men and I guess I will stay alone.☺️
He is the one who always text 1st to me, and one day he just told me, u never take any initiative, and i was like😁😁😁
I have a question, Alex....my bf and I are long distance, but we meet once a month in person for 3-5 days, and talk on the phone 5 nights a week. (used to be 7, but I told him we needed to take a couple of nights off because we were running out of things to talk about.) He hates texting because a lot of times things get taken the wrong way in text (true!) and he said we shouldn't text during the day, so we can save things to talk about at night. I used to text him Good morning every single morning, but I stopped because he NEVER texts me first. So now I have completely stopped texting altogether and he STILL never texts me. I told him even though he hates to text, he can at least send me a short text saying something sweet, but nope. So to make a long story even longer...lol. You say to be distant, but it's not working because he could care less if we don't text. He does get upset if I can't talk on our nights that we have planned to talk, and he will call me first on those nights.So I don't know what else to do to get him to reach out to me first
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Alex, so i met this man at one of the business events i attended and he was the speaker and i got his line for business purpose ....we never talked for 4 months then from no where he called me inviting me on a date but i declined it because i was at work that and ever since then am always the one inetiating messeging or calling first.
What do you think could be his issue with me
Note: he's a very busy man yet he's always quick to respond to my calls and messages , now am confused
He doesn’t do social media!
I'd be grateful about a man not into social media. More time with him! Lol!
He's a keeper
I have the same phone.. if i text him he responds very quickly but he doesn’t text me .. that’s crazy
I'm sorry to hear this!
Stop playing games with others
How many coaching sessions does a person typically need?
There is no limit!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert what's the minimum? 😊
What if he initiated contact but not reply back ?
I think when a man is sure what he wants, he cannot hesitate anymore
I thought this was an African problem for the girl child, Do you guys have the same challenge. eeeeeh
I made a first move on an American guy and lost him thinking they are free with this, so bad i really loved him.
dealing with this with my ex, took my energy back and turned off phone! From USA🥰
I did this and he simply blocked me and vanished
Then he wasn’t really into you . His loss not yours sorry to hear that though but it’s for the best .
The situation I am in , is weird and crazy , . I've been talking to this guy for two years , we met just once , he first had me on Instagram and then he deleted me and we just msg now I asked why he doesn't add me on he's Instagram and he said when we meet again and have sex I will add you , that sounds like a bunch of BS to me..
What do you think ? What is your opinion on this please let me know
Kati,
This doesn't sound good. I would encourage a coaching session if you want to go more in depth with this!
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
Hes using you like with mine. And hes exploiting your vulnerability :/
@Kati that guy is disrespectful and has no interest in you as a fully rounded individual, or as a relationship partner. Never settle for someone who has such low regard for you! Listen, really focus and pursue what gives you joy and satisfaction in your life, and build the friendships that value you. Step out of your comfort zone in areas that are not related to intimate relationships. You deserve basic human kindness and respect. Don't let any man treat you like fast food, and never ever allow a punk like him to give you ultimatums that that require you to trade your precious intimacy for any amount of fleeting, superficial attention. I strongly advise you to block him on all social media and give him not another single thought or emotion. Because that's exactly how he feels about you! Best wishes to you and yours. Go out and enjoy your life! 💖👏👍🏻💪
He broke up with me 1 month ago ,now I am in no contact . my ex and I have a common best friend , he often inform me that my ex tell him that he love me still but don't initiate contact . we was in a 2.5 yrs relationship . He told me that he don't want me as gf , but we can be friends . though according to my ex ,he don't want to talk with me but got angry when I stop begging and doing no contact . what to do now ?
Hi Srijani!
I would love to help you with this! Please feel free to book a coaching session with me :-)
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
Thanks for being there for us..please I have a question...each time I go silent from 3to 4days he will reach out to ask if everything is ok.....what do I do?
Continue ignoring him or what... but immediately I reply he will go back on waiting for me to reach out first
Then keep ignoring him till he gets the message. It is obvious he enjoys you making all the moves and messaging first and if he doesn't change, move on , that means he doesn't value you amd has no interest with you. All the best ❤️
Consider this, stop thinking you are ignoring him, that mentality only causes anxiety and desperation to grow- don't turn this into a game. A relationship, love and understanding is not a tit for tat or who will win, this is life. Instead...focus on the beautiful deserving person you are. Practice self love because without it, you lose your self. Goodluck.
Same thing here!!!
Just tell me the truth, that you like if the guy you are dating text you more! If is not doing this you can leave him and find someone who can treat you the way you want!
Being a guy myself (i see why both girls and boys are fucked up)hahah
You guys ignored each other , he watch videos on yt and you do the same 🤣🤣 end up ignoring each other , remember there is no such rules as " a guy should initiate contact 1st" one thing about a guy He will lose interest if he found out that he's the only one reaching out to you period.
So cut the crap and see whp messages 1st the last conversation you guys had it should be 50/50 not 90/10