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  • čas přidán 16. 08. 2024
  • Believe it or not but it's actually been more than a year now since Jake and I eloped. Time flies! It feels like the future you can only ever imagine as a child is getting closer and closer, so here's a cozy healing vlog about our future plans. Enjoy ♡
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    MUSIC
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    ♫ Jamie Rutherford - For Old Times
    ♫ Jamie Rutherford - Mabels Waltz
    ♫ Kyle Cox - Lets Be Lovers
    ♫ Marcelo Nami - Cello Suite No. 1
    ♫ Paper Planes - Forever
    ♫ Romeo - Fragility
    ♫ Sean Solo - Carry It Alone
    ♫ Space Doves - While She Smiles
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    TIME STAMPS
    00:00 intro
    00:28 shopping in Seongsu
    05:44 date day with Jake
    06:49 pressure to have kids?
    09:15 our future got closer... preparing to move
    12:27 a healing trip to Seoul Forest & being baby crazy
    15:04 my life didn't turn out how I imagined
    16:38 dating internationally & moving to Denmark
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    EQUIPMENT USED
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    ♡ Canon EOS 700D
    Lens
    ♡ Sigma 18-35mm F1.8
    Mic
    ♡ Røde VideoMic Pro
    Vlogging Camera
    ♡ Canon M50
    Editing Software
    ♡ Adobe Premiere Pro CC 2018

Komentáře • 162

  • @ed10laya
    @ed10laya Před 10 měsíci +118

    I think people need to chill with having to go on dates and make it special. The fun part of beeing with someone is beeing able to stay at home in pyjamas watch series and play games, order food and feel like it was the best day ever because you did it with someone you love. Apreciate tha daily things like just huging and cuddling, that's still a way to try and show love.

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +41

      we do that a LOT and we love it, but nothing makes us happier than adventure outside 💚

    • @mollymo6229
      @mollymo6229 Před 10 měsíci +7

      Nah we do that all the times - having days or afternoon outsides with activities with what I love the most with my fiancé

    • @ann-chiyu3193
      @ann-chiyu3193 Před 10 měsíci +21

      I am sorry but I don’t agree :) out of the 365 days, we do exactly that. Come home from work, and then maybe cook something or order food and then watch some TV and go to bed. So in my opinion it is so important to plan dates on weekends or take a day off to treat your relationship to something different and maybe adventurous 😊

    • @cowboylikeHana
      @cowboylikeHana Před 10 měsíci +2

      My fiancé and I don’t go on date very often, not even once a month, as we’d rather save money to go on weekend/holiday trips instead. It also helps that we’re both homebody who loves movie days, video games and home made dinner rather than museums, shopping and restaurants. So, I agree that outdoor dates are not needed to be an happy and healthy couple, but other couples might have different dynamic! Some prefer fancy nights out, it doesn’t mean they can’t enjoy both ~ :)

    • @user-rk4jy3lj1c
      @user-rk4jy3lj1c Před 10 měsíci +1

      That does it too. But have you ever been in a long-term relationship? It’s vital to put in the effort regularly and date your partner.

  • @ElleGoulden
    @ElleGoulden Před 10 měsíci +17

    Loved listening to Jake talk about the housing in Korea and the history around it, it’s really insightful and interesting to include something a little more educational in your videos

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Definitely will do 💚🫶🏼

  • @LilianLily-li7po
    @LilianLily-li7po Před 10 měsíci +15

    i hope to see you and jake have a kid,move to a beautiful cozy home together and pls dont stop talking about whatever is in ur mind aka kids in this case cause this is what i love seeing in ur content !!!

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Awwwwwww thank you so much 💚

  • @theodora9717
    @theodora9717 Před 10 měsíci +79

    It’s weird how I feel I am catching up with a friend when I notice you post a vid on CZcams, even though we don’t know each other. Thank you as always for showing such wholesome vlogs 😊 And I pray your dream to be a Mumma and start a family will happen, because you both are going to be great parents. Xx

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +5

      Thank you SO much, this made me very happy to read 💚

  • @guadalupereynaliriarte9822
    @guadalupereynaliriarte9822 Před 10 měsíci +15

    I love how open and transparent you are and seeing you and jacob enjoy this chapter of your life is so fullfilling! Sending love from Argentina ❤

  • @bbggmmccrr
    @bbggmmccrr Před 10 měsíci +12

    I wanted to cry after watching the video. Finding your soulmate is big luck and I'm so happy that you found him.. I also had a foreign boyfriend so I feel you guys :') It's so important to make that decision as to where you gonna live in the future. If your partner doesn't want to live in your country you can't move on with the relationship as I did. After watching the video I realized that I made the right decision by breaking up with him because he didn't respect my country, my nationality. He had a prejudgement and he didn't even visit my country.

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +1

      I’m so sorry to hear that… that must’ve been heart breaking for you love 💚 your match is out there!

  • @eleni8904
    @eleni8904 Před 10 měsíci +9

    I've been watching you growing since the make up videos, so I'm truly happy and proud of you Sis that despite having a different goal in mind moving to Seoul you overcame yourself with what life sent you and even found your love ! Wishing you both more wonderful memories and a great journey ahead in life! Thank you for the warmest videos ever! ❤Supporting you always! 💌

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +3

      Thank you sooo much for being here throughout all of that and continue to be such a lovely supporter. Thank you thank you thank you 💚💚💚

  • @Flywithlalu
    @Flywithlalu Před 10 měsíci +28

    Hi, Sissel! It’s always so nice to watch your videos❤
    Fortunately, my Korean in-laws are not pushy either… I am already 40 and I have never felt the call to be a mother, although I do love children (but being the eldest sister, I know that having your own kids is an entirely different matter as I saw both my parents working so hard for me and my 3 siblings). In Argentina and Latin America in general, it is very common for people to push others and make comments about others having to have kids, but nowadays people have become aware of the fact it is a very delicate topic and awareness is being raised about it, so not pushy family members are greatly appreciated 💕 At the end of the day, it is the couple who has to decide according to their wishes and possibilities❤
    We are also thinking about where we will live in the future, and probably we will choose Korea since Argentina is not a good option as it is always under some kind of crisis 😅 According to my birth chart and the configurations of my planets (astrology believer here), by 2026 I will move abroad… but right now we are in Buenos Aires🇦🇷
    I love the fact that you want to keep dating and I congratulate you both on that❤ Big hugs and looking forward to your next video🤗🤗🤗

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +7

      That’s beautiful ! I’m very happy for you and your satisfaction with your personal choices 💚

  • @Finepige12
    @Finepige12 Před 10 měsíci +13

    I appreciate you talking about kids and future plans, especially because my boyfriend and I are kind of in the same situation as you guys. We're talking about moving, getting married and all that stuff and idk after I've turned 25 the same thing you mentioned with like imagening bringing kids to places which seem magical to me and what i would have loved as a kid, it happens sooo frequently - so nice to hear someone else talking about it ahaha.
    Derudover tak for dine vlogs, sætter pris på dem og også at du faktisk svarer på folks kommentarer ahah 😁 dejlig dag til jer ❤

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Tusind tak! 💚 åh det er en spændende tid for dig også! Alt held og Lykke og kærlighed her fra 💚

  • @oopsitsnoella
    @oopsitsnoella Před 10 měsíci +4

    The cinematography of your videos is amazing

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Awww thank you 💚💚

  • @chastrom
    @chastrom Před 10 měsíci +5

    it's so beautiful to see how you guys have grown, as individuals and as a couple ❤️🥰

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Aww thanks love 💚

  • @matildahenriksson1064
    @matildahenriksson1064 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I'm not sure if I can word this right but I just wanted to say I love the way you portray your relationship. I've watched you for awhile now and as a Swedish person living in Korea for the past few years and in a long term relationship I feel like I've related the most to yours. Of course I know we are only seeing bits and pieces of your lives, but I often feel that my relationships gets treated as wow you're foreign and he's Korean from some people when that's not why we started dating each other or what attracted us to each other either. And always when I watch your vlogs with your husband it feels very much just this is your husband, yes you have struggles as an international couple ofc, but also it's just a very happy and loving real relationship between two people who love each other.

  • @solene9848
    @solene9848 Před 10 měsíci +4

    The intro is so sweet already, I love the warm mood 🥹🧡

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Thank you love 🥰💚

  • @ItzelAylin
    @ItzelAylin Před 10 měsíci +2

    I love that you write the Korean version of the places to visit, I recently learned how to read Korean. It definitely helps me practice and not lose It ♥️

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      I glad !! It’s often easier to find on NAVER if you know the Korean name so that’s why I write it 💚

  • @niksotinu
    @niksotinu Před 10 měsíci +2

    honestly I just discovered your channel and watching this video makes me want to watch more!! It’s such a comfortable space ❤❤ lots of love from Canada-!! ❤❤😊😊

  • @SamFournier
    @SamFournier Před 9 měsíci +1

    I also never imagined having a relationship with someone from another country… it’s wild where life can take you. I also understand all the added struggles with all the added paperwork, such a headache but it’s all worth it. I look forward to seeing how your life unfolds.❤

  • @drvalencia10
    @drvalencia10 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I love that you are very open in having kids. Most comments I see online always says "preserve your life quality, do not have kids!" It's hard having a baby but I don't get why other people seem to despise them. I myself didn't have a baby until now and was married for 9 yrs. I really wasn't against having a child but I also didn't force it. I enjoyed my life without a baby but I am the happiest now that I have her.

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Yeah I feel like there’s lots of hostility from both sides towards different opinions and it’s a shame we can’t just all appreciate and accept our personal choices 💚🙊

  • @michelelovesbooks
    @michelelovesbooks Před 10 měsíci +3

    I Love your vlogs so much, they always make my day! I’m so excited to see what the future holds for you and Jake, you guys are going to be great parents.

  • @helenlamb5752
    @helenlamb5752 Před 10 měsíci +3

    I love your vlogs Sissel. You are so open and sincere with your comments. It makes me happy watching and listening to you as you talk about your life on Seoul. Thank you 😊💕

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Aww thanks for saying that love 💚

  • @sandihunter1260
    @sandihunter1260 Před 10 měsíci +2

    My son lives in Busan now but has been in Korea for 9 years. He is Canadian and has dated two amazing Korean women. He loves the culture and the people. I am visiting for the first time in 2024 and I have not seen my son for 5 years. I am enjoying your channel.

  • @cj-gunn
    @cj-gunn Před 10 měsíci +1

    This is my favourite vlog ever... Thank you for both being so genuine... The bit about being connected to your inner child resonates as I realised I've been ignoring mine and she needs some TLC... Much love from Tasmania, Australia

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      That’s so sweet, thank you 💚

  • @favourwokocha5663
    @favourwokocha5663 Před 7 měsíci

    I'm so glad to be back. I have been away for school and it feels like im coming back home to catch up with an old friend and so much has happened since I have been away and i'm so happy for you guys. Merry Christmas and happy new year in advance.❤

  • @zeysarica
    @zeysarica Před 10 měsíci +2

    finally my fav youtuber posted!! love your videos so much ❤

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Awww I’m blushing🙊💚

  • @blanche4444
    @blanche4444 Před 10 měsíci +2

    As I saw your stories, I was expecting a new video and ... there you are 💚✨ so far it's a very cute and slow video, love it !
    Enjoy your day ✨

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Thank you so much 💚💚

  • @raquel_loves_her_dog
    @raquel_loves_her_dog Před 10 měsíci +3

    A vlog full of sweetness as always 💕 loved hearing about all your perspective on marriage and the importance of still putting in the effort and going on dates! It is so true that many people around the world decide that after marriage not to try anymore which is kinda sad 🥺 even when having kids it's important to make the time since kids need to see their parents love on each other! 💕

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Absolutely, it brings us so much joy to channel that fresh love a date brings. Thanks love 💚

  • @m.anne.shiveley
    @m.anne.shiveley Před 10 měsíci

    I love your videos! Yours and Cari make such calming and peaceful videos I love to watch. I love how you talk to us while walking the streets of Seoul. 🧡

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Thank you so much 🥹💚

  • @nidadonmez2857
    @nidadonmez2857 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I was feeling so down and sad this past days but this video just made my day, thank you Sissel! 💚

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      I’m sorry to hear that love, I hope you’re feeling better 💚

  • @sophiaz.3433
    @sophiaz.3433 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Such a beautiful vlog like always 💚 if you ever come to berlin/europe, would u consider doing like a picnic meet n greet or something of sorts? Would be so nice to meet this beautiful community one day:) also I went to the Paloma wool pop up when it was happening here in berlin and I loooved all their pieces as well (also bought a skirt!) thank u also for sharing your thoughts about where to raise ur kids and where to live in the future etc. 🌸 my boyfriend and I (who I also consider the love of my life) also have these kind of doubts/uncertainties bc we’re split between Chile and Germany 😅 so hearing you makes me feel comprehended 🧸 lots of love

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +2

      Yeah international relationships aren’t easy due to many different reasons, but love is love and you just gotta do what you gotta do 🥹💚 actually I’m going back to Europe next week! Excited to share with you all soon 💚

    • @kenzanassiri9865
      @kenzanassiri9865 Před 10 měsíci +3

      Maybe we should plan a little meet up for the Berlin community 😊

    • @sobean9309
      @sobean9309 Před 10 měsíci

      I would join too :) @@kenzanassiri9865

    • @sophiaz.3433
      @sophiaz.3433 Před 10 měsíci

      @@kenzanassiri9865 that would be so fun!

  • @Melly2706
    @Melly2706 Před 10 měsíci +2

    as always a realistic and cozy video ❤

  • @ginacruz3712
    @ginacruz3712 Před 8 měsíci

    I love watching your videos. You are so real. Love your personality. I think you and Jake are such a good couple. I wish you both all the best.

  • @adeleange
    @adeleange Před 10 měsíci

    the paloma wool bag matching your outfit? yes 👌
    we are not tired of baby talk, so don´t worry 😊
    you and Jake, always a pleasure to listen 😍
    seriously, can i steal your friends? so lovely to see such an inspiring group of women ✨

  • @IK-bm4oc
    @IK-bm4oc Před 10 měsíci +1

    Seoul Forest is soooo beautiful place! ❤

  • @fatimapantaleon24
    @fatimapantaleon24 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I wish you the best in this new stage that you are going to begin in your married life, I wish you both the best 🫂🤍🇲🇽

  • @RexSixteen
    @RexSixteen Před 9 měsíci

    I SO agree on the “new houses lack soul”!!!

  • @kirbysaxby1650
    @kirbysaxby1650 Před 10 měsíci

    oh this video gave me such cozy vibes it was so nice and relaxing :)

  • @peacelife
    @peacelife Před 10 měsíci +2

    Love get to see your vid again. I follow but somehow I dont see it on my feed even with notification turn on. Thanks for being so real, funny and sharing aww love how the vid went. Your path seem so fun now. I get you about not marrying nationality. Im Asian and moved to the U.S.❤😂

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Ah that’s so odd ! Hmm…. But thanks love 💚💚

  • @dafneestefan
    @dafneestefan Před 10 měsíci

    I’m so glad for you!! Wish you the happiest life

  • @AP-bs2yj
    @AP-bs2yj Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank you for sharing! I really enjoy your videos, so warm.❤ And oh my God, I need to go to Seoul Forest with my kid It's so pretty there ❤ The biggest thing I miss after moving to Seoul is that I don't see that many people with children here and it's a bit harder to make friends with other parents (and help the baby to make friends and sociolize). I've never been to Denmark, but I think it sounds amazing to live there as well!

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Most young kid families are living in high rise apartment communities ! There are mothers and kids everywhere where I live and on the playgrounds, it seems to be where most socializing happens. It’s a bit harder in villas unless there are playgrounds and schools nearby 💚

  • @kimsie7103
    @kimsie7103 Před 10 měsíci +6

    I have been with my partner for 8 years, and I have been harassed, in a loving way, by every person we have ever met to have children.
    I don't know if it's curiosity from people. My husband is Irish and I'm Central American. Or they are just bring pushy because we have been together for so long.
    Being Latin my family has always demanded me to have children but I am too selfish. I like being with myself doing whatever I want whenever I want. But not going to lie I sometimes get curious myself. His family is the same way honestly.
    Honestly is it it wrong to not want children but want them at the same time? I have 3 fur babies and I don't think I'm ready for human babies.

    • @ann-chiyu3193
      @ann-chiyu3193 Před 10 měsíci +1

      I am sorry for you that you are being pushed 🙈 I have been with my partner for 7 years, but we have never been asked the kids question. Maybe it’s because I just graduated from university and no one with a clear mind would expect us to have a baby while I’m a student or as a recently graduated 😂 but i also can’t really imagine having kids. I like the romanticised idea of it, but I don’t think I will be having kids within the next 5 years. I want to build my career first and then maybe one day I will be ready for a child.

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +1

      I’m so sorry to hear about that! That must be extremely uncomfortable and I definitely thing you used the right word describing it as harassment. It can even make you doubt your own feelings which is very uncomfortable.. my only advice is that if there’s some tiny though of kids in your mind deep down to just go and freeze your eggs if it’s accessible to you. Tell no one who’s usually nagging you tho… anyways, again I’m sorry to hear about all of this! I wish you two the best 💚💚💚

  • @Darthv1der
    @Darthv1der Před 10 měsíci +1

    you help me go through my dayy

  • @mollymo6229
    @mollymo6229 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I am also engaged and also have terrible baby fever 🤒 😂😂 we are on the same boat ! Also is from another nationality (he taught me his language) (also different ethnicity) and locations, schooling method, International school from my country, a lot more come into the picture if I had just dated someone from my own country. Even jokes I have to explain or cannot explain due to language barrier. It’s very fulfilling!

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Whew, that’s a whole deal! But isn’t love just so beautiful that we’ll gladly go through all of these stresses? 💚 sending you lots of love and baby energy haha

  • @VirgoCarnation
    @VirgoCarnation Před 10 měsíci +1

    I'm so here for the baby talk. I'm also starting to get baby crazy, hahaha

  • @TerraSix88
    @TerraSix88 Před 10 měsíci

    It would really suck if I met someone from another country I really liked in my home country and entered into a relationship, only to find out that one of her dealbreakers is that we would have to live in her country sometime in the future, so kudos to Jake for his willingness. Personally, while I love visiting other countries. having to permanently relocate would be too overwhelming because I’m too used to the environment and way of life in my country.
    So uprooting all of that and having to virtually start over somewhere else is quite daunting, even if I really like that person. It really underscores the importance of bringing this up in the very early stages of dating.

  • @irenefung6221
    @irenefung6221 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I’m glad you had the kids topic, a lot of couples on you tube are sensitive about the subject either they are having fertility issues or some just don’t want kids which is sad. Thank you for opening up to us.

  • @jennak2720
    @jennak2720 Před 9 měsíci

    love you sissel xo

  • @Aishteru2525
    @Aishteru2525 Před 9 měsíci

    I've been following your videos since 2018 I can't believe you're already married😫😭

  • @veejohn139
    @veejohn139 Před 10 měsíci

    Another amazing vlog. I really appreciate your love affair with amazing food , drink and fashion ❤

  • @StormiGenshin
    @StormiGenshin Před 7 měsíci

    Hi! This is my “gaming” account, I’ve just discovered your channel after waking up super randomly super hungry hahaa. Your videos are so enjoyable and such a good vibe. Imagine my surprise hearing you play Genshin hahahaha
    All the best xx

  • @denisejones1863
    @denisejones1863 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I would move to Denmark is it were more affordable than Korea. If Jakes Dad and Mom are willing to move also that would be great. It is important to live where your current lifestyle is supported. Of course Korea is very pro child and does a lot to support new parents.

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Denmark definitely is much more expensive, but it’s my country and I would want to raise my kids at some point there. Perhaps when the first will attend school. It’s very important to me. Unfortunately immigrating to Denmark is very hard for foreigners so that’ll be a challenge 💚

  • @dennysun9051
    @dennysun9051 Před 7 měsíci

    결혼후 현실적이고 일상적으로 맞이하는 얘기에 스며들었네요.😅

  • @hazecliff7173
    @hazecliff7173 Před 10 měsíci

    So happy for youuuuu

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Thank you so much 💚🥹

  • @katepadua1204
    @katepadua1204 Před 10 měsíci

    OMG did my two favesssss jussttt mettt ahckkk

  • @justalexism
    @justalexism Před 10 měsíci +3

    I loved Denmark so much and I agree it seems like a beautiful place to raise a family. I would have gladly volunteered as tribute for marriage and raising a family in Denmark 😂 jk. Much love, Sissel 💚 great vlog as always.

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Hahaah girl me too, thanks love 💚

  • @obg3260
    @obg3260 Před 10 měsíci +3

    As a person of a religious and a "conservative" background, I always wondered if for people who lived with eachother for years without marriage, is it really different after marriage , I mean they get to go through everything together, what difference does it make?? is it just the commitment, cause I can see it for people who never lived together to move in with someone after marriage and get to see the real them, anyways I'm genuinely curious! don't come at me :D

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +3

      Totally perfectly normal and very encouraged here to be curious ! Actually what I found the biggest change was just different expectations from each other, our families and society! Usually when you get married officially lots of things change like health care, banking loans, visas, etc 💚

    • @obg3260
      @obg3260 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@sisselab oh I see, on the bright side people who already lived together have a lot of other issues sorted out and by that I mean getting to know someone's everyday habits, sexual life, boundaries... in your case you get to focus on other also as important things in life, well i wish you luck and hope you have a happy marriage life

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      @@obg3260yes absolutely! I definitely personally love that we had 1,5 of living together before we got married 💚

  • @pioni_i
    @pioni_i Před 10 měsíci

    totally agree with Jake's dad

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Ahhh I hope you’re loving it! 💚

  • @user-ok9ec1rq8c
    @user-ok9ec1rq8c Před 9 měsíci +1

    Hi Sissel, I am an elderly woman from France country side and I am a bit accro to kdramas lol so I am very interesting in Korea in general and concerned by the way of kids living.they seem to be only studying till late at night and don’t have a lot of fun , Denmark has a much better reputation for raising children. Parents seem obsessed by university in Korea. I understand It’s a big question for you both. Thank you for your videos I love everything you do and learn a lot ❤❤❤

  • @ayselnbiyeva7239
    @ayselnbiyeva7239 Před 10 měsíci +2

    "Find your Oppa"😉😆

  • @ruthdelmulle5748
    @ruthdelmulle5748 Před 10 měsíci

    Omg, yes Jake, even in Europe the pressue for having kids is so real xD. Got married a year ago and they are still asking why there are no kids yet 😅😅

  • @Yeodoongiiie
    @Yeodoongiiie Před 10 měsíci

    💕 i can't believe you can walk around in shorts this time of year !! isn't it usually so cold on October? 🍂🍂🍂

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Actually it’s super beautiful and comfortable weather these days! 22 during the day and 13 ish in the night 💚

  • @nalaa9618
    @nalaa9618 Před 10 měsíci

    Hey Sissel, have you ever thought about becoming a Family vlogger? There are many mixed reactions from youtubers to keeping their baby´s identity private or putting them into videos. How do you feel about this, since this is such a huge topic of Jake and yourself.

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Definitely won’t be a family vlogger haha, still want to be very selective with how much I show of kids 💚

  • @laurapetrova563
    @laurapetrova563 Před 10 měsíci

    I love your videos❤ wish u would upload even more,hahaha😂

  • @VejenTilSygeplejerske
    @VejenTilSygeplejerske Před 10 měsíci

    Mew i want a cinnamon bun now! I have a chocolate mousse cake but no cinnamon bun 🥲

  • @mollyandfreya
    @mollyandfreya Před 10 měsíci

    lovely video! :)))

  • @marenhumblebee2736
    @marenhumblebee2736 Před 9 měsíci

    I like the new sofa table. I have been looking for sth suitable for my house forever and there is just nothing comparable here in Germany. Two of the Koreatubers I follow have sofatables I would like, but I can’t find anything like that here. You and 2hearts1seoul ^^

  • @scarletf5580
    @scarletf5580 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Having a child brings the whole date situation to non existant other than your child sleeps early and you aren't too exhausted from the day then you maybe have a drink and talk. But other than that. Everything needs to be planned out according to the childs needs. Especially, who takes care of the child, do they know the needs of the child etc etc. And something I thought would be possible but totally isn't. You can't go on dates with your child. Having your child around is always stressful... Just so you know and are prepared before getting pregnant and a child. I wished someone told me beforehand 😅

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Actually I prefer people not to tell me how it will be for us, I keep hearing so many different stories of how couples fare becoming parents and I would much rather not expect anything beforehand 💚 however it’ll be, it’s a blessing

  • @jangsy33
    @jangsy33 Před 10 měsíci +1

    How do you keep your makeup off of your white sweater/white clothing?

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Just make sure not to touch it with my face haha 💚

  • @piadabrown
    @piadabrown Před 10 měsíci

    You guys are really lucky with your families being so caring & supportive. And since your only goal to come to korea was to develop a career it's lovely to see that it all came naturally.
    About feeling the pressure of having kids & being married to a foreign man: my first marriage was with a mexican and actually - it was the complete opposite. Nothing came/felt naturally. Weeks before getting married his family was already pressuring me/us with us having kids, saying things like: "on honeymoon you gotta give it your everything" etc. And it became worse, the expectations went through the roof after getting married. To be honest - I believe this pressure played a huge part in why our marriage failed. We both weren't ready to have kids & also he showed no interest whatsoever in moving to my home country. Not even for a few years. Mexico is a dangerous place. If we'd had kids I would have wanted to raise them in a safe country after all. Needless to say: it never happened.
    You are so blessed to have a husband at your side (+ his family) that does not shy back from the thought of you raising your kids abroad, even if that would mean sacrificing precious time in which they (his parents) wouldn't be able to see them (your kids), because travelling back & forth isn't always possible.
    I'm looking forward to see you guys taking your future steps together. I feel so grateful to you & your vlogs, they do provide some sort of inner peace to me every time I get to watch them 😘

  • @user-ps2il4tz7b
    @user-ps2il4tz7b Před 10 měsíci

    7:26 Where did get the Sweart shirt from?

  • @pupu6948
    @pupu6948 Před 10 měsíci

    😍😍😍

  • @user-mb9yd4yq1u
    @user-mb9yd4yq1u Před 9 měsíci

    카메라가 어떤걸 사용하시는거지 하면서 1:26 에서 203 카메라 아무리 찾아도 안나옴. 곰곰히 생각해보니 반전이면 EOS 군요 ㅋㅋㅋ

  • @crazybotches236
    @crazybotches236 Před 10 měsíci

    Your home is so cute! Where is the sofa from 😊

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Thank you! It’s from a Korean brand called Flat Point 💚

  • @thankyouuniverse3682
    @thankyouuniverse3682 Před 10 měsíci +1

    What do you mean, "you dont know why?" you got into that line quickly? Isnt your friend a literal model and or famous ish person? Pretty sure THATS why you got in in front of all the "peasants" lol. (Im a "peasant" so im just kidding btw). But youre friends with an influencer so thats obviously why lol and i dont think you should play that down. Just be open about it. Looks like a fun time, glad you had fun!!! Love your personality, you seem like such a sweet and gentle soul. ❤

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +1

      girl no it doesn’t work like that 🤣 the line was gone when we came back so we were able to get in

  • @crimmhiltwitzki648
    @crimmhiltwitzki648 Před 10 měsíci +1

    결혼했다고욧? 축하드려욧

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      감사합니다 ~ 💚

  • @mariamartinezpalma9179
    @mariamartinezpalma9179 Před 10 měsíci

    good afternoon, thank you, a very natural and beautiful video, here's very sincere, transparent, that's how I perceive it, take care of yourself, always be happy, greetings from Maria

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Thank you Maria 💚

  • @AnaCW
    @AnaCW Před 10 měsíci

    Lovely cozy video ☺️
    Being a mum of 2 and not a content creator its a doubt i have about kids and social media. Will u show your kids on your videos? Is something that you think about it? I follow many asian couples and mostly decided to protect their kids privacy and such and i totally understand that. Just curious about your thoughts on this and Jake’s of course. 😘

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +3

      It’s something I’ve thought about a loooot yes.. I won’t be blurring my child’s face but they won’t grow up with a camera in their face. This channel is about me, and probably will be changing into me as a mother, but it will never be a family channel. I also will be very selective with the moments I choose to share of the baby. However, this might change when I do become a mother, I don’t know but I’ll follow my heart when the time comes 💚

  • @ajs6750
    @ajs6750 Před 10 měsíci

    Not easy getting your non-eu spouse into Denmark !!

    • @sobean9309
      @sobean9309 Před 10 měsíci

      oh really? Do the rules differ in the EU? I'm in Germany and it was no problem bringing in my non-EU husband

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Yeah… it’s so freaking difficult … 😭💚

  • @donatellavalentini1030
    @donatellavalentini1030 Před 10 měsíci

    Bravi che siete progettate far figli e una cosa stupenda far famiglia lui sicuramente sarà un papà bravo e amatevi sempre vi tifo x voi la mia amica e uba coreana troppo forte vi saluto amo la corea ciaooo

  • @alwaystop1357
    @alwaystop1357 Před 2 měsíci

    70년대에 살인등 강력 범죄율이 높았던게 아니라 서울에는 좀도둑이 있었죠.
    시골에는 도둑이 없어서 문이 없는 집도 많았지만 서울에는 70대에는 도둑이 꽤 있었습니다.

  • @kevindevaojoo8882
    @kevindevaojoo8882 Před 10 měsíci

    시슬
    점쟁이한테 점보러 갈때
    봤는데 벌써 결혼했어???
    대단하다 장하다 시슬
    ㅎㅎㅎㅎ
    결혼 축해해용 ~~~~~
    결혼식은 형식일 뿐
    둘이 행복하면 그게 최고

  • @njerinjaramba4330
    @njerinjaramba4330 Před 10 měsíci

    I love your red nails,

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Thanks!! Just changed them today 🫢💚

    • @njerinjaramba4330
      @njerinjaramba4330 Před 10 měsíci

      @@sisselab Ow, they were so pretty ❤️

  • @cosmogryal610
    @cosmogryal610 Před 10 měsíci

    YOU PLAY GENSHIN IMPACT OMG ?

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      Girl you’ve been sleeping! Hahaha 💚💚💚

  • @rosiya1
    @rosiya1 Před 2 měsíci

    70년대 법죄율이 높다는거는 좀 이해가 안가네요...안전했었습니다. 그 당시는 소매치기 같은게 좀 있었고...저도 그 시기를 살았던 사람이라 동네 문 다 열어 놓고 살던 시기 입니다.
    오히려 그당시는 이웃간의 교류가 많았던 시기 입니다. 동네에 따라 조금 높았던 곳이 있을 수 있었는데...절도범들도 좀 있었던거 같아요..

  • @annatakano8237
    @annatakano8237 Před 10 měsíci

    I am in the same situation as you and have same problem:(( For us Getting jobs for him is very difficult..

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci

      It’s not easy to move like that… I wish you the very best 💚

  • @peeterrjinnn
    @peeterrjinnn Před 9 měsíci

    Koreans are not ready to let you leave korea.

  • @suhyunkim1463
    @suhyunkim1463 Před 10 měsíci

    14:24: well that's great future contribution with the population declining xD

  • @kranked3363
    @kranked3363 Před 10 měsíci

    Korea's population is shrinking but you're going to Denmark and growing theirs? 🤪😜

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +1

      our choices aren’t affected by that, why should it? There are many reasons why koreas population is shrinking, the most obvious being that the government has created an environment where people don’t want to raise kids in. So we will leave at some point 💚

    • @kranked3363
      @kranked3363 Před 10 měsíci

      Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.- Barack Obama

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@kranked3363does not work for this situation. this country is not optimized for a fulfilling life for many people, that’s the governments fault not the peoples

    • @MG-eq6mx
      @MG-eq6mx Před 10 měsíci

      @@sisselab맞는말 하셨네요! 소득대비 주택가격은 미친수준! 결혼하려면 엄청난빗더미로 시작해야해서…❤

  • @LoveFamke
    @LoveFamke Před 10 měsíci

    great vlog 14:16 if you had a editor he would probleby add this video of Shia LaBeouf in, you know this " DO IT JUST DO IT,, 🤭🤭🤭😇. Parenting Is A Lifelong Commitment just like you both with your parents ones you have kids there will be less dates so i think its not wrong to have kids later you both are still very young

  • @_.empress.azure._
    @_.empress.azure._ Před 10 měsíci +1

    So grateful for your continuous input on actual daily life
    Also CINNABONS! They're my LIFE! 🥹🥹🥹😋😋

  • @foreverspaceman
    @foreverspaceman Před 10 měsíci

    red nail suits you!

  • @MoonSya2
    @MoonSya2 Před 10 měsíci

    Ty for the video Sissel and all the efforts you put in them from an avid watcher in Paris💗🫶🏽

    • @sisselab
      @sisselab  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Thank YOU for watching 💚