Crazy In-Law Interventions | Part 1 | Best of Compilation | Dr. Phil

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  • Anna-Laura says she got a restraining order against her mother-in-law after Janice hit her, which Janice denies. She says Janice is forcing her husband, Morgan, to choose between his mother and his wife. What can this family do to get along with one another? Dealing with one meddling mother-in-law is hard enough. Imagine having to put up with two feuding, competitive, controlling and combative mothers-in-law at the same time! Amanda calls her mother-in-law, Yolande, psychotic, controlling and meddling. She says Yolande speaks to her son, Pierre, in French so she can hide the hurtful words she’s using about Amanda. Yolande says Amanda is a drunk, and an uneducated woman who is wrecking her son's life. Why does Pierre say he can't choose a side?
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  • @kimmyb8276
    @kimmyb8276 Před 4 měsíci +1148

    You cannot be neutral when you are married. Stand up for your wife!!!!!

    • @flowers3036
      @flowers3036 Před 4 měsíci +31

      Exactly where is the husband.

    • @sharongarrison8328
      @sharongarrison8328 Před 4 měsíci +17

      My mother in law felt the same way as her when my husband and I first married

    • @mytone94
      @mytone94 Před 4 měsíci +17

      I will never forget the day my mol told my hubby 'Blood is thicker than water" He turned around and looked at her and walked to their garage got his tools brought them home. We didn't speak to them for almost 3 months. The impasse was broke because we all sat down and agreed out son didn't need to suffer because of being stupid stubborn.

    • @16MedicRN
      @16MedicRN Před 4 měsíci +10

      ​@@mytone94I'm sorry, that didn't make sense to me. 'Our son'? Who's that? Who was stupid stubborn? Stopped making sense when husband left with his tools.

    • @mytone94
      @mytone94 Před 4 měsíci +15

      @16MedicRN my hubby, myself, and mil refused to speak to each other for 3 months. So all 3 of us were. My son was only 2 years old. It wasn't my son who needed to suffer because of our actions. My fil made all of us sit down and talk it out. Im grateful we did. It was basically saying I realized hubby stood up for me when I thought he wouldn't.

  • @kehindeemiabata4032
    @kehindeemiabata4032 Před 4 měsíci +1116

    Behind every mother inlaw issues there's a weak man.

    • @pisces1017
      @pisces1017 Před 4 měsíci +23

      Facts

    • @growingandlearning164
      @growingandlearning164 Před 4 měsíci +29

      Enmeshed, son husband of a narcissistic mother.

    • @lynnw7155
      @lynnw7155 Před 4 měsíci +37

      The wife Amanda doesn't have a mother-in-law problem, but a husband problem.

    • @karahupp4589
      @karahupp4589 Před 4 měsíci +17

      I have never heard it put that way! That’s exactly it!

    • @michellepalmer1160
      @michellepalmer1160 Před 4 měsíci +1

      True...

  • @carlintaylor3229
    @carlintaylor3229 Před 4 měsíci +579

    Granny get a hobby and leave your son and his family alone let him be an adult

    • @Anabee3
      @Anabee3 Před 4 měsíci +28

      Agreed. But also, he needs to BE an adult. All of these men are weak, imo. A strong man is calm & kind, but firm & protects his wife & children from EVERYTHING & EVERYONE, incldg mommy.

    • @extremeresponsibility
      @extremeresponsibility Před 3 měsíci

      Feminists hatred for women has done so much damage. So many are brutal and inhumane, like the woman in this video.

    • @AmandaYee-yn9dk
      @AmandaYee-yn9dk Před 21 dnem +1

      I agree

    • @thutonnena3092
      @thutonnena3092 Před 21 hodinou

      I blame the husband. He's indulging his mother's disgusting behaviour at the expense of his wife. Shameful.

  • @ChristyMeetsWorld
    @ChristyMeetsWorld Před 4 měsíci +398

    Wanting to take out your son on Valentinesday, specifically without his wife, is crazy

    • @danialanderson-ll9hc
      @danialanderson-ll9hc Před 4 měsíci +1

      That's America

    • @StrawberryJam806
      @StrawberryJam806 Před 3 měsíci +24

      @@danialanderson-ll9hc I don’t think most normal people in America do that

    • @mauisheri
      @mauisheri Před 3 měsíci +8

      deliberately rude! I hope he wasn't stupid enough to go!

    • @danialanderson-ll9hc
      @danialanderson-ll9hc Před 3 měsíci

      @@StrawberryJam806Come on huh?403 gun murders per year and that's not including the one's that survived their shooting,THAT'S AMERICA

    • @nanaberry4120
      @nanaberry4120 Před 3 měsíci +14

      Creepy and sick.

  • @aussiemouth747
    @aussiemouth747 Před 4 měsíci +563

    I disagree with Dr Phil on keeping relatives in the picture. Sometimes they are so toxic and vile they have no place in the family dynamic.

    • @marleneslattery5638
      @marleneslattery5638 Před 4 měsíci +10

      He said but....

    • @MarinaRhymin
      @MarinaRhymin Před 3 měsíci +33

      He actually said that not only should they cut them out if they’re toxic, but they are actually OBLIGATED to do so for the good of the children.

    • @missmew3499
      @missmew3499 Před 3 měsíci +16

      ​@@MarinaRhyminDr Phil irritates me in these episodes. I always find that the MIL gets a free pass even though they're absolutely terrible to their son and DIL. He comes down on the son and DIL who are just trying to get along with the jealous MIL.

    • @xarisstylianou
      @xarisstylianou Před 3 měsíci

      Do these mothers eantto sleep with there sons????
      If not she does not want jer son to be happy!!!!
      Her MIL if the first two do not count then she a controling a** hole ,,,i would not
      be surprised if she wentto the wedding wearing white !!!!?!
      Kust one last thing were is the FIL isshe devorived????

    • @Gorillaglueonyoface
      @Gorillaglueonyoface Před 3 měsíci +3

      My mother

  • @debrakiser1976
    @debrakiser1976 Před 4 měsíci +1479

    Mom is complaining that the daughter in law is heavy..her son isn't skinny and neither is the mom

    • @SunshineandRoses1111
      @SunshineandRoses1111 Před 4 měsíci

      People that live in glass houses....
      The mother in law is over weight and frankly, not attractive, to say the least. Some people are absolutely blind to their own selves. She has no right to judge anyone's looks, no one does.

    • @salvatorecaravella365
      @salvatorecaravella365 Před 4 měsíci +34

      Can she give me the name of her dietitian?

    • @lillianoldham5789
      @lillianoldham5789 Před 4 měsíci

      Mom doesn't like DIL because she is jealous. She probably was reason for Son divorce from first wife. DIL is doing right by restraining order. MIL is EVIL!!!

    • @jowolffe1639
      @jowolffe1639 Před 4 měsíci +6

      24:51

    • @michaeljcarneyjr.6187
      @michaeljcarneyjr.6187 Před 4 měsíci +33

      You ever notice it's always the women making drama.

  • @clairefraser7200
    @clairefraser7200 Před 4 měsíci +362

    These moms are creepy. You don’t want your son to get married.

    • @lucygreen5101
      @lucygreen5101 Před 4 měsíci +25

      It’s like they want their sons. Not the sexual intimate part, but they want to be their son’s ‘woman’

    • @coffeeaddictexpress5038
      @coffeeaddictexpress5038 Před 4 měsíci +30

      It’s a jealousy thing. My mother in law disliked me for YEARS lol. I married her golden son, she was convinced I was a life draining succubus. 23 years later I proved to her I’m in it for the long haul. My son recently got married and I absolutely adore my daughter in law! She takes such good care of my son and that’s all I could hope for. As a mother I just want someone to love my babies as much as I do 😂. And to see my son become a great husband and father just makes my heart burst.

    • @BlueIvysAssistant
      @BlueIvysAssistant Před 4 měsíci +19

      They're using their sons as husband substitutes.

    • @extremeresponsibility
      @extremeresponsibility Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@lucygreen5101There's a reason that these mothers don't have husbands. Feminists hatred for women has done so much damage. So many are brutal and inhumane, like the woman in this video.

    • @tessawood8244
      @tessawood8244 Před 3 měsíci +8

      They want to marry their sons 🤮🤮

  • @Lisa-x3n5x
    @Lisa-x3n5x Před 4 měsíci +480

    She purchased the house AFTER the restraining order of 1000 feet!! 😂😂 I'd call that a stalker.

    • @cindyrector9718
      @cindyrector9718 Před 4 měsíci +27

      Yes! I so agree

    • @user-tc5qx6zn6b
      @user-tc5qx6zn6b Před 4 měsíci

      These MILs want their sons to be their lovers or act like their husbands!😮

    • @deborahlewis4572
      @deborahlewis4572 Před 2 měsíci +12

      I'd call it violating a protective order and she needs jailed

    • @jivonniasmith9770
      @jivonniasmith9770 Před 2 měsíci +3

      I would go back and get it to be a thousand and one feet

  • @jeacaklotom
    @jeacaklotom Před 4 měsíci +689

    Mom says daughter in law is not very attractive and she is heavy. Hello mom.... have you seen your son?

    • @bigbootyhunta
      @bigbootyhunta Před 4 měsíci +19

      Has mom looked in the mirror.

    • @xeniajola
      @xeniajola Před 4 měsíci +44

      The mil is more heavy... 😂😂😂😂

    • @2ndhandSue
      @2ndhandSue Před 4 měsíci +59

      Hello mom....have you looked at YOURSELF in the mirror???

    • @catrinahartz944
      @catrinahartz944 Před 4 měsíci +23

      Or did the mother on law look in the mirror?

    • @patriciatriolo1585
      @patriciatriolo1585 Před 4 měsíci +29

      Mom is no light weight either! And Mom is not the most attractive person I have ever seen

  • @jdaxci
    @jdaxci Před 4 měsíci +236

    I need a “where are they now” update with these people 🥴

    • @WendyP1965
      @WendyP1965 Před 2 měsíci +8

      Absolutely!

    • @emilysmalley6795
      @emilysmalley6795 Před 2 měsíci +19

      There's another clip of Amanda and Pierre, and if I remember right, she divorced him.

    • @lookintothelightcarolanne4699
      @lookintothelightcarolanne4699 Před měsícem +2

      @@emilysmalley6795I’ve been in a similar situation and the relationship failed. I never felt I was good enough and his sister was responsible for a lot of it. She then treated our daughter like that until she married a guy that sister disapproved of. She now ignores our daughter completely but she’s MISERABLE! But she’s eating her sh_t pie today. Life has a way of balancing out. 😜

    • @person-ty7jy
      @person-ty7jy Před měsícem +4

      It's not really an update but rather information I haven't seen in the comment : the ''French'' woman really isn't French. Like as a French person, her French accent was terrible. I feel like it's the same type of accent Americans put on when they need a French cook in a show but only listened to stereotypes and try to spell out the words on the script. At first I thought oh maybe she's been in America for so long she sort of gained an accent but I really don't see how she would as she spoke French with her family... it wouldn't get as bad imo.

  • @LadyAtheOnly
    @LadyAtheOnly Před 4 měsíci +304

    These so called mothers are insufferable but the husbands are at fault for not putting them in check.

    • @suzziezhills
      @suzziezhills Před 4 měsíci

      Women CAN be awful and this guy is a wimp. It pivots on him.

    • @extremeresponsibility
      @extremeresponsibility Před 3 měsíci +1

      There's a reason that these mothers don't have husbands. Feminists hatred for women has done so much damage. So many are brutal and inhumane, like the woman in this video.

    • @darrynreid4500
      @darrynreid4500 Před 3 měsíci +9

      Yes, but remember too that it must be difficult, since they've been conditioned right from birth to accept abuse and intrusion, to feel guilty for being a separate person and to always serve the mother's needs. The process is probably not helped, either, by the current derranged environment of hating and blaming men for everything.

    • @rhondadavis1483
      @rhondadavis1483 Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@darrynreid4500wow I agree with you 💯
      🎯

    • @AmandaYee-yn9dk
      @AmandaYee-yn9dk Před 21 dnem

      This is why I don’t think extended family is important they r just free labor if u can’t afford a babysitter or nanny

  • @kyrajohnson6522
    @kyrajohnson6522 Před 4 měsíci +268

    It’s sick when you see a mother that goes to these extremes to interfere with theirs sons marriage. It’s up to the sons to draw firm boundaries and enforce them 10000%

    • @LadyAtheOnly
      @LadyAtheOnly Před 4 měsíci +7

      💯🎯💯🎯

    • @shirleyplummer5626
      @shirleyplummer5626 Před 4 měsíci +7

      It is very sick

    • @extremeresponsibility
      @extremeresponsibility Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@shirleyplummer5626There's a reason that these mothers don't have husbands. Feminists hatred for women has done so much damage. So many are brutal and inhumane, like the woman in this video.

    • @adelepattonxxx
      @adelepattonxxx Před 3 měsíci

      Absolutely 💯 100%❤

    • @hunnybeezm1338
      @hunnybeezm1338 Před 25 dny

      I had one n got rid of that p.o.s. n he loves in her basement now

  • @justylex
    @justylex Před 4 měsíci +377

    I am lucky. Been with my husband for 31 yrs…dated for 10, married for 21. My mother in-law is an awesome lady. I adore her.

  • @suzieqou8129
    @suzieqou8129 Před 4 měsíci +88

    That girl needs to divorce Pierre. He does not have his wife’s back.

  • @faerefolke
    @faerefolke Před 4 měsíci +166

    If Pierre is finding it difficult to choose between his mother and his wife, he's technically made his choice.

    • @spinrash6000
      @spinrash6000 Před 2 měsíci +19

      He is a bum he’s the one can’t part with the freebies from his mother.

    • @birdieorourke5507
      @birdieorourke5507 Před 27 dny

      The French woman is right. Her son is a smoocher and his wife is not a good choice either.THEY don't pay rent, the drinking and smoking etc and attitute is NOT what the mother 🙄 😉 🤔 should have to insure...

    • @hunnybeezm1338
      @hunnybeezm1338 Před 25 dny +2

      I agree she should file for divorce asap and let them have each other

    • @Onxy1976
      @Onxy1976 Před 24 dny

      Pierre is a pu$$y...mommy pays for everything so she will always have control over him...his Mercedes that mommy bought him and house he lives in is paid by mommy...those luxuries are way more valuable than his wife. If mommybsaid she will cut him off. He wouldnt hesitate to divorce his wife..wife needs to leave...he will leave at any given time when mommy doesn't pay for his gas or mortgage...LEAVE...SOME WOMEN HAVE TO SMARTEN UP AND LEAVE...DONT TRY TO WORK IT OUT...HAVE A SPINE AND SOME COURAGE!

    • @MicheleSchick
      @MicheleSchick Před 19 dny

      Absodamnlutly!!!!!

  • @kimberlyheibel8759
    @kimberlyheibel8759 Před 4 měsíci +138

    OMG 😳 This mother is a lunatic!!! She's denying everything. So her son and daughter in law are liars?
    She's pitiful.

    • @extremeresponsibility
      @extremeresponsibility Před 3 měsíci +1

      There's a reason that these mothers don't have husbands. Feminists hatred for women has done so much damage. So many are brutal and inhumane, like the woman in this video.

    • @desmondmitchell5387
      @desmondmitchell5387 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Feigned innocence. She is a narcissist

  • @lulujac9196
    @lulujac9196 Před 4 měsíci +115

    If I raised my sons to put me b4 their wife and children….I’ve failed as a mother..

    • @sunnyday4055
      @sunnyday4055 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Why don’t you raise him to stand up to whoever is wrong?

    • @lulujac9196
      @lulujac9196 Před 4 měsíci +15

      @@sunnyday4055 You’re missing the point.

    • @falidisu2139
      @falidisu2139 Před 4 měsíci

      Until ur son meets a manipulative no good girl which is like 79% gals these days. Be careful what you wish for.

    • @rhondadavis1483
      @rhondadavis1483 Před 2 měsíci +8

      Lulu I agree with you…same with my daughters. They should(and do) put their own family before me…but they are good to me also.
      That’s what these MIL’s don’t understand. If you are there as a support for your adult kids they will be there to support you. But if you are demanding and unpleasant they won’t have anything to do with you…nor will the grandkids.
      I choose to love and respect them and they do the same with me. I don’t want to grow up to be a grumpy, demanding and miserable old woman that no one wants to be around 😅

    • @meganhauman5203
      @meganhauman5203 Před měsícem

      weird

  • @sandyreddish1750
    @sandyreddish1750 Před 3 měsíci +45

    A man that does not put his wife first is not a man.

  • @kbg8199
    @kbg8199 Před 4 měsíci +179

    I loved how the first woman took her mother-in-law to task for calling her husband a wuss! Even after filing for divorce, she still stood up for him. 11:11

    • @junefoster924
      @junefoster924 Před 4 měsíci +17

      It was epic!

    • @MrChubba10
      @MrChubba10 Před 3 měsíci +2

      It was all about possession .. look at the way she put her arm around him after saying nobody calls MY husband a wuss .. wasn't about calling him a wuss or anything else.

    • @spinrash6000
      @spinrash6000 Před 2 měsíci

      He is a wuss having your wife do your dirty work

    • @ghostdragon5735
      @ghostdragon5735 Před měsícem +4

      @@MrChubba10your the mother aren’t you

    • @ghostdragon5735
      @ghostdragon5735 Před měsícem +1

      @@MrChubba10cuz she said “ you called your son a wuss”

  • @cleanqueen75
    @cleanqueen75 Před 4 měsíci +465

    Why isn’t the husband standing up for his wife? Is he a wimp or a mama’s boy

  • @vdeniceeckert3494
    @vdeniceeckert3494 Před 4 měsíci +103

    Has the first mother in law looked at her son and in the mirror, they are all very heavy... the daughter in law is beautiful and very intelligent

    • @TMS-pj7fp
      @TMS-pj7fp Před 3 měsíci

      Exactly!!!!! Lady your son is no prize and you definitely are no prize physically or personality.

    • @jeto-gu5ni
      @jeto-gu5ni Před 2 měsíci

      Ok no one would say the DIL Is beautful maybe smart but just an average overweight american .

  • @didinakiness
    @didinakiness Před 4 měsíci +118

    I looooved the fact that the french talking mother got exposed liked that

  • @user-gl2pr4bf7e
    @user-gl2pr4bf7e Před 4 měsíci +48

    When a man allows for anyone to disrespect his wife and or girlfriend it is tine for that woman to remove herself from that relationship.A man does not love you,care about you,or respect you when he lets and allows anyone to disrespect you.Period,point,blank!

  • @SoniaTolson
    @SoniaTolson Před 3 měsíci +31

    You should keep a restraining order on Janice. She has no right to just walk into your home and bedroom. She does not respect limits and boundaries and is playing psychological warfare against the wife. This is so crazy.

  • @debrabaird633
    @debrabaird633 Před 4 měsíci +92

    My MIL was a British war bride and in the British army during the war There was nothing I could do right in her eyes . After my husband died I maintained a relationship the best I could She finally needed me. At 98 when she was dying I spent 6 weeks or more at veterans hospital with her during covid lockdown She didn’t have the virus but there were many rules She died in my arms comfortable and having a beautiful passing God Bless her🌺

  • @1927su
    @1927su Před 4 měsíci +133

    I think Pierre’s Wife should tell them both Bon Voyage ..

    • @epsilona7472
      @epsilona7472 Před 3 měsíci +9

      Absolutely!! he clearly cares more about money that her, the Mother knows it too. My mother in Law is well off and rude too, she tries this stuff constantly and my husband calls her out every single time.

    • @Millie-uf9pn
      @Millie-uf9pn Před měsícem +2

      Definitely

  • @switchbladekid57
    @switchbladekid57 Před 4 měsíci +157

    I wonder how Granny feels about being exposed as a liar and stalker on national tv?

    • @extremeresponsibility
      @extremeresponsibility Před 3 měsíci

      There's a reason that these mothers don't have husbands. Feminists hatred for women has done so much damage. So many are brutal and inhumane, like the woman in this video.

    • @spinrash6000
      @spinrash6000 Před 2 měsíci

      Narcissist don’t care it gives them such pleasure

  • @denisenewnan4098
    @denisenewnan4098 Před 4 měsíci +201

    MIL gets a few tells when she lies.
    1. Huge smug grin
    2. Looks about for support and reinforcement
    3. Tepid denial followed by an immediate question as to whether she would/could/looks like she would do such a thing.

    • @extremeresponsibility
      @extremeresponsibility Před 3 měsíci

      There's a reason that these mothers don't have husbands. Feminists hatred for women has done so much damage. So many are brutal and inhumane, like the woman in this video.

    • @Thvgrats
      @Thvgrats Před 3 měsíci +11

      You forgot the fake laughing while talking 😂

    • @savinggraace
      @savinggraace Před 3 měsíci +4

      I noticed that too!

    • @FabulousCucumber-ip9hu
      @FabulousCucumber-ip9hu Před 2 měsíci +1

      Very insightful. Watched the thing again to see for myself and what you say is true.

  • @happycook6737
    @happycook6737 Před 4 měsíci +237

    MIL #1 is beyond awful. She smiles nicely and acts so innocent when she is a complete nasty piece of work. I think the only solution is to divorce.

    • @rsh793
      @rsh793 Před 4 měsíci +20

      The son seems to stand up to her! The fact that there's a Court who have granted a restraining order on her says it all!

    • @annlouiserainey4888
      @annlouiserainey4888 Před 4 měsíci

      Or a restraining order on to the MIL

    • @pattylyons9645
      @pattylyons9645 Před 4 měsíci +14

      Mama's boys pick their moms when push comes to shove. They'd rather leave their wives than offend mommy.

    • @2ndhandSue
      @2ndhandSue Před 4 měsíci +17

      Divorce will only end the problem for the daughter in law. Son will remarry and that wife will suffer the same fate. His mother doesn't hate this wife for any good reason - she would hate any wife that her son chose. Mom wants him to remain "her boy" for the rest of his life.

    • @NoDumFucs
      @NoDumFucs Před 4 měsíci +4

      @@pattylyons9645 No, they play the "Im in the middle" card to remain non-committal which allows the negative focus to remain on his wife. It's cowardice.

  • @lowrider81hd
    @lowrider81hd Před 4 měsíci +58

    That last guy doesn’t love his wife. The laughing and smirking, calling her trailer trash, making fun of the girls old purse because that’s all she could afford…, he is just like his disgusting arrogant mother and I hope the girl divorced him by now. I really hope so.

  • @ednaatluxton4918
    @ednaatluxton4918 Před 4 měsíci +29

    French guy wont change. He wants his inheritance that mommy dearest is threatening to disinherit him from. Hes very materialistic.

  • @mandyadler4536
    @mandyadler4536 Před 4 měsíci +83

    I was "married" to a mommy's boy for far too many miserable years. She was always number one. He never, ever stood up for me nor defended me to her. I never said a word to anyone about this nightmare I was going through, suffering in silence for decades. The happiest day of my life was when this subhuman packed up and left. It was also the first day of NO MORE MIGRAINES for me!!! My life now is quiet, peaceful and stress free - heaven!!!

    • @AmandaYee-yn9dk
      @AmandaYee-yn9dk Před 21 dnem

      That’s stupid that’s why I don’t think extended family is important they r just free labor if u can’t afford a babysitter or nanny

    • @mandyadler4536
      @mandyadler4536 Před 21 dnem

      @@AmandaYee-yn9dk I never used my mother in law as a babysitter. I wouldn't let her near my kids - she was too unstable and disturbed.

  • @linannsingh6165
    @linannsingh6165 Před 4 měsíci +75

    I wasn't crazy about who my Son picked to married, but my choices were, embrace my new Daughter, or lose my Son.

    • @elenawilliams32
      @elenawilliams32 Před 3 měsíci +5

      You've done the right thing for him and his happiness. It's our job as parents to support our children. If they make a poor choice and it ends badly, we help them pick up the pieces, learn from their mistakes and move on. Ultimately, if he's happy, that's marvellous. Your daughter in law and son obviously love each other, which is wonderful.

    • @BetsyRoss76
      @BetsyRoss76 Před 2 měsíci

      At some point you say enough is enough. You don’t have to kiss your kids asses. Goes for anyone.

  • @Scubidu-ni6ny
    @Scubidu-ni6ny Před 4 měsíci +34

    Had one of those baby boy husbands the first time around. Put a bow on the top of his head and gave him back to his mama. Later met a man with normal family ties. We’ve been married for over thirty years. Still love his family and the relationship we have.

    • @sunnyday4055
      @sunnyday4055 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Glad you found yourself a better life 🌹

  • @TW-gv8fw
    @TW-gv8fw Před 4 měsíci +33

    I would be out of there in seconds. This girl is the victim, she has got it from both her husband and MIL. Good on Dr Phil for calling them both out.

  • @kathleenjimenez8968
    @kathleenjimenez8968 Před 4 měsíci +217

    I feel sorry for anyone that has Janice as a mil. That old woman is cruel and I don’t believe for a second she doesn’t remember.

  • @pdig2963
    @pdig2963 Před 4 měsíci +246

    Wait, the mother-in-law said she doesn't think that the daughter in-laws very attractive.Has she looked in the mirror 😢

  • @sangeetawesley6683
    @sangeetawesley6683 Před 4 měsíci +72

    The woman should leave PIERRE , she deserves better

    • @kathleenmanning658
      @kathleenmanning658 Před 4 měsíci +8

      Yes she certainly deserves a husband who loves and cherishes her and not his Mother. Pierre and his rotten Mother deserve each other.

  • @mamikiramafoko4095
    @mamikiramafoko4095 Před 4 měsíci +63

    It is a bit better when the son protects you as a wife,what is pathetic is when the mother and the son teams up against the wife.Then the marriage does not stand a chance.
    Emotional incest between a mom and a son is very difficult to handle.

  • @mesflyer
    @mesflyer Před 4 měsíci +172

    90 seconds in and I already know why MIL treats her like that... he tolerates it.

  • @lilaworley8935
    @lilaworley8935 Před 4 měsíci +155

    This is like a master class in how not to behave when your grown adult children get married and have their own family.
    Boundaries are so important. Especially with dysfunctional extended family.

    • @moniqueschmucker7712
      @moniqueschmucker7712 Před 4 měsíci +4

      BINGO!!! Boundaries are so important! I’ve got siblings who completely disagreed with our boundaries and I haven’t heard a peep from them since. My husband and I are perfectly ok with that! ❤️😎

    • @lilaworley8935
      @lilaworley8935 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@moniqueschmucker7712 same here my friend.
      I hear you. I get it.
      The family you and your husband create...and your serenity... is what's important now. Cheers.

  • @karenyork9863
    @karenyork9863 Před 3 měsíci +81

    Children are not an extension of you, ladies! Your job is finished! Leave them alone.

    • @FabulousCucumber-ip9hu
      @FabulousCucumber-ip9hu Před 2 měsíci +4

      Ppl with NPD have trouble seeing their children as individuals separate from them

    • @tammywebb1289
      @tammywebb1289 Před měsícem +1

      Exactly 💯 I believe that you are a parent until your child reaches adulthood and starts taking care of himself or herself. Of course, you're still a parent by blood/DNA, but your role as a parent is over once your child goes out on its own

    • @AmandaYee-yn9dk
      @AmandaYee-yn9dk Před 21 dnem

      I agre

  • @jessicapetch1673
    @jessicapetch1673 Před 2 měsíci +13

    Dr Phil having the French translator unknown to them, hilarious. That man is a legend, talk about catching them out 😅

  • @nikiegirl369
    @nikiegirl369 Před 4 měsíci +97

    Thank GOD for my wonderful mother in law……❤️

  • @Challenger2A7
    @Challenger2A7 Před 4 měsíci +96

    Emotional incest, and a disbelief that their sons could fancy anybody but their mothers. Sick.

    • @pisces1017
      @pisces1017 Před 4 měsíci +7

      It is disgusting

    • @wilblissful
      @wilblissful Před 4 měsíci +5

      Its so ingrained in the sons too. Its sick.

    • @jennyd5364
      @jennyd5364 Před 4 měsíci +8

      The narcissistic mommy and the son-husband 🤢

    • @pommiebears
      @pommiebears Před 3 měsíci +4

      It’s utterly disgusting. I have two sons, and I love them more than life, but I have never stuck my nose where it isn’t wanted, and I refuse to take sides. Some mothers seem to have a very disturbed relationship with their sons.

  • @rustynails8756
    @rustynails8756 Před 4 měsíci +77

    My goodness these people make me so grateful for my DIL. She's the soulmate my son desired and an Angel to the whole family.
    Does this mother not believe she raised a man capable of choosing a good wife?

    • @cheryl5994
      @cheryl5994 Před 4 měsíci +13

      THAT’A A LOVELY THING TO SAY.

    • @chantellenolan
      @chantellenolan Před 4 měsíci +8

      I desperately wish I had a mother in law. She’s been out of our lives almost the entirety of our marriage because of her issues. She wasn’t safe for our children. I always dreamed of having a MIL who went to lunch with me and maybe shopping or the library, just whatever. 😢

    • @rustynails8756
      @rustynails8756 Před 4 měsíci +9

      @@chantellenolan I am so sorry. It must be hard on you, your spouse and children.

    • @purselmer5931
      @purselmer5931 Před 4 měsíci +1

      THAT is what it comes down to - the mom doesn't trust or respect her son's ability to use his intelligence to choose.. It's a complete diss to the intelligence of her son.

    • @ranchdressingisablessing8082
      @ranchdressingisablessing8082 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@chantellenolanI’m so sorry that makes me so sad for you. I absolutely love my mil

  • @MeeblesSporella
    @MeeblesSporella Před 4 měsíci +125

    "I didn't hit her. She's 5'8 I'm 5"1"...so since she is shorter that means she didn't hit her.🤣😆🤣

    • @hegete
      @hegete Před 4 měsíci +5

      Napoleon

    • @sharonkent2907
      @sharonkent2907 Před 4 měsíci +4

      I thought the same thing, what does her being shorter have anything to fo with it

    • @mackjeez
      @mackjeez Před 4 měsíci +3

      @@hegete
      Fun Fact that has nothing to do with the video or your comment:
      Napoleon was often described as being short in stature. In actual fact, the height of five foot two recorded on his death was in French units, which were equivalent in today’s measurement to five foot, six and a half inches, an average height for a French man in that era. The myth of Napoleon being short must have started when he began to surround himself with the unusually tall soldiers of the French Elite guard, which were anywhere from 6 ft to 7ft tall, they would have made him look very short in comparison.

    • @mylissa73
      @mylissa73 Před 4 měsíci +2

      I was thinking the exact same thing! Since when has that mattered??

    • @jennyd5364
      @jennyd5364 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Deflected narcissism at its finest. Let's see how I can reframe this to avoid taking responsibility.

  • @isabeld.3795
    @isabeld.3795 Před 4 měsíci +59

    Pierre needs to grow a pair.

  • @amymiller8964
    @amymiller8964 Před 4 měsíci +83

    The mom speaking in French to her son and it being translated to her daughter-in law was awesome. That judgey women needs to go back to France. That was cold and heartless. Also Id leave that husband of hers after all that.

    • @sunbeam9222
      @sunbeam9222 Před 4 měsíci

      I agree. Even tho I don't really want them here in France we have too many stuck up fools already 😂

    • @slaydesantis294
      @slaydesantis294 Před 4 měsíci +14

      I hope that she did leave him, because I think that he would choose the Mom and the money over her.

    • @kathleencomba2500
      @kathleencomba2500 Před 3 měsíci

      The second young wife...she is young and beautiful...she CAN do better...leave that weak Willy...he can go back to Maman because she controls the invisible incestuous umbilical cord....Good riddance....Au Revoir Chien Mechant!!!!

    • @aussiemouth747
      @aussiemouth747 Před 3 měsíci +2

      I think they were French Canadian. 🤔

    • @btscarzella214
      @btscarzella214 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@slaydesantis294I agree! I would have no respect for that man.

  • @jaxxmariecambridge5212
    @jaxxmariecambridge5212 Před 4 měsíci +30

    My MIL, SILs and BIL have ganged up on me and bullied me for 30 years while my husband has stood by and watched. I've wasted so much time dealing with this abuse. I'm finally DONE. They can have him. I honestly wish I had walked away from this bs decades ago. As a MIL myself, I can't even imagine mistreating my son's wife. I'd never be able to live with myself if I ever put strain on his marriage. I just don't get it.

    • @kathybrem880
      @kathybrem880 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Mine tried, but I’m tougher and stronger and now they’re all deceased !

  • @dabbyleemiller
    @dabbyleemiller Před 4 měsíci +38

    Why does Dr Phil have so many bangers 😂😂
    "I could have been a pathologist where everyone was already dead"
    "Shes got your balls in a Dixie cup" *the visual* 😂😂😂

  • @brigitteluehr
    @brigitteluehr Před 4 měsíci +18

    I am a mother and a mother in law as well. I don’t understand those mom’s there. You are not blind ladies. You need to see that your son / daughter is happy and beloved through their partners. That’s all we want, isn’t it? And then they bless us with grandchildren , it fills our hearts even with more and more love. Your job is it, to give it back 🙏🏽

  • @beago0810
    @beago0810 Před 4 měsíci +36

    My mother in law hated me and wished death to the pregnancy of our son. My son's grandmother only saw my son twice @ Age 1 and 6...then never again, it was her choice. I don't know if my mother- in-law is dead or alive. I was married in 1979 and divorced my husband in 1999, it was destroying my health. Their family was just evil as she didn't like American people. They were Jamaican. I gave the marriage a long chance. The marriage was mentally abusive to me and our son and I had to save myself and our son as his father became more abusive like his mother. He took her side totally and didnt stand up for us. When our son turned 19, he found out his father stole his identity and the Magistrate awarded our son the right to change his name since he and his father shared the same exact name but our son was a junior.

  • @alanaadams7440
    @alanaadams7440 Před 4 měsíci +96

    Wife pack your bags and don't look back

  • @AmaliPrior
    @AmaliPrior Před 3 měsíci +17

    the way she defended him when his mother called him a wuss, thats love right there.

  • @discobikerAndRosie
    @discobikerAndRosie Před 4 měsíci +22

    Guilty people always say "Do i look like i could..."
    This man allowed his mother destroy their relationship, & hurt his wife to the core. Shame on them both.

  • @AddysonLeigh123
    @AddysonLeigh123 Před 4 měsíci +37

    I’d love to see a follow up years later in all of these.

  • @quintinnunn1392
    @quintinnunn1392 Před 3 měsíci +11

    She will never look at him the same after hearing that conversation. He's spineless

  • @rhondamoon3886
    @rhondamoon3886 Před 4 měsíci +54

    The first MIL is definitely evil, and she thinks her son's azz is made of gold!

  • @Chaotic4426
    @Chaotic4426 Před 4 měsíci +61

    When you get married, your spouse becomes your priority. Meddlers are such vulgar creatures. Man up fella, support your wife, deal with your mother

    • @caliblue2
      @caliblue2 Před 3 měsíci

      My ex was the same way. He let friends, neighbors and family members attack me and insisted I should just”let them” without EVER standing up for me. I married a PU*** and if I see an ounce of that trait in a man I’m done. A flag as red as China’s.

  • @Random_Road1021
    @Random_Road1021 Před 3 měsíci +10

    The daughter in law in the first clip was awesome. Articulate and strong without stooping to the mother in laws level.

  • @goldenoak8164
    @goldenoak8164 Před 4 měsíci +20

    This mother-in-law will hate anyone who is her son's wife!

  • @Suzi64grad
    @Suzi64grad Před 4 měsíci +153

    Pierre will choose his mom because he likes his expensive things! Not right but true!

    • @sunbeam9222
      @sunbeam9222 Před 4 měsíci +13

      Definitely. I'm French and feel pretty embarrassed here 🫣

    • @mp5249
      @mp5249 Před 4 měsíci +11

      Hilarious she's kept him being a baby man. Nearly 40 and completely dependent on mommy.

    • @extremeresponsibility
      @extremeresponsibility Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@mp5249There's a reason that these mothers don't have husbands. Feminists hatred for women has done so much damage. So many are brutal and inhumane, like the woman in this video.

    • @someone3187
      @someone3187 Před 3 měsíci +5

      Tbh they aren't suitable for each other and probably should get a divorce anyway

    • @aussiemouth747
      @aussiemouth747 Před 3 měsíci +5

      ​@someone3187 Yes, bet they are divorced now and he's still living in mummy's house.

  • @kristinacornwellburr4606
    @kristinacornwellburr4606 Před 4 měsíci +48

    Grateful I don’t have a mother in law to contend with.

    • @dwiputrisutanto1945
      @dwiputrisutanto1945 Před 4 měsíci +2

      Amen. Me too.

    • @annking8633
      @annking8633 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Mine was dead before we got married. Family lore has it that she was a very sweet person. I missed out. 😢❤

    • @catrinahartz944
      @catrinahartz944 Před 4 měsíci +1

      Mine are great

  • @DJartisticDorado
    @DJartisticDorado Před 4 měsíci +18

    Divorced 6 years, still love my inlaws! My mom in law is the best mom I've ever met!❤❤❤

    • @verahouse3761
      @verahouse3761 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Felt the same way about my son in-law after my daughter and him divorce, he was like a son to me even after they separated he always treated me well loved him a lot

  • @mrscatlady912
    @mrscatlady912 Před 4 měsíci +26

    That first mother in law calls her daughter in law Heavy, when she is heavy. What is the self hate

  • @gloriousgearhead5367
    @gloriousgearhead5367 Před 4 měsíci +97

    Kinda glad the husband is not siding with his evil mother like a typical mommy’s little boy.

  • @moonwater7985
    @moonwater7985 Před 4 měsíci +73

    First MIL is a classic narcissist. They should have contacted the cops every time she went against the restraining order, should be arrested! She will never change. The family needs to go zero contact and move residence to a different county.

  • @tamerraeb2363
    @tamerraeb2363 Před 3 měsíci +21

    Pierre is weak and wants to be with mommy. They are rude and contemptible. Girl...RUN

    • @ellencook1658
      @ellencook1658 Před měsícem +1

      Yeah, well, they’re French so… get out.

    • @tamerraeb2363
      @tamerraeb2363 Před měsícem

      @@ellencook1658 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @luciamarston8804
    @luciamarston8804 Před 4 měsíci +57

    THESE MEN ARE SOOO WEAK

  • @unicorngj
    @unicorngj Před 4 měsíci +65

    Quoted,"I should of been a pathologist"....Love it Dr.Phil

    • @janewainwright9756
      @janewainwright9756 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Yes, 'I should HAVE been a pathologist where everybody's already dead!''
      BRILLIANT Dr Phil !!

  • @casechow
    @casechow Před 4 měsíci +18

    I've said this before but I think it's so classy and damn charming that Dr. Phil gives crying folks his handkerchiefs. Love that old fashioned chestnut he keeps revived. ❤

  • @pamelalansbury94
    @pamelalansbury94 Před 4 měsíci +35

    French mom does not give af. She’s proud of everything she says and loves that everyone knows it. Her son is no better. He likes his Mercedes more than his wife. His wife needs to invest in herself and get away from both of them.

    • @luteydog
      @luteydog Před 4 měsíci +2

      Agreed. He likes his life just the way it is with mommy providing him with a home and Mercedes. He’ll never stand up to her.

    • @ThatSouthernGirlSarah96
      @ThatSouthernGirlSarah96 Před 4 měsíci +6

      They both I feel as mom and son are borderline narcissists absolutely believe they are above everyone else. And to be disconnected and narcissistic to call someone mentally ill, etc. when she is the absolute root of it. Feeling isolated like they do to her would send anyone into a full on tail spin mentally.

    • @1285DM
      @1285DM Před 4 měsíci +2

      I believe the Doughter in law lines to be a freeloader also and she clearly loves her alcohol … this trio don’t match .
      Just move on separately

  • @kimberlyjocatone
    @kimberlyjocatone Před 4 měsíci +119

    in the last case, why doesn't the son speak English even though his mom is speaking french. She will get the hint. he is a wimp. the wife can do better.

    • @cheryl5994
      @cheryl5994 Před 4 měsíci +11

      AGREED ON ALL POINTS THERE KIMBERLY.

    • @kimberlyjocatone
      @kimberlyjocatone Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@cheryl5994 ty

    • @2ndhandSue
      @2ndhandSue Před 4 měsíci +11

      Even if the husband is of a different ethnicity, it is horribly rude of him to speak French with his mother in his wife's presence, and when the conversation is so clearly negative towards the wife. I blame the son for taking part in this.

    • @karlasnyder9856
      @karlasnyder9856 Před 4 měsíci +6

      Totally agree. Mamas boy

    • @katherinealba6768
      @katherinealba6768 Před 4 měsíci +4

      That couple needs to make a plan to rent a place to live in independently to his mother's finances and walk their own path.
      That will solve it.

  • @user-eo7hg4pf8i
    @user-eo7hg4pf8i Před 4 měsíci +38

    1st case - the two of them need to move away from their mums. 2nd case - divorce. That guy is going to side with his sugar-mommy.

  • @RobinBouterse
    @RobinBouterse Před 4 měsíci +33

    25:07 the husband who says it would be hard but of course I’d chose my wife. What a coward

  • @vickieflanigan4678
    @vickieflanigan4678 Před 4 měsíci +64

    It's his choice mama. Butt out. I'd move far away

  • @debbies6494
    @debbies6494 Před 4 měsíci +27

    That mother-in-law is out of control. They are better off without her in their lives.

  • @MariaTorres-hc5uq
    @MariaTorres-hc5uq Před 4 měsíci +15

    If you ask me, in the first case, the hubby should grow a pair and put mum in her place ASAP, if he cares about his wife. A woman who takes a man with 2 special needs children has a lot of guts.

  • @mylissa73
    @mylissa73 Před 4 měsíci +12

    Talking about her in a language she couldn’t understand, right in front of her face is absolutely disgusting. Incredibly rude.

  • @fabiwilliams4644
    @fabiwilliams4644 Před 4 měsíci +15

    I had a mother-in-law like that. We left her behind in 89 & she died all alone 2019. Sad but inevitable

  • @deborahhernandez6895
    @deborahhernandez6895 Před 4 měsíci +27

    The last case that man will never do what Dr Phil said!

  • @fire12731
    @fire12731 Před 4 měsíci +20

    Beyond hurtful that these women do this to their daughters in law. Spineless husbands

    • @caliblue2
      @caliblue2 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Amanda’s husband is a backstabber. He’s actually married to his mother. They act like total POS’s and are the kind of people who would murder you with a smile.

  • @amandavanheerden7980
    @amandavanheerden7980 Před 4 měsíci +16

    That mother in law is dangerous. She is a liar and a psychopath. They should move far far away from this toxic person.

  • @susanlosey9511
    @susanlosey9511 Před 4 měsíci +32

    I have a wonder dtr in law. She is a daughter I would have loved to have. She makes my son laugh and so happy! I have to live with them. I do not interfere with their spats when they have them. Which is very rare! I love her dearly, we are always ragging on each other. Only in fun! She’s an Angel and I love her very much!❤🥰😻

  • @YourAvergeHuman1
    @YourAvergeHuman1 Před 4 měsíci +43

    She was definitely one of those extreme boy moms (the first one)

  • @karlasnyder9856
    @karlasnyder9856 Před 4 měsíci +11

    My MIL was phenomenal. Miss her terribly

  • @kauaiank4537
    @kauaiank4537 Před 4 měsíci +13

    The first husband needs to man up and be a husband to his wife and tell his mother to back off

  • @user-yq7lw9nn6d
    @user-yq7lw9nn6d Před 4 měsíci +14

    The mom in law speaking French really should not talk behind her back

  • @BlueLuna5
    @BlueLuna5 Před 4 měsíci +12

    Talking in another language in front of people is still the rudest thing to do in my opinion.
    I'd even rather someone smoke in front of me, which is also rude.

    • @eh-i1841
      @eh-i1841 Před 9 dny

      I totally agree,with you,about the language thing.

  • @hbudd79
    @hbudd79 Před 3 měsíci +9

    I would have left that French guy so long ago if he allowed his mom to act that way towards me. I don't have any idea why she's even staying. She could do much better.

  • @TheSuperHarrygeorge
    @TheSuperHarrygeorge Před 4 měsíci +8

    Got the cheek to call her daughter in law.’unattractive and heavy’ . I cracked up . Has she looked at herself in the mirror !

  • @marlene56423
    @marlene56423 Před 3 měsíci +10

    There is only one thing worst than a mother in law and that is a FRENCH mother in law.

    • @misstoujoursplus
      @misstoujoursplus Před 3 měsíci

      Actually, according to her accent, she's not french, she's probably from Quebec, which is the french speaking province of Canada.

  • @pattybagley2432
    @pattybagley2432 Před 4 měsíci +15

    I would make the suggestion that mom needs to be checked for dementia with the lack of recall lol

    • @rhondadavis1483
      @rhondadavis1483 Před 2 měsíci

      All of these MILs need to be checked for it…it’s either dementia or just plain meanness…I think its the latter.

  • @wendyhardin5259
    @wendyhardin5259 Před 4 měsíci +10

    I’m so glad that my sons in law don’t hate me. I hit the Son In Law lottery where my three daughters are concerned. They are all happily married to amazing men who love and respect them. Isn’t that what we want for our children? And I would never dream of interfering in their lives. My youngest daughter’s husband always has to tell my Happy Mother’s Day before my daughter does. It’s a cute competition.

  • @nancyjones9925
    @nancyjones9925 Před 4 měsíci +18

    Peirre is 38 he needs to grow up n stop living off his mom n his wife needs to leave him after him saying he would pic the luxeries his mom gives him over her! I'd be out the door so fast his head would spin!

    • @nadiabrstak5646
      @nadiabrstak5646 Před 3 měsíci +1

      She has a choice...she can leave...

    • @eh-i1841
      @eh-i1841 Před 9 dny

      I would stay,just to pee off the MIL,after that.And I’d learn French,on the quiet.

  • @drowningnotwaving
    @drowningnotwaving Před 4 měsíci +22

    One word would cure this..MOVE! I deliberately live far from my family for these reasons. Move away, tell your mum that her help/opinions are no longer needed and stand up for your wife!

    • @jodirowe2996
      @jodirowe2996 Před 4 měsíci +1

      You are so right! But what if your spouse cannot let go of mommy?!

  • @loriesters7960
    @loriesters7960 Před 4 měsíci +7

    The wife putting her arm around her husband saying nobody calls my husband a name😂😂 Grown man sitting there. Please

  • @dewuknowHIM
    @dewuknowHIM Před 4 měsíci +25

    My ex mil is just like janice....🤢🤮
    We moved 300 miles to get away from her.....

  • @ellobetchess
    @ellobetchess Před 4 měsíci +14

    Mom 1. I had a nail client like her once. Fired her after a few visits. I cannot stomach being in the presence of people with her personality and speech. I cant imagine being married to her son and having her around.