The Pastor of Her Church Abused Her Trust For 3 Years
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- čas přidán 23. 08. 2024
- In this episode of Unfiltered Stories, Destinee King bravely shares her journey of resilience and healing. Growing up in a challenging family environment, Destinee turned to her faith community for solace and support. However, she experienced a profound betrayal of trust when a person in a position of spiritual authority exploited their role to harm Destinee over an extended period of time.
Despite the trauma she endured, Destinee has found the courage to speak out about her experiences. By sharing her story, she aims to connect with other survivors and remind them that they are never alone on their healing journeys. Join us in holding space for Destinee's powerful testimony with compassion and respect for her strength.
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To say you are healed at 20yrs is a massive statement and I'm incredibly happy for you. You have the Majority of your years to be free happy and enjoy. That is inspiring ❤🙏🏾
I use to think my parents were so strict. Because I couldn’t spend the night over anyone’s home. My very first sleepover, I was High School Senior.
Same here but listening to these stories I can appreciate it so much more wow
I didn't find anything wrong with my daughter having sleepovers in the future but, I've been watching these videos so much lately. I have completely changed my mind on that. Ain't no wayyyy 🙅♀️🙅♀️🙅♀️🙅♀️
@@Flawdagal girl don’t do it ..the wrong. Person in you personal space could literally cause your life to go to shits
My parents were really strict too, I used to hate it as a child but now I see why
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I'm so glad someone has started a channel to discuss these hidden wicked deeds. We as parents must understand what we need to be trying to protect our children from, and what the righteous men amongst us must stand up against and stop the destructive evil against our people(black people).
I found the guy Mark Rivera
Same story she just told..wow
How about children of any color.! Black white green purple!
Great comment @ Gcolorina🩷we as parents Must teach our children how to safeguard themselves against these nasty predators. I have a 26 year old daughter & from the age of 2/3 I told her not to let Anyone touch her inappropriately & I told her about predators. Predators prey on vulnerable neglected children 😡Children need the skills to deal with these disgusting cretins.
@@christinemerritt974 no. I'm specifically talking to black people. Thanks for understanding
@@Gcolorina I understand.
I get it.
I pray she is very careful when meeting people and telling her whole story. People will prey on you, sit still, and wait until they can manipulate you knowing all the things you endured only to continue to abuse you again.
Yes! 15 years in prison. Thank you for sharing your hard story.
The fact that she was so happy to just have her own bed at her age 😢 wow!
She had to sleep on the floor , as a child for such a long time…no wonder she was so excited to get out of her toxic house hold (from what she described), and have her own room!
Her “god parents” could have actually really saved this young girl. Too bad he took advantage of her stay. What a shameful adult…the weirdest people are attracted to seeming to be the holiest…smh
Glad this girl is strong
It’s sad her parents failed her. That “God family“ would have been a refuge if she wasn’t being preyed on. You really can’t trust anyone.
I had tears in my eyes listening to this. I hope that he has a very hard time in prison. May God completely heal you emotionally. Continue to thrive young lady and serve the Lord with all your heart and soul. All the best ❤🙏
I'm so proud of you. You beat the wolf in sheep's clothing. 👏👏👏🙏
the confusion this poor woman had to endure would have broken my mind if i had been subjected to it. it is indeed a miraculous degree of resilience to have not only survived but prospered in its shadow.
You were very intelligent! I’m glad you remembered all the details! Only 15 yrs! 😢
He had no business asking about virginity.😖
OK. THAT WAS THE FIRST SIGN FOR ME. NASTY DEVIL.
@@JoyceWoodruff-cb6lh she was a kid, she didn't know, but that's highly inappropriate. 😒 especially for a pastor.😠
Sick twisted abuse of power. People hide behind the cloth
That's a PREDATOR!!
It was very inappropriate
Destinee im so sorry that you felt so alone and unheard when you were a child sadly i know this feeling too well you are a survivor and a courageous woman i wish you nothing but happiness in your life you deserve it
You've been through so much, and yet you are such a lovely, bright soul. Bless you.❤
Sadly some people who have been abused do become abusers themselves
This is heartbreaking 💔. God 🙏 bless you abundantly Beautiful Precious Angel 🌹 Prayers 🙏 for healing and forgiveness. Blessings 🙏 to you 👑
This is so very sad. Thank God you survived 🙏
How brave you are. I too am a victim and I know how hard it is dealing for flashbacks, and trying to building healthy relationships with male family members. I can't imagine how it would be if my own pastor had done such things. You are Loved
I am a survivor as well that's why I say she's not healed you never stop having flashbacks nightmare never it's a never-ending battle like an addiction
As mothers, stop letting your children go to people homes to spend the night or go with them and keep an eye on them at all time. Trust know one that much. Watch out for your family, stangers is not the only one that molest children. Fathers, brothers, sisters, uncle, auntie, grandparents, and the list goes on. I believe that the pastor wife knew what was going on, and when you told your mom, the first time, she didn't want to hear it and deal with it. I glad you have recovered from the hurt and pain.
This message is good for parents who care. This child had a mother who allowed her to sleep on the floor for half her life and then put her outside at night for being "disobedient."
This happens more commonly with acquaintances.
This
A pastor that name's his dog Bishop is very telling...
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Right!!!
The music is irritating and distracts me from her words. I just cut it off. Please do not add music to their personal stories. Thank you.
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Yes!!!. The comment i was looking for😡💯💯
Agreed!
This!
Yeah fr.
That is WONDERFUL that you are still able to believe in GOD after what happened to you!! hang in there! ❤
Thank you for sharing your story. I was also molested but it started when I was a toddler and too young to understand it was wrong. After that I was like a target. It continued until he died of cancer when I was 13. You were and are so brave. I wish I had your strength. I feel like I lost any strength that I might have had to the man who molested me.
You do have the strength 💖 that can never be taken away!
Continue to pour love into yourself and nurture the toddler version of you who came into contact with a demon.
You're amazing, and so brave for sharing also.💛
Sending you love and light.
I’m so happy that you are thriving❤
I am so sorry that you had to experience this trauma. God is a healer and a restorer. Praise God for His justice!
Finally someone is in jail!!!
So sorry
The background music is to loud thanks for sharing
Its so sad that this pastor took advantage of the fact that your father was not in your life and groomed you for his own sick purposes. Spiritual abuse is a serious problem in our churches and communities. Thank you for the courage to come forth and tell your testimony. Glad this man is behind bars and getting punishment he deserves. Blessings to you and your family.
Her mother should be prosecuted as well
I agree! She is the entire reason this happened to her daughter. Being a wack ass mother acting like people don't do these types of things to children is not acceptable. Her mom sucks! 😢😢😢
I wish I could give you a hug ❤
Powerful testimony! Thank you for sharing this. You will help many other women. God bless you. ❤
The music needs to be removed at certain parts because it's distracting from the story.
This young lady has courage & strength that is amazing.
It breaks my heart. She just wanted someone to acknowledge her as a human! To validate, & confirm she has worth! I pray she truly is healed & there is no PTSD. That she just excels at life.
I pray her telling her story is cathartic ❤
Thank you for sharing your story 🤎🖤 May you continue to prosper in your journey of this life 🙏🏾🙏🏾😊
Its so heartbreaking 💔 to know that this goes on....God bless u and ur family ❤
This is very sad and heartbreaking 😭😭😭😭
I wonder what they meant by the other victim was “unconscious”.
But I’m so happy this story had a happy ending ❤
I think what they're trying to say is that the other victim was unconscious during the abuse, possibly drugged by him, so they aren't able to testify against him.
Hopefully hes in prison & kicked out of these churches smh
Mommy's.....we need to protect our kids. Be aware.
So sorry you went through that. Thank you for having the courage to tell your story. Your a brave young lady. Sending prayers for continued comfort and strength 🙏🏾
Children should not be left alone with religious leaders under any circumstance
I'm sorry ❤ don't give up girl! You're really strong and brave for shar this!
What a monster
Why they don't mention names these people only get away with it when you protect them.
They can be sued for defamation if they have no proof.
If people recognize her, they'll know exactly who she's talking about.
@@ayamysticHim getting charged for it isn't proof?
Am glad things ended well
Wow ..this is so sad..I’ve been watching these stories and I notice that once it’s done a first time there is a spirit that is placed on the child that unfortunately causes a ripple affect of abuse..😢wow
I'm so happy to hear you are doing well. I would stay away from religious people because they are the worse.
Destiny I’m so sorry for what happened to you. Praying that God will Heal you, Comfort you, and give you Peace. In Jesus Name. Amen🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
The music is too loud and distracting
Im glad he got prosecuted, but only 15 years?
Especially since there are other victim(s)😠
It should be life.
You are sooo brave Queen 👸🏽
Young beautiful woman I am so proud of you!!
What am amazing resilient young lady. It’s so hard knowing how the adults children should be able to trust the most in life can betray that position of authority and trust and hurt children on the deepest level so easily. As a mother to two amazing young children, I can’t imagine hearing something like this coming out of my child’s mouth and not listening and taking action immediately before anything else. Because I’m aware of what people are capable of and I was also sexually abused as a child, I am so so diligent about making sure my children are NEVER in a situation where they are alone with adults outside our very immediate family. They are never alone with coaches, teachers, friend’s parents, family friends or even uncles of mine ever. It is so important that we as parents are constantly aware of our children’s safety and surroundings. We can absolutely guard them against the outside world in a healthy way while also ensuring that they are able to grow and maintain an appropriate level of independence as children. I truly believe that A child greatest defense again predators are their parents. Talk to your kids, ask too many questions, know your child’s worries and praise their strengths and accomplishments so that develop the confidence they need to speak up and run from compromising situations that Destinee was often in. Make sure your babies know they can come to you with ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING and they can trust you to listen, comfort them, give them advice, take action, and stand by their side whenever they need you all while loving them conditionally every step of the way! So happy Destinee has a family of her own that she can empower to be amazing adults while breaking the chain of abuse and help to put an end to the shame that comes with being a child victim. God Bless!
U have a very good head on your shoulders..u have very good language skills.ty for sharing❤I am soooo very sorry this happened to u...Both of those people are predators.the woman had to know.thats just sick😮
So sorry you went through that, and with a pastor, of all people. Glad that you were finally heard and that something was done about it. I’m sure that saved other children from becoming victims. Thank you for sharing your story. Blessings to you and your family.♥️
I just hate this wolf in sheep clothing in the pulpit representing God like God can be mocked… The Lord cannot be mocked…. So sorry this happened to this girl.
You are such a lovely person. Blessing and best of wishes to your new chapter and your family!
She was basically trapped, and the clown took advantage. 😢
This sounds like mark rivera story....
Glad you had the strength to turn him in
such a strong and beautiful young woman. i’m so sorry for your pain but so happy to see that it turned to passion. i live in the area you spoke about in the video and have previous experiences ( not consensual as well ) i’m terrified that it is the same pastor because he is also in prison currently smh the world is so small and it’s horrendous how some people with power take advantage of the trust the receive due to those positions.
Thank you for telling your story and God bless you and your family🙏🏾
You’re very brave, thanks for sharing your story.
Wow… I am so disgusted with that man who listened to that girls trauma daily and pretended to be her friend father figure and a pastor…. There’s a special place in hell for people like that …. I’m sorry baby, you deserved so much better .
Her parents failed her miserably!!! I thank God i had a mother, grandmother, and aunts who were present in my life and was crazy about me. My heart goes out to her.❤
Can't call then parents.
People like her parents don’t care. All they care about is they self .
I’m glad she got a chance to be heard!!!
His wife knew when he was doing, You probably was doing it to their daughter. So what she did was talking about your story so he wouldn't do it to theirs 🤦🏽♀️ They both need to be in jail.
It giving meet the browns
This is an amazing testimony and to hear at the end Las Vegas is your now residence Henderson Nv was mine and it absolutely changed my life and childhood trauma. Sin City where pray 🙏🏽
His wife should have been charged too because she knew he was doing that that’s a damn shame and her mama wrong too
Great investigative journalism
Thank you for sharing.
That mother is horrible. She will reap what she has done. All of them will pay. So sad!!
Oooohhhh, hallelujah 🙌🏾 👏🏾 🙏🏽 ❤️. Got him!!!
You are Brave to tell your story because what you went through should have never happened, that man is sick to do what he did, I am sorry that happened to you .
Her story is heartbreaking. If I were her I wouldn’t speak to my family at all. Especially her mother. I was shocked her mom even pressed charges because of how neglectful she was.
Yeah the mother wasn't shit.
Wow! I'm happy your doing well!
I love u God bless ❤
Please... STOP THE MUSIC 🙌🏻
The idea of adding terrible off-loop-music in the backgrounds sounds sooo wrong, and even covers the grandiose deep talks they're having, with their own tempos.
THANKS for all those testimonials
This is so heart breaking..
Even here in the Philippines u can hear a story about a pastor who raped & molested even came up to a point killing an inocent man beacause of his evil act..Its a shame,knowing this religious leader that suposed to protect ppl is the one who sexually abused inocent lives😢
I saw this on her personal CZcams. Gut wrenching! 😞
Pastor rivers !!!!!
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God Bless you❤
My story definitely mirrors your story. I was the black sheep made to take care of all of my younger siblings all of the time. Adults introduced me too things Sexual things when I was a little child …I guess you can say I was being groomed. It was always close family members who molested me. They molested me a lot in for at least five or six years straight. These were people that I looked up to and I trusted them very very close to me it was not neighbors are a stranger it was family members who did things to me. And then when I got older like 18 I was dating this guy whose father was a pastor and I went to him and I shared with him a lot about my life and how I had been molested from the age of 4 to 9 or 10 years old & He the pastor asked me if I enjoyed it, I was shocked, and he said did you feel good to you tell me exactly how did they put their tongue between you know where I was so shocked and he would unzip his pants to show me his private part when I was left alone with him what kind a pastor does that😢
A man that is only a pastor “in name”… and since he is a predator and not authentic… he will end up where all the lying, abusive leaders go… Matthew 7:15-23
I apologize that you experienced that mess…
BRAVE SO❤L
As the man (Gen 1:26-28) KJV, a husband (Gen 2:21-25) and a father (Gen 3:16), the minister of God (Rom 13), teacher (Eph 4) and one of the survivors who was bullied in school, I am so sorry this happened to you. Every time I see and/or hear anything like this, I see my wife or my daughters. If I could have protected you from being harmed by "it", I would have, but I can not be everywhere all at once. (1 John 4)
The irony of offering Bible verses with your sympathy to a young woman who was abused through the use of Bible quotes, all of her life. 😒
@@stellabellafontay9366 As the man (Gen 1:26-28) KJV, a husband (Gen 2:21-25) and a father (Gen 3:16), the minister of God (Rom 13), teacher (Eph 4) and one of the survivors who was bullied in school, my sympathy goes out to all who have been deceived by him. (1 Tim 2) If you view the film "The Exorcist" Extended Director's Cut (2000), notice who is not present in any scene. I was telling my wife, I can not teach the word of God, then live contrary to the word of God. That would make me a hypocrite. That is not a good title to have. Eph 5:22-33, 6:1-4
God bless yall on what yall do always from Jeff
This is so sad
These parents gotta be charged and reprimanded, who kicks out a 8 year old child
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A battle , not a life 💘!
I am so impressed by this girl , God bless her !
And .. with all due respect : the music makes me nauseous 🫤😵💫.
This girl looks so familiar, anyone know the name of the sick pastor? Or what city/ state this occurred? I want to take a look at this monster
Oh nooo. Another situation of mistreatment with RELIGION at the center. Wowww. 😮😮😮
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This is so sad. Aw that's nice you have your own family. But did you mend the relationships with your mom and siblings.
Some things cannot be mended.
Jesus christ, now 20 years old and having to endure all of that. She's just a baby for christ sake 🥺
I WONDER WHY SHE DIDN'T TELL HER MOM, SCHOOL, POLICE. CHILDREN NOBODY HAVE A RIGHT TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU IN JESUS NAME. SPEAK UP. SPEAK OUT IN JESUS NAME.. AND IF ANYBODY TRY TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU.FIGHT FOR YOUR LIFE. CALLING ON JESUS. I BELIEVE HER. WE GOTTA TELL CHILDREN DON'T BE SILENT. NASTY DEVIL. I HOPE HE IN JAIL.
Her mom cared more about saving face than her own daughter yikes
My youth pastor tried the same thing with me