how to stop comparing yourself to others on social media (mentalities + practical steps)

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  • čas přidán 30. 06. 2024
  • In this video, I share with you important mentalities and practical steps that will help you to stop constantly compare yourself to others on social media! today's video is a bit different so I am quite nervous to share, but anyway I hope you will like it hehe🧡
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    0:00 Intro
    1:18 first mentality
    2:17 second mentality
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    6:08 BUT!!!
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    8:55 third practical step
    10:00 fourth practical step
    10:40 fifth practical step (most important)

Komentáře • 42

  • @pearlywong
    @pearlywong  Před 11 měsíci +20

    today's video is a bit different so I am quite nervous to share, but anyway I hope you will like it hehe
    💚

    • @newton3438
      @newton3438 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Yeh I think is really helpful for language Learner to believe the process of learning language someone say great thing take time so we need to stop compare ourselves 👍

  • @mauriciosangaletti4479
    @mauriciosangaletti4479 Před 5 měsíci

    I think we need to know yourself. This is the key to change life. Learn to lock yorself is a great way to understand life is diversity and all the people have your own beautiful, with the flowers.

  • @naik_fly
    @naik_fly Před 11 měsíci +5

    i’m from Ukraine, thank you for your positive energy and inspiration to learn and especially to have joy while whatever you do

  • @susha_667
    @susha_667 Před 11 měsíci +5

    Your videos are peaceful and with your spectacular, cool, and spontaneous energy makes it x100 better! you're such an inspiration to me in many aspects. I loooovvveeed this video and I'll keep coming back to it as a reminder to boost my self-confidence, you've pointed out some really good points there. Also about the mute option in our social media, it's personally a lifesaver because it allowed me to set boundaries that limit my usage into reducing the time I waste going through unnecessary things.

    • @pearlywong
      @pearlywong  Před 11 měsíci +1

      awwww thank you for your super lovely comment! I'm so glad to hear it hehe

  • @davidbagus6769
    @davidbagus6769 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Ty for you suggestion, now I'm realize that social media it's platform for showing off their achievement, hobby, hang out, to get attention from other people, nothing more than that, I just use social media for meme 😅

  • @kitcarson8182
    @kitcarson8182 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I found your video to be very helpful.
    I will listen to it a thousand more times as a podcast.
    Thank you for sharing your thoughts with everyone.

    • @pearlywong
      @pearlywong  Před 11 měsíci

      I'm so happy to hear that! thank you for your kind comment!

  • @ambarps5883
    @ambarps5883 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Great video, like always :D. Recently, I started to compare myself thanks to social media. Your video is very helpful. Thank you so much for the tips. It's going to take time but I'm sure I can do it. :3

    • @pearlywong
      @pearlywong  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Yess, it definitely is going to take time^^but it's nice that at least we are aware of the problem and it's a important first step! I'm rooting for you^^

  • @dhc4822
    @dhc4822 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Pearly I like the point that instead of comparing yourself to others learn from them.really appreciate you.❤❤

    • @pearlywong
      @pearlywong  Před 11 měsíci

      Me tooo one of my fav tips🙌🏻

  • @djaberlyx9628
    @djaberlyx9628 Před 11 měsíci +1

    From France, You're so right.
    I've been there and I wish I could have just stopped comparing myself to everyone else and be me.
    I wish someone had taught me that sooner.
    No one on earth knows how to do everything or be everything.
    We can't be all the flowers at the same time and trying we just risk losing our own originality, I think.
    Good video, keep going!

  • @dhc4822
    @dhc4822 Před 11 měsíci +1

    1 thing more that for language learning I prefer your channel it really helpful and comfortable.❤

  • @pietersmal5903
    @pietersmal5903 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you! I really get discouraged by learning a new language, and JEALOUS! ❤

  • @EnglishListening-my2jl
    @EnglishListening-my2jl Před 3 měsíci

    Sometimes when i look at some people's lives,i feel like i am at zero,And nothing will ever going to get better😢

  • @Markersha
    @Markersha Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you for your video. I use some of these tips intuitively. I still compare myself to others in real life tho 😢

  • @noemieblanchard9263
    @noemieblanchard9263 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you for those important reminders and very helpful tips 💕 That's such a great video !

    • @pearlywong
      @pearlywong  Před 11 měsíci

      awww thank you so much Noemi :)))

  • @shoya_dori
    @shoya_dori Před 11 měsíci +1

    Very precious advices for these relatable feelings and emotions! Thank you for sharing your experience and your helpful methods!💚It was definitely worth sharing! Don't feel nervous uploading a video if you think it can make other people's lives - even if just a little bit - better!

    • @pearlywong
      @pearlywong  Před 11 měsíci

      Thanks Shoya for your lovely comments as always😄

  • @gbgvnnfg
    @gbgvnnfg Před 11 měsíci +1

    I like your videos, thanks for these steps, I think I spent a lot of time to learn this myself

  • @uliana6872
    @uliana6872 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Hi from Ukraine!
    It's great that you brought up this important topic.
    my experience is that I am now on the way to know myself and develop.
    I haven't used social media for some time now, and this was one of the best decisions, because I had more time for self-development, time to spend with my family and other things that i like, I literally began to notice the beauty and uniqueness of other people and my own

    • @pearlywong
      @pearlywong  Před 11 měsíci +1

      that's so great to hear!!!

  • @lisavos3824
    @lisavos3824 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thank you very much for your wonderfull advice(:

  • @katherinerubigarciarivas9154
    @katherinerubigarciarivas9154 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much, Pearly

  • @daisukineko2574
    @daisukineko2574 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Like your video so much, 加油❤

  • @user-zc6fm3wl2d
    @user-zc6fm3wl2d Před 11 měsíci +1

    Like your smile☺️

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    @GorGor-TV. Před 11 měsíci +1

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    @jhonatandeoliveirasilva4651 Před 3 měsíci

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  • @primavera449
    @primavera449 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I'm so happy I found your channel!! It's literally like a free therapy🤍

    • @pearlywong
      @pearlywong  Před 11 měsíci +1

      ❤️🫶🏻thanks for your lovely comment!