the reality of working full time
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- čas přidán 16. 02. 2018
- heres me talking about a n o t h e r existential crisis that I'm having. actually its not that bad I just hate working lmao and it seems like working is all we do in life??? cant we just do something else??
ANYWAY
i am literally packing for thailand as you read this, just thought i'd upload a lil pre-recorded video before I go away on holibobs!!
hope ur all a-okay - Hry
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You should try UX Ui design. I feel like you’d like it. It pays well and requires creativity.
I feel exactly the same way and I am struggling so bad with the hours
I work 4 days a week 10 hour days and after 2 years I am so miserable and working with these chemicals is killing me. I need out but at the same time I’m trying to get a house. It’s a terrible situation
I can't imagine doing this for 10 years, let alone 30 years. We aren't meant to do this.
Right I Get Sick Before Work It Causes Me Anguish I Hate It So Bad , Feel Like If I Was Homeless I Would Be More Free
@@koolpurps7738 Stfu Slave
@@divisionone8269 i think he deleted his comment lol
@@justaunpopulargirl8463 I see
@@divisionone8269 bro i laughed so hard haha
But then we get shamed for laziness
Right
"Laziness." Fuck those dogmatic sociopaths.
Let these stupid old fucks make these rich people more rich trying to work harder for tiny raises every year destroying there body’s and getting no where in life
Work exhaust your time, your energy and you options. People get lazy because they work not because they don't have work
Couldn't agree more, well said.
The times I was unemployed were the best years of my life
Me too, and on the sick, school and work totally destroyed my joy of life; also working with cruel twats does not help....Its normal to be lazy if your being forced into things you hate and have no pleasure in doing......
being unemployed is great, except you have no money to enjoy anything :(
Totally agree. Idec that I was barely making it by.
@@TheMudsnake personally i still find enjoyment just being outside, working out, walking, riding a bike, tennis, muay thai, watching movies at home w my gf n stealing from grocery stores the snacks to indulge in while we watch, reading, journaling
I think after uni I want to work for one year and then ugghh live of those sacnn in g and travel
Everyone with any amount of intelligence or soul feels like this.
Agree 👍
Exactly
It's a set up from the start schools are set up like factories to create factory children look into it
I'm 42 years old unemployed for 3 years now and I'm done. I can't do it anymore either mentally I just can't do it I worked 9 to 5 from 15 to 39 years old. I've been doing odd jobs for the past 3 years now and am helping take care of my elderly mom. I'm a grown man living with his mum lol I feel a bit humiliated but I'm still the happiest I've ever been in my life and she's the best roommate. Best of luck to you l. I don't think I'll ever go back to 9 to 5. I would rather be free. Thanks for the great video.
Haha I don't think intelligence or soul has anything to do with it, that is funny though. Just depends where you wish to be when you retire I suppose easy to work hard in your 20 and 30's then have an easier life later on. Of course if you are a female and don't waste your 20's you can find a man to take care of you. Prioritize what you want but don't complain later if what you get is not what you sought.
I feel this on a spiritual level. Every single human around me accepts the 9-5 grind and I feel like an alien amongst humanoids because this way of life eats at my soul daily. Thank you for making this!
You definitely aren't alone. Even those people around you who appear to accept the situation probably feel the same way you do, they just aren't expressing it or are suppressing their emotions to deal with their lives.
Same. I quit my low payment job for a sabbath year. I pay my life from my savings. Most relatives asked why? Why you quit your job. I said how tired I was doing it, how much time it consumed with a long hour commute a way, and how low they paid to get my free time. Everyone is like, find a better job. No one seems to understand anymore how great it is doing nothing. At my sabbath I wake up happy, 18 hours after sleep are free to do what I want. I mountain bike, listen music and dance. I eat and my house clean.
When I worked I had no energy to even make myself a food. I was at 5 PM home, just barely working to go groceries next, and then it was a time to sleep...
I feeel this if I successfully find a way to do passive incomes to get more time freedom I’m sharing my success to help tell others about other options I’m still working on it though hopefully it’s successful
This is how I feel. I feel so alone in thinking this way
Try 7-5 or 9-7🥲
i'd rather sleep in my car eating boiled rice then working 9 hours a day...
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How anyone can accept working a 9-5 without feeling every bit of life has been sucked from them is beyond me.... Looking after yourself is so much more important
And how do you do that without money?
@@JJ-ps9xe and that's the problem. For people that feel like a 9 to 5 is soul crushing, feels stuck because they need the income. Its transactional torture. You offer up yourself for money to feel like a robot and then you blink and you are 60 craving to retire.
@@GenevieveMathews-bu4ve Would you do that job for free?
@@erakkovaatainen we're already slaves, it really doesn't matter.
@@rickb06 We are, but I managed to escape. I just commented to someone who then deleted his comment. He said to love his work for every second.
i just hate working in general
Same
Bro same
Boss: GET BACK TO WORK SLAVE, DIDN'T YOU TAKE A SMOKE BREAK 15 hours ago??
Slaveployee: but sir you don't pay me enough to eat at all
Boss: did I ask you to speak?!
*Justifiably kills employer*
lol so direct and too the point bro straight up said I just hate it 😂💯
Same. I hate working
So glad I'm not the only one... life should be about LIVING not wasting our lives away at work :( I get money is important but so is time
exactly... 😥
Gina Marie 🤙🤙🤙🤙🙏🏿 exactlyyy... oh yeah and you are super pretty😎👌
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Why do u think youre working 9-5 its the system. It demands you to do what it tells you
I feel your pain! Sitting in traffic every morning, staring at a screen for 8 hours a day and sitting in traffic again in the evening is majorly soul destroying. Evenings don't really count as time off because they vanish in the blink of an eye and weekends are spent recovering from the monotonous grind of the week. I am well and truly fed up of the rat race.
Yes, most of us are trapped in the rat race, which makes me sick.
i agree my brain is so fried my evenings are wasted doing nothing
I spend my evening lifti weights then take care if baby.
What do you mean by the rat race?
Some of us don't even have the traffic thing, we have the horrors of public transport!
I keep coming back to this video as therapy whenever I have to go back to work. It's a relief someone shares the same struggles as I do. Two days goes by so fast, and I can hardly savor my days off due to chores like cleaning, laundry, and grocery shopping. I feel like I can't do anything for myself anymore, and have been depressed about it lately. I can't even spend time with my family because I'm too tired.
I feel ya, I'm treading going back to my shit hole of a job after this lock down. Sad thing is I kinda got used to it, I had goals and plans. Just feels like I pressed restart button by accident and I didn't save. Fml 😂
Same here. I hate when I speak on the mistreatment in the workplace my con worker just give me a snarky smirk and act like it’s not so bad. I hate it here!
Me to
We all feel the same exact way.
That's a sign that things have to change.
Hopefully you are in a better position now.
I feel like I have no control over my life. The moment I am born...go school....go to university...time to start working.what if I don't wanna do all that. If it was up to me I would just travel the world or do what I want to do all day.There is so much more to living than seeing the same 4 corners of a wall everyday *sigh*
Explore freelancing!! There are a lot of digital nomads on CZcams teaching u how to get started.
Doing whatever you want gets boring and aimless eventually.
Talking from personal experience.
School and University is easy as pie , we just follow the guidelines , but life overall is hard , no guidelines at all , everyone doesn't care about each other. If u lose no one gonna help u :(
@@parfaitcell3067 That's not true.
I feel you. It makes me feel life is more of a burden than bless. I don’t want kids because I don’t want them to have to slave themselves for the rest of life just to make it another days.
I have this same problem. It’s soul crushing. I feel like I just exist and not living. Giving your life to some company everyday who doesn’t care about you isn’t living.
U know I work at a retail store and everyone talks shit about each other I work hard get no thank u's and such its terrible I get no time to myself ever. No ine gives a single crap aboug u here. Backstabbers maniuplaters its not living at all. I'm done.
I wake up at 6 to start work at 9 (90min commute) to finish at 5 to get home around 7ish to then have food shower probably have an hour to myself before I gotta go sleep to wake up again. It's torture the thought of it kills me.
Yep that's the same as me but my commute is a little shorter! The feeling of going home to practically get ready for a day that you've just got in the door from is frightening
@@pyrrhichos it's crazy isn't it. Awful long days that is just spent clock watching either wishing time would speed up or slow down. I don't want another 40 years of this
Sameee :((
@@jazairia1614 it's not worth it, find something better I have now and it's less hours but I'm so much happier!
@@kayellex1369 Wow 90 minutes. I had 60 minutes on two buses and walk. Ridiculous time wasted, I'd accept if travel would be included to work hours, but 10 hours a day? Then you have 8 hours for a sleep. I was left with 6 hours a day for... well. Do something. Go shop food, clean and stuff. I had no energy and no time... I quit my job in 04/2021.
Now I am on sabbath year using my savings. Save save save and live frugally as a minimalist. You can live on one payroll half a year.
why do we still need to work 40+ hour weeks in 2019...
Modern day slavery
@@SH-nx7kc facts
In México are like 50 to 60 hours a week, it feels like hell...
Because the Central Banks and governments are devaluing our currency faster than we can earn it. That is why we are working more than ever!
@@RusskiCommieBot TRUTH!
I keep coming back to this video. Working full-time is not natural
Yep it isn't and the worst thing about it is ur barely free to do anything and even if u have time do something it's never enough time to feel satisfaction atleast from my experience. I'm 29 years old...work full time in retail 6 days in a row or even sometimes 8 in a row. I feel as tho I lost interest in many things...soul destroyed. Spirit destroyed. I plan to leave my job sometime. Can't imagine doing this until I die.
@@kill3rclown690update ? What you end up doing ?
@johnnytsunami3558 I work for an airport now much better and we r actually appreciated for what we do and respected :) I work 5 days a week now and actually have time to do things
This video feels like someone explaining me all the thoughts I had in my mind for the last few years.
Yes!! I feel like I'm going C R A Z Y!!! I hate waking up in the morning and the first feeling that runs through my body EVEN before I get out of bed is " here we go with this shit"
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So real every day I wake up it feels like I'm just stuck like why can't I just live life
I'm the EXACT same way. I've changed jobs, but only to realize that I changed the scenery NOT the situation.
Here comes the new boss; same as the old boss.....
An old colleague put this in a similar way, “…same shit, different toilet”
They always say: "FiNd SoMeThInG yOu LOVE tO Do" yeah, sure
@@OloEopia52 I love sex, eating, reading, exercising and sleeping.
Good luck finding that and doing it 4 hours before bed.
Someone else that gets it. It’s slavery.
Lyana Sarah Maria 🤙🤙🤙
If we are distracted by this system of full time school and then fulltime jobs, we can never rise above and be more. That is the point.
Slavery you are not paid and you don’t choose it. A job you choose and get paid to do.
@@kendrabuttersworth3886 it's slavery in a sense because if you want to be in a home, have plenty of food to eat, be able to get (buy) the things that you will NEED from time to time, then you WILL need a job. - there's no other choice. That's why it CAN be compared to slavery.
@We Are Anonymous slaves were expensive but today's workers are cheaper, if the employer is not ok with him just kick him off and get another one. If the worker is sick or do not have food is his own problem nobody cares. So if you want to eat you have to work even if it depresses you.
the past 14 years i only worked 6 years in several different jobs always fulltime. i hated every second of it. the other 8 years i was and am unemployed. that's the best time of my life. I hate working so much. It feels like not being alive.
@@grueti21 I read your comment and discovered I am the same. thepast 14 years I was employed most of it, however the best times were when I was unemployed couple of months. wondering your feelings in your new job
I hope you find a way to avoid the misery of work. For most work is a dead end that leads nowhere and those who have an open eye find its misery unbearable.
Hey mate, I suggest you learn to trade forex. Good luck to you.
Hey @Glucks how's the new job going that you started a year ago?
Says it all. Governments really need to change shit up
Job isn't 9 till 5, its your life, wake up ,work, repeat , it effects people more than they are aware..
likewise i was suicidal when i was working full time. my mental condition enhanced a lot after reducing my hours to 3-day week. i struggle financially but i am willing to have less money over thinking about how to kill myself all the time. i share your view i can't understand how other people are doing it.
That's how I am. dealing with social anxiety and stress at the same time. It's hard working 8 hrs I'm going to try part time
I have social anxiety too and my last job involved answering phone calls, knowing everything and dealing with assholes I quit that job in two days. Now I'm working part time and have more time for hobbies.
I was very unhappy working lots of too. What was interesting when took a break from work people started questioning asking if okay. They just couldn't get that I wasn't wanting to work.
I have never everrrrrrrr everrrrrrrrrrrrrrr related to a video so much in my 22 years of existence like omggggggggggggg meeeeeee afffffffff
Me tooo😭
Same af
When I use work at a pizzeria made me realize that I hate people and my love of pizza was not absolute.
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Reel Issues fuck that. Pie till I die.
Pies for lives cuzo. Get on dis track
same! 😘 customers can be annoying
my longest job at one place was 3 1/2 years. It felt like 20
Most I did was a year, been at current company for 5 months if it isn't for pandemic I would be certainly interviewing for other jobs
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Credit to you for hanging in there for so long.
@@markwhittaker6866 Lmao facts! I need tips....do tell because I wish I could give a company that type of commitment...I feel like something is wrong with me
Couldn’t agree more. I’m so burned out, and fed up with the routine. 2 days off at the weekend is barely enough to remain sane and there’s not enough time to do everything outside of work. I think it’s complete crap that everyone just goes along with this, acting like it’s fine. It’s BS and it’s a trap.
Stefan I agree that 2 days are not enough at all! 🙂
This capitalist system is made for people who can't chose different. It is made for people who get kids at early 20s so they need fulltime job to support their children and that's why they are stuck. For most of us youngsters we will work but if it's bad we can always quit and find something else to do. We don't have wife and kids so we are not sentenced to work till death. But still it's shit and i hope that one day work will become different so parents can spend more time with their kids and be parts of their lifes everyday not only weekend.
Yes, pretending to everyone you love your job and smiling at work when you just want to do something else...
i like your name Stefan 😘
Were forced into it by companies to make them money, they don't care about their staff, we are just worker bees; they're bound to think that way, they need us , until robots come along; and they'll be pissed off as well..........
sundays are depressing because of this
Yes!! Feeling this right now
I fucking hate sundays
I am unemployed and i love it! I have soo much anxiety from working. I can't see myself working full time
But...... Money.......
@@pyrrhichos I'm saying. I hate working, I want to build myself up, not the CEOs. I need the money though. Still trying to find a way.
@@erehistruth2356 dude i believed in u did u do something g
@@ohnome3154 I'm a woman☺️ but I am in the process of trying to become a film director. It has been tough, but I'm still trying to get there.
. ull be fine gl homes
Honestly, working feels like 8-10 hours of my life were just erased. That's time I could never get back and it's time I couldn't do anything with. It drives me up a wall to no end
My job is so shit and repetitive and boring I can spend 8-10 hours just daydreaming/zoning out. I just think about great books I've read, albums I've listened to and good moments from my past.
@@Mad5am i feel you. I use the time on my job to listen to podcasts and audiobooks. Otherwise I'd just zone out like you
@@AgelessIlluminate I would do that but I'd get told off. No employer can force you to care but they can force you to abide by their rules.
@@helenarichard I already am lmaoooooo. I've done that a while ago
@@AgelessIlluminate Did you work for vacation? Many workers just do that. Work is slavery!
You’re not alone. It’s horrible. Even when I get promotions and raises. I never feel rewarded. Work feels like the twilight zone.
Can we talk about this masterpiece? A video with a person repeating "I can't do this" is the treasure of humanity haha I swear everyone is feeling this way and it's a relief to watch it instead of being bombarded with content about how to be more productive haha
I agree, I'm currently transitioning to part time. I will NOT dedicate my life to build someone else's dream & let my own dreams die.
Working full time succccccccks
Not for men
@@reggie8370 Lots of dudes hate full-time, myself included
Yep it sucks, even for men. The people it doesn't suck for are the sheep, the disposable idiots or the people the like to work or are doing what they love.
Not for men? I'm a man and I absolutely hate my life working a full time job. It's modern day slavery working a shitty job 10-12 hours a day 5 days a week. No one should be comfortable doing this. It's not healthy. Man and women included
Midnightxx what type of job you work for?
Everything you said is pure truth. I feel the exact same way. I have never understood how peoplr are so okay with this kind of life and I hate that everyone supports it. I hate the way things are.
right
Yes.
We are programmed with school system when even kids are doing their 9 to 5. Only few can see, people like you!
@@erakkovaatainen facts
@@erakkovaatainen You're so right !
Having a full-time job is like a death sentence. You're stuck doing the same thing forever. The only way to find happiness and freedom is by becoming self-employed. I don't think I will be able to find happiness because I never have time and energy to focus on my own business. It's over for me. I wish something else takes me.
Self employment is another hell of uncertainity, increased responsibility and lack of security.
I went from working 60 hours a week to working 20 hours a week. Now when I'm not working at my full-time job I spend my time on hobbies, going down to the lake and fishing, just being outside, going on drives, or whatever. It feels so nice just knowing that I can do these things instead of working like a slave so that some asswipe can have it better than they deserve. I feel more alive now and more free. I also don't have s family to care for and my vehicle is paid off I don't pay rent anymore or have a house payment so that really helps.
I don't even have hobbies anymore...
8 hours spent doing anything is torture. There are things that I love to do that I wouldn’t do for 8 hours. You literally have no time (our most valuable resource) to do anything.
Also “salary pay” is a trap. You can get called in at anytime without compensation. Asked to work 10+ hours a day, weekends etc. because you’ve signed a contract that says that your time is not your own.
We should work no more than 4 hours a day.
well said, thank you 🤗
Well said. 8 hours is horrid
Try doing my job. 12 to 14 hours out the house per day
@@tonysoprano9370 that's a slavery not a job.
@@tonysoprano9370 I've been there and it's insane
Wow, the part at the beginning where you said that you feel like no one around you seems to be effected by working full time like you, I felt that in my soul. I always feel like there is something wrong with me because working full time just makes my soul so freaking tired after a while, when I’m reality I’m the one who is normal
I have never ever heard from someone with the exact same mindset as me; the struggle of working full time affecting my mental health, the stressing about work on days off, rounding up the time where it’s literally 4pm on a Sunday and I can’t relax because I know it’s the end of the day. I hope your situation has changed, I’m looking to change my hours to part time however I can’t stand my workplace so hopefully I’ll be out after this quarantine.
I'm fed up with this WHIRLD!
this is a whole entire mood...im 25 and i cant take it anymore I hate working for other people
I care and I understand you. I am 50 years old and I’ve never been able to hold a full-time job except for when I was younger in my 20s. I like part time work otherwise I get depressed and I feel like my whole life is swallowed up by work. I have to be part time. Society designed this for us and we are not designed for it
Fulltime work is slavery. I hate slaving away just to exist. We are forced into this world.
This 100%
i've been working in the same company for 4 years now. i really hated every morning getting up for work. going to work. going home.
the people there are great. the work there isnt very bad. but the thought of senselessly working... and staring at a screen as ur life goes by... i dont wanna live like that
I am in the same boat as you. I feel your pain. It just means we are not brain dead like most people who think a full time job is normal and ok.
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It’s not that people love their job or don’t mind. They may not like it either but they know they have bills and responsibilities that take priority. That’s just being an adult. Remember one thing from here on, life is not what you want to do but what you NEED to do!
@@Essays4College bro then what’s the point of fighting
@@IsureamFalling What do you mean by "fighting?"
@@Essays4Collegeright lmao
I totally understand! We deserve more! I think these jobs get away with it because we live in a consumer society. Constantly consuming and headed to work to pay for debts smh.
Wow, I'm in a rut about my life and I was looking at videos to make me feel better but this has solidified how much I CAN'T work a 9-5 and the people around me just can't understand that.
Yeah, I agree with you. Work has completely ruined my ability to be happy.
THISSSSSSSSS! Some times I WONDER how my parents worked for 30/40 years. WHEN DO WE GET TO LIVE?
I think it was because there was less completion then. You didn’t see people living their bests lives online all the time which makes you feel like crap. So now days you start comparing yourself to them and feeling like the job you doing isn’t enough and that you can do better.
when u retire but except u only prob have 10 to 20 years to live 40 years of ur life r sucked up from working 24/7
You said it very well here... I'm not a lazy person but a human being cannot do that especially for so long on repeat , that explains why there's a lot of mad people
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“EVERY DAY IS LIKe GROUNDHOG DAY.” yessss girl It has been taking a toll on my mental health for the past 6 years.
Waking up at 5 am just to repeat the same thing over again, we can't go to work whenever we want and we have to follow the rules. Fuck that, life is short to waste it making someone else richer.
Honestly, coming from someone who comes in every day, does an insane amount of work and never misses a day...I can't stand it either. It's exhausting. It feels like your life is being taken from you, hour by hour, week by week. Every day, you only get about four hours after work to do what you need to do before you have to do it all again, and weekends are too short. Every day you're stuck with the choice of whether you'll relax and do something fun or just clean so you don't have to be surrounded by your own filth. No matter what you choose it'll bite you in the ass, and just make you more stress when you see the giant mess/realize you did nothing fun. You can have many hobbies and interests, but you never get to sit down and do them. Your job forces you to replicate depression by giving up the things you love and just sitting for eight hours a day.
We were not meant to live like this. Hunter-gatherers only worked four hour days, and spent the rest in leisure. And we should *not* have to live like this. When automation started becoming more common, people thought that the hours people worked would become shorter, but that they'd still have the same weekly take home pay because their employers would still be making the same profits. Instead, CEOs decided to give themselves raises and pay their workers even less, while still giving them long hours, creating our current job crises, and creating this situation where people work themselves to death.
We only live one life, we should be able to do something with it that gives it meaning.
You’re not alone! I’ve had to step out of the work industry for this very reason. We’re not cut out for this type of life.
and that’s ok.
Sad reality. Question what are u doing now?
I agree. I work part-time now and it’s allowed me to focus on youtube and fitness. I’m 23 and there is so much I want to do in the world! Working full-time isn’t for me either!
how long do you work part time and hoe much you earn?
Don't have kids this is do able.
@@hourz I don’t plan on having kids either!! I think that would REALLY help me save ALOT of money if I were to work full time and then switch to part time as I save more money
Currently going through this. No one understands and thinks I’m lazy for not wanting to work a regular job. I want to LIVE, travel, and explore myself. Not stuck in the repetitive cycle of a job.
I don't know why this showed up on my feed, but I REALLY needed this. I've never felt a video so hard in my entire life. Sitting at my 8-5 desk and trying not to cry because YES.
Bless u!! Your purpose will come, I'm still looking for mine! We're in it together sis
pyrrhichos come with me let’s travel the world together I could use some company, my FB is Sarah Grace....
Hey, how're uu doing 3 yrs later?
Today, I cried all day .. :(
@@smf427did things get better for you ?
I just finished watching this video and i've realised that this are just one of the things that people never talk about and its really sad because some people might just start thinking its abnormal for them to feel overwhelmed with that lifestyle (having to work everyday) as everyone seems to be doing it ...
Totally agree. I thought it was just me and wondered why I couldn't work 9 to 5, seeing as everyone else seemed to be able to. Wish I'd seen this video and all the comments years ago.
I feel the same way, and I feel like I’m surrounded by people who love working and can’t imagine not working and it makes no sense to me
When you said “I can’t do the same thing until I’m 25”, girl. I died 😂
I died too because ..I AM 25 and I am still at the same Job
Lmfao I'm 25 too and I just know I need to get a job to maintain myself but I also know that I hate working and a job. Also I've worked for myself for so long that working for someone else with their unreasonable corporate traditions, is a pain in the ass
I haven't even started working that long ago and I already feel like this. I used to have a terrible fucking depression when I was younger, and by the end of high school I got better and kind of became a functioning person again, sometimes I'd have bad moments but overall I was getting through life alright. Since I've started working everything has been going to shit. It's like I've lost so much so quickly. I'm not taking care of myself at all, I'm letting my mental and physical health go down the drain because I'm just too exhausted to do anything, I'll sleep over 8 hours a night and still be tired and then be even sadder because I feel anxious as though I'm wasting the little time I have, and every time I vaguely remind myself of this I want to cry. I lost track of time completely and I barely know when one day ends and the other one begins because I've just numbed myself so badly in order to make time pass faster. I'm quite a creative and sociable person and I have no will to do either those things anymore, I don't want to work on my personal projects or be with my friends or exercise when I get home because I'm just too fucking depressed. There are people at my work who go home and do yoga and write articles and I literally just wanna down a bottle of pills. There is no way I'm gonna keep working these hours throughout my life, I'll make a living with a part time and be happy about it.
I take too once in a while 3mo-6mo jobs and then "quit" even if they want to continue. I save 50 % at least from a salary. If better salary up to 65 %. I live frugally on one paycheck for months, so when I quit I have always money with me. No need to waste your life working. Live FRUGALLY and work only once a year to quit soon.
Did you ever switch to part time ?
full time dose my head in its so repetive .it feels like your there more than home .im 49 years old all the jobs ive had it sends me into depresion and ive walked out of the last 3 jobs or i would have hit someone.
I've been working the same crap job for 11 years. Feels like, I've lost all my opportunities in life.
From experience i can say full time SUCKS you work for the weekend - can't stand the small talk and drama ...insecure bosses showing who's boss...omg...here's the trick - explore your boundaries and push further = recognizing your potential
By the way you are so GORGEOUS ❤
I too am just completely over it. I'm literally in the parking lot of my job seriously debating if I should just go home.
I've done retail work fulltime but the hours were random. Turns out the different hours worked better for me. Now I work an office job 7am to 4:30. Everyday. Can't do anything like go to doctors, dentist, get car fixed, friends, or just about anything during the week. Because no ones open after 5pm weekdays. Only time I have is after 5pm or saturdays. Not even the post office is open then. Its a pain in the ass. It turns out I hate office work and rather go back to retail.. Office work pays better than retail but I had a better life with retail. Much better. In an office I feel trapped inside sitting at a desk. Its stuffy and uncomfirtable. In retail I could walk around..
tocopheryl acetate I’ve just started my job in an office today and spent the whole morning throwing my guts up I hate everything about it, everybody is so fake and the environment is god awful. I still work at my retail job on Saturdays and I wish I didn’t change but I can’t go back to those hours again. I’m now in the same boat I can’t even get a haircut
@@jord9261 hang in there friend..
This is exactly how I feel about working PERIOD, u took the words rt out of my mouth .. and then I see everyone else going to work without a doubt and I'm like 🤪 am I the only one feeling like this, b/c working like this is not LIVING ..
This is exactly how I feel. It is so draining and depressing
Finally someone who gets it, starting next week I’m doing part time. I won’t have a ton of spending money but it will be worth it for my mental sake
That's great! I work part time also but I really feel people judge me for it...thinking I'm stupid for not working fulltime like everyone else.
We are all different people, your brain is probably not wired for this routine, rut and having to work from 9 - 6. I see so many people with the same problems and i myself experience it as well. The thinking about your next work day even on days off part really got to me, i can relate to this so much, to the point where i was counting the hours i have left until i have to sleep and go to work. Some people are meant for greater things, maybe that's why your brain is striking against this shit. I think my job was the biggest contributing factor to my depression and i quit eventually, now im back working and hating it because i only do it for the money, because i have to not because i have any passion for it.
Reality is that that shit is depressing -_- my job has the exact same shift pattern. It's makes its hard to plan anything outside of work
Girl I totally get you! I can’t stand working for others for the very same reason. Makes me depressed and a whole different person MENTALLY. Work for yourself if you’re ready!
You speak truth... i have never related with someone so much in my entire 23 years of pathetic human existence. „I cant do the same stuff every day and then die“ so true, so so true
Girl I can TOTALLY relate, I feel the exact same way. I guess the best we can do is find work that fulfills us and that doesn’t feel like work.
JT yeap. Thats the key. Doing what you are HAPPY doing. this has been my mindset for a longggtime.
"So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love."
1 Corinthians 13:13
"A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who breathes out lies will perish."
Proverbs 19:9
"Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."
John 14:6
"Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called and about which you made the good confession in the presence of many witnesses."
1 Timothy 6:12
@@honeybear200 I don’t understand, it’s like you just randomly put quotes from the bible
@@jello4323 yeah these are always annoying
Unless you started your own business, I don’t feel there are many people that love what they do. It just shifts the responsibility of working too much onto our shoulder. We should love it, then we wouldn’t hate it. NO, we shouldn’t have to work 40 hrs a week to barely survive. It’s not a choice at this point, and it’s soul sucking. I reject this idea of a dream job. It’s the bandaid my boomer parents tell me all the time, and I find it utter bullshit.
Don't let your dreams be dreams
The "8 hour work, 8 hour rest, 8 hour play" hard won by unions is no longer the reality we're living in now. If you communte to work - say 30 mins each way - are granted an unpaid lunch break of 30 mins - that's an hour and a half directly consumed by work or at work. Where does that come from? If you need 8 hours sleep - you're screwed if you need 9 - then the extra work overflow comes out of the "play" or recreation time. This is a conservative estimate that basically leaves very little time (which you also have to use to wash clothes, clean, cook, do the BASIC self care stuff as required by modern life. It is profoundly alarming, but who will listen but the other people who's only comfort in hearing it denounced are the very people who feel trapped in it? And all the while keeping our voices down so as not to be attacked by those who benefit from it, or worse those along side us that see themselves as oneday benefitting from it for themselves.
I'm only literally just 5 days into my first job and I'm already looking forward to either being fired in 2 months or quitting in a year's time. I would rather go work at a farm or something. I could survive on random part time jobs.
become a full time youtuber babey. write a diss track
Lmao
I’m dead 💀
Lmaooo right
aaron p lol 😂😂 write a diss track
This video needs to be put in a vault. Glad to see not everybody is a bot.
on my days off im struggling to get shit cleaned and pressed and ready to work
Finally someone who is like me. I work at full time job at a local clothing store. I look around and see people who do the same thing I do. I don't see why someone can work everyday and do the same shit for 10+ years. I told my parents never. I'm never gonna work for the rest of my life. I would rather do something creative and do something better.
Its torture to be honest. Im living just me and my dad and he has warrants so he cant get a real job so he works moving furniture and gets work periodically and me, being 22, have no other options but to stay at a job i hate and work from 3:30pm to 12 am and when i get off nobody is awake and all the stores are closed. When i wake up at 12, i only have about 2 hours to do anything and 1 hour to get ready for work and be there. Literally NO LIFE!!! Just slaving away!
Damn
I could not relate any more than I do. It is miserable! Every morning my partner and I wake up and wish we could just relax and do things that we actually enjoy instead of work, then when you do have days off, you're too tired to do anything.
By 3pm in Portsmouth it really does feel like the day is done
love this!!
Most feel the same, some dont care, some are to worried to change, so get depressed, life can suck, we are stuck in that RAT race of work, I tell people in the office.. " this is a "modern-day prison " think about it, we have to go in at the same times after the same journey, we are only allowed a break and everyone is clock watching and worried what the boss might think, we are CONTROLLED beyond belief, everyone has so much potential, but most of us do not understand how to break out and use the potential..
lmao , truth 😭
thats why i stopped working and found a sugar daddy
@@thequeen.8811that's what I want. Any suggestions can give to get one?
Same. I think about just ending it a lot because i see no future in a "normal" life. Not because i am depressed or anything but i literaly cannot fathom this world
ugh i completely agree. every second of it i just know we aren't meant to live our lives this way. the fact that we exist to work in jobs we hate, tolerating people that have terrible energy, and still make enough to live well but not enough to follow dreams just seems so unreal to me. im so burned out and fed up i just want to LIVE my life....*small existential crisis*
Girl, you just made my day. I think the EXACT same way, but I have the feeling I can't talk to anyone because no one can relate to me for some reason. I am so relieved someone thinks like me. THANKS
love this video. i know it’s older but it’s perfectly describing what i’m currently going through. have been inspired to cut my hours and work part time because 40 hours a week is absolute hell.
It gives me anxiety thinking about working another 40 years of my life
When I thought of that it scared me.
I've felt this way ever since I got my first full-time job. It literally makes life suck. I don't want to work either but I don't have many talents that I can use to get famous. :(
The Kardashians had no talents either and they made it work...So can you!
@@brittanybreckenridge5503 thank you!
@@angelbabeasmr you're welcome Queen!
Look into Forex Trading.
@@brittanybreckenridge5503 but the Kardashians made a name doing things we probably shouldn’t try to mimic lmao
This was SO refreshing to hear. Bc that’s exactly how I feel, and hearing someone relate, just wow. Thank you. It sucks but I feel like I’m not alone rn on this.
Like Squidward once said, we work for 40 years of our lives at the most and at some point afterwards we die, plus when those 40 or so years are up we’re by then old and can hardly do anything we could’ve done when we were younger but we’re too busy to do thanks to work
Squidward is a real one
This is the most comments I've ever had from a single video and it's bittersweet to see so many people relate and share the same frustration and anxiety that I did in this video. Of course I say bittersweet because it's sad that so many of us are in the same boat, I haven't been able to reply to every comment but I wanted to write this as a bulk way of saying I see ya!
I see all of you and I truly believe we will get there and just because we can't see it doesn't mean there isn't a light at the end of the tunnel! I am so tempted to make an updated video as my life isn't too dissimilar to how it was back in 2018 however I am no longer in retail and have moved onto an office job, and as much as I moaned about my retail job I can confirm this - the grass isn't greener on the other side! Full time is still full time whether you're working on a till or sat behind a screen, I am loving having weekends off but definitely still struggle waking up every working day of the week.
I could go on but mainly wanted to say thank you for all your comments, again I see and hear you all! If I had time I'd make a response/update video but life has picked up and is very busy! But will try hard to get one out.
Take care of yourselves everybody,
Vic
Thank you for the comment. I still return to your video sometimes when I'm feeling overwhelmed . it helps me somehow to know other people are facing the same struggles. I met a wonderful guy recently, but we can't hang out because we are too busy with work , or have other plans and chores to do. I take caffeine pills during the day to stay alert at work , and am experimenting with nicotine- so I am basically a drug addict now.. I still have no idea how I am going to do this for the rest of my life...
Additionally, my landlord just raised my rent by $200 last week due to property tax increases and american dollar inflation . My work wages were only raised 50 cents , which does not help at all ! The cost of living keeps increasing every year , but why can't it decrease? it's 2020 , humans should find a way to decrease costs and give people the freedom they deserve to pursue what makes them happy.
I feel like I'm on a boat that keeps sinking . the rich are at the top of the boat partying while the rest of us are slowly starting to drown. Before the rich get what they deserve, everyone will already be dead, and they will probably have an escape plan. it's unfair...
I just don't know what people are going to do. Every year it seems people are becoming crazier and more desperate . It scares me sometimes when I look at the direction we are heading.
It's a vicious circle... The world is ran by greed and money, yet they try to sell us this freedom bullshit and how we can do what we want with our lives, but truthfully, if I need money, I need to work and everyone absolutely needs money unless they're born under a lucky star... How to be free, not do anything and not need money? Even being homeless you need money to buy food and survive... I don't get it, never will.
We look forward to seeing your 2020 updated video please !!!
@@DMZ4E i will definitely try to make a video next week about the whole thing and will definitely cover this! keep ur eyes and potatoes peeled
@@pyrrhichos hope your playing it safe with this ccp virus
Most people dont wake up and just go with the flow. It’s good to see you have finally seen the truth.
I'm 26 and after years of working full time since I was 18, I refuse to ever do it again. I want to spend my life enjoying it, not dealing with work all the time.
Life is not meant to be working all week long. When you work, you don't have life.
@@erakkovaatainen thank you, needed to read this. Everyone around me working 40+ hours with no money at the end of the week is judging me -_- I have savings and I want to be minimalistic. I don't mind working hard but I don't want to waste away at a job that would replace me in a few days
How I see life is u r born u go to school for 12 years and u either go to college, university or work a full time job retire and than die. Depressing
I used to have days off during the week, then I got a 7:30 - 5 job Mon - Fri thinking it would be nice to have evenings and weekend's off, however I seem to have no time or energy to do anything productive outside of work. I feel like I just survive the week waiting for the weekend to begin.