How to Bounce Back from Burnout in 3 Simple Steps | Allan Ting | TEDxWilmingtonLive
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- Allan Ting shares 17 years of research from the world’s iconic leaders such as Oprah Winfrey, Tony Robbins, Arianna Huffington, and many others. Having been burned out from work himself and one step away from homelessness, he went on a personal quest to understand the work life balance. A talk worth sharing.
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Allan Ting is a #1 International Bestselling Author, a Keynote Speaker and a Mindfulness Leadership Strategist.
He has spoken at Yahoo, Amazon, eBay, Cisco, HP, UC Davis Medical Center and many other corporations on the topics of leadership and high performance.
Allan has shared his inspirational messages on ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox and CW News across America. He is also a Tony Robbins’ Senior Leader. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
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Title is kind of misleading from someone currently going through a bad burnout. More of a how to prevent burnout opposed to a recovery. Not bashing or anything, great talk... Just sharing my thoughts.
Thank you for your input Jordan and sharing your thoughts. Having personally been through a bad burnout, I think I may be able to relate. If I may be of help. If you knew what will help you recover from a bad burnout, what would you suggest?
@@theallanting I am not saying I know exactly how to recover from a burnout. I am saying I am in the middle of a bad burnout and looking for ways/help on how to recover. In your talk, you gave tips on how to prevent going into a burnout opposed to how to get out of a burnout. Would love to hear what helped you get back on track with your experience and how long it took.
Hey Jordan. Without understanding your history of what you went through, it's a bit tough to give exact recommendations, especially over this message. What I can tell you is that I had applied in my life what I had learned from my 10+ years of research on burnout and that's how I came up with the acronym AIR. I had used Aspiration Integration and Rejuvenation to recover from a few bad burnouts. The first burnout was because I overworked. The second was because of bad relationship.
As a part of Rejuvenation, I meditated, practiced yoga and qigong everyday for about a year. It also gave me time to reflect what's going on with my life and what's most important for me. I've also shared AIR with my clients and they found great results even though they were skeptical at first. Meditate, yoga, qigong and Taichi may not be for you. Maybe it's going for a hike in nature or go on a road trip to a national park. It could be as simple as take short naps during the day as well. What is something that you can do that will relax you and help you feel grounded?
@@theallanting Thanks Allan. My burnout is from work. I am slowly trying to get back on my feet now.
@@Jordan-md3uc It is my sincere wish that you recover soon. Please let me know how I may be able to be of an assistant.
All the things he mentioned (although briefly/unintentional):
1. Sleep hacking
2. Meditate
3. Exercise
4. Eat high-nutrition foods
5. Breathe properly (& exercise good posture)
6. Work on something that makes you come alive (your North Star)
7. Integrated lifestyle (ala Tai Lopez with this one), not “work-life balance” - my 5c
8. Be adaptable (mindfulness meditation helps with this)
9. Rejuvenate through soulful self-care (can be anything from hiking in nature to pamper sessions or a massage)
10. Upgrade your battery: experience a new culture/environment (change your perspective via traveling, go somewhere new)
11. Be 200% present: at work, and at home with family (don’t bring home troubles to work, and don’t bring work troubles home)
Hi Angelique. Thanks for putting this in bullet points and I appreciate your input! Do you have any questions?
Thanks for this. Could you elaborate on #7?
Hey Allan! Great talk. About the work home integration, how can someone do that if they work at home? Can you recommend something? Thanks!
@@dantoinettem6825 What is something that you can your family can do together to integrate work and life together? For example, I love to read to continue my learning knowledge. We have our family reading time to a) be an example of my kid and b) create a great reading habit. Does that give you some ideas? Love to hear from you.
@@laracalleja6526 Thanks for the question! Love to help. Would you please share what kind of work do you do?
What the big companies who are running full speed are doing to avoid burning out their employees.?
They are replacing them with fresh workers every 2-3 years.
Exactly!!!!! Many people are furthering the Red Herring that PEOPLE should shoulder the entire burden. The reality is that corporations couldn't care less about burnout and this propaganda prevents people from saying, "wait a second. Capital is intentionally killing Labor." Over the last 80 years Corporations have methodically undermined the power that employees had. Now, as Constantino said, employees have almost no power, are blamed for corporate orchestrated burnout and then replaced.
Truth!
@Cecilia Cole I'm sorry to hear that you felt like this is propaganda. I do not get any sponsorship, monetary value, and any personal gains from any of the companies and/or anyone. The intended talk is to not just help everyday people, but also a calling to these company execs that things are not working. IE that's why I had called out HR leaders don't know what to do. It's my sincere hope that there are better ways to live and work - and in that order. Hope this clarifies your statement.
@Cecilia Cole Appreciate your clarification!
@Cecilia Cole Do you expect to be paid for 40 hours of work if you didn't work it? That seems to be the thing you're missing here. Technology has allowed us to do more with our time. It increases production over the same 40 hours.
Didn't know how bad burnout could get until this year - absolute dizzying depersonalization and living like a zombie between the work/work balance, no life. It's like the work infects every aspect of your life and consumes it.
As a lone parent I totally relate to that comment.
Same. Exactly how I feel. Didn't know a burnout could remove your identity and understanding of who you are.
it's an awful feeling. Are you doing better?
Is awful, how you’re doing? Did you find help?
Amazing talk! I'm really so burnt out from being a student
Thank you Athena. Sorry to hear that you're burnt out. What are you major in?
@Athena how are you now?
Lol I'm burntout from being a teacher 😉
@@confusedspoons That's too funny... Hat off to teachers!
@@theallanting hi Allan, I also am so burnt out from balancing final year nutrition and dietetics degree with running my online business. I meditate, I journal, I try to recharge but am no just lost.
I am sick and tired of people nonchalantly saying: "Just sleep 8 (or more) hours a day", as if it is as easy as turning on or off a light-switch! It is empty advise.
It’s easy just maintain a schedule and stick to it
@@tr1ckshot514 Are you just trolling? Or are you totally unaware of the fact that some people have serious problems with falling asleep, staying asleep, sleeping long enough, etc.?
wind down routine - no phone in bedroom, maybe a bath, reading or music before bed - but if you can't get off because your mind is racing then mediate or journal - eating a little if you wake up can help you get back to sleep. But you have to discover what works for you - I know that my REM cycles last around 1.5hrs so if I want 5mins more - I ask myself do you want to be waking up in a panic in 90mins time.. I find it easier to mediate and tie up my day in the morning. Good luck
@@rossgeography 'Meditate', "mediation" is something entirely different>
People who say that clearly never experienced insomnia and panic attacks
Absolute BS. First, this is NOT recovery, it’s prevention. Second, Allan here was stressed, NOT burnt out. Finally, the fact he says to just “get more sleep” proves he has NO CLUE what burn out really is. Keep searching people and good luck.
I naturally sleep A LOT and experience massive burnouts. Maybe my partner always wanting to have S with me has to do with this…loll. I feel too loved physically but emotionally he’s a dud.
@@byefelicia8632 damn dude I hope you're good now
Thanks for your feedback. So if you had to give advice to recover, what would you recommend?
Glad to see you know how he felt.
@@theallanting well he said to “Keep looking” so he is still trying to figure it out
What's worse than burnout? Living with people who cannot understand the concept of burnout.
As much as i love internet and all of this good knowledge i found free, maybe we need sometimes to be alone and fully heal, leaving all the fakery and mask behind, self serving solitude and peaceful life....
i just realized that when we Muslims pray 5 times a day its our mini charge, and since we are supposed to sleep immediately after our last prayer (isha) so that we can wake up for our early morning prayer (Fajr) we must sleep early so we pretty much get our full sleep in! altogether this prevents a Burnout!
Thank you brother
@@furowowo anytime brother!
rahman niggs: Is not the last prayer at 0.30? Too late for optimal healing, to go to bed.But a good thing to do!
Hey man! Do you have a chance to talk about religion?
Part of the problem with burnout is WE CAN'T SLEEP. Honestly, doesn't seem like the speaker knows or understands true burnout where you lie awake most the night despite sleep aids used to STOP the nightmares about the horror that is your job. It has turned me into someone I no longer recognize. The things suggested are things I did a year ago. There is no way to get fired up anymore.
There's always hope :) For me, Jesus is that hope. No matter how much I mess up, I can pray to Him, and He guides me to the better path. I'm experiencing burnout as well and it's terrible, but losing hope doesn't bring any change, but constantly trying to find the way to get better is the way to eventually win, and this is what Jesus can do.
I love when they’re like, “get 7 hours of sleep”. Ok sure. I’ll just tell my insomnia to take a break.
Sorry to hear about your insomnia. Yes it's very hard to turn off as I've been there before. Have you tried consistent exercising and/or yoga/meditation?
@@theallanting hah, so funny story. I quit my toxic AF job shortly after I made this comment. And, my insomnia has miraculously disappeared. I literally didn't sleep for most of the 11 years I was there. Amazing what we will do for a good paycheck.
Have you found a better job? Did you have backup before resigning?
@@gcobanimpendu534 No back up job, but I did save some money so I didn't have to worry about that. I'm starting to look again, with a new mindset. Before, I was all about the money... Now, I'm looking for somewhere I fit in and hopefully with decent pay. But, that's not a deal breaker anymore.
It's been 2 years for me battling with insomnia, i try to sleep early yet i got some sort of panic attacks and nightmares sometimes, guess my brain hate me rn....
Burned out so I quit my job. Stressed, because I don't have a job. Karoshi
Sorry to hear Darryl. Would you be able to find a job that you might like?
@@theallanting thanks for the concern Allan. I appreciate it.
Just getting back in balance from working 100+ hour weeks, then took a job working 70+. Did this for years. Feeling much better after some time off and refocusing. Thanks my friend.
I really hope things are going better for you . I'm a doctor , I work in the biggest hospital in my country and I experienced a bad burn out few weeks ago . I didn't even realise it was that . I'm still recovering from it . But if I can share some advices : take time for yourself. You need to recover physically and mentally. Clean your mind from all the negative thoughts. Find a physical activity that suits you , and do it to clean yourself from stress and anxiety, not for the performance. Surround yourself with positive people and positive vibes. And the best advice that I can give : start a project that excites you . Related to your job , your personal life , your passion , ANYTHING. As long as you find it exciting, that will improve your mood , your energy level , and help you forget about this burn out. Good luck . :)
Darryl Smitherman
Never quit your job
😂
Thanks for talking about bournout in such a friendly and cosy way. I've dealing back and forth all year long with it and having a reminder that simple things within my reach can help me trough is motivating.
Hi Alan. Thank you for sharing your journey with burnout. Having been through a few myself, I can relate to your current situation. If I may ask, which reminder(s) resonated with you?
AIR: Aspiration, Integration(work life, balance), Rejuvenation (health: diet, sleep, exercise, social)
Thank you old self.
I saw this talk first in august 2021 and saved some notes, which revisited today prompted me to re-watch this talk. I just wanted to share my appreciation for such a thing being possible. Thanks for having made, and keeping talks such as this available.
@JanniGuldeIversen Thank you for the feedback. May I ask what new insights were you able to find?
Thanks Allan! I really appreciate your sharing this journey with us. Your three best practices are so basic, and so important! Thanks for the breath of AIR :-)
You're welcome Kate and I appreciate your support! Yes I believe in the KISS model - Keep It Simple Sweet!
Hi Kate! If I may check in with you and see how you're doing and if there is anything I may support you?
Thank you Allan for the talk.
I’m suffering from burnout. Sometimes I really am afraid I’ll never get my own self back ever.
I’ve been on sick leave for 1 1/2 years. I can’t work for more than 10 hours a week it seems - tried that the last 6 months.
It feels like most people including Allan use the word burnout for conditions that are more mild than the “clinical term” burnout... or... I don’t know...
At least in comparison to his case I must then have extreme severe burnout!
I know this talk is made for the very best intensions.
But being in the middle of a severe burnout i almost start feeling worse when in try all I can to find someone sharing in details how they slowly managed to bounce back again.
When you have burnout you ARE really one your own is the sad truth I seem to have learned.
I’ve been working 50+ hours a week for 15 years with joy but got cptsd - narcissistic abuse from my work (narc boss) which made me burned out so much that I had to quit in the end, even though my working place meant the world to me (created most of it myself) but the boss destroyed everything.
I’ve given my self the diagnose cptsd.
I’ve tried so many things, but it seems like I have not talked to or heard one detailed story about how exactly a person in a position that could be in some way similar to mine got back again.
Does online know of a link to someone talking about their journey back again!? Thank you all and thank you Allan
Helga Pancake thank you very much! I’ll check it out. Best wishes for your recovery
Helga Pancake Thank you. I listened to her. It was very helpful. Thank you so much 🙏🙏❤️
That is definitely not CPTSD
sounds more like your depressed
Sorry to hear Uffe. I get it. It's tough. Have you also had your labs done for your blood? I'm not a doctor and not trying to give you advice, but you want might to check with a medical doctor to see what your body is doing.
I have a bit similar story of yours. I’ve officially been diagnosed PTSD by psychiatrist. I do have depression, severe anxiety and burn out. Usually these 3 symptoms go hand in hand. PTSD doesn’t go without depression, and anxiety. I’ve been in these condition due to narcissistic bosses, narcissistic ex husband. After divorce I fell into this condition. All I can say and recommend, what really works for me is therapy with my psychologist and mild antidepressant. So at least I can function and get up from bed. Work so far has been greatest challenge. But as I said, burn out is very similar to depression. And there is no direct way of healing depression. You just need to find what works for you. If you don’t try there will be no result. Wishing you peace and healing ❤️🩹
I burned out in my job years ago. Mistreatment will do that to ya. I finally vacated my position during Thanksgiving. I'm now "out" and healing. I truly understand what frayed nerves feel like. Not good.
What about now
Fantastic talk Allan! Very Inspirational!
Thank you J Kap!
I have a well thought sekf care plan, however, with the job I'm currently in, it's impossible to recover. The only solution, after working there miserably for 6 months, is leaving. No job is worth my sanity.
Hi Bea. I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through. Yes sometime the best way to avoid a total burnout is to leave the job. Many employees don't leave the company. They leave because of their immediate manager. I hope you're able to find a job that you love. Do you have any questions?
Bea Mend hi there
Did you have anxiety as well?
@Bea. How are you now after six months? We’re you able to find better employer?
Walmart will crush you. I’m on year 5 and I’m only 28 and i no longer have the energy and passion I did before
@@TheFutureOfMen That is too young to lose energy and passion. What does Walmart have you do, or do that drains you?
Nice advice, but not for people who are suffering from real burnout. This is some 101 stuff.
Yes you bring up a good point. For TEDx talk, we're only allotted 10-15 min per talk. This topic could be easily extrapolated to a couple of days of course in just one section of the talk. Do you suffer from real burnout?
Agree.
I love this! Exactly what I needed.
Love it!!! Fantastically delivered as well… what a lovely man!
Always a great time to take care of your health!
Interesting n informative talk. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.
He under ate and over exercises during a depression/burnout - what a brilliant doctor.
Right? isn't that what most doctor recommends?
burnout as student and also as company employee
When he said, 'I went to my doctor and guess what he told me', I thought he'd continue with "boy, you'd better try to have fun no matter what you do'
Employees are more and more treated like their job and task is the central part of their life. Like you are on survival mode.
It is not.
Whenever I am hired on a project I have to spend around 70 hours a week to keep it rolling and still it looks like I'm slacking; so my income is actually less than half I was contracted for.
Fight back and make yourself more important than the company your working for, even if you need to walk on bodies for your liberation.
Exactly!!! I constantly overworked in environments like this to survive, for 6 years and got very badly burnt out!!!
Been trying to recover for a couple of years now and it's being a tiresome uphill task!!!
@@keerthanasundaram2775 Yes we all have experienced bad bosses and bad companies to work for.
Sometimes a toxic job will keep you in burnout and leaving is the resolution often
Awesome! Thank you!
Love it thank you for sharing
This talk was like a medicine for me.
Thank you so much!
@Martha. You’re very welcome! Hope all is well!
Very helpful thank you
I've never felt so burnt out before, this due to the new normal
Good stuff Allan. Good analogy. Keep it up
Thank you Saurabh!
It's so common in medical profession
Rajesh Mali amen!
@Rajesh, are you in the medical profession?
@@theallanting yes I am a general and Laparoscopic surgeon
That’s intensive work. I used to work with an endoscopic surgeon and he is always working if not on call 24x7. I’m sure it’s a very fulfilling job for you right?
As a counsellor I'm required to report to a supervisor to ensure everything is going ok with me. One way I have learned to prevent burnout is to have a space or time for myself, to be able to say "That's enough for today, time for play"
@Johnny Five Speaking only from an Australian point of view, but it's a legal requirement for us, also to report to a supervisor at least fortnightly.
For me it worked in reverse. I would try and set time to relax but that only lead people to saying "What are you doing?!" And "You're wasting your time, go work!"
This is what I needed to hear! Thank you for the great content.
@ijsellsatl thank you for the feedback. May I ask which part resonate with you the most?
AIR:
Aspiration: what are you working for? Do you feel it's worth your time and energy, or are you just tossing more coal in the misery engine? (I find this one to be a struggle personally)
Integration: you are a multipolar individual who needs to act in multiple spheres. If you make promises in one sphere that take you too far away from another you will suffer.
Rejuvenation: a car can't go 65 on the highway forever. Eventually it will need to be serviced to prevent breakdown.
Thank you!
Burned out? Try a short break.
Didn't work? Take a long break. Detach from your current environment. Travel.
Still didn't work? Change your environment.
Being a Muslim I feel blessed that our religion has rejuvenation opportunity 5 times a day in the form of Salah prayers in which we strengthen our connection to Allah subhana taala Who is our Creator and feel rejuvenated and content. And one can turn to Allah any time 24/7 Alhumdulillah
Great speech.
I love you dude you changed my life
Thank you Allan, Nice talk. I’m currently going thru burnout and am trying to stay healthy as it’s making me exhausted. Going to implement the things you spoke about.
Thank you! We're all here to support you. Godspeed on your recovery.
Intrestin and valuable talk
Amazing talk)) So motivating!!!
Thank you Liliia! Hope all is well with you.
Thank you so much Allan! It helped me a lot! 🙏🏼❤️
You're welcome Be Trixky! How did it help you if I may ask?
Using the AIR steps you mentioned has helped me a lot. Recognising when I feel saturated and taking time out to recharge my batteries. Also mindfulness and trying to connect with my inner being has given me another perspective. And mostly appreciating the good things in life like love and family. Great advice and great positive message! Thank you!
That's awesome Be Trixy. Yes take time to recharge your batteries and appreciate the good things in life like love and family. We only have one life and it's up to us to make the most of it. Again thank you for your input. Love it!
Thanks for this Talk. Great ideas
This was so good!
a big thankyou sir
Awesome
Love this! Thanks Allan!!!
Thanks Dan for your support!
Lovely ted talk
great
Thank you for your feedback Kirsten! Which section resonates with you most?
Essentially what he is saying is balance, we only have a set amount of resources everyday, they will need to be allocated based off of knees
A lightweight formulaic Ted talk if ever there was one.
Thank you for the thought. What would you recommend to make the talk even better?
so far so good, I seek help. 👍
Awesome SunshineCloudyMusic! Thank you for your reply. Please let me know how I can support you.
Are you good now
Thank you Allan for sharing your experience and advice in your helpful presentation :-)
Thank you for your support HEA!
You're the best 👌.This generation of people asolutely need this to know.They are become robots because of the external problems they forgot that we have interal problems too
@alfazmullick3841 Thank you for the feedback. What great insights. Yes, many people have lost their ways and traded money for their health.
Oh , while boredom can get stressful in the end, stress is when real big challenges are more and bigger than one has the resources to solve.
Burnout:
Every Indian Student: first time?
Oh my
If you're watching this, you're probably burned out
I am
Great encouraging talk Allan! Xie-xie ni! :D i will try on yoga, and so now and then tai-chi as well to crawl out of my dark hole called burn-out/depression!
Although, my chinese (cantonese) husband isn't helping me much with the kids i think he's struggling as well and being very stubborn about it, do you have any ideas about that?
Kind regards,
Elena
Hi Elena! Thank you for sharing your journey with us. There is a proverb in Chinese that "Save the green mountain, you'll never have to worry about having enough logs for fire." This holds true for our health. Take good care of our health, both mental and physical first and it'll help us manage our stress and burnout more effectively. In regards to your husband, everyone has their own timeline. Start with yourself. When he sees that you're in an even better mood, healthy and vibrant, he's going to notice a difference. He just might ask you how you did it! :)
I’m graduating college in two weeks. The burnout is so real and I can’t imagine going to work ever again, lol. I haven’t had a day off in 3 months, but then I’m off for two and a half weeks
Blue Braun congrats on a milestone achievement!!! Love to hear your plans on how to recover from your burnout if you are going through one.
so.. meditate, sleep and traveling
This helped a lot,thanks to Ted talk
This dude's got dad swag. Love it.
Thank for @John McGuire! I sincerely appreciate your feedback! If I may ask which aspect of the content did you find most useful for you?
I like your story about how cutting down on sleep didn't work. Reminds me not to burn myself out.
Yes! I used to think sleeping 2 hours a day would suffice but it totally back fired on me and I felt burned out even more. Thanks for sharing!
WTF is "dad swag"? I am an Antinatalist & I honor & respect all my fellow childfree anti-breeding Antinatalists.
@@theultimatereductionist7592 I think it's "dad swagger." To be a dad, and wear it proudly.
I recommend to get some money aside, quit the jobs, become selfemployed, and read the book "pumpkin plan".
I want to quit my serving job, and stay home and be a fulltime artist so bad. My job has burnt me out beyond measure.
Then do it if it means that much. Think about it, in the future would you have wanted for yourself to have spent time living life as a fulltime artist or a worker at a serving job? Do it, not for me and not for anyone else but yourself if it feels right. :)
@@KevinLoganShim Wow, thank you for the encouragement. I feel like its something that I not only want to do but have to do. My job makes me feel more closer to death than life.
@@joerusso7851 Then I think you and I both know the answer to whether or not you should quit the job. The one thing I can say is, if you do end up quitting and push yourself as an artist than there's a good chance you can make ends meet with that. Other than that, you'll always have the ability to fall back on being a server, so live life brother. ;)
@@KevinLoganShim Thank you so much! Now, I just need to get over the fear of going a while without an income. Not a good enough excuse, but I just wasnt raised, being encouraged, or to have faith in myself. Nor was a taought to be strong and take chances. No one ever got involved in my life and future. Now, I have to find it in myself to pursue my dream without fear. Many people have been amazed over the few pieces I have painted.
Joe Russo Well, I think the one thing I can say is, you’ll never learn the skill if you never try. Crush it man!! I believe in you bro just form talking to you over CZcams comments 😂🙌
Platitudes
John Locke thanks for the note. What would be different in your opinion to overcome burnout? Love to hear your thoughts.
Amazing!
Thank you Chelsea! Hope all is well!
4 day work week
I’m burnout and didn’t work for almost a week. (I’m a freelancer so I can take a day off anytime I want)
This is good. I wish I had taken time off for myself too. I havent worked in 5 years due to burnout, thank god for savings. Best decision I've ever made, Im starting to write about it on medium as a sort of therapy! goodluck
@@asimplerwaywithm600 I didn't work for 3 years due to burnout
I just rely on sarcasm and caffeine to survive everyday at work. Suffer through burnout for 4 months. Take a week of vacation off and then I feel like a million dollars. Then go back for four more months and repeat. I just keep reminding myself that in 8 more years I'll only have to work for 3 months between vacation weeks. And.........I've still never seen a TED talk that helped me in any way whatsoever.
@Mark, I’m sorry to hear that you don’t think TED talks are worth watching. What would you do instead in your situation since you’re constantly going through recovery and burnout?
lol...watching this at 1am because my sleep cycle is messed up from death march project.
He just went on, and on, and on, and on...
Andrew Jones thanks for the input Andrew. I sincerely appreciate it. What would you recommend to be more concise?
Thanks for the input Andrew. What would you recommend instead?
I disagree. This was shorter than most Ted Talks, and he didn't repeat himself.
I've worked over 650 hours of overtime in the last 2 and a half months. I'm extremely burned out. I lose my sleep just so I can spend time with my daughter and my wife because they're the soul purpose I do what I do. I need help
This will sound super creepy & sleazy because we don't know each other, but I'm a burnout coach and saw your comment and felt it would be inhuman of me to not reply. May I help you in any way? Has your situation improved? I have tons of free resources and we can meet for a free coaching session to help you get to the bottom of this. I know how hopeless burnout makes one feel (been there myself multiple times) so I'm happy to help in any way. Either way, may God bless you, I'm praying for you!
@@ioanapatale8074 Does it ever get better? ;( right now feels like not
Just plow through it is my motto. Get X here. We don't know how to quit.
Check out “when life works” list from Dr. Sean Stephenson
Which is a list of different things that rejuvenates you. When you are struggling with things, you are typically doing less than three of things in your life.
This is a good vid but it can feel to generalized for some.
Juggling a full-time job and caring for a father for a decade (who is now 94) = burnout!
Misleading title, he must be meaning fatigue, since you cannot bonce back from actual burnout, which is a serious state.
Burnout sucks, everything become out of control and somewhat depressing, and when we do everything to finish stuff and the outcome is still bad, it really become depressing life, yet everyone in your family only blames you when everything gone wrong, no wonder some people gone insane....
How about employee burn out due to being a single mom of a special needs child? Forever spirally in having to choose between my job and my hospitalized child. Now your resume is in shreds so you constantly have to approach any job opportunity with everything you’ve (no matter how beneath your experience) got to prove yourself only to be written up because your home health agency that takes care of your child so that you CAN go to work and school never showed up! Where does that leave you??????
Dude nice logs
Burnout is not about being 'overworked'. Copious research on burnout pinpoint the #1 reason for burnout is bad/toxic management, and "too much work" came in at 7th place of the top reasons.
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not everyone got the money to travel but I get the idea
Why do the HRs of the big companies ask each other instead of asking employees about what THEY need in order not to burn out? Maybe less pressure from above? Less tasks, less stress, more support, more flexibility, more vacation, more employees hired to spread tasks, whatever?
Meditation helped(s) me immensely!!! It’s a proven discipline- try it...
Thanks for sharing. Yes it helps me immensely as well!
How often do you meditate?
I got burnout on this video within the first 30 secs.
Nice one Randy! Very funny. The running joke when I was working on my talk was that I'm burned out from my burnout talk.
I’ve been burned out at home
To be honest though, I declare I don't care no more, i'm burning up and out and growing bored.
2:30 The fact that nobody in the room sang out the Sinead OConnor lyrics, this educating our young friend here about American Culture while enjoying a chuckle with the others who would get it in the room is precisely why our society’s depressed. Case closed.
I burned out by overtraining and excessive caffeine,how can i recover from this im depressed for 2 years pls help
He says sleep 9 hours!!! I am burnt out, I cannot even sleep for 4 hours!! Coming up with the AIR and associated terms doesn't make it simple steps, does it?
Here are my top 5
#1 Try using the infrared saunas at Planet Fitness and Crunch Fitness to get vitamin D. This will improve sleep
#2 Take GNC Ultra Mega supplements (Men or Women formula)
#3 Take a spin Class or an exercise that will bring you to sweat.
#4 Take an art class even if you are not an artists focusing on something else will help burnout
#5 Go to a comedy show and laugh