Colin Firth reads Antoine Leiris' letter to his wife’s killers

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  • čas přidán 20. 09. 2017
  • In November 2015, French journalist Antoine Leiris lost his wife, Helene Muyal, when gunmen opened fire at the Bataclan theatre in Paris, killing her and 86 other people. Days later, Antoine wrote an open letter to his wife’s killers.
    Read by Colin Firth on Friday 14th July 2017 at Union Chapel, London.
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  • @crafteariee
    @crafteariee Před rokem +55

    I've always thought of that powerful phrase, "I will not give you the gift of hating you" born of heartbreak in these last 5 years and Antoine's letter is just as strong as when I had first heard it back then as I do again here now. I hope that father and his son are living well.

  • @julierogers1155
    @julierogers1155 Před 3 lety +299

    Five years later I am just now hearing (& about) this letter for the first time. Brilliant, and brutal. Love to you, Antoine Leiris, and your son. Love, also, to you, Helene Muyal. Thank you, Mr. Firth, for the reading.

    • @anneleenschwartz4937
      @anneleenschwartz4937 Před 3 lety +6

      Right on. My 1st feeling as well

    • @MariaCarabin
      @MariaCarabin Před 2 lety +3

      Antoine made an amazing documentary. It's on Netflix. It has the same titel in ENG/FR as the letter.

    • @julierogers1155
      @julierogers1155 Před 2 lety

      @@MariaCarabin Thank you for this information. Going to look for the documentary right now.

    • @MariaCarabin
      @MariaCarabin Před 2 lety +1

      @@julierogers1155 my pleasure. Apparently the documentary is a few years old but it's new on my Netflix (Switzerland). Cheers!

    • @shantishanti1949
      @shantishanti1949 Před rokem

      @@MariaCarabin Maria is it Calle The Letter? Cannot find on Netflix Australia under that name

  • @amyroberts6320
    @amyroberts6320 Před 6 lety +442

    What a hard letter to write. And so hard to read without breaking down into just a puddle of tears and pain.

    • @thehangmansdaughter1120
      @thehangmansdaughter1120 Před 3 lety +9

      I would have gotten about three lines in before I became a blubbering mess. I barely got through 5 just listening.

    • @chriswilliams9798
      @chriswilliams9798 Před 3 lety +2

      @@thehangmansdaughter1120 you and me both, have tears in my eye typing this reply to you.

    • @ninongiraudet1288
      @ninongiraudet1288 Před 3 lety

      @@thehangmansdaughter1120 A

  • @shazzykins1
    @shazzykins1 Před 6 lety +242

    I was there. It was even more moving to hear it live. Not a dry eye in the place.

  • @kategaging3363
    @kategaging3363 Před 3 lety +331

    “You only have to forgive once. To resent, you have to do it all day every day.”

    • @andrewduncan4908
      @andrewduncan4908 Před 3 lety +6

      rubbish you will have to forgive again and again and again as the terrorists continue their murder becuase you are to weak to oppose them

    • @kategaging3363
      @kategaging3363 Před 3 lety +26

      @@andrewduncan4908 OK history lesson. When did terrorists really start attacking western cultures? After we had left their culture and country destroyed and we had violated them. Hate breeds hate man it has to stop at some point otherwise we’ll go round and round In circles. anyway I’m assuming you haven’t personally been victimised by terrorists so why are you holding onto hate and bitterness if it’s not doing anything but spreading rudeness on CZcams channels? Did you not learn any thing from this letter? This guy has a right to hate but he’s not 1 because he knows it’s useless and he needs to give his happiness to his son and 2. Terrorists feed on fear and hate is just a by product of fear.

    • @AleksandarIvanov69
      @AleksandarIvanov69 Před 3 lety +2

      Forgive evil ? Especially without forgiveness being asked for ?
      What are you talking about ?
      Also the high horse you are on is fictitious, "we" didn't destroy anything.

    • @LadyEowyn
      @LadyEowyn Před 3 lety +7

      @@AleksandarIvanov69 Forgive doesn't mean excuse. It means I wont carry it which is exactly what the letter was saying.

    • @willway9378
      @willway9378 Před 3 lety

      Your history is baffling as they began attacking everyone weaker than them from the beginning. They continued raping, stealing, and murdering leading to the Cruades in response. They openly sought to enter and conquer Europe repeatedly and were stopped mostly by Byzantium. They entered and occupied Southern Spain for 711 years.
      Our first Presidents had to act and our government make decisions about the pirating by these same people taking by force, raping, killing, and stealing. The attacks perhaps lessened for a time and were refocused at times such as during The Great War.
      It is only recently that there is an attempt to rewrite all history and to erase all true history in favor of pure garbage. most teachers regurgitate this implausible nonsense no matter how ridiculous, improbable, and contradictory. Sadly you seem to be a product of just such an education. If you actual read their book and listen literally to what their stated intentions are you would realize you are their greatest infidel. They can't hear you because to them you are lower than a dog which they despise.

  • @plotwitch
    @plotwitch Před 6 lety +502

    that was so beautiful. he did the letter immense justice. deeply moving.

    • @jeanettemacias5769
      @jeanettemacias5769 Před 3 lety +2

      😭😭😭😭

    • @vickigreen9545
      @vickigreen9545 Před 3 lety +5

      He barely held it together, what a beautiful letter we can all learn from to combat terrorism

  • @andrewjackson7014
    @andrewjackson7014 Před 3 lety +104

    An astonishing letter, deeply moving. I hope that Antoine and his son find peace.

  • @brandyjan14
    @brandyjan14 Před 6 lety +137

    Thank you, Mr. Firth. That was beautiful.

  • @kajcenkars
    @kajcenkars Před 2 lety +13

    I remember listening to this letter after the attack and I continue to learn from its message as much as I can. I wish we all did.

  • @paulac.munoztorres
    @paulac.munoztorres Před 3 lety +11

    Mr Antoine is one hell of a wise and kind hearted man. I am so goddamn sorry for his loss.

  • @sooz9433
    @sooz9433 Před 3 lety +43

    What a personal tragedy for that man and his little boy.
    He put his feelings, his heart into words better than I could have done.
    Amazing.. beautiful and heartbreaking.

  • @GR-sc3ph
    @GR-sc3ph Před 3 lety +89

    Beautiful deep words ....he is such a beautiful person Leiris. May his lovely wife rest in peace , she did not deserve to die and leave behind their son.

  • @robleary3353
    @robleary3353 Před 3 lety +35

    What a wonderful letter! How the writer was able to do that is unfathonable.

  • @katherinepettus5132
    @katherinepettus5132 Před rokem +4

    His voice is so perfect for reading words of love.

  • @januzzell8631
    @januzzell8631 Před 3 lety +124

    I don't know how he managed that without breaking - so beautiful - I'm a mess

    • @221b-Maker-Street
      @221b-Maker-Street Před 3 lety +4

      Rehearsal. it injures you slightly, after having read it 30 times over. 🥺

  • @ladycheeseof97
    @ladycheeseof97 Před 6 lety +143

    Romantic for his love yet heartbreaking for his loss.

    • @TheFree33333
      @TheFree33333 Před 3 lety

      @@fightermma are you recruiting for a cult or something

  • @lorim.1528
    @lorim.1528 Před 3 lety +13

    Mr. Leiris, that was such a beautiful letter. Well-written and well-said. I am so sorry for your loss. Your son is very blessed to have you as his father.
    Colin, that could not have been read better. Thank you! ❤️

  • @xz9376
    @xz9376 Před 3 lety +63

    So powerful. There’s so much hatred in this world. I hope people stop hating others, stop giving them that gift.

  • @chrish2277
    @chrish2277 Před 3 lety +27

    Beautifully written and beautifully read. All my love to the Leiris family xx

  • @nganptdinh
    @nganptdinh Před 6 lety +76

    On Friday evening, you stole the life of an exceptional person. A love of my life. A mother of my son.
    But you will never have my hatred. I don't know who you are, and I don't want to know. You are dead souls.
    If this God for whom you killed so blindly, made this in His image, then every bullet in the body of my wife is a wound in His heart. So no. I will not give you the gift of hating you. You obviously want it. By responding to it with anger would be to give in to the same ignorance that made you what you are.
    You would like me to be scared, for me to look at my fellow citizens with a suspicious eye. For me to sacrifice my liberty for my security. You have lost.
    I saw her this morning. At last, after nights and days of waiting. She was as beautiful as when she left on Friday evening. As beautiful as when I fell head over heels in love with her, more than twelve years ago.
    Of course I am devastated with grief. I will give you your victory, but it will be short-lived.
    I know she will join us every day, and we will find each other in the paradise of free souls which you will never have access to.
    There are only two of us, my son and I. But we will be stronger than every army in the world. I can not waste any more time on you, as I must go back to my son who has just woken up from his sleep. He is only just seventeen months old. He is going to eat his snack, just like every other day. And then we are going to play, just like every other day. And all his life, this little boy will be happy and free.
    Because you don't have his hatred, either.
    Antoine Leiris

  • @helenchamberlain2144
    @helenchamberlain2144 Před 3 lety +2

    When he said 17 months old I couldn't cope

  • @carolewalker2486
    @carolewalker2486 Před 6 lety +50

    A beautiful reading of a beautiful letter.

  • @kit-kat3356
    @kit-kat3356 Před 3 lety +33

    Merci monsieur Firth. A beautiful reading of hope..

  • @Falbala146
    @Falbala146 Před 3 lety +16

    I read this letter on fb a few days after it happened and I cried so hard.

  • @openskies11
    @openskies11 Před 4 lety +31

    I don't how Colin read that without tearing up. I wouldn't have been able to.

  • @danamichaels6936
    @danamichaels6936 Před 6 lety +37

    how can anyone read this without crying. amazing what actors do

  • @vibrantscolor
    @vibrantscolor Před 3 lety +19

    Love and Light to you Antoine and your son.
    That letter was a powerful explanatory vision.

  • @barbaramaddern6694
    @barbaramaddern6694 Před 3 lety +79

    Beautifully read, just spine tingling and well done Colin. I don’t think just anyone could have read this. 🦋🇦🇺🌅

  • @mchapman132
    @mchapman132 Před 3 lety +7

    Heartbreaking. Firth read that beautifully.

  • @andrewfairbrother259
    @andrewfairbrother259 Před 3 lety +8

    Who are the 9 people who gave this beautiful thing the thumbs down? One can only surmise as to their motives.

  • @kimarnill7648
    @kimarnill7648 Před 6 lety +51

    Made me cry , so beautiful

  • @adnamallerom4137
    @adnamallerom4137 Před 3 lety +8

    Even Collins voice started to waiver 🥺 the lump in his throat would have been huge 😢

  • @anninotomei3914
    @anninotomei3914 Před rokem +2

    So powerful, dignified and so full of love. I hope you and your boy are happy and thriving. So much love to you both

  • @juliadouglas872
    @juliadouglas872 Před 2 lety +1

    So moving. Sitting by myself, tearing up and clapping along with the crowd. Bravo.

  • @mariskavanvuuren4163
    @mariskavanvuuren4163 Před 6 lety +51

    Colin Firth is my spirit animal 😀. I love this man so much. What a talent.

  • @tonistokes1790
    @tonistokes1790 Před 3 lety +2

    Heart wrenching to hear Colin Firth read this with such emotion and compassion.

  • @tishw4576
    @tishw4576 Před 3 lety +5

    I'm so touched. What an inspiring letter.

  • @JoBlo321
    @JoBlo321 Před 3 lety +4

    *What a profound piece of art that letter was!*
    It moved me to my core, and made me step back and take a good long look at myself! I pray I'm never in that situation, but if I am, I hope I could handle it such a beautiful powerful way!

  • @allisong6
    @allisong6 Před 3 lety +19

    Thank you to the you tube algorithms for bringing this back to me, it's so beautifully written bless the families effected by this pain. And thank u for reading this and highlighting love to all.

  • @reilester849
    @reilester849 Před 6 lety +30

    So emotional it was beautiful

  • @annabella7285
    @annabella7285 Před 3 lety +32

    So utterly poignant and beautiful!

  • @beckv8526
    @beckv8526 Před 3 lety +1

    Just listening and I'm sobbing. How did Colin not break down in tears?

  • @asylumchoir4586
    @asylumchoir4586 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you for sharing this. Living souls are truly what make God smile. My mother died 15 years ago on this day. I know that she is wherever there is Beauty. 🌸🕯🕊❤️

  • @rebeccacahill1000
    @rebeccacahill1000 Před 3 lety +2

    Whoa... Touched on so many levels. Kudos Mr. Firth. Love to the husband and son.

  • @susansheehan9726
    @susansheehan9726 Před 3 lety +2

    This had me weeping. Such a powerful message, my love to Antoine, his son and all the beautiful people taken. 🙏🙏❤️

  • @travelsambtravelsamb8791
    @travelsambtravelsamb8791 Před 3 lety +1

    What a beautiful eloquent letter read with such respect and emotion. I was in awe

  • @farahelahi5311
    @farahelahi5311 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow! The feelings are so well expressed. To deprive a little boy of his mother was too much to bear!😢

  • @ExLibris-Alys
    @ExLibris-Alys Před 4 lety +6

    So incredibly moving.

  • @Hannah-dd6bo
    @Hannah-dd6bo Před 4 lety +6

    Heartbreaking.

  • @timprescott4634
    @timprescott4634 Před 3 lety +15

    Remarkable…thank you, algorithm.

  • @iantucker38
    @iantucker38 Před 3 lety +2

    So extraordinarily powerful. The spirit and soul of M. Leiris is exceptional. Beautifully read.

  • @nganle-qk1qv
    @nganle-qk1qv Před 6 lety +131

    He cried. I don't understand why someone can be dislike this.

    • @jeanettemacias5769
      @jeanettemacias5769 Před 3 lety +3

      😢😢😢😢

    • @davidteasdale1
      @davidteasdale1 Před 3 lety +11

      It's easy to click the wrong button with tears in your eyes.

    • @andrewduncan4908
      @andrewduncan4908 Před 3 lety +12

      Such a weak response to existential violence does mean that the terrorists have won. They have shown themselves to be wolves and Antoine and those who think this is some sort of response to political violence are sheep that they will continue to prey on. Anger is an energy that is required to defeat the political terrorists and the fellows who support them.

    • @nigeljames6017
      @nigeljames6017 Před 3 lety +18

      @@andrewduncan4908 I think that comment shows that you too have anger in your heart. This was one mans way of overcoming his grief and getting on with his life.

    • @Tachikoma-sj6kz
      @Tachikoma-sj6kz Před 3 lety +13

      @@andrewduncan4908 and who the fuck are you to say how he should feel and to criticise him for feeling that way? the fucking arrogance.

  • @missjoshemmett
    @missjoshemmett Před rokem +1

    And you, sir, are the brave one. The killer is the coward.

  • @1c2h3e4u5n6g
    @1c2h3e4u5n6g Před 3 lety

    Thank you for the powerful message

  • @karenrubenmoss9307
    @karenrubenmoss9307 Před 3 lety +1

    So moving and heart wrenching.

  • @ennediend2865
    @ennediend2865 Před 3 lety

    BEAUTIFULLY DONE !

  • @alansturgess1324
    @alansturgess1324 Před 3 lety

    So moving - both the letter and Colin's reading. You could see that it affected him just as it will affect every normal human being.

  • @Susanluc59
    @Susanluc59 Před 3 lety +6

    So very powerful.

  • @wolfgangezeh2221
    @wolfgangezeh2221 Před 3 lety +7

    God, how did I get to read this and cry my heart out? It’s so full of love and pain. May her soul rest in peace and I pray that you continue to have that mindset of never giving in to hate for those monsters. God give you strength to care for your Boy.

  • @mr.mrs.d.7015
    @mr.mrs.d.7015 Před 2 lety

    I have watched this so many times and even so it still gives me chills and breaks my heart every time.

  • @trevorohare2735
    @trevorohare2735 Před 9 měsíci

    I met Helene Muyal when she lived in the United States in Philadelphia. At the time we were young kids. She was 17 when I first met her. We had our group of friends together and had good times. Helene was an amazing gem of a person. Rest in paradise Helene we all miss you back in the States.. You did not deserve that..

  • @gratialake8459
    @gratialake8459 Před 3 lety

    Read with so much emotion, xx

  • @khanG-gq9hc
    @khanG-gq9hc Před rokem

    Heartbreaking yet powerful beyond measure ❤️

  • @lairddougal3833
    @lairddougal3833 Před 3 lety +46

    I’m not sure that applause was the appropriate conclusion to that letter. I don’t criticise it. Not at all. It’s our reflexive expression of approval, support and, I suppose in such circumstances, polite solidarity. I, no doubt, would have contributed to that expression. But, with the benefit of reflection, I would have preferred silence, the sort of silence that would magnify Mr Leiris’s already powerful words and sentiments so well rendered by Mr Firth. Thank you.

    • @junbh2
      @junbh2 Před 3 lety +9

      Silence takes coordination. One person can start applause and then the next will join in and the next and next. But silence doesn't really work that way. You'd need someone to introduce the speech and at the same time let people know the plan.

    • @luller85
      @luller85 Před 3 lety +10

      I take the applause as agreement in the letter of not giving into hate and to the beauty and sentiment of Antoine’s words. I don’t think the applause is that out of place. Whooping would have been.

    • @allasar
      @allasar Před 3 lety +9

      Applause can have many meanings. Cheers, joy, agreement, respect, ... For instance, after what happened to his wife, Antoine does not give in to hatred, and I applaud him for that.

    • @Tyrannosaurus_STFU_III
      @Tyrannosaurus_STFU_III Před 3 lety +3

      "I would have preferred silence".... Since when was this about you and what you prefer?

  • @feenixgrrl
    @feenixgrrl Před 6 lety +4

    This was gorgeous. I hope someday you release Tobias Menzies's reading.

  • @maryclynch9356
    @maryclynch9356 Před 3 lety

    I remember this. What a great person to pen that letter.

  • @andrewfairbrother259
    @andrewfairbrother259 Před 3 lety +1

    Heart wrenching.

  • @lindarennie1708
    @lindarennie1708 Před 11 měsíci

    thank you

  • @lindaf7095
    @lindaf7095 Před 3 lety

    Whay an emotional & beautiful letter, written at a time when her husband must have been in so much pain, but there was no hatred in his words...just Love, for his poor wife, & for his Son, who i'm sure will grow up & have a happy life, regardless of the awful atrocity that took his Mommy away. My prayers go out to that family & lots of Love for a better future xx

  • @deborahduthie4519
    @deborahduthie4519 Před 3 lety

    A wonderfully emotive letter read by Colin Firth.

  • @theempress1104
    @theempress1104 Před 3 lety +11

    Colin Firth is my favorite actor in the whole world for doing justice to Mr. Darcy in BBC pride and prejudice.... no one has done that character justice before.... or since, in my opinion. 😊 And that just shows his talent coz Darcy is understated and is more himself by what he doesn't say and how he acts.

  • @margo3367
    @margo3367 Před 3 lety +1

    To be loved like that...

  • @andronicemarinis1072
    @andronicemarinis1072 Před 3 lety +2

    So emotional. Bravo.

  • @jjforcebreaker
    @jjforcebreaker Před 3 lety +1

    Absolutely amazing.

  • @lauraorsini73
    @lauraorsini73 Před rokem

    Merci Colin.....

  • @patrik79a
    @patrik79a Před 3 lety +2

    They do have my hatred!

  • @theavandenberg6876
    @theavandenberg6876 Před rokem

    Heartbreaking powerfull stuff. I sincerely hope the writer has managed his goal and is now raising a happy son. 🥺

  • @vikachichivika1174
    @vikachichivika1174 Před 3 lety +1

    Time had passed, but his voice is the same like " in vain i have struggled but it won't do. Allow me to tell you how ardently i admire and love you" P&P

  • @TheKevinkauffman06
    @TheKevinkauffman06 Před 3 lety +2

    This was not how I felt. I'll carry that hate forever, and the man who killed my love was just a drunk driver. He's out of prison enjoying life with his kids, and I'm here, stuck in time, wondering if you ever really loved someone if you don't hate who took them from you. Fuck forgiveness.

    • @eddiy335
      @eddiy335 Před 3 lety +1

      This isn't about you so what you would do is irrelevant. You also have no right to tell someone how they should heal or deal with the aftermath of such tragedy. Hatred and anger isn't going to bring the person back so why should he be bitter for the rest of his life? If he wants to forgive his wife's killers that's up to him and it doesn't mean he didn't love her.

    • @TheKevinkauffman06
      @TheKevinkauffman06 Před 3 lety +1

      @@eddiy335 yet here you are telling me how to handle my grief? Hypocrical loud mouth. I'll keep my hate as it's all I have left. I will never forgive that man, as he's off living his best life after taking hers, and destroying me in the process. Who tf are you? The things I would do to him are numerous, but forgiveness is not among them.

    • @TheKevinkauffman06
      @TheKevinkauffman06 Před 3 lety +1

      @@eddiy335 I have no one and nothing left but HATE. Without the hate there's only depression and negativity. I hate ppl like you and him. Shove your forgiveness up your @$$

  • @amysill3815
    @amysill3815 Před 3 lety

    Beautiful... so moving.

  • @kristine8338
    @kristine8338 Před 3 lety

    Thank you YT ❣️

  • @sjinzaar
    @sjinzaar Před 2 lety

    how is it possible that someone can make me cry in 2 minutes....

  • @timhorpo
    @timhorpo Před 3 lety

    How he held that together.....

  • @bythepricklingofmythumb7628

    So moving.

  • @mioxu5449
    @mioxu5449 Před 6 lety +13

    beautiful performance, really nice

  • @peekeyeseek
    @peekeyeseek Před 3 lety +1

    For me, this is the point of being able to forgive.
    It's not about letting someone away with something.
    It's so much more that you give to yourself.
    Like peace a peaceful soul.
    Deep seated peace is better than deep-seated hatred.
    Thankyou for sharing your thoughts Antoine.

  • @brendatajik6150
    @brendatajik6150 Před 3 lety

    I have no words😥

  • @ER-uy7ct
    @ER-uy7ct Před 2 lety

    Yes. Hatred is a waste.

  • @georgemanka
    @georgemanka Před 3 lety +4

    Magnificent.

  • @smi7leee
    @smi7leee Před 3 lety

    This is amazing ❤

  • @southernforestgypsy
    @southernforestgypsy Před rokem

    Nick gave them the iconically Australian "yeahnah"

  • @samw8452
    @samw8452 Před rokem

    I wish i could have the strength and wisdom of this man who did not give place to those who wronged his family. May he and his son find peace..

  • @crazyduck1254
    @crazyduck1254 Před 3 lety

    i have tears welled in my eyes. Too sad.

  • @murielhanby6516
    @murielhanby6516 Před 3 lety

    Wow!!!! 💔💔💔

  • @ameliecarre4783
    @ameliecarre4783 Před 3 lety

    Translate that in any language, it will always make me cry.

  • @martinwalker3497
    @martinwalker3497 Před 3 lety +1

    Respect, love and best wishes Antoine to you and your son.

  • @btownusa3690
    @btownusa3690 Před 4 lety

    Ouch 😢

  • @vickiesmith3021
    @vickiesmith3021 Před 3 lety

    What a truly amazing men they both are.

  • @TheCurl1972
    @TheCurl1972 Před rokem

    Wow..... Just ....wow...

  • @alexanderacostaosorio
    @alexanderacostaosorio Před 3 lety +2

    I remember this letter