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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 23. 07. 2024
- In this video, I am sharing my opinion on the most annoying comment I get on my channel! Although I do think this comment is generally well intentioned, I find it sometimes is so dismissive that I have to address it!
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00:43 - Decorate However You Want
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04:20 - It's Dismissive
05:39 - It's Not True For Everybody
07:44 - You Are Impacted By Trends Too
09:47 - Sometimes You're Wrong
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No one asked you to Joyce!
Donât paint your wall, Joyce.
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These are ideas for consideration, not mandates.
WE ARE ALL BEING HYPNOTIZED đ”âđ«
I guess some people watch design videos not for ideas but validation for their own design choices.
Totally this. Looking for a pat on the head, so to say.
I think you got it. This kind of people, everything is about them. Video is addressed exclusively to them, as if host had seen their home and criticized their place specifically. Small, tiny folks.
Also, they're the kind of people likely to use phrases like " trying to shove his ideas/ beliefs/opinions down my throat".
I am that kind of viewer. I try to make design decisions that I like, instead of being just trendy. It is nice to know professional's opinion if something is classic or just going to pass/be unpractical. I've noticed that many trendy things are actually quite unpractical. It's like they're reinventing wheel or something.
@@jennifergadd6714 yep...
They donât know how expensive is to get a decor designer consultation and you are giving us it free. Thank you Nick . I appreciate your work here and your style.
Just because I know what I like, doesn't mean I know how to put those things I like together in a coherent and pleasing way! I'm no trained interior designer, or even a trained artist. I can tell when I look at a space that it's not giving the aesthetic I want but I couldn't begin to guess *why* let alone fix it, without the guidance of channels like this one. Thank you thank you, Nick, for sharing your knowledge and experience with us all so freely.
Facts đ
And even if we have a good eye, we can make mistakes too. As Nick said, I'd question my style choices from a few years back and think "what was I thinking?". But that's because we evolve and our style evolves with us.
exactly! i used to hang my curtains at the top of my window frame bc thatâs where i have always seen them hung, i didnât know there was a better way. i also thought the curtain had to be as long as the window so i would have these short curtains that just covered the window. thanks to people like nick i learned that there is a much better way to hang curtains to have a much better aesthetic & that curtains shouldnât just stop at the window but continue to the floor
My adult son is on parlor floor, grad student sibs on top floor, me downstairs. We have never lived in a home like this before and after 30 years in loft, I need help, as do my kids etc. We love learning all of these methods and ideas
My grandma use to say, âfragile minds will get offended by the silliest things.â Never really understood that until I became an adult.
Love it!
That should be the motto of today's society. I swear, you literally can't see anything without somebody getting their feelings hurt. It is really sad. I don't really worry about it anymore. I say what I want to say, and people can get over it or not. It's their problem, not mine.
Well said! Your grandma is wise and eloquent.
@@fancynancy2888 came here to say that.
Exactly! If someone says these days "I love bananas", the immediate response nowadays is, "Why do you HATE apples?".
Please do space planning videos! It wouldnât be boring coming from you!
As he said it I was thinking that I would show up for that lol
Yes please this!
I'd be keen on a video about space planning
Iâm a kitchen and bath designer and would love to watch space planning videos đ€©
Space planning by Nick sounds awesome to me too!
I appreciate Nick (and other design-based CZcamsrs) not because I think he's trying to tell us HOW to decorate our homes, but because I think he's trying to INSPIRE us to take our personal styles to a more finished level.
Nick and I have few style notes in common (I prefer English traditional), but I enjoy his videos, and after watching one, I find myself rethinking room layouts, my choice of accessories, and even my art. Thanks Nick! You're the best.
I feel the same. I have a way greater appreciation for the absurd than would make Nick comfortable, but you bet I was taking notes on how to effectively mix metals in a bathroom. He'd likely really dislike my gallery wall on principle and he'd really dislike what makes up my gallery wall, but he and I see eye to eye on how to layout and balance a gallery wall for greatest impact.
@@Chaotic_Pixie ok,now Im so damn curious ...what is on gallery wall?đ
@@brianr7726 for me, itâs a literal wall of art. From fav artists, loved ones, my own art⊠even some sculptures on highlight shelves.
Well said!
Came for the design content, stayed for the positive energy, super catchy personality and easy-going attitude
The irony is that Nick tells us CONSTANTLY to decorate however we want because heâs not coming to our homes. Still hurts, because Iâd love to host Nick, I know heâd love all the glitter grout and foam-edged mirrors I have.
There you go..."you do you" đ€Ł
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đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł heâd be too polite to gasp out loud lol..then again, he might not..haha..that was funny!
As he's said many times, he won't make fun of you until he leaves, so it's all good.
@Patrice A Roth I think he can hold it in with a straight face. Did you see his April Fools video? I was all worried at 1st thought Nick suffered burnout and snapped!
I WANT TO KNOW THE SCIENCE OF DESIGN!!! Please Nick, throw us a bone and do one of those "boring" videos that addresses the science of design. I am 19 months into my new build and I would love to have known about electrical and plumbing "gotchas". And now that I have to start thinking about furnishing this house, I want to know about space planning and scale as it relates to furniture and room layout. I bet you would be surprised at how many folks would actually be interested.
Agree. Those videos could have saved me some expensive mistakes in the past. Iâd watch them
I would be. Itâs very important to design with scale. Like a tiny home has furniture and built-ins that serve multiple purposes and transform to solve the space challenges. So do large spaces rely on scale to make a room feel comfortable and cozy in many small zones within a large space.
I would watch Nick read the phone book! đ
If youâre doing a new build, itâs best to hire an actual designer/decorator to walk you through the best choices for you from start to finish. Yes 10 minute videos that nick could make on the science of design is helpful, but ultimately, it wonât compare to someone actually knowing your space and giving advice thatâs personalized to you. It will save you more money in the long run hiring a pro, because youâll be making good decisions right from the get-go, rather than do things on your own and realize down the road that maybe that wasnât the right choice for you.
@@Chantybinx Oh, for sure if youâre building. But if youâre just trying to buy a new dining table and chairs, itâs good to know how much space to leave between the chairs and a buffet, for example, so you donât overcrowd your room. Or his round coffee table example. Things like that he could definitely cover. đđ»
I am 71 and am upgrading my kitchen on a budget. Painting, switching up art and shelves from room to room, getting new hardware...it's fun to get new ideas and I have gotten some from you. Why keep learning? CUZ IT KEEPS US YOUNG! Plain and simple!
I get this all the time in makeup! âMakeup has no rules!â Except it does, and if you donât know them, how can you break them?!
As a frequent watcher of decorating channels, Iâve seen this comment everywhere as well. I always thoughtâŠwhy are they watching, if their only contribution is to let everyone know theyâre going to do what they want.
They look for advice but sometimes advice might come off as rude to them.
When I see this type of comment, I think the person making the comment is displaying both arrogance and stupidity. They think theyâre better than the person making the content but show low intelligence for thinking their obvious âadviceâ is clever and of interest to anyone with more than two brain cells,
Similar to those people who comment with things like âoh so you know them personally do you?â when others are making comment and sharing opinion on public figures,
@@amybishop9787 LOL. Yeah, Amy--you tell 'em!!
Sometimes it feels dismissive towards designer professionals too. Like, decorate however you want, itâs not like itâs hard. Just mash a bunch of stuff you like together in a room, it will sort itself out.
Yes, dismissive towards expertise based on education, work experience.and talent. Now thatâs a trend that I wish would disappear.
Sometimes, it doesn't work out. Be honest, you've seen it not work out.
My pet peeveâŠ
@@bialistock8946 you peeking in my window? đ€Ł
Oh yes very much this đ
Nick, Iâve never commented on your videos, but really enjoy watching them. I have 4 year degree in interior design from a large university and you are doing a better job than a lot of my professors back in the day. I love the way you present theories of different design styles. Yes we all learned the fundamentals of say, art deco: its history, major influences and designers, etc. But you take that one step further by suggesting actual items people can get to make that style work in their homes. Well done!
This has to be one of my favorite videos Nick. I'm an artist and an art teacher. I could totally apply this to my field as well. Yes, you can do whatever you want. And yes, there are also "rules" (or at least guidelines to consider). Welcome to civilization.
Functionality of layout and placement is key. Please do more of these When I was a builder, I struggled with clients (and a few architects, but seldom engineers) about what was going to function well and what would cause log jams. I see them all the time -- entryways too small, stairs that end at a blind corner (causing people collisions), dishwasher doors that block egress, ceilings too low transitioning to too high, poorly placed windows, and on and on.
Yes! I'm an engineer, and I would love to see more functionality/design science videos! Looks mean nothing if it doesn't serve the space well.
When I sold real estate (back in the â80s, with 18% interest rates on fixed 30 yr mortgages đ±), I became so frustrated with builders (it was always the newer construction) that would put windows and/or doors on every single wall! Where are you supposed to put the queen-size bed and dresser, in a bedroom, for instance?
@@HeronCoyote1234 I've seen that -- too many windows on too many walls, chopping up the space. It's frantic and not conducive to relaxation. I guess you put your bed up against a window with a heavy drapery, which looks odd. Then the windowsill gets mildewy because you don't open the drape much.
And yet, even with all the windows, natural ventilation can be very poor. No upper windows to open (for stack ventilation), non-existent cross ventilation. They rely entirely on the HVAC. Cooking and other odors just linger and the house air gets stale fast.
Yeah, I know what you mean. At my old place the hall led from the living room to the kitchen. The only problem is that the oven door opened directly into the space where the hallway funneled people into the kitchen. It was so scary for me every time I had to open the oven and I could hear my kids barreling down the hallway to see what I was doing.
I went in to a multi million dollar home on the parade of homes and they were so poorly put together I wanted to scream ! builders need space planners and KNBA guidelines so their houses doesn't suck !
Preach it! This concept of ânot everything is about/for youâ applies in so MANY disciplines.
Childhood trauma and growing up with hoarders mean that IDK what a comfortable, attractive home that expresses me is. I never saw decorating or even functional living spaces, and because of abuse, tend to try and change myself to fit with whomever I am with, so IDK even know what I like. Watching these videos show me so many options and ideas that are helping me figure out what works for me.
I like that you talk about how some design is just wrong because of science. I grew up weaving around my house terrified because I would be blamed if I knocked one of the piles over, while my husband grew up the opposite: nothing should ever be in the way, that's a crime lol.
So far the only interior design thing that I've figured out for me is that there needs to be visible spare toilet paper in the guest bath, and easily found feminine hygiene supplies because I don't want anyone to be embarrassed about that.
Some eye-pleasing furnitures, that are functional or comfortable can be found, If one tries .Not too empty or too stuffed, and as tidy and clean as ever possible.....that is the most important style- choice....the rest can be ,,polished" bit by bit with time, and If / when You can afford it! Just watching these inspirations is educational and fun.....No one should be overwhelmed or intimidated by it! Kind regards!!!
Im right there with you
One way that trends do impact us is Availability! I love when my favorite color finally is "in"; suddenly the stores are full of accessories in that color! I've been watching and reading about interior design for 50 years. My daughter was talking about her dream bedroom last night and I realized how much my taste has evolved over the years. When young, I was heavily influenced by what was popular but I gradually learned what I like to look at and what is comfortable for me. Unfortunately, my actual home is decorated in Early Attic and Family HandMeDown, but I still love to look at what's new!
That is actually a good point. That's how I wiew trends now, inspiration and a hint on what will be available.
100% agree. I feel like if my favourite colour is in fashion I have to go and by everything I will need until it comes back into fashion again. Shops tend to push us in these directions. Even on things like towel or bedding which might need replacing before your colour comes back so then you end up on a slippery slope to changing the whole Rome so your bedding works in there.
Loved the moment decorated in early attic and family hand-me-downs. I totally agree about availability. I did a bathroom with brown and powder blue. I loved it. But now it's impossible to find true powder blue . My towels and things needed replaced and I had to go to a whole new look
I"m an older lady, and I can tell that my "style" has definitely changed as I get older. Perfect example: I LOVE artwork, and had my former house REALLY filled with it. When I removed about 60% of it to paint and ultimately sell my house, I had a real epiphany. I LOVED the new uncluttered look, and I've carried that to my new home. I realize this doesn't really come under "design trends" that Nick may be addressing, but perhaps "less busy" IS a design trend! LOL
Love your comment. I'm going through the same thing. Now I have several boxes of framed art and photos packed away. Trying to respect negative space. Still working on it.
It is a trend, it's called minimalism.
@@darkcreatureinadarkroom1617 When someone remarked that my home was minimalist ( it is actually quite traditional w/ limited but meaningful accessories ) , I tho't in my head that I should have replied that the correct term is called " Anti-Crapist " . đ
Yes, the same thing happened to me after painting the inside of my home. I loved the less cluttered look and the 'breathability' factor it gave off.
@@cynthiajohnston424 potahto, potayto đ
To add to what you've already said, I think there are people who endeavor to decorate their space in "their style" but end up being disappointed. Not because what they've selected isn't in their style, but more because they don't understand the language of design and therefore struggle to realize their vision. Videos like your helps people understand how design works so that others can more informed decisions.
So true! When I first bought our house, I tried to do "statement" walls with wallpaper. They were all hideous and ill conceived. The upholstery I chose for our furniture was likewise as hideous. I thought I was being unique, but it was just disastrous. I have since, over the decades, developed a calmer and slightly more neutral aesthetic because I listened to design advice and just tweaked it a little to reflect my own tastes. I could have used a Nick Lewis right about then, but all I had were magazines and interior design experts on morning shows (no such thing as HGTV then) and books from the library on decor (that were mostly horribly outdated). When my daughters get their own places đ, I will direct them to people like Nick Lewis for decor advice.
I agree! I think a lot of it comes down to not really understanding how colours can work together, or not, or they don't get the concept of a colour palette and making sure everything will be harmonious and work together cohesively. I recently moved house and Nick's videos really helped me to pick a colour palette that I like, that works in the space and where my oddball furniture doesn't look quite so oddball. And that I've been able to incorporate some things that have been passed down to me, in a way that looks intentional rather than just thrown in for the lulz.
The fact that I've done it in colours that might be on trend now is incidental. It just happens that the colours I like are fashionable right now - but all that means is that I don't have to hunt quite so hard for accessories as I would otherwise. I may not have had the courage to experiment if it hadn't been for Nick and people like him - so thank you, Nick!
@@c.m.4686 Where I live we've got some awesome interior design magazines but also some where I see those typical design mistakes - and they still print it and give as actual examples of nicely designed living spaces. I could only come to the conclusion that they don't have actual knowledge about composition, colours etc., just go by what they "like" - and these are the results. It's not all horrible, there are parts of a room that are great but when you look at everything together, it's just not. I like to take those spaces apart in my head and improve them page by page - I really enjoy doing it and it's a great mental exercise as well :)
I very much agree and I feel like that also translate into personal style. There are pieces that I enjoy but truthfully they will not look good on me, I love electric blue but darker tones look better on me compared to that. Obviously people can do what they want but it really just depends on technique and presentation and tailoring. The same can go for space itself you can have what you want, but if you can get a good balance and you can make any space rock.
Hi Nick, I'm one of those silent watchers and have never posted a comment before. I personally enjoy your non biased approach to design and love that you express your likes and dislikes. I'd like you to do more of the 'boring' things like room layouts and share the interior design theory that I unfortunately can't study. Anyway, keep on evolving Nick being true to yourself and I'm thankful for your knowledge that you so kindly share with us. đ
I love Caroline Winkler's response to people saying "I would never!" to her design opinions: "I promise, I will never go to your house and make you hang your curtains this way, ever" lol I think it really shows how we tend to make things centered around us (like when people go to the gym and think everyone is looking at them but no one is). Just because someone says something out loud doesn't mean that it's about you or directed at you haha Loved this
I picture the design police pounding on Joyce's door with buckets of paint and a warrant.
Best.comment. EVER!
Oh yeah. Best comment ever, agreed!!!
âDecorate however you want.â So why the heck do those people tune in to a home dec channel!!
Because they expect to actually get helpful useful insight into design theory rather than shallow âdo this donât do thisâ and âwhatâs trending in 2023â bullshit
To me it's like watching a cooking channel and saying "cook whatever you want!" Yeah... we all know...
I am a minimalist (one of those no decor minimalists) but I enjoy looking at design that I have no desire to have in my room.
@@Nick_Lewis you miss the point. The reason people come and say this is they click on the video and expect useful advice but instead they get a âdo this, donât do thisâ garbage advice so people feel the need to clarify that there is no right or wrong in art if itâs done effectively and tastefully. People like you just restrict creativity and artistry by giving really poor and lazy advice
Silent fan over here....just so you know, this channel has really helped me weed out fake interior designers as well. (You know! The kind that say decorate how you want coz they haven't studied the science! đ ) can't thank you enough for this.
I never had the confidence to decorate my space because I wasnât fully aware of design fundamentals until I found your channel. Iâm so grateful for what youâre doing because I simply didnât know where to start. I have to give you credit for the complements Iâm getting in my new space because youâve taught me how to make my home cohesive and beautiful. â€
Home decorating is indeed a science that is worth learning. When I finished my living room, something was bothering me, and I just couldn't put my finger on it. After watching a few decorating channels I was able to make a few changes which led to a more balanced and cohesive look. To me , decorating is art ! Thank you Nick , you are a great teacher.
At age 73 I definitely know what my style is butâŠâŠ.I continue to hone my preferences and always will. I embrace change. So I definitely appreciate your videos/ideas. I like seeing whatâs current and maybe Iâll see something new that Iâd never thought about that I want to incorporate in my rooms. Keep it going, Nick. Most of us love it.
Well said. I also do.
Great point! I see certain videos that decorate with the style I enjoy. It is simply that they do it better, and I want a transfer to me of some of that knowledge, experience, and confidence!
I agree with others, I think a video on space planning would be interesting. Some people take things way too serious. For me this is entertainment combined with learning new things. I always look forward to your new videos!
Yes! Space planning and the scale of yourfurniture - for normal homes! I see all these crazy over-sized sofas and armchairs and wonder where the heck does that fit? Certainly not a normal condo! Now that I'm ranting, maybe a video on small home/apartment/condo decorating.
Preach! I remember my mom telling me about her friend decorating her house and âfighting against the style of the architectureâ. Sometimes you can just make wrong decorating choices. Great points, all of them!
This was so funny because even though I haven't been aware of your channel for long my first instinct was "what did I do!?". Then reason kicked in and I realized that I only just discovered your channel in the last few months!
Then it was oh please don't let Joyce be the new Karen!!
I love your videos! You make me think and also laugh!
I watch this channel because Nick's sense of humor makes me smile and it's fun to see what is in style these days. I live in a cluttered house with traditional furniture but that doesn't mean I can't learn something about color and design from Nick, even if my house is going to stay the same. Hey Nick---isn't that shirt a little bit leaning toward pink? đ€Łđđ
Itâs become a running joke at this point đ He says he doesnât like pink, but this seems to be a favorite shirt and every time he wears it he gets called out for the pink đ€Łđ€Ș
I like pink. ON NICK LEWISđ
Best kind of mindset for life! I learned soo much from Nick about design styles in general that I now pay more attention to people's houses and it's been really nice noticing more and more about the spaces I'm in.
Same. I live in a home that would make Nick want to redo it for me free of charge, if nec., in all probability. I rent half a double in the suburbs, and I can't afford to take much of the advise he gives. Luckily, I am not into farmhouse or distressed items or super-bling; I'd probably have to stop watching in that case, haha. But the pictures he uses as examples are sometimes breathtaking and inspiring, and when added to his humor make for some great, fun, informative videos.
â@@sofialima4521And movies and TV too! It's nice to notice how spaces are decorated and what that might mean in context.
For the record Nick, Iâm interested in the unsexy stuff too! I want to know about placement of the âbonesâ of the room and would love an occasional video on the science of interior design â€
You always articulate your thoughts so well while still being thoughtful and polite! Some people always center themselves and think a different opinion is an opposing one. Love your videos!
I'd love space planning videos, and the other "boring" technical stuff that goes into design. My favourite type of videos lately are Perun's hour-long PowerPoint presentations on war logistics, procurement, economics etc, so I'm down for all the boring technical details lmao.
As for trends, most people simply DO NOT care about style, and will buy whatever's available in the stores because they need it, not because they love it or it's gonna compliment the blue undertones of the vase underneath the window or whatever. Trend analysis videos are good to help people avoid the worse mistakes with items that won't last, either physically or stylistically, buy ultimately most people's houses aren't magazine worthy, and that's ok, they don't need to be.
And tends are good for finding things you DO love, as you said. I realised I love the dust pink tone that's super hot right now, and the peacock blue that was in vogue a season or two ago. Recognizing I loved those colours helped me push my own style past black everything, even if it's still mostly black because goth lmao.
I totally agree, and I feel the same when people say âwear whatever you want, you just need confidence!â. That may be true, but there are guidelines that make a perceptible, positive difference. You can choose whatâs important to you, but itâs nice to have a sense of direction and balance, to start.
Or not... Like what if they look chaotic? That's a style lol I mean I get it we're all here for a reason... We're watching these videos because we like the guidance. Even if it is to ignore it lol. what I don't understand is the hate watching. Why do people watch if they're not interested..? So either they're interested but disagree and that's the way they dissagree or they're just bored people trolling the internet.
@@dragamboazulinqiacupuntura122 I definitely feel like it's a pointless statement- if you want to do your own thing and chaos is your endgame the cool but that's not why why most people gain an interest in design. Even "chaotic" designs have rules.
I would love to see people say the same thing to an industrial designer, or to someone making an app
"Oh just do whatever you want for the interface! It's doesn't matter how annoying it is to navigate - it's your app".
Yes ok. But no one except you will be able to use it. If that.
@@Juststudiothings A "chaotic" design in my own home is my master bath toilet is only 9 inches from the right hand wall. The layout is symmetrical with the soaking tub on the left wall but the bathroom is only 5'5" wide. It looks nice but turning to the right to use the toilet paper has my nose sometimes touching the wall, especially in the dark when I can't see it. So I whole heartedly agree function and engineering are as or more important than looks. I can complain all I want about the really narrow space but I'm still happy to have a full bath in my master...lol...
I watch these videos so I can decorate how I want in a way that doesn't end up looking terrible.
Which is the whole point of watching them.
Yes! You stated my thoughts perfectly.
IKR? It was a real epiphany for me when I decluttered (a bit) and hung the curtain rods higher and wider. I think those who watch tend to tweak THEIR style over time, no matter what their style is. I've also been influenced to use lighter and brighter colors. My place looks SO much bigger now!
Yep
Me too! I used to say my home was furnished, not decorated. Now I pay more attention to how I style things and its made a huge difference.
Your channel is entertaining and informative. Most people donât spend their entire days researching trends in the decor industry. We just like to feel a certain way in our own spaces and have some intuitive knowledge on how to do that. But intuition can be wrong, it can fail us, and understanding the logic of why certain choices make sense or not, their pros and cons, even the history of how some materials and styles come about can go a long way to help inform how to decorate our spaces in ways that donât merely imitate what weâve known or seen, or fall into some trend just because itâs popular at the moment, and instead reflects our lives in thoughtful and beautiful ways. Design experts literally spend their careers studying and experimenting with these things. Yes, itâs all to an extent subjective, but why not learn from expert experience and opinion. I just love how your and other channels open my mind to multiple options. I may not agree with everything or canât afford all the suggestions, but, like was said to Joyce, no one is making me. Itâs fun, informational, entertaining. Iâm a fan of your work Nick.
I, personally, would love to see more videos from you about the process of planning a design! đ
I watch Nick because of his humorous comments and because he really knows design. I'm not fond of modern decor myself; but I learn a TON about colors, flow, how to pick out furniture, and so much more by watching Nick and others.
I have always done what I want. The problem is, after I've done what I want, it doesn't necessarily look the way I wanted it to.
đ đđ€Ł Same here!
unless youre like crazy rich and can afford custom made pieces, trends will always determine whats availaible to you - whether its old trends on new. and thats where a lot nicks advice comes in: how to mix different styles and make your home more timeless. using trends to your advantage when making your personal design
I do love how you are positive and always leave design options open in your videos. You tell us what you think and why but leave it open-ended to put our own spin on things. I can tell my style is completely different from yours, but some great ideas on this channel have helped me develop my style better. As a former graphic designer, I'm so glad you talked about all the behind-the-scenes work that designers do. People just don't know.
No way "most hated video". I watch your videos all the time because you just absolutely crack me up with your delivery. Even if I don't agree with something (which let's be honest never really happens). Thanks for you being you.
i know that you donât like my preferred style, but, i still watch every video because what you have to say has points that go above my choice of style. iâve actually helped other friends and family decorate rooms not in my preferred style because i learned universal points of design from watching you and others and learning.
Exactly. No one threatens our freedom by posting a design video. It's not that hard to understand...
That is the point of videos, catching up on universal points, regardless of your personal style or the designer's style. But designers know they need to be respectful of other choices, especially their own clients.
I've been working in luxury home furnishings sales, retail and to the trade, for nearly a decade, and your third point is spot on! I've met people who have lived in their home for actual years without a sofa or having not done any kind of decorating because they're indecisive or have never been introduced to the style that feels right for them or they're so inundated with ads for such disparate options that they can't see straight. You can't make an informed decision without the necessary information, and in this case, the information is style advice and design education.
I love that you tackled this so eloquently. I think there is a real tendency for some people to devalue the knowledge and experience of professionals in design fields (interior design in your case, and graphic design and art in mine). Of course people can do what they want to with their homes, but theyâre not always going to understand how best to accomplish their goals. Thatâs why people make careers out of it.
Sure, someone can go to IKEA or Target or wherever, and they might do a good job of putting decor and furniture together (largely because manufacturers already produce items to coordinate), but actual interior design is so much more than that. Itâs a real understanding of spatial planning, lighting, color theory, materials, usability needs, etc. Similarly, someone can ask their nephew to throw together a logo in Canva, but will he understand the brand goals, color theory, usage needs, dimensions, file types, problematic symbols to avoid, etc? This is what designers actually deal with, and like you said it is much more scientific than most people think. There is so much science to art and design. Like Robert Welsh (professional MUA) says (paraphrasing): creativity has no limits but makeup certainly has a theory.
The internet brought us the means for fast and easy connections with people all over the world, and that has so many benefits but with that came a real increase in parasocial relationships, too. So now we tend to identify with not just a favorite celebrity or figurehead, but also content creators like you. So the Joyces of the world need to figure out that youâre making content for a wide audience and not everything you say will apply to their life-and thatâs ok, it really doesnât need to be announced. Itâs so tiring seeing everyone nitpick and act offended over stuff like this just because it doesnât conform to some small box they put themselves in. Who cares if I might disagree here or there with someoneâs take? Thatâs bound to happen and itâs not the end of the world. The Joyces just need to get a grip đ
I need âNo one asked you to, Joyceâ on a shirt. Merch idea??
Hi Nick, I've literally never posted a CZcams comment before! Just wanted to say I love your channel and this video. You present a balanced and informed approach to interior design and you inspire me to take the tools and concepts into my own space, whether or not we agree on the details (we usually do)! Please keep making content for as long as it makes you happy!
Hey Kayla! đSo glad you like the videos!
Well said!!! This is probably one of my favorite videos of Nick for those exact same reasons! Direct and valid points delivered in slightly sarcastic but humorous way! #NoOneAskedYouToJoyce
Kayla, I couldn't have said it better. And Nick, don't change. Always enjoy your content!
We as people, are EVER evolving and so are our design choices⊠In order to break the rules and be avant-garde (or not) we have to know those rules first. I love your channel Nick!!!!! Yes!!!! We are always learning.
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My Dad us 87 and has been painting for over 40 years. His home has his art everywhere. Each wall is a gallery wall of his paintings. From animals, still life, portraiture. It makes him happy. My home is more whimsical art. My brother leans toward movie or music themes. My daughter has a mishmash of maximalist style. But I also see that our taste does change over time. My kids started out with posters and tapestries. As they hit their 40's - not anymore. Same for me. Loved this video.
We should comment whatever we want to comment, don't let this guy tell you what not to comment (hahaha, kidding!). Great video. I agree our style and decor should be personal, but that doesn't change the facts there are beautiful rules (i.e. height to hang things, rug size) and guidance (i.e. complementary colours). People like Nick help us translate the feeling we have, the vibe we want, into actual decor. I, for example, added rugs based on Nick's suggestion and it's one of the things that most makes me smile when I walk into my house now.
Oh well said! I was going to comment this but you said it so much better!
I second that. There are some things that would never occur to me, if he had not pointed it out.
Jesus, exactly. Thanks for putting it into words. The same goes for all the other topics like makeup theory, outfit silhouettes etc., You always see this one comment "you're beautiful, don't let anybody tell you what to wear! â€ïž" Or "Wear your makeup however you want!" Like sure Lisa, no one is stopping you, but let the rest of us learn
Also people who click on motivational videos just to comment that it won't help people with clinical depression. OK, but not everyone has clinical depression. Some people just need a pick me up.
I definitely fell under the third reason on âdecorate however you likeâ category. I really wasnât sure what my design style was and I feel that itâs ever evolving. I just knew that I like simple, straight lines. đ
I so appreciate how you "suggest," being careful of and sensitive to your audience.
Sorry Joyce feels so vulnerable.
Thank G-d we are individuals with our own inner songs!
Called it. That's me. Watching but not commenting and having no idea what I like. Also feeling like people will judge every decision I make and since home decor choices can be around for so long having tools to help make choices and getting another's opinion is huge! Thanks!
That is why I watch. I admit a small part of me does want validation so I don't have to change things, or remove my beloved "poop" sign above my toilet. But HEY! Somebody needs to tell me that it is stupid and trite.
I do regret that these Joyces and Karens get to Nick. Nick bends over backward to be polite, almost to a fault. Mostly I value Nick's take on various not only "trends", but legit objective truth of some design errors. Such as having enough space to conveniently move about within a space. That is an example of not a trend, but a fact that you should consider.
Commenting helps the yter. It affects the algorithm. So comment when you feel your input will be helpful or to send an appreciative note to your subscribee. And if you feel you have been insulted say why and move on. Negative feedback also helps. Some people float a positive balloon first bf they say the critical one. But comments help these yters. Welcome to the commenting group!
Welcome to the comment section Joanne! â€
Just wanted to give you a thumbs up for commenting..sometimes the comments can be as insightful as the videos. đ
I like my own design style, and I'm not usually influenced to try a trend just because it's the next big thing. However, I appreciate learning how to update my style in a subtle way to keep it fresh, and also learning how NOT to make costly mistakes. I love your videos! They make me feel confident in my choices.
Well put. Thank you. I am a nurse, not an interior designer. I have needed and used what I have learned from CZcams. I am grateful for those who chose to share their expertise with others.
If this comment was the creed to live by,...what would be the sense of classes in any genre to learn from? It's like saying, "cut your hair how you like without learning how to cut hair, or how to play guitar without learning the basics...your assisting in teaching us the foundation to build on to have beautiful homes.
Learn the basics and then make it your own.
The one thing I've found about keeping an eye on trends is that sometimes something will become 'trendy' that will match your own particular style - and that's the time to go shopping! For example, if skinny jeans are the in thing, I'm not buying jeans, but lately high-waisted wide-leg trousers are in and they suit me, so I've bought a pair, found a pattern and sewn another pair. I will have that pattern forever to make more trousers, regardless of whether they are in fashion or not.
For me, trends and fashion are opportunities for new things to try. This is one of my most liked videos of yours.
Me too!
Me too.
People dislike others telling them anything...whether youâre right or not. Love how you laugh at it. You are so intelligent; itâs so much appreciated! âNo one asked you to, Joyce!â Maybe Joyce is the new Karen?
Your opinions and insights are helpful to me and many others. Your humor is really very refreshing.
Your style sense is well developed and you are bold enough to bring these trends and ideas forward in your own way, which I also greatly appreciate.
Not everything is to be taken personally. Why canât people join in a simple design conversation?
Iâm commenting because it helps your metrics; no one needs to hear or like what I have to say.
Iâll buck the trend and like this more than your other videos, because life is short and Iâm here to listen đ
Maybe we can all try that, once in a while.
And maybe you can throw in a space planning video here and there. Iâm struggling with rooms with a lot of doorways and large windows and walls which are very tiny. Iâm sure Iâm not alone in that. Builders often donât think about where to place something as basic as a couch.
I love this video!
Even though I know what I like and dislike for the most part, I didn't know how to make the things I like into a cohesive aesthetic that I liked. However, watching design videos like yours has helped me figure it out!
Listening to trends helps me know if the things I like are going to be available in stores (and if they are on the way out of style I can hunt them on clearance: bonus!) and if things I like are not trending, I know I don't need to waste my time shopping.
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I appreciate how diplomatic you are, Nick, even in videos such as this. You are classy in more ways than one.
I think the issue that some people have is when designers come across as "judgemental" and "mean", by calling people's preferred choices ugly, cheap, and other adjectives that offend people. I hear this in many videos by interior designers.
And guess what? Nobody is forcing them to watch those videos. đ Itâs a big world out there with lots of different opinions and personalities and why waste our time criticizing. Just go where you are happy. Must be exhausting and miserable for people who go through life being perpetually offended.
Well, I mean, the ceiling mounted âboob lightâ fixture really IS offensive.
(Iâm just kidding. Iâd thought of them as âTuscan inspiredâ - but once I heard them called âboob lightsâ.... I canât unsee it.... đł
On another note: Maturity is about appreciating that tastes vary widely. What I think is garish is othersâ pride and joy; what I consider a personal treasure, others might consider hideous.
Weâre listening to a DESIGNERâs perspective. Anyone who thinks their opinion is undeveloped - or that glorifying the commonplace is their goal - is not familiar with a designerâs function in this world. đ€·đ»ââïž
This makes total sense. The whole reason I watch this channel is to get ideas and find out what I might be doing wrong. We all get stuck in ruts, so it's good to be exposed new trends.
You gave well thought out reasons for your opinions. Listening to other peoples ideas and opinions can be so enriching if you don't take it personally (which it isn't meant to be). You give so many more layers/ information than just what is trendy etc. I have benefited so much from your videos! I know which things I like/ not - but putting a cohesive space together is not easy without understanding more on balance and the sort of "golden thread"/ underlining colours you show. Thank you! I now have a calm and soothing home space (based on your concepts and my understanding of them) that I love!
This point about not everyone having a personal style fully formed is such a good one. A year ago, I was in that camp. Today (thanks to you and Arvin) I have a beautiful organic modern apartment and I can explain the rationale behind every design choice
I need and want advice on decorating; and know too many people who should, but don't.
If I'm going to "decorate any way I like", then why I am I watching your program?
I love your research, ideas, humor, and find your "offerings" are always spot on.
My house looks awesome thanks to you; it really does!
To get pointers but still do it your way in regards of your personal tastes taken in consideration along proven ways of placing things.
This translates really well to graphic design and probably all forms of design. Of course taste is highly subjective, but oftentimes people oversee the science and intentions of good design. Because yes, there is such a thing as good and bad design in terms of functionality and concept (non related to taste). I like to learn about new trends because it is a mirror of societies dreams, problems and reactions to current world events. So thank you for sharing them with us Nick!
I couldnât love this more. Thank you for saying it! When itâs bugged me the most is when you hear it from actual designers. I donât know if theyâre trying to be humble or cheeky, but itâs infuriating. Like this should all just come naturally to us. Most of us know the feeling we want when weâre in our home, but donât know how to get there. Youâll also hear it from people doing home tours. As if weâre supposed to forget all the help they got to get to that point. And then I get a kick out of people who make these comments, thinking their own home is wonderful, and itâs just awful. More power to that kind of confidence, I guess. Iâve had to shut these comments out, because I know all the mistakes Iâve made along the way on my own home, and continue to learn, from both those mistakes, and people like you. I have never heard anyone address this before. You have no idea how vindicated I feel after being infuriated by it all these years. Iâm not alone! Sigh. â€
I absolutely love that you said this. I come here for your expertise and I canât imagine why people dismiss it. I personally love your videos that dig into the science of design and would love more. I know itâs not for everyone but I absolutely love it.
I'm so glad that you decided to talk about this, this sort of thing has been on my mind lately.
People are watching channels like yours and others on youtube because they're either design nerds who love talking about this stuff (hi, it me) or they want some advice, and they want it from somebody who knows what they're talking about. It's not as if you're just some rando who talks about paint and tables on youtube for no reason. You are a professional with real experience and real training and education.
I worry that sometimes people don't take certain professions seriously, and they think that creatives are just goofing around, and often times the work of a professional creative really is fun, but it's also WORK. And not everybody has the skills, training, education or natural talents to be successful in that field. So when an expert gives advice, let's pause for a moment and consider it. That "do whatever you want" dismissive attitude comes from the same place as the "my kid could paint that" statements that some folks make at a modern art museum.
Keep doing your thing, Nick!
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Love this video. I enjoy your personal,as well as, your interior style. We can all do with ignoring the Joyce types we come across.
Iâve learnt lots from you since I started following in 2023.
Key things were 1) matching light colours - I used to let the odd 6000K creep in to the odd lamp - no more x 2) Lose the side tables - I have enormous coffee tables and had created an assault course of side tables (because I had the space). I took about 7 away from my reception rooms - instantly looked better 3) Declutterring visible kitchen shelving - this is a battle as my other half loves everything to be âat handâ - anyway I purged the kitchen when he was away. Got rid of two huge boxes of stuff we donât use that created space for the âat-handâ stuff in draws and cupboards where they can be âat-handâ - poor chap is getting used to it! 4) Adding rugs - Iâve bought 14 big rugs [two are 20 by 16 feet] in 2023 - itâs given every room a lift. Iâve even layered rugs in some rooms - Iâd never have tried this without your suggestion / advice.
I adore your advice and the way you deliver it. Have a good Christmas and I hope, even with all the changes for you, that 2024 is your best year ever. đ
I love you coming out and saying this because the "just do what you want" illusion is frankly not very useful for most people. I can only speak for myself, but I often look at what I've done with my space, and I can tell in my gut that I am not satisfied, but I can't necessarily find out why. I can just tell that something is off. Videos like yours are helpful, to try and find out what works. I know I love a dark aesthetic, and I know I love this or that picture on Pinterest, but I can't always translate my wants into my physical space. It's easy to say "Do what you want" but videos that explain why something or other works or doesn't work can help us to figure out what exactly it is we want.
This is precisely how I found your channel. My husband and I lived in our very first home for over 16 years. We finally purchased and moved into a new home that what quadruple the size of the old and I found myself with more space than I knew how to decorate. I searched for Home Decor and Interior Design channels because I needed help. That's when I found you Nick and nearly 3 years later have been a loyal follower. And I have learned so much. Even now, I'd do things differently than the home decor choices I made 3 years ago. Definitely an evaluation.
Im definitely someone who doesnt know what they want and im very thankful for this channel. It helps me understand home decor and style by breaking it down to little chunks that make sense
Same here! I rarely comment, but I have been able to figure out more of what I like, what I donât, and what kinds of things to search for thanks to videos on this channel!
Iâve learned so much from you and a handful of other design channels. While our styles arenât identical, there have been many instances where that doesnât even matter. The concept itself - how to size curtains, how to pick the right size rug for a space, etc. - can elevate ANY style and space. My house now feels like an intentional home, and you had a part of that!
I had this discussion many times and not just about interior design... Getting educated and informed will always contribute to a more free decision, whatever you decide to do at the end. And as you say, we all are influenced one way or another by our own experiences, context and marketing trends. Very good points in this video!
I'm one of those who watch and never comment, so I thought I'd just let you know, that I love your content. I started watching you when I was moving with my bf and decorating our new place. I certainly learned a lot; listening to different perspectives and watching trends helps me realize, what I like and what I'm not a fan of - and perhaps why. Your content is both entertaining and helping me refine my taste, for which both me and my boyfriend are grateful.
I actually gain a lot from watching Nick. Of course I will do my own style but I am not really able to focus in a way that isn't taken in by trends. I do not have the experience. So Nick helps me see where my choices lead me, how to avoid making expensive mistakes, and how to not be afraid to try something. Nick, thank you for being a gentle friend who helps me with my design choices. I have learned a lot from watching you.
I love watching your videos to get new ideas on how to refresh my house or even for a new way to use an item i may already own. While I comsider myself pretty stylish i still love to get new perspectives for designing/decorating AND you are just so wonderful â€ïž
Omg! This is my ABSOLUTE favourite video!! âNo one asked you to Joyceâ!!!!! LOVE THIS! I love your matter of fact attitude and honest views on design, I have enough common sense to know not to be offended if you donât like what I do and to know what your offering on your channel is your OWN opinionâŠ. Common sense, a priceless commodity!
'you aren't curious' is one of the worst insults I can imagine. Like, people can just learn about stuff without having to make it their identity. But never learning about stuff because you think you know it all?? Anyway, watching your stuff helped me to figure out I really like dark industrial, which isn't exactly all beige and full of plants. Still needs some basic principles to work so it won't look like a garage.
Iâm the type of the followers who never leaves comments, but today itâs time to write. This issue has a deep psychological roots. Example: I watch your videos, I love ideas, I would love to change style of my home, but I donât have time or budget. And Iâm rationalizing my inability with a comment âstick with your own styleâ, and I probably donât have a style. This comment is just a self-healing.
*gets on soapbox*
I've seen the judgement we as a society put on each other become harsher in a variety of ways. I've seen talented authors of fanfiction chased out due to the extreme fans who gatekeep. Add in, we are told that if it doesn't make money, it's not worth doing. It's horrifying how making money has been fetishized above enjoyment. Phrases like "you do you" remind me to take a step back. If someone is taking joy in something that causes no harm, let them! If someone wants that mirror that was everywhere 5 years ago, but now is considered dated, if it makes them happy to see it, why judge? Now, if someone wants the massive coffee table that means you can't sit on the sofa, you can point out the practicality without judging them or their taste!
Thank you, this has been my soapbox.
*gets off soapbox*
I really enjoy your videos. They are fun and i always learn something. I find that you have made me look with more intention at my home and I will work toward cohesion, now that I understand that idea. A 120 year old house has many challenges but maybe if I can figure out my style i might start to like it here after 21 years!
Wow, calling out the lurkers huh. FINE I'll comment đ€Ł
Honestly, to back you up on your comment about not knowing what my style is, that's totally why I watch channels! I have an idea what works in the house, but don't really get the logic behind why it works. It's an adult move to acknowledge your shortcomings, find places to get educated, and filter the information that's relevant to you! Appreciate your channel and all of the information I've gained since subscribing đ
"Calling out the lurkers"....love that.....my contribution is always clicking the like button but I bet this video brings many of us out of the closet, so to speak đ
Nick, I first found your channel on quarantine with my family and I've learned so much from you. I could never make a vision I had in my head into real life before that. When we moved last year I had a chance to put what I've learned from this channel into practice and truly space plan and find my personal style. I love our new place, it's beautiful and comfortable and truly represents us. Every person who has walked into our apartment says how beautiful and cozy it is, and we're from a 'say it like it is' kind of culture here so I believe them, but most importantly I love it myself. I could never have done this without your videos, so thank you!
I did enjoy and learn from your topics on design âscienceâ; space planning, color coordination, and picture hanging. I discovered your site when I was planning a major renovation and update on a 1 bedroom 625 sq ft ski condo. Last update was in the 70âs. Thank you, it helped so much! I settled on a hybrid style I designated Scandi- ski lodgeđ. Itâs a delightful, warm, uncluttered and welcoming space now.
"Not everything is about you and for you"
An awesome tip that unfortunately some people in our society nowadays don't understand but MUST live by
Letâs try not to be a Joyce. I mean why bother watching these design shows if youâre not interested in learning and getting ideas from experts? I take what I like and leave the rest. I am older and my taste has e loved and gone round in circles over the years. I love New ideas and some things I hated before I love now and viceversa. How boring we would all be if we didnât evolve. That goes for home decorating as well as other aspects of our lives! đ
I would hug you if i could
I am 62 and I find my style changing. Right now I am looking at life in a wheelchair, and I find that is changing how I look at our spaces. With that in mind, Nick I love your sense of humor, and I do love your take on the art of style. It has given me many ideas. But, I would love some of the science of style. It need not be with any handicaps in mind, but just the division of space and how to look at scale. I think that would be fascinating. (I am one of the people who has been watching for ages, and just not commenting.)
The thing I find most helpful about discussing trends is that people sometimes like/dislike a trend for reasons I hadn't thought of. This doesn't me I necessarily change my opinion, but it helps me be a little more open minded to something I might initially dislike-or take a little bit of the glamour off of something that initially appeals to me. Both of which are helpful
Nick; I'm so glad you addressed this. I especially agree with your third point that it is "not true for everybody." I have an ex who has ZERO decorating ability. He could look at a space and say if the liked it or not, but when it came to picking out pieces and decorating his own space, he would freeze and could not pull the trigger. As a result he had a condo that looked kind of like a collage kid lived there; but clean. His second condo was beautifully decorated, because he let his realtor's wife, who is a decorator, pick out EVERYTHING. He liked the way she staged his first condo, so he gave her carte blanche over decorating his new place. It did feel a bit cold because he really has no personal style, but it looked sophisticated and he was proud to have people over to that place. I'm sure he would like your channel to get ideas and know "the right way" to decorate (dos and do nots). I do have a personal style that has evolved over the years, but I love watching your channel to get inspired, hear new ideas, get your opinion, and most importantly be entertained and laugh. Do I agree with you 100% of the time, of course not, but like you so eloquently pointed out, not everything is about "you" (me)! Apparently, some people need to hear that.
I love your videos, Nick. My style is NOT your style but I watch everything you put up! I have learned a TON of stuff from you. The biggest impact has been the placement of rugs in my home. Itâs much more cohesive and welcoming now. Learning about different styles has also been wonderfully helpful. Iâm still a Victorian eclectic maximalist with Art Deco and Art Nouveau accents and there is nothing gray anywhere in my house but I have learned how to pull all this together and organize my spaces from watching you. I love that sweater on you - not pink. Rose heather!đž
I decorated just the way I wanted⊠thats why I now watch design videos đ
Yep. I feel your pain. Totally!!!
I absolutely love your videos and find them informative and entertaining. And you're right I found half of my design style watching your videos the japandi style is definitely my style and I love you for introducing it to me. Keep being awesome and bringing us good content â€
Thatâs exactly why im subscribed and watch your videos, because it helps me understand my preferences and learn about a style I like. You take your time to inform us, provide good visuals and lots of information. Im still in a journey to discover what exactly my style is.