Mere bhi husband aise hi hai , iski vajah se mai bohat bade depression ki shikar hui , bad mai muze bohat dr ko dikhana pada mai thik ho gayi lekin tab se mai apne khushi ke liye jeeti hu , hamesha dusro ke liye jine ki koshis ki ,jab meri bimari ke time koi nahi tha , mental health Puri kharab ho gayi , dr mere liye bhagvan nikle , unohne muze thik kiya , tab se dusro ke bare mai sochna band kiya ,puza karti ,adyatmik rahne lagi ,mast rahti scooty sikha muze jaha Jana ,jati kisi ke aage muze le chalo le chalo nahi bolti jeevan 47 year se dusre umeed laga ke rakhi hu , aaj khud jeena sikh liya , mai doctor thi mere pati meri bhavna samzenge , bad mai laga bacche , lekin aisa nahi hota unlogo ki bhi koi galti nahi unko apni life se fursat nahi ,lekin unko mera time chahiye , mai. Sab samaz gayi , kaise jeena hai , apna time apne liye diya , choti ,choti khushi milne lagi ,our man khush hone laga ,mai kisi ko badal to nahi payi ,. Lekin khud ko. Khush karne mai lagi , aaj mai , lekin jeevan mai itna pata chala ,dusra koi hame khush nahi rakh sakta ,. Khushi bheekh mangte raho our depression mai jao ,agar nahi thik huy to tadaf tadaf ke mar jao , meri nanad aisi mar gayi lekin husband ne apna. Time nahi diya ,
Agar koi silent treatment de raha hai regularly Aapko kisi se salah nhi lena hai Aap turant aise vyakti ko tyag do jo silent treatment de rha hai Because aise person kbhi nhi sudharte hai
Aese log silent treatment deke hame taklif dete hai..ak bar compromises karna chahiye bar bar aesa ho to aese relations ko ignore karke aage badhna chahiye sir ye hi hai bas ..bar bar kisi ko manane se acha hai...akele jina sikh le...baki bhagvan malik hai..
भईया अगर कोई जानबूझ के चुप रहे ,, सिर्फ सताने के लिए ,और हर रोज का उसका ये खेल बन गया हो तब किया करे,, उसके अंदर एक ईगो हो की , सामने बाला आकर मुझे बोलेगा ,मेरे सामने जुकेगा ,तब किया किया जाए
कुछ नही है रिश्ते रखने नही है यही उत्तर है उन लोगो का। बोलचाल बंद करना कोई परिपक्वता की निशानी नही है या तो अपनी बात मनवानी है। या संबध तोडने है बस। ये जहर होता है जो कयी सालो से भर रहा होता है।
Mujhe is video ki jrurt thi sir.... Thank you so much,, mere husband ya to chup ho jate h, ya bhala bura bolne lg jate h... Mai v silent ho jati thi but frustrated v ho jati thi but ab mai baat krugi
Thank you for this video, i am going through the same in my marriage since past 6 months and i am now moving out because there is no companionship despite attempts to communicate multiple times, it's only making me sad and mad . The other person just doesn't care. I think this also a manipulative technique to get what you want without putting any effort .
Kuch cases mein ye sambhav nhi hai because confront karne per wo aapko hi galat sabit karne ki koshish karega...mainly in case of narcissist because he is not ready to take any responsibility. In that case there is no solution except distance to safegaurd your peace
Mt husband's behavior is like this. .please elaborate more on therapy for such situations! Aapne ek bhai ke Tarah sab samjha diya. Bohot bohot dhanyawaad!
Thanku sir ye btane ke liye ki ankho ke samne aaye lekin mn me n aaye ,resources ka use karo taki life aake badhe,aur career oriented ho jao hobby apnalo ,spiritual ho jao life me kisi ki jarurat nhi padegi...thanks helped me a lot...
Sahi बात है. मेरे पतीने मुझे silent treatment dete थे. पंधरा बीस दिन तक बात नही करते थे. बहुत तकलीफ होती थी. जिंदगी नरक बन गई थी. अब वो भी न ही रहे.पुराना दर्द ताजा हो गया.
Thank you bhaiya ji, meney toh apne aap ko puri tarah se adhyatm mey kar liya hai , bagwat Geeta padti hu , apney ko kaam mein busy rakhti hu . Aapka bhaut bhaut abhar . 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Jab aap anxiety or emotional pressure main hote ho... Tab itna maturely baat ko sidhe tareeke se kehna easy nahi hota.. u start getting angry and shouting to their cold behaviour and when they speak they trash your self respect .. and you react out of anxiety and then they and their family blame you for your reaction. I have gone through this multiple times in my married life. It was just full of blames and rigid framework of way of life for just daughter in law. Husband never tried to understand me. Now we are separated not talking to each other been few months
@@AS53246 So after 3 months of my previous separation my husband came back .. but along with his family. They told me to forget everything and start fresh. We had counseling session we talked our heart out there but still during counseling session I did not find that my husband has actually realised few things from his heart. But still since he and his family came to kind of convince me I went back to my in-laws place. I found little difference in my husband's nature but there was absolutely no change in my mother in laws nature...she keeps fighting with my jethani as well as me.. one day i was very sick and she still created a scene and my husband just once politely told her to ignore. But then untill her anger is not come down the environment of the house is just scary and I was always on my toes. They just wait for one miss from your end so that they can get upset and if you react then everybody along with my husband will shout at me. I got admitted 3 weeks before but there also my in laws were just interested in creating rules for me and my family and trying to save their son from staying with me in hospital. This happened twice and i blasted on my husband on same day and told him to buzz off from my life and hospital room. Now he has stopped talking to me bcz I shouted at him. And again it's been a month we are not talking to each other. My husband disrespects me and does not value me. This time I am inclined towards separation legally. But I am just exploring some more time just to be sure about it before I finally tell him about the separation.
Mere husband ne muje ghol dia aur aaj bhi he is like that.....khud bolne chahe th mujpr blame bhaav khana lekin meri sunne k bad chup rehna hi muje torture krta h Communicate krti hu lekin hadd cross hone se ab me bhi side ho rhi hu thak gyi hu
Write sir..dhanyavad ap ne sahi bat batai he...our sabhi bhai bahen se kehe na chahugi..khud se pyar kare apni parvah kare khud me bizi rahe ..jo hame pasand he vo kare..song suno prathna karo kisi ki madat karo bass khush raho...life ak hi bar milti he..jabarjasti kisi ko pyar ki bhik mat mango😢😢🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yes ,,aap bilkul sahi..mere saath aisa mere in laws m kiya..fir m bhi ushshe alag ho gai..lekin ushe badi pareshani hui ki maine apne liye stand liya..fir vo insaan bahut paise wala tha ushne sirf meri family se rishta Tod liya..jishshe meri personali life m problem Hui...lekin carrier oriented hone k Karan cheezein sambhal par ushne badla liya aur jo ushka apna Bhai jo ushe pyaar karta tha..ushka apnmaan kiya mere bache ka aur rights Tod liya...
Us insan ko koi frk hi nhi pdta ho ki unka relation hmare sath khrab ho rha h,,,wo insan khud to baher kisi or k sath sahi h or ghr me hme silent treatment de rha ho to kya krein ,,,
Aap ne bilkul sahi kaha #Anubhav ji Mne yahi tarika apnaya hai apni life mein, mere husband ne mujhe theek isi tareeke se mentally torture kiya hai, ab rishta aisa ho gya hai ki vo mere liye sirf meri aur mere bachhon ki needs poori karne ka jariya ban kar reh gye hain bas
@@sureshsharma4166 Hanji aap ki baat bilkul sahi hai, lekin suresh ji har ghr mein situation alag hoti hai, kahin patni pati ki kadar nhi karti to kahin pati patni ki kadar nhi karta , Aur jis word ke liye aap ne sorry bola bola hai na jyadatar mardo ko sirf isi se mtlb hota h, aurat ki feelings se unko koi lena dena nhi hota
Aaj Maine first comment kiye Bhai ek ladki hai Bhai Sadi nhi hua aur uske bachedani operation ho gya hai v jindgi se paresan rhti bahut humesha mrnke liye bolti hai plz aap isper vedio banaye taki v aap ki bat samjhe aur jina sikha plz ek vedio banao aap ki kaise jiye v koi Rasta plz 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Aap ki hr video me jo bhi topic hota hh uska jo aap explain krte ho wo ese lgta hai jaise aap khud ko us jga pr rakh kr bolte ho isse bdiya koi bhi explain nhi kr skta sir jaise aap krte ho aap ki video 1000 percent original hai aapne bhut struggle kiya hai tbi itna jante ho bina mehsus kre koi ese explain nhi kr skta M sure thanku sir God bless u wd good health wealth prosperity 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yes sir meri bhi same problem hai, mere bhi husband mere sath aise hi karte hai. Aaj mai aapki ye video dek kar mujhe rona aagya😭😭😭,. But sir maine bhi unhe bahot samjaya per yo ny samjate, aur ghar ke bade ko bolu to mere sari inlaws mere khilaf hai. Hamar love marriage hua hai isleye koi muje support ny karta 😭😭😭
Apne aap ko thoda interesting bnane k liye mehnat karo.. sab theek ho jayega... shadi todna ilaj nhi hota .. partner aapse kya chahta h usey value karo... aur aap hi usey vo do... husband wife ek joda hotey hain... ek Matlab ek hi hota h do nhi hota.. khhud ko unse alag mat samjho.. unke liye sochna shuru kar do ek intertsiner ki trah.. bado ko involve krne ki zaroorat hi nhi h.. apne andar positive thoughts itne badhao k husband ki negativity chuppi apne aap aapki vjeh se desolve ho jaye.. sab solutions isi me ho jayenge... accept this challenge of life... n win this game smartly .. u can . U are life partner of ur husband..
अनुभव सर, मुझे एक situation का हल नहीं मिल रहा है, कृपया इस टॉपिक पर video बनाए की, indirect taunt marne walo se kaise deal kre, kyuki kisi bhi insan ko daily egnore Krna ya daiy ldai Krna possible nhi hota, खास कर ऑफिस में
Thanks sir many aáp kaa yah video lagatar 03 bar suna hai mayry friend ki laif May is tarh ki problem chal rahi hai pichley 10 sal say pichley 2 sal say jyada problem may hay May Pura pryas kar raha hun ki unki problem solv ho jay thanks
Anu bhaiya I don't know how you r familiar with these mind disturbing problems of life, I don't know you'll read it or not nd what you'll think after reading my cmnt bt still I want to share my pain with u what I'm going through for seven yrs...your each nd every point is related to my own life...i hve been facing someone's selfish, toxic nature,egoistic, arrogant, superiority complex behaviour) Before I started watching your vdos , I had only two words ( selfish nd Heartless)in my mind to express that person's over all behaviour, after watching your vdos I became familiar that these r called traits of human behaviour ( narcissistic persons) nd today I'm also familiar to another trait's name which that person gives me always which u called 'silent treatment'... I watched your vdos till the end, I want to ask you something that if the other person keeps a habit of persuasive, even if that person is wrong , if you confront to that person, he never excepts own fault nd started conflicts, started insulting u with very down level rude arrogant behaviour even on a small topic which u just want to ask or express,keeps a nature to overpower you always, Even after that I never stopped conversations, bt that person started showing such behaviour as u explained in the video,like if you r calling nd he is in front of u bt ignored u,asking for something he just ignored u,nd when he is in need comes in front of u with much sweetness in his behaviour, nd once when his motive finished ,again started showing his rudeness to you, that person wanted me to make him happy by helping him in his regular activities day by day , nd after several nd several days he will show you mercy nd started talking to you like he is doing favor on you...this is just a technique for that person to acquire his wish or implement his thoughts on you, effortlessly... So facing these things every single time I feel myself tensed, hurted nd broken💔 that person has no worries at all... Just enjoying what he is doing to me, nd when you help to that person in needs or you care when he is unwelll he said to other member, she is just pretending to show her good, How would you feel? Just think for once.... So I'm asking you bhaiya why should i care for such heartless persons,who never cares for me, your love care means nothing to that person,always has an intension to hurt you metally nd deeply...i had a fear in my mind that some day I will finish my life cz of this person's toxic behaviour, I feel pity for myself why I'm so much imotional Bt after watching such helpful vdos gradually posted by you I started feeling , it's enough! no one has the right to hurt me,I don't need anyone in my life, it's ok to live alone..... thnk you Anu bhaiya for all the helpful vdos, it gives much nd much mental strength
Bhaiya Mai b ek relationship me hu..Aur mera jo partner h vo settled b h... Humara relationship 5 saal ka h.. lekin vo apne ghar pe shaadi ki baat pata nahi kyu nahi karta hai..jabki Uske ghar me sabko pata h..aur waha log kehte b h ki jisse bologe ho jayega..fir b vo baat nhi karta h..jab b mai usse kehti hu ki bat karo vo bolta hai aj karungaa kl karungaa par Abhi tk nahi kiya...Aur mere Ghar me sab shaadi k liye force karte hai... Mai kya Karu bhaiya please btaiye
Hello sir ...mera bhai h 24 year ka ho gya h ...vo bht darta h baat bhi kuch bolega toe khul k ni bolega ...bethe bethe kuch sochta e rehta h ...padhai me bhi man ni lgata or na e koi or kaam me interest h uska bht sidha n descnet h bht bhola h koi kuch bhi kehta h maan leta h bht slow uska dimag chlta h usko humne bht dr. Ko dikhya but kuch ni hua ... sir ab vo bada ho gya h 24 year bht hoti h mere papa k ek e beta h kya karu bto sir plsss plsss plsss kya kia jaaye
Accha lega video sir. Point 5 is very closed to my life. Jo I did in my real life. Karne m 15 sy 16 saal lagy but bahut sahi h in extreme case. Make yourself busy in routine work, adopt any hobby n become spiritual. All r very accurately said by u. Indifferent hone m hi life smooth ho jaayegi.
Ye sab to thik h.. But I am totally depend on him for our basic needs.. I have no job and my children are small... Same treatment bacho ke sath bhi krte h.. What could i do?
@@parveenyadav5128 pls try to follow point 5. Really it will help. Apne bas k saary karm karo, spiritual ban jao(geeta pado), busy rekho apne aap ko acchy karyo m. Ghar k karyo m. Baccho m. Apno m. Jo apko value nhi dy reha h woh kabhi nhi dega then why Hving expectation from him/her. What u hv ussey tho mat lose karo. Enjoy yur life.
Thanks a lot, Sir main bhi apna ego pe stick raha mera Gf bhi but abb dono ki zindagi bekar hogaya hai mujhe hi uske pass jana hoga maturity ke sath. Tabhi problem Solve hopayega 🙏
Sir mera beta 23 saal ka, silent treatment deta hai. Uska rawaiya bahut kathor hai. Mujhe bahut takleef hoti hai. Kya karu. Bahut samjhaya par ek hi Ghar mei rehkar is tarah kaise jeeye. Depression ho gayi hai mujhe. Kya usko Ghar se nikal du?
Sir mere jindgi ka laxye h ki mai apne peyr par khadi ho jau or sasural vale ab nhi chahte ki mai padu or aage badu sadi ke pahale sab thik tha or sadi ke bad krib ak sal tak sb kuch axa chal rha tha or bacche hone ke bad in logo ka torcher suru huya to ab tak rukne ka nam nhi le Raha h mujhe kisi ki fikra nhi hai bas mujhe apne bacche ki fikra h or mai agar ghar se nikal bhi gai to jaugi kaha na to sport h or na to koi kam mai kya kru sir please mujhe kuch bataye meri help ke liye,,
Meri saas silent treatment kar rhi hai mere sath 7 saal se mene hajaro bar try kar liya hai she has narcassitic behaviour at extreame level very controlling what do I do sir plz rply
My mother in law does that, when I confront her about it, wo mujhe zaleel krti hain phir baat shuru krti hain. It's like she is waiting for me to come so that she can kick me down.
आपणे पहिले एक video मे यह कह था की आपकी silent बी एक अच्छा जवाब होता हे किसीं arrogant आदमी को। इस Video मे आप Silent treatment को immature behaviour बता रहे हो 🤨। इंसाण जाणबुजकर किसीं को Silent treatment नही देता. वो परेशान हो जाता हे किसि गध्ये के सामने अपना माथा पिट पिट के. हर बार आपको अपना पॉईंट prove करणे के लिये explanation देना पढे किसीं के सामने तो इंसाण ऐसे आदमी को पागल समज के Silent treatment देना चालू कर देता हे बजाय उस्के साथ उलजने के।
Exactly.. Jab bar bar prove karne ke baad bhi aapko ek hi cheez samjhani pare tab dukh se aadmi chup ho jata hai. Kyuki har koi gali ke jawab gali se nahi de sakti.
Mere bhi husband aise hi hai , iski vajah se mai bohat bade depression ki shikar hui , bad mai muze bohat dr ko dikhana pada mai thik ho gayi lekin tab se mai apne khushi ke liye jeeti hu , hamesha dusro ke liye jine ki koshis ki ,jab meri bimari ke time koi nahi tha , mental health Puri kharab ho gayi , dr mere liye bhagvan nikle , unohne muze thik kiya , tab se dusro ke bare mai sochna band kiya ,puza karti ,adyatmik rahne lagi ,mast rahti scooty sikha muze jaha Jana ,jati kisi ke aage muze le chalo le chalo nahi bolti jeevan 47 year se dusre umeed laga ke rakhi hu , aaj khud jeena sikh liya , mai doctor thi mere pati meri bhavna samzenge , bad mai laga bacche , lekin aisa nahi hota unlogo ki bhi koi galti nahi unko apni life se fursat nahi ,lekin unko mera time chahiye , mai. Sab samaz gayi , kaise jeena hai , apna time apne liye diya , choti ,choti khushi milne lagi ,our man khush hone laga ,mai kisi ko badal to nahi payi ,. Lekin khud ko. Khush karne mai lagi , aaj mai , lekin jeevan mai itna pata chala ,dusra koi hame khush nahi rakh sakta ,. Khushi bheekh mangte raho our depression mai jao ,agar nahi thik huy to tadaf tadaf ke mar jao , meri nanad aisi mar gayi lekin husband ne apna. Time nahi diya ,
Agar koi silent treatment de raha hai regularly
Aapko kisi se salah nhi lena hai
Aap turant aise vyakti ko tyag do jo silent treatment de rha hai
Because aise person kbhi nhi sudharte hai
Absolutely
You are absolutely correct
Aese log silent treatment deke hame taklif dete hai..ak bar compromises karna chahiye bar bar aesa ho to aese relations ko ignore karke aage badhna chahiye sir ye hi hai bas ..bar bar kisi ko manane se acha hai...akele jina sikh le...baki bhagvan malik hai..
shahi kaa aapney islye move on hogae kyaa kre asaa pyaar ka av muje koe frk nhi pdtaa koe aagya hae meri life jo muje bhohot pyaar krta hae 😂
Law nikalna chahiye..jo log silent treatment dete he unke against...
Why?
Samjhane ke baad bhi agar koi baar baar apman kare to chup rehne ke alawa koi chara nhn hota.
Akele jeene ki aadat daal li h ab aur trust nhi tudvana
Priorities badal lo khud kamakr
Maine bhi yahi kiya hain
I think this is the best thing to do what you said.
This is the reason why high competition in jobs
For you, now, I am a mature and mentally strong woman..Sir, I pray to Allah give you a better reward.
भईया अगर कोई जानबूझ के चुप रहे ,, सिर्फ सताने के लिए ,और हर रोज का उसका ये खेल बन गया हो तब किया करे,,
उसके अंदर एक ईगो हो की ,
सामने बाला आकर मुझे बोलेगा ,मेरे सामने जुकेगा ,तब किया किया जाए
कुछ नही है रिश्ते रखने नही है यही उत्तर है उन लोगो का। बोलचाल बंद करना कोई परिपक्वता की निशानी नही है या तो अपनी बात मनवानी है। या संबध तोडने है बस। ये जहर होता है जो कयी सालो से भर रहा होता है।
सही बात है ये ज़हर मुझमें है या अगले में।
saath rehke bhi akele rehna bahot mushkil hota he... par akhir me aap khud hi apne aap ke liye hote ho ... focus on ourself....
Mujhe is video ki jrurt thi sir.... Thank you so much,, mere husband ya to chup ho jate h, ya bhala bura bolne lg jate h... Mai v silent ho jati thi but frustrated v ho jati thi but ab mai baat krugi
Thank you for this video, i am going through the same in my marriage since past 6 months and i am now moving out because there is no companionship despite attempts to communicate multiple times, it's only making me sad and mad . The other person just doesn't care. I think this also a manipulative technique to get what you want without putting any effort .
Kuch cases mein ye sambhav nhi hai because confront karne per wo aapko hi galat sabit karne ki koshish karega...mainly in case of narcissist because he is not ready to take any responsibility. In that case there is no solution except distance to safegaurd your peace
सर, ये आपका अनुभव मेरे लिए इससे भी बढ़कर है।🙏🙏
Mt husband's behavior is like this. .please elaborate more on therapy for such situations! Aapne ek bhai ke Tarah sab samjha diya. Bohot bohot dhanyawaad!
Most valuable batein app bol gaye ho sir 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thanku sir ye btane ke liye ki ankho ke samne aaye lekin mn me n aaye ,resources ka use karo taki life aake badhe,aur career oriented ho jao hobby apnalo ,spiritual ho jao life me kisi ki jarurat nhi padegi...thanks helped me a lot...
Thank you very much sir to make such videos and spread awareness. Atleast, we can come out of self guilt..
Sahi बात है. मेरे पतीने मुझे silent treatment dete थे. पंधरा बीस दिन तक बात नही करते थे. बहुत तकलीफ होती थी. जिंदगी नरक बन गई थी. अब वो भी न ही
रहे.पुराना दर्द ताजा हो गया.
Anu bhaiyya aapke samjhane ka tareeka hi alag h
Great boss...
Well Explained,I think it will help more needy people.
Thank you bhaiya ji, meney toh apne aap ko puri tarah se adhyatm mey kar liya hai , bagwat Geeta padti hu , apney ko kaam mein busy rakhti hu . Aapka bhaut bhaut abhar . 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Mere husband ka same nature hai, aur main is se bht pareshan rehti hoon. Bahut akela feel karti hoon.
Zayadatar logo ke rishtey ki yhi problum h
Mere v husband aeise hi h jindgi nrk bna di h
Same happen with me
Aap kaha se hoo kya hum baat kr skte hai
Ya to bolenge hi ni aur agar bol denge to aag ugalte h aag
Bhai aap ki video dekh kr bahut himmat milti h thank yau
Woh kuch baat sunne hi nhi chahta jab bole toh bolta hai pareshn nhi kro
God bless you
You are a source of inspiration
Jab aap anxiety or emotional pressure main hote ho... Tab itna maturely baat ko sidhe tareeke se kehna easy nahi hota.. u start getting angry and shouting to their cold behaviour and when they speak they trash your self respect .. and you react out of anxiety and then they and their family blame you for your reaction. I have gone through this multiple times in my married life. It was just full of blames and rigid framework of way of life for just daughter in law. Husband never tried to understand me. Now we are separated not talking to each other been few months
Dear how u handling this
I have a children and my in laws and husband are evil
And I am not able to leave them
@@AS53246 So after 3 months of my previous separation my husband came back .. but along with his family. They told me to forget everything and start fresh. We had counseling session we talked our heart out there but still during counseling session I did not find that my husband has actually realised few things from his heart. But still since he and his family came to kind of convince me I went back to my in-laws place. I found little difference in my husband's nature but there was absolutely no change in my mother in laws nature...she keeps fighting with my jethani as well as me.. one day i was very sick and she still created a scene and my husband just once politely told her to ignore. But then untill her anger is not come down the environment of the house is just scary and I was always on my toes. They just wait for one miss from your end so that they can get upset and if you react then everybody along with my husband will shout at me. I got admitted 3 weeks before but there also my in laws were just interested in creating rules for me and my family and trying to save their son from staying with me in hospital. This happened twice and i blasted on my husband on same day and told him to buzz off from my life and hospital room. Now he has stopped talking to me bcz I shouted at him. And again it's been a month we are not talking to each other. My husband disrespects me and does not value me. This time I am inclined towards separation legally. But I am just exploring some more time just to be sure about it before I finally tell him about the separation.
Same here
Hi dear. Currently I am going through same . Ditto... how did you cope with this. I have a small baby just 1 year old
Thanks bahiya. You explain very well.
i find myself because of your videos sir.....thnk you so much.
Thank you for the video... I so much wanted this
Mere husband ne muje ghol dia aur aaj bhi he is like that.....khud bolne chahe th mujpr blame bhaav khana lekin meri sunne k bad chup rehna hi muje torture krta h
Communicate krti hu lekin hadd cross hone se ab me bhi side ho rhi hu thak gyi hu
Bhut sahi bhaiya..it's reality.
Well explained bhaiya 👏
I am 100% agree with your every point...
Sir agar koi insaan hume silent treatment de raha h....toh it means ki hum uske liye imp. Hi nhi h
Write sir..dhanyavad ap ne sahi bat batai he...our sabhi bhai bahen se kehe na chahugi..khud se pyar kare apni parvah kare khud me bizi rahe ..jo hame pasand he vo kare..song suno prathna karo kisi ki madat karo bass khush raho...life ak hi bar milti he..jabarjasti kisi ko pyar ki bhik mat mango😢😢🙏🙏🙏🙏
Much needed topic Sir .
Bhaiya pranam apko bahut bahut shukriya ..app sach mein ek acche bhai h mere h video dekh kr bahut kuch sikhti hu sab kuch smjhti hu
Yes ,,aap bilkul sahi..mere saath aisa mere in laws m kiya..fir m bhi ushshe alag ho gai..lekin ushe badi pareshani hui ki maine apne liye stand liya..fir vo insaan bahut paise wala tha ushne sirf meri family se rishta Tod liya..jishshe meri personali life m problem Hui...lekin carrier oriented hone k Karan cheezein sambhal par ushne badla liya aur jo ushka apna Bhai jo ushe pyaar karta tha..ushka apnmaan kiya mere bache ka aur rights Tod liya...
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Thanku soo much sir
I needed this video
Aapne solution Bata diya sir
U r sooooooo intelligent sir........ Thank u
I needed this very much because I have that experience
Sir aap genius hain, thanku so much for your guidance, u r the best, God bless you Sir,🎉
I really needed this video....Thank you such sir 🙏
Us insan ko koi frk hi nhi pdta ho ki unka relation hmare sath khrab ho rha h,,,wo insan khud to baher kisi or k sath sahi h or ghr me hme silent treatment de rha ho to kya krein ,,,
Very nicely explained.
सर आप बोहत अच्छे से बता ते हो मेरी सास मेरे सात ऐसा करती है उसकी गलती रहती है मेरी नही रहती मै बोलती हु तो चुप रहती है
Akshaya tai radu nka , khush raha , masta raha, tumhich tumchya jeevnacha shilpkar ahat. Aapan dukhi rahilo tar konala kahi farak padat nahi ,
Very nice solution Sir 👌👍
Bade hi aag lagate h
Muje padna h aur kuch karna h lekin isi chiz se roda atka rhe h th me bhi ab bure banne pr mujbur ho gyi hu......
Very nice video sir🙏 thanku
Aap ne bilkul sahi kaha #Anubhav ji
Mne yahi tarika apnaya hai apni life mein, mere husband ne mujhe theek isi tareeke se mentally torture kiya hai, ab rishta aisa ho gya hai ki vo mere liye sirf meri aur mere bachhon ki needs poori karne ka jariya ban kar reh gye hain bas
@@sureshsharma4166 Hanji aap ki baat bilkul sahi hai, lekin suresh ji har ghr mein situation alag hoti hai, kahin patni pati ki kadar nhi karti to kahin pati patni ki kadar nhi karta , Aur jis word ke liye aap ne sorry bola bola hai na jyadatar mardo ko sirf isi se mtlb hota h, aurat ki feelings se unko koi lena dena nhi hota
Same
Amazing video sir🙏
I am also applying such types of behaviour to observe others mind and behaviour, it helps a lot. After that I start conversations from them.
Don't practise such dark manipulative skills .. no good will ever come out of it
Very good motivation.
Deep knowledge...
Right.. thanks sir 🙏🙏
Aaj Maine first comment kiye Bhai ek ladki hai Bhai Sadi nhi hua aur uske bachedani operation ho gya hai v jindgi se paresan rhti bahut humesha mrnke liye bolti hai plz aap isper vedio banaye taki v aap ki bat samjhe aur jina sikha plz ek vedio banao aap ki kaise jiye v koi Rasta plz 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you so much ......
Sir you r so good.।।। Thankyou
Aap ki hr video me jo bhi topic hota hh uska jo aap explain krte ho wo ese lgta hai jaise aap khud ko us jga pr rakh kr bolte ho isse bdiya koi bhi explain nhi kr skta sir jaise aap krte ho aap ki video 1000 percent original hai aapne bhut struggle kiya hai tbi itna jante ho bina mehsus kre koi ese explain nhi kr skta M sure thanku sir God bless u wd good health wealth prosperity 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you Kavita, God bless you :)
Sahi kaha sir aapna
Yes sir meri bhi same problem hai, mere bhi husband mere sath aise hi karte hai. Aaj mai aapki ye video dek kar mujhe rona aagya😭😭😭,. But sir maine bhi unhe bahot samjaya per yo ny samjate, aur ghar ke bade ko bolu to mere sari inlaws mere khilaf hai. Hamar love marriage hua hai isleye koi muje support ny karta 😭😭😭
Same with me too Akshayaji
Divorce him
Same with me but I left him after 3 years.
@@happybirthday9652 shadi se pehle to apne ap ko achha hi dikhata tha
Apne aap ko thoda interesting bnane k liye mehnat karo.. sab theek ho jayega... shadi todna ilaj nhi hota .. partner aapse kya chahta h usey value karo... aur aap hi usey vo do... husband wife ek joda hotey hain... ek Matlab ek hi hota h do nhi hota.. khhud ko unse alag mat samjho.. unke liye sochna shuru kar do ek intertsiner ki trah.. bado ko involve krne ki zaroorat hi nhi h.. apne andar positive thoughts itne badhao k husband ki negativity chuppi apne aap aapki vjeh se desolve ho jaye.. sab solutions isi me ho jayenge... accept this challenge of life... n win this game smartly .. u can
. U are life partner of ur husband..
Bahut atcha laga
Blessings for the best
Right thoughts.
Shi kaha apne
the best advice
अनुभव सर, मुझे एक situation का हल नहीं मिल रहा है, कृपया इस टॉपिक पर video बनाए की, indirect taunt marne walo se kaise deal kre, kyuki kisi bhi insan ko daily egnore Krna ya daiy ldai Krna possible nhi hota, खास कर ऑफिस में
Thanks sir many aáp kaa yah video lagatar 03 bar suna hai mayry friend ki laif May is tarh ki problem chal rahi hai pichley 10 sal say pichley 2 sal say jyada problem may hay May Pura pryas kar raha hun ki unki problem solv ho jay thanks
Sir ji padha huaa yaad nahi horaha hai kya kare sir ji
Anu bhaiya I don't know how you r familiar with these mind disturbing problems of life, I don't know you'll read it or not nd what you'll think after reading my cmnt bt still I want to share my pain with u what I'm going through for seven yrs...your each nd every point is related to my own life...i hve been facing someone's selfish, toxic nature,egoistic, arrogant, superiority complex behaviour)
Before I started watching your vdos , I had only two words ( selfish nd Heartless)in my mind to express that person's over all behaviour, after watching your vdos I became familiar that these r called traits of human behaviour ( narcissistic persons) nd today I'm also familiar to another trait's name which that person gives me always which u called 'silent treatment'... I watched your vdos till the end, I want to ask you something that if the other person keeps a habit of persuasive, even if that person is wrong , if you confront to that person, he never excepts own fault nd started conflicts, started insulting u with very down level rude arrogant behaviour even on a small topic which u just want to ask or express,keeps a nature to overpower you always,
Even after that I never stopped conversations, bt that person started showing such behaviour as u explained in the video,like if you r calling nd he is in front of u bt ignored u,asking for something he just ignored u,nd when he is in need comes in front of u with much sweetness in his behaviour, nd once when his motive finished ,again started showing his rudeness to you, that person wanted me to make him happy by helping him in his regular activities day by day , nd after several nd several days he will show you mercy nd started talking to you like he is doing favor on you...this is just a technique for that person to acquire his wish or implement his thoughts on you, effortlessly...
So facing these things every single time I feel myself tensed, hurted nd broken💔 that person has no worries at all... Just enjoying what he is doing to me, nd when you help to that person in needs or you care when he is unwelll he said to other member, she is just pretending to show her good, How would you feel? Just think for once....
So I'm asking you bhaiya why should i care for such heartless persons,who never cares for me, your love care means nothing to that person,always has an intension to hurt you metally nd deeply...i had a fear in my mind that some day I will finish my life cz of this person's toxic behaviour, I feel pity for myself why I'm so much imotional
Bt after watching such helpful vdos gradually posted by you I started feeling , it's enough! no one has the right to hurt me,I don't need anyone in my life, it's ok to live alone..... thnk you Anu bhaiya for all the helpful vdos, it gives much nd much mental strength
Thank you sir
Right sir.. Tq👍🙏
God Bless you 👍👍
Very nice video sir
My mom is giving me this. But I am happy she won't irritate me anymore lol 😃😃🤣
Thanks ...sir
Yes u r correct,
Nothing to say but thank you 😊
Bhaiya Mai b ek relationship me hu..Aur mera jo partner h vo settled b h... Humara relationship 5 saal ka h.. lekin vo apne ghar pe shaadi ki baat pata nahi kyu nahi karta hai..jabki Uske ghar me sabko pata h..aur waha log kehte b h ki jisse bologe ho jayega..fir b vo baat nhi karta h..jab b mai usse kehti hu ki bat karo vo bolta hai aj karungaa kl karungaa par Abhi tk nahi kiya...Aur mere Ghar me sab shaadi k liye force karte hai... Mai kya Karu bhaiya please btaiye
Hello sir ...mera bhai h 24 year ka ho gya h ...vo bht darta h baat bhi kuch bolega toe khul k ni bolega ...bethe bethe kuch sochta e rehta h ...padhai me bhi man ni lgata or na e koi or kaam me interest h uska bht sidha n descnet h bht bhola h koi kuch bhi kehta h maan leta h bht slow uska dimag chlta h usko humne bht dr. Ko dikhya but kuch ni hua ... sir ab vo bada ho gya h 24 year bht hoti h mere papa k ek e beta h kya karu bto sir plsss plsss plsss kya kia jaaye
Muze aiss topics pr or batayee appse vinti hai🙏
Thankyou 🙏
Thanks sir jee
Accha lega video sir. Point 5 is very closed to my life. Jo I did in my real life. Karne m 15 sy 16 saal lagy but bahut sahi h in extreme case. Make yourself busy in routine work, adopt any hobby n become spiritual. All r very accurately said by u. Indifferent hone m hi life smooth ho jaayegi.
Ye sab to thik h.. But I am totally depend on him for our basic needs.. I have no job and my children are small... Same treatment bacho ke sath bhi krte h.. What could i do?
@@parveenyadav5128 pls try to follow point 5. Really it will help. Apne bas k saary karm karo, spiritual ban jao(geeta pado), busy rekho apne aap ko acchy karyo m. Ghar k karyo m. Baccho m. Apno m. Jo apko value nhi dy reha h woh kabhi nhi dega then why Hving expectation from him/her. What u hv ussey tho mat lose karo. Enjoy yur life.
Thanks a lot, Sir main bhi apna ego pe stick raha mera Gf bhi but abb dono ki zindagi bekar hogaya hai mujhe hi uske pass jana hoga maturity ke sath. Tabhi problem Solve hopayega 🙏
Sir mera beta 23 saal ka, silent treatment deta hai. Uska rawaiya bahut kathor hai. Mujhe bahut takleef hoti hai. Kya karu.
Bahut samjhaya par ek hi Ghar mei rehkar is tarah kaise jeeye. Depression ho gayi hai mujhe.
Kya usko Ghar se nikal du?
Tq sir
Only say thanks ❤❤❤
Lekin sir pyar ki jarurat hai emotional attachment ki bhi jaruart hai to kya kare un sb ko cut krke kaise jiye
Sir mere jindgi ka laxye h ki mai apne peyr par khadi ho jau or sasural vale ab nhi chahte ki mai padu or aage badu sadi ke pahale sab thik tha or sadi ke bad krib ak sal tak sb kuch axa chal rha tha or bacche hone ke bad in logo ka torcher suru huya to ab tak rukne ka nam nhi le Raha h mujhe kisi ki fikra nhi hai bas mujhe apne bacche ki fikra h or mai agar ghar se nikal bhi gai to jaugi kaha na to sport h or na to koi kam mai kya kru sir please mujhe kuch bataye meri help ke liye,,
❤️❤️❤️❤️BLESSING
Thik hai bhiya
Meri saas silent treatment kar rhi hai mere sath 7 saal se mene hajaro bar try kar liya hai she has narcassitic behaviour at extreame level very controlling what do I do sir plz rply
My mother in law does that, when I confront her about it, wo mujhe zaleel krti hain phir baat shuru krti hain. It's like she is waiting for me to come so that she can kick me down.
आपणे पहिले एक video मे यह कह था की आपकी silent बी एक अच्छा जवाब होता हे किसीं arrogant आदमी को। इस Video मे आप Silent treatment को immature behaviour बता रहे हो 🤨। इंसाण जाणबुजकर किसीं को Silent treatment नही देता. वो परेशान हो जाता हे किसि गध्ये के सामने अपना माथा पिट पिट के. हर बार आपको अपना पॉईंट prove करणे के लिये explanation देना पढे किसीं के सामने तो इंसाण ऐसे आदमी को पागल समज के Silent treatment देना चालू कर देता हे बजाय उस्के साथ उलजने के।
Exactly.. Jab bar bar prove karne ke baad bhi aapko ek hi cheez samjhani pare tab dukh se aadmi chup ho jata hai. Kyuki har koi gali ke jawab gali se nahi de sakti.
Agar pati phone se hi block kr de to kya kre
Mere husband ki ye aadat ho chuki ha sir ma kya kru kuch samagh nhi aata
Mere ko is baat ka solution nahi mil rha tha
Ab mere dil me uski in harkato se ditachment ho rhi hai
Sath n rahna chahe,kahi relation bna le ar chupa ke rakhe to fr kya puchna kuch v
Nice👍