Why Do White Men Love Black Women With Bad Wigs?
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- čas přidán 5. 01. 2024
- Why Do White Men LOVE A Black Woman With A BAD Wig?
Hey guys! So they say no one can pull a white millionaire faster than a black woman in a bad wig, but is it true. What really is the correlation between black women with bad wigs and marrying millionaires? Let's discuss. I would love to hear your thoughts on the matter as well. I hope you enjoy this video. If you did enjoy this video please give it a thumbs up (that really helps my channel), and also please consider subscribing for more content 😊.
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Is this just Tiktok overhyping things, or do you believe in the "bad wig" theory? I think TikTok overhyped this way too much, and it isn’t “bad wigs” that are attracting millionaires. These are just my thoughts on the bad wig theory though.
😂😂😂😂 what 😂😂😂
I believe it’s all hype. I see a lot of stylish women who happen to date out. Now, you do have women who are on the opposite side of the spectrum who seem to just over do everything like the woman on the left.
LOL, hey, TikTok made the bad wig seem like it’s a miracle worker 🤣😂🤣😂!
Hi Cammy! I think you nailed it. I've watched one other video about this theory, and when I tell you.....the reaching was astronomical. The preexisting proximity to a typically white lifestyle would more than likely be the draw.
Have a great weekend!
@@jetradaniels9528 hello 👋🏾! To be honest, I haven’t watched any other videos besides the TikTok ones showing people how to do their wigs to get a millionaire 🤣! I just went off of what my coworker told me about her upbringing and it makes sense that her proximity to that culture would also mean she’d be more likely to date and marry someone of that culture as well. TikTok blew this thing up like it was some type of proven theory 🤣😂
Bro they don't. Natural hair all the way. Even when it's short. Natural is always better than a wig.
Hello 👋🏾! Thank you for sharing your opinion on the viral TikTok video on these wigs.
Yeah that’s why I said it really isn’t the wig
I really don’t think it’s the wig itself. It is anything that doesn’t fit inside of the beauty standards of the black community. If you look a little too urban, they are probably scared to approach you because they think that you would not pick a guy like that.
Hello 👋🏾! Great observational points!
I definitely have a work wig😂😂😂 My son be laughing at me, it’s really a hair hat to me lol
I totally agree with almost everything you said. I was adopted when I was a newborn; white parents, white friends, white school...all white. I would joke that I was like an Oreo, black on the outside and white on the inside. My white mother learned how to do my hair from a foreign exchange student who was from Africa. Fast forward many years later, I have only dated white men, and am now married to one. It's about who you relate to.
Hello 👋🏾! Thank you for sharing your personal experience. I definitely agree it’s about it’s who you relate to culturally. The wigs in my opinion are not what is attracting men, but rather, their ability to relate to these women. Thank you for watching!
As a White Man, I thank this new acceptance movement of black woman showing off and cultivating their natural hair, it's so marvellous
Hello 👋🏾! Thank you for your input on the topic.
Yep. That’s what your forefathers did. Make fun of BW hair
@@CammyjOfficial Why do BM tell lies all the time? He's a 69 yr old Black man that looks like Cee Lo Green!
I was one of 3 blacks in my high school. It was very country. When I went to college and around black people, they talked bad about my hair because it was not on point. I didn't wear wigs I wore my hair natural or braids.
Yeah my coworker said the same thing happened to her when she went to college. All the black friends she had always discussed her hair and she was tired of it. She just never grew up with her hair being constantly scrutinized and focused on.
I dont think white men care what you wear on your hair as long as you’re clean and smell good. They like all the different styles we wear and typically don’t notice what’s fake unless it’s drastic or unnatural looking. They also like our natural hair in its various forms.
I think TikTok blew this whole wig thing out of proportion and definitely put too much focus on the wigs themselves when it’s definitely more than just the wigs that cause attraction.
Not sure what it is, but only black men avoid me, sometimes I have bad wig days, but I have plenty of on point wigs days too. I have found that other races of men come on to me, and are serious with me, wanting a relationship, etc. I have even had people say “you would look pretty if you wear your own hair”, snd I’m thankful for the compliment, but I have had alopecia since I was 26, so I don’t have my own hair
@angeliaperkins7990 hello 👋🏾! I have a friend in a similar situation and she says the same thing. She has many great wig days but it’s primarily non-black men who approach her.
@@angeliaperkins7990 I’m sorry to hear that! I’m in an interracial marriage and have no problem dating outside my race. If someone ain’t checking for me, I go where I’m wanted. Hpefully you meet people that don’t just pay attention to what you have on your head but also inside! 🌹
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Hi Cammy. I never thought about it until you did this segment. I grew up NYC. And even the White guys were about how your hair looked. I don't think it's hair, but the vibe you give off. In my 54 years I have worn curls, cornrows, plats, perms, twist out, and afros. I have to say they attracted all. It's the energy your project and your confidence.
Hello 👋🏾! Thank you so much about sharing your perspective on this!
You don’t need to have exposed to the “so call Black culture” (what ever this is ). To care about self grooming your hair . Hair is apart of femininity which means it can look and be done different . This is a dumb thing that social media is making a big deal about. Who cares about this women’s hair BW should be focusing on the important things such as how she is slim, talks well , how she acts and carry’s herself in her circles, so that they can get into these circles. She is super smart and married super smart. All those other BW rappers all they have are their WW looking wigs and males who cheet on them and who are garbage. Personally I like grooming myself good so when I do wear a wig it’s flat on my head and combed but that’s it , I’m not for the unrealistic textures , the laid baby hair and the extra long hair, these things speaks to the so called Black community and I don’t ever want that , plus my man is a man and he does not care about how my wigs or hair looks, he just say it looks nice or compliments me when I have a new style but then again he has sense and has other more important things that he focuses on.😊
Hello 👋🏾! Thank you for sharing yours perspective. I gave the examples of not being exposed to popular black culture regarding why she didn’t care about her wig looking so called “bad”. She never had a hyper focus on her hair and no one when she was growing up made an issue of the kind of wigs she was wearing. She didn’t grow up watching shows that were popular in black culture, music videos etc. Her wigs were never dirty etc, they just were not the best looking wigs. She even stated that because SHE didn’t grow up exposed black cultural standards that her hair never was a big deal to her which is why she just threw on whatever wigs she had and kept it moving. I believe TikTok blew this was out of proportion and focused on the wrong thing, because it isn’t about the wig. The men who dated her were not concerned about her hair, they never mentioned her hair, they were just focused on her as a person which is the most important thing there is. Thank you for watching!
Not having a "bad wig" but having [what they (black men) see as] "unattractive hair". I had an ex explain once, "I don't care how women wear their hair, as long as it looks nice".
Hello 👋🏾, and thank you for sharing your input!
Hello Cammy. Another informative video! To be honest I never thought about it or noticed that it was a thing about bad wigs equal a rich white man. After you shared this video and thinking back i have seen black women with white men and their wigs the women wore wasn't too bad looking. I don't know what else to say 😊 I guess tiktok hypes up many things. Just my thoughts! Thanks for sharing and your curls are beautiful!
Hello 👋🏾! Thank you 😊. TikTok definitely over exaggerated this whole thing. It’s more than the “bad wig”. And like you said, I’ve seen plenty of black women dating out who don’t have bad wigs at allllll. Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate you!
You broke it down really well.
Hello 👋🏾! Thank you 😊. Just sharing my little thoughts on this viral TikTok trend.
I'm not from the States, but have watched videos about all this cultural appropriation stuff that's recently become a thing over there and feel it's an overblown issue. If a black girl wants to wear a blonde wig, or a white teen braids their hair into drealocks for aesthetic reasons, I'm not going to judge. We may or may not think they look silly or stylish, but if that's the look they feel comfortable with, then c'est la vie, ultimately the only opinion that matters is theirs.
Hello 👋🏾! Thank you for sharing your input. I definitely feel it’s an overblown issue.
@@CammyjOfficial Had a quick skim of your other videos, and realised you know infinitely more about hair than me 😎Peace and love from Liverpool 👍
@@BrexitBritannia thank you for the love!
Smart, illuminating take on the so-called "Bad Wig Theory." THUMBS UP. Subscribed!
Ms. Cammy J., I appreciate how you present interesting contextual history that rises above the anecdotal. I agree that the "Theory" is actually multi-faceted, much of it positive and affirming. What I like about the "Theory" -- and your analysis-- is the humour, particularly the multiple wry but tender ironies arising out of the Theory. On one hand, the Theory enables Black women both to celebrate popular Black beauty aesthetics for their exacting, rigourous standards and , at the same time, subtly critique them for (a) the stresses these standards put upon Black women and (b) the complex and often troubling links between (American) Black beauty aesthetics and "White" Eurocentric ones.
In this light, I think, "Bad Wig" wry videos and knowing parody conveys a certain joy among Black women, celebrating "Bad Wig" as a form of rebellion against the social pressure to "maintain appearances."
"Hard Wig, Soft Life" is not really a literal belief but rather, I think, on some levels (straight) Black women (a) giving permission to each other to be open to partnering with men of different communities and (b) Black women signaling to each other that love is so contradictory -- inherently absurd and yet absolutely essential--that perhaps breaking rules and flipping sensibilities is the only hard rule and sensible thing to do.
After all, that married UK couple --doting husband and slim, attractive, but bad-wig-wearing wife -- are absurdly ensconced in their castle right out of a Monty Python comedy --and the husband and wife seem to know that they are absurd in their wealth, bad wig, doting, and comically "ginormous" home.
But they also seem happy.
And perhaps there lies the core of Bad Wig Theory": giving permission to seek happiness in love, no matter how absurd the whole thing really might actually be.
Hello and thank you for such a wonderful and in depth comment. I’m glad I was able to approach the subject on such a way that brought my perspective on the subject forth in a light hearted way. Thank you for watching!
Hi Miss Cammy! First, I'd like to say that I can't thank you enough for your previous videos where you have taught me how to properly conceal the darkness underneath my eyes...so love you for that!
Second, this is a great video. Here's my take...I plead guilty to not wearing fantastic wigs...lol! Obviously, I can only comment on my own personal experiences where White men are concerned, and I have found they don't give a darn about my wig, girl. They have always seemed to be more pre-occupied with my personality. I would describe myself as nice person who really cares about others feelings and I think because that is what shines through in my interacations...my wig becomes the least of their concerns. The scrutiny simply has not been there. I think hair tends to be a much larger issue in the Black community. I can understand that. But at 53, it's truly something I choose not to make an issue of at this point in my life. Overall, I believe my personality and desire to be kind to people should ALWAYS trump my wig. Thank you for this video, sis. Wishing you nothing but the very best in this new year!
Hello hello 👋🏾! Thank you for watching! U agree that it seems they aren’t hyper focused and preoccupied with hair, they are more interested in personality. It really isn’t the wigs, it’s more about the connection.
Thank you for the interesting perspective, Cammy. Can you please do an update on your daughter’s hair journey? Thank you!
Hello 👋🏾! Thank you for watching! I most certainly can do an update on her hair.
The hard wig phenomenon is new to me but I have heard that B W would only wear their natural hair when they date outside of the black community.
Hello 👋🏾! It’s definitely new to me too. When I kept seeing it on TikTok it perplexed me that people really think it’s due to the wig only.
hey boo 👻 👋🏽
Hi hi 👋🏾
I really dislike this silly trend I'm sorry
Yeah this trend is silly, but it really has people thinking it’s just about having a “bad” wig.
True I dated outside my race a lot. I married a Black man. We have been married for 28 years now,
28 years! Wow! Congratulations 🎈🎉🎊🍾
Yep, I have natural hair that I don't put much effort into, and I'm married to a white man.
It's selection bias. I've never valued hair that much, and I put my time and effort into other things. The other things are what attracted my husband. I've actually only never dated white men, and part of it is just that that's who I'm around more than other ethnicities.
Are you guys really this down bad🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️🤦🏿♂️
It has nothing to do with the wig. They love you guys big old nice booty. Like all the rest of us men do. Some just don't want to admit it
But these women don’t have “big old nice” booties though 😂! I do agree that it ain’t the wig that’s drawing anyone in.