🙅‍♂️🌟 Mastering the Art of Dealing with Narcissists | Explained by Tarun Malik

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  • čas přidán 20. 10. 2023
  • In this insightful video, join renowned psychologist Tarun Malik as he delves into the complex world of narcissism and provides valuable strategies for mastering the art of dealing with narcissists.
    Narcissistic individuals can be challenging to interact with, often displaying self-centered behaviors and a lack of empathy. However, through his extensive expertise and experience, Tarun Malik breaks down the psychology behind narcissism, helping viewers gain a deeper understanding of this personality disorder.
    Throughout the video, Tarun shares practical tips and techniques for effectively managing interactions with narcissists. From setting boundaries to maintaining your own emotional well-being, he provides actionable advice that can empower you to navigate these difficult relationships with confidence and grace.
    Whether you have a narcissistic person in your personal life or encounter them in professional settings, Tarun's explanations and strategies will prove invaluable. By watching this video, you will gain the tools and knowledge needed to protect yourself from manipulation, maintain your self-esteem, and foster healthier relationships.
    Don't miss out on this eye-opening discussion on mastering the art of dealing with narcissists. Join Tarun Malik and equip yourself with the skills necessary to navigate these challenging dynamics and emerge stronger and more resilient.
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Komentáře • 192

  • @blackwhite-mt5nj
    @blackwhite-mt5nj Před 2 měsíci +35

    They lack empathy, lack moral compass, gaslight, create chaos, liars, control freak, never accept their mistake and arrogant....

  • @simrankangsidhu-economicss1437
    @simrankangsidhu-economicss1437 Před 2 měsíci +13

    I am staying with a narcissist for the last 30 years and learned a lot to deal with him from my experiences The strategies you have suggested are 100% authentic.

  • @AniruddhaBhattacharya
    @AniruddhaBhattacharya Před 2 měsíci +17

    Does a Narcissist ever realise anything? No my dear friend.
    Only keeping boundaries will help a bit out of the options you have told.
    It is very hard but the best way to handle a Narcissist is Not to Handle.

  • @namratakesharwani9633
    @namratakesharwani9633 Před 9 měsíci +12

    Much needed video......no one know that their partner are narcissistic. Bcoz they thought that's the life.

  • @blackwhite-mt5nj
    @blackwhite-mt5nj Před 2 měsíci +22

    I never knew that these kind of people exist but then got married last year and my husband and his mother are narcissists. They create chaos all the time. One thing i have noticed they will try to trap you from every where. His mother didn't allow me to have proper food and my husband didn't me eat from outside. These things always they used to do.

    • @vandanasarwa4011
      @vandanasarwa4011 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Same situation

    • @IndianHypnosisAcademy
      @IndianHypnosisAcademy  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yes

    • @suttersutter4426
      @suttersutter4426 Před 2 měsíci +11

      Food control is a favorite tactic of narcissist. Dont waste your youth with this man. Find a job, become financially strong and leave him.

    • @blackwhite-mt5nj
      @blackwhite-mt5nj Před 2 měsíci

      @@suttersutter4426 yes .. thank you so much.... and yes I am earning and an engg still I went through this because of my fathers respect...

    • @vandanasarwa4011
      @vandanasarwa4011 Před 2 měsíci

      @@suttersutter4426 yes, food control is most important weapon for them, even they are depending on you financially.

  • @ChildFirst
    @ChildFirst Před 2 měsíci +9

    1:20....They Never accepts their wrong
    1) 2:38.... Don't take their action & words personally.
    2) 3:17... Create a boundary and enforce it.
    3) 4:53... Note Gaslighting Behaviour in Diary
    4) 6:43... Work on your self esteem

  • @dheerajmgm
    @dheerajmgm Před měsícem +9

    iske baad bhi wo nahi sudharne wale, wo khud ko victim hi banayenge aur aap ko blame karenge.

  • @anshuman5331
    @anshuman5331 Před měsícem +5

    Sabse best point hai diary mein note down karna unke negative points.
    U can't show confidence to narcissist person or overpower them because they will stop showing narcissist behavior as u said
    but slowly slowly they will start planning and just end the relationship or do something totally different. This thing u don't know.
    No matter how hard u try u cannot change it.
    One thing which can also stop narcissist behavior is entry of 3rd person in that relationship .

    • @IndianHypnosisAcademy
      @IndianHypnosisAcademy  Před měsícem

      We can change ourselves and the situation. No need to change them.

    • @anshuman5331
      @anshuman5331 Před měsícem +1

      @@IndianHypnosisAcademyphir bhi suffereing toh chaalo rahegi.

  • @AashishSrivastva
    @AashishSrivastva Před 9 měsíci +3

    Ok thanks!
    More videos needed on narcissism

  • @kapilgajaria
    @kapilgajaria Před 9 měsíci +3

    much needed video thanks for posting

  • @sanaa1383
    @sanaa1383 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Agreed with all the points suggested by Tarun

  • @seemagour7612
    @seemagour7612 Před 15 dny +2

    Last point important for life

  • @artlover_2000
    @artlover_2000 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for sharing....... this video is very helpful n informative

  • @remyasobith
    @remyasobith Před 3 měsíci +3

    Very good technique sir. Till now no channel has provided this

  • @AnaamFarishtey
    @AnaamFarishtey Před měsícem +2

    Speechless thanks may god bless us

  • @anjubisht1669
    @anjubisht1669 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Thank you sir..🎉

  • @supriyadhargalkar5467
    @supriyadhargalkar5467 Před 2 měsíci +17

    Mera father narc hai , mujhe bina galti ke mar padti thi our meri bahan ko galti karne par bhi pyaar kiya jaata tha. Mere parents ne meri puri jindgi barbaad kar di, aaj chalis saal ke baad mujhe pata chala mere parents narc the😢aaj woh mere bacho ke our pati ke pichhe laye hai satane ko , es bar mai bhi yehi game khel rahi ho un logo ke saath.

    • @IndianHypnosisAcademy
      @IndianHypnosisAcademy  Před 2 měsíci

      🙏🏼

    • @user-ef1lm5jv3z
      @user-ef1lm5jv3z Před 2 měsíci +4

      Mere parents bhi narc h,meri age 33 h,meri shadi mere parents ne hi nhi hone di kyoki wo kbhi nhi dekh skte the ki onki beti ko koi acha ladk mile.. aur yeh bhi bolte the ki tera bache hone toh pehla bacha humko Dena...me yhi sochti thi ki mujhe toh itna maara inhone mere bache kyo du me...pr ab sochti hu acha hua meine shadi nhi ki abhi tak... Ab sb pta h toh inko ghar me ghusne bhi nhi dungi me.. aadhe se jyada life meri nark bna di dono ne..

    • @deepadhania5921
      @deepadhania5921 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Same mri maa h esi father ko b bna diya sibling ko b esa ar pdne nhi dete mughe pgl kr diya h rat din torture hmesa ghr m.kaid kr rkha h na job krne deti hai

    • @jhalak831
      @jhalak831 Před 2 měsíci

      Meri bhi same story hai, sister​@@user-ef1lm5jv3z

    • @umangsharma9627
      @umangsharma9627 Před 2 měsíci

      Mere father b h same as like this

  • @mcgamer2.023
    @mcgamer2.023 Před 18 dny +1

    Thank you sir

  • @pushpaparker1412
    @pushpaparker1412 Před měsícem +1

    Thanks🙏 Brother. 🎉

  • @gurpritvirdi8230
    @gurpritvirdi8230 Před měsícem +4

    i apply these routines in my marriage life, and i would say with years of experience. i am an expert handling Narcist wife. i exactly know what to say, when to say and when to walk away...

  • @ashachauhan2263
    @ashachauhan2263 Před 5 měsíci +3

    Thank you so much..

  • @nipasheth151
    @nipasheth151 Před 28 dny +1

    Great explanation

  • @manjupandey2057
    @manjupandey2057 Před měsícem +2

    Aap ki tips mere anubhav pe bilkul sahi hai.

  • @ZoroX1
    @ZoroX1 Před 2 měsíci +2

    With my little knowledge nd living with my narc wife fr 8 yrs.
    1. always write down the incident nd send it to a secret mail id.
    2. never share ur financials, if they scream, ask them to get court order
    3. never share ur plans, do everything in secret, if they find out, just say that he/she would spoil the plan
    4. try nt to argue anything, ull always loose.
    5. try to get them into an argument nd record her tantrum, u being calm nd ask questions in that argument, she will spill beans
    6.everything she does has a purpose, so try to read between the lines
    7. never raise ur hand on that person, she will use it against u
    8. if she threatens to leave, tell them calmly.. Ok

  • @nazimabegum9326
    @nazimabegum9326 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Yes all true sir

  • @nidhiyadav4355
    @nidhiyadav4355 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Amazing Knowledge, keep up the good work..God bless u

  • @msbhau7961
    @msbhau7961 Před 9 měsíci +4

    🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹TARUN JI GOD BLESS YOU 🙏🌹 .

  • @manjulasunagar3478
    @manjulasunagar3478 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Tnks brother. Its true but still too many points are exist

  • @Anonymousgod369
    @Anonymousgod369 Před 6 měsíci +3

    M dealing with psychopath narcissistic tendency dissorder person. He tortured me mentally. Kabhi kabhi to bilkul handled ni hota. Isse kaise nipte sir pls bataiye

    • @IndianHypnosisAcademy
      @IndianHypnosisAcademy  Před 4 měsíci

      Aisi situation mein reply as minimum as possible. Aap jitna kam attention denge, utna zyada in control feel karenge. It is hard but this is the best way to handle such people.

  • @ushatanwani2622
    @ushatanwani2622 Před 18 dny +1

    How long should I maintain low contact with a narcissist husband, can my husband protest against this in future ? Sir please can you help me with this 🥺🙏

    • @IndianHypnosisAcademy
      @IndianHypnosisAcademy  Před 17 dny

      Narcissist will always protest to anything against them. You just continue despite it.

  • @priya2590
    @priya2590 Před 10 dny +1

    Sir, aap ki jankari me kisi narcissist ne accept kiya hai kya ki o narcissist hai, or thik ho gya ho.??

  • @sadhguru9253
    @sadhguru9253 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Sir koi person khud narccisist ho aur usse bahar nikalna ho to ??

  • @priyankanalawade222
    @priyankanalawade222 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Sir apne mere last video par msg ka answer nahi kiya...Sir ek session 21 days karne ke bad agar koi dusra session karna ho to kya usko after 21 day matlab uske 2nd day se hi kar sakte he ya bich me thodi din ka gap rakhna hai aur kitne din ka rakh sakte hai gap..apne pichli video me answer kiya tha 2 session kar sakte ho ek morning and night but me 2 session nahi kr sakti ek hi session kr sakti hu plz answer sir

    • @sadhguru9253
      @sadhguru9253 Před 9 měsíci

      21 days wait karne ki jaroorat nahi hai subah aur saam do alag alag session le sakte hai

    • @priyankanalawade222
      @priyankanalawade222 Před 9 měsíci

      @@sadhguru9253 i already said me 2 session nahi kr sakti

    • @IndianHypnosisAcademy
      @IndianHypnosisAcademy  Před 9 měsíci +1

      After 21 days jab bhi man kare tab aap dusra session start kar sakte hai. Change session ko tab karna jab pehle wale ka impact aane lage.

  • @user-xp1ty9by1f
    @user-xp1ty9by1f Před 2 měsíci +1

    Kya age ke hisab se nerc dhire dhire kam hota hai

    • @HumaimaAima
      @HumaimaAima Před měsícem

      Nhi balki aur badh jaata hai😢😢

  • @extragrade7959
    @extragrade7959 Před 9 měsíci +3

    talking 24×7 kese bane iske uper session kab aayega sir ???😢😢bhot din ho gye

  • @nipasheth151
    @nipasheth151 Před 28 dny +1

    I am living with narcissist daughter since 25 yrs

  • @mitthutamng6251
    @mitthutamng6251 Před 29 dny +1

    Maine 10 saal pehele se kiya he ab jakar sab thik he

  • @sujasbandyopadhyay7092
    @sujasbandyopadhyay7092 Před 2 měsíci +5

    I don't think a narcissist personality can understand others filling or his/her mental problem and try to correct accordingly. It is a personality disorder.

  • @ssanimation6505
    @ssanimation6505 Před měsícem +1

    mai abhi chahu to abhi ek covert narcissist se jeet jayenge lkn prblm ye h k narcissist injuri ke bad wo koi ghlt kadam na utha le

  • @Dakshsss
    @Dakshsss Před 9 měsíci +2

    Aap god ke dwara bheje gya koi angel ho sir 🙏🙏

  • @Aicat41
    @Aicat41 Před 13 dny +1

    Sir aapse bat kreni h kase ho sakti h

  • @user-sf4bn9mb7x
    @user-sf4bn9mb7x Před měsícem

    Sir ple aap es टॉपिक पर वीडियो बनाए की क्या एक cheatter nareesesst रियल लव कर सकता है क्या वो लव marrige krthe है मेरा सवाल यही है की क्या एक नरेसेस्ट true love करते हैं ple sir

  • @ramavtarkhemka3750
    @ramavtarkhemka3750 Před měsícem +1

    Ek pariwar ne Hame 40 Saal tak ignore Kiya hamne kar kar phaik diya aur wo Bhagwan ko pyare ho gaye ; tab hame pata chala ki Hamara ego bada nikala..Ham 40 Saal Aavishkar me uljhe rahe aur unke dwara kiya gaya Apman Hame chhu tak nahi paya ..sara khel mind ka .Baat ko dil ke Lagane na Lagane ka ..

  • @Aaryabetu548
    @Aaryabetu548 Před měsícem +1

    Ye to meri sas aur husband ki bat ho rhi h

  • @shalineekushro183
    @shalineekushro183 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Sir sleep paralysis par ek vedio banaiye

  • @manjupandey2057
    @manjupandey2057 Před měsícem +2

    Maine 28 years se face kiya hai.

  • @ashishwaingankar2786
    @ashishwaingankar2786 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I have narcissistic boss. Please guide

  • @archanadhotre8582
    @archanadhotre8582 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Me to recording karti sab kuch .saboot k sath hi bolti hu.confront karti hu sab k samne.darti to ratti bhar bhi nahi hu.

  • @lifeeducation88888
    @lifeeducation88888 Před měsícem +1

    Correct methofs

  • @Radhika-yc5xe
    @Radhika-yc5xe Před měsícem +2

    Am also deal with narcissist lover😥

    • @sudhapatel130
      @sudhapatel130 Před měsícem

      Don't deal just leave don't waste your time

    • @user-wk4mn7tc4z
      @user-wk4mn7tc4z Před měsícem

      Same problem we are living together in living relationships..mai study kar rahi ho aur mere sath wo rahte hai but my life is now like a hell.wo kabi acha tho kabi bhut bura behave karte hai na tho mujhe jane daita hai na rahne..i totally dipress ..aur wo nasha bi use karta hai rehabilitation bi baija acha huwa kuch samai kai liye but now same problem I'm suffering from.. pls god save me..aur chornai ki baat karu tho ya tho wo kudkusi kar lega bolta hai aur nhi tho mujhe mar daiga yahi bolta hai mai kya karu

    • @IndianHypnosisAcademy
      @IndianHypnosisAcademy  Před 6 dny

      Look for your self respect

  • @kunalkhajuriahiranagar9029
    @kunalkhajuriahiranagar9029 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Hi sir

  • @Jyoti.prasad-515
    @Jyoti.prasad-515 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Mujhe hypnosis sikhna hai

  • @indiragauri9557
    @indiragauri9557 Před 27 dny +2

    Iss type ke logo ko realize nahi hota kabhi bhee

  • @user-sf4bn9mb7x
    @user-sf4bn9mb7x Před měsícem

    Ek chatter Narcissist true' love करते हैं। क्या वो लव मैरिज be krthe है 😢ple sir

  • @ramavtarkhemka3750
    @ramavtarkhemka3750 Před měsícem +1

    15 Saal tak nahi sudhre to kya karen ???????? batane ki kripa karen ...

  • @funnytina3539
    @funnytina3539 Před 2 měsíci

    Har koi nhi hota...

  • @monikashah8880
    @monikashah8880 Před 5 dny

    Meri mother narstistic he😂😂😂..yes personal nahi lenge

  • @mohammedismail4691
    @mohammedismail4691 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Meri girlfrind narcissist hai..mera long distance love hai..jab bhi fight Hoti hai block Kar deti hai fir dusre din aake cry karti hai mujhe nahi chhate hue Bhi usko accept karta hu kyu k usne mujhe Ba bhot Love diya hai..kya Karu mai kuch tips do Mujhe.

    • @rishita124
      @rishita124 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Narcissist never cry.... Kuch or prblm h

    • @mohammedismail4691
      @mohammedismail4691 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@rishita124kya problem Hogi kuch idea hai kya tumhe

    • @rishita124
      @rishita124 Před 3 měsíci

      @@mohammedismail4691 kahi aur affair chal rha hoga aur kharcha tumse le rahi hogi

    • @supriyadhargalkar5467
      @supriyadhargalkar5467 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Narc rote hai,false promise bhi karte hai our jhooth bhi bolte hai

    • @avnisaxena3607
      @avnisaxena3607 Před 2 měsíci

      Bhai bhaag lo .. BSS.. ye koi pyaar nhi hai ..it's a trap..sorry to say ..

  • @user-sf4bn9mb7x
    @user-sf4bn9mb7x Před měsícem

    Sir ye narcissisti etne ज्यादा झूठ क्यों बोलते हैं क्या ये कभी सच नही khthe kabi be nhi reply me sir

  • @user-jg9kl8ls3j
    @user-jg9kl8ls3j Před 2 měsíci +1

    Mere husband narsist

  • @shadhnachitrakootki9611
    @shadhnachitrakootki9611 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Mere husband narcissistic h 😢

  • @venicaburnto4182
    @venicaburnto4182 Před měsícem +1

    Mera husband itna narcissistic hai ki agar mai uske sath 4 mahine na bolu to tb b vo vo age se aake bat nhi krega

  • @user-sf4bn9mb7x
    @user-sf4bn9mb7x Před měsícem

    क्या ये गॉड को बहुत ज्यादा मानते हैं ple kyoki में ase he ek love relationship me rhi hu God ko बहुत mantha h bt jhuti ki लिमिट ही nhi hoti sach to pta nhi boltha he ni h

  • @pratimahazarika4330
    @pratimahazarika4330 Před měsícem +1

    Yeh log toh apni goltea kabhi nehi maante.aur kisi ke upod trust bhi nehi he sahe relationship ko hi khotom kor dega fir bhi apni goltea aur jidd ko nehi chodega.

  • @user-jg9kl8ls3j
    @user-jg9kl8ls3j Před 2 měsíci +1

    Narsist keo dark hota hai oh keo evil hota hai

  • @PoojaJaiswalvlog
    @PoojaJaiswalvlog Před 3 měsíci +1

    Narcissistic person rote hai kya.

    • @IndianHypnosisAcademy
      @IndianHypnosisAcademy  Před 3 měsíci +3

      Man hi man, bahut zyada

    • @PoojaJaiswalvlog
      @PoojaJaiswalvlog Před 3 měsíci +1

      Mere husband narcissistic hai divorce hone wala hai hamara 6saal hone wale hai shaadi ke sirf ladai jhagde k kuch ni hua hamare bich.jhut bolte hai rote bhi hai rishte naato me bht chugli bhi krte hai. Pta ni God Mera kya hoga. Please help me 🙏

    • @amittaneja1411
      @amittaneja1411 Před 2 měsíci

      Ishwar sab theek karenge

  • @Prajaktashimpi
    @Prajaktashimpi Před 2 měsíci

    😂😂😂 By this definition everyone is narcissist. Just mind games....
    Very common behaviour traits are labelled narcissist
    Once u label some one narcissist u get negative about that person that induces negativity in your brain/subconsious.
    Psychology agree ???
    I left my parents house long long ago at age of 26. To simply stay away from low vibes i meet my parents often visit them they are now at ladt few years of their life.

  • @user-fp3rz9yn2b
    @user-fp3rz9yn2b Před 3 měsíci +1

    Aise logo ko theek karne ki dawa bataye

  • @ushatanwani2622
    @ushatanwani2622 Před 18 dny +1

    Sir ap sakshat bhagwan ka roop hain 🙏

  • @ramavtarkhemka3750
    @ramavtarkhemka3750 Před 19 dny

    Mind ka doftware kabhi theek nahi kiya ja sakta ....

  • @prabhasharma3747
    @prabhasharma3747 Před 3 měsíci

    can a narcissist intentionaly murder someone

    • @IndianHypnosisAcademy
      @IndianHypnosisAcademy  Před 3 měsíci

      Anyone can, that is an impulsive act based on trauma and lack of self control.

  • @samarthdanceclass909
    @samarthdanceclass909 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Wo abuse krte hai

  • @Shantanu369
    @Shantanu369 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I'm Narcissist.😢

    • @IndianHypnosisAcademy
      @IndianHypnosisAcademy  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Not anymore :)

    • @user-ef1lm5jv3z
      @user-ef1lm5jv3z Před 2 měsíci +1

      Narcissists kbhi confess nhi krte ki wo narcissist h...aur publicly toh kbhi nhi...aap nhi ho... Toxic traits ho skte h kuch aur aap onko change kr loge time k sath... 😅

    • @Shantanu369
      @Shantanu369 Před 2 měsíci

      @@user-ef1lm5jv3z achchha

  • @AnkurPal1
    @AnkurPal1 Před 4 měsíci +2

    1. Never accept their mistake. They are always right in their conciousness.
    *NPD- Narcissist Personality Disorder.
    2. If you cannt avoid a narcissist person Never take their actions personally.
    3. Draw and enforce a boundary for specific situation and shut off the conversation at that moment.
    4. Take a note of their gaslighting behaviour and use it while confrontations. It should be conveyed that their actions are being observed.
    5. Be more confident than the narcissist person. Work on yourself and boout self morale.
    *Its a slow prosess, changes are slow, be patient

  • @naveengulati7745
    @naveengulati7745 Před měsícem

    Arre Bhai koi farak n parta ...jasoosi se aur irritate koi correct n hote jara powerful samghta

  • @DiptiChauhan-yy3rx
    @DiptiChauhan-yy3rx Před měsícem

    Mere husband mere mmy papa ko gali dete h bhut gandi gandi
    Wo m nhe bardasht kar pati hun

    • @IndianHypnosisAcademy
      @IndianHypnosisAcademy  Před 6 dny

      I know its hard but reply with control and dignity. Ye unke sanskar hai, aapke nahi.

  • @Tyuioonnbc
    @Tyuioonnbc Před měsícem +1

    Meri.pita.ji.or.math.ji.ka.sath.kaise.or.rishta.mojbut.kare.app.ka.sala..cahiya

  • @user-sf4bn9mb7x
    @user-sf4bn9mb7x Před měsícem

    क्या ये गॉड को बहुत ज्यादा मानते हैं ple kyoki में ase he ek love relationship me rhi hu God ko बहुत mantha h bt jhuti ki लिमिट ही nhi hoti sach to pta nhi boltha he ni h