Why A Mom Says She Won’t Let Adult Sons Visit In Her Home
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- čas přidán 17. 09. 2018
- A mother admits she had a “tendency to overcompensate and spoil” her sons after she and their father divorced. Now adults and living with dad, he says he’s frightened of them.
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The parents have lost control and trying to parent 2 adults. At this point you have to ask them to leave and advise them from afar. Tough love!
im confused as to why they're still living with their parents though?? especially if it's as dysfunctional as they say. they're both in their 20s, it's not as though they can't leave
@James Clark i don't think they need to have partners, just their own lives
These two boys NEVER learned positive coping skills for real life. You are a product of your environment
We’ll rent it’s ridiculous in America
Cos there losers
These "boys" are adult age and they are acting and being treated like teenagers
right?? what is going on
they made a big fuss of having their computer and weed taken away. They are adults, kick them out
They both need to live on their own and take responsibility for themselves.
I miss Dr Phil bustin out that touch screen
“ Mary-Juana “
Why are they making these dudes sound like they're 12 lmao. These are grown men
They are between 8-11 emotionally. Find them an apartment set them up for 2 - 3 months and take a break from them
They need to be supporting themselves and living on their own. Little snowflakes!
@@poopoo1248 not everyone is automatically rich and independent after they become 18. Mid 20s I think it gets weird, but early 20s I can understand
@@CZcamsChannel-nf2nw In my country it's not weird to live with your parents until you get married but you should have a proper job, you should be saving money and you should be helping your parents with bills and chores.
Dr. Phil is definitely proof that you can NOT blanket parenting. Some kids respond to "I'm disappointed in your actions and I hope you make better decisions in the future." Then there's other kids who need to be karate chopped in the throat to get your point across. Wonder where these kids fall 🙄🙄
If your kids are running towards rock bottom, but you’re holding their hands to stop them, they’re never going to learn actions have consequences.
They’re grown young men now, kick them out, they’ll either sink or swim... if they swim they’ll learn how to keep a roof over their heads. If they sink they’ll learn respect and see what you’ve been trying to protect them from.
My mum kept my younger brother’s tied to her apron strings, she kept them tied to the next, complained about their drug use, but turned a blind eye to their behaviour. She would buy them weed “because they don’t take heroin instead” they both took heroin. She’d demand to see the weed they bought with her money, so she knew they’d used the money for weed not heroin. I demanded to see this weed... it was bits pulled off a conifer tree, he’d bought heroin. Another time he showed her it was oregano... I pointed it out and her reply “he has no reason to lie to me” I just screamed he lied because HE BOUGHT HEROIN!! She denied it... again.
I “accidentally” left my phone in my brother’s room for 15 mins after he bought this weed... I got him on film injecting. He told mum he was injecting weed *insert atomic eye Roll” she believed him. I showed her how wrong that was and even got a colleague from drug and alcohol addiction services to speak to her. Once she realised he lied she claimed you couldn’t actually see what he was doing it was too dark. I brightened the screen, but she still couldn’t see what he was doing, despite if being high def and I cold zoom in. I enlarged stills and got them printed, you could even see the marks on the damn needle. But mum lol I don’t know, does it matter?”
In 2016 my brother died... he wasn’t a full on OD as no drug was in such a high amount, but his tox screen read like a who’s who of pharmaceuticals.
His death certificate states in black and white, drug related death. The only thing mum said was “that’s not true, he only smokes weed” and then says “he didn’t OD though”
Some of the drugs in his system we items she was prescribed, and he was not... so either she gave him her medications or he stole them.
She should have let both my brothers hit the bottom and grow up... but she enabled him right into a coffin!
I’m so sorry that you’ve lost your brother. Your mother wanted to believe in his lies so much, hoping it was sincere.
@@komarbat23 no . Because it was easier that way for her to have her peace.
@@jascintarebello3234 I would say a little of both tbh
Total disrespect,those boys should be ashamed of themselves,I would never disrespect a stranger like that ,let alone my parents
dr phil said express yo self
Married - divorced - married then divorced again. How dose this even happen? I don't get it 😞
Did the same with my daughters father...we married divorced...got married again then divorced...its called trying to make it work and many other things go into it...in the end we loved each other but we could NEVER live together...we found out we are better people when we weren't together...but co-parenting we wanted very much...and we love our daughter dearly...our relationship was never mental or physical abuse...hard to explain but until u experience it urself ull know what is best for the kids and you to be happy and be parents that can get along in front of the children and be happy ... 😁
@@amynichols6602 So that's how it is interesting to know
He told his mom to wake up...bwoy if I said that to my Jamacian mom..
When you force your kids to go to rehab for weed, your taking that bed away from some heroin addict who actually wants to get clean just saying. Marijuana addiction shouldn't be allowed in inpatient rehab. I did crack and meth for five years and I saw how a marijuana addict in a rehab can cause a death of a heroin addict because there wasn't a bed.....
It is insane to put someone in rehab for marijuauna.
If someone wants help for an addiction they should be able to get it. I’ve done coke crack and weed, I could quit the coke and crack easy np but I couldn’t quit the weed. I NEEDED rehab. My life was falling apart and I needed help. I know it’s rare for people to be actually addicted to weed, but for the people who are their pain is just as valid.
@@Black_Samurai-fish 100%. There pain is just as valid💯
Marijuana addiction can cause people to lose control of their life
Forcing anyone into rehab is a waste of time & resources but that goes for any type of addiction, no just marijuana. Alcohol, Crack, Meth, & Heroin addicts waste beds more often than not, even if they think they want to get clean, they usually don't. It's not, "a marijuana addict in rehab," that causes a heroin addict to die. It's when they actually get out of rehab, after getting clean, that they end up overdosing during a relapse. That, or the DEA busts their supplier, so they have to find an alternative source & end up accidentally overdosing on something different than they're used to getting. Her son didn't want rehab so he shouldn't have gone. What he really needed was a swift kick in the pants, right out the door.
It seems that two male children are emotionally stunted that they act like teenagers. This happens when parents raise their children by guilt giving them everything they want without earning it. Entitled children. They shouldn’t live at either parents home and support themselves so they can emotionally grow up
They are disrespectful brats who try to parent the parents
Two slaps and we are done here.
Are you actually stupid enough to believe that these grown boys would somehow be different people after being smacked once or twice? Or is this just you saying "I'd like to hit them"?
@@AuDHD99 yes
Yep. That's right. 2 slaps. I've never had to even spank my 4 boys. I took the time to talk to them.
That's what I'm sayin!
Judging by how the boys behave that's the worst possible thing you can do because they are probably going to beat you up even if you are their parent.
Married and divorced twice.. Two losers. Poor kids having to deal with that
What these two parents need to do is go and rent their boys a two bedroom apartment for a 6 month trial. Force them to move out and make it clear they can't come back. Help them with the first month's rent and go from there.
The father might want to move because he's the weaker parent and they will take advantage of that...
These "boys" are adults. Time to get their own places - and scrub out their mouths. Cursing solves nothing and is seriously disrespectful. Totally unacceptable in any circumstances.
They look like they get their 8ths for $50 lol
Living with your parents is fine as an adult unless you start causing problems
Then why are y’all so poor slaving away at 9 to 5 pyramid schemes? Don’t forget. Everyone who glorifies academia is a loser.
Agreed give them 30 days
I am with parents on this one.What sn entitled man. "Why did I call you that?" They are no kids
"Mari-who wanna"? 😅🍃
They need tough love
Kick them out! They have to grow up some time!
The parents spoiled them too much...that was the main problem. Now that the kids are much older, it is hard to make things right again. It is a lesson to parents who spoil their kids way too much.
She forced him into rehab for marijuana?!
😂😂😂
Yes, when you can not function without it you go to rehab. If that does not work then you live on the streets.
Comments on? okayyyyyy
Rehab for pot? Lmao
The mother has a lot of opinions and places a lot of blame for a parent whose completely checked out.
Bye you can have her and her family
Wait rehab for weed 😭
Parents over indulged them and chose not to do the work when they needed structure and boundaries! So sick of listening to the parents sob stories when they are responsible for their sense of entitlement!
They are much better off without her
Time to grow up and embrace being an adult...the father needs to man up as well...the mother seems more with it
Sign these kids up for the military - childhood is over! Their sense of entitlement is overwhelming and they seem to be in competition with one another, as though what they are doing is their next step in a competitive game.
We no longer send enough kids to the military
She said it's hers kids fault, her ex husband's fault, when will it be HER fault? Ohh I know... They were spoiled, are spoiled, and continue to be spoiled...
they are grown men in their 20s... lmao we all have issues no parent is perfect. They were spoiled and are entitled. They need to move out and pay their own bills, accountability is something they need to be taught. If i was their parent id kick them out.
They didn't need for anything
Leave your fiance
didn’t kno lil peep went on dr phil
They are old enough tell them to move out as they don't want to live by rules pay there own bills then they won't have to listen until then shape up or ship out
so these sons are seriously my worst nightmare as a potential on in law. what assholes
This is embarrassing for them all act like mature adults come tf on
Adult kids need to be out of the house so they can gain experience in life.
A functional home doesn’t range in functionality.
I read the comments, and are a little confused because to my knowledge several states in the US marijuana have been legalized , or am I wrong? Why, if it is that dangerous?
Where is the full story?
lol I remember this episode
These kids on his show are spoiled brats who need a reality check.
When there are only 12 other comments on a Dr. Phil video
Two adults sons that can't get their together. Hmmmmmm
Lmao sending your kid to rehab for weed. Sounds like the parents are freaks
Spoiled brats.
Wow the sun is actually blaming his mother by saying “why did I call you that?“ Unbelievable! He is blaming his mother for what he says to her. This kid needs a lesson in the real world. First they all need to get kicked out of both houses they’re old enough to get a job and do what they need to do to survive on their own and see if they get a new appreciation for what their parents gave them! Beyond disrespectful and ungrateful kids!
Who’s this Mary Juana you speak of?
First comment in a 2 year video? Love this!
Right!!! Lucky to come across the comments on. 🤣🤷♀️
They just turned them on
Two adult children not adult men
If you are a parent and somehow your kids starts getting deep into marijuana...then something in your parenting is wrong.
There not 5 kick em out
How old are these guys?
What is the W word
My 13 year old son is addicted to computer games. These games make him over-emotional and violent to me.
Those run on electricity, not that hard to turn them off
@@carlosramos3890 some people just want to complain and not do.
If your kid is violent towards you because of games there is more to that then just the games. I was an over emotional kid but I never got violent just because I played games. My parents took away the games as soon as I started to get upset and that taught me to stay calm and it's just a game I can try again if I couldn't pass a level.
Also who keeps buying the games? YOU. You can't blame your kid when you are enabling his behaviour by buying more games and not even attempting to deal with his addiction. Just take away the games and don't buy new ones until your son learns to control himself.
It's time to take all games away from him until he's mature enough to handle negative emotions.
You have a choice, let his violence grow (because you allow it) or take away his games. There should be consequences to bad behavior. If not, you're creating an out of touch, violent, enabled adult.
Mariju-huwanna
If they're adults why are they still living at home. Let them go get a job and move out . My 19-year-old nephew lives at home and he works but he spends every bit of money he makes on pot. I think his father should make him leave because he doesn't pay any bills he does not contribute anything to the household and he's smoking pot all the time.
I mean there are plenty of young adults who move home after college and live with parents for a bit while they’re finding a place or getting settled in solid jobs. Easier to spend time putting your all into a job and building a life without the immediate stress of rent.
I'm never going to understand why american parents kick out their kids as soon as they hit 18 years old some parents even let their kids go homless for years. It's better for them to move back home after college because it's much easier financially. The kid gets a job and gives some money to their parents, saves up the rest and in return the kid doesn't have to worry about what they are going to eat the next day or how are they going to pay rent with their measly paychecks that's barely enough to by food.
1.4 million views, 36 comments. *bimg bren*
The "w" word? Wtf is the "w" word?
The "w" word???
Yeeeeee
I'm spiderman
The mum is hot! 🙂 lol
Mary huana
MariWANNA
Psycho tick tak toe
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Dr phil needs to do some exercise...he is walking like an 8 0 year old