How to deal with noisy neighbours
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- čas přidán 4. 08. 2019
- When your neighbours play loud music and you want to record an amazing interview for the MuslimCEO supporters...
I wanted to knock on their door and BLAST them about it but then I had these thoughts....
Watch the video and let me know what you would have done.
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I was borderline wanting to egg their house but after watching this I can 100% agree and that’ll effect my decisions. Your a legend that’s for sure
I hear that bump nearly every day and if it goes on Long enough I'd say damn their rights
Although you may hear it during the day at the office, luckily for you, brother you can go home at the end of the business day & not have to put up with the noise from morning till night like I do "as I work from home."
When you live in a communal building with thin walls both the "airborne noise & Impact noise" is a real nuisance but like you say "people are just living their day to day lives" and we should understand that but in the same breath, there is such a thing as "neighbourly etiquette" especially when you live in a maisonette, flat or apartment!
I hear your words though brother & wise ones they are too, so thank you for this message as I was truly reaching boiling point & about to do something a may have later regret?
They are my neighbours after all & I do have to live in the same building as them so a diplomatic but assertive conversation is on the cards for sure!!!
I tried with my upstairs neighbors. I talked to them, I talked 3 times with the apartment owner and I have had enough. I am buying decent speakers and will be blasting the music when it will be inconvenient for them. And unfortunately for them, they are so noisy that they basically handed me their schedule on a plate.
People are there to make your life difficult. They're doing it on purpose. Some people are just anti social scum. My neighbours for example.
I agree with you
Some people perhaps. But nearly all the people i have met have been kind and good to me
Thank you this calmed me a lot! I suffer noisy neighbours! You make sense & help me not to act out but rather think before doing something l might regret! I am better than ego!
There is a real deep desire to smash someone's head in when they enjoy TORMENTING others. Most tenancies state that the tenant should not cause a nuisance to others. ie. other tenants.
These type of people know EXACTLY what they are doing to others.
Imagine if this was at your house
I Understand your frustration, it is a difficult challenge.
my neighbours are Muslim and have given me years of abuse and noise nuisance. Then their son grew up and after reading a Hadith, admitted what they were doing was against Islam and told his mum to apologise . She never did but a type of ceasefire was put in place by them and the dad even asked for forgiveness before going on a pilgrimage . But recently they have gone back to their former ways ,inconsiderate unnecessary diy projects that serve no purpose except causing noise nuisance to neighbour, excessive use of power washer and drills hammers you name it.
I have asked them to keep it down, or how long they will take in civil manner, but they continue knowing I don’t like it. They just choose to ignore neighbour rights and unlearn any Islamic teaching.
Sounds like my neighbors. Neither speak English but the teenager does. I have never confronted them because he scares my girls. I left an abusive marriage and we have listened to him beat his wife. We’ve been here 2 years. I had to quit my night job and find something else because I was falling asleep driving home. Their noise is the background to our life. We take a nap when we hear them leave. Which isn’t often. I know the nights they leave in all black they will be gone for at least 4 hours. Those are our little pockets of peace. The man curses us in his language when we choose not to get on the elevator with him. Even though we politely say we will wait. We’ve seen him throw trash out of his car while driving out of the garage. I’ve seen him drop trash bags from the 4 floor that land on top of the store next to our building. The mother is the most genuine person I’ve ever met. I just don’t understand it. I’m startled out of my sleep multiple times a night. To me it’s just pure evil. I don’t know any other way to see it.
Wise words. It is a dilemna.
JazakAllah khair
You seem to be a very easygoing guy with a common sense. I suffer from neighbor noises affecting me inside my own home, in these cases it is really difficult to have some moment of reflection, wisdom etc. I do my best to be a good resident within the rules (even if there were no rules) and my upstairs neighbor just doesn't care even in the middle of the night. Some people are just rude, they don't care about others, some even have a dubious nature, I really get very depressed to have so many people like that.
A really considerate approach to take and relevant to many of us I am sure. I experience neighbour noise well above maximum allowed levels but I currently choose to tolerate and wear earplugs and noise cancelling earbuds rather than potentially create an escalating animosity that could lead to bigger problems.
Thank you Martyn
You're lucky that is just the office where I have the noisy neighbours it's my permanent home above. I've been living with it for over 10 years I wish that this was just in the office for me
Thanks for sharing your wisdom , I needed that.
You did good, sometimes doing nothing ,is the best option!
So true!
My neighbours love to scream at the top of their lungs at 1am/ 10pm. They'd do it more if i asked them to stop
Baseball bat😈
Words of wisdom there, well spoken.
Thanks, this is helpful advice. 🙏
Great wisdom, Well done! 🥰
Verry good but my neighbors screams on the balcony ( 5..6 ot them ) at night while i have to wake up at 5h30 am to go to work and it take place for YEARS.. am i a prophet to take this ?
You sound like a good neighbour.
JazakAllah khair bro😄
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i stumbled across ur video. Thank u u made sense and im taking ur perspective seriously into consideration.
JazakAllah khair
But when it happens where you live. I have noise people living above me…..and I get annoyed with there music everyday…..and they play it the whole day…..i have been so patient alhumdulila but Im starting to get annoyed and I don’t know how long I can control my temper……coz that’s causing me to have anxiety. I’ve informed them multiple times and so has the landlord. Sometimes i feel like banging on the ceiling with my broom lol. Allah is my witness Im trying to be has patient and as easy as possible but they are not. They play there music loud all day everyday……and im just slowly losing it.
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What if it's where you live and they won't listen to you
the 2 dislikes are from your neighbors
Wise words
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Under most free holds you will have the right by law to peaceful enjoyment of a property!!
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For me the worst is nutty who bangs door Constantly for no reason mixed with fiddling fixing thumps scattering stomping etc mental health police no one does there job
I could not work with that noise.
Wise words.
Music is forbidden in islam
A Wize Person Will Not Talk 2 Them Self's. I LOVE EVERYONE, YEAH I LOVE YOU STRANGER. HOSEA 4;6 K.J.V. you said anyone can speak Their opinions Thank You Enough Said.
JazakAllah khair
You must live in Africa