Are Women and Men Good For Each Other?

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Komentáře • 59

  • @christopherdiedrich40
    @christopherdiedrich40 Před 3 lety +22

    I am a single male, never been married. I was told that I was conceived out of love. I always felt there was something different though. Growing up with my mother and father and my sister, there were frequent visits from my older brothers and an older sister too. I never really understood how they were only my half sister or brothers. Eventually, I learned all about it and understood how that all came to be.
    Anyway, my reason for bringing all of this up was to bring up how much infidelity messes with children and, at least for me, my whole identity, sense of self and security. I never understood how a relationship could be built on and a family created out of infidelity.
    How could anyone trust their parents well enough to be vulnerable and open up to them when you know that they never really loved one another, and in turn, how could the child possibly believe that they are loved?
    I loved this so much and it has helped me to understand that I'm okay.
    Thank you Rabbi Friedman!

    • @sappysamurai5170
      @sappysamurai5170 Před 2 lety +3

      Christopher Diedrich, Rabbi Friedman I’m sure would say despite your parents choices, Hashem wanted you to be born. And that there is a wonderful reason why you are here. I would agree with him 💯.

    • @christopherdiedrich40
      @christopherdiedrich40 Před 2 lety +1

      @@sappysamurai5170 thank you for your sappy sentiment lol honestly, I needed that today!

    • @sappysamurai5170
      @sappysamurai5170 Před 2 lety +1

      @@christopherdiedrich40 anytime sir! If your ever in doubt ask Rabbi Friedman yourself. I’m sure he will tell you.

  • @felixdesrochers8941
    @felixdesrochers8941 Před rokem +2

    A man of wisom. Shalom from Canada Sir. Thank You for being Here.

  • @CatholicSaintslayIncorrupt
    @CatholicSaintslayIncorrupt Před 10 měsíci +2

    In the loving of this mundane life within marriage is hidden a string of pearls of great price. The existance of a deeper oneness. The family life is sacred. Its traditions gathered over years, no other family can have!

  • @josephnyongesa193
    @josephnyongesa193 Před 3 lety +12

    What an enlightening message. It's amazing to realize the purpose of marriage in transforming a man to a husband and a woman into a wife. Baruk Hashem! Todah rabba Rabbi.

  • @sugarsnap1000
    @sugarsnap1000 Před 3 lety +11

    after raising my son solo for 18 years I wasn’t involved with anyone during this time and no regrets, I loved every minute of my little family. A few years back I decided it was time for me to meet someone to settle down with and to say it’s a minefield out there it’s unbelievable, I couldn’t get my head around that people went from person to person with very little regard to their emotional, physical or mental well-being. I met a lovely man it’s early days yet and my vision is to build a solid committed life to each other. There are so many ‘gurus’ on CZcams and elsewhere telling people how to date and how to play the game, I just couldn’t do it, I don’t know how to play the game. It’s very important to have that one person who you know will be there for you no matter what and vice versa. Thank you for this little snip
    Of information, it’s an important piece

  • @julianoble
    @julianoble Před 10 měsíci +3

    Thank you Rabbi for this gem of wisdom.

    • @yeshu2002
      @yeshu2002 Před 5 měsíci

      What should a man do in condition if his wife tell him that she is not fully satisfied. Therefore she will continue her one night with a teenager nd tell her husband that she will not divorce
      Nd he can make this a threesome by his involvement. nd finally gave birth to a baby boy 😭. Hope a valuable advice bcoz this story can't be share with any male bcoz male will only make fun of it

  • @bbb.1172
    @bbb.1172 Před rokem +2

    Rabbi that is precious and special, thank you so much
    WeLoveJesus❤🕊🙌

  • @ashcom8952
    @ashcom8952 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you for your teachings. I wish my father taught me some of these life lessens. You are 100% right about men and women still not wanting to become husband and wife because is not glamour. All kinds of movements especially feminist movement made women and men to be a commodity, a thing to enjoy which simply destroys the most important thing we cherish which is the family!

  • @lizgichora6472
    @lizgichora6472 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you for the teaching on Marriage " become a Husband and become a Wife" .

  • @conradyo9274
    @conradyo9274 Před 3 lety +3

    Thanks for the wonderful word teacher. May my GOD bless you and your family. ❤️🕍🤙

  • @stevepoythress4678
    @stevepoythress4678 Před 3 lety +2

    Deepest thanks to you!

  • @julieschechter3995
    @julieschechter3995 Před 3 lety +4

    Thank you Rabbi Friedman 🙏
    You just cut through everything and get right down to the essence of the matter. G-d Bless 🇮🇱

    • @Io-Io-Io
      @Io-Io-Io Před rokem

      I can't stand Israeli politics.
      Nothing to do with this here

  • @overhurd
    @overhurd Před 3 lety +2

    I enjoy your teachings Rabbi ♡

  • @Greatbritain08
    @Greatbritain08 Před 3 lety +1

    God bless your beautiful heart .

  • @avinash.samuel1992
    @avinash.samuel1992 Před 3 lety

    Amazing session

  • @rickshaw296
    @rickshaw296 Před 3 lety +3

    Good talk Rabbi.

  • @aromafortheheart
    @aromafortheheart Před 3 lety +3

    Rabbi I am so looking forward to this video.

    • @Io-Io-Io
      @Io-Io-Io Před rokem

      FIRST watch the Video THEN comment

  • @justgone123
    @justgone123 Před 2 lety +1

    I stopped dating almost three years ago because I got tired of the cruelty of it all, unfortunately there's not many women in this part of Virginia who live by the Torah so I experience fully this aloneness you speak of!

  • @samihassan5158
    @samihassan5158 Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks Rabbi Friedman I am always here for the makhloket lol

  • @eloisemenhard7069
    @eloisemenhard7069 Před 3 lety +6

    I like you videos very much, you are amazing about teaching us.

  • @dennydewaal137
    @dennydewaal137 Před 3 lety

    Well rabbi you are right again..... I found this out the hard way,,,, I’m not eating junk food anymore for a while now... and that desserts I was use to , may here mother keep ... god Made that wall where I was bouncing on to,, Shirley a hard one ☝️.. my god hard it is... 💟🤍🖤💙❤️💛💚🧡💜🤎to you rabbi

  • @ee_li
    @ee_li Před 2 lety

    Well said

  • @mariebarrett7177
    @mariebarrett7177 Před 4 měsíci

    Think im getting it!

  • @yourcanadianscotsauntynanc9946

    Rabbi your the best , I know you can handle the compliment , because it’s just a fact .

  • @ryzendave9303
    @ryzendave9303 Před 2 lety

    i have been with my partner for 15yrs and we are engaged and have been for some time, only recently have we spoken again about marriage and we both know it is what we want, the hardest thing is not knowing what you want but understanding what your partner wants..i believed i was ready to spend the rest of my life and more with her..
    However until now i havent fully beleived she wants the same, since becoming ill and realising she is totally there during my recovery and no matter what! it has made me realise the problem wasnt her and it was doubt that i had in her! life is strange and so is the male and female mind, we will never fully understand the opposite sex, however i do beleive when both sides of the partnership are ready you will know because you will feel you do not need to prove yourself and can relax and be yourself(fakeness of modern society is truly a problem, as it makes it harder to see someone for who they are and not who they want others to see) i was that guy who had to prove i was stronger ,better shape, women had interest in me then but now non of that matters.. take me for who i really am or do not bother me.. i am happy having my partner and 2 children with me all the time!! subscribed and continuing to watch more videos , thanks

  • @VitomirMilosevic
    @VitomirMilosevic Před 3 lety +3

    I realized just this: if You do not know Yourself, You can't Love Yourself. You MUST Love Yourself, to be able to Love others. God is not Love,He's inteligence.19.

    • @ifitsfreeitsforme1852
      @ifitsfreeitsforme1852 Před 3 lety

      Exactly ! Don't go looking for others to love you if you don't love yourself.

  • @lindavillarreal5472
    @lindavillarreal5472 Před 11 měsíci

    Rabbi, How do you view meeting people - especially future spouses- online instead of dating

  • @ill_ink
    @ill_ink Před rokem

    Okay but when you are finally ready to marry, and start dating to find a good match that also wants to start a family, how long do you suggest is the maximum dating period? 6 months? 3 months?

  • @mariebarrett7177
    @mariebarrett7177 Před 4 měsíci

    Husband and wife need to want the same thing aswell... Be on the same page!
    It seems you never get two alike! Most people i experience or talk to state they're more open than the other in a relationship, but you only need 5 minutes with them... if that... to see they cant or wont put their pride aside either... but to hear them talk...they never do anything wrong!
    How will anyone see the problem if they're not honest with themselves? Whatever sort of relationship people have... People just seem to lie themselves...?

  • @Nicole-ed1qi
    @Nicole-ed1qi Před 3 lety +1

    Shalom🙏💜🕎🔯🇺🇸🕊😀

  • @user-lf3ko5is8i
    @user-lf3ko5is8i Před rokem

    100%

  • @mariebarrett7177
    @mariebarrett7177 Před 4 měsíci

    Problem is you dont realise all this until you're older!
    People dont want the commitment do they... People seem to just use people these days and are happy with it... But are they - No they're alone!

  • @zymon.
    @zymon. Před 3 lety +2

    Did I miss this

  • @mariebarrett7177
    @mariebarrett7177 Před 4 měsíci

    💯

  • @corneliakoller1914
    @corneliakoller1914 Před 10 měsíci

    Hello Rabi sing a song for me!

  • @DeeDee-wx7fi
    @DeeDee-wx7fi Před 3 lety +1

    A chaperone a referee is needed much later😂

  • @Pascalierity
    @Pascalierity Před 3 lety

    The word you were looking for at 2.00 was chaperone. I suspect today's dictionaries will end its definition with (obsolete).

  • @theresefournier3269
    @theresefournier3269 Před 3 lety

    Like DEATH itself, that too, shall pass...
    (can hardly wait!)
    YAHsome!

  • @wolfcub1483
    @wolfcub1483 Před 3 lety

    Shabbat Shalom !!!! You meant a chaperone :)!

  • @mariebarrett7177
    @mariebarrett7177 Před 4 měsíci

    Do people even slow dance anymore 😟🤔

  • @mariebarrett7177
    @mariebarrett7177 Před 4 měsíci

    Chaperone? 🤔

  • @abelchavez8786
    @abelchavez8786 Před 3 lety

    🤣

  • @mytreasurechess
    @mytreasurechess Před 3 lety

    Please address the circumscision consternation that rekts the brains of infants before going beyond the age of infancy. Thanks

  • @Chambelona59
    @Chambelona59 Před 2 lety

    Religious dogma is the root of all evil.

  • @Dre2Dee2
    @Dre2Dee2 Před 2 lety

    HUGE TRUTH BOMBS. Intellectuals thought they could design a better society than The Bible because no one could prove God's existence
    Instead of taking the FACT that their social "design" is a giant disaster, thus giving credibility to scripture, they instead blame us for not trying their design hard enough instead of admitting their mistake
    🤣🤣🤣