HOW TO DEAL WITH CHALLENGES IN LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND HOW TO SURVIVE |Interracialcouple
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- čas přidán 20. 11. 2022
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This was most of the things we expirenced during our long distance relationship, even more that we didn't mention, sometimes things happens for a reason and we are so happy because the expirence made us strong and more mature in facing the things in life, however in real life things are way different from what we encountered online, also we are more mature in dealing things that would cause unnecessary drama for no reason. For people thinking that some relationship are more perfect and unique than theirs, There is no relationship with the word perfect, all humans have to deal with alot of things , it requires alot of work , also dont let social media fool you, they are alot of things that happen behind closed doors that people dont bring or show you online all because they want to look so perfect and so unique, the media is fake dont forget that, not all that you see seems to be so, we have to put in effort to make things work, INBETWEEN also know the person if it really worth it, if the love is genuine, if this person is the right person for you, is he or she is putting same energy to make things work or not, only then you have put in much work into the relationship, and please avoid abusive or unhealthy relatioship, i hope you know is the right thing for you.
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Language can be really a big challenge but iam glad he learned English some guys don't want to learn.
Yes language is the most difficult part and I'm also happy he learnt it, to balance a relationship i think both guys and ladies should learn each others language it really help, I think is one of the effort to be made in relationship
Italian men can be so jelousy😃😃
Yes my dear, so jealous 😃
I like to sort through my thoughts, writing them out. Then I can go to my man and respectfully communicate what I need from him or what I didn't appreciate if something he said/did hurt my feelings. I don't like to hold things in longer than 24 hrs. Holding things in, silent treatment, saying hurtful things, raising voice, blocking each other or threatening break up...is not healthy and only builds resentment. Calm yourself (pray, go for a walk, journal), think about about both perspectives, talk, come to agreement/compromise, give hugs/kisses.
Yea, you have a good perspective about it , sometimes not everyone have the patience like you😀, everyone react differently when they are upset, but yes I support the idea of keeping calm, wait some time then talk things out, it really helps a lot , thanks for watching dear ❤️😍
Beautiful love story,LDR is not easy but I know one day my partner and I will overcome it,8months now and still counting,God is our helper
Never give up
I believe this will help all ladies that are in a long distance relationship.Good job to both of you❤️
Thank you so much Bella
Omg this video was really necessary, thank you for this...I can so relate! But seeing you happily carrying on and living your best lives together gives me so much hope that I will go through it with peace too.
I gave up many times and after misunderstanding and he comes in my dms, goes to every extent to bring me back 😄. I'm so grateful that we are growing together and understanding each other more now.
Thank you for sharing this, makes me feel that I'm not alone, and I will keep watching more of these from you to help me build more strength to arrive at our desired destination.
More love from Ghana CHEKSLEA ❤️❤️
I'm so glad
You are welcome love, you are not alone,we are faced the hard days like this thank God we didn't give up, I hope you hold on tight and keep discovering each other everyday, at the end love wins, stay strong and love, we wish you two all the best❤️ much love from us
@@CHEKSLEA aww thank you so much. Yes, I'm happy for you both, and your videos are very inspiring to us too. Thank you very much ❤️❤️
This is very true, I've been dating an Italian man for 8 months, but honestly, long distance could be really difficult. We have faced exactly the same issues and we have blocked each other so many times too but we always come back crying to each other after everything, Lol... We love each other so much and we're getting married next year.😊. Thanks for sharing your experience
Awww so sweet to hear your love story too in a nutshell, we are so happy for you, we wish you two goodluck, and much love from us❤️
@@CHEKSLEA Thanks a lot.☺️
This is so interesting, it's exactly what I have started experiencing already especially language barrier which sometimes results to misunderstanding 😅 but I'm someone who makes up so fast and I hate exchanging words so I always keep silent then network 😅😅😅story for another day, thnx for sharing Chekslea
You are welcome
Just listen to your love story at Bella and it's so encouraging ,love you guys may God bless you and bless your union forever💕
Amen, thanks fir joining us here Gracious, we appreciate you, much love from us❤️❤️
Funny video yet insightful ❤️
Love love this video. You two are so hilarious ❤😊
Thank you for inspiring me.
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This is great video because there is a lot of challenges in long distance relationships but it can work as you guys have shown people
Absolutely!!😊
A new subscriber from Africa Bella your journey has inspired me alots may God continue to bless your home Amen.
Amen, we are happy to have you here, thanks for the kind word❤️❤️
I'm online too, searching it's hard, thanks for your story🥰💪💪 what you talk about IS happen to me and i'm tired😁. From Congo , nice to see you
You got this! Be focus don't worry you will find soon, never loose hope, we wish you goodluck with your search
@@CHEKSLEA thank you so much 🥰🥰🥰
Awesome video, thanks for sharing.💕
You are welcome ❤️
Nice story dear, thanks for sharing 😘
You are welcome ❤️ thanks for watching
Omg this got me thinking because this is the truth…
Yes it wasn't easy for us.. but we face it and fixed ❤️
I’m happy for you
I’m learning from u both❤
Thank you Grace, we are so happy to hear that from you, our pleasure ❤️
Awesome video guys, loved it ❤
Thanks dear ❤️
Glad you enjoyed it!
A very good video, thank you so much. It was very helpful.
We are glad you like it, you are welcome
I'm Always happy to watch you two😍😍
Oh my dear, we are happy and inspired to have you here Mathe, much love from us❤️❤️
@@CHEKSLEA 🥰🥰🥰
italian men and black women always work great
Perfect match ❤️
So true- all answers. Still can't hear him, he needs a microphone. Did you video chat during your dating?
We did video call during our long distance almost all the time
hey guys thanks for this beautiful video. i am in a LDR and its not easy and everything you say is sooo right i have faced these things but we have overcome it. how long did it take for you to say "i love you" and who said it first?
You are so welcome!
Thanks for watching,
It took us 2-3months to before saying It, even though we had It in mind earlier before that, we had known that we love each other but nobody wanted to make the first move,after so long time wesaid it together, but it came from me first.
And you? How long did it take you two to say it?
@@CHEKSLEA we havent said it yet , we are now dating for almost 4 months. we really like each other alot although i feel more than that. we spoke about it and he says that he wont say something he doesnt mean so when hes ready he will say it to me. we will be meeting next year , he is coming to see me. im in south africa and he is in romania.
@@elaineemmanuel9440 don't loose hope or think otherwise, leandro also took me same thing we we started that he will never tell me that he love me on the phone because he feels is not real, he said he will only say it to me in real life but at times goes on after 3 months when he felt love he said it to me without pressure. So relax it will come when he feels like saying it, most especially when he feel it. No pressure and No worries, it's not a problem.
@@CHEKSLEA thank you so much , its not easy to be in a LDR but i can only hope to overcome all these obstacles until we be together. it good to know that others can relate to wat u going through and by you sharing your experience helps so much. please continue to give us more content we love it 😁🙂😅
I met sambia woman she speaks a different language how will it take to learn her language we are getting married how will it effect our marriage
Well, I think the best way to go about it, is to learn the language of the country we two will base after marriage, where both of you will work and other things, that's the most important thing, then afterwards you two need to talk very well about it to know the language that will be suitable for the family
I cn relate that feeling somtimes i feel like giving up😂
😁 never give up
Sis I wanna know how did he start speaking English because I have similar problems like that and he's not even ready to len English at a point I got tired but believe me he's a wonderful guy form Croatian🇭🇷🇭🇷 he still call me tell now but the love is no longer there
Honestly it has to start from the mind, he has to decide if he wants to learn or not only that way it will be easier for you to come in, if he is willing to learn ,then it has be 50/50 he us not learning alone, you also have to learn Croatia as well, you can start learn now to motivate him, sometimes write things in Croatia and also in English that way he is momorising it, or when you guys are talking, you can say some words in Croatia then repeat in English and tell him to say it. But know that it's 50/50, he is not the only one to learn English, you have to learn his language as well. At the end if he loves you that is what matters.
Sis see for me am done so many things which I can't say here..but all I know is that he,s dis kind of a man when you marry him you don't have to think about infidelity in marriage he's very faithful guy but.......the order things like talking to he's sisters or doing everything he's sister says and he's not doing a good job so many things sis I just can't but dis guy loves me so much till as of yesterday hes still keep calling me so I don't know what to do seriously
My sister I met an Italian mafian who's a widow.
We use to talk more often at times but he ghost me for no reason.
I texted him severally but no reply came from his side so I kept on doing that but still no avail.
Now I've deleted his contact from my phone because I don't want to be stressed and I saw it as if I was forcing myself on him so now we have part ways😕
😃😃the italian mafia got me laughing dear, if he ghost you that much i think I don't see a reason you should continue stressing over him, stop sending messages so it doesn't look like you are chassing him, and also so you don't loose yourself in the process of doing that. However you shouldn't have deleted his contact, what you should have done is ignore him and keep your option open, like continue searching for other people till you find the right person then you can delete less important people.
@@CHEKSLEA my sister I've ignored him already o🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣but the sad thing is the number I deleted☹️
But I know that it is well🤧🤧
Block them 😂😂😂
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