"that friend" - mad (original song)
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- čas přidán 2. 07. 2020
- hey guys! it's been a hot minute since I actually took time to post a full song of mine! I've been working two jobs at the moments and working on music/tik toks all at the same time and it's been incredibly hectic! But anyway, I wrote this song "that friend" about being the friend in a friend group that is always pushed to the side, is always kinda a third wheel in conversations, and never really appreciated enough. I feel like everyone has been in a situation where they were "that friend", and I wanted to write this song to talk about how being in that position can make someone feel. I posted this not knowing that it would get over 1 million views and 350k likes on Tik Tok in just a day! I was honestly blown away with how many people really related and were impacted by the song. Us third wheels gotta stick together. :')
love you guys,
mad
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"that friend" (lyrics):
I guess I’m that friend
The one walking three steps behind cause’ the sidewalk’s not wide enough and my friends talk on by
Never included in the conversation
I’m the king of my plane of existence
I guess I’m a ghost
Alone and my friends and I aren’t close cause’ they think I’m a burden so I don’t let my feelings show
They forgot when it was my birthday
At least the tears in my cake were gourmet
I’m tired of being last pick
Treated like a side chick
A background character for all of my life
Well I guess I’m that friend and my friends just pretend that I’m somebody that they like
I guess I’m that friend
The one that hangs with the group that ain’t close enough to anyone to have someone to talk to
I got friends but I’m still lonely
If we played the quiet game I’d win all the trophies
I guess I just exist
I’m not missed no one seems to even notice that I’m listening I got feelings and I ain’t very outspoken
They forgot to invite me to the party
Got a text like “we forgot you we’re sorry!”
I’m tired of being last pick
Treated like a side chick
A background character for all of my life
Well I guess I’m that friend and my friends just pretend that I’m somebody that they like
I don’t wanna be a door mat
Not someone you can step on
Just hear me out before I leave
Don’t wanna be invisible
This friendship is so miserable
I’m someone you don’t want or need
I’m tired of being last pick
Treated like a side chick
A background character for all of my life
Well I guess I’m that friend and my friends just pretend that I’m somebody that they like
I’m tired of being last pick
Treated like a side chick
A background character for all of my life
Well I guess I’m that friend and my friends just pretend that I’m somebody that they like - Hudba
someone disliked the vid and it hasn’t even premiered yet I- HAHA
Amazing song!!❤️❤️
They r REALLY impatient aren’t they? 😂 I absolutely love this song I relate to it so much ♥️♥️ can’t wait for future masterpieces!!
Love your music!
Please put this song on spotify❤❤
Well hawing haters just means you’re famous :)
This song perfectly describes my friendship with a lot of people ;(
You’re my friend now 😤😤
tuff
I have the same thing😢
Same, they sometimes don't notice when I'm gone
Tyler Lee there not your true friends if this is how they treat you darling. I think its time to meet new ppl, that will appreciate you for YOU. BigLove take care & I'm sorry that you've been treated this way. My daughter played this to her Dad & said this is how she's been treated by her friends @ School. I said the same thing to her with what I've written here + more other things. BigLove 💗🦋
And whenever you tell someone you feel like you have no real friends their all like "what are you talking about? You have so many friends."
@Katherine Kohout ikr.
@Katherine Kohout my friend told me somethn then said “I don’t even have 6th amount of the friends you have” as I was venting, screwed my head up
"You have me"
Yes, as fake friend💁🏽♀️
I guess im just that friend that everyone goes to, to tell their problems..but wont listen to mine..
I can listen if you need :)
Same :)
same- :/
Literally tho, im so tired hearing their sh*t lmao
Same
I legit cried cuz this hits too hard..
The worse thing is when those “friends” hang out and you don’t know until they post it on their status and when you ask why they didn’t invite you they say something like “oh you wouldn’t have fun anyway”
My friends did that to me on Halloween since they cancelled the party and said they weren't going to do anything on Halloween now so imagine my surprise when I ran into all of them trick or treating together and to add a little extra in there they kinda ignored me when I tried to hang out with them
@@placidtheclown1933 I’m so sorry they did that. D: I hope you can meet better friends because I’m not so sure they’re right for you. But if things work out I hope it is all going well❤️stay strong
@Juliet Mercedes Okay saying “oh well you wouldn’t have liked it anyways” just shows how much they don’t bother. I hope you can find better people or maybe talk to better people :
@@katieblox7023 ahhhh thanks, wasn't expecting a response but thank you
@@placidtheclown1933 Of course! 😢 It’s sad how we’re all going through it but hopefully even this reply gives you a little light when it’s dark in this world 😨
You deserve to be treated properly, don’t settle for less sometimes!❤️
not too long ago I found out all of my "friends" have a groupchat with all of them in it and ft constantly and they just conveniently forgot to add me to it and have yet to do so haha sucks being the second choice to literally everyone you know
yeah,that happens to me,every single time i move to a new school
I relate...
Same bruh 💔💔💔😔😔😔
I feel ya bro, I feel ya. cause thas me
A similar thing happened to me except it wasn’t a group chat it was constantly “forgetting” to invite me to hang out, but then would talk about it in front of me. I’ve moved on from them and am now with friends that wanna be around me and appreciate my existence.
I'm in many friend groups but i've always been the guy in the back. this song describes my life perfectly
Drop em
We learned that these friendships are toxic, so go find someone else please.💜 I do get if you don't have anyone else, cause my situation is like that
Same
Same
We got you darling! Hang in there
The people who disliked are the people who leave us out :((
um, why is this exactly what i'm going through at the moment? I needed to hear this to realize just how toxic my friends are...
Oh im sorry
I'm going through the same thing☹️
Exactly, but like in my situation I don't really have anyone close to go to otherwise
I can feel how you are, I suffer from depression, I told all my friends but as soon as I told them they dicided to just push me away, so far I lost 7 friends, and right now I have no one but family, although my family hate me💀💢🔫😣😞
omg same I feel you
I NEEED THIS ON MY SPOTIFY PLAYLIST to cry more:,)
sounds relatable
Same
Lol me to :,)
"that friend" (lyrics):
I guess I’m that friend
The one walking three steps behind cause’ the sidewalk’s not wide enough and my friends talk on by
Never included in the conversation
I’m the king of my plane of existence
I guess I’m a ghost
Alone and my friends and I aren’t close cause’ they think I’m a burden so I don’t let my feelings show
They forgot when it was my birthday
At least the tears in my cake were gourmet
I’m tired of being last pick
Treated like a side chick
A background character for all of my life
Well I guess I’m that friend and my friends just pretend that I’m somebody that they like
I guess I’m that friend
The one that hangs with the group that ain’t close enough to anyone to have someone to talk to
I got friends but I’m still lonely
If we played the quiet game I’d win all the trophies
I guess I just exist
I’m not missed no one seems to even notice that I’m listening I got feelings and I ain’t very outspoken
They forgot to invite me to the party
Got a text like “we forgot you we’re sorry!”
I’m tired of being last pick
Treated like a side chick
A background character for all of my life
Well I guess I’m that friend and my friends just pretend that I’m somebody that they like
I don’t wanna be a door mat
Not someone you can step on
Just hear me out before I leave
Don’t wanna be invisible
This friendship is so miserable
I’m someone you don’t want or need
I’m tired of being last pick
Treated like a side chick
A background character for all of my life
Well I guess I’m that friend and my friends just pretend that I’m somebody that they like
I’m tired of being last pick
Treated like a side chick
A background character for all of my life
Well I guess I’m that friend and my friends just pretend that I’m somebody that they like
Thank you!
@@plazmodii8 No problem! < 3
@Veronika Kolev Aww no problem!!
thank you
Thank you 🥰🥺
This is me with my friends
Especially the part about not letting feelings show
you deserve all the hype!
- your AMAZING voice
- relatable lyrics
- good looks...
YES. DROP THE CHORDS SIS
I haven't even heard the song yet and I know it's absolutely perfect
*me coming back here after one of my best friends blocked me on everything without an apparent reason so I’m doubting all of my friendships, feel like a terrible friend and terrible person, and just feeling like I am a burden to everyone around me-*
Don’t say that your not a terrible friend or a burden you are a human being we all have problems and if we keep it to ourselves we would explode hopefully you make another friend that doesn’t make you feel like a burden but rather a companion so that you guys can lean on each other. Also I hope you have a good day
To everyone who relates to this song: It won’t always be this way. I promise. As someone who felt like this all through her teen years and is now in her twenties, I want to let you know that you WILL find the friends who care about you and value you the way you deserve! ❤️
Why does this describe my whole life a while ago?
I nEeD tHa ChOrDs. MaH uKuLeLe iZ wAiTiNg.
x2 🎶
sAME.
Same
same
This is exactly what happened
To me and my friends I always thought it was a little weird when they always said "oh we weren't talking bad about you" Almost all the time I said hello to talk to them I stacked with them throughout sometimes at school they always seemed to ignore me I felt left out and I got so tired of it I got mad but I never told them how I felt I just left them and meet some new friends who gave me a lot more attention and I appreciate that I look back at it and tell myself maybe I was never in that group and I was desperate for friends and thought I could try to fit in with them there is this girl right now and I did this one project with her she instantly tried to be friends with all the time my friends don't trust her because she always told me if she could borrow my stuff I did let her sometimes and I did draw for her I got little offended while drawing for her when she said she looks fat to my drawing that gave her in the end I feel like maybe she's like me but isn't afraid to ask for stuff and speak out she can be rude sometimes and I know that isn't my personality but maybe when she tried to instantly become my friend is how they felt I still couldn't understand why for something today but I'm also glad i left them and ended up somewhere a bit more better.
This all happend in real life and can happen to you guys
But,
Remember your not alone and are loved.
Peace out no hate comments please and have a good day :D
Edit:gosh I wrote so much lol
Damn that was a cool story but use punctuation man i couldnt understand half of it
HEY. YOU. YEAH YOU.
youre my friend now :)
ha thx but you wouldn't want me as your friend
your really nice for making random people smile tho so you sound like a great person
@@asmolyeti6689 im honestly just some dumb 13 year old on the internet, but thanks, you seem great too :)
This song just difines all my life.
I'm gonna cry now
aahhhh so relateable
Can I join you
@@crazybifrog100 let's all cry together T - T
I'm literally listening to this while on a discord vc with 3 other people only talking to each other. when I try to speak they ignore me, my friends talking for me instead. it's hard.
Ok.
1) your kinda cute :)
2) you have the most beautiful voice
3) I relate to this song quite a bit.. :)
“I got friends but I’m still lonely”
*Silently cries while my classmates slowly forgets me*
PLEASE!!! THE CHORDS!!! Im in love to this song ❤❤❤
This describes almost so perfectly my own experience with a friend group I was in.
My crush text me to date in a few minutes ago, I open youtube and see this premieres. THANKS GOD❤️😭
Congrats :)
Great job dude
How did it end?
i hate that i relate to this so much. but it’s beautifully written and i love it
i just came from his tiktok and his live and omg. his voice and his singing 🥺 he’s so talented. i also can literally relate to this so much. sometimes i feel like i’m close to my friends but then i get left out and i guess i get it i just don’t have an outgoing, funny, energetic personality that my friends seem to like...
this song needs to be on Spotify..
Background (side characters) characters have the most interesting backstory, and the best personality.
This honestly explains my “friends” a few years ago. Now I have real friends who actually care. It feels so much better now.
This song made me cry a lot bcs this perfectly describes my friend group two years ago. It hurts a lot seeing your bsf slowly forget about you even though you both are in the same friend group :/
i have a group of friends but they always ignore me and pretend i don't exist. i'm also friends with the quiet kid in my class, but she's actually very comforting and sweet. i'm so glad i found someone i can be happy with.
This needs to be on Spotify I swearrrrr
Ouch, this took me back to dark times... Thankfully this is all past for me, but I wish the best of luck to anyone going through this right now! I promise it gets better. :)
This is such a good song, and this song also make me cried
this song is exactly what my friendships are like with everybody i know
me: buying all my friends a present on their bday them: forgetting my bday🙄😪 me: haha its alr dont worry🤣 😊 me on the inside: mixed emotions feeling left out😫😥😣😑😶
your songs hit deep, love you lot
I used to have a best friend we did everything together but when we got to highschool we met other people so we all hung out together but..they slowly stopped talking to me and they always leave me alone...so this song makes me feel abit better keep up the good work💖
This song perfectly describes how it was for me in my friend group last year. How's the year went by, I became more and more invisible to them. I tried again, but the friendship still failed.
I was in a friend group with people that are very nice but not really fit with me. Then I realized at the end of the year they planned a day without me and giving presents to eachother and a they made a poster of their friend group selfies without me in it. I once read their conversations on whatsapp and one girl was like ' should we give a present to (my name) too?' and all the girls were like 'nahh' and she agreed. I don't wanna unfriend them because otherwise I'll be lonely lonely. If u get what I mean.
This seems just too familiarʕ´•㉨•`ʔ~
keep strength, you don't need them to exist and you're worthy as you are♡
This song literally describes my "new friends". I just want to go back to being the weird kid and being friends with people that actually loved me...
I’ve been waiting all my life for someone to right this and I’m crying but I’m happy
Why did you write a song about me😭
i cannot tell u HOW MUCH I RELATE TO THIS- every single part
same. Every single lyric. I felt the pain.
I love your song so much.🥺❤️
Heres a thought that always comes to my mind when i read comment sections of things like this.
You guys know we don’t have to be lonely right?All of us people that feel this way can just be friends with each other.❤️
the fact that this describes all the years i spent with that friend group, i'm not in it anymore tho, i found some friends that are just lovely people💕
I always felt like this, just, there, and when I left a toxic friend group, one of the people suddenly wanna talk to me, but I ended blocking them on every social media app I had, My online friends have treated me so much better and they are so nice, even if they aren't even in america, and 2 of them want to help me with writing a book of some sort. I'm very happy with the friends I have now, while the other groups suddenly want me back because they miss me, or because they wanna manipulate me again :)
Omg I'm so touchted by your music, i had so much friends like this, I almost cried, i loved it please put it on spotify.
This describes the friendship that I have with a lot of people.🙂 I feel that only one of them actually understands me and cares about what I do and say.😌
I listen to this song every time I‘m hanging out or just walking around with people and feel super excluded to feel better
This song is so great, it's super relateable and just showcases your talent amazingly
Finally someone that understands. My friend group (7 of us total) they went to the beach and i didn't know til i view their stories 😅
on my birthday my best friends didn't wish me a happy birthday which isn't a big deal but the thing i cant get over is that I've known them since i was 3 and I even reminded them.
my family didn't even wish my a happy birthday until like noon or they wished me the next day.
..this is so sad. i'm here for you.
@@daniel-zn7jb thanks soo so much this was like 2-3 years ago but I still cry and this made me cry because you’re so sweeettt thanks a lot
@@lunexzs3941 aww thanks again, if you ever need me you can ask me for my insta for dis love you stranger
Happy ; birthday
@@Iexbee why are people just so nice and thank you
That feeling when you find a song that just feels like it was written only for you... Thank you for putting that out there ❤️
I love the way he said "sorry"
This is how my 'friend group' feels to me, I was only there because my best friend is friends with them, they all have a group chat together without me but they still be nice to me. Yet they don't include me in anything, my best friend is literally the only person I legitimately feel like I'm friends with in that group. Though I admire the others in the group, we don't talk. My best friend says they're always saying nice things about me but I just feel detached and intrusive. They do all sorts of stuff together without me.
It's funny how I thought being with my friends would make me feel less lonely, but the truth is they make me feel more lonely.
this almost made me cry bc I'm that friend. :(
Sad to say I relate to this, friends forgot my bday, lied to me and left me behind
I wish y’all find those friends who listen even late into the night
I feel the same, like I just feel like I can't talk because then people talk behind my back and say I talk to much but if I don't talk there is something wrong. I just want someone that won't go and tell my secrets, talk crap, or leave me out when I'm depressed. Thanks dude, I really vibe with this.
Also our guy friend came over and we hangout the whole time and they got mad because I left them out like...... I'm excuse me he talked to me too...
MAD IS MY NEW FAVORITE ARTIST AND NO OME CAN CHANGE MY MIND
I remember, a while ago I was "part" of this on friend group, but honestly, i was left out of conversations a lot like if I had to quickly go back to class to fetch something, then when I came back I'd ask "so, what are we talking abt?" And then they'd just reply with "Nothing, nothing. It doesn't matter". And that happened all of the time. Whenever we had to chose groups to be in for a subject (specifically groups of 5) I would always be the one who was left out. I can literally relate to all these lyrics.
ALL OF MAD'S SONGS ARE SO UNDERRATED WHY??? I'M MAD
I want to watch another video but i cant stop replaying this one
This describes my last 2 years of middle school 🥲
the moment u realise that this describes your life perfectly
oh my god you're perfect in every way
this is so accurate, and id never really considered before that this is a relatable position to be in. makes me feel like i was less of a mess back then than i thought 😊
i have two best friends but there’s always that feeling that they like each other more lol 😅😅
"I got friends but I still feel lonely"
My feelings exactly
10 seconds into the song and i already relate to it
I'm right here, quietly crying as there's this constant fear of my friends at the moment.
For soem reason I relate to this song and at the same I don't.
I feel confused about everything at the moment. your voice and songs are very wonderful, that I'm very sure of ^^
Have a wonderful day everyone
i understand this so well; this used to be me, but i wished i had heard this song when i didnt realize how bad my friends were
Mad vibin, needs to be up on spotify so i can listen on repeat for a week straight
😖😖😖
this song is so relatable but very hard to share cause then you're vague-posting about everyone on your friend's list 😭
This song made me cry because it is exactly how my friendships are and i guess it just hit me really hard lol.
ITS STARTING, WE LOVE YOU MAD! < 3
This describes me a few years ago. Things are finally getting better and I have friends who I care about:))
I found your channel just when I logged off from talking with my friends and came to CZcams because they made me sad -so I was trying to cheer myself up and now I think this is the best thing I’ve found 😞
Ur so underrated bro, u literally gave me shivers down my spine ur song is super sick and emotional i love ur content. Best wishes from Romania
This is true for me at certain times. Like in gym or something sporty or something my friends have in common with each other but I don't have that personality trait. But other times we're all best friends
This song made me cry after being unable to for almost 4 months, thank you, I needed to cry a little. :)
This song should be exist like millions ago! Ppl should know how it true feel!!
Thank you for writing it into a song, u make ppl without a viral platform heart being heard
the fact that I relate to every single lyric makes me heartbroken.
When years later after you have move on bcs you found your circle- Wishing this exist when I was still treated this way :') Thank you for this! This reminded me of how my life used to be but hey I moved on and got better friends now! Hope you guys too! But sometimes I do still feel lonely, probably a habit of mine.
My friends from junior high study in schools close to each other, they even live in the same dorm. Whenever I'm with them, I always feel left out in our conversations because we have almost nothing in common these days. I know they still want to have me as a friend, and I know they care for me, but it doesn't make it any easier. We live in different cities, I go to a different university, we interact with different social circles on the daily. I couldn't open up to them about my personal issues because I've drifted so far away from them. It's heartbreaking to send/receive messages only on birthdays, Christmas and New Year's Eve. The messages feel so empty. I miss them.
I love how much emotion you put into your songs, you are an amazing song writer and singer!
For real, I cried listening to this song... so sad I can relate to every verse... 😔
This describes perfectly my toxic friends in middle school. Getting a tone of flashbacks here
omg that side walk one hit home i am literally this friend in all my friendgroups i think i do it to myself honastly
pretty much sums up all of my friendships
I Need the chords 😭😭😭
X2
Even If I can't relate to this song, I just want to say that its basically a crime for this man to be this underrated! You're a complete powerhouse! I love your songs and you totally deserve so much more!
This perfectly describes my whole friendship with 3 people except for the other 2
I’m 6 seconds and I know this is GOLD