How to change your life in a year
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#1 pick one thing to focus on
- write down a list of things you want to work on
- where do you see yourself in 5 years
- write day to day habits that will help you get there
- are you comfortable commiting to these habits every single day?
#2 forcing yourself is a good thing
- don't let the resistance get the best of you
- pretty much 100% of the time, pushing yourself is the right decision
#3 make the process work for you
- you're on your own side
- make the things you want to do easier/more enjoyable
- modify the approach to help you
You could be in a way better place in a year / a couple months if you apply those strategies everyday
(Edit: I love how everyone in this comment section assumed I was a guy lmao)
Was looking for this! Thanks and Happy Festivus!
Thank you good sir
@@Doabit A Festivus for the rest of us lol 🤣
Like on What?
Your thoughts become your words
Your words become your actions
Your actions become your habits
Your habits become your character
And your character becomes your DESTINY
I am a recovering alcoholic. I stopped drinking and smoking at the same day. The same day I started run 5km everyday at 5am. It's now 6 months later. I'm doing 10km everyday. I haven't missed 1 day. I don't care If Im tired. I don't care If the weather is shit. The best thing i ever done in my life. And I love it.
That is amazing, congratulations!
Fr? I couldn’t do that all so soon. I personally have to slowly implement better habits or else, I will completely fail all of my habits
Still doing it?
please keep going
Fuck bud givin it the gears keep it up guy
1. Focus on one thing
2.Force yourself
3 Make the process work for you
For the person who are in hurry 👆
Thank you Private Chad! We are ALL in a hurry, even if we really arent! LOL
@@inconnu4961 nuh-uh
Actually what i've come to realize is after watching thousands of self improvement videos over the years, and flooding my mind with concepts and formulas of productivity, succes, motivation, etcetera. What really helps you is shuting all of it down, social media, even youtube. And starting to DO, anything, just DO, and figure things out, just think for yourself, you are not going to find a magic bullet that's pain-free, the pain goes away once you start moving and getting good at what you are doing.
youre right, i was realising the same thing as i was watching this video that im just flooding my mind with loads of information without doing anything with it the next day. I dont know why i do this. Im gonna try to just Do instead of only thinking about doing
ABSOLUTELY correct!!! I found this the solution once I realized what the videos, CZcams, blogs, lifestyles, practice... I have come to this exact conclusion. Its proof that we are all individual people who adapt and adjust to what is fitting for oneself. I admit they helped at first but, I lost myself in it and became too hard on myself. I click the videos, thinking there would be a difference, but it all comes down to the same guides. The same ideas of self love, discipline and manifestation. I still like the way you worded it. Perfect!
Yess exactly !! At the time when you think you need motivation and you go on search for it , you should do something else so that when you will do something motivation will come along
Motivation is bullshit
This is really helpful. Thank you, I’ve experienced the same thing in many things lol
This guy does what it says on the tin. He gives us BETTER IDEAS. And I appreciate this guy as he has helped me so much mentally. Merry Christmas boys.
I've been on a path of self improvement for over a year now, and his videos have helped me out a lot.
I’ve had the exact same thoughts he explained in this video and it brings me mental clarity seeing him convey it in this organized way
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Sameee
This is so true. I started running just 5 minutes a day. The first couple of days was really hard to get motivated but I noticed I always felt great after the run. After a few more days I would be able to run without having a hard time catching my breathe and my mind would go “you know what I’ll go around the block one more time” the 5 minute run turned into 10 minutes. I felt energized all day and it made me want to run longer or do a couple of sit-ups when I got home, and I noticed I would look forward for my run everyday and this is coming from a very lazy person lol Whenever my schedules tight and I can’t go running I would feel like sht. People around me mention I’m more positive and I feel more relaxed mentally and physically. I would easily spend 10-30 minutes watching Netflix I know this sounds dramatic but the 5 minute run literally changed my life for the better.
Amazing bro, keep going! Constancy is the only way to grew an healthy habit!!
super important i think people forget is that you dont have to dive straight into things just like how here u only needed to start with 5 and it turned to more. very ncie (:
i also run for 5 minutes and lift weights for about 20 minutes and the positive effect it took especially on my mental health is unbelievable
Good stuff👏🏾
Keep exercising my friend.
I know the feeling.
A bit ughhhh leading to the exercise but afterwards you always feel great.
Duuuuuudeeee!! I typed “how to change your life” and your vid came up. I am AMAZED at the amazing advice you’re giving!! It’s like you looked into my soul and spoke directly to it. Like saying it is bs to listen to that voice in your head and doing it anyway. I’ve been listening to that “I’m too tired, I’m too this and that” voice all my life. You express everything so beautifully and clearly. I am in awe. I will listen to this every morning and develop the processes. I will also set the intention to report back a year from now. Thank you. You gave me tools to finally get my ish together.
The real gem of this video was the point about how you'll never actually interact with the goal itself, 100% of the time you are interacting with the daily process/habit. Your relationship has to be with the process. You can't interact with "having 1 million subscribers", you have to interact with the routine of making 1 video a week consistantly, atleast as an example for me trying to build my CZcams channel. Great perspective shift!
very true
This break down made so much sense to me
@@armybby1 Happy to hear that. Powerful realization
That is so true! You reminded me of a video that talks about this.
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So true.
“Do it anyways + stop acting on feelings” has been an incredible game changer for me in the last month. I used to spend ALL my time thinking about all the changes I wish I could make “if I weren’t so tired, or if I had enough time” … well, after a while enough is enough. If you want to implement something new in your life, please just DO IT. You can decide after a few weeks if those things are worth keeping up or not. Stop psyching yourself out before you’ve even tried. Believe in yourself and the outcome. Give yourself permission to be happy.
This is so true brittany i wanted to go on a quest to become the best man i can be by joining the army but I psych myself out of it. God bless you brittany reading this helped
" let go and let's go"..mentality..
Wow so true. Love the advise! I should read each more about that!
my ex name is Brittany and she broke up with me cuz i always acted on my feelings! haha i get it now lol
how do you stop acting on feelings? i be getting so emotional
Thank you for your guidance. So important to keep evaluating and reflecting so you can live the best possible life. There is a lot to be said about forcing yourself to go to gym - I feel
So much better after a good work out - functional area, weight training, swimming, etc. I try to go 2-3 times a week but this can be a struggle to fit around work.
This is so spot on. I came to these conclusions naturally last January when I woke up basically on New Year’s Day (it might have been a day or two later, I don’t remember exactly) and was just exhausted with who I was and wanted to change. I have CPTSD with anger issues, so my goal was to really get my anger under control for real. To do that, I focused on yoga and meditation because I had read that it’s one of the best things for folks overcoming trauma. But I also knew that I was pretty pissed at myself for letting my body go for years and losing strength, so I made the conscious decision to approach yoga from a mental health perspective and not an exercise perspective (it’s absolutely both, but I was still a baby to the whole mind-body connection, so I had to make this distinction in the beginning in order to not get down on myself). So yoga and meditation became my method for achieving mental health (along with trauma informed therapy, of course). Omg this lead me down such a deep and rewarding rabbit hole over the course of a year!! I spent the first couple of months forcing myself to do it until I came to enjoy it and it was no longer a chore. I decided I wanted to learn more about it so I didn’t need to rely on YT, so I took a yoga teacher training course that delved into the philosophy and mind-body connection science, and I got competent enough to be certified and I can create my own sequences and teach. Everything I learned on the mat has real world application off the mat: the biggest being able to sit with discomfort, and finding my edge and going just past it. We learn to identify the difference between useful discomfort where you’re stretching into new areas, and dangerous discomfort where you’re actually hurting yourself, and how to pull away from that back to your edge. If that isn’t a metaphor for anger management, idk what is.
But it went beyond that. Now I was learning to heal the parts of me that felt anger, to identify the hurt child inside that was fighting to protect me and to reparent that child. I went from anger management to healing and post traumatic growth. I’m not fully healed yet, but I do feel like fundamentally different and better person than I was a year ago. And it really is that simple: pick a goal and a method to achieve it, keep going even when you don’t want to, find ways to make it more enjoyable or meaningful, and I’d also say let yourself get sucked into the rabbit hole as you learn more and find new ways to improve. One year really can change your life.
such a strong person keep grinding
"You don't interact with the goal, you interact with the process" (paraphrased) is such a good thing to remember. I'm going to apply these tips as I develop my art skills this year.
So true. You have to want to become the person who can achieve the goal
as someone who's been burnt out: when you're on your way to burnout, the voice in your head never tells you you're burnt out. it makes you believe you can and _should_ do everything. in this case, you need to stop yourself, and _not_ do all the things in the world to be productive, but instead focus on rest and recovery (especially if you haven't practiced that before).
however as someone's who's also struggling with depression, _that_ voice telling you that you can't do it is lying. you can do things like eat, exercise and brush your teeth. but when you don't, the voice is gonna tell you that you're lazy, and then it's just a vicious cycle of you telling yourself you can't do anything. you need baby steps and appreciating yourself for completing every baby step.
in both of these cases, you need to be more gentle with yourself, and prioritize self care, instead of tHe hUsTle lol.
for me, burnout was accompanied by depression, but they're extremely different & need to be handled differently (which is hard if they're there at the same time lol). the voice isn't always telling the truth, but it can also lie in both directions. most importantly, seek professional help if you think you might need it (i probably wouldn't have survived without real help tbh)
Totally! Which is sort of what I was getting at with the third tip. Pushing yourself past resistance is healthy. But it's important to realize you're on your own side. Make the things that you KNOW are good for you, feel good as well. When you can achieve this balance, these keystone habits are things that can PREVENT burnout instead of cause it. Good luck!!
@@betterideas damn never thought you’d reply, what an honour lol! that’s really true, and it’s hard when both issues are kind of “against” you, but in completely different ways. i tend to swing between extreme productivity (and then not taking care of myself) and complete lethargy (and then _also_ not taking care of myself - but for a different reason) so finding the balance in which i’m actually healthy is what i have to work on.
merry christmas & thanks for awesome videos!
This was great, thank you. I have been committed to bettering myself since I burnt out from work a month ago and finally took 2 weeks of PTO, my girlfriend broke up with me right when PTO started, but I am still driven, maybe even more so from the breakup. Your idea of recording things before morning coffee is great, and I have created a Google doc to record my progress. I'll leave a link to this video in the doc with a reminder to come back in one year and update this comment with what has happened.
A few things I am not following though are I am not just doing one thing, I know you said that can be detrimental, but I have and am used to a lot of things "cooking" at the same time, I believe without the distraction of my ex and with a little discipline I should be able to get a list and action plan together and record my progress over time. In a way, my "one thing" is keeping this plan of what I need to do... I think the key is not letting yourself say "Ah, I'm too tired to work out" as you mentioned in the video, and being diligent about recording updates in the morning before coffee and setting goals and time into your routine. That's the plan, thank you for the advice!
Its 31st of December today. Soon the clock will strike 12, then past it. But this time, i don't just want the year's number to change; I want to change myself too, for the better, gradually the best. There are three major things I want to work on.
-My physical health
-My mental health
-Discipline.
As of now I take up Discipline the prime thing to work on with a dash of daily yoga with adriene just for little me time, no goaley-goal as such (so as to save myself from the guilt later if i god forbid break in between).
I hope i can make it work this time. I really do.
Good luck to you all.
A very Happy New Year to all my fellows who are on this wonderful journey to change themselves for the better :D
I’m in the same situation. Good luck and happy new year :)
@@Wyreshark1 good luck :)
Hey bro. How’s it going so far. Hope it’s good
@@cestvic9781 it is. i am focusin on 1 goal that is yoga, and been doing it daily so far. how abou you?
Same situation best of luck
I have a sneaking suspicion that whenever my brain tells me I'm burning out, in reality it's just trying to avoid doing the difficult task.
And I find if you push yourself to just get that task done you find yourself all of a sudden getting a nice boost in morale and energy after getting the ball rolling with that task
I'm not sure if you know how profound what you just said actually is.
@@denvernow7294 Literally me. My mind is blown.
You will make it. Yes YOU! It does not matter what everyone else told you, If you believe in yourself no one can stop you. I believe in you, you will make it. 2022 will be your best year. Your beliefs create your reality. *BELIEVE*
This channel has some of the best content that I’ve seen. About 12 years ago I decided I was not content with my current state of affairs in life. So in 12 years time I obtain associates degree, worked as a registered nurse, obtain my bachelors degree, got a divorce, and have almost obtained my masters degree. Prior to this I was working a trade and stuck in a marriage which I found out after I filed for divorce was actually really bad. Please keep this up and let’s hope that young Americans will continue to listen to what you say and improve their lives so that we may improve the United States so it will continue to be a beautiful country that is a joy to live in. Almost all of the concepts which you were presented in some of your videos I have followed and they have led to the success that I’ve had so far. Keep up the great content
“Fall in love with the process itself” is an amazing quote. Changes a lot about how I view my goals
Did you really need someone to tell you that to understand this ? Idk this is common sense it's like breath air
I would want to add a couple of things that I have learned in the past years:
1. Failure is a good thing. The hardest part is the recovery from that said failure (Doctor K has a video on CZcams regarding this, highly recommend it)
2. Failure should be associated to your actions, not yourself. There is a big problem in our society where we looked down on people who have failed and instantly associate with the person, not with the actions. The difference might not be apparent, but it's different saying "You are a failure for doing X" as opposed to "You failed doing X". This helped me recover and try doing something else several times.
Also, good video overall! Highly agree with the first point in particular.
Failure is not a good thing, imagine if you failed a test, failed to help somebody whos dying. You shouldnt be thinking that failing is normal, it is normal but you should strive to for better, not for failure.
@@ab.6573 I guess he meant that failure is not all bad as long as it helps you learn something. For example, failing on a test means that your knowledge of the subject is lacking and you should study more. Failing to help someone means that you don't have the skills yet, so you should identify what you did wrong and find a way to improve
@@jademendes5572 failure means trying again
@@ab.6573 he means as in dont look at failure as a reason to give up rather as something to learn from. Of course, if someone is dying try your best to get them help ASAP and dont go into exams and tests without learning as much as possible obviously dont fail on purpose
What he meant acc. To me ...don't consider yourself a failure ..you failed at something ...its because of the actions you took ...you as a human not a failure ...
I'm 24 and unemployed, I needed motivation to just start the next year and this was it, I'm going to improve myself. Thank you for this video, I really needed it.
Good luck! You got this!
Same here, wish you the best bro
U still young tho
youre still young and can do anything you set your mind to! dont let anyone tell you otherwise. not even yourself!
How are your changes going so far? Two weeks in should be a habit very soon :)
This is a perfect time for me to watch this video. I'm in my self development stage and the new year is coming soon. I'm not waiting for 1st January to start being productive and adding good hobbies from Jan. 2023, I'm starting today ! After 1 year I'll come back to this video and see how much I really progressed
i love this!! rooting for you!!
All the best
Am wz u 🥺. I really need to change buh it's too difficult 🥺
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Message from the universe - don't give up!
Watching again one year later and things have change for the better in so many way. Thanks for the guidance, Joey!
Cheers, Joe. I feel like I've been screwing up left and right over the last couple months (this whole year, really) and disappointing everyone, so much so that I'm dreading Christmas Day. You helped me remember that no matter how crap things get, it's not all a swirling vortex of chaos; strategy, determination, and patience will get you where you want to go, and with enough time you can set things right with the people you care about. Thanks, and Happy Holidays, everyone.
look like lil nas x lol
Good luck to you brother!
Yeah try having the love of your life die from a drunk driver, your entire family abandoning you, going through end stage kidney failure / dialysis at the age of 28 and working his ass off to build his life back up with a full time job while having to do dialysis treatment 3 times a week. Your life a joke buddy. How hard things may get? Buddy your life is ez. Be grateful.
Reading this on the 27th. I hope things went well. Happy new year!
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Love this! Another thing that helps me with smaller tasks such as chores is that instead of saying “I’ll do it tomorrow”, say “I’ll do this for my tomorrow self” - think how your tomorrow self would feel waking up knowing that the thing you were going to put off has now already been done, leaving you more time to actually do what you wanted to do that day. Also I absolutely love Anker, I only own their portable chargers but they’re by far the best ones I’ve ever owned and I will definitely be buying more of their products!
I feel I’ve started implementing this myself, but have never seen it explained or written down. Thanks for this! It really is helping with motivation :)
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I like that. I’ve noticed I’m always saying “tomorrow”. And I know damn well the pattern and how it repeats itself.
Exactly, I once heard from a person one time that " your life is just today on repeat" and its true. your daily routine and habits, which means that throughout your life that is the thing you'll experience the most.
You're so right about customizing the process so that you will actually do it! For example, I do not enjoy going to the gym because the exercises are not fun to me and I also get so intimidated around other people there. But I love to dance, so I workout in my living room with my TV and watch zumba/dance instructors on CZcams. I am way more likely to follow through with that than I would be going to the gym. Make the process fun!
Thanks for adding the promo at the end, instead of the middle. I watched until the very end because of this.
"If everything you do on a day-to-day basis is just a means to and end, then your LIFE is just a means to an end."
You have a really special way with words that feels like the kick in the ass I needed to do better for myself. Not only to achieve the end goal, but to find fulfillment and excitement about the journey leading me there.
1. FINDING A GOAL
Start with ONE, REALY SMALL THING
Write down things you want to change about your life, in different areas (financial, social, mental health …)
( be *detailed* and *specific* )
Find a habit. Is this habit *realistic* to you, do you feel comfortable?
Wait *one month* before adding the next habit
*Fall in love with the process*
2. FORCE YOURSELF
Reflect on doing it anyways *after* you’ve done it
3. FIND WAYS TO MAKE THIS HABIT MORE ENJOYABLE
Have you subscribed to his channel?
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I started to change my life around about a month ago. Finished graduating the first 5 months of 22' then spent the next 6 months on a diet of Taco Bell and weed, just hating myself and wasting my life. In the last month I've started to become really grateful to be alive, I feel like I love myself. Started going hard on my fitness routine/diet, picked art back up again, and started messaging the people I isolated myself from. Have also just started talking to random people whenever I can. I feel a lot of love for humans in general right now. It's a strange high and I pray that I can keep this mindset and energy throughout all of 23'.
In any endeavour you pursue in life, "the fastest way is through".
This was a piece of advice my older brother gave me that I will never forget.
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I really appreciate you talking about how willpower can be useful in day-to-day life. It's the most obvious thing, but one will be surprised how much a "just do it, 4Head" kind of mindset can push someone past a lot of resistance. Most everybody knows what is good for them, yet it's so difficult to actually just go out and do the thing that is good for them! But it also can't be denied how constantly being in pursuit of one's "perfect self" will cause them to lose sight in what is true and benevolent in the moment. Perhaps the action of doing that good thing is exactly what can make it such a good thing.
Anyways, those are my thoughts, hope someone found these mildly interesting. Thanks, man for sharing this video!
I agree mate
Joe Rogan said something like this, he said you just have to do it. But he also said there's a lot of men who aren't real men and they succumb to fear and anxiety. And I had been going through a phase where I would call out of work if I were too depressed, and this offended me. I started doing the opposite, going to work even if I were too depressed, doing whatever it took to force myself to push though the suffering. At the end of the day or the week, I literally felt amazing. I felt like even though I just did the normal, I pushed through my own mental anguish until it didn't exist anymore AND I didn't have to live with the guilt of calling out of work. I developed very good habits in a matter of a few weeks. It's something you have to experience for yourself and you'll have your own epiphany. Hope this helps.
Hey, that sounds amazing! Takes a very strong person to push past that mental barrier. It's also very true that you just have to experience this growth for yourself, and it can be extremely rewarding and fulfilling. Thanks for sharing.
11:18 "Don't tell me the sky is the limit, when there are footprints on the moon" (Idk who said that, but I love this quote haha)
Thank you kind sir! ❤ I appreciate your time to upload and your vulnerability to admit your experiences.
I started watching your videos in 2018 when I was on a super big habit kick, that died off and I’ve been in a slump ever since not knowing how to get back into it. This video was the perfect push to guide me where I want to be
It is really difficult to action them all when you're drowned in severe depression, but your content makes my brain a lot lighter somehow. I will give a try - at least once. Thank you, man!
Go try it out! I believe in you. ,,No dream is to far, if you wish upon a star"
keep trying, even when you fail. Just do better today than you did yesterday. The obstacle is the way, believe in yourself! The only things you can control are your mind and body, stop worrying about the things that are outside of your control. This will give you more rest and give you more mental space to implement the new good habits that you are trying to create. Above all, enjoy the process of having done better today compared to the day before.
Keep your head up, life has so much more potential than you can possibly imagine. Prove it to yourself.
Now that it has been a year, did you come out of that phase and did you give these a try?
But in itself it isn’t treatment for severe depression, although exercise can be. I hope you’re getting the support and treatment you need 🙏🏼
Act more. Just act. More. Trust me on this one.
Just don't go rushing off a cliff or something.
So well-spoken, no BS, providing really deep ideas that can help people improve their lives when they are stuck in a bad place
I rarely comment on videos, but in this one, I do not want to say that these are the best advices, although I want to thank you. Thank you for at least trying to make the world better, and also to mention that, for real, these methodologies WILL help everyone that WANTS the change.
I’ve never heard it explained this way. You nailed it. It makes so much sense.
I think I am at just the right point in my life to hear this. It really resonates with me and inspired me to write out a plan for my own life to keep referring back to and keep me on track. I'm feeling optimistic for the next year.
So many people start with such an unrealistic set of goals that they burn out fast - would be much better to start slowly, even if it feels less fancy or transformative
Literally THIS is the only video that has actually made me feel motivated and sure of what I have to do. Thank you so much, Joey. NOW, IT'S TIME TO CHANGE MY LIFE!
This is by far one of the best videos I have seen on this platform. Such fabulous advice. I am sure I have heard it before but it was such a unique way to see how to work with your goals. The idea of living the process each day and understanding that you have to enjoy that or it won't work really made a difference for me. I was coincidentally also finishing up the book Atomic Habits when I saw this and the two have really made a huge impact in my daily life. Thanks for putting out such great vids!
Yess! Thanks for emphasising about being realistic and focusing one thing at a time! I used to get these seasonal urges to make big plans and get too excited that I’d make ideal yet unrealistic goals for myself only to end up feeling like a failure cos I wasn’t able to keep up and never actually achieve anything. As I get older, I realised I don’t really want to be this ‘perfect’ version of myself, but just living by the moment the best way I could
Sameee.
This year I wanted to learn English, made exercise, read more, improve in my art skills, focus at school and a lot of things more. But I realized at the end of day that in reality I can't do even more than 2 things in one day, so when I went to the bed I felt very bad about my myself bc I couldn't do all I wanted.
Even now, my English is the prove that I couldn't do much this year...
@@uzzigod125 Your English is fine for someone learning it, you don't need to be embarrassed about it. Keep practicing and you'll only get better and better.
That's so true. Nowadays we tend to focus on a lot of things simultaneously and are expecting to get quick results applying very little effort. After embracing the reality things go down rapidly
Perfect timing for this video bro! (not literally, as it’s 4am for me and I’m heading off to bed) I have been binging your content getting ready to start living a fulfilling life again after a disappointing 2021 and I’m sure this will be another banger :) Thanks for all the great work that you do in helping us become better and more satisfied with life.
Hey best of luck with that
@@m4x1coo59 thank you so much! I hope you have a great 2022 as well! :D
We can do it bro 🤜
Lessons learned!! No dwelling just doing!!
@@MahtiReacts Thank you, will try my best :)
A good way to approach new habits that will actually improve your life is to group them together. Like going to the gym, making a healthy shake and reading a book afterwards. For me it is so much easier to stick to them if I combine habits that empower each other
wow. I am blown away!! i needed to hear this, i’ve been struggling mentally for quite some time now and i’ve don’t quite some research and watched all the youtube i could. thank god you poped up on my recommended.
I think another point that could be added when we talk about excuses and evaluating our process before we do it (going to the gym or for that run) is to say people don't tend to burnout when they do things that align to their values. So if your goal is truly aligned to who you see yourself as, then it's not going to lead to or exacerbate your burnout or exhaustion. In theory it should help those issues because you're getting closer to being your authentic self. Obviously there are times to say no and listen to your physical body (who else has tried to train through injury only to get worse 🧐), but when the voice in your head gives you excuses it's important to take a hard look at those and see them for the BS they are. Doing things worth doing should be at least a bit hard and challenging, that's what makes them so damn rewarding when you achieve your goal. Just my humble opinion. Wishing everyone a safe, healthy, fulfilling 2022 💜
i needed to hear this and this video, it truly is eye opening. i’ve been very lazy and “burnt out” and i haven’t been able to do the things i need to accomplish. but after this ive leaned that that void is actually the outcome of ignoring my problems and doing nothing productive. i’ve realized that if i want to feel better i have to push thru the exhaustion and work towards my goals to feel the satisfaction and peace in doing good for myself.
this year has definitely been one of my tougher ones. what set this year apart from my other shitty years is that this year i spent basically alone. im a senior in hs and i have no idea where im going in life. i dont have any close friendships, i hate my town, i think a lot of people have kinda shown their other side this year. ive been let down a lot. but this time i actually realized that the person who let me down most, was myself. because fuck everyone else. but when it comes to me i cant let myself dread existence like this. ive been pushing these videos off for a while but i feel like im finally ready to make a change. ive been going to the gym for the past 2 months minus when i had covid and many other days i never went. so i think the next big thing is to set up a good schedule and not skip anymore days no matter what. i mean fuck, i didnt even have symptoms and we have weights at my house. i used covid as an excuse to do nothing. im just tired of waiting for things to change when i dont do anything to change so ya know its time i start driving it home and working a hell of a lot harder
I believe in you
I’m a junior in hs and I totally relate to everything you said. This year has been the worst year of my life. You’re not alone. I’m proud of you for being brave enough to make a change and I believe in you. Wish u the best for 2022 💪🏼
Good for you. I’ve been feeling like this too. It’s been a very hard year. I hope we all reach our goals 😊
@@mari4nne its kinda sad cause in the past year I haven’t even heard something like this from my own family lmfao. So thank you. It’s gonna go a long way😁
Follow your passion
This is a really good video and I love the advice you gave. I had not seen your video earlier but I've been trying to do this for the past couple of weeks and it boosts my confidence a lot to know that it might be the right path to follow.
PS. I'm a gym buff too and I feel working on your health has a domino effect on your overall well being and helps you handle life much better.
Keep up the good work
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I agree! It's like one just get all boosted up for the day after an hour or two of exercise.
ur videos are kinda savin my life rn so thanks for making them🖤
Had to take some notes for this one, really good stuff. Appreciate all the gems you've dropped this year and I can't wait for all the knowledge and dry humor you have in store for us in 2022. Love from Canada! 🇨🇦
He lives in Canada too
Such a great message! This is why many goals require a lifestyle change. It becomes who you are, rather than just trying to reach an outcome.
Thank you! This is July 2023 and I am looking forward to the next year....needed this so much
1:59 i'm actually watching this video in July
I am very guilty of the excuse “ I am too tired to work out” when in all reality I’m just being lazy. Don’t get caught up in this!
One thing I've learned in my journey of helping people is that you can only help who WANTS to be helped. So it all starts by WANTING to change in the first place
Point #1 I'm so glad you emphasized "falling in love with the process" because that's 99% of how people reach goals. If you can't live with the day-to-day habit required to reach that goal then it's time to reevaluate. The habit becomes the goal itself and then you'll eventually arrive at your destination.
cheers dude. love your content. really appreciate the detail you put into the edits. bravo
This is how I'm gonna pass my semester and the one after that. I hate studying, but I've been miserable seeing my shitty results. So thanks for this. I'm gonna make studying my habit and honestly try my very best to do excellent in my exams.
it's my first goal too! we're in this together, we can do it !
@@Math-wn5bx let's do this!!!
There's more of us. We're all gonna make it.
Me too
Thank you for sharing your tips 😊 I've been following this kind of thinking for a while now, trying to focus on a few changes in particular and not so much on the rest. It's not always easy and most people would actually say that it's better to try and balance everything. However, I prefer to make progress in one aspect of my life at a time and have been feeling way happier since doing it. I also recommend this.
this is beyond helpful, thank you:)
Very very helpful. Thanks bro, you deserved a subscription.
Writing down my goals, creating a plan to achieve them and trusting the process is an important thing I'm going to be focusing on this year. Thank you for the amazing and informative video! 😁
I want to say that I love how sometimes you make cinematic videos and other times like this you sit in front of the camera and talk to us like you are giving us some confidential better ideas ;)
Thank you so much for this video!! This was such great advice! I will change my life for the better and by this time next year I will be amazed!!
This is the bestest format of advices, I mean to divide it into 2-3 main tips, but not 15 points, which you forget after the certain one.
It helps to understand more clearly, what I have to do after!
Thank you :)
One thing that helped me was starting small. I knew I wouldn’t go to the gym everyday so I said twice a week. And then when I already got used to doing two three felt like nothing. I already created that trust within myself that I can do it. I really believe it’s sticking with the goals that creates self love
How are you doing? Is that working?
How is going in the GYM?
This is exactly how I feel. I felt like I had most of my shit together in 2019 then it all went downhill afterwards. I'm going to be doing this for 2022 and hopefully the new year will give the much needed push. The hardest part would be to stick to one thing at a time.
I really hope you accomplish your goals! As for myself, I need to dedicate my all to my goal
Dude same thing here, even the years correlate. But for the past month and a half I've been on a streak of improving myself and getting out of the trench. We will make it.
How has it been for you?
How is it going on
@@zonunsanga7046 I have made some progress but there is still a lot of work that I need to do.
october!!! easing into 2023... my GOOD YEAR after years of depression.. we're all going to make it
Thanks man needed this
Thank you so much Joey, I really needed this. Also, Merry Christmas! I hope you're having a great time.
I learned that I have to force myself into doing things I don't want to. Not everyday is going to be the same energy you put into it before. Chase your dreams or your dreams will keep getting further to reach. Keep telling yourself you like doing something you use to doing so you won't swap focus on another change. -My own self advice when I started watching this vid. See you guys in a year
Ayo how's it been going?
This made me get up and clean my room, take a shower and finally move my exercise equipment in the guest room. Thank you so much for this boost. God be with you
thx u so much all the best for u ,all the way love form KSA
Picking one thing to focus on really does make a big difference. I've always wanted to play fingerstyle guitar, and decided to use the pandemic to take the time to learn. It absolutely works, at least if its something you really want.
I was planning to actually do a 360 flip with my life, im in my lowest so i will need to change a lot of things. You're constantly showing me the best way to do it, its not all about going all in but being constant. I had problems with willpower to do all of that but You and Your channel help me tremendously with picking the best actions to improve. Im really glad there is someone who is always here to cheer me up with motivational speech. I love the fact that you look like a great person that open herself for us, i really appreciate it.
Ty so much for every video this year and Happy Holidays everyone!
360 is back to where u were initially
You meant to say 180
I suggest watching someone called hamza, his vids changed my life
I am watching this video on 31th December 2022, I think it's the right time to start now also I will share my results the same day in 2023, good luck to myself!
Watching in July. Thanks bro!
Agreed, you don't have to change 10 areas all at once. And sometimes when you change one area it ends up changing other areas of your life, like exercise usually ends up changing your diet and sleep habits.
Awesome vids, love your work
I think my one goal will be cooking actual meals. I've already been going to the gym for 8 months, but I don't eat healthy meals. I've been eating to put on mass. I feel like cooking nutrition packed foods, should help physically and mentally, Long term.
@@jaketester9555that's cool man. Keep it up 💪🤘
This guy truly knows what life is all about. Thank you for this video !! Merry christmas
Thank you so much. What a great video and he makes it so simple. I appreciate you.
Changing life is like something very important to begin a new beginning
I'm 18 and I have really important exam(college entrance exam) for less than six months from now. Since its the biggest thing in my life for now and it's start of adulthood, I decided to finally change my habits and life. After a lot of failures and frustration, I think this time it's gonna work out. Also your video really inspired me.
P.S: I gonna write the update after exam.
@J H thanks :))
good luck to you bro 🙏
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Love your video man! I am a physical therapist and couldn’t help but think you may want to look into seeing a PT for you back pain! Deadlifts shouldn’t be causing pain and they can def help you! Cheers man!
I like this dude , Im happy to have stumbled upon this channel !
I love the way you speak, its very clear english and love to listen.
Had expectations of an insane production value, idk why :) Love the video Joey, keep it up. Your advice is great, you can see you've put a great deal of thought in creating this, we appreciate it !! :)
Tbh this video is pretty underwhelming : (
I wanna change my life in a year. The last couple of years I've been living the same year over and over again. Nothing has changed. I've been dealing with depression since 2019 and now I'm getting a lot better because I decided to change myself this 2021. I took a lot of different medications and none of them helped me overcome this sickness. Cycling has helped me though, and I'm feeling a lot better now, I don't feel depressed anymore and even my psychiatrist told me that I don't look nor feel depressed. I also overcame porn this year. I feel that I'm changing and this 2022 I wanna change even more. I don't wanna change who I am, a shy and quiet man, I wanna break the habit and feel better, live the life I've always wanted to live. Good luck everyone!
I very proud of you , good luck, I was very shy and quiet also but inside I was crazy and funny, One day I become start open and meet new people, now i not talktive but it’s okey for me and I know everybody can do this if they want
@@Misscynamonka You're right! In my opinion you can't be something you're not. But when you change yourself, you change the world. Good luck!
I feel you. I kinda been living the same year for like the past 3 years. My main goal this year is to start working out and become healthier in general. Let’s make 2022 our year 🙏
i'm really happy for discover your channel some years ago
Didn't think anymore motivational videos would help me any but it sure did! Funny how we need constant reminders to keep pushing. Thank you for your content
For me momentum is the best thing. If you plan to do exercise daily just do 1/10th of it. Want to do 100 push ups. Make sure you do atleast 10 . As soon as you do 10 you will do more. This really works for me.
Good advice
I love and hate the truth in this. The process (vs goal) focus bit really rang some bells. Such a good way to describe why goal focus misleads us. Your content has been a welcome feature for over a year now; here's to one more, and by the end of next I'd like to resonate more practically with more of these changes. Cheers!
I cried watching this Beacuse i know how lost i am and my bad habits win over me i had really rough time and still to this moment tbh but I promised myself that i will change i will do better and this video might be the start of everything I really hope i come back here after a year and be proud of myself thanks for this awesome video
Its the end of year and I'm happy that I found this video at this time of the year.
I have strong will and I did things for the last 4 years that I hated in my core. I don't recommend doing stuff you hate for a long time.
But ,
I do the work every day and I learned a lot about how far I can push myself. So this video comes in clutch at this time for me. This year its going to be great to shift the focus on something enjoyable.
- Thanks and also ,
Greetings from July 2046.
Second time I watched this. Very helpful, thanks a lot. Already have a list of things to focus on, one at a time.. i found exercise to be the best starting point for this sort of approach. A stronger body and better shape motivates me to improve other aspects of my life and acts as an anchor when the urge to procrastinate may steer you off. I did a very simple 30 day yoga challenge on youtube, which has evolved into a daily habit that now involves other forms of exercise (pilates, bands, breathwork and meditation), too. Once i saw that i am capable of creating a new habit, it got me excited about all the possibilities. Having a plan (even a simple list with dates) and keeping some sort of journal (can be voice or video recordings or even a selfie of yourself everyday) helps to stay on track and monitor progress, too.
Its the beginning of 2023, will come back again by the end of the year to reflex. This is a new beginning and good luck to everyone else in this journey together 💪
The best advice that I heared . Thanks bro