Master The Art Of Persuasion with these 22 Questions: Charles Duhigg
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In this episode, Charles Duhigg shares powerful insights into understanding the unspoken desires of others, and how we can foster meaningful connection through communication.
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Charles Duhigg is an American journalist with over 20 years’ experience, and a non-fiction author. He is a Pulitzer prize-winning reporter and the author of best-selling book ‘The Power of Habit’, which spent over three years on New York Times bestseller lists.
In this conversation, Charles discusses the importance of asking deep questions that touch on our values and experiences, allowing individuals to reveal their true intentions and mindset. He reflects on his relationship with his father, underscoring the transformative power of open and honest communication.
Charles discusses the complexities of parent-child dynamics, and Jake and Damian reflect on the challenges of communicating with their own children. Reflecting on his new book, “Supercommunicators”, Charles highlights the importance of understanding the science of human connection to personal and professional success.
This thought-provoking episode explores the transformative power of communication; offering practical strategies to navigate interpersonal relationships in a world that is increasingly disconnected.
0:00 Introduction
0:34 What Is High Performance?
1:49 Hugs, Heard or Help?
3:55 Connecting Deeper
4:52 🚨 Manual
5:54 Relationship Issues
10:20 How To Change Others People’s Habits?
12:59 Who Do You Love Talking To?
16:06 Avoiding Conversation
21:34 Mourning A Loss
24:42 The Netflix Civil War
26:16 Cancel Culture
28:00 Reacting To Stereotypes
32:17 How Should We Talk To Our Kids?
39:51 Asking Difficult Questions
43:07 What Makes You Live Longer?
45:23 The Dangers Of Social Media
50:08 Recruiting The Best Candidates
54:56 Do THIS Next!
57:29 Quick-Fire Questions
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what an incredible and genuine conversation. I almost felt like I was there, that's how engrossed I was in what was being exchanged.
Great video in every way. It was nice to hear more about Charles and his dad's relationship.
I thought that was Rolf Harris at first
Interesting choice in choosing Barack Obama given this man is talking about making connections with people and Barack Obama was the great divider of the country with his rhetoric. I was 17 years old when Barack Obama was elected as president. I am from northern Illinois, and I was such a huge Obama supporter even when he went to the Senate. I just loved the man. As I grew older and moved across the country on my own and turned 22, I saw how Obama's rhetoric in 2014 really caused people where I was at to hate others and bring the social media rhetoric into the mainstream conversation. That was the year my eyes opened and I no longer saw Barack Obama as a great connector of people, but rather a great divider of people. His rhetoric and division is still present in America today. So much so that I now moved to Korea because I don't want my future children to grow up in American society where everyone hates each other and the country is so divided. I live a more peaceful life now too just being away from the constant hatred for others being thrown around in society.
As for Lewis Hamilton, I feel like he knew more of who he was in 2017 than he does now. He was my favorite driver as well. He would always give his interviews and thank God for what he accomplished. He would be so positive and you could feel his genuine love for God and sharing freely with others how God deserved the credit. Then in 2020, he really turned into an activist, and I saw a lot of the same things from Obama in 2014 (Michael Brown) that Lewis would create divides with in 2020 (Bryanna Taylor and George Floyd). He falsely accused Helmut Marko of being a racist on his instagram account to millions of followers, based off of a fabricated sports article Lewis read. When Lewis found out hours later that the article was fake, he deleted the post, but he never publicly apologized and attoned for his role in spreading division even though it was based on a lie. To me that was when I stopped supporting Lewis. A public apology to me would have done a lot at trying to build connections instead of division. Today I think Lewis is more lost than he was back in 2017. He's not doing so well now performance wise, and I would love to see him go back to giving God praise in his interviews even when he is not at the top like when he was in 2017.
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New environment. New friends. New point of views. Less voices from your Illinois choir. Has your political views changed. Where you are democratic in Illinois and you are now living in a more conservative community. Maybe Obama‘s speeches haven’t changed maybe your point of view has.❌❌❌❌❌😎
@@phakeknews9647 I had grown up in a moderately conservative community and moved to very liberal Seattle. The insanity opened up my eyes, but also their political rhetoric and ideology has also gone further left. It's well known that politicians views in the Democrat party have moved drastically left in the past 10-15 years. Millions upon millions of what were then moderates and even liberals then are now voting with more conservative views. The party left them.
@@KBowWow75 you stayed in your comment that it is well known that the Democratic views have drastically gone to the left. Show me the evidence of what is well known because I’ve missed it.
@@phakeknews9647 I cannot show someone what they cannot themselves plainly see. Just look at the voters who have switched their affiliation. If you haven't been paying attention as it has happened, then you need to start by doing your research by looking at the past 15 years and where politicians stand on their views and what they say. A good place to start is their views on the border.
Loneliness can exist when one is by themselves or in a crowd of friends. An introvert or an extrovert could be lonely conversation is really important and I’m constantly working on my ability to converse with other people. Loneliness, I think it’s a state of mind and communication is important but you can be the best salesman in the entire world and you could be lonely. You could be hiking in the desert all by yourself and you can be happy and content.👍👍👍👍👍😎
👍👍👍👍👍😎. Nice video.