Did not expect this crossover but I am so here for it. It's like my bisexual CZcams and PCOS CZcams are friends who know each other and I didn't know this whole time 🥰
Overruled! No specifics regarding dating any other genders were stated in the original contract 🤭 would be my sassy answer (don't answer that if you still depend on your parents for survival) 😅
I teach 13 year olds. One day I overheard one boy say to another boy, “You’re so gay!” He was trying to be insulting. And in the coolest way possible the other boy replied, “Yeah, I am.” The first boy was flabbergasted for a moment and then said, “Oh, that’s cool.” I was so proud of the other boy and I told him so and reminded the first boy that gay is not an insult. What I didn’t tell them was that after that the boy who said he was gay was my favorite. 💕
I like that the boy who used it as an insult was immediately like "oh cool". It's like that saying "your first thought is what you were taught, but your second thought is who you are."
What class do you teach? If reading and writeing. A writeing assignment could be "Who do you look up to? Be anyone from home,Hollywood,other. I know it can be sensative for some or hard. Because of bad home, parent(s)/Guardian and no internet. Might end up with someone saying to their pet or mail man/woman.I remember a cute but sad story of a boy who did a look up story to a tree. Not a normal tree,but a Momosa. One that can grow up huge,and blooms lili flowers. That are white and has semi random puple tear drops set into the petals. He was very descriptive.
@@edgerunner__ It’s so funny on the internet. People will call me gay as an insult, I simply respond with ‘Yeah’. It somehow greatly annoys most the people who try to use gay as an insult. And I love it.
Same, my parents didn't let me date when I was a teenager and now that I'm in my twenties I'm still socially awkward as a young adult around the opposite sex. They're like " why aren't you married yet?" And I'm like " if you let me date when I was a teenager I probably would be! Someone didn't think ahead" 😂😂😂
My entire family is like this oh my god, aaaahhhhh. This is why only my mom and sister know about my second boyfriend. I am 25 years old, it should not be like this.
@@minimariaandthecrew8811 you didnt get your tacos?? i think you should talk to your local branch you may be suitable for a dinner compensation, you still got your ID card dont you?
Had a trans horse, he was born a mare but acted like a stallion and even had fights with the other stallions for the attention of the mares. He wasnt even my first lgbt horse just thought other people would like to know about him.
@@anneliesew4853 the research that I done said that the horse was most likely a intersex. But on the outside he looked female and we did a couple ultrasounds on him because we was trying to breed that individual horse and nothing looked out of the ordinary for a mare.
I thought that I just didn't care if I was dating a boy or a girl when I dated a girl for a year after having literally no interest in the men I was with. when we broke up and I started dating men again I was like 'holy shit these creatures are terrible' and that's the exact moment I realized I was a lesbian.
Lmao, I came out as pan and now I can’t have over “either gender” oh boy, wait till they find out I’ve got a preference for afab non-binary fellows like myself (I’m agender, I’ve also posted about it but neither of them looked or liked my post). Not like I’d wanna bring over my friends/partners, they’d def ask questions they shouldn’t 😰😓😗✌🏻
Having a gay character may not advance the plot, but gay people will now finally have a character they can see themselves into. Which is why they deserve to be represented positively in the media. Same applies for every other marginalized group on Earth.
@@zabbee2323 ikr, I hate romance movies now ( well, I still do like some! ) because it seems that whenever there is a lgbt+ romance movie, it is always so problematic, and I get that they are trying to show that we get a lot of hate, but I just want queer relationships to be normalised!
Hollywood has been adding pointless straight romances with no chemistry for years, so why do people keep asking why things have to be gay? I say that we need more gay- that's the only awnser.
same except for the identifying part. i came out to my classmates a few weeks ago. i'm bi, and a dude thought i'd be kissing random strangers in trains.
This was me until the last two years of school. The last two years were me having to explain that bi doesn't mean lesbian and my bf at the time wasn't there to hide me being lesbian...
Parents: no dating boys Daughter: *dates a girl* Has the same energy as Superhero: stay in the car Civilian told to stay in the car: *crashes into the villain in the car* And that makes me happy :)
I live in Czech republic and the situation with corona isn't looking very well. Some people are protesting about the government actions, they don't want to wear masks. Our schools are closed, we have online classes. I am very worried about my grandparents. You have super calming voice and you are full of positive energy. It honestly made my day much better, so thank you very much Jammie!!
Once my trans pansexual brother and I were playing Among Us together, and someone tried to insult him using the term gay. My brother replied with "Jokes on you, I am gay." The person then left the game and we didn't have any other problems that night. 😂😂
I've created some lore. Anyone who's agender let me know if you like it :3 So, the genderfluids like myself are genderbenders with the power to take peoples' gender away, thus recruiting them for the agenders. If you want to build on the lore pls do 😆🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
Not memes but wholesome and on theme: I live in Scotland. Lately I've been getting ads on CZcams from the Scottish government. There's a whole series of them and each one speaks out against transphobes, homophobes, racists etc. Saying Scotland does not support hate of any kind. I was pretty surprised the first time I saw one but I'm honestly so pleased to see them. Makes me feel really grateful for where I live.
Y’know, I’m writing a story with lots of representation! We have a pan lead, a non-binary character, a lesbian couple, and a lesbian character, and an Asexual character, and a black character! I love to put representation in my stories, the non-binary is also Bi so- hope you enjoy the representation I’ll hopefully publish one day! ☺️
homie if I could keep my excitement and motivation to write stories I'd be writin a story with lots of representation too :') also commenting here incase you like,, ever post it or whatever and talk about it here,, 👀
@@MailMainbutnot “In and out.. I calm down... gathering air in a futile attempt to calm myself. I gather myself and get up,” the main character trying to not have a panic attack.
I don't understand other straights. Some straights: if there is more gay representation in films then more people are going to turn gay! Me: umm … if it really worked like that I don't think gay people would exist. Because by your logic they would have turned straight from watching all of the heteros in films. I hope this makes sense it does in my head. Does this make sense? Edit: love your videos Jammi 🤗. They have taught me a lot
The heterosexual romance that if forced into films is often not necessary to the plot. It just wastes time If a romance is done well it adds a huge amount to the overall experience of the film Eg Captain Jack Harkness and Yano Jones
Well throwing their logic uno reverse card at them in this argument is funny but I don't think it would work on them well since they believe being hetero is natural and can't be influenced. Based off of arguments I've seen work or didn't work that's just my observation and how I use to believe. But yes for the most part makes.👍🏾 sense.😂😅
@@ristyfristy7474 LMAOOO same for me but I'm bisexual, when i start talking about how i like girls with a friend and my (homophobic) mom comes in the room, i just switch it to anime boys/guys in general lol CANT CATCH ME ASSHOLE
I'm a huge fan of The Owl House, and I personally LOVED it when the lesbian relationship between Luz and Amity started! Its so cute!!!! (Kinda off topic I just wanted to mention :) )
Felt this I came out as pan romantic asexual and my mom was like No girls Or boys Or gender neutral humans So in short I haven’t been able to go to any of my friends house since I came out and (COVID-19)
Storytime, one time two people in my class who always bullied me asked me "are you gay?" and I could feel they were trying to make fun of me so I said "no I'm bi" and immediately shut them down. Honestly that was really funny.
Same, I said “well actually, I am pan and non-binary, non-binary means I don’t identify as a specific gender 😄” and then they turned around and said that there are only two genders so 🙂
they don't ask me if I'm gay, they just straight up call me (aro asexual) gay. Trying to rack my brain for comebacks to that one, but most of the popular ones ("I thought we were trying to keep our relationship secret") don't hold much water at my school
@S̾i̾p̾p̾y̾ C̾u̾p̾ it's possible they think I'm so attractive they think that by repeatedly telling me I'm gay, I will delude myself into believing it so I'll go out with them
This reminds me of this one time. It was after I had told my brother I'm genderfluid. He forgot and called me a girl. I got annoyed and he asked if I was angry. I said that I was and he joked "you can't be angry you're a woman." I bursted out laughing and when I corrected him about my gender he felt horrible 🤣
I once had a kid say to me ‘you’re so gay’ I replied with I know, the kids reaction and facial expression was hilarious, definitely a highlight of my day 😂
hi there, i want to preface this question by saying that i am not a cishet, i am a gender questioning aroace. i could you tell me how you can be agender and gay at the same time? by which i mean if you don't have a gender are you only attracted to other agenders, or do you go by assigned at birth sex to label yourself gay? no hate, i understand one is sexual orientation and one is gender (or lack thereof) orientation and i know they are different and not mutually exclusive but i want to know what that means to you anyway thanks so much and please don't be offended by my naivety
@@frogbysachs7559 not op but I got a similar gender situation going on: it essentially boils down to ‘sometimes you don’t identify with either binary gender but you’re attracted to just one’; there isn’t really a vocabulary for that yet, but for me it’s about relating more to the way gay people talk about attraction than straight people, and wanting to align myself with gay communities. Sometimes it’s ‘cause people assume you’re gay without considering your gender and you roll with it. Sometimes it’s just for fun. It DEFINITELY isn’t just about assigned gender at birth, you can be agender and gay for Any gender regardless of that. Hope that helps some!
I was pretty much neutral leaning toward 'shes alright' on a certain tertiary character in Ghost of Tsushima, until it turned out she's bi. And the reveal is so good
I've noticed a trend in British TV/films over the past few years that there's usually some kinda LGBT representation, Either a main character or just a minor character. What's great is it's never over exaggerated or made out to be a big deal, its just normalised and its really nice.
I play an MMO, and one of most peoples’ favorite things is to shout “GAY!” whenever someone does something they perceive as lame or a fail. I’ve taken to saying “It’s 2020, can we get over using gay as an insult, and use appropriate insults, such as COVID-deniers or anti-maskers”
Hey Jamie! Yesterday I came out to my parents and myself as asexual!! I'm so excited and thrilled to realize I've been part of LGBTQIA this entire time, but I've only realized it now! I feel so relieved! :D I FINALLY know where I belong!!!
A cute _gay_ story: I’ve had a bird for a couple years, and decided that it was time for a friend. I made sure to get another boy, so we wouldn’t get baby birds. A couple weeks after we adopted him, I noticed them always being very close together, and it wasn’t long after that I caught them sharing kisses. My mom and I refer to them as the cute gay lovebirds now :)
the transphobes *calls anyone who is trans their born gender* me: *shows them this channel* the transphobes *becomes untransphobic* i know this made no sense and i have no fucking idea where i was going but yeah
My crush asked the purpose of gays and lesbians (he’s also my bff)... I lectured him so hard why they exist and now he knows I am am a very very strong determined ally :)
WHEN IM A TRANS LESBIAN: ME: FAMILY I NEED TO SAY SOMETHING... I LOVE GIRLS... FAMILY: BUT THAT'S STRAIGHT RIGHT? WHY DO YOU CAME OUT? ME: WELL... IM NOT STRAIGHT, IM LESBIAN FAMILY: *SURPRISED PIKACHU**
capslock: exists* you: _"it's free real estate"_ (btw i can absolutely relate, i get a lot of male gender euphoria, and currently identify as bigender. i'm also bisexual, so no matter what way you look it's always gay or "wrong" -my brother.) also ya'll are amazing. you deserve all the hugs.
On a positive note: A few weeks ago I sat in a Bus through Edinburgh and when I looked outside I saw this really cute gay couple holding hands and just walking down the street super confidently and happy... my gay heart just melted
I write stuff with my heterosexual friend and I wanted to have one of the existing characters be bisexual and she was like "Have you ever written a character that's straight?" and I thought about it and... No. I have not.
I've been watching Jamie for years (hoping to transition) and finally got to start hormone therapy a few days ago! Very grateful for all his videos and especially to the comment section peeps :) If you're reading this, you'll get where you wanna be someday
i didnt know transgenders existed till i came across ur channel, they dont teach us about important stuff in school. I am soo sorry and I even want to thank u for enlightening me and letting all of us be a part of ur journey. I love u and shaaba soo much hope u both have a wonderful life
my step dad said to me growing my hair “oh he is going through his hippie phase.” In my head I’m like “oh my God he didn’t get the hint, sh!t I actually have to come out on my birthday”
Lol that "one straight friend" is basically me. I never needed to come out but my friend group is so LGBT that my one friend described me as the "token straight" of the group and honestly I'm down lmao
I love that Jamie knew his gender super easy but had difficulty knowing his sexuality, yet I'm the exact opposite sexuality was easy enough, still went through many labels, but my gender confused me for so much longer
same, same. i know that i'm aroace and only question it before i go to sleep sometimes (because sleepy brains are evil), but i'm not sure whether i'm a girl or not.
They mustn't know Also I just added the gem of Yog-Sothoth (didn't know an omniscient being second only to Azathoth liked jewelry but apparently it's one of its hobbies) to my treasure den
Just curious did you do it by coloring them or how did it work? I'm pan myself and each time I came out people were either disgusted or started crying 😂
There’s a show that’s going to be on Disney+ on October 30 called The Owl House. The main character is a bisexual girl and one of the side characters is a lesbian. Y’all should go watch it!🏳️🌈
the lesbian side character is so fricken obvious she has a crush on the main character it's insane (not saying names for spoiler reasons) Edit: I said "it's insane" twice in a row so instant fix
Yeah, at this point, either have LGBTQ relationships or no romance at all. The forced (heterosexual) romance in every media is already annoying me to know end, so I can't even imagine how it feels for all the ace/aro out there.
Oh boy (just an expression, maybe you're not a boy), it's been a couple of years since I've gone to the movies lol. Also I don't own a TV so gladly I can choose what to watch on the Internet, but yeah so true, it's gotten really annoying and I can't even stand it now. I don't mind when it's well written and for a purpose though
@@laurainathunderstorm Thanks for the consideration, I am actually nb. But any genders are OK merci (though I don't consider "oh boy" to be specifically about boys. No offense here). The movies, the series, the games, it's everywhere. It can work if the characters actually have chemistry. And if they are actually fleshed out. But there's too many exemples when it just feels like they checked the boxes without any second thoughts. At best it's distracting and boring, at worst it's honestly quite offensive (the tackled romantic interest that is seemingly there only to 'reassure" the heterosexual audience. Looking at you Star Wars 9)
I'm ace and I quite enjoy watching (heterosexual) romance, at least if there's chemistry. Maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic (and I like to live vicariously through relationships in media).
I’m ace and I’m so sick of pointless sex scenes and the media sexualizing everything. Like seriously when are people going to understand that a relationship isn’t just about sex. I don’t have a problem with hetero romance as long as it isn’t forced (which most of the time it is :P)
hey jamie, you probably wont see this but if you do, I just wanted to say that im also trans and youve been a massive inspiration for me and youre the whole reason i want to be a youtuber! love you, and thank you :)
3:30 Oh, that reminds me that guy who had lesbian mothers and also came out as straight. His mother told him that at least they both loved girls, so he really is his son.
Hi Jamie, I don't know if you'll see this but I just wanted to thanks to you (and Shaba!) for these chilled, funny videos. I'm non-binary, recently came out to my family who have chosen to ignore me and pretend the conversation never happened. It's left me feeling pretty stressed out and lonely, especially now we're in a second lockdown and these videos are wonderful for me. It's like I get to just hang out with LGBT+ buddies and laugh about gay stuff whenever I like! It might only feel small but you're making a really positive impact on my wellbeing, so thank you both. Love, Sid xxx
Some girls in my class today sayed :" omg that boy was wearing a tally weig(no idea how to write), that's a girls store" and I was just like "CLOTHES👏DO👏NOT✋HAVE👏A👏GENDER!"
My dad: NO BOYS WITHIN 6 INCHES Me: ok Dad: youll follow that rule? Me: yep *proceeds to kiss best friend* Dad: no that's not how you're supposed to play the game
Shouldn't be a problem. The parental obsession with prohibiting cis-het relationships in teens stems from wanting to avoid teen pregnancies. If you're with someone with the same type of reproductive organs as yourself, that won't be an issue. And parents really have no other grounds to get invested in their kids' sex lives. You go right ahead!
Jamie “Baby moose says ‘gay rights’” Me: Yeah, yeah, we all knew that Sam supports the gay, his brother is bi, and is dating a literal angel of the lord named Castiel, and is very much a guy, and his dead sister is gay, and in love with Dorothy from The Wizard of Oz, little did we know Sam has been supporting from birth.
Jamie: *talks about all straight stuff in shows and movies* Me: *watches she-ra reboot and the dragon prince, where you can't throw a cat without hitting a gay couple*
Thanks for watching! Hope you liked the video😊 you can also follow me on insta: instagram.com/jammi.dodger
1 minute in and I already love the video!
you are my favorite youtuber you are so wholesome and kind keep on keeping on!
You're one of my favorite youtubers, and total transition goals.
Never closed the livestream of my country's prime minister announcing lockdown so fast
I learned in English class that the plural of moose is moose
I just love you and this channel. 🥰🥰
Did not expect this crossover but I am so here for it. It's like my bisexual CZcams and PCOS CZcams are friends who know each other and I didn't know this whole time 🥰
💛💛💛
@@TaylorMadeFlicks Same
we love you too, Mama Doctor Jones
not the heroes we deserved, but the heroes we needed
My parents: No dating boys!
Me, a pansexual: *dates a girl*
Parents: You weren't supposed to do that.
i felt this on a personal level-
Loooop hoollle :)
Overruled! No specifics regarding dating any other genders were stated in the original contract 🤭 would be my sassy answer (don't answer that if you still depend on your parents for survival) 😅
Can i make a dad joke about dating a frying pan?
@@ANTSEMUT1 pls no
I teach 13 year olds. One day I overheard one boy say to another boy, “You’re so gay!” He was trying to be insulting. And in the coolest way possible the other boy replied, “Yeah, I am.” The first boy was flabbergasted for a moment and then said, “Oh, that’s cool.”
I was so proud of the other boy and I told him so and reminded the first boy that gay is not an insult. What I didn’t tell them was that after that the boy who said he was gay was my favorite. 💕
I like that the boy who used it as an insult was immediately like "oh cool". It's like that saying "your first thought is what you were taught, but your second thought is who you are."
What class do you teach? If reading and writeing. A writeing assignment could be "Who do you look up to? Be anyone from home,Hollywood,other. I know it can be sensative for some or hard. Because of bad home, parent(s)/Guardian and no internet. Might end up with someone saying to their pet or mail man/woman.I remember a cute but sad story of a boy who did a look up story to a tree. Not a normal tree,but a Momosa. One that can grow up huge,and blooms lili flowers. That are white and has semi random puple tear drops set into the petals. He was very descriptive.
AWWWW THATS MY RESPONSE WHEN PEOPLE SAY YOURE SO GAY IM LIKE: i mean i’m bi sooooooooo
Person calls me gay as insult me says yeh I am. Person that's not how you're supposed to play the game
@@edgerunner__
It’s so funny on the internet.
People will call me gay as an insult, I simply respond with ‘Yeah’.
It somehow greatly annoys most the people who try to use gay as an insult. And I love it.
Enemies to lovers arc as summarised by Jamie:
“Ooh very angry”,,,
“Ooh VERY MARRIED!”
Enemies to lovers speedrun
Someone: What's your agenda?
Me: I'm non-binary; I don't have a "genda"
I love this so much
I made some weird duck sound when reading this lmfao-
XD relatable
Can you be non-binary even if you still just act like a girl but really don’t like the labels and stereotypes that come with it
@@Pearl-rr1op there is zero parameters to being non binary, there’s no need to be a “real nb”, you can be femme or masc, just be you
"you're gay"
"**tearing up** that is the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me"
Ikr OnO' *tears up inside*
Also because gay originally meant like happy or good
Omg Y E S .
TvT Saaame
Now I wish my family fully accepted me
Y E S
“I like apple juice, and cats, and respecting trans people.”
Damn, that *was* relatable
I kinda prefer orange juice, but I'll take it
I prefer dogs, but all pets, respect, and juice is great!
@@river.ate.your.geese. same
@ René
Ye me too 😂
I don’t like apple juice I only like orange juice 😂
Me too, though I prefer cider
Parents: "No dating!"
Also parents: "Where are my grandchildren?"
Same, my parents didn't let me date when I was a teenager and now that I'm in my twenties I'm still socially awkward as a young adult around the opposite sex. They're like " why aren't you married yet?" And I'm like " if you let me date when I was a teenager I probably would be! Someone didn't think ahead" 😂😂😂
Indian parenting in two sentences lmao
My entire family is like this oh my god, aaaahhhhh. This is why only my mom and sister know about my second boyfriend. I am 25 years old, it should not be like this.
Me: Sees the words "gay agenda"
Me: JAMIE DONT SPILL THE TEA IT HAS HINTS OF SECRETSSSSSSSS
my first thought too 😂
no no, relax the guild give him permition
He failed to mention the tacos though.....when I signed up to be a lesbian I was promised tacos were part of the gay agenda.... 🤣
@@minimariaandthecrew8811
you didnt get your tacos??
i think you should talk to your local branch
you may be suitable for a dinner compensation, you still got your ID card dont you?
@@PutoMedicoBrujo well yeah but I was given a bag of ingredients and told that because I'm Mexican I get to make my own tacos. 🤣
Had a trans horse, he was born a mare but acted like a stallion and even had fights with the other stallions for the attention of the mares. He wasnt even my first lgbt horse just thought other people would like to know about him.
Al is Here I love your story
Damn I am around horses a lot and never knew that. I need to do research on this sh*t
@@anneliesew4853 the research that I done said that the horse was most likely a intersex. But on the outside he looked female and we did a couple ultrasounds on him because we was trying to breed that individual horse and nothing looked out of the ordinary for a mare.
That is so stinking cute 🥰
Cute
"My sexuality is 'I don't really care anymore'" yeah I felt that
I thought that I just didn't care if I was dating a boy or a girl when I dated a girl for a year after having literally no interest in the men I was with. when we broke up and I started dating men again I was like 'holy shit these creatures are terrible' and that's the exact moment I realized I was a lesbian.
@@hallway_revenant7919 PFFFFFFT- THATS AMAZING 😂
ITS THE CAT, THE CAT!
Parents “no boyfriends till your 18”
Me “dates a female”
My dads actual words “well technically you didn’t break the rules.”
your dad is awesome!!!
^what they said. Sounds like and awesome dad
Wow- yea. Wish my dad was like that . . .
Lmao, I came out as pan and now I can’t have over “either gender” oh boy, wait till they find out I’ve got a preference for afab non-binary fellows like myself (I’m agender, I’ve also posted about it but neither of them looked or liked my post). Not like I’d wanna bring over my friends/partners, they’d def ask questions they shouldn’t 😰😓😗✌🏻
@@indigotrails353 hey I'm agender as well!
Gay Agenda: Exist without being discriminated against.
that gets my unnecessary cishet approval
Yes, I like that. Put it in the latest revision of the agenda and send it out to everyone on the mailing list. 🌈
@@my_name_is_bee They sell _rainbow_ glitter? Now I need a unless notebook covered in rainbow glitter.
@@-Solidwater yeah, it's called holo (short for holographic) it reflects all the colors of the rainbow, and it can also come in different colors.
I'm definitely replacing "Hi mom, I'm back" with "Hello parental unit, it is I"
During pride i found a planner at Barnes and Noble and it was called ‘The Gay Agenda.’ I find this hilarious
Barnes and Noble is our spawning ground
I JUST SAW THAT TODAY AND I WANTED TO BUY IT
i want that
I saw one that somebody had bought called the agender agenda 😂
Mom: *t h e t a l k*
Me, asexual: *stressed “never gonna do that lol” asexual noises*
me a trans gal: stessed "never wanna do that because dysphoria" trans noises
me who thinks they’re on the asexual spectrum: *confused “maybe im gonna do that prob not tho” noises*
R E L A T A B L E.
Also
my mom: the talk
me: quiet sudden deafness, the occasional ok and no
My mum talking to me and my sister about our future boyfriends:
My sister: *lesbian silence*
Me: *ace silence*
@Louan von Blottnitz thank you
“What purpose does them being gay serve the plot?”
What purpose would them being straight serve the plot?
Fucking uno reverse card
Having a gay character may not advance the plot, but gay people will now finally have a character they can see themselves into. Which is why they deserve to be represented positively in the media. Same applies for every other marginalized group on Earth.
@@zabbee2323 ikr, I hate romance movies now ( well, I still do like some! ) because it seems that whenever there is a lgbt+ romance movie, it is always so problematic, and I get that they are trying to show that we get a lot of hate, but I just want queer relationships to be normalised!
Hollywood has been adding pointless straight romances with no chemistry for years, so why do people keep asking why things have to be gay? I say that we need more gay- that's the only awnser.
Precisely
Entering my homophobic class like: Hello fellow heteros
same except for the identifying part.
i came out to my classmates a few weeks ago.
i'm bi, and a dude thought i'd be kissing random strangers in trains.
Lmao
This was me until the last two years of school. The last two years were me having to explain that bi doesn't mean lesbian and my bf at the time wasn't there to hide me being lesbian...
I used to identify as pan and I always got comments like "so you're bi?" and "You like to f@$k horses?"
Moved recently and am now an accepted ace nbee
@@template9360 this is the best biphobia I've ever tasted
Parents: no dating boys
Daughter: *dates a girl*
Has the same energy as
Superhero: stay in the car
Civilian told to stay in the car: *crashes into the villain in the car*
And that makes me happy :)
Lol! Now I need to see that in a comic 🤣
I live in Czech republic and the situation with corona isn't looking very well. Some people are protesting about the government actions, they don't want to wear masks. Our schools are closed, we have online classes. I am very worried about my grandparents. You have super calming voice and you are full of positive energy. It honestly made my day much better, so thank you very much Jammie!!
me: reads the title
JAMIE DONT TELL THE CISHETS OUR SECRETS
Don't worry, only those already in the know will watch this video.
Mwahaha, I, a cishet, have learnt the forbidden secrets...
We must meet on tuesday for tacos and trans-pro pizza and discuss his behavior!!
**Screams in Panromantic Demisexual Transgender boi**
Ahh, the only cishets who will see it are supporters anyway. We're here for you.
things to normalize:
girls hugging romantically
girls hugging platonically
boys hugging romantically
boys hugging platonically
girl/boy hugging romantically
girl/boy hugging platonically
nbs hugging romantically
nbs hugging platonically
nb/boy hugging romantically
nb/boy hugging platonically
nb/girl hugging romantically
nb/girl hugging platonically
overall people being affectionate both romantically and platonically!
Normalise HUGS
Except in times of social distancing, y'all should be doing long-distance hugs
YES! Normalize abundant hugging for any reason! ❤️
@@allymog5228
virtual hugging for when you cant be together physically due to distance or circumstance
girl/boy hugging romantically is already normalized, and so is girl/girl platonically tho
TLDR: more hugs
Once my trans pansexual brother and I were playing Among Us together, and someone tried to insult him using the term gay. My brother replied with "Jokes on you, I am gay." The person then left the game and we didn't have any other problems that night. 😂😂
Someone: what's your gender? You're trans!? What's your agenda?
Me an Agender person: I don't have a genda =3
No, you just simply don't exist. Just like bisexuals and asexuals and apparently my joy friend who is pan. Lol.
Agender or Agenda
Me: YES
I've created some lore. Anyone who's agender let me know if you like it :3 So, the genderfluids like myself are genderbenders with the power to take peoples' gender away, thus recruiting them for the agenders.
If you want to build on the lore pls do 😆🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
Not memes but wholesome and on theme:
I live in Scotland. Lately I've been getting ads on CZcams from the Scottish government. There's a whole series of them and each one speaks out against transphobes, homophobes, racists etc. Saying Scotland does not support hate of any kind.
I was pretty surprised the first time I saw one but I'm honestly so pleased to see them. Makes me feel really grateful for where I live.
I'm coming to Scotland
Me too
I'm in Scotland and I haven't seen these. :( Need to
@@RileyRayH haven't seen one in a little while but they were great
scottish people are so chad
my parents said "no dating boys until you're 18 and no dating girls while you're under our roof" so I dated a nonbinary person✨
Wow, that's anti-system on another level 😂 nice
Best move EVER !
YESSS
Smart
Big brain
"did the plot need a gay relationship" and to that i say, Did it need a relationship at all?? please let us have nice things
I also define my sexuality as "I don't care anymore"
Same for my gender
*sad eating bread in the closet noises*
Our secret is out there's no going back.
Just like I am.
just realized we have almost the same name I-
at least they don't know about the werewolf rituals
@@pannacottafUWUgo Now they do
For now on it shall be known as the Gayble the 2020 version of the Bible
@@honey-badger well crap.
my bad
"That's a lot of juice for one little kitty cat."
I will LIVE by this quote from now on; THANK YOU, JAMIE
@Swan Peacock yeah he'll be gettin diabetes or smth
“My sexuality has just been” [vague handwave] “I don’t really care anymore.”
I HAVE NEVER FELT SO CLEARLY AND VIVIDLY REPRESENTED IN MY LIFE
Y’know, I’m writing a story with lots of representation! We have a pan lead, a non-binary character, a lesbian couple, and a lesbian character, and an Asexual character, and a black character! I love to put representation in my stories, the non-binary is also Bi so- hope you enjoy the representation I’ll hopefully publish one day! ☺️
Could you comment a line in the story (so far) you are most proud of?
homie if I could keep my excitement and motivation to write stories I'd be writin a story with lots of representation too :')
also commenting here incase you like,, ever post it or whatever and talk about it here,, 👀
As a writer and freelance editor myself, good luck.
@@MailMainbutnot “In and out.. I calm down... gathering air in a futile attempt to calm myself. I gather myself and get up,” the main character trying to not have a panic attack.
@@June_isYourFriend nice
Person: so, you like boys or girls?
Me, a bisexual: YES
This is such a mood lol
Mood
@@Av1t3o Polysexuals: I AM FOUR PARALLEL UNIVERSES AHEAD OF YOU
@@frozenweevil4022 damn, I guess us pansexual are no match for you 😓
same
I don't understand other straights.
Some straights: if there is more gay representation in films then more people are going to turn gay!
Me: umm … if it really worked like that I don't think gay people would exist. Because by your logic they would have turned straight from watching all of the heteros in films.
I hope this makes sense it does in my head. Does this make sense?
Edit: love your videos Jammi 🤗. They have taught me a lot
Yes, that's so clever! I love it 😂😂
Yes it does make a lot of sense and I've been trying to tell people this many times
It makes a lot of sense! I'm gonna use that when people try saying gay representation is bad XD
The heterosexual romance that if forced into films is often not necessary to the plot. It just wastes time
If a romance is done well it adds a huge amount to the overall experience of the film
Eg Captain Jack Harkness and Yano Jones
Well throwing their logic uno reverse card at them in this argument is funny but I don't think it would work on them well since they believe being hetero is natural and can't be influenced. Based off of arguments I've seen work or didn't work that's just my observation and how I use to believe.
But yes for the most part makes.👍🏾 sense.😂😅
Someone * tries to misgender me *
Me: * uses all pronouns *
Someone: *Surprised pikachu face*
i hate it when people do that
The fact that I wear a she/her badge, homophobes look at it and say he/him.
jokes on them I am gender fluid 😤👏
@@ristyfristy7474 LMAOOO same for me but I'm bisexual, when i start talking about how i like girls with a friend and my (homophobic) mom comes in the room, i just switch it to anime boys/guys in general lol CANT CATCH ME ASSHOLE
@@misschivous6435 BAHAHAH YOU'RE SMART I'll keep that in mind for when I'm in school
@@ristyfristy7474 thank you lol, it also comes in handy when i had to explain my type in guys to my mom to convince I'm straight
I'm a huge fan of The Owl House, and I personally LOVED it when the lesbian relationship between Luz and Amity started! Its so cute!!!! (Kinda off topic I just wanted to mention :) )
My parents: no dating anyone until your 18
Me: *Maniacally laughs in aro ace*
Yeah, I wish I had known about this stuff when I was younger. My life makes so much more sense now!
oH THATS THE BEST PLOT TWIST EVER
SHDUSDFSDF I THOUGHT THE SAME THING
SAME
me, a asexual and grayromantic (just realized i’m not arospike but actually grayromantic): same, but i AM 18
My Mom: No boyfriends, girlfriends, or partners till you’re 18.
Me: well shoot
This isn’t my partner it’s just my friend I slept with
Lmao my parents said until 30 there’s no way I’m waiting that long.
Me: **an asexual** ok
My parents say me that I can't have boyfriends til i'm 40 but they didn't say anything about non-binary partners lmao
Felt this I came out as pan romantic asexual and my mom was like
No girls
Or boys
Or gender neutral humans
So in short I haven’t been able to go to any of my friends house since I came out and (COVID-19)
Ok, so my school’s music room is a closet, so my gay self is like: well, back in the closet I am.
“that’s a lotta juice for one little kitty cat” oh my god you are so wholesome
Storytime, one time two people in my class who always bullied me asked me "are you gay?" and I could feel they were trying to make fun of me so I said "no I'm bi" and immediately shut them down. Honestly that was really funny.
here take my like, you deserve it
Same, I said “well actually, I am pan and non-binary, non-binary means I don’t identify as a specific gender 😄” and then they turned around and said that there are only two genders so 🙂
they don't ask me if I'm gay, they just straight up call me (aro asexual) gay. Trying to rack my brain for comebacks to that one, but most of the popular ones ("I thought we were trying to keep our relationship secret") don't hold much water at my school
@S̾i̾p̾p̾y̾ C̾u̾p̾ it's possible they think I'm so attractive they think that by repeatedly telling me I'm gay, I will delude myself into believing it so I'll go out with them
@S̾i̾p̾p̾y̾ C̾u̾p̾ what?
*That awkward moment when somebody says to me “There’s no way you’re a girl” as an insult and deep down I am thinking “Well, you’re not wrong.”*
This reminds me of this one time. It was after I had told my brother I'm genderfluid. He forgot and called me a girl. I got annoyed and he asked if I was angry. I said that I was and he joked "you can't be angry you're a woman." I bursted out laughing and when I corrected him about my gender he felt horrible 🤣
I’m straight and cis and some of these I can actually relate to, like the cat drinking the respect juices
I was having a rough day but once Jamie's cat appeared on screen I got the biggest grin
I am not part of the lgbtq+ community but I love and support them so much!
❤️
Awwwe! Thank u!
U my friend now
i thought the same thing when i got to know about lgbtq+.
then i got to know more about myself, and now here i am
We love a good ally.
Jamie: cuffing jeans is gay
Me, a TALL bi: yeah, I wish, but if I cuff my jeans, I'll freeze to death
Add boots?
@@aubreyackermann8432 shoes are expensive
Ok, but here me out: cuff your jeans and wear long socks with patterns. Double gay
I am short and in these cases I add long socks but I’m still cold. it doesn’t work for me.
I once had a kid say to me ‘you’re so gay’ I replied with I know, the kids reaction and facial expression was hilarious, definitely a highlight of my day 😂
“That’s a lotta juice for one little kitty cat”
So adorable
It's me, I'm the gay Agender.
Eyy, an agenda thats out.
👏👏👏👏👏
Impressive
hi there, i want to preface this question by saying that i am not a cishet, i am a gender questioning aroace. i could you tell me how you can be agender and gay at the same time? by which i mean if you don't have a gender are you only attracted to other agenders, or do you go by assigned at birth sex to label yourself gay? no hate, i understand one is sexual orientation and one is gender (or lack thereof) orientation and i know they are different and not mutually exclusive but i want to know what that means to you anyway thanks so much and please don't be offended by my naivety
@@frogbysachs7559 not op but I got a similar gender situation going on: it essentially boils down to ‘sometimes you don’t identify with either binary gender but you’re attracted to just one’; there isn’t really a vocabulary for that yet, but for me it’s about relating more to the way gay people talk about attraction than straight people, and wanting to align myself with gay communities. Sometimes it’s ‘cause people assume you’re gay without considering your gender and you roll with it. Sometimes it’s just for fun. It DEFINITELY isn’t just about assigned gender at birth, you can be agender and gay for Any gender regardless of that. Hope that helps some!
*Movie is released*
*Me not caring*
Writers clearing up confusion on Twitter: Yes those two characters are gay.
Me: Shut up and take my money!
literally me
I was pretty much neutral leaning toward 'shes alright' on a certain tertiary character in Ghost of Tsushima, until it turned out she's bi. And the reveal is so good
The lack of representation shows
@@pissfrog wait who?! must know!
I've noticed a trend in British TV/films over the past few years that there's usually some kinda LGBT representation, Either a main character or just a minor character. What's great is it's never over exaggerated or made out to be a big deal, its just normalised and its really nice.
6:21 "I just don't care anymore" this is such a mood
I play an MMO, and one of most peoples’ favorite things is to shout “GAY!” whenever someone does something they perceive as lame or a fail.
I’ve taken to saying “It’s 2020, can we get over using gay as an insult, and use appropriate insults, such as COVID-deniers or anti-maskers”
Ikr
@@red_echo_panda you are so welcome!
well it doesnt really works as well is gay, the charm isnt there yknow
Hey Jamie! Yesterday I came out to my parents and myself as asexual!! I'm so excited and thrilled to realize I've been part of LGBTQIA this entire time, but I've only realized it now! I feel so relieved! :D I FINALLY know where I belong!!!
good job!!!!! as a fellow ace i am so proud :)
Is it weird if I do the "One of us, one of us" chant in an affirming way?
@@red_echo_panda yes
Wow... you came out to your parents? What’s that like? I have yet to do that
@@anneliesew4853 I have come out as bi and it depends if your parents support it or are homophobic
A cute _gay_ story:
I’ve had a bird for a couple years, and decided that it was time for a friend. I made sure to get another boy, so we wouldn’t get baby birds. A couple weeks after we adopted him, I noticed them always being very close together, and it wasn’t long after that I caught them sharing kisses. My mom and I refer to them as the cute gay lovebirds now :)
"It just wants to exist!"
God, what a mood
Nobody:
Actually no one:
Jamie: moose, moosey? Meeses? Moosies?
English: one moose, two moose
Ojibwe: bezhig mooz, niizh moozoog
@@davidcheater4188 Miigwech! Anishnaabemdaa/ ojibwemodaa pane! 🥰
Thank you! Let's always speak Ojibwe!
Definitely moosies. Too cute!
Also him: Dove, diven dived?
What is the actual plural of moose? Is it just moose? I'd love for it to be meese😂
'kill homophobia with cuteness', said the most adorable bi man in the world
the transphobes *calls anyone who is trans their born gender*
me: *shows them this channel*
the transphobes *becomes untransphobic*
i know this made no sense and i have no fucking idea where i was going but yeah
@@user-bq6lc1hk7e well neither do the transphobes so i think u are ready for the war
My crush asked the purpose of gays and lesbians (he’s also my bff)...
I lectured him so hard why they exist and now he knows I am am a very very strong determined ally :)
Mom: So when are you getting me some grandkids?
Me: No (laughs in ace)
WHEN IM A TRANS LESBIAN:
ME: FAMILY I NEED TO SAY SOMETHING... I LOVE GIRLS...
FAMILY: BUT THAT'S STRAIGHT RIGHT? WHY DO YOU CAME OUT?
ME: WELL... IM NOT STRAIGHT, IM LESBIAN
FAMILY:
*SURPRISED PIKACHU**
Relatable, but for me is gay XD
Same
capslock: exists*
you: _"it's free real estate"_
(btw i can absolutely relate, i get a lot of male gender euphoria, and currently identify as bigender. i'm also bisexual, so no matter what way you look it's always gay or "wrong" -my brother.)
also
ya'll are amazing. you deserve all the hugs.
@@jennifervercezes JHK same lmao
@@template9360
YEAH I LOVE THE CAPSLOCK UwU
last time I was this early I thought I was straight
Lmao
Last time I thought I wasn’t a lesbian.
last time I thought I was cis
@@nicholascardi4096 me too
On a positive note:
A few weeks ago I sat in a Bus through Edinburgh and when I looked outside I saw this really cute gay couple holding hands and just walking down the street super confidently and happy... my gay heart just melted
"that is the agenda, it just wants to exist." bit of a raw line. that sort of really is the actual agenda isnt it
My entire sexuality and gender identity was in the misinterpreted by the media meme😂 (asexual, biromantic, and non-binary)
@@sadie2287 it’s the same thing as bisexual but there is no sexual attraction, it’s all romantic attraction.
Not to worry when you enter haven there wil be now such thing as misrepresentation
@@cloudpaeshuyse8070 Thank you Jesus.
@@cloudpaeshuyse8070 thank you ☺️
@@cloudpaeshuyse8070 don't you mean heaven?
Jamie struggling to say moose plural makes my day more wholesome
I have never seen such a wholesome man in my entire life. I swear. How is this possible?
**gasps** NO JAMIE DONT REVEAL THE AGENDA
*_N o J a m i e_*
NO LET THEM COME OUT ON THEIR OWN!
I write stuff with my heterosexual friend and I wanted to have one of the existing characters be bisexual and she was like "Have you ever written a character that's straight?" and I thought about it and... No. I have not.
I don't gotta worry about that. I'm bisexual!!! I write both and love them both!!!
I’m straight and I write hetero and lgbtq characters :^)
I have like 3 straight characters
bisexual’s parents after they come out:
okay well now you can’t hang out with boys or girls
**starts dating non-binary person**
Parents:👁👄👁
@@maybelater2089 Hey, that's what I did!
I've been watching Jamie for years (hoping to transition) and finally got to start hormone therapy a few days ago! Very grateful for all his videos and especially to the comment section peeps :) If you're reading this, you'll get where you wanna be someday
Jamie's confusion about the plural for moose is the wholesome content I needed today.
Been having a bad few days due to dysphoria, jerks and my elderly cat being ill.. this video is making me smile, thanks Jamie
Take good care of yourself and your kitty!
I hope you're gradually feeling better, I'm not very good with comforting people but I'm sending hugs and lots of love and appreciation ❤️❤️♥️💓
I , too have an ill elderly cat. Get well, soon. From my cat to yours.
I hope you and your cat are doing better
i didnt know transgenders existed till i came across ur channel, they dont teach us about important stuff in school. I am soo sorry and I even want to thank u for enlightening me and letting all of us be a part of ur journey. I love u and shaaba soo much hope u both have a wonderful life
7:23 The Percy Jackson fandom after *that* part in House Of Hades:
my step dad said to me growing my hair “oh he is going through his hippie phase.” In my head I’m like “oh my God he didn’t get the hint, sh!t I actually have to come out on my birthday”
If he said that, don't tell him. He is one of... them.... *The Straights*
My dad: "No calling boys on the Alexa!"
Me a lesbian: "Ok"
The way Jamie turned to the camare and said "I also like cats" and the makeup is gender neutral train story is awwwwesome
Lol that "one straight friend" is basically me. I never needed to come out but my friend group is so LGBT that my one friend described me as the "token straight" of the group and honestly I'm down lmao
I love that Jamie knew his gender super easy but had difficulty knowing his sexuality, yet I'm the exact opposite sexuality was easy enough, still went through many labels, but my gender confused me for so much longer
Me too. I'm 38 and still struggling to find the labels that feel right
same, same. i know that i'm aroace and only question it before i go to sleep sometimes (because sleepy brains are evil), but i'm not sure whether i'm a girl or not.
@@frogbysachs7559 legit, I'm like "Right, I feel nothing for people. But what do I feel about myself?"
same
@@frogbysachs7559 You are literally me right now
phew i thought you were gonna reveal that bisexuals are actually dragons-
i've said too much.
WHAT HAVE YOU DONE
If my parents find out!!!
NO- anyways cookout at my den, tell the pans to bring uno cards
Shhhhh
They mustn't know
Also I just added the gem of Yog-Sothoth (didn't know an omniscient being second only to Azathoth liked jewelry but apparently it's one of its hobbies) to my treasure den
Finally a place where I won’t be mocked for being gay
"That's a lot of juice for one little kitty-cat." 0:36
Best quote ever
"Forget Spider-Cat. Rainbow-Cat"
My question to you, Sir, is this: Why not both?
Spider-Rainbow-Cat sounds pretty damn good to me! :)
I should draw that
*Y E S*
I was scrolling the comments and happened upon this one at the exact moment he said it
4:22
me, who outed herself as Pan with pancakes: "damn i should've posted it"
How did it go? Sorry for asking I understand if you don’t want to say.
Just curious did you do it by coloring them or how did it work? I'm pan myself and each time I came out people were either disgusted or started crying 😂
@@Piti_Pingu i separated the batter in three Container and added pink, blue and yellow food coloring to each of them
@@toastandbutter7367 uhh I'm not sure if they understood it, but otherwise it went really well ^^
@@zatanfromhell7718 Well, that’s good.
How can anyone hate a wholesome vibe like the one you give in your videos ?
Nobody:
Not a soul:
Jamie: I like apple juice
There’s a show that’s going to be on Disney+ on October 30 called The Owl House. The main character is a bisexual girl and one of the side characters is a lesbian. Y’all should go watch it!🏳️🌈
@Mia Smith Thanks! Is the show on Netflix?
the lesbian side character is so fricken obvious she has a crush on the main character it's insane (not saying names for spoiler reasons)
Edit: I said "it's insane" twice in a row so instant fix
And on she-ra the main character is lesbian and so is her best friend
@@deadinsideee9313 like half the characters are gay
@Louan von Blottnitz yeah! it's one of my favorite ships!
Yeah, at this point, either have LGBTQ relationships or no romance at all.
The forced (heterosexual) romance in every media is already annoying me to know end, so I can't even imagine how it feels for all the ace/aro out there.
whY IS EVERYTHING ROMANTICCCC
Oh boy (just an expression, maybe you're not a boy), it's been a couple of years since I've gone to the movies lol. Also I don't own a TV so gladly I can choose what to watch on the Internet, but yeah so true, it's gotten really annoying and I can't even stand it now. I don't mind when it's well written and for a purpose though
@@laurainathunderstorm Thanks for the consideration, I am actually nb. But any genders are OK merci (though I don't consider "oh boy" to be specifically about boys. No offense here).
The movies, the series, the games, it's everywhere.
It can work if the characters actually have chemistry.
And if they are actually fleshed out.
But there's too many exemples when it just feels like they checked the boxes without any second thoughts.
At best it's distracting and boring, at worst it's honestly quite offensive (the tackled romantic interest that is seemingly there only to 'reassure" the heterosexual audience.
Looking at you Star Wars 9)
I'm ace and I quite enjoy watching (heterosexual) romance, at least if there's chemistry. Maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic (and I like to live vicariously through relationships in media).
I’m ace and I’m so sick of pointless sex scenes and the media sexualizing everything. Like seriously when are people going to understand that a relationship isn’t just about sex. I don’t have a problem with hetero romance as long as it isn’t forced (which most of the time it is :P)
I was having a rough day but then the meme called me a cute ange, so I’m feeling better.
hey jamie, you probably wont see this but if you do, I just wanted to say that im also trans and youve been a massive inspiration for me and youre the whole reason i want to be a youtuber!
love you, and thank you :)
3:30 Oh, that reminds me that guy who had lesbian mothers and also came out as straight.
His mother told him that at least they both loved girls, so he really is his son.
Mario says "trans a-gender!"
Not going to lie I read that in his voice.
@@kiragoldberg48 I wrote it in his voice
Hi Jamie, I don't know if you'll see this but I just wanted to thanks to you (and Shaba!) for these chilled, funny videos. I'm non-binary, recently came out to my family who have chosen to ignore me and pretend the conversation never happened. It's left me feeling pretty stressed out and lonely, especially now we're in a second lockdown and these videos are wonderful for me. It's like I get to just hang out with LGBT+ buddies and laugh about gay stuff whenever I like! It might only feel small but you're making a really positive impact on my wellbeing, so thank you both. Love, Sid xxx
Some girls in my class today sayed :" omg that boy was wearing a tally weig(no idea how to write), that's a girls store" and I was just like "CLOTHES👏DO👏NOT✋HAVE👏A👏GENDER!"
My dad: NO BOYS WITHIN 6 INCHES
Me: ok
Dad: youll follow that rule?
Me: yep *proceeds to kiss best friend*
Dad: no that's not how you're supposed to play the game
The game was riged from the start.
Shouldn't be a problem. The parental obsession with prohibiting cis-het relationships in teens stems from wanting to avoid teen pregnancies. If you're with someone with the same type of reproductive organs as yourself, that won't be an issue.
And parents really have no other grounds to get invested in their kids' sex lives. You go right ahead!
@@petrfedor1851 TWO TO THE SKULL, BUT ONE GETS UP
Jamie “Baby moose says ‘gay rights’”
Me: Yeah, yeah, we all knew that Sam supports the gay, his brother is bi, and is dating a literal angel of the lord named Castiel, and is very much a guy, and his dead sister is gay, and in love with Dorothy from The Wizard of Oz, little did we know Sam has been supporting from birth.
I like. You
@@PhoenixMilk you like Supernatural, so I like you too.
@@leoyori9829 why thank you. I have only watched to the 4th season but it's my favorite show so far
Bahaha. The Supernatural Family, we are everywhere!!
YES
He seems so lively in this vid!
Jamie: *talks about all straight stuff in shows and movies*
Me: *watches she-ra reboot and the dragon prince, where you can't throw a cat without hitting a gay couple*