"The older you are, the more problems will arise" - those of you still feeling this way, this comment's for you. Y'know, here's the thing. 20s are highly overrated - rather shit actually. Damn glad they're over, but they're a necessary part of development. So much trying and failing, whole lot of failing really, and feeling absolutely completely fucking lost with 0 idea how to sort shit out. Trying to cope, not caring at all what it means in the long run, as long as it makes the pain go away, who cares what it does in the long run since reaching that point isn't exactly a priority anyway. Throwing everything that might help at the wall to see what sticks. Sounds about right? There will be problems, and there will be more problems created from trying to solve those in whatever way, but you know what? That's ok. The question is what you do about them and how to go about solving them. Unhealthy copes happen, sometimes they stick around for longer than it feels like they should, but keep finding the better options long term and try to go for those when possible. It's going to hurt a bit, but really, it hurts less than the bad ones. Face problems to the best of your ability, work through the traumas and seek out ways to correct the thought processes and experiences. It will be scary, but it will be worth it. Whatever negative thoughts you have about yourself, your future prospects, current situation, past - realize how many of the thoughts are caused by being hurt, and see what you can do to heal the hurt. As for the copes - remember, it's not the smoothest thing getting out of old bad habits (or new ones for all that matters). There will be times where some really bad old ones pop back up, but you know what? It happens. Keep going with the better ones as often as you can, and do your best to reduce the damage done during slip-ups. Keep at it, one day at a time, or even one minute or second at a time too if an hour seems too overwhelming. Reach out to someone who will listen if you can. If you're able, look up therapists and remember that therapists are different people too, and if it doesn't seem to work you can switch to another that'll be a better match for you. Keep doing what you can to make things better, and things will eventually turn out quite tolerable. I know it seems absolutely impossible now, but it's a process. Often it seems slow, but you'll get there. Keep going, you've got this.
Asi nejlepší track z alba. Je to silný. Jsem rád, že jsem na tebe narazil.
Wake up
Tak tohle je za mě nejlepší z celého alba a strašně to žeru
Taky to zeruu❤❤
Řek jsem si, zkusím to zabít, že se závislosti už musím zbavit, začal jsem brát léky, co potlačej stavy, ty když se chceš oddělat, aby přestali❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥
každej rok co je uplynulej, o něco horší než minulej ...
Tohle je sakra nedoceněný 👑
Hodně underrated, ale to už je Sniff no :D
Drž se, Steve.💙 A nový album? Jsem na tebe moc hrdá a všichni real fans určitě též.❤
Poslouchám i naslouchám.💙
Top 🖤
Od srdíčka ❤❤
Level upp!!🎤👊
Top, miluju
You now me man…mirror
Fire brácho
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fire
Mood
Dokonale si vyjádřil slova v tracku
underrated
alysyum
seš borec
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"The older you are, the more problems will arise" - those of you still feeling this way, this comment's for you.
Y'know, here's the thing. 20s are highly overrated - rather shit actually. Damn glad they're over, but they're a necessary part of development. So much trying and failing, whole lot of failing really, and feeling absolutely completely fucking lost with 0 idea how to sort shit out. Trying to cope, not caring at all what it means in the long run, as long as it makes the pain go away, who cares what it does in the long run since reaching that point isn't exactly a priority anyway. Throwing everything that might help at the wall to see what sticks. Sounds about right?
There will be problems, and there will be more problems created from trying to solve those in whatever way, but you know what? That's ok. The question is what you do about them and how to go about solving them. Unhealthy copes happen, sometimes they stick around for longer than it feels like they should, but keep finding the better options long term and try to go for those when possible. It's going to hurt a bit, but really, it hurts less than the bad ones. Face problems to the best of your ability, work through the traumas and seek out ways to correct the thought processes and experiences. It will be scary, but it will be worth it. Whatever negative thoughts you have about yourself, your future prospects, current situation, past - realize how many of the thoughts are caused by being hurt, and see what you can do to heal the hurt.
As for the copes - remember, it's not the smoothest thing getting out of old bad habits (or new ones for all that matters). There will be times where some really bad old ones pop back up, but you know what? It happens. Keep going with the better ones as often as you can, and do your best to reduce the damage done during slip-ups. Keep at it, one day at a time, or even one minute or second at a time too if an hour seems too overwhelming. Reach out to someone who will listen if you can. If you're able, look up therapists and remember that therapists are different people too, and if it doesn't seem to work you can switch to another that'll be a better match for you.
Keep doing what you can to make things better, and things will eventually turn out quite tolerable. I know it seems absolutely impossible now, but it's a process. Often it seems slow, but you'll get there. Keep going, you've got this.